Not you educating us on Italian culture, history of baseball and… giving us relationship tea/advice. Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. You’re soooooo good! Good work! Love it. ❤
About baseball, naaa... in the 1970s, over 20% of MLB players were Black. Fast forward 50 years to now and rather than going up, it’s mindowing that there could even be a World Series without one Black player on either team’s roster. Much like going from tens of Black sitcoms in the 1990s to now and Black music flooding the popular charts to now, baseball is way more complicated than this
@@noble604 read somewhere that MLB was 33% Black at one point in the late 1980s. Starting in the mid-late 90s they began to gentrify Black people out of ⚾️ by jacking up the cost of basic equipment (bat, mitt, batting gloves, cleats, & helmet) all that can easily run u $300-$500 not to mention the cost for playing competitive ⚾️ is outrageous. Most Black people simply can’t afford that. And most Black high schools in the hood either don’t have baseball or the program is piss poor. Once all the Black players retired by the early 2010s, baseball lost a lot of traction on the Black community. Now u have Black people unaware of all this, who think the sport is “boring” & that’s why negroes don’t play ⚾️ Once a Black boy is in high school, he’s already given up baseball for 🏀 or 🏈 this country was not about to let all 3 of its biggest sports (🏈🏀⚾️) be dominated by Black people. Black people’s dominance of 🏀 & 🏈 has long debunked the racist lie that Black athletes r inferior to White athletes. Baseball was the only sport they had left that was still majority White. They were not about to let Negroes whoop they ass in ⚾️ too so they began kicking Black people out of ⚾️ via gentrification & we see the results of it today 25+ years later. Baseball money is crazy & baseball players have the longest career in all of sports (10 years on average) compared to 3 years for 🏈 & 5 for 🏀 sorry for the long comment I just wanted to elaborate a lil more.
Exactly 😒 that’s why most of these women think they are winning or better than a man’s wife because he will have sex with her ! A man will have sex with an apple pie 🥴 so !
@@witneeb6670 speak for yourself, please. just cuz you were probably one or you know someone who is one doesn't mean every woman went through that. this was a very ignorant statement.
@@witneeb6670 i wouldn’t attach sheras name to this type of narrative. Shera was a special case of her getting wifed after dealing w a married man… Deja isn’t getting that title nor the money compared to the WIFE.
@@AriesVeryOwn4 and if she leaves they gonna make fun of her for fumbling this Mf and being a single mother now while waiting for him to cheat on Dejah too.
the side piece doesn’t even REALIZE how goofy she look thinking he love her … HE DONT EVEN REALIZE how much embarrassing attention he brought into his home … she doesn’t look goofy for ANYTHING LEAVE THE WOMAN ALONE
@@analea6531 even if she leaves, i doubt it be her lol . I wouldn’t said a word . Get my coins and keep it pushing. Bria ain’t leaving her 150 milly investment at lest till then kids 18 . Chess not checkers
@@witneeb6670 she is stupid asf now a single mother of 3 fighting for a position and trying to get attention from the wife by any means stop defending delusional people.
Exactly, a man who truly values you will be afraid to lose you so he will not put himself in a position to do so. I have seen men value their wives so much so they wouldn’t even look at another woman in a lustful way. But maybe they are few
Exactly, cause love wouldn’t lie, betray your trust, cause you or put you at risk for emotional, psychological, spiritual, and even physical distress and turmoil. Love wouldn’t embarrass you like that. And love wouldn’t break your heart.
She trying to secure that bag. Once a woman is married 10 years or more she's entitled to what he has. They only been married since 2017, I wouldn't be surprised if she files for divorce in the next 5 years or so. I don't think it makes a woman strong or weak who chooses to stay work on her marriage. I look at as a woman who decided to stay. This man is worth millions trust many woman who were in her shoes would stay as well, at least ride it out until that 10 years. These people are in entirely different tax bracket then the average married couple who aren't millionaires. The average married couple will stay for "Love" I bet on her part it's more of financial reasons being afforded a certain lifestyle. What the barely making ends meet married couple reason for staying married it's definitely not transactional reasons. As they say Cheating is a rich man's sport.
@@witneeb6670 no I don't like being in public eye, I stick to comment sections under those who work tirelessly to put out this info to younger woman and older ones who are just coming out of this mindset we have so long been conditioned to think. I didn't always think this way watching these content creators over the years have definitely shifted how I think see things.
I was a victim of this situation. I was married to a cheater. He cheated with the girl across the street from where we lived. I would notice her watching me and getting my hair styles. He went on to get her pregnant. One night her and her friends attacked me and I had no clue what was going on. He jumped in on my side but the damage was done. He eventually was offered by her to move in with and he went but he was so miserable. I remarried so I don’t know what happened. We don’t have kids thank God.
@@jeanellreynolds7291I’m so sorry that happened to you! Honestly if I was you I would change my number and block his family he was a no good @ss dude. I wonder if he’s still with her? I would have press charges on her and her friend
Not only that, that man’s work contract is in danger. The side deleted everything, including posts of their new baby, that’s telling. That baby she had out of spite and hope he’d leave his wife has solidified him being in breach of not only his marriage contract, it probably breached his image contract with the MLB…
The original concept was never about love. The love concept has been pushed on women in the most of Western world. Ppl marry for all kinds of reasons. It’s supposed to benefit both parties.
this is true tho! My boyfriend told me, men hardly ever initiate break ups/ divorces… even when it’s a crazy bxtch LOL it’s actually kinda scary because you never know when someone is with you because they truly want to be or because leaving is too much of an inconvenience 😕😕😕
I don’t think it’s because of love. It’s just that breaking up is an inconvenience. I had a man straight up tell me that he hates his wife out of the blue. 👀(& no. We weren’t dating or anything. It was a job I was doing) and he just came out with it…unprovoked. Scary stuff. He was giving me Chris Watts vibes. 👀👀👀 Stay safe out there y’all. Smh.
But they don't stay together because they still love the women most times, they stay with them so that they don't have to split properties and split finances
Bria is a class act, educated and poised. Dejah is the complete and total opposite of that. It’s crazy how people defend Dejah for how she has antagonized and bullied Bria. I feel terribly for Bria and her daughters. Tim is a piece of trash for making Dejah feel bold enough to disrespect his wife over and over again. Tim is trash, Dejah is trash. Tim could have divorced Bria if he really “loved” Dejah, but he didn’t. Dejah has all this smoke for Bria when she should really be upset with Tim. He’s the one who made her a 3 time baby mama all while she’s dealing with evictions and a suspended drivers license. Can’t even sustain a roof her kids heads without having Tim foot the bill. Dejah professed her love for this man only for him to turn around and called her a sneaky link turned responsibility. Smh… yet-- she’s mad at his wife and not him. Make it make sense!
Her self worth and self esteem is in the gutter. The fact that he can say that he can cut her lights off at any given moment is embarrassing af. I feel bad for his wife and the children. Why would you have baby with a MARRIED man, certifying a weird situation/environment the child will be in.
I know men are wired different than women. But, I just can’t believe you love me after cheating. Just seems like the man is having the time of his life and the wife is suffering while cleaning up HIS mess 😒😠. I pray bria is ok after all this mess. 😢
They cheat. Married people cheat. Where is all of this nativity coming from. Do you not see the STD rates. Why do people choose to live as if they don't know how people are?
@@midi2732 it means you can love someone but not completely respect them. This could be due to the lack of respect he has for himself. Nothing to do with his wife. There’s like 6/7 different kinds of love outside of the romantic (Eros) love. So he may love her as a friend/ mother and value her for that. But clearly he does not respect her as he lacks sexual discipline to mirror that respect.
I’d be completely obliterated if I discovered that my husband not only cheated on me AND had a baby, but also flaunted the relationship with the side chick as if I didn’t exist. It almost makes me wonder if the wife knew and they all had some kind of…agreement? If that’s not the case, I’d just pack up and leave. He has has to be held accountable for this. Embarrassing and vile.
Something tells me she knew. I think they did have an agreement. And unfortunately a lot of women believe that a man with money will cheat anyway so they become proactive about it by allowing him to have a side piece. Which is just disgusting to me. That’s not what a marriage is. But I digress.
@@coilyheadedbby very well said. It’s way too open and free for it not to be. I don’t know these people from Adam or Erica- but looks like a dingy, dusty situation, no matter how you view it. 🧹💨🧹
No one is blaming the man. He manipulated the both of them. He treats the side like a gf. You can see they spend non sexual time together, so that shows that he likes her to some degree. Both women are losing, they will both be miserable in that love triangle.
Which is one reason why I say when it comes to cheating there is some emotion with men on some level. It's not always just sex it can never be if you keep doing it with that one person.
As a married woman I’m warning y’all to please be diligent and picky about who you choose to marry. These men are wolves in sheep’s clothing and sometimes you don’t find out the true them until after you’re already married. So please be diligent, wise, and selective!
While 95% of me still hugely desires marriage and can’t wait to find my boo and make it forever with him, I can’t help but to acknowledge that 5-10% of me that knows if my husband is ever granted the opportunity to sleep with a woman without me knowing, he will absolutely take it regardless of how good of a man I think he is. See how booed up he is with her, in public too? This wasn’t just a jump off, it looked like they were in a whole relationship. I’d run myself ragged thinking of the possibility of him leaving me, extra kids I might have to take care of, or him bringing me STDs. It scares me how infidelity is now considered a normal “up and down” of a relationship. Marriage absolutely benefits the woman more in cases like this and I’m sure both Bria and Tim knows this. I’m praying for her and genuinely hope this is something they both can move forward from.
@@xXFUEGIxX You can't be that damn stupid to actually think that. 😂😭🤣 When a broke azz man cheat as well, so do he get a pass because he's nothing? 😂😂
Its a sad day & age when women are happily sleeping with married men, and women on social media are defending the BS😒 Let's say Dehja does wind up marrying this man, there'll be another woman lurking just like her, not respecting the sanctity of 'Marriage' Karma is real, we ALL must reap what we've sown. She's pressed because she wants the perks of a WIFE! Clearly being a wife does mean something! Don't be fooled by the hype ladies. Saying those vows in front of GOD/family/friends is way more valid than pictures on social media! You can trust & believe, those white MLB Wives will NOT accept or embrace Dehja, cause they know she can't be trusted!!
