Wish he'd said the same to the girl who had brother-in-law's baby. Instead he raised his glass to her and said 'get hubby to adopt the baby before BIL comes back' ...lol
Wife finds out husband betrayed her. 2 months later, she is going for her GED. This woman has her exit in sight and her blinker on. The rest of her life, she will never be able to relax in a relationship. This is just... the worst loss of trust.
She'll never be able to relax with him! He doesn't deserve a 2nd chance and anyone who gives someone like this a second chance; well let's just say their self-confidence is in the gutter
*Lets be clear here! He ruined;* -His Father in Laws Marriage -The lives of his child sibling in laws -An entire families relationships -His wife’s Marriage & family ties -His daughters life/ family ties And the whole time he had no real concern for anyone over himself! No concern for his father in law, his child sister/brother in law, no one else who will be destroyed by his selfishness! He is only concerned about himself!
He blames this on his age and on getting married too early. The real problem is his lack of integrity and low character. The alcohol and the self diagnosis sure don't help either.
I'm sorry but if I knew my husband slept with my stepmom I wouldn't even be in the same room let alone house. The way he's talking gives off vibes that she doesn't even know.
@@elizabethhogue5282he said he told her. It sounds like she has been dependent on him for money. She can leave but she would be leaving without her child and sleeping on the street as that’s all that’s ahead at the moment. She has no income and also no family as he blew that up as well. She’s only just now trying to get a GED…. They are barely 23 I doubt they have much in terms of assets since he is the only one working. People don’t normally build 100k in assets with a single income and a child and no previous work experience a matter of 3 to 4 years.
Saying he blew up his life is false but he definitely blew up his marriage and relationships in the worst way People who get married young have the highest rate of breaking up even if they don't cheat but they'll both get over it.
@@jaesall3519you don't just "get over" your spouse sleeping with your stepmom. Not only is your immediate family destroyed, but the new family you just created with your husband is also destroyed. You have to do a lot of work ignoring reality and living in denial to beliy for one second you're just going to "get over it"
For once Dr. John didn't laugh during the callers story. He always has a tendency to laugh at their misfortunes ehich really bothers me! However I'm glad he actually told the caller it''s over as he tends to avoid saying those words- but this time, it needed to be said. Even if she's in limbo and is thinking about trying to make things work, they will not work once things begin to move along and she's able to think straight long enough to truly process what he did to her. Just unbelievable.
Oh you mean don’t trust the woman who was drinking a bottle of tequila in a bikini while she was supervising at work and then fell asleep drunk so her step son woke her up because she needed to sign off on the work call and then she slept with him? Is that the one you don’t think can be trusted?
@@TonyCox1351 all that, plus he said the wife has past trauma from the step mom. I wonder how old the stepmom is, since the wife was "watching" stepmoms kids, along with her own (presumably 5-6 year old) daughter.
I don't think he will either. Just by his words he trying to justify what he did. Then bonus tried to justify why he shouldn't have to give her space by saying we didn't go all the way and our marriage wasn't perfect. These are things all cheaters say. He just wants everything swept under a rug and not have to deal with any fallout.
I think most cheaters wouldn’t even try to resolve or reach out for help. They’d either deflect or justify their actions or blame their spouse or just straight up gaslight and deny. This guy seems to recognize that he is the problem and is seeking multiple avenues to improve. His marriage is probably doomed regardless though
He's been a force of destruction in his wife's life. Got her pregnant to where she couldn't finish hs, now 5 years in cheats on her like this. This man doesn't love her at all. I hope she is able to get out.
@BrookeKnits Well she didn't have to sleep with him, get pregnant or marry him and got her GED instead 🙄Let's not go overboard and act like his wife suddenly has no accountability for her life choices.
An update from the wifes perspective would be refreshing because it 💯 sounds like he's trying to make it difficult for her to have space and make her own decision on the marriage.
chris watts vibes. That's who he sounds like. This dude is talking about his marriage like CW telling the news station "i just want them back," knowing full well he stuffed them into oil batteries.
Get off it ! everwoman hoe on social media says she forgives herself. Double standard BS noboby can forgive themselves only Jesus and the ofended party can forgive you.
I don’t really think it means that. No matter what you do and how horrible it is you have to be able to forgive yourself you can’t just weep around all day
@@Absinthexx7No, that's what it means. Forgiving yourself starts with accepting whatever punishment because you know you deserve it. He doesn't want that
He’d thought about it before. There’s no way that he saw that top come off and was like “wow, I think I’m attracted to her, I have to act now!” He was waiting for an opportunity to do something.
Oh he forsure has, the step mom has definitely thought about it before as well. These things don't happen otherwise. I'm ambivalent about him being attracted to the step mom, but to act on it is absolutely wild.
Whats rare is that he didn't laugh at the caller. He always tends to laugh at someone else's misfortune. But this time, you could tell he was fuming. Way too mad to laugh at anything. Finally lol
Is it just me or does it seem like he’s forcing himself onto his wife? He knows she’s trapped and just wants her to act like everything is normal by kissing him and going on dates. Makes me sick to my stomach. I would never want that man touching me again.
Oh yeah. He is definitely pushing it - thinking he can cuddle his way back into her life. So selfish he cannot even imagine that she would be shrinking from his touch, and too selfish to pre-empt such a response by not trying to touch her in the first place. What a pig.
It didn't sound like he was forcing her to me. It very well could have been his wife that was inviting him to hug and kiss, per Dr. John describing "fawning".
I’m 23, and I had to go get my GED. I have no college education. I got married at 18, I was a stay at home mom for two years- if my husband EVER did anything like that to me, I don’t care if I’m walking. I will leave.
Yes, that’s what She would probably do if She wouldn’t be dependent on her husband and stepmom, She probably already has a plan what will enable her for the future to be able to get a job and a different babysitter other than her mom.
i was kinda taken aback because he's gotten many calls about cheating and never just outright says "your marriage is over.". Who pi'ss'ed in his corn flakes?
@@doesnotFempute The caller needed to hear it. John's right, the caller was too optimistic about healing the relationship and needed to prepare for his marriage being over.
Y’all, Dr. John’s subtle but very concerned reactions are SENDING ME. He is fighting for his life not to rip into this man 😂 and to the wife? LEAVE GIRL! You deserve better than this crap!
At the beginning of the call it sounded like this guy had ending his life as a serious option on the table. And Dr. John could hear that. Which is why he didn't rip into him and instead really focused on forging an image of what the future would look like.
the guy in this call is 23. i'm 22 right now. just the thought of doing something even close to what he did is mind boggling. how does someone choose to screw up this way? i feel blessed that my biggest problem is trying to get a replacement car key.
