Wow, I couldn't agree more with this woman! She may not have a college degree, but she's probably smarter than some women that have their degrees. Yes, this is the 21st century, time to change our ways of thinking. We need to teach our daughters self-love and value. We also need to teach our sons to be better men.
Wow I applaud this woman 💪💪 for speaking the truth and challenging hmong's so called "the norm." We are a patriarchal culture and majority of men use these so call rules to govern women and scare women. I am so proud of you for seeing that we women do not have to accept it!! More women need to see their woth and love themselves ♥️♥️❤️❤️. I know we've only been in the states for a short time but I feel education and knowledge will help us too. I believe that in the future Hmong women will not take this type of abuse. Thank you for your story. I've been waiting to hear this type of story 😘😘. May more women learn to love themselves and challenge the norm ♥️❤️.
My mom raised 8 girls and always say " let me not know better, you girls are smarter than me, don't do what I do, don't stay if he doesn't love you, life is too short."
Doesn't matter man or women if you allow people to take advantage of you they will. Even when you have boundaries people will try to push those boundaries. If you have no boundaries people will walk all over you.
Ib tug txiv neej ua xwb txhob muab rau peb vov txiv neej hmong ev tag nro na leej twg ua ces cia leek twg ev xwb txhob muab rau txiv neej hmoob tag nro ev mog.
I applaud you for being strong and I absolutely agree with you on we women have to change first and see value in us first. Don't wait on the men to change. That will NEVER EVER happen in this life time. You go sister! 👏👏👏
Ua tsaug os me niam laus kj zaj neej neeg hai tau zoo heev li kv xav kom cov viv ncau uas uv2 tu txiv siab phem li no kom tau mloog tau kawm ua kev kawm paub os.
Thank u to many hmoob women of your generation who fought long n hard for women’s rights. Today, hmoob women R getting smarter n higher education has strengthen their minds n thinkings…… N thanks to mekas, land of the FREE, who gives equal opportunities to all!
Tos txiv neej saib tsis taus poj niam los peb cov poj niam kiag tseem ntxub tus poj niam uas raug tsim txom los ntawm txiv neej. Good for you for standing up for yourself!
Change begins with you. We need to teach our children to do better than the last generation. We need to break away from this generational curse that's holding us back from our full potential.
I agree with you sis, peb cov poj niam ces tos peb ua ib siab los twb yeej tsis muaj chaw mus lawm peb thiaj li nrauj, cov txiv dev ntawd thuam peb kawg, tabsis nws ho mus khee luag qub mas cav qab kawg thiab uv2 mob stroke kiag
Came on Ladies...This is the 21st Century...Change begins with Us Younger Generation!!! We Must Be Smart & Love Ourselves First...Don't Tolerate Cheaters & Abusers!!!
I always believe that one should never force or beg anyone to stay with u. Love can never b forced cause u will only end up suffering more. Let them go n stay strong. U don’t need him to survive. Love urself n u will find that special someone that’s for u someday. And I never let those gossipers effect me. This is the new age. Change or u will b left behind. Best of luck!!!
You Hmong women still need lots of encouragements in order for Hmong men to change. Waiting for a year is too long. You are smart and strong. Cov laus tsis yog lawv siab loj thiab uv taus tabsis vim hmoob txoj dev npua cai yuam lawv xwb os. Nws siv tsis tau rau lub tebchaws no lawm.
Yog lawm tsi muaj ib txoj cai hiss tais yuav tau niam yau.hmoob txoj caj uas yog dev puas cai es thiaj yuav tau niam tau xwb. Tiam twg yog puab hais tiaskev nkauj kev nrug yog kev txhaum no mas txhiaj tsi yuav niam tais thiab tsi yuav tau xwb os
Finally a woman who has a sense of her worth! Thank you. When you stop accepting the things you want to change, that’s when change happens. Yes we desire love, sex and everything a human being needs to connect to another human and we are not afraid to demand it. We too deserve respect, equality to make this life worth living. Being strong means making change, not enduring pain til the next life. Women, lift each other up and stop fighting on the wrong side of men.