I was going to say I think she’s waiting 10 years to get a bigger settlement, but she keeps posting him. Maybe she’s mentally checked out of the relationship.
The way I clicked so fast , you’ve taught me so much even had me change my music I listen to. You’re a real one! The way women on Instagram were trying to come for his wife, calling her crazy and say how funny looking she was and how beautiful Dejah was told me everything I need to know. Smh
Single women will make fun of the wife because they put themselves in the side chick's shoe 👠 and they see the wife as the person who is in their way stopping them from getting to the man
You said nothing but the TRUTH about “ women fall in love through what a man says through his words which is why most men understand that if they take your mind before they get the cookie , they can pretty much get you to do anything “ 💯💯💯
I can’t control my husband behavior. It’s with everything in life risk over reward. If he’s willing to break up our home then he better be ready for the consequences behind his decisions. And outside baby? That is a no no! I don’t want to hear that it’s not the baby fault crap.. my best revenge will be living my best life.
🤔🤔🤔 As a married woman, I can say this. I have a commitment with my husband, if he decides to step out of the marriage and create a child with another woman, I have no beef with that woman because she did not make a commitment to me, she does not owe me any loyalty, ESPECIALLY if we don't even know each other. The man is to be blamed. It's one thing to cheat, it's another thing to not use protection and have a child then create a scandal that embarrass your family and the woman you made a commitment to. That woman don't owe me anything, she doesn't have to respect me, but the HUSBAND is the person who created this catastrophy.
Facts 💯💯💯 The sidechick harassing the wife tho😳😳😳 Nothing but envy bc Tim could leave her at any time, but he’s not…. That _should_ tell her 🤡 a$$ everything she needs to know. Unfortunately, she’s not that bright 🤭
They are both sharing him. He clearly doesn’t care about his marriage and wants to have a relationship with both women. He doesn’t want to change his household structure for his children’s sake. The wife is not special and neither is the mistress.
His wife is his day one, she was there before the deal. When I first heard this story I really thought it was a joke because there had never been anything messy that came out about Tim or his marriage. I don’t know if it’s the money or the fame but I hope it doesn’t cost him his wife because she is not deserving of this at all.
@@dwash35405 I never look at marriages or couples as long lasting, pure or something I’d aspire towards having because we will never know what’s going on behind closed doors and 9 times out of 10 we think it’s a fairytale and it never is. Relationships and marriages are very messy, has it’s imperfections and run the risk of ending at any time. I know it sounds cynical but its the ugly truth and part of life… it’s realistic unfortunately to look at relationships this way🤷🏽♀️
I can almost 1000% guarantee he had been doing this for a long time, and his wife knows. He just got too carried away this time. They all deserve each other IMO. The kids are the only victims here.
IDK how women stay committed to a man that not only fucked , but gave another woman a baby! If stayed temporarily it’s showtime! I’m turning him everywhere which way but loose until I leave! Abuse and cheating is a no-no in my book
On God that's what I would do and he wouldn't see it coming. You don't go tit for tat with a n**** like him. You strategically leave his ass once you have all your ducks in a row.
I just want to say if Bria cheated and got pregnant by another man, Tim would not even have said 2 words to her and he would have left and been living in a Penthouse downtown. He is also the breadwinner so understandable so he would have no reason to continue to be with his wife but Bria needs him because he makes the money so she has no where to go. It’s important for women to have their own money, build their own brand and be able to take care of them selves when their men cheat. He will cheat on her again and again. Sorry to say but this is embarrassing!!!
@Aish you’re completely right! I learned my lesson in high school when it came down to my best friend having a baby by first love! Broken everything in me. I don’t associate with evil female vibes. @Shakanuh Glorie girllll okay now the entire family curse that’s so sad man everyone’s going to pay karma but Dejah & Tim mistake 🤦🏾♀️ we as black people have to do better frfr
Even from a logical point of view, they don't love their wives. They just want to do whatever the hell they want because they wear the pants and they call the shots. They know exactly what it means to love. Because if his woman were to be messing around with another dude, he'd immediately call it for what it was. He's not trying to hear: "It didn't mean anything, it was just sex. I still love you." from her. That's just the bs, the okey doke, flim flam that they've convinced women to accept for decades. The old, "he knows where he hangs his hat" or "he knows where his home is."
I really want women to wake up and understand that men do not think and move like women. A man can very well enjoy being with you (the side chick) and still want to stay married to his wife! He’s using you for whatever it is that he wants from you. Dejah need to redirect her energy to Tim and herself, not Bria . He’s the one that’s causing her to be angry and she need to take accountability for dealing with a married man. A side chick expecting commitment from a married /cheating man will always be mind boggling.
@@2bconfusednot yup Tim is not a prize in my eyes. Bria may have her reasons to stay married and we can judge her all we want , but that’s her right to work on her marriage . However Dejah is fighting a battle she will never win respectfully🙏🏾 .
Are you aware that many women are like this too? Many women date men without being emotionally attached too and just for money they are just smart about it and keep their side dudes quite it's these dummies we keep seeing online that makes us assume women think differently when it comes to sex
@@jeshurundaniel794 I never said women can’t sleep around with no emotions . And you just agreed with my point that women move differently than men? Lol . Also they may be “dummies” to you but it proves that women in general don’t process sex or relations the same as men . I see far more women seeking answers about why men do the things they do if they never wanted the woman.
You kill it every time!!! Literally undefeated🙌🏾 I speak increase over your platform and your reach!!! The way u dissect and unfold & dig alllll the way into the intricacies of each and every topic is unmatched! Keep going sis this is your gift💫
The only one benefiting from this 💩 show of a marriage is the husband! He got the right one because the way my self esteem is set up I would be filing for divorce, baby! It’s way too many STD’s and STI’s to be playing Russian roulette with my life/health.
Bria is playing the long game baby. She gone ride it out. Most of these women already knows there’s a high chance of infidelity. She’s playing the game
Lol the men in comments on socials called it when it popped off she's pissed that the wife knows and still won't leave so she brung it to the internet to embarrass her hoping that would make her leave. the one that thinks she got one up alwayssss ends up crying and he needs to seek help idk how you can love someone and completely embarrass them this way shame on him for giving the girl the battery in her back that she needed to be this bold and disrespectful if she thinks he's gonna treat her better she needs to take a look around and at history he will do you worse baby like he's doing now🥱
He’s a shortstop alright…he stopped short of giving his wife the utmost respect she deserves as a wife and a mother of his children. But I can tell Bria is going to figure this out for her and her children. I wish her the best.
My EX-husband's mistress learned the hard way. I left his cheating arse, but she saw no "benefit". That fool is STILL trying to "get his family back" 🙄 but she was tossed aside by the married trash man she knowingly laid with.
@@witneeb6670 did you actuality READ my comment. If you did, and still posted this response, you obviously lack COMPREHENSION skills or you're one of those people who sleep with married men and lack the ability to take ACCOUNTABILITY for their actions. Let me break my initial comment down for your remedial tailed self since you TRIED to school me: 1. His mistress learned that cheating men don't commonly leave their wives for them; 2. I divorced his arse since he's a cheating piece of trash; 3. All the mistress is going to get is tossed aside by that trashy arse man ... just like she did. You made a whole lot of assumptions, are you projecting? Share. This is a safe space.
Even IF he leaves his wife, it WONT be to marry YOU. Messing with a married man is morally wrong BUT to get pregnant by one makes it even worst. If you’re going to be a mistress, do it RIGHT. Always put yourself first above these men
@@brandi5200 staying in your lane doing everything privately being discreet. I’m not saying it’s right but females are messy Dejah wants Bria to suffer there’s no girl codes now and days! It’s not Dejah fault it’s Tim but it’s Dejah role if she is going to be sleeping with Tim use protect obviously because he’s still having sex with his wife & god knows how many other females.
I loveeeee this channel! I’m in my 30’s but I really need my girls in their 20’s to understand what’s going on out here. Any young lady I know gets sent here. Self preservation is a MUST out here. Thank you for all you do!
I had to pause the video and write this comment because YOU DESERVE ENDLESS FLOWERS. I love what you do for women, especially black women. We need this, we need to teach our children, aunts and mothers these lessons. I feel like nowadays women, BLACK WOMEN to be exact are so caught up in these social media standards. Thinking because a man keeps coming back that means he wants you to be his forever. We as women need to respect ourselves more and stop settling for the bare minimum or for someone else’s man because we think we’re only capable of being a GOOMAH. This is golden. You are a GEM WHO DROPS GEMS.
@@shuntayshuntay he’s the “king” it’s honestly his job. But his wife is in the proper position so regardless of his final move she’ll win- that’s the benefit of being the “queen” . Nobody should want others to know they are or have been a “pawn” it’s nothing to celebrate
No amount of money or love can have me looking foolish over a married man who not only cant commit to his marriage or me, but also ignores my antics publicly. Dejah is truly delusional lmao. The pics and videos honestly just make them both look even more crazy
I love your videos. I will say I believe Tim Anderson has a type and its not his wife. Bria is beautiful, classy, educated, well spoken. Tim Anderson gives me grew up around hood girls and this is what I really like energy. He never hid the side girl and Bria doesn't seem to give boundaries because she accepted the baby he had outside the relationship. Anderson also gives me drama and he seems to like having 2 women fight over him. BM seem to be the only men who get money and have outside children. Other cultures cheat but usually don't have a child outside the relationship. The bigger question is why can't BM have discipline when it comes to money? Are BW enabling this behavior by not having consequences for cheating? Excellent video as always.
