Yep and stories like this one, one is already too many. I did not learn anything from these type of stories. Plus complaining about it will not do nothing. Last I checked, actions still speaks louder than words. I would love to hear more empowering stories about how they over these type of obstacles and there is light at the of the tunnel.
Hai tau ua tsi tau es pheej hai ua dab tsi nawj tu niam tsev aws cas thaum niam txiv pom zoo kom koj nrauj koj tu txiv lawm cas ho tsi kam nrauj es ua kom tau kiag qhiap rau koj txiv koj cov nus cov neej tsa kom lawv paub tia txog txhij ib tug ntxhai khiav tuaj txog lawv lawm ces lub neej yeej yuav mus tsi txog twg lawm ntxov muab nrauj ntxov zoo no mas es tseem muab txoj niag kev chim lo ua pauj ua kom koj niag txiv khib2 koj no ntshe yuav tsi zoo ua qauv rau cov hlua kawm li os.
Peb cov neej tsa tiam 21 no ces yog police lawm xwb o. Cov laus hais ntau ces peb cov neej tsa tuaj muab lawv xauv tes xwb laid. Zag no tsis zoo li zag u lawm o ☺️🤣
Let’s support our sisters no matter what. Guys don’t understand the frustrations and our families will just put us down. We have to stop the gossiping. No matter how well we think our life is, one day we will need the support of another.
Peb poj niam yuav tau sib pab kom txoj cai uv txiv neej rau yam tsis zoo no hloov txhob muaj lawm. Tej kwv tij thiab neej tsa lo siv tib tug cwj pwm kom txhua tu poj niam uv txog hnub tuag, luag thiaj li tsis kam ntua tub thiab quab yuam cov ntxhais rov qab xwb, tsis kk kwv tij neej tsam yog lawv coj tsis ncaj. Toj ntej no peb poj niam thiaj li tsis mob2 siab lawm.
As adults, we made our own choices but also be ready for the consequences. Remember, the things that your spouse did or do to you is because you allowed.
True. I agree. 60% of our Hmong women won't survive separation or divorce because they're still depending on parent's decisions. Like that say, you can't beat them you join them. Or move on and face the consequences. No one says being a single parent is easy. But if others can do it, she certainly can too.
tus me viv ncaus aw...peb ces lub neej lwj sb ib yam li os lo vim yg hlub tej menyuam xb yg ua tau lo ua qhov tshiab mus kom yus txoj sia ntev xb nb kv yeej zoo ib yam kj thb tabsi ceev faj tsam kj mag lub txias nb mog zoo ces kavtsij nrauj mus xb laus hluas lo tsi matter nb mog
I like to know why these ladies always run back to their parents at their age? Don't they work? Are they not old enough? Did they asked their parent's permission to married their spouse? why need parents permission to leave someone? When you know that that is enough just leave or kick him out. Sounds like these people still have the stone age mentality.
It’s because they still respect their parents but I think when it gets to the point where they no longer care to help you and would rather have you go back and suffer more than you don’t need to respect your parents and their decisions for you anymore. Do what you must and what is best for you.
Sister, find your own happiness. My mom always told me that they will never take me back. I make an extra effort to ensure that I will never go back. If my life doesn't go well, i will be on my own. They care more about their reputation and don't to have a poj nrauj. Who cares about them, live your life. We need to stop this cycle
Ua cas nej cov viv ncaus ntawm nej ko es yuav ntshaw kom neej tsa hu nej mus noj mus haus ua luaj li na... thaum nyuaj siab tiag2 lawm twb noj tsis taus haus tsis taus li lawm los sav... cov neeg uas pheej ntshaw2 kom lwm tus hu mus noj mus haus, ntshai2 tsis muaj lub chaw tuag thiab thaum koj lub neej tsis work out lawm tiag2 es pheej vam lub maib yuav khiav rov los thawj neej tsa los yog thawj lwm tus xwb ces tuag mus zoo dua os. Koj nyuaj siab tsis tau txaus os.
Tus muam koj Niam txiv thaum koj mus hauv lawv lub neej lawm ces koj yuav ciaj yuav tuag los lawv tsis tu siab Moab mog vim koj tau 1 thooj los tsis yog koj khwv rau lawv lawm yog li koj tseem cia lawv qhia koj ua neej thiab tho kev rau koj ces koj kawg tuag thaum kawg thaum koj tuag lawm lawv mam tias paub li cia koj ua li koj ua no xwb es tseem hluas hluas ces yus thiaj yog tus khwv rau yus noj yeej tsis muaj neeg yuav pub koj noj li mog txhob cia lig rau koj mog ua 1 zaug neeg xwb tuag ces tag luag zoo siab mus nriav tus tshiab xwb mog
@Cindy Vang...well said! I agree with you 💯. No matter what happens or anyone else said. It's your life...self love and self confidence comes first in your life. All men lies. All the women out there learn to love yourself first. Good luck to you all.