Peb cov hmoob tseem pib ua lub neej xwb es yeej yuav muaj tej kev sib nrauj kom txog hnub peb kawm dhau lawm peb thiaj li txawj ua lub neej os. Leejtwg tsis Pom dej dag ces ua mas, yus thiaj li Paub . Tseeb tiag ces yus txawj ua ces yus rov zoo tau tabsis feem coob ces ua tag lub neej plam tag. Vim li no peb hmoob thiaj muaj Nkauj nrab nraug nrab coob li coob.
I love your story sister. Yes you are very right! I agreed with you! If the husband cheats he is out of ourlives bye and open door and open minded to someone way better will give you equality and honor love.
Omg! Ladies know your worth and put your foot down for cheaters. Stop tolerating these cheaters. Any second staying with a cheater, you will not get that back. Know your non-negotiable and cheating should be #1 for non-negotiable. The sooner you leave a cheater, the sooner you can enjoy life and what's in the future.
Yog li koj hais lawm os peb los ua neeg nyob ces tus txiv ua rau yus los yeej tsis zoo hos peb tus txiv hlub hais tsis taus peb es peb cov poj niam los txhob tham2 hluas nraug thiab os lawv los mob2 siab li peb mob thiab os zoo tshaj ces ib tug yuav tsum hlub ib tug es txhob sib ua rau sab nrauv xwb os tej no ces yeej tsis zoo rau ob le li peb tiam tam sim no ces poj niam muaj cai lawm ces cov txiv twb nyoo ntau lawm tsuas yog li ib kuag tus lawm xwb os cov coob ces cov txiv nyoo poj niam lawm os yus pom cov nroog poj niam mas yus kuj hlub thiab os koj hais ntau tseem yuav muab tus mus kaw ces lawv ntshai2 kawg os zoo li cas los sib hlub es txhob siab phem xwb os
Yog lawm. Kev uv yuav tsum yog tsim nyog tseem uv taus mas thiaj li uv. Yog dhau qhov uv tsis nyog lawm tsis tas uv uv li lawm. Nyob teb chaws vam meej sawv daws vaj huam yuav tsum sib luag. Xyov yuav yog tiam twg es poj niam li txawj hlub poj niam es cov tsis muaj txiv tsis txhob mus tham tham luag tej txiv lawm es cov niag txiv neej dev thiaj li tsis muaj muaj plhus rau txoj kev ua hluas lawm os hmoob. Tej teeb meem no ces yog pib los ntawm cov poj niam tsis muaj txiv pheej mus tham luag tej txiv nkaus xwb.
Yog lawm wakeup all suffering women lawv men saib g taus 3 vim 3 twb khov g txaus thiab hnub twg g muaj tus niam tsev ces nws yeej kawg mag kwv tij txib hlob quav bua xwv thiab tiag
txheej thaum ub poj niam tsi muaj chaw mus vim kev nrhiav noj nyuab cov poj niam thiaj uv li uv xwb.. tim si nim no peb cov poj niam tsi uv kev txim txom lawm vim peb txawj nrhiav noj duas txiv neej lawm.
There are many more things we ladies don’t need to put up with guys doing to us not just cheating. Do whatever is right for you and you know that you deserve. You don’t need to put up with his way if he is not treating you right the way you treat him. Who cares what others say… it’s not their life. When is their turn… they will do what is right for them too. More Powers to you 👍👍👏👏 he don’t deserve you just like how your parents saw in him.
Zoo kawg os ua tau li ko ces zoo kawg muab nrauj pov tseg mam nrhiav dua tshiab os mog ua tsaug uas koj tseem qhia pub rau peb ib tsoom niam tsev paub thiab ceev faj ua ntej os mog
heev kawg kuj tsis pom qab yov hais zaj twg zoo tej zaum koj kuj lam nrauj xwb tseem mob koj kawg. es peb ua neej nyob tsis hais tus poj niam los txiv neej tsis txhob muab yus lub siab 100 rau vim thaum tsis raws yus txoj kev xav lawm es thiaj tsis mob heev ua luaj lwm npaj no ces xyuam xim es thiaj li mob tsawg me ntsis nawb. lawv hais tias heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no es cia seb pos muaj li.
Best story... thank you for being a good role model. I hope women would follow your advice and this old tradition will die. I could never understand why women allow their men to cheat and why women would date married men. How other women treat divorced women... change is needed now.