He and his wife are from the suburbs, he is giving the suburban black men who love/are infatuated with the hood and ratchet chicks, they always marry educated, well spoken suburban church girls and always cheat on them with hood chicks. its a fetish they almost all have
Dejah doesn’t realize that there is no type of win for her in this situation. He’s either just playing her, having the max s*x he can and will never leave his wife for her or he even gonna leave his wife for her but will cheat on her and embarrass her even more. A man who disrespect wife and mother of his kid can never act right toward any other woman. And it’s funny how that man could end this mess with a post but chooses to remain silent and only posted a cryptic birthday message to his wife not even stating his position on the topic. He’s playing both of them
1:19 in an episode of the Sopranos Tony’s goomah said “I’ll tell your wife“ while having an argument and he rushed her and slammed her to the wall. That says everything! If that man really wanted you he wouldn’t physically assault you and talk down to you. (I know its a show but that lesson is real life)
Yes ladies do not ever, I mean ever mess around with Married Men..EVER.. Your not benefiting from wasting your Valuable Time..A married man with a damn wedding band on, Asked for my Number, I cursed his Ass OUT, and told him to go home to his family..I don’t play around with these Married Men…Stay Single if your not done playing in these Streets..
I don’t know if I believe he love his wife, I think he just haven’t left because divorce might be waaayyy more expensive than staying in the marriage but that is just my opinion..
This guy and his wife are from my hometown. They have been together for a long time before they got married. They really seemed to have a nice union. I’m so disappointed that he let the fame and women come between his marriage.
@@witneeb6670Men from 45-55+ have baggage. Most are busy paying alimony for their ex wives or child support. Let’s not forget the ones that say that they will never marry again. Like, what’s the point? 😂😴🚮
@@ozzie8800 Tim doesn't respect his marriage and vows. When you don't respect someone it's usually because the person is doing something wrong or you don't agree with . A man cheating usually has nothing to do with the wife. His wife loves him but doesn't respect him.
@@zarario4444 not always, not respecting someone can also be due to the lack of respect for yourself. He may love his wife but he doesn’t respect her, himself or his vows. This has nothing to do with his wife and all to do with how low he values and honours himself. He clearly doesn’t value himself outside of money and is seeking to fill a void. All which has nothing to do with his wife. You can respect the someone in some aspects and not respect them in other aspects.
I’m British, and when I saw the title of this video, King Charles and Camilla immediately sprang to mind … 🙄 He not only had an affair on his wife, he married his side chick and made her Queen.
I’m watching this right now and Wild Heart Waves I’m so confused. I am someone who desires to be married and won’t have kids without marriage. And really would like a faithful man. I guess my question is what is really the point if Bria has his last name and the marriage certificate, he’s still sharing HER resources with other women and impregnating them? I just pray she is alright cuz this is horrible.
@@shuntayshuntay Mm ma'am I hope you share more I saw your previous comment on marriage being a mix of love and business and if you don't mind I would like to know more about marriage I feel as women we are sold the dream and that's what we get stuck with
@@turquoiselizzie6874 I'm curious too. It kinda hurts my heart the way cheating is so normalized, especially where I live (the Caribbean). The good guys don't not cheat, they just cheat 'respectfully' i.e. they don't get caught.
Disgusting behavior ! If you steal someone’s husband you didn’t win in the eyes of God. City girls be aware that marriage is a matter of business more than love. That’s why the man won’t leave the wife. Absolutely pathetic !!
@@lolli6389 by giving him attention or time. Yes men are consenting and willingly cheat but women have to be wise and remove themselves from that scenario it’s a loose loose situation esp for the side chick.
@@slimthickaz. when your married you’re one, it’s written in the book. That’s why men who divorce loose half their worth because the courts recognize that half belongs to the wife. If don’t matter if women use city girl principles to get around this fact! In the end side chicks get nothing if the take the man that’s a win, because he will turn around do the same to them. Y’all have blessed day 😂😂😂😂
I just don’t understand how you can have kids and be obsessed over a man clearly not for you . I’m a single mom , new to this life . And the last thing I’m thinking about is a man! Let a long being crazy over him 🥴 these women have babies only for the man . And it’s not fair to the children
I say this all the time, the last thing on my mind is what my babydad is doing granted it took me some time to get here but life changes so much when you have a baby, you only focus on what NEEDS focus.
I agree with everything except for the he still loves you even if he cheats. If he’s doing it constantly then he does not love you lol, one thing to make a mistake and fix it but to keep doing it over and over - that’s not love. At least not romantic love
I have mixed feelings about marriage in general, I’ve seen men leave their wives but it wasn’t for a side piece they weren’t happy ALREADY and then the side piece came in at the perfect time but they husband was already unhappy it’s not like the side piece swooped him off his feet away from his happy marriage #2 I don’t wanna be a married wife with a cheating husband OR a side piece 🥹🥹🥹
You're right! Men will stay until they find better. I think 90% of women have been side pieces with out knowing because they always look for a sure relationship. Men hate to be alone. (edited for typos)
I'm 37 unmarried. It will always be a younger woman in shadows. I don't care to marry because it's high chance I'll be competing with a younger versions Of myself 😮 Too many lose women running around here with 0 morals and standards. They trying to get a bag any way they can.
@*Ang* what I realized is that majority of wives who became one and their husband is out here embarrassing them, really don't love them. A lot of these women begged to get married, threw tantrums, bullied or they had kids together before marriage. Most men are jealous. Don't want no other man with their kids so they settle and marry even if she's not his type. And hes running arounf here dating orher women.How sad.im not settling for that miserable life
@@lavender123u right on. Better being single. I see way too many women in our age group worrying about cheating men while raising kids and maintaining a household. I just hope the young ladies listen so they can avoid these problems
Tim did respond to Deja on his Finch (I hope I said it right) he basically called Deja a sneaky link, heaux and a itch 😳 he told her he can turned the lights off and he’s only doing things because he loves his son 🤦♀️😞 just a mess
@@witneeb6670 what girl does he love because one thing for certain and 2 things for sure he won’t ever claim Deja and one thing men have always said if a man really loves you he will show it by his actions 🤷♀️
I’m a huge sopranos fan . Loving this intro lol. It’s very odd today to see so many baby mommas and random women saying things like the man loves the side chick more and that’s who he wants to be with. It gives delusional and wishful thinking
@@witneeb6670 It’s very sad the stand you’re choosing to take but okay . No matter what you say within the society we live in ,the man will never bare the grunt of a scandal so hollering what about the man unfortunately does nothing . The way you speak it’s very apparent you don’t come from a 2 parent household because who says it’s cheaper to keeper about a wife? It’s very clear you don’t understand the depth of being one and I hate that for you sis
Lol very delusional. The side always wants to win and I tell men this all the time. They know what’s going on, they pretend that they are down and then all hell breaks loose. 😂
Tim stepped out from a beautiful, well-educated, faithful, and committed woman to be so open with a side chick. Like you said, these sports agencies, the white bosses, don't like these types of drama surrounding their players. If Dejah continues coming at Bria and family like this, Tim can loose deals aka money maybe even his playing contract. As seen with Nia Long Fiance that kissed another woman. He was fired from his coaching positionwhich, h in turn can cause her child support to be drastically reduced. If she is smart she'll hush and continue to get paid but we all know she's not. She wants Tim to be her man and will shade the wife every chance she gets. Tim, on the other hand, ain't no prize his wife actually is the prize. I feel he fell out of love with her. This was not a Khloe or Tristan one night stand situation. This was a full-blown side relationship. Now he's trying to save face because I'm sure he knows Bria can leave and literally take EVERYTHING.
Yup! Women influence and clean up the image of men therefore they are the prize. Savannah does the same for Lebron James. That’s why Cam Newton and Nicki Cannon won’t get to the level of money as Jay Z or Lebron. Married BM are seen in a better light in Yt society. They don’t want to hear it though.
My heart breaks for Bria and those children. Her husband is a complete broken clown for running around town and wifing his goomah to the point that he had unprotected sex with her. A woman who already has children by another man and showed you how worthy she felt about herself by engaging with a married man. The pain Bria is more than likely experiencing is beyond words especially since this is public. Dejah is not even worth mentioning because it is exactly what it is.....these caliber of women are the worst and disgusting people. Hoping this man learns his lesson and repairs what he's broken!
Im a married woman n just had our first daughter. My husband plans on having more children with me..... This video is on point. A man knows what he wants and makes it that way.....its up to a woman to follow the Lord and not give access to men they would not marry or would not marry them. My husband works to make sure me n the baby are provided for. I work as well. After i had our daughter I slimmed down back to my normal weight n size within two months and im over 35. A lot of younger women are lazy, complain, have issues with being truthful, and are hungry only for the money a man has.....i didnt get where i am that way. I loved God n i loved my husband and God blessed me with a family.
Be careful. You're making too many native assumptions, which is setting you up for heartache. You can't vouch for a man and you definitely can't say what will happen in the future. Your entire comment was full of vanity and pride, which is often a catalyst for failure. Humble yourself.
@@josephine1038 i am humble....thats y im sharing what i know. Many women do not put God first.....and they need to and not JUST for the sake of a marriage. I expected negative feedback but that is how it is sadly enough. I hope this reaches a woman who wants to follow God and fulfill our roles as Gods feminine creation in His image. God bless yall
@@322Mermaid negative comments from unhappy miserable negative ass women ! Keep being happy with u and urs and u don’t have to be anything but happy ! U can’t even be happy online about ur marriage it’s so sad
@callmez954 I watch whatever makes sense, this channel has consistently spoken to a perspective (a woman's) without for the most part being unfairly antagonistic towards men.
I am not saying the wife should divorce him but I would at least fake move out to see his reaction. Once a man allows another women to disrespect your gloves better come off!!!!
Why wouldn't she need to divorce him? He has literally committed infidelity to her several times and y'all are questioning on whether she should stay or not? No type of logic. Obviously she should leave!
