An infamous recent Reddit post was just like this. The bio daughter set her wedding a day after the step. But she probably picked it first and the step rushed to send out her invitations while the bio’s were at the printers. Problem? Separate states. The dad clearly favored the step, overstayed her wedding, and missed his own daughter’s wedding by getting stuck in traffic or something. Her own stepfather walked her down the aisle. The father’s family, who all attended the bio daughter’s wedding , were livid with the dad. Reddit call him an AH.
My stepmom treated us worse. Way, way worse. And my dad, my dad who had been a Marine and therefore presumably wasn't always a doormat, did NOTHING to stop her.
I hate to admit that my own mother was probably the most terrible person... dad was a total doormat because every time he stood up for himself or us she destroyed everything he owned. (Including burning down the entire house one time...) Some women are just.. they shouldn't have a family of any sort...
Some dads want to be taken care of, have housework and cooking done for him and have regular sex. This is prioritized over any children or adult offspring.
Jack should have had his wife add him to the group chat said "we will be getting married on the 18th of May, there will be no further discussion about this" and then have them both leave the chat and not talk to anyone in the family until the wedding.
"Why should I shut up and let you have your moment, when YOU won't shut up and let ME have MY moment? Unless you are announcing you are literally DYING within the next 24 hours, you can WAIT A DAY, and let ME have MY moment first! Unless, of course, you are so selfish and self-centered that you are absolutely determined to DESTROY your sister's happiness? Go on, make it ALL about YOU because you NEED to destroy MY happiness. PROVE how much you hate me!"
To me, it means, "Your turn will come when you're the same age as your older siblings, so just wait for it. No need to rush. You get the same amount of time as they do, just later."
Harper seems to believe that the Dad stays married to the woman, because he doesn't KNOW what she does, but it's RIGHT THERE, so OBVIOUS during that announcement. "Shut up and let me have MY moment." You just interrupted HER moment to make it about you. He sees it. He just doesn't SEE it. And he's one of those people who think, "I don't want my step-child to think that I think she's less-than," so he overcompensates. Like that mother in the Agatha Christie mystery, who spoiled the adopted child, because "adopted children need to KNOW that they are wanted and loved," all while ignoring and/or abusing her bio-child, who apparently, doesn't NEED love, because her mother gave birth to her, and that's enough "love" to last a whole life long. Or something. Yeah, how'd that work out for ya, huh?! Spoiler: Not well.
Congratulations, to both of you! May 18th is an awesome date for your wedding, your mom and dad, and my husband and I got married May 18th, 1987 and no regrets. ❤
Y'know I'd like to see a truly strong woman who, after having the dress destroyed or stolen, walked out to make her vows in either her slip or wrecked dress. That would be epic!!!!!
yeah Liz is trying SOOO hard to out-do her big step-sis xD if i was Harper, id send the screenshot of those messages Liz sent her to the group chat :) hahaha
This is the kind of family you run from. Good Lord this crap was going on for a long time and the dad never noticed anything? My daughter went through the same kind of crap with her dad he did not care that his then girlfriend and BOTH of her sons were treating our daughter like crap all he said was suck it up and deal with it, she got o the point where she didn't want to go to his house anymore and has been live with me. We had a really stupid visitation schedule it was 3-4-4-3 shes almost sixteen now and doesn't see her dad at all, and shes doing so much better in life and in school.
I got along with my step brothers but my step sister didn't like her dad getting together with my mom. She freaked when she heard me call him dad, so I stopped doing it when they were around. We were all grown by then. Our parents were retired and travelled all over the us and into Canada much of the year in an rv.
Mean girls grown up? Honestly, I’m shocked the father waited that long to divorce. He wasn’t just a door mat. I wonder if Harper and Jack got the band after all.
Seems like he's trying to be a mediator, but he's coming off as spineless. Maybe he's afraid of being single again? Or maybe the stepmom is right, and he is kind of stupid.
And see the sarcasm in his daughters voice about saying it ok to share the date, the stepmother and step daughter is evil, dad needs to divorce his wife pronto
Harper needs to tell her stepmother and stepsister “Sorry you stupid little harpies this date is mine! You don’t deserve to be treated as wedding guests because you’re going to be thrown out!”