When I clicked on this I was thinking “if they’re middle aged, the age difference might not be too weird at least”. I did a double take when he said his age. I’m 22 and my bf’s stepdad is probably 45. I nearly vomited in my mouth thinking about that 🤢 Dynamic AND age gap, wayyy offf 🙅🏻♀️
Right? I’m 26 and it feels like there’s a huge gap in maturity. I can’t even imagine doing that to someone I supposedly love. This is beyond just cheating, this is malicious behavior.
He's absolutely not embarrassed. He's a 20 something year old who has now fooled around with his wife's stepmom, in her house, and he's still with her.
He’s not sorry for his actions, just sorry for himself that there are consequences to his actions. I hope that woman gets her GED, divorced him and loves her best life.
@@aydinsha she’s as bad! So so gross! A bikini top doesn’t just fall off. Uhh… the selfishness and lack of empathy it would take to do that to _anyone_ let alone your family member is beyond comprehension!
I’ve never seen Dr. Delony respond this way. You can tell he was trying to be professional but he was upset and not a fan of this “kid”. He called him on his bs immediately especially when the kid tried to bring up being co-dependents. He probably thought he’d call and get some sugar coated answer, but John was not playing any games today and held him accountable for what he did. Bravo 👏🏽
“Oopsie, her top fell off so I just, ya know, had sex with her while my wife and kids were only steps away.” 🤯 Hope his wife gets a good divorce attorney and never looks him in the eye again. There is no recovering after that level of betrayal. If he’s brazen enough to do this, I would imagine there’s probably nothing he wouldn’t do. Take the kids and get out.
Yeah,but she already allowed him back in. She has low self esteem and doesn't see the big dump this guy took on her! Or is dependent financially and doesn't have an way out! Never depend on a man. I can't even stand his voice....and she already kissing him🤮🤮🤮
Chile, y'all been liking each other. 😏 It had ZERO to do with drinking. People are always trying to blame everything & everyone else but themselves! And that step-mom equally shares the blame!! Some lines you just don't cross. 🤢🙅🏽♀️
I'm curious how old the stepmom is, if the wife was watching their collective children while this went down. I'm in my 30s and can't think of any worldly reason why I'd want to smash a 23 year old dude, much less one I'm (however tangentially) related to. Dudebro doesn't exactly sound like much of a charmer either. I'm willing to bet she had been plotting on him for a while.
He also admitted to knowing that there was past trauma regarding the stepmother. And he went there anyway? This guy needs deep therapy. He lacks emotional maturity and introspection.
Sounds like a narcissist! The poor wife has been around toxic people and is attacking the same personality type unwilling in her personal relationships
This is such an interesting conversation. I've never been so drunk and done something so stupid but I've definitely heard of people cheating when drunk, blacked out and not remembering what they did whatsoever. This guy who called in was definitely aware tho
I think that's very flawed. It impairs your judgement, prevents you from thinking beyond the short term or weighing options, etc. If anything it ISN'T who you really are because humans are far more developed than that.
Dr delony has always talks redemption. I don’t think I’ve ever heard him say it so bluntly and tell him you blew this up, she should leave you and it’s your fault
@@dmbgator86 Please don't minimize this. Does not matter that this was a "one night thing". This man blew up his family and it absolutely is his fault. Even as little as 30 seconds can blow up multiple families. The responsibility is rightfully being assigned here. Edit: Just realized that you might have been joking/sarcastic. Please let that be true.
This young lady just woke up from her dream and learned a serious life lesson the hard way. She realized that a man is not a plan, and that a man can leave her at any moment. She has to be able to survive on her own and she has decided to take steps to become more independent. Thank goodness she is young enough to recover from this. Best wishes to her.
I wonder how the father-in-law feels. I'd never allow that man at family gatherings. imagine opening Christmas presents with a loser who wrecked your marriage and your daughter's marriage.
I assume the step mom must be rather young too considering he mentioned one of the kids are from the step mom? Still a step mom is a step mom it will be very detrimental if her dad doesn't divorce her
Giving her time to breathe is RIGHT!!! They dont leave you alone to process the situation almost suffocating you. They want to make sure you dont leave them. Thank you for advising to give her space she can live with out him and she should be able to figure it out.
Usually I listen to the whole story before making a judgement. I’m gonna jump to conclusions this time and guess that he’s screwed it up beyond repair 💀
I usually wait till I at least get halfway through as well but this time my answer is ready to go the second I read the headline. Yes. The answer is yes. Your marriage is over, and if not, it should be for your wife's sake!
I’m from the UK, this advice is great. On a few occasions the caller tried to describe the incident to make the situation better but he was stopped. The advice given was blunt and thorough, and a reasonable approach. It’s not what the called wanted to hear. Couples therapy isn’t great
the way he described the lead-up to the cheating incident is like a generic porno intro... went to wake up my step-mommy-in-law and her top fell off, whoopsie! he can't be serious lol
@@susanlodgerelaxations5269The fawn response is a trauma response that involves people-pleasing behaviors to avoid conflict, appease an aggressor, and ensure safety. It's a coping mechanism that can develop from childhood trauma, such as abuse, and is often overlooked.
She hasn’t left yet because she can’t. She’s never worked and doesn’t have even a GED. If he were a decent man, he’d leave and let her still live there and pay for her housing until she can afford to leave.
Ladies, let this be a cautionary tale, NEVER make yourself completely dependent upon anyone! This young woman has terrible options now, in addition to being betrayed by both her husband and her "mother" in the worst possible way. Set yourself up for success early on and give yourself options when you need them.
I think this illustrates that alcohol is not a good thing. The husband and step mother don't love the betrayed wife. They destroyed 2 families. I'm glad she's working toward obtaining the GED. She'll need to financially support herself and child in the future.
Alcohol is certainly not a good thing. I was blacked out drink once in my life and never again I don’t realize that traveling to altitude affected you so much. While I was drunk a man came up to me asking to hook up I was in a serious relationship and I screamed no and that I had a boyfriend so the alcohol didn’t make me do anything. These people are morally bankrupt.
I totally agree- alcohol impaired judgement and can lead to bad decisions. At the same time I think the husband definitely should not be allowed to use it as an excuse- plenty of people get drunk and don’t cheat. But yeah I absolutely agree with you
Why are we blaming alcohol?? I might be different from some but I think alcohol is a good thing. I enjoy a drink here and there and it’s nice. I guess as a whole has it caused more harm than good?? Probably- but for me I’m sticking with it 😜
I feel like he really doesn’t want the marriage to work out. He’s trying to get John to justify him being ok to leave his wife he just hurt in the worst way possible. He was hoping John would say you’re young you need to go find yourself and he didn’t. John is holding him accountable and I love that.
He said the MIL abused his wife. She did not finish high school. The wife ‘s self worth has been destroyed way before but the MIL had those intentions. She is wicked.
