@@KenW418probably didn’t just mindlessly throw the money into a downpayment; it’s smarter to save/invest it. $10,000 is definitely a good start to SAVE for a house. (Creator reply kinda answered this but wanted to comment as well)
@@Walhor 90% of what we do is just copied from medieval nobility. Lavish weddings, personal rooms, indoor toilets the fact we call cow meat beef. Most stem from it being exclusive to nobility but time has made it accessible to everyone.
I hope Noah realizes what type of a person carrie is before marrying her. He won't divorce her if he's, like OP said, a hard core Christian. His life will be miserable
The parents in this really remind me of the parents from the story of the guy whose little sister was spoiled rotten by the parents and it all came to a head at his birthday party when the whole extended family got on the parents case. Now the parents are dealing with the repercussions of spoiling their daughter. Mom and stepdad in this more than likely will have the same outcome, and using the past as an indicator, will still enable Karrie. It's fucking ridiculous to teach two daughters to be frugal, but to let the third one bankrupt them. Shame on them for enabling Karrie.
@@kevinsaysyuhno I think he's talking about the one where the kid snapped at his 18th/high school graduation party and sister trashed his car (gift from granddad)
Reminds me of the autistic spoiled brother whose family basically played favorites until the other family members got involved and the normal brother cut out all contact with his immediate family. And the mom and dad were left to deal with the spoiled autistic brother.
The two daughters were forced to be frugal and retained it after they got a better life. The 3rd daughter has been living a glamorous life since her childhood.
Its common from Family that when into Poverty and got out of it not wanting to force the same life on her last daughter she give it everything she want so it end like that
Heres a solution to the problem, uninvite her to the wedding entirely. Anyone regardless of family status trying to hijack your day or downright disrespected every factor of your choices, they dont need to be there. Its your day, you dont need to explain why you uninvited your spoiled sister. Anyone has a problem with that gets uninvited too. Any problems?
@@rileyrose16 as the first reply stated, this option would require a spine: "Ok you're all uninvited to my wedding. I would love to have you all there but not if MY day is an excuse to accommodate my sister and whatever whims you want me to carry for her sake. I'll take this to the court office, get a marriage certificate, and save the rest of our money for our house. Sorry you feel my sister needs to have a say in something not related to her at all." If that doesn't work, no contact. Ain't nobody putting their fingers in my food. Get your own.
The problem here is the parents, who coddle and dismiss how Karrie is a horrible person - anyone who calls a PREGNANT BRIDE a fxking fat Swan is a horrible person. Everyone in this family is messed UP and needs therapy, If I was OP I would have Just cut contact with everyone but Laura and that is it.
To me it's worse than that, her own sister caved and allowed the behaviour. Just let the bitch not come to the wedding, if she tries to ruin it then she exposes herself to everyone.
I think the youngest symbolizes her relationship with her husband. That relationship is what pretty much took her out of poverty and gave her family a super safe lifestyle. Not saying it's right, but it's not surprising she spoils the youngest.
@@ronror Agreed. And she spoils her because she now can afford it. I think secretly -- but now out in the open -- that Karrie has been the mom's favorite child. And I'll bet anything MOM has also been fuming that OP got to be maid of honor instead of her "baby". The way she didn't stop Karrie from saying all those things to Laura is disgusting. And probably the Mom shares the same feelings.
Unfortunately you see it with some people. They have a child with a new partner and see that child like a representation of the new relationship. Maybe it’s not outright playing favourites, but due the relationship and then being younger they can be spoiled by it all
For those who don't know, any type of stress can really harm a fetus. That's why it's best to try and make sure the mother is mainly relaxed. The stress could cause a miscarriage or depression with heightened emotions.
I hoped so much that the stepdad was leaving the mom in the update. The OP was painted as the bad guy in the end by the family, and they don't even realize
Carrie is what happens when parents don't let siblings beat the hell out of each other. Noah ain't gonna be able to keep his ark afloat if he tethers himself to the anchor that is Carrie.
Man the cringe, karrie's so childish wtf, and shes 20??? Her action and attitude speaks for itself dude, she never valued the wedding's importance how laura and all sane adults view the matrimonial event; its like karrie's treating it as fashion show or props for her social media image or a feel for her wedding when hers (arguably) happens- its all about karrie. Especially poor laura, her wish was stolen from her. Karrie's actions are disgusting I also cant wait for the family to see this post everywhere 🙏 also, poor mom but they brought this on themselves. Theres no rationality going on except op, laura and their s/o I just hope op's wedding would be peaceful with laura and they should just cut their losses with these three. I dont even think karrie would go moh for op given the events and i think shes too prideful to take accountability and reconcile, but going nc because she wasnt granted to have moh position with op also sounds like a realm of possibility for this excuse of a human...
