As a black man who does well you are spot on especially the BM part. Women listen you are doing yourself a great disservice by having kids with the wrong person . The breakdown in this video is great man. She will continue to attract powerful men because of the way she carries herself
She was able to finesse him because she’s not thirsty; she has her own identity outside of their relationship. She has her own hobbies, her own friends, and her aspirations.
No Wedding. No Womb 💫 Love this! Ive been practicing Abstinence for 6 years. Full clarity in all my decisions. Love them together. Especially the Vision Boards 💕💕
I’m an older woman and she gives me inspiration. Beauty, Brains and Body. She’s a prime and positive influence for women young and older. Never too old to learn. Even from our youth. A lot of these young women that’s just after the bag and being disrespected or and not knowing their worth need to take notes 📝. From this young lady.
I follow Cuban and she definitely knows how to finesse low-key. She seems like the type that knows looks don't last forever so get your shit in order before it's too late
As a "rare" Black woman from a well to do 2 parent household I have seen that is usually why we won't and don't fall for the trap many other Black women do for men. Having a baby by a fool who isn't marrying you is degrading. No matter how much I love kids, I would NEVER want to be a baby mama because your value as a woman decreases immediately. I'll wait and stay single and happy until a man can provide for me to be a WIFE. Position yourself to be the Queen like playing chess. You are the most important figure in this game of life. I don't even date men who aren't from 2 parent households bc I will not settle for what your mama did.
Great break down, a woman that keeps her mind and body in shape beyond what God gave her is very motivating onto me also. Have all the sexual fun you want, but once you have that baby out of wedlock, you instantly lose a lot of your power, you shouldn't, but you do, and everybody knows it. In a large part of our community it goes like this, first comes the "relationship" with more than enough red flags, then the baby, then the break-up.
This is why I say no baby before marriage. Yes marriage can go wrong too but if people took the time to really learn people and spot them out most of all know when they’re sent from GOD then we will all be better in relationships. Having kids with people with no solid foundation rarely ends good. Men KNOW that’s tacky but they will never stand up and stop a woman from having their child because that’s just another way for them to keep playing with you.
Don’t have all the sexual fun you want. So much on this point but know that these same men are going to judge you for having a high body count when you start looking for marriage. Promiscuity brings on more destruction than it does “fun”
@@wonderland6227 Well, to be honest, I am least worried about the body count, if the woman is childless, knows she doesn't want a continue a life of sleeping around, and hopefully is still in great shape and disease-free. Yes Yes Yes, the lower the body count the BETTER.
I admire Cuban link a lot! She’s very smart and classy. The moment you said accountability I had to subscribe. I totally agree with you. We have so much power but some women don’t even know it. So much untapped potential.
@@WildheartWaves understand the male too, i am a 50 cent STAN.. i can tell you i have watched every detail of this relationship and no woman will finesse 50, firstly he just does not want a kid. Sire was a planned kid remember an arrangement this is a man who is conscious of child planning (removing the 1st born).... 2nd Cuban Link is Gorgeous any man would go where ever she wanted for the first date come on now it has no bearing on how the relationship dynamics will play out in the future. ever heard the famous line "he was so sweet and romantic in the beginning" ... 50 will never get married to anyone ... but if he does i believe from what i have seen this girl does love him and most importantly supports him, she used to post him like crazy specially during his liquor tour, they just decided to stop
@@mzansifamilyvalues8040 anyone can be finessed without seeing it until hindsight! Even the toughest prisons have been broken out of ! Anything is possible when it comes to human intervention 😊
Why would u want to have a child with a guy who don't want to be your husband ? To be a single mom later? No thank you. If the man is not ready to take commitment then I'm.not ready to bate his child . Period.
“No wedding no Womb” AMEN!!!! 🔥💯 I had no idea that Cuban was this fun, motivated, etc. I never took the time to discover her. I’m glad I watched this video though, she seems so cool and she is so beautiful! 😍
“She wears clothes” Thank God, Finally!! No but seriously people should not get offended and take your words and this video to self reflect. Showing too much especially clever she makes us woman look cheap and take away from our beauty. My Aunt and Grandfather use to tell me to always leave something for the imagination especially for a man.
Whew this commentary was EVERYTHING! You provided a real life example of the femininity practices these so-called "femininity coaches" tend to spit out without facts. All the girls need to hear this video!!!
I agree with this wholeheartedly. Lori Harvey is another one. Both are very smart. I would even say Cassie is a good example of a woman who took control of her autonomy and sexual responsibility. She held the fort for 10 years and had no baby before getting married. I think it’s because she saw Diddy’s past relationships and decided she didn’t want to be that. That’s wisdom. Love your videos. Thank you for this content ❤️🎯
@@shaybarcellyia6830 it doesn’t make Cassie any less smart than them. You don’t know if either Lori or Cuban have had an AB from a previous relationship. You could speculate Lori may have when she was with Future because we all know how he likes to have S. But we will never know. Cassie lived a lavish life for 10 years never had to work. And she got fed up left Diddy and found love & is now happily married with children. So she actually is the winner in regards to what most women aspire for in life. To be happy, loved, married with children.
This breakdown was executed well I must say. Applying teaching tools to a real world relationship. Jewels dropped for both men and women here. Especially the part of them writing down what they both want and sharing their answers with each other through healthy dialogue, I like that. 💯
Can’t believe I’m just finding this channel! So refreshing to see content that doesn’t bash black women and just talk about the short comings. So far I’ve only heard accountability and solutions and gems from this channel. Keep it up!❤
I absolutely loved and appreciate this discussion. Women feel like we don’t have to do much especially being beautiful in this current society. Prioritize yourself and goals and the right man will love and provide for you the right way or move out of the way
This was dope. I love how the emphasis was maintaining yourself outside of a man. Self respect, boundaries, caring about your health, having your own passions.. those are the ingredients that keep a man pursuing I’ve always felt like a woman should create a life of her own that she loves. And let the man add to that. That way you know you’re good with or without him
I’m a 52 year old black woman who 💯 approve this message!! My family members always tried to make me look like a gold digger for being this kind of woman.. They would say things like you have to have money for her.. ah yeah, because I’m already providing for myself at 17 and doing a great job at it, and that’s how lived and taught my daughter’s the same, if you take care you well a man will follow suit.
