These divorced ladies with kids needs to learn to love themselves and their kids and learn to be independent and stop being desperate for any man coming their way, it will only make your kids suffer more, just stop. Its already a new century, hmong women needs to start being independent. Take your time to find a new life, stop quick jumping to any man.
Niam ntsuab teev aw don’t need to apologize for anything your family come first taking care your family is more important then people just tabbing their feed waiting for story some of us do understand. Just do by your schedule what work for you best and everybody just need to learn to wait! Lol 😂
Kuv yog ib xiv neej Hmoob muaj lub neej broken li koj thiab. Koj ob tus txiv yog cov neeg tsis muaj tsab peev xwm txoj kev xav tsis nyob nrog lub caij nyoog ces thox tu siab. Kuv yeej pom tias muaj ib cov tub ntxhais coj tau tsis zoo thiab vim muaj qee cov nws tsis pom tus neeg hlub lawv miaj nug nqi rau lawv. Lawv pom tus ua cov lawv los ua neeg rau ntiaj teb thiaj muaj nuj nqi, tsb sis yog tus abandons lawv. Peb cov Hmoob ib feem coob yog cov no tsis hais yog me tub me nyuam los yog niam yog txiv. Cov uas pom tias kuv tsis kom leej twg hlub kuv rov qab, tab kuv hlub tej tub tej ntxhais li kuvv txawj thiab paub tsis cais tu nraum tus hauv tsev ciav kawv yog tus txiaj tsim tias lawv txoj kev xav kev cov. Koj txawm nyob neej zoo koj hais no los txhob tu siab ua koj ua tau. Kuv nyob lub neej li koj nyob no kus to taub zoo tab sis qhov difference kuv yog ib ib tus txiv neej Hmoob laus dua koj nyob nrog tau nrog teb tub tej ntxhais lub neej tam sis no thiab muaj resources hlub tau ob pab tub ntxhais sib luag zos tus kheej tsis txuam nrog kuv tus txij nkawm tshiab no. Muaj tej zaum kuv yeej pom qhov txawj ntawm ob pab tub txhais uas muaj kev txawj ntse tsis sib luag
The mom in this story is too dependent on her ex and now husband. Not just once but a few times they told her the kids don’t matter to them. That should’ve been warning signs that she will have to be both the mom and dad. She has a choice. She chose to let her kids be mistreated by her new husband and his family. Instead moving out.
Hmoob aw... ob leej los tsim tau tej me nyuam es ob leej yuav tsum hlub txhob cia tej me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj os, pab koj tu siab kawg ntawm lub neej naj 😥😥
Ntuj o lub ntuj yog vim tus dab tsi lawm o peb lub neej niam tsev thiab cov me nyuam yuav raug txoj kev tu siab txoj kev tsim txom nyav2 nyav loj2 loj heev ua luaj o lub ntuj thov hlub o
Why married and stay with someone who doesn’t love your children? You choose him over your kids. You let your kids starve and be tortured. Don’t blame no one but yourself. You should just concentrate on your kids and love them.
Yog tus txiv uas yog lawm thaum luag tsi yuav koj lawm cev me nyuam lo luag yeej tsi yuav lawm ho tus viv ncaus yog koj pheej hu nws ces yog koj xav thab nws lawm xwb
Tus mi nyiam zoo thov kom koj lub neej tsuas muaj zoo nrog cov me nyuam sawv daws mog lub ntuj yuav cawm lub teb yuav pab nej cov niam tub kom tsuas muaj lwg zoo mus ib sid
Good story. So refreshing to hear this story compared to the last 3 days. Some people don't like cheating and divorce stories, but I rather listen to these then orphans or the one that got away Laos stories lol Lady should have moved back to her own house and have husband follow. Why live with inlaws, its not like you are still young and depend on them. Sound like a one sided over dramatic oh pity me story. I am sure she was mean to his kids too, why would they not feel comfortable eating dinner with her if shes a good stepmom.
Lady...stand up for your kids...don't let your husband side do that to them...you don't need a man to support and love you...LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS FIRST!!!!! Good luck to your kids... they will find happiness and peace one day!!! Stay strong kids!!!!
Ua pojnrauj zaum 2 los yeej ua tau kawg li ua cas koj ho xum nyob es cia koj cov me nyuam txom nyem. Kuv hlub kuv cov me nyuam tshaj kuv tus kheej qhia rau koj li ntawv
These stories make me so sad. Lady stop being so selfish. You can live without a man. Why subject your kids to all the abuse. Grow some courage be a strong mother that protect your kids.
Tus niam tsev, txhob tus siab. Tus txiv twg coj li koj ob tug no xwb ces tsis tsim nyog koj yuav hlub lawm mog. Kav tsij hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb es ua ib leej niam khoj kho rau koj coj me nyuam xwb os mog. Tiam no kev npam nyob qis qis lawm os. Tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau koj thiaj tsis tu tu siab.