Most Hmong people don’t help their daughters! They only care about saving their face. They don’t care about their daughters being abused at home! Daughters should learn to stand on their own!
Yog lm nb yus Qhua tu to g txhai tau kj muaj siab rau tu tom nb. qhov yu qhua tu tom txhai tau xav kom yu tu txiv ua kom zoo coj kom ncaj xwb mog ib tsoom txiv neej aw
Cov kev cai qub ces sib tsis tau lawm nawb. Ua ib lub neej nyob yuav tau nrhiav kev rau on leeg taug thiaj li Lwj saib. Niam Tais Yawm txiv, niam pog txiv Yawm los yuav tau cia lawv txiv lawm txiv ua lawv lub neej, txhob txwv vim tias yus tsis nrog luag nyob tsis nrog luag paub ghov tseeb ntawm nkawv lub neej.
She's complaining to the world and asking for things to change. No wonder her parents and relative keep telling her to go back to a loser. If I were her, my relatives only know when he's out of my life 100%. I don't need no one approval to kick a loser to the curb. Now she's staying with him for her own doom.
Agree. She's basically saying she's stuck in this marriage and just wants the world to know it sucks to be a Hmong woman. As if everyone don't know already.
Laus tham li loj na! Do things for yourself, why you keep waiting for anyone to support you? Your not that serious to leave, if you are you would of left, stop using traditional crap for excuses this CENTURY!
Morning from California We women tsis uv txiv, Peb uv Neej tsa xwb. Yog kuv tus txiv ua npaum no lawm... kuv tsis yuav lawm. Kuv lub neej can’t be poor like this. I married him to protect and work hard in our life. If he’s gonna be like this husband. Sorry but I can’t marry him. I’ll be that baddie 🥺
when i left my ex, i went straight to my new apartment. forget relying on relatives. when side of each family question, i ask them who's paying my bills. they have issue, take me to court. this is America!
Ib tsoom me niam tais yawm txiv ib tsoom me txiv neej uas ib los ob los nim khav lub nyuag meej mom khav lub nyuag mov txwv xwb hais tau ntxim ntxub thiab npau tawg kawg mloog tag tshav siab ob peb puas yog kuv ce xum tuag qhov muag tsi pom pob ntseg tsi hnov zoo dua
I agree with this lady. Your smart for realizing this now. You’ll be a good example for your children so they won’t have the same thinking as the OGs now. I will be your supporter 100%_ for the lady in this story.
This is why I say talk it out, release your stress and troubles inside your heart. Tell me if you can’t tell anyone else. I’m here, I’ll listen to you. Never judge others or why they talk about their problems out to you or the World,
That's is sooo true I felt this too, txhob tag kev cia siab yus nyob tsi tau lub neej lwj siab lawm ces tsi kkk txog neej tsa li lawm xwb yus nrauj yus xwb ces yus thiaj kaj siab xwb nawb hlub yus tus kheej tso.
Niam ntsuab teev kuv mloog koj cov dab neeg txhua zaj cov zoo li cas los muaj tag kuv muaj ib zam thiab kuv xav kom koj hais thiab yuav ua li cas kuv thiaj li hu tau koj kuv nyob nplog teb
Tus niam tsev 3 niam 3 txiv lawv ua tsis tau os mog, vim lawv tseem yog 75 os txhob tu siab, 3 mam ua kom tsis tau 100% los kom tau 80% rau 3 cov ntxhais os mog.
niam ntsuab teev e yog kuv nyob tim me ka ce kuv yeej hloov siab lawm thiab o tab si nyob tim nplog teb no e ua tsi tau li ca tseem niaj hnub uv o nyob me ka zoo fwv tsam ce kav tsij tham hlua nraug pauj peb nyob lo tsua nawb
Cov txiv neej uas nws nyiam nws qhov hobby tshaj nws tus pojniam thiab cov menyuam lawm...nws yuav tsum mus nrog tej ntawd pw thaum nws tawv, nws yuav tsum mus kom tej ntawd ua rau nws noj. Tsis tshob los tab kaum nws tus pojniam thiab ua burden rau tus pojniam lawm. Yug los ua ib tug niam tsev Hmoob mas txim nyem siab ntsws tshaj vim yus yuav tau sib zog tshaj 100% rau lub neej.
Women need to support each other. Hmoob phem, cob tub, tsim ntxhais, dhiav cai txhawb cov tub kom phem tshaj plaws, Yog tus txiv neej xwb ces txawm yog kiag yus txiv yus cov neej tsab los lawm phem ib yam ces lawm sib txhawb tsim cov ntxhais cov niam. Tiam no poj niam tsis lam uv cov txiv liam lawm os. Cov Laus tej lus qhia ces yog raum thiab li yuav tau, lawv kiag twb yuav tsis tau lawv cov lus. Peb cov pojniam Vivcaus Txhob raum raum, tiam no yus kwv tau yus noj lawm.
tu me viv ncau ntshai yog koj txiv thiab koj niam thiab tag nrho rau koj cov niag neej tsa ko noj hlwb npua ntau dhau lawm es thiaj hai tau cov lu li ko rau koj xwb os yog lwm cov neej tsa es tsi noj hlwb npua ntshai yuav tsi zoo li ko .