How do you just sleep with your wife's mom?! Finish a bottle of tequila?! They all have alcohol problems. This can't just be the first time he has done something like this. On top of that, bro is 24! That's just gross as hell. And the stepmom has children around the age of him and his wife's daughter. WTH?!
I'm all for forgiveness but you simply can't build back trust after this. If this guy has ANY good in him at all, he would move out, pay the wife's rent for a year while she gets on her feet, and make it his whole life's mission to be there for the child, and support the wife from a very far distance.
I haven't felt so disgusted listening to something in a long time. The boundary you have to cross to sleep with your partner's relative? I don't care if it's a stepmom, that's so beyond disgusting. The excuses he made, saying they got married too early, that he didn't "fully" sleep with the stepmom, that he told his wife and she didn't have to find out some other way, etc... he's so immature and she and her daughter deserve so much better. If this happened to me, I'd never be able to trust again.
Just sickening. Wife needs to divorce him immediately. Anyone who is willing to cheat so brazenly like this once has likely cheated before and will likely cheat again.
Facts, how do you even try to fix this ? You’re pretty much asking your wife to give up her family, her relationship with step mom is gone but her dad, her dad sure as hell is never gonna be able to sit at the same table as him.
Wife should take him to the cleaners in divorce and move on. The fact that he sighed and dragged his words when John said “no hugging, kissing etc” just groveling is so telling. Im not such a good person that I could forgive this or want to work through it, also the stepmom is fucking disgusting and has issues, who fucks their kids partners? Thats insane!
Stop thinking with emotions and use your brain. He's still their childs father so "taking him to the cleaners" will probably affect the child. If you expect him to be an active and good figure to his child he's also gotta have a good quality of life and a good relationship with the mother as wel
@@ashfoyowa6689 They are poor white trash, there is nothing to take to the cleaners. Idk why people always think divorce means lots of money for one person.
The wife isn't going anywhere. Just like John said.....she is trapped. The most hopeful outcome here is that these two parents don't totally ruin their child.
Nah, the kids are ruined cause they will find out Staying together for the kids sake makes it waaay worst cause now they have a messed up view about what relationships are and what crap they have to put up with
There are ways remove yourself and your children from a “trapped” situation like this. Unfortunately it’s Not a glamorous path. I had to leave my situation by going to a homeless shelter while I was 7 1/2 months pregnant and had my toddler on my Hip. It helped me tremendously to get back in my feet. There are ways and resources to help women with children and even men who are in bad situations in life. It just a matter of if you’re actually ready to have a better life because the path to it is Not always pretty. This woman needs to get a job and get help with housing that way she can move on in life and do what’s best for her children. If she had the children there are plenty of resources for single mothers as well as single fathers
@@elettramia6380 I wouldn’t call it a glamorous path either. I would call it, ‘ripping up the ground from underneath your feet and starting over’. Nobody ever wants to do it. But it’s so much better once you’re on the other side.
My next door neighbor wondering why I screamed what 😅 after I read that I'm like who tf sleeps with their wife stepmom 😂 not only did u cheat on ur wife her stepmom cheated on her dad!!! Like this is messed up on so many levels.
@@natela_mk I was stuck on the fact that they could even do that I didn't even think of the siblings. Also how is he gonna say how do I save my marriage are u dumb 😂 u can't save that.
I WOULD SAY BYE BYE HUBBY - FOREVER. Bye bye also to the step mom. They've been looking at each other and attracted to each other long before this happened. This isn't a spontaneous thing.
If this BOY- he is in no way a man- was my son, the shame I would feel would almost choke me to death. My Lord, this poor girl has been PREYED on by him and her own stepmother. There is no repairing this marriage. And what do you want to bet that this boy subtly chipped away at this girl's self-esteem, causing her to not even feel worthy of getting a HS diploma. He trapped her, plain and simple. Psychopath behavior!
He just wants his wife to move, forgive, forget be a happy little family again with once again, no regard of his wife and the time she needs. It’s all about him.
This is why women file for divorce. Guys don't see why they can't have a wife and stuff on the side, too. Only women have the integrity to have boundaries that include divorcing a man when he has betrayed her.
My demands as the wife: “I get my GED, I get a college degree, NO SEX. Period. And by the way, DO NOT TOUCH ME. Then we can see if the marriage is salvageable.”
*Sociopath behavior, not psychopath. Sociopaths lack morals, boundaries and empathy. Just big ol self-centered jerks. This guy isn't really remorseful, he just wants to keep his wife and kid because they make him look normal.
The wife was betrayed by not one, but two people who are supposed to love her. Man, what a mess!
While she’s watching both their kids
Yeah so messedup in every level
Stepmom has no duty to be loyal.
She does to her husband! Good grief.@@slorgdulschmodus
Another level of messed up is doing it with her in the house, its not like she was gone for weeks and he had an itch to scratch.
I love Dr. Delony immediately telling him his marriage is over.
It's not just this marriage, all his future marriages are tainted now.
@@FortuneSeek3rz correct, who in their right mind would ever be with this man with this in his past.
@@FortuneSeek3rz For real...
Wish he'd said the same to the girl who had brother-in-law's baby. Instead he raised his glass to her and said 'get hubby to adopt the baby before BIL comes back' ...lol
@@Crazyced Wait, what?! Lol
Wife finds out husband betrayed her. 2 months later, she is going for her GED. This woman has her exit in sight and her blinker on. The rest of her life, she will never be able to relax in a relationship. This is just... the worst loss of trust.
This is so well said that it’s poetic.
@@therockbottom5256 yep 👏👏👏
She'll never be able to relax with him! He doesn't deserve a 2nd chance and anyone who gives someone like this a second chance; well let's just say their self-confidence is in the gutter
It’s the equivalent of cutting your hair after a break up….😢 Except this is also for her daughter. I really hope things go well for either way.🤞🏻🙏🏻
Loss of trust forever IS the worst!
*Lets be clear here! He ruined;*
-His Father in Laws Marriage
-The lives of his child sibling in laws
-An entire families relationships
-His wife’s Marriage & family ties
-His daughters life/ family ties
And the whole time he had no real concern for anyone over himself! No concern for his father in law, his child sister/brother in law, no one else who will be destroyed by his selfishness! He is only concerned about himself!
He and his mother in laws together ruin all
Spot on. Selfish and totally lacking empathy for anyone else.
His hooking up with his MIL has far reaching consequences this fallout may never heal.
He was extremely drunk, which lead to a very poor decision.
They ruined, They not he, they
He blames this on his age and on getting married too early. The real problem is his lack of integrity and low character. The alcohol and the self diagnosis sure don't help either.
Yeap, been with my hubby since I was 16 age is absolutely no excuse.
young and older men lack integrety so 💀
Alcohol is so destructive 😢
I got married young as well and it never would've occurred to me to do something this insane and selfish.