Hais rau 3 tsim Hmoob os peb tsim mi Hmoob! Ua li mis las hais os wake up and smell the coffe mog yus tej minyuam tsis hais leej twg nawb nej xav tias nej tus txiv tus Poj niam tsis zoo nej yuav muab nrauj mus yuav tus tshiab tabsis peb Hmoob twb ib txwm tias niam tau txiv los minyuam tsis tau hos txiv tau niam los minyuam tsis tau niam yeej muaj tseeb2 mog es cov muaj hmoo ces kuj tau niam tshiab txiv tshiab hlub2 hos cov tsis muaj hmoo ces tej mi tib mi nyuam muaj niam muaj txiv yug los tsis muaj niam muaj txi hlub es ib txhia ces nim ntshai2 tsam minyuam tau txais txoj kev ua ntsuag caij li no ces lub neej tu siab nyuaj npaum cas los nim uv22 twb ub tsis taus los yeej ub vim hlub tej minyuam xwb os mog.
Peb poj niam es yog siab dev xwb los cas lawv twb tsis hlub yus thiab yus tej me nyuam lawm cas tsi ris siab li. Ua neej tsis muaj tus txiv lawm los yeej tsis tuag na cas yus ho yuav coj yus tej me nyuam mus rau txiv tshiab tsev neeg cem yam saib tsis taus li. Peb poj niam yuav tsum xav kom zoo hlub yus tej me nyuam ua ntej vim lawv txiv yug kiag lawm twb tsis hlub cov me nyuam es yuav ua cas lwm tus yuav hlub naw. Love yourself and your kids first.
Bless your children's health, may. Hope your children feel better soon. It's ok, you family and especially your children come first. Will be wait for you come back tell more stories, when you are comfortable and ready. 👍👍👍
I wished i was smarter when i was younger. But I'm also glad that it has made me a stronger person too. Don't judge a person till u walk in their shoes.
Nrog koj thiab cov me nyuam tu siab tias muaj ib leej phem thiab liam txiv. Tsi yog ib xwb tseem yog ob lawm thiab os. Cov txiv neej selfishness li koj ob tug no mas ntxim ntxub tiag. Tsi tas li tus uas cov me nyuam tawm los ntawm Tsuas thov tias kom nws tsi paub hlub lawm ces kom rov li ntawm rov rau nws thiab xwb mas lov. 😭😭☹️😩😡
Neb puas tau los cuag tus Tswv Yexus, Nws tib leeg thiaj muaj kev hlub ntau, yog leejtwg los cuag tus Tswv ces Nws thiaj txhab tau kev hlub rau tib neeg, ntawm tib neeg mas kev hlub thiaj txawj tag
I swear some people are so dependent. They need to have someone there just so they can live. Love your kids and do your thing. The one who truly loves you will show up one day. This is what happen when you are quick to jump into another relationship.
Ntub os lawv cas yuav ua neej tu siab ua luaj yog tsis sib hlub txob yug tej mi nyuam los txom nyem os cas peb yeej xav qhov zoo xwb los nim tsis raws li lub siab xav
We Hmoob women need to stop depending and needed a husband or a man in our life! We can do things and live without one. Love, respect, take care, and put yourself first, women, ladies, and girls!
Thov nej cov niam tub tsum thiab lau. Koj twb tsis tuag es yus choose yus cov menyuam xwb ma. Txiv tshiab los txhob tos txiv qub los txhob tos na. Yus nyob nrog cov menyuam yeej nyob tau kawg. Cas peb cov poj niam hmoob always feel need tus txiv thiaj ua taus neeg xwb na.