Nej nco ntsoov tias cov txiv tso qaib sib ncaws, mas lawv ua tau 1 co nqaij qab qab nej txhob cia siab tias nej cov niam tub yuav tau saj, nws tsua ua rau nws cov qaib xwb.
Txiv tso qaib sib ncaws, txiv quav liab, txiv quav phaib, txiv ncaws npas, txiv tham hluas nkauj, kuv ntshib tag nrho paub zoo li cas os, tus niam tsev koj tus tseem yog 1 tug no xwb, kuv tus ces ua tag nrho cov kuv hias no os, qhov tsis ua ces yog hlub poj niam thiab khwv nyiaj xwb os, dhuav tshaj plaws.
Sister listen to them but know your self take care of you first don't listen every thing me i don't care what my parents says if i know that i can't no longer take it
We are in a country with many resources. If you tried everything your marriage is still falling apart then it's time to leave. You don't need anyone's permission to leave the marriage. Stand up for yourself.
Qhov teeb meem loj tshaj hauv 3 cov poj niam hmong lub neej lwj siab g paub xaus ces vim 3 g strong enough li luag lwm haiv poj niam luag ua tuag tam tau txoj kev ncaj ncees 6 next generation women poj niam hmong es lawv cov txiv muab qhov hem tuag g muaj txij nkawm ces all mus Blas teb no 3 twb ntshai lawm es 3 yuav ua cas nawv wakeup hmong wmen
Tus viv ncaus aw nej twb yog cov paub lus na es ua cas pheej yuav mus hais rau niam rau txiv ua dab tsi na tsis yog lawv lub neej na kuv li kuv yeej tsis hais rau neej tsa li kuv cia li mus nrauj nram xam xwb txhua yam nyob ntawm yus tus kheej xwb txhob mus thawj neej tsa thiab os yus yuav tsum ua taus niam nawj
If you see a man physically abuse his wife, you call the police. If you see men cruelty to animals, call the police. Lub neej mus tsi taus, you are not a child anymore. Take actions. Your parents and family can only help you when you are willing to help yourself. For me, I married my husband and I will divorce him myself when it comes to that point of my life. Don't depend on anyone to help you when they don't know your situation.
Tsis hais poj niam los yog txiv neej os tus ntxhais yog nws coj tus cwj pwm li no ces nws yeej tsis hlub nej cov niam tub ib tug twg li lawm os. Thiab tsis tas li coj li ntawm no ces yog kiag tus neeg haus yeeb los yog quav tas mab tim thaib thiab nplog uas tua taus neeg tuag pawg lug ntag , nws yeej tsis hlub nej cov niam tub nrog koj cov neej tsa ib tug hlo li Nws cov kwv tij thiab niam txiv tom no los nws yeej tsis hlub ib tug twg li , ua cas kuv hais li no nws tsis muaj los nws tseem rov los dag nws cov neeg tej nyiaj coj must pov tseg li no ua puas yog nws hlub mas . Tus neeg coj li no yuav los yeej tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj li lawm os ,. Ua li tej laus hais tus neeg no yeej tuag lawm tsis tau tu siav tsis tau lwj xwb os.
Why are you here complaining about how horrible your husband when you decide to stay and put up with him. And then you complain about how nobody supports you or help you!! You can’t make a life decision by yourself to leave a cheating and gambling husband. You definitely have no confidence and love for yourself. Now you say your going to make him jealous, for what so he can laugh at you, you deserve it then.
We women have to stand up on our two feet, STOP go to ask your parents for advice on divorcing your cheating and abusing husband, since you are working and doing everything in the marriage even though he is there or not. Your parents and brothers and relatives DO NOT care about you, sister, Hmoob people just care about their stupid name. Sister, if I have a life like yours, I would have divorced him long time ago and I would not go to my parents and relatives. You should not care if your relatives doesn't invite you to any celebrations because they are not your relatives if they don't suppose you. Hmoob people have so many things to change to the world.
Lady it’s your bad. You can’t even stand up for your own happiness. Why are you running to your parents, go and leave and be on your own. If that was me I’m out good bye. Rent my own place and shut out the negative people. Why wait til you find someone, you can live to find your own happiness. It doesn’t depend on a man. I’m done.
Koj zaj no ces zoo kiag li kuv lub neej thiab os tus viv ncaus aw
Koj zaj neej neeg zoo tshaj plaws li os
Lawv aw cov niag txiv qua qaib thiab tham hluas nkauj ces dhua siab tshaj plawm li os
So glad my husband is not any of those kind of men.
Zaj dab neeg no mloog mas meem ntxom dhau lawm os
May, you have the right to deny any story that is similar to another one. We, as the listener don't want to listen to the same kind of story.