My problem with “the other woman has no loyalty” is that no one wants this to happen to them. Not all women are queens yall. I’m starting to realize that a lot of women are just as messed up as men. If not, they can be worse because at least men follow their bro code for the most part. Too many women are willing to act dumb dumb over men and forget that all of us women are being wronged and that we shouldn’t be going along with this. If you don’t know about the wife and kids, that’s one thing. However, if you know, you are just as bad and just as much of a bed warmer along with husband. If I was Bria I would take him for alimony, child support and spousal support. My kids and myself are coming first and everyone else won’t matter.
Yesss! These chick's love to say it's not my marriage or I'm not committed ti the woman but fail to realize that they initiated the disrespect so if the wife incites some game or violence people would say it should be reserved for the husband's. And worse she had a baby that would grow up with his wife's kids. She disrespect her seed by making them a bastard among legitimate kids and now it looks like she is trying to incite divorce because unless he commits to her over his wife she hasn't secured a bag big enough for her other kids.
Exactly!! This is the truth most won’t say or talk about !! It’s a lot of evil women who could care less about the next woman !! They are not victims at all !
A baby is a great a way to have a married man leave you. Late night feedings, sore chappee nipples, healing stitches, loud rapid crying is not sexy. Its annoying. If the man wanted that, he would stayed with his wife. He came for a good time, not a serious time.
Deja is going to REGRET this big time and so is he! Shout out to the Wife Bria! She is a class act in this whole situation and I wish her and the family healing from this.
Men rarely even leave a girlfriend. And if they’re going to leave they will leave the girlfriend quickly. And if he does leave… he probably still won’t be in a monogamous relationship with an already established side chick. But misconstrued feelings of love make ppl delusional
Some husbands DO leave. The rest will try to keep both wife and side chick. It’s the wife who is normally the one who ends up leaving the husband because he won’t stop messing with the side chick. 80% of divorces are initiated by the wife.
Yes, but it’s rare. The ones that do marry the side chick open up a spot for a new side chick soon thereafter. They don’t respect the side because men are hypocrites. They can cheat, but don’t respect women who cheat ON or WITH them.
I haven't even begin to watch this but I'm glad you covered her bc she is trife. I used to support her HAIR PAGE but I unfollowed (long before the disrespect of the wife ) because her page turned into an IG MODEL page.
Same thing my ex did. Had pictures together, on SnapChat together, out to eat together constantly, took her to meet his mom and grand mom, etc.. I stayed afterwards, found my self esteem and worth and left him! They have zero respect.
@@witneeb6670 heat? There was no heat at all love lol & maybe you didn’t watch the whole video because she touched on this topic in itself.. but go off 😅
This is spot on!!! Women always think they can do better than the wife is doing and they end up finding out that they can't. On another note: can you do a video on the Summer Walker interview with Caresha??? Please, please, please 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is why we have Shera. If I ever stayed in a marriage with a man that’s cheated he should definitely fear for his account balance. I’m documenting every affair and taking coins for everyone. And by time you want to settle down and chill with me I will be gone with your funds to fund my new life 😂
I’m from East African and women we are taught not to lie with a man until he comes to make his intentions clear and follow it up with paying MAHARI (Swahili meaning paying for your bride price) that automatically means that you two are married according to MILA na DESTURI( Swahili meaning of custom and traditions)
Bria saw the red flags while dating him. Before marriage. All men have red flags, don’t care, you won’t argue me on this. They all do, and I’m not talking about “a bad day here or there” like we all do, because women aren’t perfect. However, I’m talking about the sinister nature of males, women are not like this. Manipulative, shift blaming, insecure, wanting to break you down, morally indecent, can’t keep his word, childish, complacent, lazy, lying, coercive…. What women should do is take their time while getting to know a man. Don’t overlook anything, and in the right timing and in a direct way state exactly what you saw, and there should be clear direct consequences for poor behavior. If he doesn’t comply, let him fly out the door and back to the streets. Also you should do this WITHOUT, sleeping with him. That’s where most of you women mess up, sleeping with him AT ALL, and he’s not your husband. Y’all ever notice he switches right after or shortly after you have sex, (he’s gotcha) can’t give a man anymore than your body, after that, your had , your done. You may as well except him for what he is and always will be. You should make sure the grown boy is completely eradicated from his very nature before you even allow him anytime of day.
Why don’t married people stay married and leave single people alone instead of Making excuses to take each other back and blaming single people while creating broken homes in the process because no one wins 😅 🤷🏾♀️
Hey yall. Great breakdown. This is a mess. How is she supposed to get over this. One thing to cheat which is messed up to have a baby. I can't. You have to be a strong woman to stay because i couldn't. I would move on. I wouldn't be able to trust you anymore and thats just that.
I woke up to see the video has dropped and i started setting the bath…… thank you again for such amazing content…… lady when are opening up a finishing school on online course for these women. For many years i’ve been speaking on the topics you discuss and a few people think i think i’m to nice. They don’t understand i just adhere to a particular standard and i’m not easy to be impressed my minimal behaviour, standards and effort.
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Not you educating us on Italian culture, history of baseball and… giving us relationship tea/advice. Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. You’re soooooo good! Good work! Love it. ❤
I was just thinking that like she really knows her stuff. So smart🥰
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About baseball, naaa... in the 1970s, over 20% of MLB players were Black. Fast forward 50 years to now and rather than going up, it’s mindowing that there could even be a World Series without one Black player on either team’s roster. Much like going from tens of Black sitcoms in the 1990s to now and Black music flooding the popular charts to now, baseball is way more complicated than this
Hit us with the Italian word for whore lol 😂😂😂😂😂
@@noble604 read somewhere that MLB was 33% Black at one point in the late 1980s. Starting in the mid-late 90s they began to gentrify Black people out of ⚾️ by jacking up the cost of basic equipment (bat, mitt, batting gloves, cleats, & helmet) all that can easily run u $300-$500 not to mention the cost for playing competitive ⚾️ is outrageous. Most Black people simply can’t afford that. And most Black high schools in the hood either don’t have baseball or the program is piss poor. Once all the Black players retired by the early 2010s, baseball lost a lot of traction on the Black community. Now u have Black people unaware of all this, who think the sport is “boring” & that’s why negroes don’t play ⚾️ Once a Black boy is in high school, he’s already given up baseball for 🏀 or 🏈 this country was not about to let all 3 of its biggest sports (🏈🏀⚾️) be dominated by Black people. Black people’s dominance of 🏀 & 🏈 has long debunked the racist lie that Black athletes r inferior to White athletes. Baseball was the only sport they had left that was still majority White. They were not about to let Negroes whoop they ass in ⚾️ too so they began kicking Black people out of ⚾️ via gentrification & we see the results of it today 25+ years later. Baseball money is crazy & baseball players have the longest career in all of sports (10 years on average) compared to 3 years for 🏈 & 5 for 🏀 sorry for the long comment I just wanted to elaborate a lil more.
too many women think "sexual desire from men" equals "love and respect from men" and it couldnt be further from the truth.
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Exactly 😒 that’s why most of these women think they are winning or better than a man’s wife because he will have sex with her ! A man will have sex with an apple pie 🥴 so !
It's women like them, that give other women a bad reputation.
She does she posted something like that recently I cannot remember exactly what it says and I’m like s is not love. JUST INSECUREEEE
How do you explain to your kids that they have a baby brother by a woman who isn’t their mom? Insanely selfish and stupid.
They never do.
@@witneeb6670 speak for yourself, please. just cuz you were probably one or you know someone who is one doesn't mean every woman went through that. this was a very ignorant statement.
@@witneeb6670 it's giving you're a side chick sis. A woman is not wrong if she doesn't know that she is the side, if she is aware, I have no sympathy.
@@witneeb6670 i wouldn’t attach sheras name to this type of narrative. Shera was a special case of her getting wifed after dealing w a married man… Deja isn’t getting that title nor the money compared to the WIFE.
@@witneeb6670 omg your going to every comment typeing all that 😭
Deja doesn’t even realize how goofy she looks over this MARRIED man smh 🤦🏽♀️
They been going hard for her on the media , like they mad at the wife for not leaving him
@@AriesVeryOwn4 and if she leaves they gonna make fun of her for fumbling this Mf and being a single mother now while waiting for him to cheat on Dejah too.
the side piece doesn’t even REALIZE how goofy she look thinking he love her … HE DONT EVEN REALIZE how much embarrassing attention he brought into his home … she doesn’t look goofy for ANYTHING LEAVE THE WOMAN ALONE
@@analea6531 even if she leaves, i doubt it be her lol . I wouldn’t said a word . Get my coins and keep it pushing. Bria ain’t leaving her 150 milly investment at lest till then kids 18 . Chess not checkers
@@witneeb6670 she is stupid asf now a single mother of 3 fighting for a position and trying to get attention from the wife by any means stop defending delusional people.
A man that really love you will never cheat. The man will be afraid to hurt and lose you. Biology has nothing to do with it. A cheater is a cheater.
Exactly
Exactly, a man who truly values you will be afraid to lose you so he will not put himself in a position to do so. I have seen men value their wives so much so they wouldn’t even look at another woman in a lustful way. But maybe they are few
I’m glad you said this because I was thinking that it has more to do with social conditioning and societal aspects not biology
THIS
Exactly, cause love wouldn’t lie, betray your trust, cause you or put you at risk for emotional, psychological, spiritual, and even physical distress and turmoil. Love wouldn’t embarrass you like that. And love wouldn’t break your heart.
She knew he was married what!!! A single search will tell you everything you need to know about him😂😂😂
He knew he was married too!?!?!? So he could of past on her.
She doesn’t care girl..
@@its_whatever_dani_d863 obviously but dejah said she didn’t know and that’s hard to believe .
So that don’t mean open your legs then come crying to us on the internet 🤣
All 3 stew-pid. 😹
Women need to leave their husbands as soon as they know there is a side piece.
She trying to secure that bag. Once a woman is married 10 years or more she's entitled to what he has. They only been married since 2017, I wouldn't be surprised if she files for divorce in the next 5 years or so.
