It use to be a man's world. Now it's a woman's world and without the ladies, there is no future. This is a good story with a happy ending. As a hmong man, I've learned to respect my wife, love her children along with mines. I love the boys and girls all the same and I don't value one gender over the other. Im glad that you have found love in your children and that they love you dearly. Take care
I hate hearing these type of stories so much. Not because I don't like them but because it's so painful hearing how much our hmong daughters suffered. Imagine growing up, believing all your life that you are worthless because you were born a girl. Which is a dumb reason. Tu siab kawg li os. Thov peb generation no hloov nawb mog!
Tus niam tsev, koj mas muaj hmoo tshaj, vim koj pab ntxhais mus yuav tau cov vauv tsheej2 haj xwb. Nrog koj zoo siab mog. Xav kom peb muaj hmoo li koj thiab os mog...
Peb hmoob lub siab ib txwm yeej me me tsis hlub cov ntxhais kiag! Peb tuaj nyob mekas lawm es tsam no hmoob nyuam qhuav tig los hlub peb cov ntxhais me ntsis xwb los tseem yog qee tus xwb.. lawv tsuas hlub thaum tsis muaj chaw tuag xwb ! Tu siab tshaj yug los xiam tiam ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob!😡😢😢
Ho peb ma kuv txiv hlub peb cov ntxhais tshaj vim kuv txiv hai tia cov ntxhai nrog you nyb tsi ntev lm twb yuav mu ua lawv neej lm ho cov tub nrog you nyb mu ib sim
My parents only have my older sister and I, no sons but when they passed just recently, a year apart from each other, we as daughters were able to give them a good funeral despite no sons/brothers. It’s not about the sons upholding the family’s name, a girl could do just as good and we both are testament to this!
Peb cov Hmoob tsis paub tias cas twb muaj lub hlwb cas tsis mus tham kom luag nyiam es mam yuav, npav lub mus zij thiab muab luag nqa coj los yuav thaum kawg ho tsis hlub, cov neeg zoo li no ntshe lub hlwb ntim quav xwb ho thiab yog cov neeg lim hiam, cov neeg zoo li no mus txog dab teb yuav tau coj mus txiav caj dab
And the Hmong Elders wonder why most of us Men and Women hate them so much. Their own stupidity and stubbornness is what caused us younger generation to be so divided from them.
Nim no ces tsis muaj tub los txhob tu siab. Tej ntxhais tseem hlub yus dua lawm. Tej tub nyab no ces lam yug kom txhob ntshaw xwb tej nyab no yeej hlub tsis tau yus lawm.
2. Tug me niam tsev cas hnov txog neb Lub neej pab neb tu siab rau cov tub uas xuam qaug quav mus nrog Lv ntseeg kev cai tshiab yam g yog hmb feem xyuam ? Ho hais txog. Neb tus gxiv niam Loj mloog kj hais mas neb tus txiv no g yog neeg ncaj ncees coj zoo coj phem kg Li muab kj zij chua txog kg g hlub yus cem 2 me nyuam tuag kiag yog tiam no ces neb tus txiv mag sab txoj kev coj g ncaj Li nawb !
Love your story sister. Tsis hais tub los ntxhais lawv puav leej yog yus me nyuam yuav tau hlub kom sib npaug thiaj muaj kev ncaj ncees. Tsis tas li xwb koj yog ib leej niam uas ua tau siab loj, siab ncaj thiab siab zoo heev, thov qhuas koj.
Nowadays, It's the daughters that handle the parents funeral. I know because none of my brothers helped with my dad's funeral, it was the 4 of us (1 passed, wouldve been 5) that took care of it with my mom.
Boy or girl it doesn't matter. What matters most is how you raise your children as parents and your children will return the favor as you age. The elders don't understand why our generation and theirs are so divided.
Lub ntuj niam no tsis yog li lub ntuj myob rau Teb chaws nplog tiam 1900 lawm. 100 tsam tam si no pojniam yog cov es ua dab tsi los tau dua lawm. Thiab yog cov es txawj hlub neeg dua. Yog leej twg tsis muaj ntxhais nyob rau tiam no tseem yuav tu siab. Tub ntxhais los nyias zoo muaj nyias peb Xwm. Yog li yuav tsum tsi hlub sib luag.