Agreed lol
Yep and stories like this one, one is already too many. I did not learn anything from these type of stories. Plus complaining about it will not do nothing. Last I checked, actions still speaks louder than words. I would love to hear more empowering stories about how they over these type of obstacles and there is light at the of the tunnel.
Hai tau ua tsi tau es pheej hai ua dab tsi nawj tu niam tsev aws cas thaum niam txiv pom zoo kom koj nrauj koj tu txiv lawm cas ho tsi kam nrauj es ua kom tau kiag qhiap
rau koj txiv koj cov nus cov neej tsa kom lawv paub tia txog txhij ib tug ntxhai khiav tuaj txog lawv lawm ces lub neej yeej yuav mus tsi txog twg lawm ntxov muab nrauj ntxov zoo no mas es tseem muab txoj niag kev chim lo ua pauj ua kom koj niag txiv khib2 koj no ntshe yuav tsi zoo ua qauv rau cov hlua kawm li os.
We need love and sad story but
there are more cheating stories coming😢 why???
Tam sis no pes tsis k neeg tsa lawm os.. hlub tus uas hlub yus xwb.. txiv Los tsis need. Neeg tsa los tsis qlua TSE.. li no zoo Dua.
Peb cov neej tsa tiam 21 no ces yog police lawm xwb o. Cov laus hais ntau ces peb cov neej tsa tuaj muab lawv xauv tes xwb laid. Zag no tsis zoo li zag u lawm o ☺️🤣
Lub neej nyob mekas yooj yim rau cov ntxhsis hloov laem nawb, nyob tsi taus kawg ncaws tasm mog
kuv tab tom ntsib li koj hais kiag tu siab heev..kuv ces tu sia nrho rau kuv niam kuv txiv lawvlawm
Koj txiv hais yog lawm txiv neej ces txawv tsis deb nawb mog tsuav nws tsis txhob ua dhau cai xwb mad
Yog yog lm yog lm nb.zoo tshaj plaw zoo tiag
Let’s support our sisters no matter what. Guys don’t understand the frustrations and our families will just put us down. We have to stop the gossiping. No matter how well we think our life is, one day we will need the support of another.
Kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no zoo heev li raug kuv lub neej tiag tiag li o niam laus tsuab teev aws
Kuv muaj ib lub neej ntxim nyiam siab heev li o xav xa rau koj phiaj kawg tshe yuav ntev os yog piav kuv lub neej na
Hais tau zoo tshaj plawg li
Vim rau qhov txiv neej siab phem ib yam ces txhua lub neej yg poob rau qhov liam ces thiaj zoo ib yam xb
Tu me viv ncaus aw
Koj zaj no ma yog tshaj plaw li os.
Koj ma yog tshaj plaw li os mog.
Old people never understand
Ntshav siab tiag2 li os mloog cov neej neeg txiv quav qaib sib ncaw ...😠😠
Yog koj yog neeg zoo lawm ces koj tsis txhob nplaj lub yuav ua kom mob luag nawb yog ua kom khib kv ces yog kv ced nrauj kj li nawb
Only older generations are like this...ALL about their dumb Reputation!!! We as Women do not need to tolerate BS...Life is too short!
Lub neej tau tus txiv quav qaib ces yeej tsis nrog luag muaj nyiaj li os
Koj. Cov neej tsa zoo li kuv thb os ku lub neej tu siab kawg tab sis ku ua tsi tau li cas
Kj hais tshaj li o niam laus
Peb poj niam yuav tau sib pab kom txoj cai uv txiv neej rau yam tsis zoo no hloov txhob muaj lawm.
Tej kwv tij thiab neej tsa lo siv tib tug cwj pwm kom txhua tu poj niam uv txog hnub tuag, luag thiaj li tsis kam ntua tub thiab quab yuam cov ntxhais rov qab xwb, tsis kk kwv tij neej tsam yog lawv coj tsis ncaj. Toj ntej no peb poj niam thiaj li tsis mob2 siab lawm.
Txoj kev hlub sib yuam tsis tau . Txoj kev hlub yuav yog ob leeg yuav tsum txau siab sib hlub thiaj muaj nuj nqi thiab lub ntuj thiaj li tshav thiab lub ntiaj teb thiaj li kaj
Nyob zoo os zoo mloog kawg li os kuv nyiam mloog heev li os
Txiv neej hmoob tus cwj fwm yeej hloov tsi tau os
Peb muaj ib co poj niam ces uv2 tuag kus lawm mas, peb cov me niam tsev aw.... peb yuav tau txiav txim siab peb tus kheej lawm xwb peb thiaj li tsis tuag os. Txhob mus mloog2 cov laus hais thiab
kuv tus lo zoo li thiab
As adults, we made our own choices but also be ready for the consequences. Remember, the things that your spouse did or do to you is because you allowed.
True. I agree. 60% of our Hmong women won't survive separation or divorce because they're still depending on parent's decisions. Like that say, you can't beat them you join them. Or move on and face the consequences. No one says being a single parent is easy. But if others can do it, she certainly can too.