I don't think it makes a woman strong or weak who chooses to stay work on her marriage. I look at as a woman who decided to stay. This man is worth millions trust many woman who were in her shoes would stay as well, at least ride it out until that 10 years. These people are in entirely different tax bracket then the average married couple who aren't millionaires. The average married couple will stay for "Love" I bet on her part it's more of financial reasons being afforded a certain lifestyle. What the barely making ends meet married couple reason for staying married it's definitely not transactional reasons.
As they say Cheating is a rich man's sport.
Tim doesn’t live with his family. He lives alone and when this happens men really do operate like they are single.
@@witneeb6670 no I don't like being in public eye, I stick to comment sections under those who work tirelessly to put out this info to younger woman and older ones who are just coming out of this mindset we have so long been conditioned to think. I didn't always think this way watching these content creators over the years have definitely shifted how I think see things.
@@melaninpink92 I guess. I would make him wear a condom though.
The wife is playing chess
Cheating especially in this manner boils down to a lack of self-respect and discipline to me, but I could be wrong.
You're not wrong 💯
i agree
You not wrong !
You’re not wrong
I was a victim of this situation. I was married to a cheater. He cheated with the girl across the street from where we lived. I would notice her watching me and getting my hair styles. He went on to get her pregnant. One night her and her friends attacked me and I had no clue what was going on. He jumped in on my side but the damage was done. He eventually was offered by her to move in with and he went but he was so miserable. I remarried so I don’t know what happened. We don’t have kids thank God.
Sounds like you dodged a major bullet 🙏🏽
@@iaminevitable_ yes I did. To this day he has his mother calling me to get back together. She’s definitely a narcissist too.
@@jeanellreynolds7291I’m so sorry that happened to you! Honestly if I was you I would change my number and block his family he was a no good @ss dude. I wonder if he’s still with her? I would have press charges on her and her friend
@@jeanellreynolds7291glad you got out
@@georgeharris9114 me too. It really hurt through because he was my first everything.
Marriage is a mixture of love and business ppl need to understand that . Never understood that until I divorced …And right now he’s in breach 🤦🏾♀️
This!
Same
Not only that, that man’s work contract is in danger. The side deleted everything, including posts of their new baby, that’s telling. That baby she had out of spite and hope he’d leave his wife has solidified him being in breach of not only his marriage contract, it probably breached his image contract with the MLB…
@@cassiedion4144 that's both hilarious and sad. His short sighted idiocy done f'd up his bag. But now the kids could be affected. Just stupid.
The original concept was never about love. The love concept has been pushed on women in the most of Western world. Ppl marry for all kinds of reasons. It’s supposed to benefit both parties.
this is true tho! My boyfriend told me, men hardly ever initiate break ups/ divorces… even when it’s a crazy bxtch LOL it’s actually kinda scary because you never know when someone is with you because they truly want to be or because leaving is too much of an inconvenience 😕😕😕
I don’t think it’s because of love. It’s just that breaking up is an inconvenience. I had a man straight up tell me that he hates his wife out of the blue. 👀(& no. We weren’t dating or anything. It was a job I was doing) and he just came out with it…unprovoked. Scary stuff. He was giving me Chris Watts vibes. 👀👀👀 Stay safe out there y’all. Smh.
But they don't stay together because they still love the women most times, they stay with them so that they don't have to split properties and split finances
8:02 🎯BINGO, you nailed it! I’m always shocked at how these men allow their mistresses to film them and disrespect their wives in public.
Says a lot about how the husband views the wife . To not only cheat but flaunt it smh
@@shuntayshuntaythey hate their wives. It is a level of disrespect that is epic.
@@shuntayshuntay they looked like a whole couple. This man was emotionally invested in their affair to some degree.
Yes! But I rely oh this , Tim will Lose his mind and be damn near suicidal if Bria (his wife) leave him.
Bria is a class act, educated and poised. Dejah is the complete and total opposite of that. It’s crazy how people defend Dejah for how she has antagonized and bullied Bria. I feel terribly for Bria and her daughters. Tim is a piece of trash for making Dejah feel bold enough to disrespect his wife over and over again. Tim is trash, Dejah is trash. Tim could have divorced Bria if he really “loved” Dejah, but he didn’t. Dejah has all this smoke for Bria when she should really be upset with Tim. He’s the one who made her a 3 time baby mama all while she’s dealing with evictions and a suspended drivers license. Can’t even sustain a roof her kids heads without having Tim foot the bill. Dejah professed her love for this man only for him to turn around and called her a sneaky link turned responsibility. Smh… yet-- she’s mad at his wife and not him. Make it make sense!
She's the type of chick that thinks she has a 1 up when she is really causing pain to the child now and in the long run.
@@labelmeposh this!
Come on now 👏🏾👏🏾
Her self worth and self esteem is in the gutter. The fact that he can say that he can cut her lights off at any given moment is embarrassing af. I feel bad for his wife and the children. Why would you have baby with a MARRIED man, certifying a weird situation/environment the child will be in.
@Cassie Dion Don't write her intelligence off yet. Let her cook.
I know men are wired different than women. But, I just can’t believe you love me after cheating. Just seems like the man is having the time of his life and the wife is suffering while cleaning up HIS mess 😒😠. I pray bria is ok after all this mess. 😢
They cheat. Married people cheat. Where is all of this nativity coming from. Do you not see the STD rates. Why do people choose to live as if they don't know how people are?
He loves he is wife but he doesn’t respect her.
@@ozzie8800 make it make sense, wtf does that even mean.
@@midi2732 it means you can love someone but not completely respect them. This could be due to the lack of respect he has for himself. Nothing to do with his wife. There’s like 6/7 different kinds of love outside of the romantic (Eros) love. So he may love her as a friend/ mother and value her for that. But clearly he does not respect her as he lacks sexual discipline to mirror that respect.
Same. I can’t even look another man way that’s why I just stop dating. Men don’t take it serious enough
I’d be completely obliterated if I discovered that my husband not only cheated on me AND had a baby, but also flaunted the relationship with the side chick as if I didn’t exist. It almost makes me wonder if the wife knew and they all had some kind of…agreement? If that’s not the case, I’d just pack up and leave. He has has to be held accountable for this. Embarrassing and vile.
Something tells me she knew. I think they did have an agreement. And unfortunately a lot of women believe that a man with money will cheat anyway so they become proactive about it by allowing him to have a side piece. Which is just disgusting to me. That’s not what a marriage is. But I digress.
@@coilyheadedbby very well said. It’s way too open and free for it not to be. I don’t know these people from Adam or Erica- but looks like a dingy, dusty situation, no matter how you view it. 🧹💨🧹
@@LittleMissSunshine721 amen sis
What you meen agreement? What kind of agreement?
@@witneeb6670 you’re so miserable and under every comment. Heal
No one is blaming the man. He manipulated the both of them. He treats the side like a gf. You can see they spend non sexual time together, so that shows that he likes her to some degree. Both women are losing, they will both be miserable in that love triangle.
Exactly it’s crazy
Facts
Which is one reason why I say when it comes to cheating there is some emotion with men on some level. It's not always just sex it can never be if you keep doing it with that one person.
Thank you
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As a married woman I’m warning y’all to please be diligent and picky about who you choose to marry. These men are wolves in sheep’s clothing and sometimes you don’t find out the true them until after you’re already married. So please be diligent, wise, and selective!
While 95% of me still hugely desires marriage and can’t wait to find my boo and make it forever with him, I can’t help but to acknowledge that 5-10% of me that knows if my husband is ever granted the opportunity to sleep with a woman without me knowing, he will absolutely take it regardless of how good of a man I think he is. See how booed up he is with her, in public too? This wasn’t just a jump off, it looked like they were in a whole relationship. I’d run myself ragged thinking of the possibility of him leaving me, extra kids I might have to take care of, or him bringing me STDs. It scares me how infidelity is now considered a normal “up and down” of a relationship. Marriage absolutely benefits the woman more in cases like this and I’m sure both Bria and Tim knows this. I’m praying for her and genuinely hope this is something they both can move forward from.
I see where you're coming from but the wife messed up to begin with. If you want loyalty and faithfulness, don't marry an athlete.
@@xXFUEGIxX athletes aren’t the only men who cheat tho….. it’s just more public and they have more options 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
@@xXFUEGIxX men that’s not athletes do this so your point ? Hold him accountable stop trying to make it about his status in his career
@@xXFUEGIxX You can't be that damn stupid to actually think that. 😂😭🤣 When a broke azz man cheat as well, so do he get a pass because he's nothing? 😂😂
@@inajyaharrington9889 Exactly!
Its a sad day & age when women are happily sleeping with married men, and women on social media are defending the BS😒 Let's say Dehja does wind up marrying this man, there'll be another woman lurking just like her, not respecting the sanctity of 'Marriage' Karma is real, we ALL must reap what we've sown. She's pressed because she wants the perks of a WIFE! Clearly being a wife does mean something! Don't be fooled by the hype ladies. Saying those vows in front of GOD/family/friends is way more valid than pictures on social media! You can trust & believe, those white MLB Wives will NOT accept or embrace Dehja, cause they know she can't be trusted!!
This is his second side baby too so Bria looks like a fool atp. Them going back and forth was giving dumb and dumber smh
Second side baby!? No ma’am
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 yep the other baby mother was chiming in during the debacle
omg..2nd side baby?? SMH I can't wit these men
I was going to say I think she’s waiting 10 years to get a bigger settlement, but she keeps posting him. Maybe she’s mentally checked out of the relationship.
The way I clicked so fast , you’ve taught me so much even had me change my music I listen to. You’re a real one! The way women on Instagram were trying to come for his wife, calling her crazy and say how funny looking she was and how beautiful Dejah was told me everything I need to know. Smh
Girl when the notification hit I was like yesss☺️
Me 2
Couldn’t agree more
Exactly! Meanwhile Dejah favors Gary Coleman to me. Smh
Single women will make fun of the wife because they put themselves in the side chick's shoe 👠 and they see the wife as the person who is in their way stopping them from getting to the man
You said nothing but the TRUTH about “ women fall in love through what a man says through his words which is why most men understand that if they take your mind before they get the cookie , they can pretty much get you to do anything “ 💯💯💯
exactly
I can’t control my husband behavior. It’s with everything in life risk over reward. If he’s willing to break up our home then he better be ready for the consequences behind his decisions. And outside baby? That is a no no! I don’t want to hear that it’s not the baby fault crap.. my best revenge will be living my best life.