Tus txiv yog tus muab kab tub kab ntxhais. Ib tug Txiv tsev phem txog qhov foom cov ntxhais kom tuag tas, yuav tau cia nws ua qab ke luag ua qauv rau lwm tus txiv neej kom tseg txoj kev phem no.
Hais tau Zoo thiab txhawb lub zog thiab los kua muag li Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv tus niam tsev muaj ib pab ntxhais xwb kuv twb tsis muaj tub tiam sis kuv twb tsis tu Siab...Tab sis ua cas txoj neej neeg no yuav hais tau npau taws thiab meem kuv txom ua luaj li ne koj niaj hnub cem koj cov ntxhais kom tuag ua cas Koj niag dab Ntxwg nyoog tuag tsw ntxhiab ko Koj ho tsis tuag mus ne niag Dab ntxwg nyoog siab phem
I have 6 sisters and 2 brothers. My dad used to always tell us girls to get marry so he can have money to buy things. I will always forever remember those words forever. Now I have 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm so glad my husband love my girls so much! He spoil the girls more than my son! Hahaah. Great job to all the girls tho. That's right, zoo thiab phem los yeej yog yus txiv lawm. I'm so glad and proud of you girls being the bigger person to make sure he have a good funeral.
Niag txiv dev siab phem no tsis tas hlub nkim lub zog xwb. Nws twb zij yuam koj xwb tseem Tsis hlub koj cas ua tub qaug koj ua luaj. Peb cov poj niam yuav tau hlub peb tus kheej es tsis txhob mus quav quav ntsej tus txiv dev uas tsim peb. Zoo siab rau koj cov ntxhais thiab lawv txoj kev hlub.
This story is very sad. Thank God, my father was a very loving father who love me and my sister dearly, treat all his daughter in law as his own daughter.
The beginning was not so beautiful but the ending was. I only have 1 daughter and wish I could of have more. This story is the current story of sons and daughters of this generation. Just because you birth boys does not mean that they will be there for you. Raise your children with the right kind of love and discipline and they will be there for you when you need them.
My parents has 10 daughters, 2 sons but the sons passsed away. 4 daughters passed away, 6 of us left, 3 in Thailand and 3 in the USA. My two sisters and I have our dad a good funeral. Daughters are blessings.
My parents have 7 daughters and 1 son. My dad pass away and now my mom live with my two younger sisters. But, in my mom heart she said that she is not lucky. If she is lucky she would have more son. Sad. I told her multiple time that she have a place to stay because of her daughters not her son. But she don’t see it.
Niaj hnub nim no kiag los txiv neej hmong txoj lw ntshav discrimination cov ntxhais vim lub niag clan tseem g tau tuag tu taw nawb .hmong men rho qws khob nej cov yob txiav pov tseg vim tsam yug tau ntxhais hos .tos tsam no cov ntxhais hmong txawj ntse xum xaiv luag lwm haiv instead of hmong men
I hate stories like this, I wouldn’t lift a finger or bury him. He was a deadbeat and horrible father! No thanks, you do it so your relatives would envy what a great family, in the end nothing changes, they are still just daughters that had to spend their money money on wasted love and space.
Girls are the father's luck. Boys are the mother's luck. My cousin married his first wife, they had 5 Girls, he divorced her and married his second wife, they have 6 Girls. His third wife had 3 Girls with him and 3 boys from her previous marriage. He went to see a budah, which told him that he will only have Girls and never have a son. His lucky because his first set of Girls loved him to the end.
The Hmong trend continues.....shows no love and torture your kids if you want them to love you when you are old. If you don't want to be loved when you are old, then love your Kids.
Hmong Story Me Vaj koj paub lawm lov? Tam sim no mas cov Hmoob Nplog mas xav2 kom yug tau tib co ntxhais nkaus2..... xwb naj. Ib tug $10,000, ib tug $10,000 twb tsi hais nyiaj kij li nav, lawv hais nyiaj $$$$$ xwb hos....Cas aib thaub uas koj tham no mas yuav ruam tshaj tus niag npua lawm thiab.....
Hmoob cov hlwb 75 lub koob npe. Cas yuav vam cov ntxhais kom tau koob npe, my behind. Cov nov yog hmoob ruam. Today, the women are completely in control. How do you dumb OG like it? Tsheej pab niam yau cuag tus niag lau qaib, puas txaj muag os hmoob laus?
This generation it doesn't matter boy or girl, what matter is I'd the kids love you or not.