Tej tug txiv neej no yog dev xwb. Vim li cas yus tej me nyuam yus hlub tsis tau. Hos mus hlub tau lwm tus txiv neej pab me nyuam. Ntxim ntxub tshaj li os
Cov poj niam no tsis muaj txiv es ua cuag yuav tuag thiab tsis muaj txiv kuj ua ib sab niam ib sab txiv los pob cas yuav coj tej menyuam mus nyob txom nyem rau luag hais ua luaj li
Qhia rau nej cov poj nraug yog tseem yuav 2 txiv ntxiv ces txhob yuav me nyuam nej thiaj muaj neej nrog luag ua hos yog nej tseem yuav aws cov me nyuam ntawv kom tas nrog nej ces nej tsis muaj neej zoo nrog luag ua koj cia los yeej tsis hlub txiv tshiab cov nawb komkoj paub tseeb yog nrauj txiv es yuav 2 me nyuam ces txhob yuav txiv xwb nyob twj ywm ntshaw txiv ces tham hluas nraug ua si xwb hos pheej yuav kom lawv hlub koj cov me nyuam npau li koj xav ces tsis muaj li os koj kiag yeej tsis hlub lawv cov thiab ov koj yuav tsum to taub zoo koj tus txiv nws ntse nws tsis yuav me nyuam nws thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab na rau lub neej tshiab os poj nrauj mas ruam tshaj pheej ntshaw qhov nyuag nyiaj nqi qau pheej aws me nyuam thiaj tsis muaj neej ua
Niam ntsuab teev aw, cas 3 cov hmoob es cas yuav siab phem ua luaj es cas lawv pheej tsis hlub 3 cov mi nyuam ntsuag kiag li os, es lawv pheej tab tsim txom cov mi nyuam ntsuag zoo li no na , thov yog tsis hlub ces cov txiv txhob muab2 mi nyuam 6 poj niam nawb yog hlub tsis Tau na, tsam npam nawb mog
Txiv neej zoo li no zoo dab tsi nawj, peb cov no twb tsis tau tham ib tug qhov twg li twb tseem muaj kev nyuaj siab. Ua neej nyob teb chaws no xav kom zoo2 coj kom ncaj2 lub neej thiaj yuav tau zoo li luag tej. Kuv cov txiv neej coj zoo li no mas tsuas yog them child support tsis txawj tag. Kuv tsis ntshai ib tug tu siab, vim yog qhov no, yog qhov muaj tseeb, tsis yog lam hais. Pab tu siab tias raug mob rau sawv daws pom thiab paub tag, yog kuv ces txaj muag kawg li nawb.
Ruam los ntse es tseem yuav niag txiv tshiab ntawv ua ua dab tsi naw. Txiv qub los tsis hlub txiv tshiab los tsis hlub cas tus tsis xum nyob yus nrog yus tej menyuam zoo dua yuav niag txiv tshiab ntawv es tseem tau ua nws qhev tseem ua rau yus tej menyuam tu siab thiab. Nyob in leeg nrog yus tej menyuam zoo dua os
You have house, you have your own kids, you knew how hmong people is, don’t expect some one else to love your kids, you pretend to be blind. Tim yus xwb txhob liam lwm tus tsis hlub.
Tus niam Tsev nco ntsoov tias koj muab tau lwm tus txiv los ua tau koj tus txiv tab sis koj muab tsis tau lwm tus me NYuam los ua koj tus me NYuam nawb koj yuav hloov tsawg tus txiv los yeej hloov tau tas sis koj yeej hloov tsis tau koj cov menyuam li es hlub koj cov menyuam ua ntej
Tu mi niam tsev aws yog koj zoo dhau lo yog koj ruam dhau lawm na ua ca yuav g ris siab koj niag txiv qub txiv cov lu e tseem mu luj leg rau nws thiab o yog mu yuav dua txiv luag g hlub ho g nyob twj ywm hlub kj tej mi nyuam e tseem yuav seev li koj thiab na to li koj niag txiv tshiab lo g ntshai koj li o
kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv los kuj txawj tham hluas nkauj thiab tabsi kuv xav faj lus mus rau tus leej txiv nram ntej. peb ua neej nyob yus yug tau yus tsis hlub es yog ua li casho tsis muab hlob rau hauv toilet nawd es tseem yov cia tus leej niam ua tus ev tag nhro cov teeb meem yus yog tus tsim koj mas yog ib tug txiv neej liam tshaj plaws ok yog tsiaj lawm xwb yog neeg no ces yeej muaj feeling tuag mus zoo dua. kj tus poj niam ces nyaj ib leeg yov muaj ib qhov phem qhov zoo tab sis kh cov me nyuam kawv tsis paub ab tsi yog koj yog kuv tus kwv ces kj hmag kuv ncaws lawm
Tus siab kawg tus mi muam koj yeej tau daim ntawv phem tiag li cas los xij xav tias koj 2 tug txiv no yog txiv dev xwb thiaj tsis paub hlub neeg li dev peb tsuas xav tias tsiaj thiaj tsis txawj hlub neeg xwb no tab sis tseem muaj 1 cov txob neej hmoob uas yog siab dev Thiab tsis hlub tej mi nyuam es ho ua kom muaj lawv Dab tsi kuj muab niag qau txiag pov tseg los poj tseem txawj tsoob pim kom muaj I nyuam es cia txom nyem thiab
I feel your pain because I have the same situation sister. May you find in your heart to do the right thing for you and your children. I personally divorced a husband because didn't want my children. Best choice I ever made because you can marry any husband but your children are your life line!!!
This makes me so sad. Don’t be angry at her for her decisions. Women needs to get in contact with her and encourage and empower her. She’s doing what she thought was the way. I hope and pray that she will have the courage to leave and just be with her children.