@@dlively7828Yes but you STILL know right from wrong even under the influence
Wow, "the knife that cut her is still sleeping in the same bed with her." What a way to phrase that.
I'm sorry but if I knew my husband slept with my stepmom I wouldn't even be in the same room let alone house. The way he's talking gives off vibes that she doesn't even know.
@@elizabethhogue5282he said he told her.
It sounds like she has been dependent on him for money. She can leave but she would be leaving without her child and sleeping on the street as that’s all that’s ahead at the moment. She has no income and also no family as he blew that up as well. She’s only just now trying to get a GED….
They are barely 23 I doubt they have much in terms of assets since he is the only one working. People don’t normally build 100k in assets with a single income and a child and no previous work experience a matter of 3 to 4 years.
Short answer: yes
Long answer: yes, your marriage is over
Dude needs to just lawyer up and get ready for the divorce. Then raise your daughter as best as you can from there.
@@galeptum, why hire a lawyer when he’ll lose anyway? Waste of time and money. Give her whatever she wants and move forward in life WITHOUT her.
Saying he blew up his life is false but he definitely blew up his marriage and relationships in the worst way
People who get married young have the highest rate of breaking up even if they don't cheat but they'll both get over it.
@@jaesall3519you don't just "get over" your spouse sleeping with your stepmom. Not only is your immediate family destroyed, but the new family you just created with your husband is also destroyed. You have to do a lot of work ignoring reality and living in denial to beliy for one second you're just going to "get over it"
For once Dr. John didn't laugh during the callers story. He always has a tendency to laugh at their misfortunes ehich really bothers me! However I'm glad he actually told the caller it''s over as he tends to avoid saying those words- but this time, it needed to be said. Even if she's in limbo and is thinking about trying to make things work, they will not work once things begin to move along and she's able to think straight long enough to truly process what he did to her. Just unbelievable.
The stepmom is NOT TO BE TRUSTED either…. 🤮 🤢 crossed ALL BOUNDARIES.
Oh you mean don’t trust the woman who was drinking a bottle of tequila in a bikini while she was supervising at work and then fell asleep drunk so her step son woke her up because she needed to sign off on the work call and then she slept with him? Is that the one you don’t think can be trusted?
@@TonyCox1351 This whole story is a mess. It sounds like a badly written adult film 😂
I'm curious about how his wife's father is dealing with this? His SIL slept with his wife, the step mom.. Like this is Jerry Springer worthy.
@@TonyCox1351 all that, plus he said the wife has past trauma from the step mom.
I wonder how old the stepmom is, since the wife was "watching" stepmoms kids, along with her own (presumably 5-6 year old) daughter.
@@doesnotFempute I wondered the exact same thing…sounded like dad married some young floozy. What a family!
He will 100% not do any of the things John suggested.
Nope! Not a one
I don't think he will either. Just by his words he trying to justify what he did. Then bonus tried to justify why he shouldn't have to give her space by saying we didn't go all the way and our marriage wasn't perfect. These are things all cheaters say. He just wants everything swept under a rug and not have to deal with any fallout.
He didn’t get the answer he thought he would.
Well, would you follow the advice of someone who opens with "yeah it's over" 😂😂😂
I think most cheaters wouldn’t even try to resolve or reach out for help. They’d either deflect or justify their actions or blame their spouse or just straight up gaslight and deny. This guy seems to recognize that he is the problem and is seeking multiple avenues to improve. His marriage is probably doomed regardless though
John -"So what do you want to do next?" Caller - "My wife's aunt."
Funniest thing I have ever read on TH-cam. Thank you for full belly laugh, snort and all
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He's been a force of destruction in his wife's life. Got her pregnant to where she couldn't finish hs, now 5 years in cheats on her like this. This man doesn't love her at all. I hope she is able to get out.
ANNND was some how able to weasel his way back into bed with her in less than 2 months after what he did. Wild!
"got her pregnant"
can we all just agree women lack agency and stop playing both sides?
@BrookeKnits Well she didn't have to sleep with him, get pregnant or marry him and got her GED instead 🙄Let's not go overboard and act like his wife suddenly has no accountability for her life choices.
@@Naturefan354exactly 🙌🏼
@@funicon3689 women? You mean the one who was still legally a child when she got pregnant by this buffoon?
An update from the wifes perspective would be refreshing because it 💯 sounds like he's trying to make it difficult for her to have space and make her own decision on the marriage.
Definitely! He seems like a covertly abusive emotionally
"I just can't think of not coming home to my wife & daughter" after he threw a grenade in that home 😒
chris watts vibes. That's who he sounds like. This dude is talking about his marriage like CW telling the news station "i just want them back," knowing full well he stuffed them into oil batteries.
I thought exactly the same, like these are the consequences of your actions.
Deep
He wasn't thinking of not coming home to his wife and daughter when he was "coming"!!
😂😂😂😂
This was not the first time he cheated. I guarantee it.
Not likely the last time either…
Yep exactly what I said! Maybe the first time he got caught but not the first time and likely not the first time with her stepmom. Ick
Straight up!
@@Linnon-yl7bv He didn't get caught. He sat down and told his wife.
He sees a pair of boobs and bang!!!! He is a dog.
The "forgive myself" statement when men cheat or mess up is manipulative. He's saying, "look at me, am already punishing myself."
💯!!! This comment from him just made me so annoyed…
Get off it ! everwoman hoe on social media says she forgives herself. Double standard BS noboby can forgive themselves only Jesus and the ofended party can forgive you.
His comment made me 😳🥴😡🤬🤯🤯🤯🤯
I don’t really think it means that. No matter what you do and how horrible it is you have to be able to forgive yourself you can’t just weep around all day
@@Absinthexx7No, that's what it means. Forgiving yourself starts with accepting whatever punishment because you know you deserve it. He doesn't want that
“She’s in limbo” translation: She’s getting her things in order so she can leave.
she is not strong enough. she already has trauma from her childhood. She has nothing to even get in order.
I hope that's the case
I wish I was true, but the way they've been acting so soon she's looking to take him back unfortunately.
Can she though? Maybe she has a sibling or friend she can move in with but he really put her in a bind
I hope she's planning her escape. But she needs outside help otherwise she'll stay and be miserable and bitter forever
“She’s had past trauma with her stepmom, too”
The “Wooow I’m so shocked” button
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That stepmom is absolute trash and trouble. So is he! What selfish people. They destroyed a family for a drunken thrill.
Girl she even has custody of the stepmother's kids so imagine what trash she is.
That one got me too! If I wasn’t sold on leaving before, I am now. I have trauma from my own mother so I couldn’t imagine
I wish the poor wife was on the call instead. SHE is the one that needs advice and support. I hope someone follows up with her.