This is a beautiful story
Vauv hlob got balls!👏👏 Great stepping up when the pw oldest son couldn't man up. Thov qhuas!
It use to be a man's world. Now it's a woman's world and without the ladies, there is no future. This is a good story with a happy ending. As a hmong man, I've learned to respect my wife, love her children along with mines. I love the boys and girls all the same and I don't value one gender over the other. Im glad that you have found love in your children and that they love you dearly. Take care
Cag txoj neej neeg no yuav kho siab ua luaj
😱😱😱ลูกสาว10คนสุดยอดมากค่ะ
Zag no ces nim zoo kiag li peb pab mi viv ncaus thiab os es kuv mloog kuv nim los2 kua muag kawg li os
I hate hearing these type of stories so much. Not because I don't like them but because it's so painful hearing how much our hmong daughters suffered. Imagine growing up, believing all your life that you are worthless because you were born a girl. Which is a dumb reason. Tu siab kawg li os. Thov peb generation no hloov nawb mog!
Tus niam tsev, koj mas muaj hmoo tshaj, vim koj pab ntxhais mus yuav tau cov vauv tsheej2 haj xwb. Nrog koj zoo siab mog. Xav kom peb muaj hmoo li koj thiab os mog...
koj twb tsw tau tug koj hlub tseem mus lob kev nyuaj siab rau koj thiab phem tiag2 tswm tsw nyog koj cov me nyuam hlub koj tug txwv hlub niam yau li os
Peb hmoob lub siab ib txwm yeej me me tsis hlub cov ntxhais kiag! Peb tuaj nyob mekas lawm es tsam no hmoob nyuam qhuav tig los hlub peb cov ntxhais me ntsis xwb los tseem yog qee tus xwb.. lawv tsuas hlub thaum tsis muaj chaw tuag xwb ! Tu siab tshaj yug los xiam tiam ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob!😡😢😢
OMG...why do you even care about that Loveless father?!!! Your daughters are too kind...Bless them!!!
Kj tug niam peb kuj zoo tshaj thiab og
Kuv niam muaj peb 7 leej es kuv txiv los tsi hlub li os
Từ siab kawg
Txiv neej hmoob lub siab yeej phem phem muaj ntxhais xwb los yuav yuav niam yau muaj tub xwb los yuav yuav niam yau ho muaj tub muaj ntxhais los ho yuav ib zaug thiab leej twg tias txiv neej muaj nuj nqis no na...kua kiag txiv neej twb yuav luag tsis muaj ho los siab tseem phem kawg thiab
Lesson learned. Daughters are not so bad. Good thing theirs husband are good men too.
Tej tug niag txiv neej hmoob dab tsi es yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj os
Cov txiv neej Moob kws zij quas puj moog txug es tsi hlub mas xaav kom Vaajtswv tsi pub kom puab tau kev kaaj sab le
Yog koj ntse es koj pauv tus txiv neej ces koj yeej muaj me nyuam tub lawm.
Ho peb ma kuv txiv hlub peb cov ntxhais tshaj vim kuv txiv hai tia cov ntxhai nrog you nyb tsi ntev lm twb yuav mu ua lawv neej lm ho cov tub nrog you nyb mu ib sim
My parents only have my older sister and I, no sons but when they passed just recently, a year apart from each other, we as daughters were able to give them a good funeral despite no sons/brothers. It’s not about the sons upholding the family’s name, a girl could do just as good and we both are testament to this!
Pab nrog koj zoo siab kawg li os tus phauj . Kuv yug tsis muaj tub thiab. Tabsis, wb Khub niam txiv yeej txau siab rau wb cov ntxhais txoj Kev hlub kawg thiab os.
Peb cov Hmoob tsis paub tias cas twb muaj lub hlwb cas tsis mus tham kom luag nyiam es mam yuav, npav lub mus zij thiab muab luag nqa coj los yuav thaum kawg ho tsis hlub, cov neeg zoo li no ntshe lub hlwb ntim quav xwb ho thiab yog cov neeg lim hiam, cov neeg zoo li no mus txog dab teb yuav tau coj mus txiav caj dab
Awww... what a nice ending. Daughters are just as important as sons
And the Hmong Elders wonder why most of us Men and Women hate them so much. Their own stupidity and stubbornness is what caused us younger generation to be so divided from them.
My thoughts exactly 😊
Nim no ces tsis muaj tub los txhob tu siab. Tej ntxhais tseem hlub yus dua lawm. Tej tub nyab no ces lam yug kom txhob ntshaw xwb tej nyab no yeej hlub tsis tau yus lawm.