Sometimes age doesn't represent someone's mental maturity. This seems like a case of a 13 year old girl who never grew up because she manipulated her parents into getting everything.
Good for Laura and step dad, for finally growing a spine for Laura and having a come-to-jesus moment for the stepdad after op basically telling him how much his daughter(the brat) care more about being the center of attention then her own sister . Think stepdad and "mommy Dearest " we're fighting because he wanted to tell her(the brat) off and tell her to go apologize to her sisters but mom didn't want her favorite to face the consequences are her actions
I think the real reason Laura lets her spoiled sister have her way is beacuse her step dad considers the spoiled sister the golden child. And since laura and step dad arent blood related she feels he can cut her off emotionally and financially. And rightfully so doesnt want that.
or MAYBE screaming at a pregnant woman full of hormones and emotions ISNT good for her mental state. what kinda of statement is this lets use our heads for 2 seconds its not that hard. especially with someone that manic that could possibly ruin her marriage.
And she doesn't want to lose the baby from all the stress Karrie screaming at her, and potentially later recruiting other people to if denied, causing. Its a shitty thing to do, rewarding tantrums of abusive priveledged piece of shit at the expense of a calmer sister, but she chose to bend just to make it through the milestone with the baby unharmed
Seems the mom has issues and carried it to the youngest daughter. Also makes sense how she coddles her because birds of a feather. Mom is 1000% an indicator of how Carrie will end up. Seems that the mom amd carrie both have SOs who don't have a spine. Sadly Laura and her fiance don't either and the op is the only one with one.
God… This feels like my family life grow it up. Everyone bending to the will of the entitled child at the cost of everyone else. The one that will screech and kick to no end till they get their way. Giving in to them takes precedent over justice because they are too spineless to handle their child. They consider “peace” ( the reasonable ones giving in for their own sake) a conclusion where they can cease handling the real problem. That mom is such an enabler.
I really don’t like how op had to not only be the only one with a backbone but also was forced to be the bad guy in every situation all because they couldn’t tell Karrie no
Well hope Laura enjoys Carrie as the main aunt in her life because I'm sure the dummy is gonna bulldoze in their constantly to prove she is a good mom to that idiot boyfriend.
Oh my god! Karrie is such a witch! Like it wasn’t her god dang wedding. “My family is bullying me after I screamed at my pregnant half sister when she told me I could wear a 2K pink dress at her frugal blue themed wedding and that I was ONLY a bridesmaid who got to help with all the planning” seriously Karrie needs to get her act together. It’s not all spoiling I thinks that Karrie was just a horrible person in general. Karrie sucks and no one is “stirring drama” by calling her out on it. If anything OP and Laura didn’t do enough, I’d kick her out of the wedding and my life without hesitation.
The dad figure in the family is supposed to be the one to control his child's arrogance and attitude, straighten them out to be exact. But this dad has no standards of behavior or manners. How can he let his daughter verbally abuse his pregnant step daughter who is announcing her wedding? The dad is the failure and the one at fault in this story, and the mom for babying and preferring Karrie over her other daughters who went through life of frugality with her. The mother is too nurturing (bad mother) and the father is bad at being a father (letting his children do whatever they feel like)
The parents seeded this whole mess. They could have stopped everything in its tracks at the startc and allowed the youngest to destroy their whole family. What awful parents.
Nothing more unattractive than an adult who has a temper tantrum like a five year old child until they get what they want, and the parents supporting that kind of behavior. It's just creating an inadequate monster to be unleashed upon the world. I also had a similar experience of cutting ties to my family as much as possible, and looking like the toxic one for breaking the family apart, when I was just trying to escape the abuse. They treated me like a door mat, and I certainly don't want that kind of life back.
That Karrie is a disgusting person. Absolutely horrid. Brought on drama and trauma and made her own mom break down. Jesus even I would disown her and I'm all about family.
Ouch, my condolence for Carrie's fiance... We know he would endure the tantrum she would lash at him because she's his first relationship, I feel sorry for him already...
Poor Noah...he is in so much trouble. I really wish he'd see reality before it's too late, but i guess he won't. Unfortunately the world mostly doesn't adhere to his values anymore, and blindly going with it won't make it so it does... Change course buddy, change course.
He'd need a message from God about Genesis 6:14 before he'd change his mind about marriage. With Christianity, much like Catholicism, marriage is a _one and done_ thing. Once you pick someone, it really is until death does you part. Man's cursed.