People get gold digging and having standards confused. I bet they wish they would’ve did the same. You get tired of dealing with certain things as you get older.
I genuinely believe that more women would have success with dating and marriage if we just took accountability for where we lacked and how we could do better. I often hear a lot of people complain about what the other person did, and although that might all be true, there must be some way that you yourself can improve because we’re not perfect.
She sounds like a regular girl to me. Its sad we see more examples of the opposite, she seems like a genuinely smart girl with her head on her shoulders.
Cuban link is not keeping anyone. He wants to be there. Thats the key. Everyday you get to choose one another until you don't. Or you can choose one another Everyday for life. Life is simple, people make it harder than it needs to be. If your 100% happy within yourself and in relationships that mirror that then your on point. If not say goodbye and move on.
Whew girl you were PREACHING. Especially about her not giving up her WOMB right away! I heard zero lies told in this video. Truthfully doing the Lord’s work bc the girls need it 👏🏾
Not a 50cent fan but this was a excellent video. I think all woman could benefit from these tips. Also I’ve seen men completely lose interest in a woman once she is pregnant. If this happens intentional or not, I don’t know. But it is sad.
cuban link understands that she is not the star in this relationship. she probably also knows this is temporary. 50 outlined what he wanted and cuban fits the profile. she also understands that SHE IS THE PRIZE. she makes him chase her, not the other way around. cuban is beautiful, she can get any man she wants and he knows that.
And Also....No matter how much money 50❤️ Has .... He's STILL A...Man....And he Deals with Self Esteem Issues.... Unresolved Family Issues....Mamma Daddy Issues ...ECT ..🙏🏿 And Again....He❤️ Simply...Loves Her.❤️
🧿 The 8 Ways Ms. Jamira Haines aka Cuban Link is using the art of finesse with ex-rapper and multi millionaire 50 Cent. 1. Enforcing boundaries 2. Mirroring the man 3. No wedding, no womb 4. Balancing sex appeal & modesty 5. Remaining rooted in personal goals & aspirations 6. Prioritizing the body through fitness & diet 7. Always climb & accumulate 8. Never be disingenuous
Since when has 50 been known as a great provider when he’s a whole deadbeat to one of his son’s. Why are you bragging upon him as if he doesn’t have a nasty character and attacks different women online
@@Casualteatalk cap. Dude doesn’t get along with his BM who had him in court over the years trying to raise Child support. He covered his portion (and hers) of support. His son (like most) took Mom’s side and the. Started hanging with people who wanted him hurt or in jail. Estranged yes, deadbeat, no.
This break down is amazing. Knowing your worth is so important and I’m still working on boundaries and being a High valued women ❤ this was great. So thank you
I agree with every point. I’m so happy that you mentioned her degree! My good sis was serious about that law degree and having that paid for by a generous man she played her cards very well! It makes me happy to see an evolved Scorpio queen win! She’s private and the true embodiment of a Scorpio woman! This was a great video! The girlies is not hearing you though! Cuban Link reminds me so much of myself!
I met her, she really do love 50 cent. She moves different because she's always around money her family got money but this young lady is so sweet and kind and when she was talking to me about 50 cent you could hear the real love she have for him.
Because to me it isn’t far fetched that a women can love 50 for him once they get to know him personally. Even Vivica Fox after all that he said about her was still saying he’s the ex she would want back. He’s a cancer, they really sweet especially in relationships.. he’s just an asshole to the outside world.
@@loulousworld92 no one said it was ! And you’re crazy if you think most rich people got their money the legit way a lot of people cut corners whether it’s drug money or taking from the gov.
I love this post because I always admired this lovely lady. I always noticed the way she carried herself. It spoke volumes to who she was as a person, although I didn’t know her.
I love it. love it, love it. I wish I would've known this in my 20s I would've been so ahead of the game. but hey at 42...I got it down now straight up. and I'm so glad he got a good woman like her in his life. she's probably gonna change him. but if not she is not losing in the process. I love this!
She isn’t physical equipped to change him. He needs a shit ton of therapy, and I say this in the nicest way. She know she can’t change him, which is why she’s setting herself up to live the same lifestyle for when he’s gone !
The way. I mean the way you broke this down my goodness I scream this to my younger family members who run across successful men all the time. I appreciate your candor and thought provoking commentary. Keep it up! 💕
I love WildHeart Waves and this was a great video so I don't want to give off the wrong impression. As a man, I feel like this video was a reminder of how women have to work so hard as a human being just to keep a man and maintain a relationship with longevity. I feel Cuban Link basically has to be perfect even though she's not, nobody in the world is.
I have always said this about their relationship. 50 respects her because she respects herself. I love how mysterious she is & how she bets on herself even tho she is with someone like him. He can be a troll & he jokes around a lot so to see how she can make him show a more chill mature side is refreshing
I don't support finessing anyone but yourself. The information here is great and spot on! It is better to let go of control and struggling for power or to be chased in your relationships.
Probably the most stable celebrity couple out there. Happy for both of them! I look up to them both so much. However, I think you should NEVER subject yourself to tons of strategy to get a man. Just be yourself and your best self. If he doesn’t wanna ride with ya, that’s his problem, not yours, ladies. Cuban is naturally just a great gal so she’s naturally gonna attract him, I don’t think she has to even try that hard or strategize, this is just how she is, she’s just a boss woman. Simple as that imo
I always said this i followed her before 50 and Omelly and she understands the assignment Fr ..showing to much is temporary but putting yourself in a setting where it’s famous and rich men and putting on the wifey role is smart
I have no earthly idea how I got here...but allow me to be the 1st to say I'm so glad I stumbled upon this channel. You spoke with true grace, wisdom and candor. I appreciate what your doing for our community. I'm proud to say I'm a new follower and supporter.❤️🙏🏾💪🏿 Looking forward to the next video.
@@MyMsVTV facts but Lori is a baby in the game! And I love her ! She’s made mistakes publicly and took the L and kept it moving didn’t give it any energy shoot I Learned some tips from her! No response is the Best response!