A major strength us women need to develop is the ability to let go. Mloog ntau zaj, coob tus poj niam ntsib kev mob siab, ntsib tag ntsib dua vim lawv hnov qab tso tseg tsis tau lawv kev txij nkawm uas tau plam dhau mus lawm zoo li tus niam tsev ntawm nov. Lawv tsis kho kom lawv zoo tso mam nrhiav txiv tshiab. They remarried with low self image, anger, and desperation. They bring over past toxic relationship experience into their new relationship. even hanging on to the x-partner who had moved on like the lady of this story. Even when she is with someone else already, still bugging, calling, trying, begging the X. Viv ncaus hmoob, tus txiv uas hlub tus poj niam, thiaj hlub tus poj niam ntawd tej mi nyuam hov. Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj tej mi nyuam ces txhais tau tias nws tsis hlub koj ua ntej lawm las mas. Tsis muaj txiv tsis tuag pos. Stop clinging onto the guys who don’t love you. Tso tseg es qhib siab lug mus nrhiav txiv Vajtswv ntuj es nws txoj kev hlub thiaj dawb thiaj hlub tiag mog.
wow cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob tseem muaj cov siab dub ntag npaud ntag tsis tsim nyog los ua ib leej txiv li os txaus tu siab heev os yom
Tus mi viv ncaus kuv mas nrog koj tus siab thiab mob siab tshaj plaws li os 😂😂😂😂😂😭
I commend you for your dedication towards this channel! Whilst traveling/vacationing, you still filmed videos for us. What a hard worker!
Muab nrauj zoo Dua yus nyob yus txhob ntshaw txiv Los tsim yus cov menyuam luv neej sib nrauj menyuam yuav txom nyem.vim li no peb thiaj uv peb cov txiv
Viv ncaus aw...koj zaj dab neeg cas txaus tu siab ua luaj li hlub nej cov me niam tub os mog❤😢😢
These divorced ladies with kids needs to learn to love themselves and their kids and learn to be independent and stop being desperate for any man coming their way, it will only make your kids suffer more, just stop. Its already a new century, hmong women needs to start being independent. Take your time to find a new life, stop quick jumping to any man.
Agree with you 💯 %. I can't stand her either. Looks like she is too desperate for a bad man.
Cas yuav pab nej cov niam tub tu siab ua luaj li os. Thov lub ntuj pab kom tom ntej no nej tau lub neej zoo thiab kaj siab lug nawb.
Niam laus aw kj hais dab neeg zoo tiag2 li os kv mas mloog kj tej dab neeg tsis dhuav li o
Hauv ntiaj teb no ces tsuav yog yus niam thiaj hlub yus xwb os. ☹️🥺😞😭😢
Niam ntsuab teev aw don’t need to apologize for anything your family come first taking care your family is more important then people just tabbing their feed waiting for story some of us do understand. Just do by your schedule what work for you best and everybody just need to learn to wait! Lol 😂
Kuv yog ib xiv neej Hmoob muaj lub neej broken li koj thiab. Koj ob tus txiv yog cov neeg tsis muaj tsab peev xwm txoj kev xav tsis nyob nrog lub caij nyoog ces thox tu siab. Kuv yeej pom tias muaj ib cov tub ntxhais coj tau tsis zoo thiab vim muaj qee cov nws tsis pom tus neeg hlub lawv miaj nug nqi rau lawv. Lawv pom tus ua cov lawv los ua neeg rau ntiaj teb thiaj muaj nuj nqi, tsb sis yog tus abandons lawv. Peb cov Hmoob ib feem coob yog cov no tsis hais yog me tub me nyuam los yog niam yog txiv. Cov uas pom tias kuv tsis kom leej twg hlub kuv rov qab, tab kuv hlub tej tub tej ntxhais li kuvv txawj thiab paub tsis cais tu nraum tus hauv tsev ciav kawv yog tus txiaj tsim tias lawv txoj kev xav kev cov. Koj txawm nyob neej zoo koj hais no los txhob tu siab ua koj ua tau. Kuv nyob lub neej li koj nyob no kus to taub zoo tab sis qhov difference kuv yog ib ib tus txiv neej Hmoob laus dua koj nyob nrog tau nrog teb tub tej ntxhais lub neej tam sis no thiab muaj resources hlub tau ob pab tub ntxhais sib luag zos tus kheej tsis txuam nrog kuv tus txij nkawm tshiab no. Muaj tej zaum kuv yeej pom qhov txawj ntawm ob pab tub txhais uas muaj kev txawj ntse tsis sib luag
Tus niam tsev koj lub neej tu siab yam nkaus li kuv thiab os. Kuv hlub koj os niam laus aw
The mom in this story is too dependent on her ex and now husband. Not just once but a few times they told her the kids don’t matter to them. That should’ve been warning signs that she will have to be both the mom and dad.
She has a choice. She chose to let her kids be mistreated by her new husband and his family. Instead moving out.
Lub neeg ua ntsuag thiab ntsuag ciaj yeej tsis muaj leej twg xa tau li os.