I have a niece who was a bridezilla. As for me, I thought it was about having a little party. I didn’t care about the dresses, the food or anything. I just picked out cute dresses that were cheap and lied about the price to make them even cheaper. My mom picked up the price for most of it. What is wrong with people. Fairytale wedding. Give me a break
My advice, get one of those genealogy tests, the ones that use saliva as a DNA test and see if that can connect OP and Laura to their bio dad(s). Seems like with the breakdown of support and contact with bio mom and stepdad, it might be a good idea to look into what's been going on with the paternal family, see if the poorly handled mental health is what drove off one or more of bio mom's exes, including the bio dad(s) of the older sisters before the father(s) new about the pregnancies.
Wow. This is wild. I feel so sorry for OP for having to go through this toxic family dynamic while basically being told they’re a terrible person for having healthy boundaries and not letting Karrie throw a fit. Like, the way I was shocked at “I know honey she’s being so rude to you.” Like, I don’t even think Karrie is the true evil here because she didn’t learn to be this entitled and selfish on her own. She learned all that from her mother it sounds like. Reminds me of something I’ve been feeling really down about. I have a little brother. We have a 18 year age difference. Most people who see us together tend to think he’s my son. And honestly, sometimes I struggle not to see him that way too because I’m always the one trying to teach him right from wrong and I’m the one stuck with disciplining bad behavior because my mom doesn’t want to go through it. I realized my mom really started saying passive aggressive things like “why can’t we just get along” or “why does everything have to be an arguement” and other things like that with the implication that I’m the one to blame just because I’m an adult. But, in a lot of those cases where she doesn’t want to hear us argue it’s because HE acted out. At one point he didn’t like that I told him he couldn’t jump around on the furniture because he could hurt himself, and he got upset that I dared to tell him that we wasn’t allowed to break the rules so he closed fist hit me in the mouth. And our mom, without listening to why I started going off on him, started saying those things. And it’s just making me sad realizing that my brother is most likely going to grow up into an entitled piece of garbage. I don’t blame him. He used to be super super sweet but he ended up developing a really dangerous medical condition and the medication he takes to help with that has very very very bad behavioral side effects. So he has so much trouble keeping his anger and emotions in check. And my mom already didn’t like being “the bad guy” with the discipline thing so it was always up to me to make sure he understood consequences to his actions. But now that his health is so poor it’s like she doesn’t want him to have any consequences ever because oh her pooor baby. And so because I still believe it’s important that my brother not think it’s okay to assault people or yell at adults or do whatever he pleases, I’m just at fault. It’s like she thinks because I’m so much older, I’m not a traditional older sister and I should just turn the other cheek. It doesn’t matter if my brother hurts me or that he thinks it’s normal that he does these things and it’s really starting to make me feel worthless in twofold ways. One, because I’m made to feel like I’m in the wrong for having boundaries. And two, I feel like a failure of a sister because I let my mother stop mw from fully discipline him as he needs to be to actually stop the behavior so I’m knowingly allowed my brother to turn into Karrie kind of person. And yeah, I’ve seen how in families you have one abusive person who treats the whole family badly but everyone just covers for that person and makes excuses and you having boundaries is wrong and rocks the boat. I feel for op. But my situation is nowhere near as bad.
All the comments on how Karrie wanted the Laura's wedding to go had me so triggered, like GIRL ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING IF YOU WANT TO MAKE CHANGES THEN MARRY SOMEBODY AND HAVE YOUR OWN WEDDING WHERE YOU CAN DECIDE HOW IT GOES!!!
I wonder where the OP got the backbone, because clearly her mom and older sister don't have it. How? I can't imagine letting this type of behavior slide for that important of a day.
Damn looked it up and this story is 3 years old and op didn't make any post after this. And people are saying the pregnant sister is wrong as if she isn't FUCKIN pregnant and shouldn't have to deal with this stress
I feel sorry for Noah. But really, I feel sorry for Op's life and how Carrie is destroying everything. She will end so alone with her mom that still threats her like a baby.
The saddest part is how she called him dad throughout the post unless she was explaining the fact that he was her step-dad. Only to end the post with step-dad just because of her sister’s tantrums. What horrible parents.
I grew up spoiled and my advice and dont give in to spoiled demands. But also dont judge, its hard for spoiled people to change but its possible. Believe me
Don't get OP, as soon as bride-to-be gave into the gremlin, I would have just asked for any money I'd wasted to be repaid and that they should enjoy their wedding. Not to mention the bahviour of the mother, blocked for the time being? More like blocked forever.
That's the resentment you get from the mix family situation. I can't blame the sisters for their reaction towards their half sister but also half sister attitude is steming from the knowledge it's her daddy's money.