Lori has a good family name, cuban doesn't. If fifty dumps her she might fall off like Saweetie (in the dating arena) if she hasn't cemented her name to make more money.
She did get out of pocket with Vivica Fox..... And Fifty made her Apologize....... Vivica told some truths about her feelings for Fifty.....And Fifty Responded by saying that he was aware of her feelings.....This Triggered an Insecure nerve in Cuban.....And She used Vivica's age as a Weapon....Obviously both Vivica and Fifty have some sort of mutual love and Respect,and Cuban actually knew this and her feelings as a normal woman were triggered....Jealousy,Anger,and the feeling of being Powerless.....So as any woman would do....She passed on an opportunity to keep it Classy,and showed her fear of losing her meal ticket,which spoke of Fifty's feeling for Vivica.......Even though Vivica had Complemented Cuban by saying that she was a Bad Bitch,and very Beautiful.....This Flew over Cuban's head,as she only saw and heard a woman that her man LOVES....Say that she loves him in Return and always will....And like the true Gold Digger that she is......Cuban showed her hand........A scared,insecure woman,that saw her million dollar Life style being threatened.........Used Vivica's AGE TO HURT HER AND QUICKLY PUSH HER OFF OF HER MAN......AND LIKE A TRUE BOSS,THAT'S VERY MUCH AWARE OF WHY THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS HANGING ON TO HIM.......HE MADE CUBAN APOLOGIZE............
50 Cent been making jokes and having people laughing at Vivica for the longest. If he wanted to be with her he would’ve. Every chance she gets she brings up their fling. It’s desperate.
Ohh yeah I remember this. As put together and great as she comes, this was a blow for her. I say blow cause one of the most devilish things you can do to someone is ridicule or harass them when they haven’t done anythingggg to you before. What makes it worse was that she complimented her as well. She puts soo much work into carrying herself a certain way and doing something like that can diminish it all. Then again, she is HUMAN. It doesn’t excuse her action, just her feeling though.
Cuban is everything Kevin Samuels tells you not to be to get a high-value man lol As I always say, HVM are not watching KS for advice if at all they are watching for entertainment whereas average men watch for help while shooting themselves in the foot with the women fools who go right along with them. Great video and I want to add the Cuban graduated law school and was studying to become a corporate attorney so think about it, not only is she an asset to herself but also an asset to 50 cent. #NewSubbie
@@leejones5644 I'm not talking about a rapper. I am talking about a rich man with options and his options is a woman with a brain. I am aware of KS copout response of rappers and athletes but since commone sense failed you, lemme help you out. No matter the profession 50 is part of the 1 %. 50 gained his money mainly by investments and business. He's not just a rapper.
when I say as a 47-year-old black woman I agree to everything you said in this interview. This is the most realist thing I have heard. This is something that every woman needs to hear, knowledge is key. The jewels that were being dropped in here was priceless. This video will definitely help someone who is trying to elevate in life. Big shout to the creator of this content👑🤎🤎🤎🙏 May God continue to bless all that you do.
Now that I have watched the video they actually are an ideal match just in general 50 is a cancer ♋️ Cuban is a Scorpio ♏️ they are both water signs. So when you began describing how she moves by matching his energy and maintains her privacy by bot being all over social media instantly I thought 🤔 she must be a Scorpio and if she is, she naturally is going to be an ideal match for the Cancer man 50 cent. Especially as an older man younger woman connection. On the Exterior he comes off one way but if you know him on a deeper level and that Scorpio can take him there trust me and will lead the way you have won him over and will have his loyalty and heart forever. It doesnt hurt that 50 is also brilliant underneath it all so trust me she loves him dearly… she just knows how to keep it in check and not reveal her hand.
Very spot on … your great reporter she is calculated and smart. she knows how to be strategic as well and subliminally and knows how to be calculated at in all levels of playing hard to get. However, I do believe she knows what she wants and I believe from how she got to in his circle ⭕️ she study’s her goals and she lets her hungry for what she wants lead in a strategic calculation; along with just knowing the business and industry she knows the game and it’s expectations. from earlier on she molded her self for who she wanted and where she wanted to go even if she hit a few snares …, now she might be low key obsessed with 50fiddy but she calculated enough not to show it …. Cuddos to her
Cuban link is a Scorpio woman. I’m a Scorpio woman also we are very intuitive and SMART. ALSO MAGNETIC. 50 is a Cancer excellent match for her. She rest in her feminine energy sooo WELL which makes her sooooo EVERYTHING for HIM.Also Scorpios are VERY PRIVATE!!! and mysterious so 50 will be for chasing her. Such a Classy young lady.
This is a good example of how monetary relationships can benefit people. This is different for people in serious relationships but the concepts on how you support each other goes for both.
This video is amazing it makes me want to protect my man even more I love my husband and fully not falling into the stereotype of a bm and black women makes me so happy. I’m really going to apply this to my marriage Im doing a few but I can definitely step it up thank you so much!!!
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 How do you know? Wishing the worst for this woman because you’re insecure. So wrong for that she is not the reason that you hate yourself and your life clearly.
@@chiron_uncoded5912 you all so ignorant and so super supportive of these "celebrities" just because someone does not agree with your OPINION does not make them a hater..Unlike Cuban Link I have a very purposeful fulfilling life definitely do not hate myself..Such a toxic comment from evidently a very toxic person..However once again I'm a grown woman with a grown opinion..Have a blessed night..
I don’t see how anyone could be upset or triggered with anything that you’ve said- you clearly state that this is about accountability so we can do and have Better. If you’re not ready to be a big girl- don’t come to this page. I love it 🥰
This is a real Queen! She knows her worth. This sister has Elegance and Class. And at the end of day Cuban Link is truly a Lady. Most women won't turn it ladies and that's the difference. Man love who womwn that carries herself like Ladies.
50 is like this because he was raised by his grandparents. His Grandfather modeled to him how a man should be, he said his Grandfather would give his Grandma his whole check.