She should have kept her man satisfied
He’d thought about it before. There’s no way that he saw that top come off and was like “wow, I think I’m attracted to her, I have to act now!” He was waiting for an opportunity to do something.
They both were sh*t faced so I don't think either thought that intently about it
He probably undid the top while she was sleeping.
@@semosancus5506no, the MIL knew what she was doing. He lacked morals.
I literally just typed this under another comment before seeing this
Oh he forsure has, the step mom has definitely thought about it before as well. These things don't happen otherwise. I'm ambivalent about him being attracted to the step mom, but to act on it is absolutely wild.
I bet its rare for Dr. Delony to be left speechless like he was at the beginning of this call.
-sir,- -just- -get- -to- -the- -point- -and- -say- -it-
Podcast version of Jerry Springer.
You can see him trying to hide the look of disgust on his face.
He wasn't speechless, he was trying to hold back rage.
Whats rare is that he didn't laugh at the caller. He always tends to laugh at someone else's misfortune. But this time, you could tell he was fuming. Way too mad to laugh at anything. Finally lol
I like how dr John was straight to the point.. “you can’t fix this .. this is the worst thing you can do”
"I've been trying to find a way to forgive myself" - really? That's the first thing you're trying to do?
I know. Says a lot doesn't it.
most people are way too hard on themselves... this guy is too easy on himself!!
That's what I thought lol
That’s what I thought!
@@BouncyBrown well something was definitely "hard on him"!!
I don’t hear remorse from this guy. He deserves to be left.
Yeah man
Some ppl just SUCKS sigh
Right. He's like, it happened get over it
💯
nah he seems like a good dude. Just a lil mistake, gotta bounce back
@@AEyob-mn2ep bounce back far away for sure
This is the most brutal, open, honest, and realistic I've ever heard him be.
He's fantastic.
Why I don't hear any remorse in his voice? He is annoyed that everybody make a deal out of cheating 🙄 red flag
He thought that confessing wiped the whole thing away. That that’s where he proved who he really is….
@@darriennemartin4083he’s still a boy because that what mothers say to their sons.
@@MadeInKanadaa You mean the mom that slept with him? This aint a man issue, sweetheart.
he wasn't that attracted to his wife.
@@TrustintheUniverse1111 HENEVEER SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER.
Is it just me or does it seem like he’s forcing himself onto his wife? He knows she’s trapped and just wants her to act like everything is normal by kissing him and going on dates. Makes me sick to my stomach. I would never want that man touching me again.
Yes. This is the vibe I got. He’s upset his wife appliance is broken. He doesn’t care
I think he is doing exactly that but without realizing what he's doing, and also what he's doing TO her. Which is even more worrisome
Oh yeah. He is definitely pushing it - thinking he can cuddle his way back into her life. So selfish he cannot even imagine that she would be shrinking from his touch, and too selfish to pre-empt such a response by not trying to touch her in the first place. What a pig.
I’d feel sick to my stomach too. This man is disgusting and beyond disrespectful
It didn't sound like he was forcing her to me. It very well could have been his wife that was inviting him to hug and kiss, per Dr. John describing "fawning".
3:08 "I've been trying hard to forgive myself and work on myself"... LOL what a joke.
Haaaayyy Bich!! ❤😂 fancy seein' you over here!!
This guy's is a TOOL. WOW.🤢🤮
That's how Baptists are.
@@therocinante3443Baptists is the most random thing to say here
@@therocinante3443No, that's how the average male is regardless of religion
Me me me me me That's all I heard
I agree that he needs to give her space. She's playing nice so she doesn't end up homeless. It's not like she can go stay at dad and stepmom's place.
For real. Dad should put her out and take his daughter in!!
I’m 23, and I had to go get my GED. I have no college education. I got married at 18, I was a stay at home mom for two years- if my husband EVER did anything like that to me, I don’t care if I’m walking. I will leave.
That woman should leave him and also not talk to her step mom again, this is just disgusting
I wonder what the father/husband is thinking too! His daughter’s husband should have been a solid no!
Yes, that’s what She would probably do if She wouldn’t be dependent on her husband and stepmom, She probably already has a plan what will enable her for the future to be able to get a job and a different babysitter other than her mom.
And where the hell was her Dad in all this?!
@@Cecille_the_oneguarantee you wife ain't cutting it in bed and step mom is promiscuous 😅
one of those rare moments where john is direct and blunt
Trust me, I’m sure John has had plenty of blunts
@@BitterComments lmaoo
i was kinda taken aback because he's gotten many calls about cheating and never just outright says "your marriage is over.". Who pi'ss'ed in his corn flakes?
@@doesnotFempute The caller needed to hear it. John's right, the caller was too optimistic about healing the relationship and needed to prepare for his marriage being over.
@@doesnotFemputeI think his response was different due to this asshole cheating with his wife’s family member.
Y’all, Dr. John’s subtle but very concerned reactions are SENDING ME. He is fighting for his life not to rip into this man 😂 and to the wife? LEAVE GIRL! You deserve better than this crap!
At the beginning of the call it sounded like this guy had ending his life as a serious option on the table. And Dr. John could hear that. Which is why he didn't rip into him and instead really focused on forging an image of what the future would look like.
the guy in this call is 23. i'm 22 right now. just the thought of doing something even close to what he did is mind boggling. how does someone choose to screw up this way? i feel blessed that my biggest problem is trying to get a replacement car key.
Man, the only thing I can think of is porn brain. Live out the stepmom fantasy that's right there asking for it.
His step mom in law must be really hot.
When I clicked on this I was thinking “if they’re middle aged, the age difference might not be too weird at least”. I did a double take when he said his age. I’m 22 and my bf’s stepdad is probably 45. I nearly vomited in my mouth thinking about that 🤢 Dynamic AND age gap, wayyy offf 🙅🏻♀️
Right? I’m 26 and it feels like there’s a huge gap in maturity. I can’t even imagine doing that to someone I supposedly love. This is beyond just cheating, this is malicious behavior.
😂 🔑
I can't take this guy seriously at all. Imagine doing something so embarrassing not only for yourself but you've humiliated your wife. Total L
He's absolutely not embarrassed. He's a 20 something year old who has now fooled around with his wife's stepmom, in her house, and he's still with her.
He’s not sorry for his actions, just sorry for himself that there are consequences to his actions.
I hope that woman gets her GED, divorced him and loves her best life.
Absolutely agree. But it's interesting y'all don't even bother mentioning how disgusting the step mom is.
@@aydinsha she’s as bad! So so gross! A bikini top doesn’t just fall off. Uhh… the selfishness and lack of empathy it would take to do that to _anyone_ let alone your family member is beyond comprehension!
…and your wife’s father!