This kinda just made me like almost hate everyone in this story because Karrie is very spoiled and childish the parents don’t do anything and Laura just like I get she’s pregnant and stuff but like just like yk👍
op needs to go nc with both of her sisters as her older sister is a weak and spineless also shouldn't be having a child as she wont stand up for herself so the crazy aunt is gonna be allowed around a defenseless child.the fiancee should take the kid after its born and leave
@@napinkpa Their recommendations were constantly changing and contradictory at times. They have lost all credibility and people who follow their advice are clowns.
We went through one of the worst pandemics in known History. Of course, they didn't have all the answers. It was a lot of trial and error and I'm happy that in the continent I live most people respected the rules and were very cautious, meanwhile, the continent I am from was pure chaos people took the opposite approach.
Everyone here is annoying, between OP saying Carrie isn’t “throw a tantrum” spoiled at the beginning when she is clearly very spoiled regardless, Laura getting knocked up before getting married in what sounds like the height of the pandemic, and the incompetent parents.
Also, Laura quickly giving up her sister’s role to appease the brat. And saying “it’s unacceptable to yell at a pregnant woman under any circumstances”? That’s so dumb ffs
Laura is a real one, using the wedding money to downpay a house
Right!? Nice to have a good 3% down payment...
@@KenW418 right, because people usually do not save money, they are just given, silly me
@@KenW418probably didn’t just mindlessly throw the money into a downpayment; it’s smarter to save/invest it. $10,000 is definitely a good start to SAVE for a house.
(Creator reply kinda answered this but wanted to comment as well)
Never understood those lavish weddings anyway, so good the money got spent on something long term
@@Walhor 90% of what we do is just copied from medieval nobility. Lavish weddings, personal rooms, indoor toilets the fact we call cow meat beef. Most stem from it being exclusive to nobility but time has made it accessible to everyone.
"Can't be around negative energy" when she's the entire bottle of poison
Tbf shes right, everyone around her isnt negative so she only sees her own energy bouncing off them
I think the parents definitely spiked the bottle, but I am.a bit worried about the mom, as she seems to be doing so to cope real hard.
She a sea of poison
She's not the bottle of poison. She's the entire cauldron
Noah is in a boatload of trouble if he marries Carrie.
Noah, get the boat.
@@zacharyrollick6169it’s raining time
I think you mean he is in a planetload of trouble if he marries carrie
that’s gonna be one extravagant wedding and one pathetic marriage
@@keppinks I wish op told us what happened at the wedding
I hope Noah realizes what type of a person carrie is before marrying her. He won't divorce her if he's, like OP said, a hard core Christian. His life will be miserable
He got plenty of warnings and still got down on one knee, he will become the step dad.
Like everyone said, hes hard core Christian and so hes hard core Committed
@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona man better hope carrie cheats. it the only divorce allowed in the bible.
@@BaeBunnidon't forget the whole "love thy neighbour" and "forgiveness is a virtue"
Only hardcore religious nuts can be delusional enough to marry a living nightmare like Carrie 😂
The parents in this really remind me of the parents from the story of the guy whose little sister was spoiled rotten by the parents and it all came to a head at his birthday party when the whole extended family got on the parents case. Now the parents are dealing with the repercussions of spoiling their daughter. Mom and stepdad in this more than likely will have the same outcome, and using the past as an indicator, will still enable Karrie. It's fucking ridiculous to teach two daughters to be frugal, but to let the third one bankrupt them. Shame on them for enabling Karrie.
Ohh yeahh, was he not the one accused of S.A?
@@kevinsaysyuhno I think he's talking about the one where the kid snapped at his 18th/high school graduation party and sister trashed his car (gift from granddad)
Reminds me of the autistic spoiled brother whose family basically played favorites until the other family members got involved and the normal brother cut out all contact with his immediate family. And the mom and dad were left to deal with the spoiled autistic brother.
The two daughters were forced to be frugal and retained it after they got a better life. The 3rd daughter has been living a glamorous life since her childhood.
Its common from Family that when into Poverty and got out of it not wanting to force the same life on her last daughter she give it everything she want so it end like that
Heres a solution to the problem, uninvite her to the wedding entirely. Anyone regardless of family status trying to hijack your day or downright disrespected every factor of your choices, they dont need to be there. Its your day, you dont need to explain why you uninvited your spoiled sister. Anyone has a problem with that gets uninvited too. Any problems?
Problem: Requires a Spine.
Laura: Doesn't have one strong enough to do so.
problem-if they uninvite Karrie and their parents don't like it, they can't uninvite the parents because it's in their backyard
@@rileyrose16 as the first reply stated, this option would require a spine: "Ok you're all uninvited to my wedding. I would love to have you all there but not if MY day is an excuse to accommodate my sister and whatever whims you want me to carry for her sake. I'll take this to the court office, get a marriage certificate, and save the rest of our money for our house. Sorry you feel my sister needs to have a say in something not related to her at all."