Ok, number 1. Cuban isn’t black , she’s multi ethnic. Having said that , 50 has practically shouted from the roof tops he despises phenotypical black women. Ray Charles could see that . Any woman who lays with a man who hates his own kind , can’t possibly respect or love that man. But yup she’s pulling a well orchestrated finesse. However she does serve a purpose ….. she’s a dutiful beard. Yes … you read that correctly. Industry people know that is correct. How you doing? * Wendy voice* but yeah 50 for the last 20 years has not nor will not put any resources into phenotypical black women. So if the woman is dark skin , with 4c hair ,she can literally fall from heaven- it won’t matter to him.
I find your comment interesting. Yall cry about blk men not liking blk w0men but quick to claim these blk men are g@y out of bitterness. Most of you have the same type of hate yall accuse bm of having
Unless a person knows this woman personally and are in their circle, can't say what she did or didn't do, then state what they think really happen, it's nobody's business, the woman has his attention, both making moves, it's always good making moves with someone!🤗
Well spoken & duly noted !! I love this channel Bn binge watching & I’m happy to say although I have more work to do I’m definitely close to the woman I desire to be.
Girl can I just say thank you for this video! I got a new baller and I have messed up a few situations in the past but we had our first link and I played it so well 😜 All I kept thinking was "Be smart like Cuban Link and you can get your 50 Cent" 🙌💯
She maybe Finessin 50 but I pray to God that she don’t get pregnant by him he doesn’t even claim his own son. That’s a complete turn off…. I’m just saying🤷🏾♀️
I always followed her and was motivated by her! Even back when she was with Omelly, Meek Mill’s cousin, I followed her and observed that she was too good for him and then boom, they broke up and she bagged 50 💪🏾💪🏾
As a man who's successful, no where 50 cent status, I really agree with the last part of the vid. So many women put up a front, and the only excitement is BS drama reminiscent of a reality show. It's nothing but a unattractive distraction that I like to avoid. Be yourself , live a little, and laugh a lot. As cliche as it sounds
The only thing I will say different here is that I believe she does love him. They both glow. 50 is immature on social media. If you watch his interviews he is l genuine, charismatic and charming. Good for them!
I always wonder about women like Cuban & Ms. Jackson. Are they becoming wealthy on this journey since they haven't married? Is there an allowance or a documented agreement? Edit: Perfect, she is building her RE portfolio!
As a black man who does well you are spot on especially the BM part. Women listen you are doing yourself a great disservice by having kids with the wrong person . The breakdown in this video is great man. She will continue to attract powerful men because of the way she carries herself
You are not a black man …
Don’t u dare tell that lie and more
@@Wiickked_Wiz bruh what are you talking about how you gonna tell me I'm not black..
@@Wiickked_Wiz mad much?
ya well see if 50 still stays with her after The game just expose that she was in his dms a few days ago
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She was able to finesse him because she’s not thirsty; she has her own identity outside of their relationship. She has her own hobbies, her own friends, and her aspirations.
How she finesse him ? a car is nothing to 50
@@Nubianblak47 When I mean finesse, I mean she keeps 50 cents chasing her because she doesn’t brag about their relationship.
Her own identity? She bought her Instagram page from an incarcerated drug dealer
@@kalinwaters6285lmao okay what’s the point ?! 🥴😬🙄😂
@@tommesiacooper1258 the point is, she didn't create her own identity as WE know it.
No Wedding. No Womb 💫 Love this! Ive been practicing Abstinence for 6 years. Full clarity in all my decisions. Love them together. Especially the Vision Boards 💕💕
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Then theirs odd women like me who never wanted to marry
Marrying a man doesn't guarantee that he won't stray...
@@NubianQueen100 did we say it did? Listening and reading is fundamental
Yeah. Go ahead and buy that 🐕
Thank you for encouraging black women to be more responsible and cautious. We need to hear it!
yes ma’am!
S/o to Cuban for refusing to be just a baby mamma by any means. The ULTIMATE finesse is getting 50 to put a ring on it.
👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Yes, I agree it takes a man 172 days to know she's the one, a ring should have been put a long time ago.
She does not need to marry 50 cent
Not gonna happen
Not ganna happen
I’m an older woman and she gives me inspiration. Beauty, Brains and Body. She’s a prime and positive influence for women young and older. Never too old to learn. Even from our youth. A lot of these young women that’s just after the bag and being disrespected or and not knowing their worth need to take notes 📝. From this young lady.
I follow Cuban and she definitely knows how to finesse low-key. She seems like the type that knows looks don't last forever so get your shit in order before it's too late
As a "rare" Black woman from a well to do 2 parent household I have seen that is usually why we won't and don't fall for the trap many other Black women do for men. Having a baby by a fool who isn't marrying you is degrading. No matter how much I love kids, I would NEVER want to be a baby mama because your value as a woman decreases immediately. I'll wait and stay single and happy until a man can provide for me to be a WIFE. Position yourself to be the Queen like playing chess. You are the most important figure in this game of life. I don't even date men who aren't from 2 parent households bc I will not settle for what your mama did.
Great break down, a woman that keeps her mind and body in shape beyond what God gave her is very motivating onto me also. Have all the sexual fun you want, but once you have that baby out of wedlock, you instantly lose a lot of your power, you shouldn't, but you do, and everybody knows it. In a large part of our community it goes like this, first comes the "relationship" with more than enough red flags, then the baby, then the break-up.
This is why I say no baby before marriage. Yes marriage can go wrong too but if people took the time to really learn people and spot them out most of all know when they’re sent from GOD then we will all be better in relationships. Having kids with people with no solid foundation rarely ends good. Men KNOW that’s tacky but they will never stand up and stop a woman from having their child because that’s just another way for them to keep playing with you.
Yep
Don’t have all the sexual fun you want. So much on this point but know that these same men are going to judge you for having a high body count when you start looking for marriage. Promiscuity brings on more destruction than it does “fun”
@@wonderland6227 Well, to be honest, I am least worried about the body count, if the woman is childless, knows she doesn't want a continue a life of sleeping around, and hopefully is still in great shape and disease-free. Yes Yes Yes, the lower the body count the BETTER.
That last part 💯💯 it’s too much of this in the black community. No body cares to truly know the other it’s all about sex…
And I'm back after the break up. She truly played the game.well..check mate
All of this is so true! I think most men want a woman that has her own life and goals and will not drop them because they are dating. She is stunning.