That's what I always say. By staying with a cheating loser, you're giving him permission to cheat and allowing him to treat you like crap.
It's not too late to leave if you decide to stay single and work hard for your kids. AND YES, PLEASE MORE SCARY STORIES. YOU'RE THE BEST AT IT.
tus me viv ncaus aw...peb ces lub neej lwj sb ib yam li os lo vim yg hlub tej menyuam xb yg ua tau lo ua qhov tshiab mus kom yus txoj sia ntev xb nb kv yeej zoo ib yam kj thb tabsi ceev faj tsam kj mag lub txias nb mog zoo ces kavtsij nrauj mus xb laus hluas lo tsi matter nb mog
This story is so stupid, she allowed her man and her parents to treat her like that.
Hmong women like her are the reason why we still have young Hmong women making unwise relationship choices. They need to set a better example.
Kav lia os mog me niam lau cov txiv dev no yog g tuag ce yeej g tag mog kv lo lwj siab ib yam thiab os
I like to know why these ladies always run back to their parents at their age? Don't they work? Are they not old enough? Did they asked their parent's permission to married their spouse? why need parents permission to leave someone? When you know that that is enough just leave or kick him out. Sounds like these people still have the stone age mentality.
Couldn’t agree more!!!
It’s because they still respect their parents but I think when it gets to the point where they no longer care to help you and would rather have you go back and suffer more than you don’t need to respect your parents and their decisions for you anymore. Do what you must and what is best for you.
Nyob teb chaws no niam thiab txiv pab tsi tau yus lub neej nce ib qib na
Sister, find your own happiness. My mom always told me that they will never take me back. I make an extra effort to ensure that I will never go back. If my life doesn't go well, i will be on my own. They care more about their reputation and don't to have a poj nrauj. Who cares about them, live your life. We need to stop this cycle
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If you hit the lottery your parent's be knocking your and asking for money's 🤣😂😂😂. Them be like I love you long time my beautiful $$$ daughter 🤣🤣🤣
Ua cas nej cov viv ncaus ntawm nej ko es yuav ntshaw kom neej tsa hu nej mus noj mus haus ua luaj li na... thaum nyuaj siab tiag2 lawm twb noj tsis taus haus tsis taus li lawm los sav... cov neeg uas pheej ntshaw2 kom lwm tus hu mus noj mus haus, ntshai2 tsis muaj lub chaw tuag thiab thaum koj lub neej tsis work out lawm tiag2 es pheej vam lub maib yuav khiav rov los thawj neej tsa los yog thawj lwm tus xwb ces tuag mus zoo dua os. Koj nyuaj siab tsis tau txaus os.
This is typical Hmong men. Don’t worried ladies, after these Hmong generation dies out, the new generations will be different.
Kv xav hnov tus txiv sab nawb peb txiv neej yog neeg tuav niam txiv lub koob npe tuav meej mom xav nrog luag muaj koob npe muaj zoo vaj tsev tsheb caij nawb twv txiaj los yeej muaj limeat sav
Tus muam koj Niam txiv thaum koj mus hauv lawv lub neej lawm ces koj yuav ciaj yuav tuag los lawv tsis tu siab Moab mog vim koj tau 1 thooj los tsis yog koj khwv rau lawv lawm yog li koj tseem cia lawv qhia koj ua neej thiab tho kev rau koj ces koj kawg tuag thaum kawg thaum koj tuag lawm lawv mam tias paub li cia koj ua li koj ua no xwb es tseem hluas hluas ces yus thiaj yog tus khwv rau yus noj yeej tsis muaj neeg yuav pub koj noj li mog txhob cia lig rau koj mog ua 1 zaug neeg xwb tuag ces tag luag zoo siab mus nriav tus tshiab xwb mog
@Cindy Vang...well said! I agree with you 💯. No matter what happens or anyone else said. It's your life...self love and self confidence comes first in your life. All men lies. All the women out there learn to love yourself first. Good luck to you all.
I feel tus niam tsev no txoj kev nyuab siab thiab kev chim siab just go head and love yourself and take care yourself and do what make you happy xwb
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Please add some scary stories May. I believe that by adding a mixture of different kind of stories will help your channel improve much better.
@Arch Angel ทูิ
add some funeral stuff in them as well
Peb nyob meka teb lawm. Peb tsi need neej tsa hais hais ceem2 peb lawm. Mloog tsua mloog 3 zaug xwb. Dhau li ces nrauj ntawm kev lawm xwb. Yus txom nyem neej tsa tsi pab yus. Yus pab yus tus kheej xwb
Most Hmong people don’t help their daughters! They only care about saving their face. They don’t care about their daughters being abused at home! Daughters should learn to stand on their own!
