4 UPDATES: Half-Sis Returned For Me 9 Years Later But 1 Night I Overhear Her On The Phone With My
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- 4 UPDATES: Half-sister Returned For Me 9 Years Later But One Night I Overhear Her On The Phone With My Late Dad And Oh Boy They Have A Plan For Me
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My family life has always been messed up. For some context, my step-mom and dad got together as they were caught cheating on their partners with each other. They were work colleagues and the only reason they were ever caught was due to the fact that my step-mom had given birth to my half-sister, Rita. I'm quite sure that she tried to pass Rita off as her ex-husband's daughter but the fact that Rita was born with the same features of my dad who belonged to a different race than her husband, things did not go over well. My step mom ended up getting a divorce from her husband and so did my dad from my mom.
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Story 1: just go no contact. Nothing will come from having them in your life.
Wow. These family stories make me grateful for my own. Who thinks in vitro fertilization makes their grand child less related to them? Crazy and weird. 🤦🏾♀️
Tell the husband if she comes back you and your son leave him forever.
She is not wanted back in your home life again.
She needs to find a place by herself .
Send a lawyer to get his funeral funds back with interest to.
That or sue for extortion and fraud
Story 1: OP I have shady family members. Do not believe them. Period. Rita will reach out to you later on and will seem genuine. My bio mom really ran me through the ringer with guilt and using my kind giving nature against me. Much support and only support those that show you consistent support :)
😮 My brother is married to my ex’s sister.. she lied and cheated on me… and I know something from her… th-cam.com/video/Zt9cZ53NJDw/w-d-xo.html
Story 2. I had a good friend years ago that went just like this story only in reverse. She was white and married into a black family. He was awesome, really sweet and funny guy. But alot of his family were very racist and unaccepting of her, she had a good paying career as did he, but it got to the point were his family were just absolutely awful to her for no reason except her color, she went out of her way to be nice to them regardless. They ended up transferring to another state and cut ties with all but his brother. I will never understand their idiotic behavior towards her, she was the nicest person. I lost touch with them as we got older and busier with our own lives, but they truly loved each other.
I hope my dad's side is accepting of my boyfriend when we see them next year. I'm half Black my mom was always accepted but I wonder how they will react to my white boyfriend the father of my son. they seem nice on the phone since we live across the country and it's really important that my son knows this side of the family to me. my dad is excited he's a grandpa an his wife jokes around I got a whiteboy for sure (my boyfriend has long blonde hair past his shoulders and a hippie look but he hates being called a hippie since he likes Punk and metal music)
All I can do is worry about Rita's poor children. Obviously they've not got a dad to rely on or even grandparents! I always worry about the children.
Story 2: NTA because again, I ALWAYS think of the children. If someone said something like that to a CHILD, THEY are the AH. No child needs those filthy thoughts planted in their heads.
Story 3: Yet again, thinking of the son. DON'T LET THAT WOMAN IN IF SHE'S GOING TO HURT YOUR SON.
Story 1: U reacted a great deal better than i would have. I have been in similar situations and i would have done the same things u did but louder i think lol. I think u handled it perfectly.
OMG that crazy MIL is a Karen. Let her live on her own or her son can do for her. Keep her away from your son.
Story 1, Rita went NC with op because she resents op. Op was treated better than her therefore she resents op. I'm actually not surprised that Rita became so vile to treat op like that. She probably saw a chance to ruin op and not surprised that she tried to gaslight op when op was kicking her out. Rita was trying to distract op by using the kids and salvage her diabolical plan. Rita probably expected op to pay up after FINALLY being honest with op and that shows entitlement. Rita was dumb and entitled to not see that even telling the truth wasn't going to get her what she wanted and op now hating her. Let Rita be upset, she should just be grateful that op didn't get her in trouble as well.
Can you actually believe this story? If I was going to do something this underhanded, I can't imagine talking loud enough to be overheard. I would be more likely to walk away outside from the house a bit. Plus, a dad pretending to be dead, that's far out.
@@MrBeevee5 Dad pretending to be dead has happend in the UK. John Darwin he is now in Jail.
@@grahamsmith9541 In order to scam his own daughter?
@@MrBeevee5 For the insurance money but his daughter was badly affected by it.
Yes, agreed. Sadly often people who were mentally abused as children will end up abusive and psychopathic. They think if they suffered make others suffer too.
Lying about someone’s death is one of the lowest things you can do
Story 1…Take them to court for the funeral money you were scammed out of. Never trust them again.
Story 1
I am so sorry you found your sister was toxic and they where looking to use you for money,and your dead father you paid for his funeral and he was not even dead , please don't have any further contact,this is not real family and she's totally not got a shred of decency and she was willing to con you I would say I never want to never to see her again and I would sue them for the funeral costs,and I would make them repay very last dime and so they got prison time congratulations on teaching them a life lesson
S2 NTA you know your not the bad guy, so don't let her gaslight and twist things on you. Good on your for making her cry, do not apologize it's called the truth. Go NC like your husband wants to.
Story 3
I would move her out ASAP she's not moving in look for low income housing you deserve a life she blew the money and you are not responsible for her actions,tell your husband you have had enough and will not tolerate her any more she's hurting your child,she's not your responsibility and if husband demands her back he can do it with out you
What does in-vitro mean? Why should that make a different?