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Yes healthy secure men at that.*
Most men want a woman who is young, fit ,feminine and friendy, with a low bodycount .
I admire Cuban link a lot! She’s very smart and classy. The moment you said accountability I had to subscribe. I totally agree with you. We have so much power but some women don’t even know it. So much untapped potential.
Thank you for joining this space Maya! Im glad you enjoyed this one. ✨🤎
@@WildheartWaves understand the male too, i am a 50 cent STAN.. i can tell you i have watched every detail of this relationship and no woman will finesse 50, firstly he just does not want a kid. Sire was a planned kid remember an arrangement this is a man who is conscious of child planning (removing the 1st born).... 2nd Cuban Link is Gorgeous any man would go where ever she wanted for the first date come on now it has no bearing on how the relationship dynamics will play out in the future. ever heard the famous line "he was so sweet and romantic in the beginning" ... 50 will never get married to anyone ... but if he does i believe from what i have seen this girl does love him and most importantly supports him, she used to post him like crazy specially during his liquor tour, they just decided to stop
@@mzansifamilyvalues8040 anyone can be finessed without seeing it until hindsight! Even the toughest prisons have been broken out of ! Anything is possible when it comes to human intervention 😊
@@kmoney9112 What did Cl finesse ?
Why would u want to have a child with a guy who don't want to be your husband ? To be a single mom later? No thank you. If the man is not ready to take commitment then I'm.not ready to bate his child . Period.
“No wedding no Womb” AMEN!!!! 🔥💯 I had no idea that Cuban was this fun, motivated, etc. I never took the time to discover her. I’m glad I watched this video though, she seems so cool and she is so beautiful! 😍
“She wears clothes” Thank God, Finally!! No but seriously people should not get offended and take your words and this video to self reflect. Showing too much especially clever she makes us woman look cheap and take away from our beauty. My Aunt and Grandfather use to tell me to always leave something for the imagination especially for a man.
Yall are not free...LMAOO all these rules on how to get and keep a man and he'll still cheat on you LMFAOOO free yourselves PLEASE 🤣🥴
This is literally just misogyny. Men also should not be "imagining" how a woman's body looks like tf.
Whew this commentary was EVERYTHING! You provided a real life example of the femininity practices these so-called "femininity coaches" tend to spit out without facts. All the girls need to hear this video!!!
I agree with this wholeheartedly. Lori Harvey is another one. Both are very smart.
I would even say Cassie is a good example of a woman who took control of her autonomy and sexual responsibility. She held the fort for 10 years and had no baby before getting married. I think it’s because she saw Diddy’s past relationships and decided she didn’t want to be that. That’s wisdom.
Love your videos. Thank you for this content ❤️🎯
Actually Cassie got pregnant by Diddy. Diddy had her abort the child because he wanted Kim Porter back.
So Lori and CL are smart
@@shaybarcellyia6830 it doesn’t make Cassie any less smart than them. You don’t know if either Lori or Cuban have had an AB from a previous relationship. You could speculate Lori may have when she was with Future because we all know how he likes to have S. But we will never know. Cassie lived a lavish life for 10 years never had to work. And she got fed up left Diddy and found love & is now happily married with children. So she actually is the winner in regards to what most women aspire for in life. To be happy, loved, married with children.
No Lori is not Smart, Cubanlink makes her own money
@@simp1eone disagree.
Not saying you are inaccurate but whats smart about Lori?
This breakdown was executed well I must say. Applying teaching tools to a real world relationship. Jewels dropped for both men and women here. Especially the part of them writing down what they both want and sharing their answers with each other through healthy dialogue, I like that. 💯
I keep watching this video. I love it.
Just be yourself ladies and Love who you were uniquely created to be.
Amen! ❤🙌❤
Exactly
I’ve always love how Cuban represent herself. She’s feminine, fit and naturally beautiful.
She is doing what she needs to do, keep fit,feminine and friendy.
Can’t believe I’m just finding this channel! So refreshing to see content that doesn’t bash black women and just talk about the short comings. So far I’ve only heard accountability and solutions and gems from this channel. Keep it up!❤
Constructive criticism is not bashing
From a man’s perspective this is good info you are distributing for the benefit of women!!
I love that you include accountability. It's a game changer for those willing to do the work. Cuban Link is a fine example of this. Great video!!
I absolutely loved and appreciate this discussion. Women feel like we don’t have to do much especially being beautiful in this current society. Prioritize yourself and goals and the right man will love and provide for you the right way or move out of the way
Forever
This was dope. I love how the emphasis was maintaining yourself outside of a man. Self respect, boundaries, caring about your health, having your own passions.. those are the ingredients that keep a man pursuing
I’ve always felt like a woman should create a life of her own that she loves. And let the man add to that. That way you know you’re good with or without him
I’m a 52 year old black woman who 💯 approve this message!! My family members always tried to make me look like a gold digger for being this kind of woman.. They would say things like you have to have money for her.. ah yeah, because I’m already providing for myself at 17 and doing a great job at it, and that’s how lived and taught my daughter’s the same, if you take care you well a man will follow suit.
People get gold digging and having standards confused. I bet they wish they would’ve did the same. You get tired of dealing with certain things as you get older.
No weave and fake body and overly made up.
This is the goal.
How were you providing for yourself well at 17
@@DanniBby
Selling cooch
I genuinely believe that more women would have success with dating and marriage if we just took accountability for where we lacked and how we could do better. I often hear a lot of people complain about what the other person did, and although that might all be true, there must be some way that you yourself can improve because we’re not perfect.
She sounds like a regular girl to me. Its sad we see more examples of the opposite, she seems like a genuinely smart girl with her head on her shoulders.
Cuban link is not keeping anyone. He wants to be there. Thats the key. Everyday you get to choose one another until you don't. Or you can choose one another Everyday for life. Life is simple, people make it harder than it needs to be. If your 100% happy within yourself and in relationships that mirror that then your on point. If not say goodbye and move on.
Whew girl you were PREACHING. Especially about her not giving up her WOMB right away! I heard zero lies told in this video. Truthfully doing the Lord’s work bc the girls need it 👏🏾
she may not be able to get pregnant....