If that doesn't work, no contact. Ain't nobody putting their fingers in my food. Get your own.
@@JustSaiyanDude that could go wrong to cause remember they are paying for half the house too
Once money is gifted it cannot be taken back
The problem here is the parents, who coddle and dismiss how Karrie is a horrible person - anyone who calls a PREGNANT BRIDE a fxking fat Swan is a horrible person. Everyone in this family is messed UP and needs therapy, If I was OP I would have Just cut contact with everyone but Laura and that is it.
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She did cut out contact with everyone but laura actually
I'm so in shock at how the mom supported the other daughter than her own one, I mean both of them are her daughters but still...
To me it's worse than that, her own sister caved and allowed the behaviour. Just let the bitch not come to the wedding, if she tries to ruin it then she exposes herself to everyone.
From what I understood, Carrie is also her daughter, they just have different dads
I think the youngest symbolizes her relationship with her husband. That relationship is what pretty much took her out of poverty and gave her family a super safe lifestyle.
Not saying it's right, but it's not surprising she spoils the youngest.
@@ronror Agreed. And she spoils her because she now can afford it. I think secretly -- but now out in the open -- that Karrie has been the mom's favorite child. And I'll bet anything MOM has also been fuming that OP got to be maid of honor instead of her "baby". The way she didn't stop Karrie from saying all those things to Laura is disgusting. And probably the Mom shares the same feelings.
Unfortunately you see it with some people. They have a child with a new partner and see that child like a representation of the new relationship. Maybe it’s not outright playing favourites, but due the relationship and then being younger they can be spoiled by it all
For those who don't know, any type of stress can really harm a fetus. That's why it's best to try and make sure the mother is mainly relaxed. The stress could cause a miscarriage or depression with heightened emotions.
Fr. 😕
I hoped so much that the stepdad was leaving the mom in the update. The OP was painted as the bad guy in the end by the family, and they don't even realize
I would hope, but sadly I don't think so. Maybe a fight. Karrie is his and he left her there, so idk
Everyone's the hero in their own story.
@@Michael_800even so, there’s still only one truth, and everyone should try to reach it instead of living in the world of their own fantasies
Carrie is what happens when parents don't let siblings beat the hell out of each other.
Noah ain't gonna be able to keep his ark afloat if he tethers himself to the anchor that is Carrie.
An anchor isn't gonna bring down any boat or ship.
More like Carrie is a huge pile of shit that is weighted down and finally sinking.
Man the cringe, karrie's so childish wtf, and shes 20???
Her action and attitude speaks for itself dude, she never valued the wedding's importance how laura and all sane adults view the matrimonial event; its like karrie's treating it as fashion show or props for her social media image or a feel for her wedding when hers (arguably) happens- its all about karrie. Especially poor laura, her wish was stolen from her. Karrie's actions are disgusting
I also cant wait for the family to see this post everywhere 🙏 also, poor mom but they brought this on themselves. Theres no rationality going on except op, laura and their s/o
I just hope op's wedding would be peaceful with laura and they should just cut their losses with these three. I dont even think karrie would go moh for op given the events and i think shes too prideful to take accountability and reconcile, but going nc because she wasnt granted to have moh position with op also sounds like a realm of possibility for this excuse of a human...
Sometimes age doesn't represent someone's mental maturity. This seems like a case of a 13 year old girl who never grew up because she manipulated her parents into getting everything.
Good for Laura and step dad, for finally growing a spine for Laura and having a come-to-jesus moment for the stepdad after op basically telling him how much his daughter(the brat) care more about being the center of attention then her own sister .
Think stepdad and "mommy Dearest " we're fighting because he wanted to tell her(the brat) off and tell her to go apologize to her sisters but mom didn't want her favorite to face the consequences are her actions
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I can't stand parents who have zero accountability for their obvious favored child
The audacity to call her pathetic and jealous even though she acted like that 3 days ago
I think the real reason Laura lets her spoiled sister have her way is beacuse her step dad considers the spoiled sister the golden child. And since laura and step dad arent blood related she feels he can cut her off emotionally and financially. And rightfully so doesnt want that.
She just wants the money for down-payment
or MAYBE screaming at a pregnant woman full of hormones and emotions ISNT good for her mental state. what kinda of statement is this lets use our heads for 2 seconds its not that hard. especially with someone that manic that could possibly ruin her marriage.