Exactly!!!
🤔🤔🤔 As a married woman, I can say this. I have a commitment with my husband, if he decides to step out of the marriage and create a child with another woman, I have no beef with that woman because she did not make a commitment to me, she does not owe me any loyalty, ESPECIALLY if we don't even know each other. The man is to be blamed. It's one thing to cheat, it's another thing to not use protection and have a child then create a scandal that embarrass your family and the woman you made a commitment to. That woman don't owe me anything, she doesn't have to respect me, but the HUSBAND is the person who created this catastrophy.
Facts 💯💯💯
The sidechick harassing the wife tho😳😳😳 Nothing but envy bc Tim could leave her at any time, but he’s not…. That _should_ tell her 🤡 a$$ everything she needs to know. Unfortunately, she’s not that bright 🤭
@@witneeb6670 Are u married?
You said a mouthful.
@@hottstepher he doesn't want to give up half of his money. It's cheaper to keep her.
@boldblackmuva885what does she lose in this situation? She didn’t have endorsements. All she got was another kid which is the only burden
They are both sharing him. He clearly doesn’t care about his marriage and wants to have a relationship with both women.
He doesn’t want to change his household structure for his children’s sake. The wife is not special and neither is the mistress.
Facts
His wife is his day one, she was there before the deal. When I first heard this story I really thought it was a joke because there had never been anything messy that came out about Tim or his marriage. I don’t know if it’s the money or the fame but I hope it doesn’t cost him his wife because she is not deserving of this at all.
@@dwash35405 the wife deserves better than what he’s giving but she has to know that for herself 🤷🏽♀️
@@iaminevitable_ true. I just hate this for them! They were like the nice wholesome down south couple that I just knew was going to make it.
@@dwash35405 I never look at marriages or couples as long lasting, pure or something I’d aspire towards having because we will never know what’s going on behind closed doors and 9 times out of 10 we think it’s a fairytale and it never is.
Relationships and marriages are very messy, has it’s imperfections and run the risk of ending at any time. I know it sounds cynical but its the ugly truth and part of life… it’s realistic unfortunately to look at relationships this way🤷🏽♀️
I can almost 1000% guarantee he had been doing this for a long time, and his wife knows. He just got too carried away this time. They all deserve each other IMO. The kids are the only victims here.
@Melissa Nicole she’s not a victim. He has another outside child and a whole different residence from her and their kids.
He has another outside baby so yeah this isn’t the first time
IDK how women stay committed to a man that not only fucked , but gave another woman a baby! If stayed temporarily it’s showtime! I’m turning him everywhere which way but loose until I leave! Abuse and cheating is a no-no in my book
if she was smart , she would detach and take that money route…
On God that's what I would do and he wouldn't see it coming. You don't go tit for tat with a n**** like him. You strategically leave his ass once you have all your ducks in a row.
I just want to say if Bria cheated and got pregnant by another man, Tim would not even have said 2 words to her and he would have left and been living in a Penthouse downtown. He is also the breadwinner so understandable so he would have no reason to continue to be with his wife but Bria needs him because he makes the money so she has no where to go. It’s important for women to have their own money, build their own brand and be able to take care of them selves when their men cheat. He will cheat on her again and again. Sorry to say but this is embarrassing!!!
He would’ve left in a heartbeat if it was the other way around!
yesss!
It’s just so much comes with being married & even being in a normal relationship. It’s just way too much! 😂
Marriage isn’t worth it 🫠
This whole situation is just messed up 😪 a simple life is the best life . I hope they all find peace one day .
I only feel bad for the children involved smh!
Deja just gives evil vibes tbh . What does she gain from this
Omgg yessss that smile of her is sinsters she looks messy and evil she tries to appear innocent though 😂
@@shakanuhglorie8444 yup , she’s bitter and spiteful towards Bria . She’s wicked . If I was Bria I’d be scared for my safety
@@user-tn6fg2du6v I would too she the type to put some roots on bria and her man 😳😳😳
@Aish you’re completely right! I learned my lesson in high school when it came down to my best friend having a baby by first love! Broken everything in me. I don’t associate with evil female vibes. @Shakanuh Glorie girllll okay now the entire family curse that’s so sad man everyone’s going to pay karma but Dejah & Tim mistake 🤦🏾♀️ we as black people have to do better frfr
@@witneeb6670 I’m not excusing Tim btw but from what I can see Dejah is more focused on spiting Bria . She sees Bria as the enemy , not Tim
And ladies and gentlemen, that’s our online big sis. 🥰
Thanks for always telling us what we need to hear no matter how uncomfortable it is.
Even from a logical point of view, they don't love their wives. They just want to do whatever the hell they want because they wear the pants and they call the shots. They know exactly what it means to love. Because if his woman were to be messing around with another dude, he'd immediately call it for what it was. He's not trying to hear: "It didn't mean anything, it was just sex. I still love you." from her. That's just the bs, the okey doke, flim flam that they've convinced women to accept for decades. The old, "he knows where he hangs his hat" or "he knows where his home is."
facts!
Exactly 💯
Preach chile 👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I really want women to wake up and understand that men do not think and move like women. A man can very well enjoy being with you (the side chick) and still want to stay married to his wife! He’s using you for whatever it is that he wants from you.
Dejah need to redirect her energy to Tim and herself, not Bria . He’s the one that’s causing her to be angry and she need to take accountability for dealing with a married man. A side chick expecting commitment from a married /cheating man will always be mind boggling.
He’s using both of them though. Why would any woman want to be with an unfaithful man no matter what her connection with him is?
@@2bconfusednot yup Tim is not a prize in my eyes. Bria may have her reasons to stay married and we can judge her all we want , but that’s her right to work on her marriage . However Dejah is fighting a battle she will never win respectfully🙏🏾 .
Are you aware that many women are like this too? Many women date men without being emotionally attached too and just for money they are just smart about it and keep their side dudes quite it's these dummies we keep seeing online that makes us assume women think differently when it comes to sex
@@jeshurundaniel794 I never said women can’t sleep around with no emotions . And you just agreed with my point that women move differently than men? Lol . Also they may be “dummies” to you but it proves that women in general don’t process sex or relations the same as men . I see far more women seeking answers about why men do the things they do if they never wanted the woman.
He is using both. Neither one of them is winning.
You kill it every time!!! Literally undefeated🙌🏾 I speak increase over your platform and your reach!!! The way u dissect and unfold & dig alllll the way into the intricacies of each and every topic is unmatched! Keep going sis this is your gift💫
She is amazing ❤
The only one benefiting from this 💩 show of a marriage is the husband! He got the right one because the way my self esteem is set up I would be filing for divorce, baby! It’s way too many STD’s and STI’s to be playing Russian roulette with my life/health.
Bria is playing the long game baby. She gone ride it out. Most of these women already knows there’s a high chance of infidelity. She’s playing the game
Agreed
Smh
Lol the men in comments on socials called it when it popped off she's pissed that the wife knows and still won't leave so she brung it to the internet to embarrass her hoping that would make her leave. the one that thinks she got one up alwayssss ends up crying and he needs to seek help idk how you can love someone and completely embarrass them this way shame on him for giving the girl the battery in her back that she needed to be this bold and disrespectful if she thinks he's gonna treat her better she needs to take a look around and at history he will do you worse baby like he's doing now🥱
He’s a shortstop alright…he stopped short of giving his wife the utmost respect she deserves as a wife and a mother of his children. But I can tell Bria is going to figure this out for her and her children. I wish her the best.
white sox pr manager screaming into a pillow right now.
My EX-husband's mistress learned the hard way. I left his cheating arse, but she saw no "benefit". That fool is STILL trying to "get his family back" 🙄 but she was tossed aside by the married trash man she knowingly laid with.
@@witneeb6670 did you actuality READ my comment. If you did, and still posted this response, you obviously lack COMPREHENSION skills or you're one of those people who sleep with married men and lack the ability to take ACCOUNTABILITY for their actions. Let me break my initial comment down for your remedial tailed self since you TRIED to school me:
1. His mistress learned that cheating men don't commonly leave their wives for them;
2. I divorced his arse since he's a cheating piece of trash;
3. All the mistress is going to get is tossed aside by that trashy arse man ... just like she did.
You made a whole lot of assumptions, are you projecting? Share. This is a safe space.
Every once and a while I go back through and watch all your videos to keep me lock and loaded. You truly are wise. ❤
Even IF he leaves his wife, it WONT be to marry YOU. Messing with a married man is morally wrong BUT to get pregnant by one makes it even worst. If you’re going to be a mistress, do it RIGHT.
Always put yourself first above these men
What’s the right way to be a mistress🤔
@@brandi5200 staying in your lane doing everything privately being discreet. I’m not saying it’s right but females are messy Dejah wants Bria to suffer there’s no girl codes now and days! It’s not Dejah fault it’s Tim but it’s Dejah role if she is going to be sleeping with Tim use protect obviously because he’s still having sex with his wife & god knows how many other females.
@@witneeb6670 right or don’t be one at all! I will never but aye to each its own 🤦🏾♀️
@@brandi5200 know your role, remain a mystery, never fall in love with a married man, get your money & don’t get pregnant.
@The Travel Hottie that's it, that's all.
I loveeeee this channel! I’m in my 30’s but I really need my girls in their 20’s to understand what’s going on out here. Any young lady I know gets sent here. Self preservation is a MUST out here. Thank you for all you do!
Keep dropping knowledge sis!
Thank you so much! 🌊✨💕
I had to pause the video and write this comment because YOU DESERVE ENDLESS FLOWERS. I love what you do for women, especially black women. We need this, we need to teach our children, aunts and mothers these lessons.