👏🏼👏🏼for the lady’s courage to let go after only one year of tolerating. But much as she tried to preach, she may have let go of her cheating husband, she still took along her old mindset of being a looser, valueless hmoob women mindset. Twb tiam 21 no lawm es pojniam hmoob tseem tsis tau kam tso tseg txoj niag kev ua txiv neej qhev kom tau plhu, txoj niag kev tias tsam tsis muaj chaw tuag, txoj kev ntseeg tias tsis muaj txiv ces tsis muaj lub neej no thiab los?
Lady, you talk about how modern you are, but I still hear that tint of wanting to please your in-laws, friends, and extended family. You took all your dishes so you can provide for your husband's guest for his face. Girl, I'm way over that too. I cook when I want and feel like it. He cooks and cleans when he has the time. We occasionally go to family functions, but for the most part, we value our weekends and do short weekend trips out of town either by ourselves or with a few couples. When we have gatherings, the men do all the cooking and we both clean our house. My husband knows that the one time he cheats on me, the marriage is over. There's no me waiting for a year for him to return. I am nearly 50 years of old. There's no sense in wanting to keep a man who doesn't want to be kept. A man has to want you beyond your look, for your physical beauty and health will slowly fade away. He has to want your soul, your being.
I hate that Hmong mentality that men are superior so therefore they can date or marry other girls. My MIL had this same mindset. She took care of my FIL for 15 years and always complained how he never loved her or show affection. I told my MIL, that’s because you put him on a pedestal. What do you expect.
Yog kawg tiam 21 nov mus tsis txhob hais tias uv tsis tuag no dag xwb. yog uv tiag ces tuag tiag nawb tsis txhob cia txiv neej hmoob tau 2 zoo tsuj peb poj niam hmoob lawm nawb .nws ua saib tsis tau peb poj niam hmoob los peb yuav tsum ua kom saib cov niag txiv dev hmoob siab phem li no thiaj poob teb chaw.
Poj niam txoj kev chim los! Peb cov txiv neej los twb raug cov poj niam siab phem tsim txom npaum no thiab nyob teb chaws vam meej no, poj niam tsuas siv luag txoj cai los tsuj tus txiv neej zoo xwb.. Not all Hmong men are bad, half and half now!
Yeap. Lately May stories is half lectures. I don't listen to asuch anymore. I like other youtubers now, their stories is more of stories and no lecture.
Wow, I couldn't agree more with this woman! She may not have a college degree, but she's probably smarter than some women that have their degrees. Yes, this is the 21st century, time to change our ways of thinking. We need to teach our daughters self-love and value. We also need to teach our sons to be better men.
Some college degrees are only smart by reading not smart by the brains. I love those smart from the brains.
Agreed! 🙏
You go girl! I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for us women!
Wow I applaud this woman 💪💪 for speaking the truth and challenging hmong's so called "the norm." We are a patriarchal culture and majority of men use these so call rules to govern women and scare women. I am so proud of you for seeing that we women do not have to accept it!! More women need to see their woth and love themselves ♥️♥️❤️❤️. I know we've only been in the states for a short time but I feel education and knowledge will help us too. I believe that in the future Hmong women will not take this type of abuse. Thank you for your story. I've been waiting to hear this type of story 😘😘. May more women learn to love themselves and challenge the norm ♥️❤️.
Zab dab neeg no zoo kawg nawb
My mom raised 8 girls and always say " let me not know better, you girls are smarter than me, don't do what I do, don't stay if he doesn't love you, life is too short."
My mother is exactly like this mother in law 😂. But I chose my own road.
Doesn't matter man or women if you allow people to take advantage of you they will. Even when you have boundaries people will try to push those boundaries. If you have no boundaries people will walk all over you.
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Yes mama! Get off from that toxic and unhealthy relationship. You deserve better! He doesn't deserve you! 🙏 Peridot!!
Yes to self respect and self love. 👏👏👏 Let's teach ourselves, our daughters, other women and society that respecting women is a must. ❤️💪
Wow. I love this story. Everything she said is soo true
Yog thaum twg ob leeg tsis sib haum lawm ces kav tsij sib nraug ua ntej zoo dua nawv ....