And she doesn't want to lose the baby from all the stress Karrie screaming at her, and potentially later recruiting other people to if denied, causing. Its a shitty thing to do, rewarding tantrums of abusive priveledged piece of shit at the expense of a calmer sister, but she chose to bend just to make it through the milestone with the baby unharmed
Give back the 10k and uninvite the mother, step father and half sister.
Laura probably rather give in than try to fight it. Being pregnant usually does that to you.
"you have no right to ban someone from your house"
Golden.
So at the end karrie got her way. And its sad, because she took down the only person who wouldn't bend their back for her
Seems the mom has issues and carried it to the youngest daughter.
Also makes sense how she coddles her because birds of a feather.
Mom is 1000% an indicator of how Carrie will end up.
Seems that the mom amd carrie both have SOs who don't have a spine. Sadly Laura and her fiance don't either and the op is the only one with one.
God…
This feels like my family life grow it up.
Everyone bending to the will of the entitled child at the cost of everyone else.
The one that will screech and kick to no end till they get their way.
Giving in to them takes precedent over justice because they are too spineless to handle their child. They consider “peace” ( the reasonable ones giving in for their own sake) a conclusion where they can cease handling the real problem.
That mom is such an enabler.
I'm too petty to put up with that. Changing something like that for a brat and leave me in the dark? Dont expect me at your wedding then.
She's spineless and a doormat.
I really don’t like how op had to not only be the only one with a backbone but also was forced to be the bad guy in every situation all because they couldn’t tell Karrie no
Well hope Laura enjoys Carrie as the main aunt in her life because I'm sure the dummy is gonna bulldoze in their constantly to prove she is a good mom to that idiot boyfriend.
Oh my god! Karrie is such a witch! Like it wasn’t her god dang wedding. “My family is bullying me after I screamed at my pregnant half sister when she told me I could wear a 2K pink dress at her frugal blue themed wedding and that I was ONLY a bridesmaid who got to help with all the planning” seriously Karrie needs to get her act together. It’s not all spoiling I thinks that Karrie was just a horrible person in general. Karrie sucks and no one is “stirring drama” by calling her out on it. If anything OP and Laura didn’t do enough, I’d kick her out of the wedding and my life without hesitation.
The dad figure in the family is supposed to be the one to control his child's arrogance and attitude, straighten them out to be exact. But this dad has no standards of behavior or manners. How can he let his daughter verbally abuse his pregnant step daughter who is announcing her wedding? The dad is the failure and the one at fault in this story, and the mom for babying and preferring Karrie over her other daughters who went through life of frugality with her. The mother is too nurturing (bad mother) and the father is bad at being a father (letting his children do whatever they feel like)
Facts.
The parents seeded this whole mess. They could have stopped everything in its tracks at the startc and allowed the youngest to destroy their whole family. What awful parents.
Now if a little 21 year old calls my sister a fat swan because she's pregnant and having her wedding you're gonna get your shit rocked 😭
Nothing more unattractive than an adult who has a temper tantrum like a five year old child until they get what they want, and the parents supporting that kind of behavior. It's just creating an inadequate monster to be unleashed upon the world.
I also had a similar experience of cutting ties to my family as much as possible, and looking like the toxic one for breaking the family apart, when I was just trying to escape the abuse. They treated me like a door mat, and I certainly don't want that kind of life back.
And then that twisted smile she gave after she got her way.
I can tell the mother in this story has blatant favouritism, and the father is such enabling her daughter just to bring the peace.
That Karrie is a disgusting person. Absolutely horrid. Brought on drama and trauma and made her own mom break down. Jesus even I would disown her and I'm all about family.
Ouch, my condolence for Carrie's fiance...
We know he would endure the tantrum she would lash at him because she's his first relationship, I feel sorry for him already...
This is how parents create a monster. Why do they do this?!
this is unsatisfying as hell. OP is far more gracious than i'll ever be.
If I was OP, I would send the reddit thread to the whole family group. And then block them all. Except Laura.
The mother is the problem why is she allowing Karrie behave like that at 21?
Poor Noah...he is in so much trouble. I really wish he'd see reality before it's too late, but i guess he won't. Unfortunately the world mostly doesn't adhere to his values anymore, and blindly going with it won't make it so it does...
Change course buddy, change course.
He'd need a message from God about Genesis 6:14 before he'd change his mind about marriage.
With Christianity, much like Catholicism, marriage is a _one and done_ thing. Once you pick someone, it really is until death does you part. Man's cursed.
@@Blurgamer17 I know, i used to be Christian myself, even if one isn't, marriage should still be viewed as a lifetime commitment.