I feel like nowadays women, BLACK WOMEN to be exact are so caught up in these social media standards. Thinking because a man keeps coming back that means he wants you to be his forever. We as women need to respect ourselves more and stop settling for the bare minimum or for someone else’s man because we think we’re only capable of being a GOOMAH. This is golden. You are a GEM WHO DROPS GEMS.
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Side pieces are merely a pawn in a married mans game of chess. He will never replace or reposition you- he has a “Queen” already 😞
Yea but at this point his playing chess with both so who’s winning
I feel like even when the side piece gets the man, her karma is always lurking. If she don’t get it then her kids will whoever she care about
@@shuntayshuntay he’s the “king” it’s honestly his job. But his wife is in the proper position so regardless of his final move she’ll win- that’s the benefit of being the “queen” . Nobody should want others to know they are or have been a “pawn” it’s nothing to celebrate
@@Chinathomas_ I totally agree. Karma will always come back around
@@shuntayshuntay That part.
No amount of money or love can have me looking foolish over a married man who not only cant commit to his marriage or me, but also ignores my antics publicly. Dejah is truly delusional lmao. The pics and videos honestly just make them both look even more crazy
There you said it, if he can’t commit to his marriage what makes the side piece think he will commit to her. 💁🏽♀️
I wish you growth on your platform. You are truly a gem in this generation. Your messages NEVER go unheard. Thank you for everything!
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“Marriage is not just a piece of paper we’re in it to have our hands in his pockets” HELLO SOMEBODY 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love your videos. I will say I believe Tim Anderson has a type and its not his wife. Bria is beautiful, classy, educated, well spoken. Tim Anderson gives me grew up around hood girls and this is what I really like energy. He never hid the side girl and Bria doesn't seem to give boundaries because she accepted the baby he had outside the relationship. Anderson also gives me drama and he seems to like having 2 women fight over him. BM seem to be the only men who get money and have outside children. Other cultures cheat but usually don't have a child outside the relationship. The bigger question is why can't BM have discipline when it comes to money? Are BW enabling this behavior by not having consequences for cheating? Excellent video as always.
This is a great pov! ❤️
He and his wife are from the suburbs, he is giving the suburban black men who love/are infatuated with the hood and ratchet chicks, they always marry educated, well spoken suburban church girls and always cheat on them with hood chicks. its a fetish they almost all have
Dejah doesn’t realize that there is no type of win for her in this situation. He’s either just playing her, having the max s*x he can and will never leave his wife for her or he even gonna leave his wife for her but will cheat on her and embarrass her even more. A man who disrespect wife and mother of his kid can never act right toward any other woman. And it’s funny how that man could end this mess with a post but chooses to remain silent and only posted a cryptic birthday message to his wife not even stating his position on the topic. He’s playing both of them
I was wondering if somebody with sense would speak on this
Thank you ❤
1:19 in an episode of the Sopranos Tony’s goomah said “I’ll tell your wife“ while having an argument and he rushed her and slammed her to the wall. That says everything! If that man really wanted you he wouldn’t physically assault you and talk down to you. (I know its a show but that lesson is real life)
he also got one of his goons to threaten her with a pew pew 😬
@@fawn2911 yup that too! She really thought she was special to Tony.
Yes ladies do not ever, I mean ever mess around with Married Men..EVER.. Your not benefiting from wasting your Valuable Time..A married man with a damn wedding band on, Asked for my Number, I cursed his Ass OUT, and told him to go home to his family..I don’t play around with these Married Men…Stay Single if your not done playing in these Streets..
I don’t know if I believe he love his wife, I think he just haven’t left because divorce might be waaayyy more expensive than staying in the marriage but that is just my opinion..
This guy and his wife are from my hometown. They have been together for a long time before they got married. They really seemed to have a nice union. I’m so disappointed that he let the fame and women come between his marriage.
@@witneeb6670Men from 45-55+ have baggage. Most are busy paying alimony for their ex wives or child support. Let’s not forget the ones that say that they will never marry again. Like, what’s the point? 😂😴🚮
He most likely loves her just doesn’t respect her. You can love someone but not respect them.
@@ozzie8800 Tim doesn't respect his marriage and vows. When you don't respect someone it's usually because the person is doing something wrong or you don't agree with . A man cheating usually has nothing to do with the wife. His wife loves him but doesn't respect him.
@@zarario4444 not always, not respecting someone can also be due to the lack of respect for yourself. He may love his wife but he doesn’t respect her, himself or his vows. This has nothing to do with his wife and all to do with how low he values and honours himself. He clearly doesn’t value himself outside of money and is seeking to fill a void. All which has nothing to do with his wife. You can respect the someone in some aspects and not respect them in other aspects.
I’m British, and when I saw the title of this video, King Charles and Camilla immediately sprang to mind … 🙄 He not only had an affair on his wife, he married his side chick and made her Queen.
I always make sure I never miss a video. And as usual you didn’t miss.
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I’m watching this right now and Wild Heart Waves I’m so confused. I am someone who desires to be married and won’t have kids without marriage. And really would like a faithful man. I guess my question is what is really the point if Bria has his last name and the marriage certificate, he’s still sharing HER resources with other women and impregnating them? I just pray she is alright cuz this is horrible.
I use to be a wife 🤭 never have I ever said oh but I’m the wife . It’s crazy . Deceit is deceit
Right 😢
@@shuntayshuntay Mm ma'am I hope you share more I saw your previous comment on marriage being a mix of love and business and if you don't mind I would like to know more about marriage I feel as women we are sold the dream and that's what we get stuck with
@@turquoiselizzie6874 I'm curious too. It kinda hurts my heart the way cheating is so normalized, especially where I live (the Caribbean). The good guys don't not cheat, they just cheat 'respectfully' i.e. they don't get caught.
@@witneeb6670 yup!! Her and Wildheart got me in a chokehold, never felt more powerful in my life! Im only 24 but yeah
Disgusting behavior ! If you steal someone’s husband you didn’t win in the eyes of God. City girls be aware that marriage is a matter of business more than love. That’s why the man won’t leave the wife. Absolutely pathetic !!
How do you steal a grown man?
@@lolli6389 by giving him attention or time. Yes men are consenting and willingly cheat but women have to be wise and remove themselves from that scenario it’s a loose loose situation esp for the side chick.
You can't steal someone who was never yours...
@@slimthickaz. when your married you’re one, it’s written in the book. That’s why men who divorce loose half their worth because the courts recognize that half belongs to the wife.
If don’t matter if women use city girl principles to get around this fact! In the end side chicks get nothing if the take the man that’s a win, because he will turn around do the same to them. Y’all have blessed day 😂😂😂😂
@@slimthickaz. True. But being a dipstick and repeat baby mama who has embarrassed herself & her children is not a win🙄
I just don’t understand how you can have kids and be obsessed over a man clearly not for you . I’m a single mom , new to this life . And the last thing I’m thinking about is a man! Let a long being crazy over him 🥴 these women have babies only for the man . And it’s not fair to the children
I say this all the time, the last thing on my mind is what my babydad is doing granted it took me some time to get here but life changes so much when you have a baby, you only focus on what NEEDS focus.
I agree with everything except for the he still loves you even if he cheats. If he’s doing it constantly then he does not love you lol, one thing to make a mistake and fix it but to keep doing it over and over - that’s not love. At least not romantic love
Cheaters deserve everything bad 🤢
3 children with 2 baby dads?? 💀
I love this channel so much 😩 facts all day
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I have mixed feelings about marriage in general, I’ve seen men leave their wives but it wasn’t for a side piece they weren’t happy ALREADY and then the side piece came in at the perfect time but they husband was already unhappy it’s not like the side piece swooped him off his feet away from his happy marriage #2 I don’t wanna be a married wife with a cheating husband OR a side piece 🥹🥹🥹
You're right! Men will stay until they find better. I think 90% of women have been side pieces with out knowing because they always look for a sure relationship. Men hate to be alone. (edited for typos)
I'm 37 unmarried. It will always be a younger woman in shadows. I don't care to marry because it's high chance I'll be competing with a younger versions Of myself 😮 Too many lose women running around here with 0 morals and standards. They trying to get a bag any way they can.
@@lavender123u I’m 37 too. You are right and I don’t have time for it.
@*Ang* what I realized is that majority of wives who became one and their husband is out here embarrassing them, really don't love them. A lot of these women begged to get married, threw tantrums, bullied or they had kids together before marriage. Most men are jealous. Don't want no other man with their kids so they settle and marry even if she's not his type. And hes running arounf here dating orher women.How sad.im not settling for that miserable life
@@lavender123u right on. Better being single. I see way too many women in our age group worrying about cheating men while raising kids and maintaining a household. I just hope the young ladies listen so they can avoid these problems
I don’t understand why the girl keep posting her and the new baby and tagging the wife like what exactly is she wanting ?
A reaction... she's trying to do whatever she can to mess with her energy, and bring her down to her level.
A reaction, Perfect Answer. She's trying to create drama
Tim did respond to Deja on his Finch (I hope I said it right) he basically called Deja a sneaky link, heaux and a itch 😳 he told her he can turned the lights off and he’s only doing things because he loves his son 🤦♀️😞 just a mess
@@witneeb6670 what girl does he love because one thing for certain and 2 things for sure he won’t ever claim Deja and one thing men have always said if a man really loves you he will show it by his actions 🤷♀️
I’m a huge sopranos fan . Loving this intro lol.
It’s very odd today to see so many baby mommas and random women saying things like the man loves the side chick more and that’s who he wants to be with. It gives delusional and wishful thinking
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It’s very sad the stand you’re choosing to take but okay . No matter what you say within the society we live in ,the man will never bare the grunt of a scandal so hollering what about the man unfortunately does nothing .
The way you speak it’s very apparent you don’t come from a 2 parent household because who says it’s cheaper to keeper about a wife?
It’s very clear you don’t understand the depth of being one and I hate that for you sis
Lol very delusional. The side always wants to win and I tell men this all the time. They know what’s going on, they pretend that they are down and then all hell breaks loose. 😂
Very wishful thinking. Nowadays you can’t even disagree because a lot of women believe it.
