The Secret to Great Sex

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  • Jimmy Evans discusses the secret of sexual fulfillment. You will discover a greater level of freedom and satisfaction when sex is an open subject between you, your spouse and God. For more marriage help videos, subscribe at: bit.ly/marriage...
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  • @dsimmons8836
    @dsimmons8836 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thank you Jimmy for giving me a voice today when talking about a woman's needs, as me and my husband, both watched. Tears just rolled down my cheeks. I am working towards becoming a marriage therapist and believe in your purpose and donate. Hope to give more once out of school. Again thank you!

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is exactly the reason why I like to listen to advice first to a person who is married and is also a Christian because the advice is based on experience both personally and spiritually.

  • @lauratrahan3020
    @lauratrahan3020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree, there has to be attraction both ways. I thought we married because we fell in love, not because the man wants HIS needs met😮

  • @piyabiswas9475
    @piyabiswas9475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am very happy to get this beautiful message...how wonderfully pastor made to understood the meaning of marriage..thank you so much..

  • @bobianna5345
    @bobianna5345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful. Thank you so much. I listen again with my husband

  • @buick586
    @buick586 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After 13 years of emotional abuse over sex by my wife, I now find her wanting sex again and it's extremely hard to think of her that way anymore.

  • @cmoss95
    @cmoss95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    ..."Non sexual affection and LEADERSHIP. She wants to be respected as an equal but she wants you to initiate the well-being of the home" No truer words spoken. I need to put this on a T-Shirt!!

    • @cathrindaphee692
      @cathrindaphee692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sorry if you want non-sexual affection then you are a sexual marriage is not for you marriage is for sexual people especially hetro sexual people we can get non sexual affection from our parents and friends

    • @Android-ds9ie
      @Android-ds9ie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up lesbian

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cathrindaphee692 Why can't you have both? One doesn't negate the other.

    • @cathrindaphee692
      @cathrindaphee692 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dumfriesspearhead7398 of course you can have both

  • @lesedi428
    @lesedi428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My man be dropping that succulent wisdom🤧💥

  • @kamillaiqbal6521
    @kamillaiqbal6521 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks 4 the info
    Those of u who get some be happy because some of us don't
    I appreciate the informative vids

  • @chivonnelong2046
    @chivonnelong2046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤ you Jesus ❣️

  • @coconutluxenaturals
    @coconutluxenaturals 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh how I wish I'd seen your videos sooner. We are seperating as we are not sexually aligned. Never had been . So sad. Yet still so much love.

    • @VincentNBridgetMoses
      @VincentNBridgetMoses 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      There is still a chance for God to heal your marriage! Start by watching Jimmy's videos on redeeming your spouse, and by applying what you learn with your husband (even if you're separating!). There is NOthing impossible for our LIMITLESS God honey!!! Don't give up on your marriage, you have a 100% chance of success in marriage when we do it God's Way!!! Stay blessed dear!!!💜💜💜

  • @tedmalley7636
    @tedmalley7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's got to start with attraction..men overwhelmingly desire women who are classically "feminine" , have long rich hair , warm inviting eyes , a classic " hourglass" figure and a loving loyal personality. Too many women look like creatures out of a horror flik..with red/green/yellow hair , disgusting tatoos all over , 5 lbs. of chains/metal/peircings and have vile narcissistic personalities.

    • @dee9588
      @dee9588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There are PLENTY of you Men that look the same! Lol Everyone would be better to take pride in themselves 😊

    • @rebekahlampre1700
      @rebekahlampre1700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your comments are so rude and judgemental.

  • @happyhaptoe5653
    @happyhaptoe5653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    this should be done in all churches take back the marriages for God

  • @User-72430
    @User-72430 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh this is so true!

  • @marie-scott5045
    @marie-scott5045 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so right,only evil and satan is always around us,with that one need to be strong and good for the one you love,and only a couple can make each other happy for the rest of our lives

    • @marie-scott5045
      @marie-scott5045 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can't plan making love,any time is the right time,with your hubby

  • @juliereckard2530
    @juliereckard2530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Need prayer, my husband doesn't want me sexually , even if I intiate, he rejects me saying he's too tired. But has time to watch TV shows til midnight. I'm at the end of myself. I stayed after he had cheated fir 7,8 years and now this is how he's treating me. I need him to want to have sex with me. I need him to be present.