Lub neej tus txiv tso yus ua li koj ko tu siab kawg mog xij peem os mog lub neej ces tsis pom Tom neej li os cov niam tsev hmong aw
Lwm nub tus txiv ntawv youv tuag ces kawm cov me nyuam txob hlub nus li nawb
Hmoob aw... ob leej los tsim tau tej me nyuam es ob leej yuav tsum hlub txhob cia tej me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj os, pab koj tu siab kawg ntawm lub neej naj 😥😥
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Ntuj o lub ntuj yog vim tus dab tsi lawm o peb lub neej niam tsev thiab cov me nyuam yuav raug txoj kev tu siab txoj kev tsim txom nyav2 nyav loj2 loj heev ua luaj o lub ntuj thov hlub o
Kuv ntseeg tias yog luag Hlub yus tiag ces luag yeej hlub yus Tej me nyuam o viv ncaus
Cas ua neej yuav tu siab ua luaj os hmoob
Pab tu siab os viv ncaus aw txiv liam ces tsis txog txij twg
cas zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj..kuv twb tsis tu siab rau cov laus..kuv mam kua muag poob rau cov menyuam ua luaj li os
Why married and stay with someone who doesn’t love your children? You choose him over your kids. You let your kids starve and be tortured. Don’t blame no one but yourself.
You should just concentrate on your kids and love them.
Me niam Tsev aw txhob thov luag mas koj yeem thov nws nws yeem muaj plus xwb kav tsij khov kho xwb os koj nas no need anyone
Yog tus txiv uas yog lawm thaum luag tsi yuav koj lawm cev me nyuam lo luag yeej tsi yuav lawm ho tus viv ncaus yog koj pheej hu nws ces yog koj xav thab nws lawm xwb
Tus viv ncaus aw cas kuv nrog koj Los los Kia muag thiab OS mog tu siab tshaj li os mog
Txiv neej yog lawv muaj lwm tus lawm ces txhob tos tias lawv yuav khuv xim yus tej me nyuam os lawv
Nrog koj tu siab kawg os tus vi ncaus.
Viv ncaus aw ua cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li os, koj ob niag txiv no tus twg lis siab phem ib yam li os.
Tus mi nyiam zoo thov kom koj lub neej tsuas muaj zoo nrog cov me nyuam sawv daws mog lub ntuj yuav cawm lub teb yuav pab nej cov niam tub kom tsuas muaj lwg zoo mus ib sid
Kj lub neej ca zoo li kv thiab os tu siab ua luaj os
Good story. So refreshing to hear this story compared to the last 3 days. Some people don't like cheating and divorce stories, but I rather listen to these then orphans or the one that got away Laos stories lol
Lady should have moved back to her own house and have husband follow. Why live with inlaws, its not like you are still young and depend on them. Sound like a one sided over dramatic oh pity me story. I am sure she was mean to his kids too, why would they not feel comfortable eating dinner with her if shes a good stepmom.
Cov neej kuag kab kuag laus ces yeej zoo lo cia kom nws kob huam
Cov niag txiv liam zoo li no ces txhob tos txiv neej los yog pojniam yog mus deev lwm tus lawm ces yeej yuav tsi tso tseg
Lady...stand up for your kids...don't let your husband side do that to them...you don't need a man to support and love you...LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS FIRST!!!!! Good luck to your kids... they will find happiness and peace one day!!! Stay strong kids!!!!
Ua pojnrauj zaum 2 los yeej ua tau kawg li ua cas koj ho xum nyob es cia koj cov me nyuam txom nyem. Kuv hlub kuv cov me nyuam tshaj kuv tus kheej qhia rau koj li ntawv
Tsis muaj txiv Los yeej tau,txiv tsev zoo li no yuav zoo dab tsi. Yuav tej niag txiv tsev zoo li no. Yus nyob yus yeej tsis tuag. Nrauj pov tseg kiag.
These stories make me so sad. Lady stop being so selfish. You can live without a man. Why subject your kids to all the abuse. Grow some courage be a strong mother that protect your kids.
Peb sib nrauj peb hlub peb tej me nyuam nawb...ntseeg tsis tau tias nej yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj no xwb os
Cas ua tau ntxim hlub ua luaj na
Vuag..ntuj e...cas tseem muaj cob hmoob zoo li ntawv thiab na...txus laus txus hnov txuj tiag...
Tus niam tsev, txhob tus siab. Tus txiv twg coj li koj ob tug no xwb ces tsis tsim nyog koj yuav hlub lawm mog. Kav tsij hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb es ua ib leej niam khoj kho rau koj coj me nyuam xwb os mog. Tiam no kev npam nyob qis qis lawm os. Tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau koj thiaj tsis tu tu siab.
Tu siab kawg os.