Cas koj yuav hais raug tib neeg lub neej ua luaj li os
Yog lm nb yus Qhua tu to g txhai tau kj muaj siab rau tu tom nb. qhov yu qhua tu tom txhai tau xav kom yu tu txiv ua kom zoo coj kom ncaj xwb mog ib tsoom txiv neej aw
Cov kev cai qub ces sib tsis tau lawm nawb. Ua ib lub neej nyob yuav tau nrhiav kev rau on leeg taug thiaj li Lwj saib. Niam Tais Yawm txiv, niam pog txiv Yawm los yuav tau cia lawv txiv lawm txiv ua lawv lub neej, txhob txwv vim tias yus tsis nrog luag nyob tsis nrog luag paub ghov tseeb ntawm nkawv lub neej.
Cov txiv neej ua nyiam qaib sib ncaw ce ua neej nrog lwj siab tiag2 ua lub neej tsis vam meej nyob tsev ce kom qaib tsheej hnub yus ua tau mov twb tsis khoom nrog yus noj koj npaj mus ib txoj hauj lwm ce luag twb rov lo lawm nw twb tsis tau sawv kev chim siab dhuav siab tiag2
This is not a story. Only venting. If u don’t like it change for yourself
She's complaining to the world and asking for things to change. No wonder her parents and relative keep telling her to go back to a loser. If I were her, my relatives only know when he's out of my life 100%. I don't need no one approval to kick a loser to the curb. Now she's staying with him for her own doom.
Agree. She's basically saying she's stuck in this marriage and just wants the world to know it sucks to be a Hmong woman. As if everyone don't know already.
@@MissPeachie staying with a loser only make her a bigger loser. Sorry not sorry.
Laus tham li loj na! Do things for yourself, why you keep waiting for anyone to support you? Your not that serious to leave, if you are you would of left, stop using traditional crap for excuses this CENTURY!
Xav tia ntshe teb chaw mekas ces tsuas muaj txiv neej uv poj niam xwb no.....cas tseem muaj li no thb
Kaj tsij tuag zoo dua yog koj tus txiv nyiam qaib xwb os.
Kuv ce zoo li txoj neej neeg no kiag ntag nw mas tseem ua tau kom khib kuv cia twb ua tsi tau li os
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We women tsis uv txiv, Peb uv Neej tsa xwb. Yog kuv tus txiv ua npaum no lawm... kuv tsis yuav lawm. Kuv lub neej can’t be poor like this.
I married him to protect and work hard in our life. If he’s gonna be like this husband. Sorry but I can’t marry him. I’ll be that baddie 🥺
when i left my ex, i went straight to my new apartment. forget relying on relatives. when side of each family question, i ask them who's paying my bills. they have issue, take me to court. this is America!
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I had been in your shoes sister. I feel your pain and frustration about being oppressed by your family.
Ib tsoom me niam tais yawm txiv ib tsoom me txiv neej uas ib los ob los nim khav lub nyuag meej mom khav lub nyuag mov txwv xwb hais tau ntxim ntxub thiab npau tawg kawg mloog tag tshav siab ob peb puas yog kuv ce xum tuag qhov muag tsi pom pob ntseg tsi hnov zoo dua
I agree with this lady. Your smart for realizing this now. You’ll be a good example for your children so they won’t have the same thinking as the OGs now. I will be your supporter 100%_ for the lady in this story.
No need to go to your family or his family. File divorce and go to the court instead.
Yog kawg li o.
Kuv ces nrauj , twb nrauj lawm ib tug hos kuv nas.
Must be hmoob qhov tsua oy, lawj jej muag no os, nyob heavy land, ride heavy car, fav, heavy nceb lawj2222
Qhov zoo ces cov poj niam yuav tau hloov pauv. Cov txiv neej twb muaj poj niam me nyuam lawm tseem pheej ua si twv txiaj yuam pov, quav qaib sib ncaws quav game, quav beer quav cawv, quav phooj ywg ua lom vab vab thiab ua hluas yuav niam yau ces cov poj niam yuav tau muab tshwj tseg cia lawv nyob single nrog nws qhov uas nws nyiam xwb. Txhob yuav lawv lawm thaum lawv ua neeg seem coob tauj coob tuaj tsis muaj poj niam kam yuav lawv lawm lawv thiaj li paub. Yog cov poj niam ua kom tau li no ces poj niam yuav tsis ntsib kev nyuaj siab lawm.
Koj yog ib tug poj niam ruam tsis muaj peev xwm kiag li. Neej tsa es luag nim yuav zoo hais tias kom koj nrauj nas luag tsua muaj txhawb xwb tiamsi yog yus uv tsis tau lawm ces yus nrauj yus xwb es pheej yuav mus khaub zig neej tsa tas li. Koj yeej tseem ntshaw nws khuv xim nws ces nyob twj ywm tsam ho yuam kev ces tigvtsis tau rov qab.
Kuv xav li koj thiab. Cov pojniam pheej mus neej tsa ces yog neejtsa muab nrauj kiag. Nws rov mus qhia tus txiv tias, kuv twb tsi xav nrauj. Tiamsis kuv niam kuv txiv pheej kom nrauj.