Hais tau yog kawg.......kuv txaus siab rau koj stay strong
Preach woman! 💯 This is what every hmong woman should do & don’t have the old mindset like the old days. Be smart!
You women are killing my chance at having a second wife......please be patient! Men like me will change , lol......
You men don’t think about the second wife now days. You will got kick out in a second Lol 😂
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Ib tug txiv neej ua xwb txhob muab rau peb vov txiv neej hmong ev tag nro na leej twg ua ces cia leek twg ev xwb txhob muab rau txiv neej hmoob tag nro ev mog.
@@seannthor6954 ง ง. ง. ง. ง ง ง. ง.ฝฝ.ฝ. ฝฝฝ . ฝ. ฝง.
I applaud you for being strong and I absolutely agree with you on we women have to change first and see value in us first. Don't wait on the men to change. That will NEVER EVER happen in this life time. You go sister! 👏👏👏
Ua tsaug os me niam laus kj zaj neej neeg hai tau zoo heev li kv xav kom cov viv ncau uas uv2 tu txiv siab phem li no kom tau mloog tau kawm ua kev kawm paub os.
Nrauj Thaum hluas zoo tshaj li tos laus mam nrauj mog cov mi niam tsev.
Good job 👍 stand for your right. Hmoob txoj cai yog Dev Npua Cai txoj swb.
Tug me viv ncaus, kuv qhuas koj muaj peb xwm nawb mog. Peb cov poj niam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm li tug niam tsev no. Kuv zoo siab rau koj tsis raug tsim lawm mog.
It's true poj niam txiv neej los tham tsis tau hluas nkaug hluas nruag kiag li os niam pog aw
Agree with you 💯 % lawm os..
Peb tsis zov tus txiv siab phem lawm os..pov tseg khib nyawb kiag xwb...
Good lecture to some women who still can’t let go a loser husband.
Tus viv ncaus koj mas ua yog lawm yuav tsum ua li ko zoo heev 🤗
Thank u to many hmoob women of your generation who fought long n hard for women’s rights. Today, hmoob women R getting smarter n higher education has strengthen their minds n thinkings…… N thanks to mekas, land of the FREE, who gives equal opportunities to all!
Koj hais yog lawm os tus sister aw ua tsaug nawb mog
Yog lawm poj niam yeej rua txiv neej thiab tsim peb ...
Kuv tu txiv lo yeej zoo li zaj neej neeg no thiab o kuv tu txiv ma zai siab tham hlua nkauj thiab lwj siab heev li o
Tos txiv neej saib tsis taus poj niam los peb cov poj niam kiag tseem ntxub tus poj niam uas raug tsim txom los ntawm txiv neej.
Good for you for standing up for yourself!
Yes
Hais yog kawg li lawm os. Gotta have some self-respect.
Change begins with you. We need to teach our children to do better than the last generation. We need to break away from this generational curse that's holding us back from our full potential.
💯%
Yog kawm li koj hais lawm os
Yog kawg lawm os tus me niam tsev, kuv los yeej sav li koj thiab
I agree with you sis, peb cov poj niam ces tos peb ua ib siab los twb yeej tsis muaj chaw mus lawm peb thiaj li nrauj, cov txiv dev ntawd thuam peb kawg, tabsis nws ho mus khee luag qub mas cav qab kawg thiab uv2 mob stroke kiag
Yog kawg cov poj niam es hais tias uv tsi tuag cia tug txiv ua hluas mas yog neeg tsuam tshaj plawg li lawm
Came on Ladies...This is the 21st Century...Change begins with Us Younger Generation!!! We Must Be Smart & Love Ourselves First...Don't Tolerate Cheaters & Abusers!!!
Anyone got funny stories to share so we can hear May’s laughing? I miss her cute laugh.
Yes, I agree! I miss hearing May Vang’s laughing. Please tell more funny stories, May.