Tus niam tsev aw !! Koj tus qub txiv tsis yuav lawv los yus yug yus mam hlub yus mog. Thiab koj tus txiv tshiab twb paub tias koj muaj ib pab me nyuam nws txaus siab yuav koj. Nco ntsoov tias koj tsis hlub yeej tsis muaj tus hlub. Mob koj tsis mob lawv mog. Kuv los yeej zoo ib yam li koj thiab. Yog yus siab tsis tawv txaus ces yus cov me nyuam yuav txom nyem mog. Taw qhawv yog koj tus txiv tshiab ua tsis yog koj muaj neej tsa kwv tij. Vim nws qhov muag tsis dig pob ntseg tsis lag. Yus cov me nyuam yog yus nlpooj siab.
Hais tau tu siab ua luaj
Hais rau 3 tsim Hmoob os peb tsim mi Hmoob! Ua li mis las hais os wake up and smell the coffe mog yus tej minyuam tsis hais leej twg nawb nej xav tias nej tus txiv tus Poj niam tsis zoo nej yuav muab nrauj mus yuav tus tshiab tabsis peb Hmoob twb ib txwm tias niam tau txiv los minyuam tsis tau hos txiv tau niam los minyuam tsis tau niam yeej muaj tseeb2 mog es cov muaj hmoo ces kuj tau niam tshiab txiv tshiab hlub2 hos cov tsis muaj hmoo ces tej mi tib mi nyuam muaj niam muaj txiv yug los tsis muaj niam muaj txi hlub es ib txhia ces nim ntshai2 tsam minyuam tau txais txoj kev ua ntsuag caij li no ces lub neej tu siab nyuaj npaum cas los nim uv22 twb ub tsis taus los yeej ub vim hlub tej minyuam xwb os mog.
Tu-siab koj obtug txiv puav leej zoo ibyam ntaus nqi tias nkawd obleeg (Tsis Tees Koos Loos) tsis yog lub siab ntsws txiv neeg yawg.
Peb poj niam es yog siab dev xwb los cas lawv twb tsis hlub yus thiab yus tej me nyuam lawm cas tsi ris siab li. Ua neej tsis muaj tus txiv lawm los yeej tsis tuag na cas yus ho yuav coj yus tej me nyuam mus rau txiv tshiab tsev neeg cem yam saib tsis taus li. Peb poj niam yuav tsum xav kom zoo hlub yus tej me nyuam ua ntej vim lawv txiv yug kiag lawm twb tsis hlub cov me nyuam es yuav ua cas lwm tus yuav hlub naw. Love yourself and your kids first.
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Bless your children's health, may. Hope your children feel better soon. It's ok, you family and especially your children come first. Will be wait for you come back tell more stories, when you are comfortable and ready. 👍👍👍
Being a poj nrauj is better off than being in a loveless marriage!
Cas koj yuav ntshaw ob tus txiv dev lov hlub koj cov me nyuam ua luaj. Kuv cov tsis muaj twg hlub los kuv yeej hlub tau na. Tsej muag xuab.
I wished i was smarter when i was younger. But I'm also glad that it has made me a stronger person too. Don't judge a person till u walk in their shoes.
Tu siab kawg
Lawv txiv ua zoo nyob es muaj xwb thuaj li tsis hlub ....coj mus lawb dab lawb neej tib si.....lub ntiaj teb no muaj koj thiab koj cov me nyuam xwb....
Nrog koj thiab cov me nyuam tu siab tias muaj ib leej phem thiab liam txiv. Tsi yog ib xwb tseem yog ob lawm thiab os. Cov txiv neej selfishness li koj ob tug no mas ntxim ntxub tiag. Tsi tas li tus uas cov me nyuam tawm los ntawm Tsuas thov tias kom nws tsi paub hlub lawm ces kom rov li ntawm rov rau nws thiab xwb mas lov. 😭😭☹️😩😡
Neb puas tau los cuag tus Tswv Yexus, Nws tib leeg thiaj muaj kev hlub ntau, yog leejtwg los cuag tus Tswv ces Nws thiaj txhab tau kev hlub rau tib neeg, ntawm tib neeg mas kev hlub thiaj txawj tag
Cas koj cov me nyuam tsis paub tu siab li es tseem mus saib ib leej txiv es twb tsis yuav lawv.
USA no peb tsis muah txiv Los tsis tuag cov txiv no tsuas tsim yus xwb
I swear some people are so dependent. They need to have someone there just so they can live. Love your kids and do your thing. The one who truly loves you will show up one day. This is what happen when you are quick to jump into another relationship.
Ntub os lawv cas yuav ua neej tu siab ua luaj yog tsis sib hlub txob yug tej mi nyuam los txom nyem os cas peb yeej xav qhov zoo xwb los nim tsis raws li lub siab xav
We Hmoob women need to stop depending and needed a husband or a man in our life! We can do things and live without one. Love, respect, take care, and put yourself first, women, ladies, and girls!