Tim stepped out from a beautiful, well-educated, faithful, and committed woman to be so open with a side chick. Like you said, these sports agencies, the white bosses, don't like these types of drama surrounding their players.
If Dejah continues coming at Bria and family like this, Tim can loose deals aka money maybe even his playing contract. As seen with Nia Long Fiance that kissed another woman. He was fired from his coaching positionwhich, h in turn can cause her child support to be drastically reduced. If she is smart she'll hush and continue to get paid but we all know she's not. She wants Tim to be her man and will shade the wife every chance she gets.
Tim, on the other hand, ain't no prize his wife actually is the prize. I feel he fell out of love with her. This was not a Khloe or Tristan one night stand situation. This was a full-blown side relationship. Now he's trying to save face because I'm sure he knows Bria can leave and literally take EVERYTHING.
Yup! Women influence and clean up the image of men therefore they are the prize. Savannah does the same for Lebron James.
That’s why Cam Newton and Nicki Cannon won’t get to the level of money as Jay Z or Lebron. Married BM are seen in a better light in Yt society. They don’t want to hear it though.
My heart breaks for Bria and those children. Her husband is a complete broken clown for running around town and wifing his goomah to the point that he had unprotected sex with her. A woman who already has children by another man and showed you how worthy she felt about herself by engaging with a married man. The pain Bria is more than likely experiencing is beyond words especially since this is public. Dejah is not even worth mentioning because it is exactly what it is.....these caliber of women are the worst and disgusting people.
Hoping this man learns his lesson and repairs what he's broken!
Im a married woman n just had our first daughter. My husband plans on having more children with me..... This video is on point. A man knows what he wants and makes it that way.....its up to a woman to follow the Lord and not give access to men they would not marry or would not marry them. My husband works to make sure me n the baby are provided for. I work as well. After i had our daughter I slimmed down back to my normal weight n size within two months and im over 35. A lot of younger women are lazy, complain, have issues with being truthful, and are hungry only for the money a man has.....i didnt get where i am that way. I loved God n i loved my husband and God blessed me with a family.
Be careful. You're making too many native assumptions, which is setting you up for heartache. You can't vouch for a man and you definitely can't say what will happen in the future. Your entire comment was full of vanity and pride, which is often a catalyst for failure. Humble yourself.
Humble yourself otherwise the universe will.
@@josephine1038 i am humble....thats y im sharing what i know. Many women do not put God first.....and they need to and not JUST for the sake of a marriage. I expected negative feedback but that is how it is sadly enough. I hope this reaches a woman who wants to follow God and fulfill our roles as Gods feminine creation in His image. God bless yall
@@322Mermaid i wonder why u didn’t reply to the first comment lol
@@322Mermaid negative comments from unhappy miserable negative ass women ! Keep being happy with u and urs and u don’t have to be anything but happy ! U can’t even be happy online about ur marriage it’s so sad
Excellent video !!!!!!! all boils down to low self esteem 🤷🏾♀️ thank you so much for posting this and breaking it all the way down
The word ‘Goomah’ sounds nasty. 😂 If I was Italian il never want to be known as that 😂😴
Teaching me new words. I’m so excited!
I appreciate your videos because they are always information rich
Nice to men watching these videos
@callmez954 I watch whatever makes sense, this channel has consistently spoken to a perspective (a woman's) without for the most part being unfairly antagonistic towards men.
Another great video! Don’t be shy to drop LEVELS 2 lol I’ve been looking forward to it.😉💜
I am not saying the wife should divorce him but I would at least fake move out to see his reaction. Once a man allows another women to disrespect your gloves better come off!!!!
I was thinking this as well. She should pack up and move out even if it’s a bluff.
Why wouldn't she need to divorce him? He has literally committed infidelity to her several times and y'all are questioning on whether she should stay or not? No type of logic. Obviously she should leave!
@@MsCarringtonsTH-cam That's her choice not mine. Her tax bracket isn't the same as the average female. She might be waiting for the 10 year mark.
My problem with “the other woman has no loyalty” is that no one wants this to happen to them. Not all women are queens yall. I’m starting to realize that a lot of women are just as messed up as men. If not, they can be worse because at least men follow their bro code for the most part. Too many women are willing to act dumb dumb over men and forget that all of us women are being wronged and that we shouldn’t be going along with this. If you don’t know about the wife and kids, that’s one thing. However, if you know, you are just as bad and just as much of a bed warmer along with husband. If I was Bria I would take him for alimony, child support and spousal support. My kids and myself are coming first and everyone else won’t matter.
Yesss! These chick's love to say it's not my marriage or I'm not committed ti the woman but fail to realize that they initiated the disrespect so if the wife incites some game or violence people would say it should be reserved for the husband's. And worse she had a baby that would grow up with his wife's kids. She disrespect her seed by making them a bastard among legitimate kids and now it looks like she is trying to incite divorce because unless he commits to her over his wife she hasn't secured a bag big enough for her other kids.
Exactly!! This is the truth most won’t say or talk about !! It’s a lot of evil women who could care less about the next woman !! They are not victims at all !
A baby is a great a way to have a married man leave you. Late night feedings, sore chappee nipples, healing stitches, loud rapid crying is not sexy. Its annoying. If the man wanted that, he would stayed with his wife. He came for a good time, not a serious time.
Deja is going to REGRET this big time and so is he! Shout out to the Wife Bria! She is a class act in this whole situation and I wish her and the family healing from this.
Girl you didn't have to call them out like that😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
Men rarely even leave a girlfriend. And if they’re going to leave they will leave the girlfriend quickly. And if he does leave… he probably still won’t be in a monogamous relationship with an already established side chick. But misconstrued feelings of love make ppl delusional
Intro so therapeutic to me
Some husbands DO leave. The rest will try to keep both wife and side chick. It’s the wife who is normally the one who ends up leaving the husband because he won’t stop messing with the side chick. 80% of divorces are initiated by the wife.
Yes, but it’s rare. The ones that do marry the side chick open up a spot for a new side chick soon thereafter. They don’t respect the side because men are hypocrites. They can cheat, but don’t respect women who cheat ON or WITH them.
@Chasidy Yasmine exactly!
@@lifeventures6651I don’t know it seems lately most of the men are leaving and starting fresh with the side chick it’s sad
When are we getting levels 2 and Vetting part two? I found your channel and introduced it to my friend. We are gobbling up this content. 😊
Right that one been in holding for awhile now
I haven't even begin to watch this but I'm glad you covered her bc she is trife. I used to support her HAIR PAGE but I unfollowed (long before the disrespect of the wife ) because her page turned into an IG MODEL page.
Same thing my ex did. Had pictures together, on SnapChat together, out to eat together constantly, took her to meet his mom and grand mom, etc.. I stayed afterwards, found my self esteem and worth and left him! They have zero respect.
I pushed the like button before even watching cause I already know you finna drop gems 💎
@@witneeb6670 heat? There was no heat at all love lol & maybe you didn’t watch the whole video because she touched on this topic in itself.. but go off 😅
This video is definitely worthy of being consumed more than once to really process the lessons. Thank you💐
A low percent of men don’t divorce but most have years of affairs and outside kids inevitable
Can win for losing
This is spot on!!! Women always think they can do better than the wife is doing and they end up finding out that they can't. On another note: can you do a video on the Summer Walker interview with Caresha??? Please, please, please 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
i thought it was just me stressed out haha
Tim Anderson is wayyyyy to popular especially in Chicago. The side chick new wtf she was doing.
This is why we have Shera. If I ever stayed in a marriage with a man that’s cheated he should definitely fear for his account balance. I’m documenting every affair and taking coins for everyone. And by time you want to settle down and chill with me I will be gone with your funds to fund my new life 😂
I’m from East African and women we are taught not to lie with a man until he comes to make his intentions clear and follow it up with paying MAHARI (Swahili meaning paying for your bride price) that automatically means that you two are married according to MILA na DESTURI( Swahili meaning of custom and traditions)
Bria saw the red flags while dating him. Before marriage. All men have red flags, don’t care, you won’t argue me on this. They all do, and I’m not talking about “a bad day here or there” like we all do, because women aren’t perfect. However, I’m talking about the sinister nature of males, women are not like this. Manipulative, shift blaming, insecure, wanting to break you down, morally indecent, can’t keep his word, childish, complacent, lazy, lying, coercive…. What women should do is take their time while getting to know a man. Don’t overlook anything, and in the right timing and in a direct way state exactly what you saw, and there should be clear direct consequences for poor behavior. If he doesn’t comply, let him fly out the door and back to the streets. Also you should do this WITHOUT, sleeping with him. That’s where most of you women mess up, sleeping with him AT ALL, and he’s not your husband. Y’all ever notice he switches right after or shortly after you have sex, (he’s gotcha) can’t give a man anymore than your body, after that, your had , your done. You may as well except him for what he is and always will be. You should make sure the grown boy is completely eradicated from his very nature before you even allow him anytime of day.
Wheeeeew! A word!!
Chile preach this word who hear me !! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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Why don’t married people stay married and leave single people alone instead of Making excuses to take each other back and blaming single people while creating broken homes in the process because no one wins 😅 🤷🏾♀️
Hey yall. Great breakdown. This is a mess. How is she supposed to get over this. One thing to cheat which is messed up to have a baby. I can't. You have to be a strong woman to stay because i couldn't. I would move on. I wouldn't be able to trust you anymore and thats just that.
@@witneeb6670 😆😆😆 seems like it don't it
Lord please let me trip and fall into a bag like dejah did. I promise I won't fumble it
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I woke up to see the video has dropped and i started setting the bath…… thank you again for such amazing content…… lady when are opening up a finishing school on online course for these women. For many years i’ve been speaking on the topics you discuss and a few people think i think i’m to nice. They don’t understand i just adhere to a particular standard and i’m not easy to be impressed my minimal behaviour, standards and effort.