Dad is a doormat. He needs to grow a backbone and a brain to see how manipulative his wife and step child on her. Opie also should’ve just taken a screenshot of a conversation with stepsister and sent it in the group chat to prove that she is a liar. But clearly no one has a brain cell to use
Except she does the screenshots at the end. She could have done it, and she comes across as too smart and smug at the end, but she could have done it MONTHS EARLIER.
I noticed something. while Allison, and Liz argue. Liz has her wedding date set for May, 19 to her marriage with Mike while Harper has her wedding date scheduled for May the 18th with Jack. In fact Liz’s wedding is exactly on the date after Harper’s wedding to Jack. So I don’t know why Allison bother to bicker about having the wedding set on the same date especially since May 19 was picked as the chosen date for the wedding of Liz and Mike, even though they chose the same venue as Harper and Jack. It’s definitely NOT on the same date. Daniel is quite mistaken.
She should have shown him the screenshots ages ago. Also, as soon as she made the announcement, she should have told them the date, so there would be no "dibs is dibs" for her step-sister. "We're engaged to be married on May 19th, just like my Mom and Dad!" See? Put it all together in one sentence, and then they can't spring the, "But IIIIIIII want a spring wedding!" crap. Also, "Didn't you literally just tell me five minutes ago that he doesn't want to marry you, because he doesn't believe in labels? Was that the lie, or is this the lie? One of them has to be a lie.
I know it is a situation where "there wouldn't be a story" but why more stories don't use the text messages as evidence of criminal acts and evil intentions always frustrates me.
Talk about evil stepmother!!! I had one that drove a major wedge between myself and siblings and our father to the point where he would barley even talk to us. He was very dumb when it came to her and put almost everything he owned in both names. unfortunately right as he was coming around and getting to know us better again he was killed in a car accident right after dropping his wife off at airport where she told him she was going to visit family in fla. but it came out after estate was settled which was worth more than $1 mil( and of course his will vanished) that she was actually cheating on him because right after estate was settled and she got all his money she married a guy in fla according to court records. what sucks is my siblings and i got nothing from his estate and only a small amount of money from law suit against Truck driver who blew through a stop sign on a road he was not suppose to be on with a semi
🤣🤣🤣 We just got married this past May, on our 27th dating anniversary. Our sons were best men and walked me down the aisle. Our grandkids were flower girls and ring bearer.
Jack is the best fiance ever!!!!!!! And then why isn't she showing these text to her dad?! Why do people always let others basically TORTURE them before they say anything?!!! Like what is more SOLID PROOF than TEXT MESSAGES!!!!!! And HOW DID YOU NOT KNOW THAT ROOM WAS YOUR OWN CHILDS ROOM?!!! DIid they NOT check in together or something?!!! How ditzy can you be?!!!!
This one was actually physically painful to listen to. If they'd spoken much slower they'd all have fallen asleep. The female VA (assuming it wasn't all AI) all sounded the same, too.
Neither do you need to know about mine either, Liz. The game of one upmanship gets really old! Allison, you mean to tell us that you DON'T know what your "precious Liz's" dress looks like? Weren't you there when she got it? Wouldn't you have been in her room preparing her dress and such while she was getting hair and makeup done since the timeline was so close and she "needed" your help getting ready?
Story line done pretty well, but the voice actors were a bit overacting at the start . Improved a little as it went along, I guess they had to warm up to get in character
Ehhhhh my mother told me my boyfriend wants to propose to me and "I should think about that because he is not good match". I was crying for a few days because I and my boyfriend were talking about proposing earlier. At this time we were together for 7 years. It was natural for us. If you are a man and your girlfriends parents don't like you DON'T COME TO THEM BEFORE PROPOSING! Because of that, my and my fiances best day of our life was ruined.
If you want to get through to the bullies then stop saying things like "My wedding date" or "My big day" or "My, My, My. It takes 2 to get married doesn't it? Then start thinking that way. Say "Our wedding date" or "Our big day". "He has set the date". "He loves the plans we as a couple have set". Like dahm. The way you're talking everybody would think you're going to marry yourself. LoL. Things like this and bridezillas are why people say weddings are Only for girls. In what universe is part of the wedding for a guy? Jokes on you.