I always believe that one should never force or beg anyone to stay with u. Love can never b forced cause u will only end up suffering more. Let them go n stay strong. U don’t need him to survive. Love urself n u will find that special someone that’s for u someday. And I never let those gossipers effect me. This is the new age. Change or u will b left behind. Best of luck!!!
ua ca hai tau zoo lua li kv ma nym kj cov neej neeg heev li pab txawb zog 6kj zaj no nb
You Hmong women still need lots of encouragements in order for Hmong men to change. Waiting for a year is too long. You are smart and strong. Cov laus tsis yog lawv siab loj thiab uv taus tabsis vim hmoob txoj dev npua cai yuam lawv xwb os. Nws siv tsis tau rau lub tebchaws no lawm.
Good for u sister! I'm glad u smarten up and your mentality got stronger. I believe the same as u.
Ua tau txaus siab kawg li
Let be happy 😃 be better because they not ur life
Koj haig yog kawg li lawm os
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love hearing strong & powerful stories.
Niam lau aw kuv yog i tug neeg nyiam nloog dab neeg heev koj kav tsij hias naw
Hais tau yog tshaj li os tus Viv ncaus aw. Yuav tau coj li koj coj ko thiaj li tsis rau lub neej yav laus os
Yog lawm tsi muaj ib txoj cai hiss tais yuav tau niam yau.hmoob txoj caj uas yog dev puas cai es thiaj yuav tau niam tau xwb. Tiam twg yog puab hais tiaskev nkauj kev nrug yog kev txhaum no mas txhiaj tsi yuav niam tais thiab tsi yuav tau xwb os
Koj hais yog lawm sister
Finally a woman who has a sense of her worth! Thank you. When you stop accepting the things you want to change, that’s when change happens. Yes we desire love, sex and everything a human being needs to connect to another human and we are not afraid to demand it. We too deserve respect, equality to make this life worth living. Being strong means making change, not enduring pain til the next life. Women, lift each other up and stop fighting on the wrong side of men.
Hais yog tshaj plaws!!!
Peb cov hmoob tseem pib ua lub neej xwb es yeej yuav muaj tej kev sib nrauj kom txog hnub peb kawm dhau lawm peb thiaj li txawj ua lub neej os. Leejtwg tsis Pom dej dag ces ua mas, yus thiaj li Paub . Tseeb tiag ces yus txawj ua ces yus rov zoo tau tabsis feem coob ces ua tag lub neej plam tag. Vim li no peb hmoob thiaj muaj Nkauj nrab nraug nrab coob li coob.
Niag tsov tom poj niam dev liam li koj kos es thiaj li muaj cov poj nrauj li koj kos ma lov
Women we need to stand up for our right knowing that we are important as men. 21st century we need to change now & forward.
I love your story sister. Yes you are very right! I agreed with you! If the husband cheats he is out of ourlives bye and open door and open minded to someone way better will give you equality and honor love.
Thank you very much...the stores u has preaching is so wonderful for me to no...i thank you!..keep up the good work...bye!
Omg! Ladies know your worth and put your foot down for cheaters. Stop tolerating these cheaters. Any second staying with a cheater, you will not get that back. Know your non-negotiable and cheating should be #1 for non-negotiable. The sooner you leave a cheater, the sooner you can enjoy life and what's in the future.
Yog kawg! Love this 👌🏻
Hais tseeb, apple poob tsis deb ntawm tsob ntoo yog leej txiv xuaj ces tub yeej xuaj, peb cov ntxhais yuav tau rua muag saib, mloog niam txiv hais, yog tus lawv tsis pom zoo lawm ces yeej tsis zoo.