Nrauj tu yawg nrauj ko coj koj cov me nyuam mus vaj tswv koj cov me nyuam thiaj li muaj neej nrog luag ua...lawv txiv yug lawv twb tuag lawm ntev es ua cas koj pheej tsis paub li...koj yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws ....koj yog aub xwb tsis paub tu siab
Thov nej cov niam tub tsum thiab lau. Koj twb tsis tuag es yus choose yus cov menyuam xwb ma. Txiv tshiab los txhob tos txiv qub los txhob tos na. Yus nyob nrog cov menyuam yeej nyob tau kawg. Cas peb cov poj niam hmoob always feel need tus txiv thiaj ua taus neeg xwb na.
Txhob tu siab zoo li kuv twb tsis muaj leej twg li thiab os
Tej tug txiv neej no yog dev xwb. Vim li cas yus tej me nyuam yus hlub tsis tau. Hos mus hlub tau lwm tus txiv neej pab me nyuam. Ntxim ntxub tshaj li os
Cia kom nes kob huam
Txiv neej hmoob Siab phem Siab Dub tiag tiag li o hmoob .cas nej yuav UA Tau npaum li ntawd diam .es tej me nyuam tu tu Siab o
Cov poj niam no tsis muaj txiv es ua cuag yuav tuag thiab tsis muaj txiv kuj ua ib sab niam ib sab txiv los pob cas yuav coj tej menyuam mus nyob txom nyem rau luag hais ua luaj li
Yus nyob zov yus cov menyuam zoo Dua txiv neej siab phem y
cas koj tsis xum nyob nrog koj cov menyuam es koj ho xum nyob nrog niag hmoob ntawd mas txhob cia koj cov menyuam muaj kev nyuaj siab mog koj tuag koj cov menyuam yuav fau nawb niag txiv ntawd yeej tsis yog ib tug txiv zoo mog
สวัสดีครับน้องเม
Qhia rau nej cov poj nraug yog tseem yuav 2 txiv ntxiv ces txhob yuav me nyuam nej thiaj muaj neej nrog luag ua hos yog nej tseem yuav aws cov me nyuam ntawv kom tas nrog nej ces nej tsis muaj neej zoo nrog luag ua koj cia los yeej tsis hlub txiv tshiab cov nawb komkoj paub tseeb yog nrauj txiv es yuav 2 me nyuam ces txhob yuav txiv xwb nyob twj ywm ntshaw txiv ces tham hluas nraug ua si xwb hos pheej yuav kom lawv hlub koj cov me nyuam npau li koj xav ces tsis muaj li os koj kiag yeej tsis hlub lawv cov thiab ov koj yuav tsum to taub zoo koj tus txiv nws ntse nws tsis yuav me nyuam nws thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab na rau lub neej tshiab os poj nrauj mas ruam tshaj pheej ntshaw qhov nyuag nyiaj nqi qau pheej aws me nyuam thiaj tsis muaj neej ua
Niam ntsuab teev aw, cas 3 cov hmoob es cas yuav siab phem ua luaj es cas lawv pheej tsis hlub 3 cov mi nyuam ntsuag kiag li os, es lawv pheej tab tsim txom cov mi nyuam ntsuag zoo li no na , thov yog tsis hlub ces cov txiv txhob muab2 mi nyuam 6 poj niam nawb yog hlub tsis Tau na, tsam npam nawb mog
Txiv neej zoo li no zoo dab tsi nawj, peb cov no twb tsis tau tham ib tug qhov twg li twb tseem muaj kev nyuaj siab. Ua neej nyob teb chaws no xav kom zoo2 coj kom ncaj2 lub neej thiaj yuav tau zoo li luag tej. Kuv cov txiv neej coj zoo li no mas tsuas yog them child support tsis txawj tag. Kuv tsis ntshai ib tug tu siab, vim yog qhov no, yog qhov muaj tseeb, tsis yog lam hais. Pab tu siab tias raug mob rau sawv daws pom thiab paub tag, yog kuv ces txaj muag kawg li nawb.
Kuv yog koj no kuv tsis tus txiv thib ob ntawm koj vim tias kuv tsis kom lawv tsim kuv cov me nyuam. Kuv hlub kuv cov me nyuam tshaj lawv lawm.
Such a sad story! 😭
Cov pig yawg phem li no cia nyab poj laib Los tsim thiaj li haum
Lub ntuj yeej muaj tus zoo rau phem
Ruam los ntse es tseem yuav niag txiv tshiab ntawv ua ua dab tsi naw. Txiv qub los tsis hlub txiv tshiab los tsis hlub cas tus tsis xum nyob yus nrog yus tej menyuam zoo dua yuav niag txiv tshiab ntawv es tseem tau ua nws qhev tseem ua rau yus tej menyuam tu siab thiab. Nyob in leeg nrog yus tej menyuam zoo dua os
Niam laus aw txhob dag koj tus kheej os. Koj hlub koj cov menyuam ces nrauj kiag xwb. Cas koj yuav cias luag ua phem rau koj cov menyuam
Lub neej no yeej tsis ib tug zoo txiv tsev li lawm ntag los?????