Koj hais tus poj yeem tsis muaj peem xwm nws thiab li ua neej nyuam siab zoo
tus viv ncaus teb chaws tsi txhob k txog neej tsa lawm os cov neej tsa no tsi musj nuj nqi dab tsi li os kav tsij ua li yus lub siab nyiam xwb os
If you don't love him, if you don't care about him anymore, then why do you still want to make him jealous?
She is crazy
Maybe bc she still love him and wants his attention... she’s probably one of those psycho paths...
This is why I say talk it out, release your stress and troubles inside your heart. Tell me if you can’t tell anyone else. I’m here, I’ll listen to you.
Never judge others or why they talk about their problems out to you or the World,
That's is sooo true I felt this too, txhob tag kev cia siab yus nyob tsi tau lub neej lwj siab lawm ces tsi kkk txog neej tsa li lawm xwb yus nrauj yus xwb ces yus thiaj kaj siab xwb nawb hlub yus tus kheej tso.
Niam ntsuab teev kuv mloog koj cov dab neeg txhua zaj cov zoo li cas los muaj tag kuv muaj ib zam thiab kuv xav kom koj hais thiab yuav ua li cas kuv thiaj li hu tau koj kuv nyob nplog teb
So true, they do feed their chicken better then family
Uv tiag tuag tiag2 li hos yog tuag kiag mas zoo yog caij laub mas tseem nyuaj tshaj thiab hos
nyob nplog teb ce lua ts xav koom txaj nrog koj lo koj yeej yuav tau uv tham tsi tau hlua nraug li o
Tus niam tsev 3 niam 3 txiv lawv ua tsis tau os mog, vim lawv tseem yog 75 os txhob tu siab, 3 mam ua kom tsis tau 100% los kom tau 80% rau 3 cov ntxhais os mog.
Niam laus yog tias hais ntau zau tsis tau lawm ces cia tuam txhob thiab hlau mam hais lawm xwb os😀😃😀😃
niam ntsuab teev e yog kuv nyob tim me ka ce kuv yeej hloov siab lawm thiab o tab si nyob tim nplog teb no e ua tsi tau li ca tseem niaj hnub uv o nyob me ka zoo fwv tsam ce kav tsij tham hlua nraug pauj peb nyob lo tsua nawb
Tus niam tsev aw txob tuag nawb cas tsis nrauj tham tseem hluas os neej tsa koj mloog lis tsuas mloog 1 zaug xwb nawb yog koj nrauj kiag lawm neej tsa yeej hlub koj kawg vim yog neej tsa tsis zoo hais li lus nrauj xwb koj nrauj kiag yeej muaj txiv yuav koj hlub koj kawg tsis tas li nej cov poj niam mas nej muab uv dhau lawm xav kiag tias lub neej tsis txog twg ces tso tseg xwb nawb lub neej thiaj li tsis tau lig
Nej cov Hmoob nov lam nyob Tebchaws vammeej xwb. Hlwb twb tsis vammeej li. Xiam tiam tiag tiag.
Cov txiv neej uas nws nyiam nws qhov hobby tshaj nws tus pojniam thiab cov menyuam lawm...nws yuav tsum mus nrog tej ntawd pw thaum nws tawv, nws yuav tsum mus kom tej ntawd ua rau nws noj. Tsis tshob los tab kaum nws tus pojniam thiab ua burden rau tus pojniam lawm. Yug los ua ib tug niam tsev Hmoob mas txim nyem siab ntsws tshaj vim yus yuav tau sib zog tshaj 100% rau lub neej.
kV lub neej zoo kos kiag.kv muaj 💯 muaj 1000 kv twb hai g tau qhia g tau rau leej twg.ua tsaug ua tsaug zoo siab tau hnov
Women need to support each other. Hmoob phem, cob tub, tsim ntxhais, dhiav cai txhawb cov tub kom phem tshaj plaws, Yog tus txiv neej xwb ces txawm yog kiag yus txiv yus cov neej tsab los lawm phem ib yam ces lawm sib txhawb tsim cov ntxhais cov niam. Tiam no poj niam tsis lam uv cov txiv liam lawm os. Cov Laus tej lus qhia ces yog raum thiab li yuav tau, lawv kiag twb yuav tsis tau lawv cov lus. Peb cov pojniam Vivcaus Txhob raum raum, tiam no yus kwv tau yus noj lawm.
tu me viv ncau ntshai yog koj txiv thiab koj niam thiab tag nrho rau koj cov niag neej tsa ko noj hlwb npua ntau dhau lawm es thiaj hai tau cov lu li ko rau koj xwb os yog lwm cov neej tsa es tsi noj hlwb npua ntshai yuav tsi zoo li ko .
Nej nco ntsoov tias cov txiv tso qaib sib ncaws, mas lawv ua tau 1 co nqaij qab qab nej txhob cia siab tias nej cov niam tub yuav tau saj, nws tsua ua rau nws cov qaib xwb.