    • @marygraham9893
      @marygraham9893 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually in this area he's still cheating you. You have a right to sex if he's able. When my husband was dying he still tried as he was able to keep me satisfied. How is the rest of the relationship? Ask gently if there is a problem. It's a touchy subject.

  • @KrisWolf4
    @KrisWolf4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I must be the odd woman out, I have the higher drive for sex than my husband. He has no worry to be sexual with me, cause I always want it!!

    • @abisamraj4408
      @abisamraj4408 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ricekristysquares snacks welcome to the world of 95 percent of men No Mercy here

    • @lexie02jones25
      @lexie02jones25 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are not odd!nit's just how you are! pray about it

    • @freemanontheland507
      @freemanontheland507 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must have a lot of SCORPIO placements in your chart???

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jimmy did say that 30% of wives are more sexual than their husbands, so it's a large minority. So, you're not odd.

    • @pennsy6000
      @pennsy6000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's a lucky, blessed man!!!!

  • @marygraham9893
    @marygraham9893 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyable sex builds the tie between a husband and wife. Perhaps they need to learn to please each other. Building a loving relationship also builds desire.

  • @chivonnelong2046
    @chivonnelong2046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree in Jesus name ❤

  • @lauratrahan3020
    @lauratrahan3020 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my generation sex was a sinful word, even in a pastors home. It was a means to have babies but most newly married girls were virgins and many or most young men only new what animals did on the farm. I our strict southern Baptist home, we were told NOTHING. Most girls dreaded their wedding night, sex was almost forced on the bride, it was for the man only. Pretty soon the wives hated the act and the men did nothing to change that. That went on for generations. Boy, I could write a best seller!😓😓😓🙏

  • @lexianndearden3422
    @lexianndearden3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know by giving my husband sex when he needs it , it helps him to stay focused on me and not stray in his thoughts or become tempted.

  • @dan020350
    @dan020350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if there is no hero or wise elders serving the church -.- whom where the young people go?

  • @patrickmitchell7987
    @patrickmitchell7987 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @jhen494
    @jhen494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one that catholic doesn't have ,the priests can't preach by experience bec they are not married ,its so boring when they do the homily but I like catholic solemnes ,I like it when it's peaceful & quiet when I'm in church ,I don't like a lot of singing & loud music

  • @kirkshairpiece6741
    @kirkshairpiece6741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How does one serve in love their spouse as described in this video without this devolving into a co-dependency relationship whose hallmarks are low self-differentiation and endless people pleasing, self hatred and bitter resentment?

    • @apiocatherine7116
      @apiocatherine7116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The love spoken here is God's kind of love. You need a revelation of it before you can do those. Without it, its impossible. I learnt through it that happiness depwnds on you and not what your spouse does. Its a decision.

    • @lifewitholliethegsp9203
      @lifewitholliethegsp9203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s a very worldly question. “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek with all your heart” I think it’s time to search, you will find the answer to your question.

  • @johnsonsmili9324
    @johnsonsmili9324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U are a legend

  • @FeelinFineFeelinFanc
    @FeelinFineFeelinFanc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't understand why these video's are popping up on my recommended video's? Maybe someone should send them to their bi-sexual spouse/partner

  • @karenwright9736
    @karenwright9736 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't need sex " don't want no one telling me to give myself.

    • @Android-ds9ie
      @Android-ds9ie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then stay single if you want to get married then get a man with erectile dysfunction he will never want sex or become a lesbian

  • @monkeymankyle
    @monkeymankyle 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    David Sanders

  • @lornaswasey4687
    @lornaswasey4687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This a good saying,couldnt have said it any better

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      @glendoncarlton6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @icysnow57cold64
    @icysnow57cold64 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination).

  • @lauratrahan3020
    @lauratrahan3020 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s Sad😓you give it to him when he NEEDS so he won’t stray. What does he do for YOU? Honey, if he wants to stray, he will!