2. Tug me niam tsev cas hnov txog neb Lub neej pab neb tu siab rau cov tub uas xuam qaug quav mus nrog Lv ntseeg kev cai tshiab yam g yog hmb feem xyuam ?
Ho hais txog. Neb tus gxiv niam Loj mloog kj hais mas neb tus txiv no g yog neeg ncaj ncees coj zoo coj phem kg Li muab kj zij chua txog kg g hlub yus cem 2 me nyuam tuag kiag yog tiam no ces neb tus txiv mag sab txoj kev coj g ncaj Li nawb !
Love your story sister. Tsis hais tub los ntxhais lawv puav leej yog yus me nyuam yuav tau hlub kom sib npaug thiaj muaj kev ncaj ncees. Tsis tas li xwb koj yog ib leej niam uas ua tau siab loj, siab ncaj thiab siab zoo heev, thov qhuas koj.
Girls are undervalued. My father is lucky, 8 girls that loves him ver much.
Nowadays, It's the daughters that handle the parents funeral. I know because none of my brothers helped with my dad's funeral, it was the 4 of us (1 passed, wouldve been 5) that took care of it with my mom.
What a sad and great story.
Boy or girl it doesn't matter. What matters most is how you raise your children as parents and your children will return the favor as you age. The elders don't understand why our generation and theirs are so divided.
Lub ntuj niam no tsis yog li lub ntuj myob rau Teb chaws nplog tiam 1900 lawm. 100 tsam tam si no pojniam yog cov es ua dab tsi los tau dua lawm. Thiab yog cov es txawj hlub neeg dua. Yog leej twg tsis muaj ntxhais nyob rau tiam no tseem yuav tu siab. Tub ntxhais los nyias zoo muaj nyias peb Xwm. Yog li yuav tsum tsi hlub sib luag.
Tus txiv yog tus muab kab tub kab ntxhais. Ib tug Txiv tsev phem txog qhov foom cov ntxhais kom tuag tas, yuav tau cia nws ua qab ke luag ua qauv rau lwm tus txiv neej kom tseg txoj kev phem no.
Hais tau Zoo thiab txhawb lub zog thiab los kua muag li Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv tus niam tsev muaj ib pab ntxhais xwb kuv twb tsis muaj tub tiam sis kuv twb tsis tu Siab...Tab sis ua cas txoj neej neeg no yuav hais tau npau taws thiab meem kuv txom ua luaj li ne koj niaj hnub cem koj cov ntxhais kom tuag ua cas Koj niag dab Ntxwg nyoog tuag tsw ntxhiab ko Koj ho tsis tuag mus ne niag Dab ntxwg nyoog siab phem
Tub thiab ntxhai nyias muaj nyias hmoov ua neeg tsis txhob tu siab
I have 6 sisters and 2 brothers. My dad used to always tell us girls to get marry so he can have money to buy things. I will always forever remember those words forever. Now I have 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm so glad my husband love my girls so much! He spoil the girls more than my son! Hahaah.
Great job to all the girls tho. That's right, zoo thiab phem los yeej yog yus txiv lawm. I'm so glad and proud of you girls being the bigger person to make sure he have a good funeral.
Dang! I wish I had 9 sisters
😭😭😭😞♥️
I rather have 10 daughter than son cause the son will love their n laws more lol
Wow! What a wonderful story.
leej muam yog koj tsis nyiam koj tus txiv ko thaum lawv zij koj ces xuas ncaws taw rau lawv cov noob qes tsuag tsuag ces lawv tso pluav koj xwb, txhob muab liam rau lawv kiag koj yeej nyiam nyiam lawv nav cia li lees zoo zoo xwb thiaj yog qhov tseeb
Anyone else notice most of the kids in her stories are always dr & high grads 😂😂
I know right
Suffering have a way of making people try harder in life. In a way, suffering is good for us. Keep us humble and focus.
Hmoob mas xav rov qab lawm. Yog tub los yog txhais lom kaliam los ma. Vim tsis paub tias rau yav laus leej twg yua hlub yu nawb.
Kudos to you lady for having such a big loving families, I think your showing off yours too much as the better ones compare to the other kids.
Niag txiv dev siab phem no tsis tas hlub nkim lub zog xwb. Nws twb zij yuam koj xwb tseem Tsis hlub koj cas ua tub qaug koj ua luaj.