You have house, you have your own kids, you knew how hmong people is, don’t expect some one else to love your kids, you pretend to be blind. Tim yus xwb txhob liam lwm tus tsis hlub.
Tus niam Tsev nco ntsoov tias koj muab tau lwm tus txiv los ua tau koj tus txiv tab sis koj muab tsis tau lwm tus me NYuam los ua koj tus me NYuam nawb koj yuav hloov tsawg tus txiv los yeej hloov tau tas sis koj yeej hloov tsis tau koj cov menyuam li es hlub koj cov menyuam ua ntej
koj ua tsis tau niam li yog kuv ce kuv mu nyob kuv tsis pub leej twg tsim txom kuv tej me nyuam li txhua yam kuv yeej ua kom tU
Honestly you don't need to apologize. You have a life and priorities first. I always just replay your old ones.
Niag pog tshiab no phem kawg cia nws tuag nws Tim hospital li ma niag ntsej muag laus no na
This is sooo sad. I cried my eye balls out.
May!! You're beautiful!
Tu mi niam tsev aws yog koj zoo dhau lo yog koj ruam dhau lawm na ua ca yuav g ris siab koj niag txiv qub txiv cov lu e tseem mu luj leg rau nws thiab o yog mu yuav dua txiv luag g hlub ho g nyob twj ywm hlub kj tej mi nyuam e tseem yuav seev li koj thiab na to li koj niag txiv tshiab lo g ntshai koj li o
kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv los kuj txawj tham hluas nkauj thiab tabsi kuv xav faj lus mus rau tus leej txiv nram ntej. peb ua neej nyob yus yug tau yus tsis hlub es yog ua li casho tsis muab hlob rau hauv toilet nawd es tseem yov cia tus leej niam ua tus ev tag nhro cov teeb meem yus yog tus tsim
koj mas yog ib tug txiv neej liam tshaj plaws ok yog tsiaj lawm xwb yog neeg no ces yeej muaj feeling
tuag mus zoo dua. kj tus poj niam ces nyaj ib leeg yov muaj ib qhov phem qhov zoo tab sis kh cov me nyuam kawv tsis paub ab tsi
yog koj yog kuv tus kwv ces kj hmag kuv ncaws lawm
Tus siab kawg tus mi muam koj yeej tau daim ntawv phem tiag li cas los xij xav tias koj 2 tug txiv no yog txiv dev xwb thiaj tsis paub hlub neeg li dev peb tsuas xav tias tsiaj thiaj tsis txawj hlub neeg xwb no tab sis tseem muaj 1 cov txob neej hmoob uas yog siab dev Thiab tsis hlub tej mi nyuam es ho ua kom muaj lawv Dab tsi kuj muab niag qau txiag pov tseg los poj tseem txawj tsoob pim kom muaj I nyuam es cia txom nyem thiab
Tus poj niam no ntsawg txiv neej dhau
Niam pog phem li ko Tsi tag hlub li os. Hlub yus tu kheej yus me nyuam xwb os. Yog txawj xav ces yus hlub kawg mas
I feel your pain because I have the same situation sister. May you find in your heart to do the right thing for you and your children. I personally divorced a husband because didn't want my children. Best choice I ever made because you can marry any husband but your children are your life line!!!
This makes me so sad. Don’t be angry at her for her decisions. Women needs to get in contact with her and encourage and empower her. She’s doing what she thought was the way. I hope and pray that she will have the courage to leave and just be with her children.
Kj ces ntshaw txiv dhau o
A major strength us women need to develop is the ability to let go.
Mloog ntau zaj, coob tus poj niam ntsib kev mob siab, ntsib tag ntsib dua vim lawv hnov qab tso tseg tsis tau lawv kev txij nkawm uas tau plam dhau mus lawm zoo li tus niam tsev ntawm nov. Lawv tsis kho kom lawv zoo tso mam nrhiav txiv tshiab. They remarried with low self image, anger, and desperation. They bring over past toxic relationship experience into their new relationship. even hanging on to the x-partner who had moved on like the lady of this story. Even when she is with someone else already, still bugging, calling, trying, begging the X.
Viv ncaus hmoob, tus txiv uas hlub tus poj niam, thiaj hlub tus poj niam ntawd tej mi nyuam hov. Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj tej mi nyuam ces txhais tau tias nws tsis hlub koj ua ntej lawm las mas. Tsis muaj txiv tsis tuag pos. Stop clinging onto the guys who don’t love you. Tso tseg es qhib siab lug mus nrhiav txiv Vajtswv ntuj es nws txoj kev hlub thiaj dawb thiaj hlub tiag mog.
Leej txiv es siab phem ua luaj li. Xav yuav yus thaum yus hluas thiab Zoo nkauj xwb.