I am a young black women - definitely sitting back collecting all notes 📝 this video was very well spoken
Please add to notes, Marry before you carry
Love this so much ! It’s important for us as women to utilize our common senses, self worth , and intuition when it comes to dating men .
😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😭😭😭
Not a 50cent fan but this was a excellent video. I think all woman could benefit from these tips. Also I’ve seen men completely lose interest in a woman once she is pregnant. If this happens intentional or not, I don’t know. But it is sad.
cuban link understands that she is not the star in this relationship. she probably also knows this is temporary. 50 outlined what he wanted and cuban fits the profile. she also understands that SHE IS THE PRIZE. she makes him chase her, not the other way around. cuban is beautiful, she can get any man she wants and he knows that.
No, she cants get any man she wants 😂. There are many beautiful women out there and she's lucky to get a lifestyle she can finesse.
@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 facts..
@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 you sure? Lol
She's a nobody how is she a prize
And Also....No matter how much money 50❤️ Has .... He's STILL A...Man....And he
Deals with Self Esteem Issues.... Unresolved Family Issues....Mamma Daddy
Issues ...ECT ..🙏🏿
And Again....He❤️ Simply...Loves Her.❤️
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The 8 Ways Ms. Jamira Haines aka Cuban Link is using the art of finesse with ex-rapper and multi millionaire 50 Cent.
1. Enforcing boundaries
2. Mirroring the man
3. No wedding, no womb
4. Balancing sex appeal & modesty
5. Remaining rooted in personal goals & aspirations
6. Prioritizing the body through fitness & diet
7. Always climb & accumulate
8. Never be disingenuous
Since when has 50 been known as a great provider when he’s a whole deadbeat to one of his son’s. Why are you bragging upon him as if he doesn’t have a nasty character and attacks different women online
@@Casualteatalk Emotions is the reason a lot of y’all can’t comprehend nothing… lol. I SAID character wise he was NOT husband material.
@@Casualteatalk cap. Dude doesn’t get along with his BM who had him in court over the years trying to raise Child support. He covered his portion (and hers) of support. His son (like most) took Mom’s side and the. Started hanging with people who wanted him hurt or in jail. Estranged yes, deadbeat, no.
@@Casualteatalk how he a deadbeat when his son is an adult
This break down is amazing. Knowing your worth is so important and I’m still working on boundaries and being a High valued women ❤ this was great. So thank you
I had to follow after you talked about sexual responsibility and accountability. This is something I practice and treasure.
I agree with every point. I’m so happy that you mentioned her degree! My good sis was serious about that law degree and having that paid for by a generous man she played her cards very well! It makes me happy to see an evolved Scorpio queen win! She’s private and the true embodiment of a Scorpio woman! This was a great video! The girlies is not hearing you though! Cuban Link reminds me so much of myself!
I met her, she really do love 50 cent. She moves different because she's always around money her family got money but this young lady is so sweet and kind and when she was talking to me about 50 cent you could hear the real love she have for him.
Her family has a drug money her father was imprisoned for years, let’s not act like the success is legit Lool
Because to me it isn’t far fetched that a women can love 50 for him once they get to know him personally. Even Vivica Fox after all that he said about her was still saying he’s the ex she would want back. He’s a cancer, they really sweet especially in relationships.. he’s just an asshole to the outside world.
@@loulousworld92 lmao nobody said it was. Why are you upset? Its not that deep.
@@loulousworld92 no one said it was ! And you’re crazy if you think most rich people got their money the legit way a lot of people cut corners whether it’s drug money or taking from the gov.
@@loulousworld92 who cares if it’s legal or not
I love this post because I always admired this lovely lady. I always noticed the way she carried herself. It spoke volumes to who she was as a person, although I didn’t know her.
I love it. love it, love it. I wish I would've known this in my 20s I would've been so ahead of the game. but hey at 42...I got it down now straight up. and I'm so glad he got a good woman like her in his life. she's probably gonna change him. but if not she is not losing in the process. I love this!
She isn’t physical equipped to change him. He needs a shit ton of therapy, and I say this in the nicest way. She know she can’t change him, which is why she’s setting herself up to live the same lifestyle for when he’s gone !
Great commentary! I especially love how you hold black women accountable for not only their bodies but their lives as well.
The way. I mean the way you broke this down my goodness I scream this to my younger family members who run across successful men all the time. I appreciate your candor and thought provoking commentary. Keep it up! 💕
More women in the world need to hear this (including me)! This channel is gold. Thank you
I love WildHeart Waves and this was a great video so I don't want to give off the wrong impression. As a man, I feel like this video was a reminder of how women have to work so hard as a human being just to keep a man and maintain a relationship with longevity. I feel Cuban Link basically has to be perfect even though she's not, nobody in the world is.
Def what I heard too 😮💨
I have always said this about their relationship. 50 respects her because she respects herself. I love how mysterious she is & how she bets on herself even tho she is with someone like him. He can be a troll & he jokes around a lot so to see how she can make him show a more chill mature side is refreshing
I don't support finessing anyone but yourself. The information here is great and spot on! It is better to let go of control and struggling for power or to be chased in your relationships.
I like this sistah Cuban. She’s very well-equipped in her stance dealing with 50. She’s funny, beautiful, and graceful from perception.💯
Probably the most stable celebrity couple out there. Happy for both of them! I look up to them both so much.
However, I think you should NEVER subject yourself to tons of strategy to get a man. Just be yourself and your best self. If he doesn’t wanna ride with ya, that’s his problem, not yours, ladies. Cuban is naturally just a great gal so she’s naturally gonna attract him, I don’t think she has to even try that hard or strategize, this is just how she is, she’s just a boss woman. Simple as that imo
I always said this i followed her before 50 and Omelly and she understands the assignment Fr ..showing to much is temporary but putting yourself in a setting where it’s famous and rich men and putting on the wifey role is smart
Understands the assignment 🎯❗️
😭😭😭😂😭😭 whew chile
Didn’t know she dated Omelly
I have no earthly idea how I got here...but allow me to be the 1st to say I'm so glad I stumbled upon this channel. You spoke with true grace, wisdom and candor. I appreciate what your doing for our community. I'm proud to say I'm a new follower and supporter.❤️🙏🏾💪🏿 Looking forward to the next video.