Peb cov poj niam yuav tau hlub peb tus kheej es tsis txhob mus quav quav ntsej tus txiv dev uas tsim peb. Zoo siab rau koj cov ntxhais thiab lawv txoj kev hlub.
This story is very sad. Thank God, my father was a very loving father who love me and my sister dearly, treat all his daughter in law as his own daughter.
tus txiv tsev no siab phem lim hiam txhob hlub nws rau yav laus.
The beginning was not so beautiful but the ending was. I only have 1 daughter and wish I could of have more. This story is the current story of sons and daughters of this generation. Just because you birth boys does not mean that they will be there for you. Raise your children with the right kind of love and discipline and they will be there for you when you need them.
Let me give you more kids 😜
Majority txiv neej hmong yeej phem os.
Happy for you.
Laj tos kawg li
Tus vauv hlob yog 1 tug txawj xav paub tab hnov xaiv tsim nyog yuav tau xyaum ua tus qauv zoo li tus vauv hlob nawb tsoom kwv tij phooj ywg.
Great story
My mom too suffer because she had 7 girls as much as my dad love her his family broke their marriage because she only have girls.
Why funeral is so important hmong people
Tiger bite of a father. He doesn't deserve any love from his first wife's daughters. Useless.
My parents has 10 daughters, 2 sons but the sons passsed away. 4 daughters passed away, 6 of us left, 3 in Thailand and 3 in the USA. My two sisters and I have our dad a good funeral. Daughters are blessings.
My parents have 7 daughters and 1 son. My dad pass away and now my mom live with my two younger sisters. But, in my mom heart she said that she is not lucky. If she is lucky she would have more son. Sad. I told her multiple time that she have a place to stay because of her daughters not her son. But she don’t see it.
Niaj hnub nim no kiag los txiv neej hmong txoj lw ntshav discrimination cov ntxhais vim lub niag clan tseem g tau tuag tu taw nawb .hmong men rho qws khob nej cov yob txiav pov tseg vim tsam yug tau ntxhais hos .tos tsam no cov ntxhais hmong txawj ntse xum xaiv luag lwm haiv instead of hmong men
Beautiful ending story ❤
Congratulations on your nursing home!
Ua cas koj cov Ntxhais tseem yuav faus Koj niag txiv dev ntawd lau. Cia nws tuag Li dev xwb thiaj tsim nyog. Nws twb ntshaw ntshaw tub xwb muab koj cov Ntxhais txhub rau qhov tuag xwb tseem yuav faus nws.
I hate stories like this, I wouldn’t lift a finger or bury him. He was a deadbeat and horrible father! No thanks, you do it so your relatives would envy what a great family, in the end nothing changes, they are still just daughters that had to spend their money money on wasted love and space.
What an evil husband
Could it be the female’s inner environment too for the mother to keep having girls?
What do you mean? Gender is all based on which chromosome men give us.
Girls are the father's luck. Boys are the mother's luck.
My cousin married his first wife, they had 5 Girls, he divorced her and married his second wife, they have 6 Girls. His third wife had 3 Girls with him and 3 boys from her previous marriage. He went to see a budah, which told him that he will only have Girls and never have a son. His lucky because his first set of Girls loved him to the end.
The Hmong trend continues.....shows no love and torture your kids if you want them to love you when you are old. If you don't want to be loved when you are old, then love your Kids.
Niam Ntsuabteev,
Koj mus nyob nram kos lawm los?
Hmong Story Me Vaj koj paub lawm lov? Tam sim no mas cov Hmoob Nplog mas xav2 kom yug tau tib co ntxhais nkaus2..... xwb naj. Ib tug $10,000, ib tug $10,000 twb tsi hais nyiaj kij li nav, lawv hais nyiaj $$$$$ xwb hos....Cas aib thaub uas koj tham no mas yuav ruam tshaj tus niag npua lawm thiab.....
Are you hiring?
Hmoob cov hlwb 75 lub koob npe. Cas yuav vam cov ntxhais kom tau koob npe, my behind. Cov nov yog hmoob ruam. Today, the women are completely in control. How do you dumb OG like it? Tsheej pab niam yau cuag tus niag lau qaib, puas txaj muag os hmoob laus?
What a disgrace Hmong man! Daughter and son are equally important. I hope now Hmong men come to realize this truth!