If a man asks a father permission to marry the daughter, then a woman should ask a mother permission to marry the son. Jealousy is for fools; adults don't need anyone's permission to get married and that stepmom blew off both her feet. She (stepmom) learns first-hand that wickedness never was happiness and actions have consequences.
It's a nod to tradition...it also makes things a little easier between the groom and his new FIL. A sort of "you did a great job, I've got it from here". The true test is if dad says "no".
You so do not understand the tradition and are just bashing it because you think it’s about owning women it’s not. Did you know that forever there is a thing where little girls are daddy’s princess/ pride. Little girls and dads forever if they have an normal mother father relationship have a bond with their father daddy’s little girl did not become a saying out of no where. So to show respect to this relationship the daughters suitor would go to him to show respect to this relationship and show the dad he was up for being what the dad was to the daughter. Where there fathers that sold there daughters yes rich people. Most of the time though it’s about showing respect to a bond and giving that respect back. Part of life is trusting your parents and having the new man love your family. It’s hard and painful if you have that bond to leave unless you know your dad supports you. IT’s everything to have your dad say I approve of your choice and will support you. That’s why you do it.
@@rachelcrawford1977 I belive that if a father has a problem with me dating his daughter, he will make it more than apparent by the third dinner with them.
LIZ LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND LIZ KNOW THAT TOO AND LIZ IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND LIZ WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND LIZ IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
14:01 thats a dumbass assumption. Every marriage where they were dating for less than two years before getting married that I have seen has failed within a year.
2 years and more of dating should be minimum. Also throw in wallpapering or painting a room, going on a long-distance road trip, babysitting a sibling’s child/children for a weekend, making the menu items for Thanksgiving dinner (for extra stress, babysitting the child/ren). That said, you never met my DH&I: we met in October 1976, married in August 1977. Still together, 4 adult children and their spouses, 8 grandchildren. DH retired in 2010. I plan to retire June 30, 2026…… that will be the true telling of the tale!
Met and married my husband within 4 months. We were married just over 30 years when he died of cancer. Two beautiful children. No, I was not pregnant when we married, as that was the assumption. He had just been accepted to law school when we met and wanted me to move with him across the country and I wouldn’t live with him without marriage. Yes, that was the norm in the 70’s. We were both in our mid-20’s and it felt right to get married. Had he not died we would be celebrating our 50th anniversary this fall 😢
ALLISON LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND ALLISON KNOW THAT TOO AND ALLISON IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND ALLISON WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND ALLISON IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
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Should have David done anything different to stop his sister’s baby from being taken?
What? Did you not listen to this?
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Bad editing
What baby? And wtf is David?
Comment on the wrong post by the person in charge of the post?! 🤦🏻
An infamous recent Reddit post was just like this. The bio daughter set her wedding a day after the step. But she probably picked it first and the step rushed to send out her invitations while the bio’s were at the printers. Problem? Separate states. The dad clearly favored the step, overstayed her wedding, and missed his own daughter’s wedding by getting stuck in traffic or something. Her own stepfather walked her down the aisle. The father’s family, who all attended the bio daughter’s wedding , were livid with the dad. Reddit call him an AH.
I remember reading that one. It was a train wreck.
Listening to the phrases using, I would say that this is taken from that exact post. You hit the nail on the head.
Yep, I read that and commented on it joining in with the YTA chorus, if I remember correctly.
That’s likely where they got the idea for this.
You know most of these stories are dramatized renditions of reddit posts, right?..
Wtf is wrong with the dad? What a doormat. If my new partner treated my daughter that way I’d be divorcing.
My stepmom treated us worse. Way, way worse. And my dad, my dad who had been a Marine and therefore presumably wasn't always a doormat, did NOTHING to stop her.
@@teslagirl1 oh god, I hope your ok.
I hate to admit that my own mother was probably the most terrible person... dad was a total doormat because every time he stood up for himself or us she destroyed everything he owned. (Including burning down the entire house one time...)
Some women are just.. they shouldn't have a family of any sort...