Thank you so much for your support! 😉✨🤎
She’s another Lori Harvey!! I love it 🖤🖤🖤
Cuban is in her own lane. . . Lori was getting ready to jeopardize her reputation before Michael. . . Lori could learn a lot more from Cuban!💯💯💯
@@MyMsVTV facts but Lori is a baby in the game! And I love her ! She’s made mistakes publicly and took the L and kept it moving didn’t give it any energy shoot I Learned some tips from her! No response is the Best response!
No she not lol
Thats an insult lori has been passed around by her choice
Lori has a good family name, cuban doesn't. If fifty dumps her she might fall off like Saweetie (in the dating arena) if she hasn't cemented her name to make more money.
She did get out of pocket with Vivica Fox.....
And Fifty made her Apologize.......
Vivica told some truths about her feelings for Fifty.....And Fifty Responded by saying that he was aware of her feelings.....This Triggered an Insecure nerve in Cuban.....And She used Vivica's age as a Weapon....Obviously both Vivica and Fifty have some sort of mutual love and Respect,and Cuban actually knew this and her feelings as a normal woman were triggered....Jealousy,Anger,and the feeling of being Powerless.....So as any woman would do....She passed on an opportunity to keep it Classy,and showed her fear of losing her meal ticket,which spoke of Fifty's feeling for Vivica.......Even though Vivica had Complemented Cuban by saying that she was a Bad Bitch,and very Beautiful.....This Flew over Cuban's head,as she only saw and heard a woman that her man LOVES....Say that she loves him in Return and always will....And like the true Gold Digger that she is......Cuban showed her hand........A scared,insecure woman,that saw her million dollar Life style being threatened.........Used Vivica's AGE TO HURT HER AND QUICKLY PUSH HER OFF OF HER MAN......AND LIKE A TRUE BOSS,THAT'S VERY MUCH AWARE OF WHY THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS HANGING ON TO HIM.......HE MADE CUBAN APOLOGIZE............
50 Cent been making jokes and having people laughing at Vivica for the longest. If he wanted to be with her he would’ve. Every chance she gets she brings up their fling. It’s desperate.
I agree
The fact people think they will never get old is astonishing to me 🤦🏽♀️
Ohh yeah I remember this. As put together and great as she comes, this was a blow for her. I say blow cause one of the most devilish things you can do to someone is ridicule or harass them when they haven’t done anythingggg to you before. What makes it worse was that she complimented her as well. She puts soo much work into carrying herself a certain way and doing something like that can diminish it all. Then again, she is HUMAN. It doesn’t excuse her action, just her feeling though.
I didn’t know much about her but this makes me respect her a lot !
This is great, we need to love ourselves no matter what. Its inspiring 🙂
Cuban is everything Kevin Samuels tells you not to be to get a high-value man lol As I always say, HVM are not watching KS for advice if at all they are watching for entertainment whereas average men watch for help while shooting themselves in the foot with the women fools who go right along with them. Great video and I want to add the Cuban graduated law school and was studying to become a corporate attorney so think about it, not only is she an asset to herself but also an asset to 50 cent. #NewSubbie
So ironic I’m reading this today after he dies .
I agree, he often gave misinformation
@@raneahmallory6864 How so?
If you ever listen to Kevin he always says rappers are not HVM. He says this because the money comes different for them.
@@leejones5644 I'm not talking about a rapper. I am talking about a rich man with options and his options is a woman with a brain. I am aware of KS copout response of rappers and athletes but since commone sense failed you, lemme help you out. No matter the profession 50 is part of the 1 %. 50 gained his money mainly by investments and business. He's not just a rapper.
Cuban was also studying for law school. Excellent excellent video!!! Love it!!!
when I say as a 47-year-old black woman I agree to everything you said in this interview. This is the most realist thing I have heard. This is something that every woman needs to hear, knowledge is key. The jewels that were being dropped in here was priceless. This video will definitely help someone who is trying to elevate in life. Big shout to the creator of this content👑🤎🤎🤎🙏 May God continue to bless all that you do.
This was excellent, she’s also a Scorpio those women are dangerously magnetic something I can learn from
Awww 🥰 thank you. ♏️
Thank you let's hope I can live up to my zodiac sign 😂
Ehhh
Scorpios are scary
@@singanddance-q9b you must be scared of the boogeyman too huh?
Stroke a mans ego u got him for life
Very true 👏🏽
You think so don’t fool yourself.
Wow thank you. The honesty here is real. We need more females talking about accountability.
"women" is the appropriate description. How often do you here women calling men "males" like their animals. Just tired of seeing it.
@@KMill-xb3uc I do!
Now that I have watched the video they actually are an ideal match just in general 50 is a cancer ♋️ Cuban is a Scorpio ♏️ they are both water signs. So when you began describing how she moves by matching his energy and maintains her privacy by bot being all over social media instantly I thought 🤔 she must be a Scorpio and if she is, she naturally is going to be an ideal match for the Cancer man 50 cent. Especially as an older man younger woman connection. On the Exterior he comes off one way but if you know him on a deeper level and that Scorpio can take him there trust me and will lead the way you have won him over and will have his loyalty and heart forever. It doesnt hurt that 50 is also brilliant underneath it all so trust me she loves him dearly… she just knows how to keep it in check and not reveal her hand.
Very spot on … your great reporter she is calculated and smart. she knows how to be strategic as well and subliminally and knows how to be calculated at in all levels of playing hard to get. However, I do believe she knows what she wants and I believe from how she got to in his circle ⭕️ she study’s her goals and she lets her hungry for what she wants lead in a strategic calculation; along with just knowing the business and industry she knows the game and it’s expectations. from earlier on she molded her self for who she wanted and where she wanted to go even if she hit a few snares …, now she might be low key obsessed with 50fiddy but she calculated enough not to show it …. Cuddos to her
I think she is doing the correct job of putting herself on the market incase the relationship fails, financial, physically and mentally.
I wholeheartedly concur with everything stated in this video!!!
Cuban link is a Scorpio woman. I’m a Scorpio woman also we are very intuitive and SMART. ALSO MAGNETIC. 50 is a Cancer excellent match for her. She rest in her feminine energy sooo WELL which makes her sooooo EVERYTHING for HIM.Also Scorpios are VERY PRIVATE!!! and mysterious so 50 will be for chasing her. Such a Classy young lady.