I have a niece who was a bridezilla. As for me, I thought it was about having a little party. I didn’t care about the dresses, the food or anything. I just picked out cute dresses that were cheap and lied about the price to make them even cheaper. My mom picked up the price for most of it. What is wrong with people. Fairytale wedding. Give me a break
Classic golden child and black sheep. Glad pp got out and is seeking therapy.
If she thought she was MOH, she was in no way pulling her weight that entire time
My advice, get one of those genealogy tests, the ones that use saliva as a DNA test and see if that can connect OP and Laura to their bio dad(s). Seems like with the breakdown of support and contact with bio mom and stepdad, it might be a good idea to look into what's been going on with the paternal family, see if the poorly handled mental health is what drove off one or more of bio mom's exes, including the bio dad(s) of the older sisters before the father(s) new about the pregnancies.
You know damn well he worked at that pharmacy.
Honestly, why would they even have a conversation with a child
Man..... good luck, Noah.
Noah, get the boat.
Karrie is a walking disaster. Noah needs to wake up or 20 years later he is gonna find himself in a miserable marriage with 3 kids.
Wow. This is wild. I feel so sorry for OP for having to go through this toxic family dynamic while basically being told they’re a terrible person for having healthy boundaries and not letting Karrie throw a fit. Like, the way I was shocked at “I know honey she’s being so rude to you.” Like, I don’t even think Karrie is the true evil here because she didn’t learn to be this entitled and selfish on her own. She learned all that from her mother it sounds like. Reminds me of something I’ve been feeling really down about. I have a little brother. We have a 18 year age difference. Most people who see us together tend to think he’s my son. And honestly, sometimes I struggle not to see him that way too because I’m always the one trying to teach him right from wrong and I’m the one stuck with disciplining bad behavior because my mom doesn’t want to go through it. I realized my mom really started saying passive aggressive things like “why can’t we just get along” or “why does everything have to be an arguement” and other things like that with the implication that I’m the one to blame just because I’m an adult. But, in a lot of those cases where she doesn’t want to hear us argue it’s because HE acted out. At one point he didn’t like that I told him he couldn’t jump around on the furniture because he could hurt himself, and he got upset that I dared to tell him that we wasn’t allowed to break the rules so he closed fist hit me in the mouth. And our mom, without listening to why I started going off on him, started saying those things. And it’s just making me sad realizing that my brother is most likely going to grow up into an entitled piece of garbage. I don’t blame him. He used to be super super sweet but he ended up developing a really dangerous medical condition and the medication he takes to help with that has very very very bad behavioral side effects. So he has so much trouble keeping his anger and emotions in check. And my mom already didn’t like being “the bad guy” with the discipline thing so it was always up to me to make sure he understood consequences to his actions. But now that his health is so poor it’s like she doesn’t want him to have any consequences ever because oh her pooor baby. And so because I still believe it’s important that my brother not think it’s okay to assault people or yell at adults or do whatever he pleases, I’m just at fault. It’s like she thinks because I’m so much older, I’m not a traditional older sister and I should just turn the other cheek. It doesn’t matter if my brother hurts me or that he thinks it’s normal that he does these things and it’s really starting to make me feel worthless in twofold ways. One, because I’m made to feel like I’m in the wrong for having boundaries. And two, I feel like a failure of a sister because I let my mother stop mw from fully discipline him as he needs to be to actually stop the behavior so I’m knowingly allowed my brother to turn into Karrie kind of person. And yeah, I’ve seen how in families you have one abusive person who treats the whole family badly but everyone just covers for that person and makes excuses and you having boundaries is wrong and rocks the boat. I feel for op. But my situation is nowhere near as bad.
Wow. Karrie is a horrible person. I hope she sees all the real negative energy (I hope she finds the post and has a guilty meltdown)
You can save a entitled child but you can’t save a entitled adult
All the comments on how Karrie wanted the Laura's wedding to go had me so triggered, like GIRL ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING IF YOU WANT TO MAKE CHANGES THEN MARRY SOMEBODY AND HAVE YOUR OWN WEDDING WHERE YOU CAN DECIDE HOW IT GOES!!!
mom is such an enabler this is enraging
So is laura
@f687sNFM Hers is a learned behavior from the mother.
$500 birthday cake? I'd feel bad for asking for any cake over like $35.
covered in gold and cavier! only cake worthy of princess carrie's palate
I wonder where the OP got the backbone, because clearly her mom and older sister don't have it. How? I can't imagine letting this type of behavior slide for that important of a day.
Kerrie had at the end, thinking she finally saw her issues but then the whole “you’re not my family, betrayed, etc.” you were so close mate 😩
message to Noah: shes your problem now, good luck
deceased over the “wear blue near the beach” thing
Noah, if you see this, run for the damn hills. If you have a kid with her, then you will be taking care of two children
NOAAAH RUN WHILE YOU CAN, RUUUUUUN
You might want to explain to Laura that if she doesn't grow a spine soon, she'll be paying for Kerrie's retirement.