Some dads want to be taken care of, have housework and cooking done for him and have regular sex. This is prioritized over any children or adult offspring.
Jack should have had his wife add him to the group chat said "we will be getting married on the 18th of May, there will be no further discussion about this" and then have them both leave the chat and not talk to anyone in the family until the wedding.
"Why should I shut up and let you have your moment, when YOU won't shut up and let ME have MY moment? Unless you are announcing you are literally DYING within the next 24 hours, you can WAIT A DAY, and let ME have MY moment first! Unless, of course, you are so selfish and self-centered that you are absolutely determined to DESTROY your sister's happiness? Go on, make it ALL about YOU because you NEED to destroy MY happiness. PROVE how much you hate me!"
To me... being the "younger sibling" merely means "Take a back seat". 😂 I'm a li'l more blunt than Harper, there. 😉
To me, it means, "Your turn will come when you're the same age as your older siblings, so just wait for it. No need to rush. You get the same amount of time as they do, just later."
Harper seems to believe that the Dad stays married to the woman, because he doesn't KNOW what she does, but it's RIGHT THERE, so OBVIOUS during that announcement. "Shut up and let me have MY moment." You just interrupted HER moment to make it about you.
He sees it. He just doesn't SEE it. And he's one of those people who think, "I don't want my step-child to think that I think she's less-than," so he overcompensates. Like that mother in the Agatha Christie mystery, who spoiled the adopted child, because "adopted children need to KNOW that they are wanted and loved," all while ignoring and/or abusing her bio-child, who apparently, doesn't NEED love, because her mother gave birth to her, and that's enough "love" to last a whole life long. Or something.
Yeah, how'd that work out for ya, huh?!
Spoiler: Not well.
LMAO looks like Daniel finally got wise, and sent his new wife and stepdaughter packing.
All the verbal abuse during the conversation and the dad says/does nothing....🤦♀️
The father sounds like one of those voices that has been electronically altered to sound slower than it really is.
Stepmom is proud of being a bully since schooldays.
Congratulations, to both of you! May 18th is an awesome date for your wedding, your mom and dad, and my husband and I got married May 18th, 1987 and no regrets. ❤
Girl you could be 200 year old and you will still be his baby.
Y'know I'd like to see a truly strong woman who, after having the dress destroyed or stolen, walked out to make her vows in either her slip or wrecked dress. That would be epic!!!!!
yeah Liz is trying SOOO hard to out-do her big step-sis xD if i was Harper, id send the screenshot of those messages Liz sent her to the group chat :) hahaha
Well, that’s something anyone with a brain would do. But no one in the stories ever has that brain cell available
I'm pretty sure he knows the way to Sesame Street. Sounds like one of the characters.
This is the kind of family you run from. Good Lord this crap was going on for a long time and the dad never noticed anything? My daughter went through the same kind of crap with her dad he did not care that his then girlfriend and BOTH of her sons were treating our daughter like crap all he said was suck it up and deal with it, she got o the point where she didn't want to go to his house anymore and has been live with me. We had a really stupid visitation schedule it was 3-4-4-3 shes almost sixteen now and doesn't see her dad at all, and shes doing so much better in life and in school.
I got along with my step brothers but my step sister didn't like her dad getting together with my mom. She freaked when she heard me call him dad, so I stopped doing it when they were around. We were all grown by then. Our parents were retired and travelled all over the us and into Canada much of the year in an rv.
Mean girls grown up? Honestly, I’m shocked the father waited that long to divorce. He wasn’t just a door mat. I wonder if Harper and Jack got the band after all.
Security and passwords every single time family goes crazy.
Dad sounds like Homer Simpson.
LOL
In all these videos there is always that one person who doesn’t know how to not cause trouble
Why is this dad so blind to what is happening around him, his wife and her daughter are both wicked.
Seems like he's trying to be a mediator, but he's coming off as spineless. Maybe he's afraid of being single again? Or maybe the stepmom is right, and he is kind of stupid.
And see the sarcasm in his daughters voice about saying it ok to share the date, the stepmother and step daughter is evil, dad needs to divorce his wife pronto
Most dads are blind to what's going on between their new wife, bio daughters and step daughters.