Kuv ghia rau peb cov pom Niam tias cov txiv neej lawv twb tsis muaj chaw Nyob lawm los cov txiv ua nrauj pom Niam
Xav kom peb cov vivncaus hmong xav li koj xav es thiaj tsis raug tsim li yav tag los
Yog li koj hais lawm os peb los ua neeg nyob ces tus txiv ua rau yus los yeej tsis zoo hos peb tus txiv hlub hais tsis taus peb es peb cov poj niam los txhob tham2 hluas nraug thiab os lawv los mob2 siab li peb mob thiab os zoo tshaj ces ib tug yuav tsum hlub ib tug es txhob sib ua rau sab nrauv xwb os tej no ces yeej tsis zoo rau ob le li peb tiam tam sim no ces poj niam muaj cai lawm ces cov txiv twb nyoo ntau lawm tsuas yog li ib kuag tus lawm xwb os cov coob ces cov txiv nyoo poj niam lawm os yus pom cov nroog poj niam mas yus kuj hlub thiab os koj hais ntau tseem yuav muab tus mus kaw ces lawv ntshai2 kawg os zoo li cas los sib hlub es txhob siab phem xwb os
Yog tshaj li os...kv lub neeg ces yog kiag li ko hais os
Yog lawm. Kev uv yuav tsum yog tsim nyog tseem uv taus mas thiaj li uv. Yog dhau qhov uv tsis nyog lawm tsis tas uv uv li lawm. Nyob teb chaws vam meej sawv daws vaj huam yuav tsum sib luag. Xyov yuav yog tiam twg es poj niam li txawj hlub poj niam es cov tsis muaj txiv tsis txhob mus tham tham luag tej txiv lawm es cov niag txiv neej dev thiaj li tsis muaj muaj plhus rau txoj kev ua hluas lawm os hmoob. Tej teeb meem no ces yog pib los ntawm cov poj niam tsis muaj txiv pheej mus tham luag tej txiv nkaus xwb.
I feel and think exactly like the sister in this story. Similar experience
Cov me muam aw... Tam sim no g muaj pog nplas yawg nplas lawm os.. Yog nej ntshai. Ces mus tom vaj tswv lub zos xwb . vaj tswv tos peb txhua2 tus na
THANK YOU, FINALLY!!! Preach on Sister!!!!
Tus niam tsev no kuj hais yog kawg lawm, peb cov poj niam yuav tsum paub sib koom siab sib hlub, sib fwm, thiab sib txhawb rau qhov zoo. Peb yuav tau qhia peb cov ntxhais kom txhob tham txhob muab yus lub pilib no rau cov txiv nej ua muaj poj niam aim, vim lwm hnub koj los yuav paub laus ib yam ces cov ntxhais hluas ntawv yuav ua rau koj thiab no nawb...
Yog lawm wakeup all suffering women lawv men saib g taus 3 vim 3 twb khov g txaus thiab hnub twg g muaj tus niam tsev ces nws yeej kawg mag kwv tij txib hlob quav bua xwv thiab tiag
txheej thaum ub poj niam tsi muaj chaw mus vim kev nrhiav noj nyuab
cov poj niam thiaj uv li uv xwb..
tim si nim no peb cov poj niam tsi uv kev txim txom lawm vim peb txawj nrhiav noj duas txiv neej lawm.
Yes! Another smart woman!
niam May aw cas hais rau nej cov pojniam yuav xwb kuv tsi pom cov pojniam ua li koj hais kuv pom peb txiv neej ua rau pojniam ntau tshaj lawm
Yog kawg mas kuv twb ntsib li koj hais ko lawm os tus mi niam laus siab zoo aw
There are many more things we ladies don’t need to put up with guys doing to us not just cheating.
Do whatever is right for you and you know that you deserve. You don’t need to put up with his way if he is not treating you right the way you treat him.
Who cares what others say… it’s not their life. When is their turn… they will do what is right for them too.
More Powers to you 👍👍👏👏 he don’t deserve you just like how your parents saw in him.
Zoo kawg os ua tau li ko ces zoo kawg muab nrauj pov tseg mam nrhiav dua tshiab os mog ua tsaug uas koj tseem qhia pub rau peb ib tsoom niam tsev paub thiab ceev faj ua ntej os mog
Niam lau aw tso koj lub neej rau peb pog os niam lau
Cov uas nyiam ua niam hlob Niam yau ces yog maum dev txiv dev xwb os
heev kawg kuj tsis pom qab yov hais zaj twg zoo tej zaum koj kuj lam nrauj xwb tseem mob koj kawg. es peb ua neej nyob tsis hais tus poj niam los txiv neej tsis txhob muab yus lub siab 100 rau vim thaum tsis raws yus txoj kev xav lawm es thiaj tsis mob heev ua luaj
lwm npaj no ces xyuam xim es thiaj li mob tsawg me ntsis nawb.
lawv hais tias heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no es cia seb pos muaj li.
Women powerrr!!!!