I’ve never seen Dr. Delony respond this way. You can tell he was trying to be professional but he was upset and not a fan of this “kid”. He called him on his bs immediately especially when the kid tried to bring up being co-dependents. He probably thought he’d call and get some sugar coated answer, but John was not playing any games today and held him accountable for what he did. Bravo 👏🏽
I hate the position his wife is in, nothing worse than being trapped & stuck with someone who betrayed you in the worst way possible 😢
“Oopsie, her top fell off so I just, ya know, had sex with her while my wife and kids were only steps away.” 🤯 Hope his wife gets a good divorce attorney and never looks him in the eye again. There is no recovering after that level of betrayal. If he’s brazen enough to do this, I would imagine there’s probably nothing he wouldn’t do. Take the kids and get out.
Yeah,but she already allowed him back in. She has low self esteem and doesn't see the big dump this guy took on her! Or is dependent financially and doesn't have an way out! Never depend on a man. I can't even stand his voice....and she already kissing him🤮🤮🤮
To quote Dr. Phil, "I hate it when that happens!".
It means he had intentions well before that moment and was waiting for the chance
@@snsn7251 Sounds like she had intentions as well. I’m guessing that had had some kind of flirty thing going on for awhile. Total scum…both of them.
Her top just fell off sounds like a bad porn! He has no self control and neither does the step mom.
“Her top fell off” and he was like down bad
goodness the lack of self-control so weird!!!
I hope his wife leaves him. She deserves better. He’s a terrible person
Completely agree! He was trying to back track “her top fell off” or “well I didn’t really sleep with her” 🤡 what a clown
@@aelh123The infamous Trip and Fall excuse
@@Tony-bp1nrI tripped and fell pretty much onto all of her female parts over and over😂
@@wordsalad01well said! step mum cheating means that there is potential father also being betrayed.
“Her top just fell off” is absolutely the end of it.
Chile, y'all been liking each other. 😏 It had ZERO to do with drinking. People are always trying to blame everything & everyone else but themselves! And that step-mom equally shares the blame!! Some lines you just don't cross. 🤢🙅🏽♀️
Absolutely. Now his wife will never trust him, even at family gatherings. Just imagine! Yuck!
. OMG. I'd have to move out of state for my own sanity, imagine not having another peaceful Christmas or Thanksgiving
Facts he’s trying to act brand new like it was tequilas fault 😭😭😭
He drank to give himself permission to mess up.
I'm curious how old the stepmom is, if the wife was watching their collective children while this went down. I'm in my 30s and can't think of any worldly reason why I'd want to smash a 23 year old dude, much less one I'm (however tangentially) related to. Dudebro doesn't exactly sound like much of a charmer either. I'm willing to bet she had been plotting on him for a while.
She’s getting educated it’s over for him
He also admitted to knowing that there was past trauma regarding the stepmother. And he went there anyway? This guy needs deep therapy. He lacks emotional maturity and introspection.
Sounds like a narcissist! The poor wife has been around toxic people and is attacking the same personality type unwilling in her personal relationships
@@CourageUnderFire87 I don't think he likes his wife at all and the Stepmom doesn't like her either. Smh
i’ve always said alcohol just shows who they truly are. i have not ONCE betrayed someone while totally drunk.
This is such an interesting conversation. I've never been so drunk and done something so stupid but I've definitely heard of people cheating when drunk, blacked out and not remembering what they did whatsoever. This guy who called in was definitely aware tho
I think that's very flawed. It impairs your judgement, prevents you from thinking beyond the short term or weighing options, etc. If anything it ISN'T who you really are because humans are far more developed than that.
Are you male or female?
You are so right
@@spacexbrawlerthe not remembering is convenient memory loss. My stepmom pulled that
I am often for working things out but seriously, girl RUN. FAST.
Dr delony has always talks redemption. I don’t think I’ve ever heard him say it so bluntly and tell him you blew this up, she should leave you and it’s your fault
It’s clear this dude pissed him off. Still gave good advice tho.
Because John is a professional.
It was a one night thing! In the moment! Stop being so judgmental.
@@dmbgator86 Please don't minimize this. Does not matter that this was a "one night thing". This man blew up his family and it absolutely is his fault.
Even as little as 30 seconds can blow up multiple families. The responsibility is rightfully being assigned here.
Edit: Just realized that you might have been joking/sarcastic. Please let that be true.
I think the caller's nonchalant attitude about it had a lot to do with it. He doesn't regret his decision AT ALL.
I thought Deloney had a stroke after hearing the first 10secs of this insanity.
He knows what the call is about before taking it. Called acting.
He says that's not true sometimes. He says Kelly knows. @@GoKU-xx2vg
Don't think he did. Reaction is so genuine
@@GoKU-xx2vg He may have known but the caller's delivery was blunt.
@@GoKU-xx2vg he explained on another episode he only sees the title in the moment. so he did know, but he knew like 30s beforehand
“My marriage wasn’t perfect or this wouldn’t have happened…”
Ok buddy.
Right?! Whatever helps him sleep at night.
This young lady just woke up from her dream and learned a serious life lesson the hard way. She realized that a man is not a plan, and that a man can leave her at any moment. She has to be able to survive on her own and she has decided to take steps to become more independent. Thank goodness she is young enough to recover from this. Best wishes to her.
I wouldn’t be able to stay married to him. My trust would be broken forever
I wonder how the father-in-law feels. I'd never allow that man at family gatherings. imagine opening Christmas presents with a loser who wrecked your marriage and your daughter's marriage.
Not just trust, but how on earth could you respect someone that did something like this?
@@BouncyBrown I was wondering the same thing. He really messed up this family
@@mgn1621 I wouldn’t be able to. Someone would have to keep him away from me for his safety
Exactly
I am praying for the wife! That she get strength to take out the trash!!!!!!!!!
How does one expect to get drunk, sleep with his MIL and still expect to have his marriage intact? 😂😂
She's going to stay and hate you for it! It's always going to an issue. You slept with her stepmom!!! That's just gross! You will sleep with ANYONE!!!
It’s stomach churning. 🤢
And probably already has.
I assume the step mom must be rather young too considering he mentioned one of the kids are from the step mom? Still a step mom is a step mom it will be very detrimental if her dad doesn't divorce her
@liyenong2017 the oldest she could be with young kids is 40s.. maybe he's into the whole mrs Robinson thing
Giving her time to breathe is RIGHT!!! They dont leave you alone to process the situation almost suffocating you. They want to make sure you dont leave them. Thank you for advising to give her space she can live with out him and she should be able to figure it out.
Is my marriage over? Yeah, I’d say lmao
Yess
😂😂😂😂😂
Usually I listen to the whole story before making a judgement. I’m gonna jump to conclusions this time and guess that he’s screwed it up beyond repair 💀
Your conclusion was correct
@@TCH534Time for bro to start calculating those support payments 😂
He's definitely an idiot for doing that and a bigger idiot for thinking he can save his marriage
Correct. And tried to justify it by saying that he didn't go all the way 🙃
I usually wait till I at least get halfway through as well but this time my answer is ready to go the second I read the headline. Yes. The answer is yes. Your marriage is over, and if not, it should be for your wife's sake!