Why does Allison talk like a child sounding out the words in their first reading book
I love how they say I seriously love you
Please do a second part of this story thank you
"How nice of you to honor the marriage of my mom and dad. I'm sure everyone will remember their love every time they think of your wedding!" :)
Well at least dad finally figured them out.
Harper needs to tell her stepmother and stepsister “Sorry you stupid little harpies this date is mine! You don’t deserve to be treated as wedding guests because you’re going to be thrown out!”
Dad is a doormat. He needs to grow a backbone and a brain to see how manipulative his wife and step child on her.
Opie also should’ve just taken a screenshot of a conversation with stepsister and sent it in the group chat to prove that she is a liar. But clearly no one has a brain cell to use
Except she does the screenshots at the end. She could have done it, and she comes across as too smart and smug at the end, but she could have done it MONTHS EARLIER.
I noticed something. while Allison, and Liz argue. Liz has her wedding date set for May, 19 to her marriage with Mike while Harper has her wedding date scheduled for May the 18th with Jack. In fact Liz’s wedding is exactly on the date after Harper’s wedding to Jack. So I don’t know why Allison bother to bicker about having the wedding set on the same date especially since May 19 was picked as the chosen date for the wedding of Liz and Mike, even though they chose the same venue as Harper and Jack. It’s definitely NOT on the same date. Daniel is quite mistaken.
I think the 19 was a typo.
Ever heard of typos? This channel is known to have typos somewhere in their videos
She should have shown him the screenshots ages ago.
Also, as soon as she made the announcement, she should have told them the date, so there would be no "dibs is dibs" for her step-sister.
"We're engaged to be married on May 19th, just like my Mom and Dad!" See? Put it all together in one sentence, and then they can't spring the, "But IIIIIIII want a spring wedding!" crap.
Also, "Didn't you literally just tell me five minutes ago that he doesn't want to marry you, because he doesn't believe in labels? Was that the lie, or is this the lie? One of them has to be a lie.
I would advise to date 2-8 years before getting engaged and hopefully you won’t be with a terrible person
Allison answers the question ‘what happens when peaked in high school energy becomes a parent to a daughter?’
I have 3 girls born in, 86, 87 and 89, they ALL call me daddy, and they have no problems with me calling them baby girl!
We never get too old to be called baby girl! I'm 55 and would give anything to hear my daddy call me that again.
My mom is 89 and I am 65. Mom still calls me baby girl.
If that's her Dad messaging her, then why does it say Daniel up top? Wouldn't his number be stored as Dad?
Not necessarily. I have no nicknames in my phone. My dad, mom, grandparents are in my contacts with their first and last names.
Ok. Just for one. My Mom still calls me Babyboy 'till now.
I'M 44 YEARS OLD! AND I ALEADY HAVE A GRANDCHILD!
My youngest brother will be 65 soon. We all still call him baby bro even though he has grandchildren.
And just know that you will always be her baby boy... 🤣
I know it is a situation where "there wouldn't be a story" but why more stories don't use the text messages as evidence of criminal acts and evil intentions always frustrates me.
Talk about evil stepmother!!! I had one that drove a major wedge between myself and siblings and our father to the point where he would barley even talk to us. He was very dumb when it came to her and put almost everything he owned in both names. unfortunately right as he was coming around and getting to know us better again he was killed in a car accident right after dropping his wife off at airport where she told him she was going to visit family in fla. but it came out after estate was settled which was worth more than $1 mil( and of course his will vanished) that she was actually cheating on him because right after estate was settled and she got all his money she married a guy in fla according to court records. what sucks is my siblings and i got nothing from his estate and only a small amount of money from law suit against Truck driver who blew through a stop sign on a road he was not suppose to be on with a semi
What's up with the father? They're insulting her right there in chat!
yeah :/
🤣🤣🤣
We just got married this past May, on our 27th dating anniversary. Our sons were best men and walked me down the aisle. Our grandkids were flower girls and ring bearer.
I feel like im listening to a bad grade school creative writing assignment
Jack is the best fiance ever!!!!!!!
And then why isn't she showing these text to her dad?! Why do people always let others basically TORTURE them before they say anything?!!!