If anyone I knew did that, Oh boy it would be so much different then this outcome
I really hope Laura never trusts Karrie to babysit alone
i knew they were British as soon as H&M was said😅
Karrie is a narcissist. Plain and simple.
Noah better leave before they get married
Damn looked it up and this story is 3 years old and op didn't make any post after this.
And people are saying the pregnant sister is wrong as if she isn't FUCKIN pregnant and shouldn't have to deal with this stress
I hope Noah runs for the hills.
3:12 That “?” made me laugh
Noah run for it man
I feel sorry for Noah. But really, I feel sorry for Op's life and how Carrie is destroying everything.
She will end so alone with her mom that still threats her like a baby.
Time to go no contact and save themselves... sad but true.
The fact they still allowed her to get her way is crazy. They all enabled her (except op) and wonder why she’s a 29 year old child.
Well that went all over hell and back
Why does Karrie think that dresses can only be blue if you’re near the ocean? 😂
Laura and fiancee should have just eloped and returned everything have only two witnesses
If this was all guys instead of girls then the one that was making a fuss would kicked out of everything.
The saddest part is how she called him dad throughout the post unless she was explaining the fact that he was her step-dad. Only to end the post with step-dad just because of her sister’s tantrums. What horrible parents.
Her marriage is not gonna last
I grew up spoiled and my advice and dont give in to spoiled demands. But also dont judge, its hard for spoiled people to change but its possible. Believe me
Carrie is the golden child. I mean everything, but the way she asked OP, what are you doing here...in her parents home, like she owned it.
Ugh, no backbone in that WHOLE family
Parents created the mess and didnt have the balls to own it.
Problem is everybody keeps caving to her
Don't get OP, as soon as bride-to-be gave into the gremlin, I would have just asked for any money I'd wasted to be repaid and that they should enjoy their wedding. Not to mention the bahviour of the mother, blocked for the time being? More like blocked forever.
That's the resentment you get from the mix family situation. I can't blame the sisters for their reaction towards their half sister but also half sister attitude is steming from the knowledge it's her daddy's money.
Sad ending seeing the spoiled brat essencially win the day...
5:11 quick “hehh”
Man. Rich people problems. As a poor person I can't even imagine having 10 grand much less a girlfriend, lmao
The fact that the mom picked the ‘fake’ daughter instead of her real daughter is crazy
This kinda just made me like almost hate everyone in this story because Karrie is very spoiled and childish the parents don’t do anything and Laura just like I get she’s pregnant and stuff but like just like yk👍
Noah is not the brightest person.. smh
What he needs is an Ark.
@@Blurgamer17 lol, nice
op needs to go nc with both of her sisters as her older sister is a weak and spineless also shouldn't be having a child as she wont stand up for herself so the crazy aunt is gonna be allowed around a defenseless child.the fiancee should take the kid after its born and leave
I would uninvited Carry stright away xd
So a wedding with everybody wearing masks and constantly sanitizing their hands? Sounds like fun!
2020-2021 was a hell of an era.
Well im sure OP is sorry for abiding by the CDC’s recommendations!
@@napinkpa I sure would be
@@napinkpa Their recommendations were constantly changing and contradictory at times. They have lost all credibility and people who follow their advice are clowns.
We went through one of the worst pandemics in known History. Of course, they didn't have all the answers. It was a lot of trial and error and I'm happy that in the continent I live most people respected the rules and were very cautious, meanwhile, the continent I am from was pure chaos people took the opposite approach.
Everyone here is annoying, between OP saying Carrie isn’t “throw a tantrum” spoiled at the beginning when she is clearly very spoiled regardless, Laura getting knocked up before getting married in what sounds like the height of the pandemic, and the incompetent parents.
Also, Laura quickly giving up her sister’s role to appease the brat. And saying “it’s unacceptable to yell at a pregnant woman under any circumstances”? That’s so dumb ffs
half siblings are SUCH a redflag god
Noah is going to be in a world of hell if he married Karrie.
5:20 crown slap 😂😂😂😂 damn
Fuck I want a 500 birthday cake where do you even get those, what are they made out of ? Dreams ?
Get a nice, soft bed, and you'll get plenty of dreams. 😉
gold flake and cavier!! also best part about cakes even expensive ones they usually use store bought box cake mix.
The family needs to start bringing out an adult diaper every time she throws a tantrum.
i hate mum more tha his step sister
Not gonna lie the mother is primarily to blame for the sister but the older ones need a backbone