I’m from the UK, this advice is great. On a few occasions the caller tried to describe the incident to make the situation better but he was stopped. The advice given was blunt and thorough, and a reasonable approach. It’s not what the called wanted to hear.
Couples therapy isn’t great
Couples therapy is fine. But there’s no coming back from “I slept with her step-mom” like they ruined the entire family with that one
“I didn’t fully sleep with her mom.”
Me: My brother in Christ…🤦🏽♀️
Also it is NOT her mom. A step mother is not the same as a mother. It is horrible and disgusting all the same.
Like SIR
It was only the tip😂
The IMMATURITY is sickening ‼️
I wanted to know what he meant by that.
the way he described the lead-up to the cheating incident is like a generic porno intro... went to wake up my step-mommy-in-law and her top fell off, whoopsie! he can't be serious lol
Probably watches too much porn that’s why he had no brain 🧠 or common sense
😂 💯
That may be what it was, literally, acting out some porn scenario that turns him on. Dude sounds like a menace for any relationship.
lol AMenace !!
No remorse, no integrity, no boundaries. Praying for the wife. She needs to leave.
Could you imagine what her self esteem is right now. I hope she can recover from this.
I cnt even imagine 😢
I’m glad Dr. Delony brought up the “fawn” response. I feel like it doesn’t get talked about and understood much.
What’s the fawn response?
@@susanlodgerelaxations5269The fawn response is a trauma response that involves people-pleasing behaviors to avoid conflict, appease an aggressor, and ensure safety. It's a coping mechanism that can develop from childhood trauma, such as abuse, and is often overlooked.
This is the first time I've heard of it.
@@yesenia3816 Great! Learning never ends! 👍
Thank you for this ❤
3:16 “all I can do is forgive myself” lord have mercy
SOMETIMES YOU CAN REBUILD A MARRIAGE. BUT, NOT IN THIS CASE THE MARRIAGE IS OVER. THIS IS SUCH BETRAYAL.
She hasn’t left yet because she can’t. She’s never worked and doesn’t have even a GED. If he were a decent man, he’d leave and let her still live there and pay for her housing until she can afford to leave.
Yes but you don't know if he offered to do that and she told him " No idk what I'm deciding yet."?
Be for real please. How much money do you think this kid has lmaooo
If he were a decent man he wouldn’t have cheated on her with her step mom lol- but I totally agree with you haha, he should def do that
He has to live as well
Why would he do that? It's his place.
Ladies, let this be a cautionary tale, NEVER make yourself completely dependent upon anyone! This young woman has terrible options now, in addition to being betrayed by both her husband and her "mother" in the worst possible way. Set yourself up for success early on and give yourself options when you need them.
Luckily she's still young and only has one child! She can still make something of herself and not depend on him, or any man for that matter!!
I pray she reads this comment. She left herself completely dependent upon this man and now she's trapped.
Yes!
She's getting her GED at least! It's a good positive start for her to move on.
Praying for that girl! 🙏💜
I always told my daughters to be able to take care of you before you can take care of another. They can and have. They're the best.
Sounds like he cares a lot more about how to get what he wants than about what he's done to his wife and daughter.
I think this illustrates that alcohol is not a good thing. The husband and step mother don't love the betrayed wife. They destroyed 2 families. I'm glad she's working toward obtaining the GED. She'll need to financially support herself and child in the future.
Alcohol is certainly not a good thing. I was blacked out drink once in my life and never again I don’t realize that traveling to altitude affected you so much. While I was drunk a man came up to me asking to hook up I was in a serious relationship and I screamed no and that I had a boyfriend so the alcohol didn’t make me do anything. These people are morally bankrupt.
I totally agree- alcohol impaired judgement and can lead to bad decisions. At the same time I think the husband definitely should not be allowed to use it as an excuse- plenty of people get drunk and don’t cheat. But yeah I absolutely agree with you
That is an excuse. They let themselveseve do what they wanted for sometime.
Why are we blaming alcohol?? I might be different from some but I think alcohol is a good thing. I enjoy a drink here and there and it’s nice. I guess as a whole has it caused more harm than good?? Probably- but for me I’m sticking with it 😜
Alcohol reveals who people really are! So if you don’t want the truth about yourself, don’t drink☝🏽
“I’m 23, about to be 24.”
Phew, I thought for a minute he was about to be 25. Glad he clarified.
😂😂😂
Reminds me of the Jennifer Lawrence movie where she says last year I was 29 and this year I'm 32 😂😂😂
He's 23 and a half. AND A HALF 😂
He’s in the wrong but he’s too young to be married.
There’s no hope if this was going on if he’s 33, 43 or 53
Sounds like his birthday is in a couple of weeks.
I feel like he really doesn’t want the marriage to work out. He’s trying to get John to justify him being ok to leave his wife he just hurt in the worst way possible. He was hoping John would say you’re young you need to go find yourself and he didn’t. John is holding him accountable and I love that.
Horrendous. The ultimate betrayal.
She’s strong. I wouldn’t be able to be in the same room with him after that
Or broken
It looks like she is trapped b/c she doesn’t have an education and may be financially dependent on him. I hope she breaks free from this loser!
He said the MIL abused his wife. She did not finish high school. The wife ‘s self worth has been destroyed way before but the MIL had those intentions. She is wicked.
Man, I'd be on the war path! and may the good lord keep me safe from lashing out!
Or, more likely, incredibly weak…
I would really like to hear an update from the wife. That poor woman's life will never be the same.
This one’s over before it even began.
There's always a line and that's been crossed!
This guy crossed the line with flying colors
This guy dancing on the line, to the left of the line, and to the right of the line before twerking back to center 😂
Crossed only? 😂
@@knowthyself8233 I was being polite lol
@@AnEclecticMind what about the step mom? she crossed the line as well.
“I didn’t fully sleep with her mom” doesn’t matter, still completely broke all trust and crossed boundaries.
How do you just sleep with your wife's mom?! Finish a bottle of tequila?! They all have alcohol problems. This can't just be the first time he has done something like this. On top of that, bro is 24! That's just gross as hell. And the stepmom has children around the age of him and his wife's daughter. WTH?!
Alcohol is used as an excuse to perform any shi**y behaviour without taking responsability of it.
The stepmoms kids are not his age. They are small
Bro, true. Also, wife drank 1/3 of a bottle of tequila the. Took the kids swimming. Super safe!!
I'm all for forgiveness but you simply can't build back trust after this. If this guy has ANY good in him at all, he would move out, pay the wife's rent for a year while she gets on her feet, and make it his whole life's mission to be there for the child, and support the wife from a very far distance.