Amen!🙌👏👏
Awesome story! I told agree with is lady! Stop living in the past ladies! These men out here, think they are all that ....
Best story... thank you for being a good role model. I hope women would follow your advice and this old tradition will die. I could never understand why women allow their men to cheat and why women would date married men. How other women treat divorced women... change is needed now.
Thanks for all the great tips, sister!
👍👍👍👍👍👍
yog lawm o niam lau aw cas hai yog ua luaj
👏🏼👏🏼for the lady’s courage to let go after only one year of tolerating.
But much as she tried to preach, she may have let go of her cheating husband, she still took along her old mindset of being a looser, valueless hmoob women mindset.
Twb tiam 21 no lawm es pojniam hmoob tseem tsis tau kam tso tseg txoj niag kev ua txiv neej qhev kom tau plhu, txoj niag kev tias tsam tsis muaj chaw tuag, txoj kev ntseeg tias tsis muaj txiv ces tsis muaj lub neej no thiab los?
Cov txivneej siab phem li ko ces thov lub ntuj kom npam nws rab qau kom tuag ntsws ntsee tseg. Nws lub ntsej muag ntawd yeej tsis muaj nqis ntxiv.
Sister Cas Tsi hais txog koj niag txiv lub neej zoo li cas lawm es cia li quab qhia pom niam lawm xwb pab tu siab os
Lady, you talk about how modern you are, but I still hear that tint of wanting to please your in-laws, friends, and extended family. You took all your dishes so you can provide for your husband's guest for his face. Girl, I'm way over that too. I cook when I want and feel like it. He cooks and cleans when he has the time. We occasionally go to family functions, but for the most part, we value our weekends and do short weekend trips out of town either by ourselves or with a few couples. When we have gatherings, the men do all the cooking and we both clean our house. My husband knows that the one time he cheats on me, the marriage is over. There's no me waiting for a year for him to return. I am nearly 50 years of old. There's no sense in wanting to keep a man who doesn't want to be kept. A man has to want you beyond your look, for your physical beauty and health will slowly fade away. He has to want your soul, your being.
Cov laus thaum tsis muaj kev txawj ntse lawv thiabuv nim no cov hluastxhob uv lawm nrauj kiag xwb yus thiaj yeej
Koj lub neej zoo nkaus kuv lub kiag.
It takes a strong woman to put up with men bosiaj!!!
dag xwb o yuav yog nrauj mus tau tug zoo yog tsis zoo ces yuav khuv xim heev
Tsis thas yuav muaj txiv thiaj yuav ciaj sav, cas thiaj khuv xim ma?
I hate that Hmong mentality that men are superior so therefore they can date or marry other girls. My MIL had this same mindset. She took care of my FIL for 15 years and always complained how he never loved her or show affection. I told my MIL, that’s because you put him on a pedestal. What do you expect.
Yog kawg tiam 21 nov mus tsis txhob hais tias uv tsis tuag no dag xwb. yog uv tiag ces tuag tiag nawb tsis txhob cia txiv neej hmoob tau 2 zoo tsuj peb poj niam hmoob lawm nawb .nws ua saib tsis tau peb poj niam hmoob los peb yuav tsum ua kom saib cov niag txiv dev hmoob siab phem li no thiaj poob teb chaw.
Poj niam txoj kev chim los!
Peb cov txiv neej los twb raug cov poj niam siab phem tsim txom npaum no thiab nyob teb chaws vam meej no, poj niam tsuas siv luag txoj cai los tsuj tus txiv neej zoo xwb..
Not all Hmong men are bad, half and half now!
Sister, you are so right about if the husband is doing things are wrong to you. Get rid of the disease before it kills you.
Lau lawm nruj ho zoo dab g
Zoo uas tau kev kaj siab ne, dim kev mag tsim mag tsuj ne.
KUV AGREE NROG KOJ OS TUS MI NIAM TSEV..🙏
yg lm os
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Yog zoo li kos ces koj mu aim dub aim mev aim mekas xwb ma lov txhob los aim hmoob nawb lov koj na
You’re correct! I support you 100%!!!
I’m here for a story not a lecture.
Yeap. Lately May stories is half lectures. I don't listen to asuch anymore. I like other youtubers now, their stories is more of stories and no lecture.