Like what is more SOLID PROOF than TEXT MESSAGES!!!!!!
And HOW DID YOU NOT KNOW THAT ROOM WAS YOUR OWN CHILDS ROOM?!!!
DIid they NOT check in together or something?!!! How ditzy can you be?!!!!
always prepare for the worst, and harper and jake i mean jack did!
My youngest is 23 ...Still my "baby Boy" lol ( He shrugs it off)... I'm the youngest and I was always introduced as the baby ..."shrugs"
Take a break is just a way for them to get some strange before coming back to the safe option
No wonder Liz picked My 18th for her wedding.
hahahahaha oh bravo Harper, bravo xD x
You reap we that you sow..lol..
Show the texts to the father
Literally.
This one was actually physically painful to listen to. If they'd spoken much slower they'd all have fallen asleep. The female VA (assuming it wasn't all AI) all sounded the same, too.
Ack! It's driving me nuts! It's "awww" (number of w's optional) not "awe". That's something else entirely.
Whaaaaaat???😅
I literally posted the same on a different video today.
Im also schocked😮
How come stupid father tolerate the wife?
Mother and daughter duo needs to be disciplined harshly.
Neither do you need to know about mine either, Liz.
The game of one upmanship gets really old!
Allison, you mean to tell us that you DON'T know what your "precious Liz's" dress looks like? Weren't you there when she got it? Wouldn't you have been in her room preparing her dress and such while she was getting hair and makeup done since the timeline was so close and she "needed" your help getting ready?
16.05 Why participate in a group chat with an obviously dysfunctional family?
I thought the first couple name May 18
Yeah oops right lol
34:25, No, I ma pretty sure you did that with your own pair of Scissors.
8:25) "Cinder" Ella. Read page one of the book. The voice sounded like that she said "Cinder rella".
Seriously? Sounded fine to me, and even if she did say it, that's some serious nit-picking right there.
@@BCFBreakfastClubFan On page one, her her name is Ella.
@@leondillon8723 My point is that it's a bit of a nitpick, no?
@@leondillon8723 OMG, If you don't understand the term "nit-picking", then google it. I don't have time to explain it to you.
Story line done pretty well, but the voice actors were a bit overacting at the start . Improved a little as it went along, I guess they had to warm up to get in character
Mine and Jack’s wedding. Not Jack and I’s.
Allison is a HS mean girl older but not wiser.
there is sth seriously wrong with that laughter
Ehhhhh my mother told me my boyfriend wants to propose to me and "I should think about that because he is not good match". I was crying for a few days because I and my boyfriend were talking about proposing earlier. At this time we were together for 7 years. It was natural for us. If you are a man and your girlfriends parents don't like you DON'T COME TO THEM BEFORE PROPOSING! Because of that, my and my fiances best day of our life was ruined.
Was it really? Only if you let it. Honestly having those fantasies are bound to be disappointing.
What a ridiculous voice for the father.... a cartoon voice lol
LOL
end, Perfect ending to the Perfect day. You marry your Prince Charming, and Rid your father of his Wicked Witch and Deadbeat Daughter.
Jack and MY wedding…..
Did I miss something? Why was Liz's hair and make up ruined?
Apparently she's a 🐮 🐄.
Liz probably fought with security and lost 😂
Ha! I like it! Catfight in the( hotel)Corridor!
If you want to get through to the bullies then stop saying things like "My wedding date" or "My big day" or "My, My, My. It takes 2 to get married doesn't it? Then start thinking that way. Say "Our wedding date" or "Our big day". "He has set the date". "He loves the plans we as a couple have set". Like dahm. The way you're talking everybody would think you're going to marry yourself. LoL. Things like this and bridezillas are why people say weddings are Only for girls. In what universe is part of the wedding for a guy? Jokes on you.
You know this is just a story, right?
The 18th not the 19th
Why would she be so stupid as leave her planning book any where that the steps could find it.
They stole it from her purse.
If a man asks a father permission to marry the daughter, then a woman should ask a mother permission to marry the son. Jealousy is for fools; adults don't need anyone's permission to get married and that stepmom blew off both her feet. She (stepmom) learns first-hand that wickedness never was happiness and actions have consequences.