  • @sparklessconnectionselectrical
    @sparklessconnectionselectrical 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What planet is this on?

  • @erinsmith7839
    @erinsmith7839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Spreading a message that a spouse should have sex despite not wanting it is disgusting.

    • @grant.sabrina
      @grant.sabrina 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true!!!!Absolutly!!!

    • @grant.sabrina
      @grant.sabrina 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤢🤮🤮🤮

    • @lifewitholliethegsp9203
      @lifewitholliethegsp9203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never even let my husband “ ask” I let him know he is wanted.
      You must seek the Lord, or you will just miss the point every time.....

  • @straightup937
    @straightup937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listened to you until the servant needs to say my pleasure... Little arrogant sounding

    • @soyboytroy148
      @soyboytroy148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My thoughts exactly. Nobody is perfect so this must be a blind spot for him. It takes a truly self righteous pompous mindset to not appreciate “my pleasure” as a way of saying “you’re welcome”. I hope he’s Christlike to restaurant staff and retail workers.

    • @bethh.3751
      @bethh.3751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perhaps you should go back and Re-listen to what he said. He didn't say someone serving Has to say "my pleasure", but he likes when they do bc how someone words their response makes a difference. It's why Chick-fil-A workers are told to say "My Pleasure" meaning it pleases me to serve you, instead of "no problem" meaning I'll do it as long as it isn't a problem for me.
      He Never said he Doesn't accept "my pleasure" as a form of "you're welcome".

  • @tashawheaton4235
    @tashawheaton4235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait a minute didn’t Jesus preach a celibate message... Paul also went on to say it is good not to touch a women.. Sex keeps you in the matrix you’re supposed to deny your flesh. I understand if you’re going to be married but why does no one preach celibacy??
    We need to start. This is gross! You make fun of her talking yet you go on and on about sex. Did you know most women after they have children don’t have the ability to even enjoy it..
    Men have become reprobates due to porn and Hollywood
    Celibacy is the Best Policy!!

    • @joncannon8973
      @joncannon8973 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      1 Corinthians 7:1- 40. I think being single is ok if you can control your thoughts, but if you burn in passion for the opposite sex , you should find a GODLY person to marry, not easily done ... but GOD will provide .

    • @scatteredseedsofhappiness3285
      @scatteredseedsofhappiness3285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Celibacy is the worst a person with sex drive can do, it will be a torture for them as well as impossible to keep pure in the long run. Some have the gift of being single and others don't. Read your bible and study more on the subject as your opinion is not in line with the Word of God.

    • @cathrindaphee692
      @cathrindaphee692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The gift of celibacy is given to very few people if you got that then good for you many of humans or not like that

    • @marshahinson2360
      @marshahinson2360 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cathrindaphee692
      Most are not eunuchs made by God.
      If we all were,
      there would be no children.
      Listen to a Hebrew who is a Hebrew scholar teach the Song of Solomon.
      Read:
      Love & Respect
      Sacred Marriage
      Sex Begins In The Kitchen
      S.H.E.
      The Act of Marriage
      The 5 LOVE Languages
      &
      (Maybe, I haven't read that one yet.)
      Holy Sex

    • @bethh.3751
      @bethh.3751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you're married, your gift is not Celibasy, and it doesn't mean if you're not married that your gift is Celibacy either. Just supposed to wait for marriage.
      If you don't give your spouse sex, and that is in either a man or womans case, you will cause your spouse to be tempted to sin by looking elsewhere. God's whole point is to keep us from that.
      Perhaps women who have an issue with not enjoying sex after children should look into all the resources that could possibly help so they can get back their pleasure. There are also women who have a hard time enjoying it before children bc of physical problems, emotional, and spiritual problems too.

  • @dan020350
    @dan020350 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    devil man needs a devil woman

  • @Android-ds9ie
    @Android-ds9ie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lie lie lie don't fall into this trap

  • @dan020350
    @dan020350 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    devil man needs a devil woman

    • @beforeiforget2153
      @beforeiforget2153 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      dan020350 lol ya and she'll need six more behind your back Stud!..

    • @loriroman607
      @loriroman607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And a Godly man needs a Godly woman....which ends up in eternal extacy