Facts Scorpios who are attractive physically can have men eating out of your hands.
Y’all really need to stop with the zodiac signs it has nothing to do with her sign
Yes I am a Scorpio & I agree ❤
This is a good example of how monetary relationships can benefit people. This is different for people in serious relationships but the concepts on how you support each other goes for both.
I agree with everything you said, and you actually taught me a couple things. I love your content ❤
This video is amazing it makes me want to protect my man even more I love my husband and fully not falling into the stereotype of a bm and black women makes me so happy. I’m really going to apply this to my marriage Im doing a few but I can definitely step it up thank you so much!!!
Girl we need to see the face behind this channel. You hit it every time
She’s also done with Law school and is reviewing for her boards. She’s dope
Lies LOL y’all don’t research, just believe whatever these insta girls post
Yes not a truthful statement trying to hype this girl up She is just like the other IG models No ring she will be a baby mother soon
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 ew you’re so bitter and a hater. She has a degree btw.
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 How do you know? Wishing the worst for this woman because you’re insecure. So wrong for that she is not the reason that you hate yourself and your life clearly.
@@chiron_uncoded5912 you all so ignorant and so super supportive of these "celebrities" just because someone does not agree with your OPINION does not make them a hater..Unlike Cuban Link I have a very purposeful fulfilling life definitely do not hate myself..Such a toxic comment from evidently a very toxic person..However once again I'm a grown woman with a grown opinion..Have a blessed night..
Sis, you nailed it!
Great breakdown! I always say this it's not about race its about how a woman positions herself.
I don’t see how anyone could be upset or triggered with anything that you’ve said- you clearly state that this is about accountability so we can do and have Better. If you’re not ready to be a big girl- don’t come to this page. I love it 🥰
Hes with her for her looks period that's why she keeps her body in tact‼️and she's not black
She looks black!
Exactly
Great lesson, Wildheart🙏🏾❤️💯
This is a real Queen! She knows her worth.
This sister has Elegance and Class.
And at the end of day Cuban Link is truly a Lady. Most women won't turn it ladies and that's the difference. Man love who womwn that carries herself like Ladies.
50 is like this because he was raised by his grandparents. His Grandfather modeled to him how a man should be, he said his Grandfather would give his Grandma his whole check.
Ok, number 1. Cuban isn’t black , she’s multi ethnic. Having said that , 50 has practically shouted from the roof tops he despises phenotypical black women. Ray Charles could see that . Any woman who lays with a man who hates his own kind , can’t possibly respect or love that man. But yup she’s pulling a well orchestrated finesse. However she does serve a purpose ….. she’s a dutiful beard. Yes … you read that correctly. Industry people know that is correct. How you doing? * Wendy voice* but yeah 50 for the last 20 years has not nor will not put any resources into phenotypical black women. So if the woman is dark skin , with 4c hair ,she can literally fall from heaven- it won’t matter to him.
I find your comment interesting. Yall cry about blk men not liking blk w0men but quick to claim these blk men are g@y out of bitterness. Most of you have the same type of hate yall accuse bm of having
Thank you ! They automatically mentally put them on a higher treatment because they are not black and that’s a fact
She's BLACK her dad is
Vivica fox ?
@@teriklobnak4704 he didn’t value her like this , hence why they never got married etc
He is very silly and immature. Don't know how she can stand him!!!
It’s about the money
Unless a person knows this woman personally and are in their circle, can't say what she did or didn't do, then state what they think really happen, it's nobody's business, the woman has his attention, both making moves, it's always good making moves with someone!🤗
Such a great video! She is hella inspiring me to continue to be on this self love journey regardless of being in a relationship or even wanting one! 🌻
I don’t let a Women take advantage of me I don’t care how Beautiful she is
@cleveland .... and you're SMART. STAY THAT WAY
Well spoken & duly noted !! I love this channel Bn binge watching & I’m happy to say although I have more work to do I’m definitely close to the woman I desire to be.
Girl can I just say thank you for this video! I got a new baller and I have messed up a few situations in the past but we had our first link and I played it so well 😜 All I kept thinking was "Be smart like Cuban Link and you can get your 50 Cent" 🙌💯
Dont do it, find someone who truly wants a Family
She maybe Finessin 50 but I pray to God that she don’t get pregnant by him he doesn’t even claim his own son. That’s a complete turn off…. I’m just saying🤷🏾♀️
It is
You broke that down well said.. who cares who get mad. This some real shit
I always followed her and was motivated by her! Even back when she was with Omelly, Meek Mill’s cousin, I followed her and observed that she was too good for him and then boom, they broke up and she bagged 50 💪🏾💪🏾
@Bold&Black MuvA facts sis 💯💯
She dated OMELLY.......WOW
@@candic654 yep she did for a long time too
Just hearing your intro song, I know lessons are about to be taught!
As a man who's successful, no where 50 cent status, I really agree with the last part of the vid. So many women put up a front, and the only excitement is BS drama reminiscent of a reality show. It's nothing but a unattractive distraction that I like to avoid. Be yourself , live a little, and laugh a lot. As cliche as it sounds
All points are super important. this is the game
Love how Ms. Cuban link is very classy
She cares for him.. which is why she's strategic
I truly love this video. You're speaking mad facts and you've definitely woke me up to some things
This was amazing, I loved how you broke it down. I totally agree with everything you said and I've noticed it as well (I follow her/them).
50 cent is very immature he’s a good BUISNESS man but she is mature ‼️smart how she moves with him
Where were videos like this 10-15 years ago gheesh 😩😩😩
The only thing I will say different here is that I believe she does love him. They both glow. 50 is immature on social media. If you watch his interviews he is l genuine, charismatic and charming. Good for them!
She's the one. Loved your post. Respect Cuban link for her accomplishments.❤️
I always wonder about women like Cuban & Ms. Jackson. Are they becoming wealthy on this journey since they haven't married? Is there an allowance or a documented agreement? Edit: Perfect, she is building her RE portfolio!
I really love this video ! Glad I watched it with an open mind.