To the woman with the nasty sil. You have let everything she has said and done just roll off of you for years, when she finally crosses that one line your child and makes sure you hear hear her NO MA'AM Your inlaws need to know the entire situation and how much you have been subjected to in their home. Maybe with all the information the dialog will change. Good luck Give her hell
I'm half Black and my son looks so white just like me with way lighter skin an his hair currently looks straight and black like my hair his dad is blonde. (I look darker in person than my photo with a flash) I'm not sure what I'd do in this situation but I definitely wouldn't of let comment slide from the beginning. my boyfriend is already low contact with his mom and doesn't want our son to meet her.
Good bye! And leave now don't ever come back or call me. I would consider that harassment
In story 2 how can you be to harsh for protecting your child and why keep in contact with someone who despises you and creeps on your husband, her brother
Story 2: YTA for not pushing back against SIL as soon as she started her harassment of you. Now you should record everything she says to you. Tell everyone you will do this. Her actions will change immediately.
Story 1: NTA Rita never learned to grow up and pathetically sees OP as competition.
Story 2: This is creepy on part of SIL and the OP wondering if as she was showing TOO MUCH self-respect. It’s clear that the was she was raised if very similar to other Asian cultures.
Story 3: Old people need to understand that just cause they’re old and have kids doesn’t mean they shouldn’t take responsibility.
S3 NTA you warned her, she's irresponsible, tell your husband to take care of her do not do this AGAIN. It's time for her to grow up and be an ADULT.
6 minutes of my life I won't get back.
Call the police on your dad
Story 2
I would refuse to take any notice your husband choose to marry you,and your sister in law is disgusting and jealous because she probably has a crush on your husband I think that nearer to the truth,I would not apologise you put up with racist abuse for years and going NC is the right actions some siblings get obsessed over them , your in laws should know it's worse then they know
I think crush is overthinking it. While she is nasty, I don't see it as that far.
S1: There are a couple of things that doesn't make sense or add to the story, no matter how hard I tried. First, according to OP's statement, "I unintentionally found Rita on social media". Second, no matter what, not even neanderthals could be so gullible to believe that her father passed away and saw no records or proofs whatsoever. I think these two informations are enough for everyone to start using their own brains to find the logic in this story.
Tell husband to support mom or you’ll leave if he moves her back in
Go no contact your just an ATM until your broke then she’ll have no use for you
There are things you can say to adult that you do not say to a kid and she shouldn’t even be saying them to adult
Marriage or Mother? Husband has 30 days to decide. Separate your finances.
First story what a horrible father mean stepsisters can get that way put your own father, trying to drain his daughter on purpose what is selfish, entitled man he doesn’t deserve to be a father
Give it a try and talk to Rita? Wtf is your husband on? You need to give calling the police and reporting Rita for fraud a try. She told you your dad was dead? Nah dude. Call the cops. They stole from you.
Rita was abused by her own mother and OP is bitter she ran off. You OP are a huge part of her pain. I can’t imagine my own mother treating and step kid better then myself. Of course she resents you. Just go no contact and stop whining about her. Go no contact with entire family.
Very weird attachment to her brother who calls their brother sexy unless you’re joking about it. She was not joking.
St1 get a lawyer and sue
Your SIL needs therapy she’s obsessed with her brother that’s gross and I’d cut contact
Last story. Does OP'S mum have dementia?
The one about the sister-in-law the racist sister-in-law it's like I don't understand why people go through so much his parents and your parents think you're wrong then there's nothing left to say since they defended her they can be cut off alongside her
Story 1- the comment about Rita being like her mom is wrong, she’s desperate to earn her parents love. Narcissistic abuse of a child creates a desperation you probably won’t understand. Google it & learn. The mother actually could be more than narcissistic. She could be a sociopath or psychopath. Imagine being the scapegoat for a sociopath or psychopath. If you learn about this, you might have a slightly different outlook. I’m not excusing Rita, but I do understand the desperation. It’s … just look up daughters of narcissistic mothers.
Take your son if hubby chooses her over the two of you
Story 3 : Your MIL is using a form of manipulation called 'weaponised helplessness'. It's not that she can't do these things to help herself, it's that she doesn't want to while she can get others to do them for her. She has shown by her attachment to this man and her giving him money when she needs it herself, that she has autonomy to be exercised. The only way to get her to use it is by giving her no choice. Stick to your guns, OP. Do not let her back into your home or she will get worse and reduce the quality of your own life again as she did before. It may well break your marriage. She has made choices to give her money away, assuming you and your husband will take up the flack at cost to yourselves. This is a hill worth dying on, OP. Do not let her back. You are not responsible for her welfare and have no control over choices she makes - you only have control over choices you make. Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm, especially someone like this. NTA
That sister-in-law is racist. Body shaming is wrong. I don’t care if you’re fat or thin it happens to everyone.
story 2 I would question if she had an incestual feeling for her brother in front of the whole family maybe that would finally shut her up and if the answer was yes throw up and then say stay away from us forever
Story 1: I don’t understand how And why you’re asking AITHA. I love the stories but I don’t understand why these people think they should be judged.
Because growing up Op watched all this abuse and feels she is responsible because she couldn't stop it. She was the golden child. Even though both the parents sucked.
@@kellharris2491 Great point! I do need to have empathy for some of the stories because we have different lives and perspectives.
SHE WAS ALSO EXTREMELY JEALOUS of RITAS BEAUTIFUL SKIN & HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE WAS.