Amen!
I haven't felt so disgusted listening to something in a long time. The boundary you have to cross to sleep with your partner's relative? I don't care if it's a stepmom, that's so beyond disgusting. The excuses he made, saying they got married too early, that he didn't "fully" sleep with the stepmom, that he told his wife and she didn't have to find out some other way, etc... he's so immature and she and her daughter deserve so much better. If this happened to me, I'd never be able to trust again.
Just sickening. Wife needs to divorce him immediately. Anyone who is willing to cheat so brazenly like this once has likely cheated before and will likely cheat again.
John's face when he said it. 😂😂😂😂 Sir please hang up and move on your life.
Facts, how do you even try to fix this ? You’re pretty much asking your wife to give up her family, her relationship with step mom is gone but her dad, her dad sure as hell is never gonna be able to sit at the same table as him.
Him and I had the same expression while drinking coffee. I would have been….”Next caller please”.
Cheating with any kind of family member is the worst form of betrayal.
Wife should take him to the cleaners in divorce and move on. The fact that he sighed and dragged his words when John said “no hugging, kissing etc” just groveling is so telling. Im not such a good person that I could forgive this or want to work through it, also the stepmom is fucking disgusting and has issues, who fucks their kids partners? Thats insane!
He’s 23 lol. Not sure what is there to clean
That us fxcking gross lol
Stop thinking with emotions and use your brain. He's still their childs father so "taking him to the cleaners" will probably affect the child. If you expect him to be an active and good figure to his child he's also gotta have a good quality of life and a good relationship with the mother as wel
@@ashfoyowa6689 They are poor white trash, there is nothing to take to the cleaners. Idk why people always think divorce means lots of money for one person.
They don’t have any money. She doesn’t even have a GED, they’re poor. 100%
The wife isn't going anywhere. Just like John said.....she is trapped. The most hopeful outcome here is that these two parents don't totally ruin their child.
Bingo.
Nah, the kids are ruined cause they will find out
Staying together for the kids sake makes it waaay worst cause now they have a messed up view about what relationships are and what crap they have to put up with
There are ways remove yourself and your children from a “trapped” situation like this. Unfortunately it’s Not a glamorous path. I had to leave my situation by going to a homeless shelter while I was 7 1/2 months pregnant and had my toddler on my
Hip. It helped me tremendously to get back in my feet. There are ways and resources to help women with children and even men who are in bad situations in life. It just a matter of if you’re actually ready to have a better life because the path to it is Not always pretty. This woman needs to get a job and get help with housing that way she can move on in life and do what’s best for her children. If she had the children there are plenty of resources for single mothers as well as single fathers
@@elettramia6380 I wouldn’t call it a glamorous path either. I would call it, ‘ripping up the ground from underneath your feet and starting over’. Nobody ever wants to do it. But it’s so much better once you’re on the other side.
No, she gotta leave. Talk to her friends; find a couch to sleep on.
This young man wasn't ready for what he had. The wife will never be the same ever again 😔
He won’t be able to look his FIL in the eye again, even if they were to stay married. Absolute betrayal.
and what about the step mom? she deserves shame as well.
Look him in the eye? We fighting after that
Yes. Thank you for remembering the father in law in this disgusting saga
@@harley8680she is a horrible woman!!!!
My next door neighbor wondering why I screamed what 😅 after I read that I'm like who tf sleeps with their wife stepmom 😂 not only did u cheat on ur wife her stepmom cheated on her dad!!! Like this is messed up on so many levels.
Hopefully she was hot enough to justify it
@@HOLDXSTEELyou can spam this all you want, it’s only justifiable to the degenerates of society. That’s you
and her relationship with her little siblings will suffer too because I imagine she won't be excited to see her step mom every chance she gets
@@natela_mk I was stuck on the fact that they could even do that I didn't even think of the siblings. Also how is he gonna say how do I save my marriage are u dumb 😂 u can't save that.
As soon as his wife gets her stuff together she’ll be gone.
I WOULD SAY BYE BYE HUBBY - FOREVER. Bye bye also to the step mom. They've been looking at each other and attracted to each other long before this happened. This isn't a spontaneous thing.
Agreed. It’s disgusting. Beyond. I couldn’t even listen to this.
Exactly
Smh honestly, she probably just caught him and he's been doing it for a while.
Agree!
He probably tapped multiple h_oez in the last year
If this BOY- he is in no way a man- was my son, the shame I would feel would almost choke me to death. My Lord, this poor girl has been PREYED on by him and her own stepmother. There is no repairing this marriage. And what do you want to bet that this boy subtly chipped away at this girl's self-esteem, causing her to not even feel worthy of getting a HS diploma. He trapped her, plain and simple. Psychopath behavior!
“I’ve been trying to forgive myself”. Not top priority here.
“I’m trying to forgive myself” MY GOD
Yeah 🤮
Its important. You must forgive yourself because God does forgive
Did the caller make up this story? He is so causal about this whole situation.
@@juleec25 for the wife’s sake I really hope he was trolling
Yeah I find it hard to believe - I'm not actually sure what he's wanting to achieve with this call?
Because he know he sucks as a human being and is hopeless
I didn’t hear it that way. I think he’s emotionally suppressing like a lot of people do when they have to uncomfortably face a big mistake they made.
😂that’s a 22 year old googling for a diagnostic “- Delony being a savage as always, and I’m here for it
He just wants his wife to move, forgive, forget be a happy little family again with once again, no regard of his wife and the time she needs. It’s all about him.
Narcissism
I know. Selfish prick
This is why women file for divorce. Guys don't see why they can't have a wife and stuff on the side, too. Only women have the integrity to have boundaries that include divorcing a man when he has betrayed her.
The wife is the smartest person in the room. She's squirreling what she needs pre-divorse. There is no rebuild.
Admit it. Who RAN to the comments - before watching the video 😂😂
My demands as the wife: “I get my GED, I get a college degree, NO SEX. Period. And by the way, DO NOT TOUCH ME. Then we can see if the marriage is salvageable.”
That's savage.
It’s calls like this that encourage me to die alone.
Dr. John “you don’t even know what that means” 🤣he’s disgusted
Guy just googled so pscyho garbage on the internet thinking he's Dr. Freud.
This guy sounds so nonchalant it's almost scary.
Like a child with no frontal lobe activity. 😂
He’s a psycho
This dude is psycho
*Sociopath behavior, not psychopath. Sociopaths lack morals, boundaries and empathy. Just big ol self-centered jerks. This guy isn't really remorseful, he just wants to keep his wife and kid because they make him look normal.
"i try to forgive myself"
"i did not fully slept with her"
"we are co-dependant"
"i mean.. She had past trauma with her step mom"
He got me sick