I think asking anyone but the person you're proposing to is pointless.
It's a nod to tradition...it also makes things a little easier between the groom and his new FIL. A sort of "you did a great job, I've got it from here". The true test is if dad says "no".
You so do not understand the tradition and are just bashing it because you think it’s about owning women it’s not. Did you know that forever there is a thing where little girls are daddy’s princess/ pride. Little girls and dads forever if they have an normal mother father relationship have a bond with their father daddy’s little girl did not become a saying out of no where. So to show respect to this relationship the daughters suitor would go to him to show respect to this relationship and show the dad he was up for being what the dad was to the daughter. Where there fathers that sold there daughters yes rich people. Most of the time though it’s about showing respect to a bond and giving that respect back. Part of life is trusting your parents and having the new man love your family. It’s hard and painful if you have that bond to leave unless you know your dad supports you. IT’s everything to have your dad say I approve of your choice and will support you. That’s why you do it.
@@rachelcrawford1977 I belive that if a father has a problem with me dating his daughter, he will make it more than apparent by the third dinner with them.
@@rachelcrawford1977 Oh brother!!
That "laughter" of hers is so annoying!
Well that was anti climactic.
Oh dear jealousy has a voice. The mother want to be a sister to her spawn.
Literally
25:21, This MIL from hell is heading Straight for a DIVORCE. Threating her Spouse's Child?
That laugh is horrible
Um when did may become spring. When it’s summer step mom and sister? Are something else.
Somebody says 18th & somebody else says 19th. Which one is it?
Couldn't even get through the first minute of this the voices were just so irritating
Why is the father such a whimp in all this?
Whaaaaaat?
Look up the meaning of Stand-offish
LIZ LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND LIZ KNOW THAT TOO AND LIZ IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND LIZ WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND LIZ IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
Right again, Joey!
@@carolroberts4614 CAROL ROBERTS I CAN AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT TOO
Funny May 19th is the day after my birthday
I thought Harper said the 18th? Now the group chat said the 19th? 🤪
@@gretchenannmckissack1400 lol
please I Was called little Sarah until I was 32,
wow!
so slow
14:01 thats a dumbass assumption. Every marriage where they were dating for less than two years before getting married that I have seen has failed within a year.
2 years and more of dating should be minimum. Also throw in wallpapering or painting a room, going on a long-distance road trip, babysitting a sibling’s child/children for a weekend, making the menu items for Thanksgiving dinner (for extra stress, babysitting the child/ren).
That said, you never met my DH&I: we met in October 1976, married in August 1977. Still together, 4 adult children and their spouses, 8 grandchildren. DH retired in 2010. I plan to retire June 30, 2026…… that will be the true telling of the tale!
@@amethystanne4586 all of the above are great ideas!
@@Gr3nadgr3gory I read it somewhere a long time ago. It sounds like something that the late Erma Bombeck would suggest.
My DH proposed after 6 weeks and we were married within 6 months of our first date. That was 47 very happy years ago.
Met and married my husband within 4 months. We were married just over 30 years when he died of cancer. Two beautiful children. No, I was not pregnant when we married, as that was the assumption. He had just been accepted to law school when we met and wanted me to move with him across the country and I wouldn’t live with him without marriage. Yes, that was the norm in the 70’s. We were both in our mid-20’s and it felt right to get married. Had he not died we would be celebrating our 50th anniversary this fall 😢
ALLISON LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND ALLISON KNOW THAT TOO AND ALLISON IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND ALLISON WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND ALLISON IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
You're right!
@@carolroberts4614 CAROL ROBERTS THANK YOU VERY MUCH TOO
does anyone believes this?
Who is supposed t"believe" it .... ????
It's just a STORY ... come on now 😩
Boring story!!!
Wringer
AAAGH! LOL isn't spoken (ell oh ell) it means "Laughing Out Loud"
PLEASE understand English vernacular if you're narrating in English!!
I simply can't keep listening. The voice "acting" is so stilted and forced, it's painful...
Wow stepsister really is not that smart
Yesssssss 😅😅
A day apart beginning said may 18th not 19th