Kuv ces zoo tub yam li koj hais ko tshiab tiag lm xwb
Txiv tso qaib sib ncaws, txiv quav liab, txiv quav phaib, txiv ncaws npas, txiv tham hluas nkauj, kuv ntshib tag nrho paub zoo li cas os, tus niam tsev koj tus tseem yog 1 tug no xwb, kuv tus ces ua tag nrho cov kuv hias no os, qhov tsis ua ces yog hlub poj niam thiab khwv nyiaj xwb os, dhuav tshaj plaws.
This the 21st century...let it go...and go live by yourself...
Tsis Ua li cas hlo niam tsev hmoob Yaj ( Minnesota)
Sister listen to them but know your self take care of you first don't listen every thing me i don't care what my parents says if i know that i can't no longer take it
Niam Ntsuab Teev koj txhob hais mus hais los cov lus qub xwb mas piav lub tseem ntsiab xwb koj cov dab neeg thiaj tsis zoo ib yam mas, ib lub ntsiab lus xwb piav mus piav los ces mloog dhuav dhuav os.. Yuav tau kho qhov nov thiaj mloog tau tsis meem txom os
We are in a country with many resources. If you tried everything your marriage is still falling apart then it's time to leave. You don't need anyone's permission to leave the marriage. Stand up for yourself.
Qhov teeb meem loj tshaj hauv 3 cov poj niam hmong lub neej lwj siab g paub xaus ces vim 3 g strong enough li luag lwm haiv poj niam luag ua tuag tam tau txoj kev ncaj ncees 6 next generation women poj niam hmong es lawv cov txiv muab qhov hem tuag g muaj txij nkawm ces all mus Blas teb no 3 twb ntshai lawm es 3 yuav ua cas nawv wakeup hmong wmen
Txiv xuab nrauj, poj niam xuab nrauj nqa ntawv nram court cov los fill ces divorce xwb no need any permission from parents this is Amelika Amen
It doesn't matter you can still leave. You don't need to find a boyfriend first. Sorry but not sorry because you still can't leave.
Niam laus ku xav xa kuv kuv neej tuaj rau koj thb os es yuav li cas o
Tus viv ncaus aw nej twb yog cov paub lus na es ua cas pheej yuav mus hais rau niam rau txiv ua dab tsi na tsis yog lawv lub neej na kuv li kuv yeej tsis hais rau neej tsa li kuv cia li mus nrauj nram xam xwb txhua yam nyob ntawm yus tus kheej xwb txhob mus thawj neej tsa thiab os yus yuav tsum ua taus niam nawj
If you see a man physically abuse his wife, you call the police. If you see men cruelty to animals, call the police.
Lub neej mus tsi taus, you are not a child anymore. Take actions. Your parents and family can only help you when you are willing to help yourself. For me, I married my husband and I will divorce him myself when it comes to that point of my life. Don't depend on anyone to help you when they don't know your situation.
Tsis hais poj niam los yog txiv neej os tus ntxhais yog nws coj tus cwj pwm li no ces nws yeej tsis hlub nej cov niam tub ib tug twg li lawm os.
Thiab tsis tas li coj li ntawm no ces yog kiag tus neeg haus yeeb los yog quav tas mab tim thaib thiab nplog uas tua taus neeg tuag pawg lug ntag , nws yeej tsis hlub nej cov niam tub nrog koj cov neej tsa ib tug hlo li
Nws cov kwv tij thiab niam txiv tom no los nws yeej tsis hlub ib tug twg li , ua cas kuv hais li no nws tsis muaj los nws tseem rov los dag nws cov neeg tej nyiaj coj must pov tseg li no ua puas yog nws hlub mas .
Tus neeg coj li no yuav los yeej tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj li lawm os ,. Ua li tej laus hais tus neeg no yeej tuag lawm tsis tau tu siav tsis tau lwj xwb os.
Why are you here complaining about how horrible your husband when you decide to stay and put up with him. And then you complain about how nobody supports you or help you!! You can’t make a life decision by yourself to leave a cheating and gambling husband. You definitely have no confidence and love for yourself. Now you say your going to make him jealous, for what so he can laugh at you, you deserve it then.
We women have to stand up on our two feet, STOP go to ask your parents for advice on divorcing your cheating and abusing husband, since you are working and doing everything in the marriage even though he is there or not. Your parents and brothers and relatives DO NOT care about you, sister, Hmoob people just care about their stupid name. Sister, if I have a life like yours, I would have divorced him long time ago and I would not go to my parents and relatives. You should not care if your relatives doesn't invite you to any celebrations because they are not your relatives if they don't suppose you. Hmoob people have so many things to change to the world.
Lady it’s your bad. You can’t even stand up for your own happiness. Why are you running to your parents, go and leave and be on your own. If that was me I’m out good bye. Rent my own place and shut out the negative people. Why wait til you find someone, you can live to find your own happiness. It doesn’t depend on a man. I’m done.