This INVEST acronym is amazing! It could change everything for my marriage. I have a long way to go with respecting, honouring and submitting to my husband, I trust God will help me want to and get better at this. But I feel so weak and so so hard to make progress when I have been shamed and not valued since the early days of marriage. This is exactly what I mean when I’ve told my husband i don’t feel a “safe” space with him.
Thank you very much for communicating theses principles here. You're ministry has shown me so many of my pitfalls in my marriage. The ideas here are needed and desired to be executed by me. I have been a terrible husband who has asked God for forgiveness and repented.
Thank You so very much for taking the time to loads these videos & to open up Christians/peoples eyes to the Godly views put into communication to help couples that struggle. Thank you & God Bless.
Love, understand, protect, care, support, sex and most especially make him super rich! Sacrifice! Intelligent people always ignore the bad side and focus the good side! Positive! Give chance as much as you can but if it's too much it's time to go.... Just be honest!!! No ego pride please!
Thanks so much for all the videos, just found you in the best moment posible. I will try to translate to german for my husband of 7 years, because we are in a bad place at the moment, but I know we can save the marriage if he hears you and we applies your knowlegde. Thanks you so much.
Message reasonable and address real marital problems. Evans provides great suggestions. Unfortunately my spouse sees no reason to change behavior and remains mummified, mute.
Married 16 yrs, that's exactly what happens. He shames me or just will not validate my feelings/emotions. Tells me I just want to live in a fairy tale life.. It's hurtful and frustrating!
I deal with the Very Same thing!! I don’t feel like ANYTHING about me emotionally is valid or important to him… he thinks I’m an over emotional trouble maker Saddens me to my Core! I will NOT give up tho and the enemy will NOT Win this war!!!! In Jesus’s Name… Amen 🙏🏼
My advice to you sister is to go on a fast against the spirits of anger,abuse , unforgivenss and bitterness.We are in a spiritual battle and your fight is against the demonic spirits that are operating in your husband's life.Seek God he knows your husband,because he created him.SI would like to recommend a book called Fasting For Breakthrough and Deliverance by John Eckhart.I like to recommend that you check out Minister Kevin LA Ewing on TH-cam.I pray that God would reveal to you the root cause of your husband's behavior.Blessings
Lol this question right here demonstrates where we're at. In the Bible, the word wife and Virgin are the same thing. Can't marry a person that's already given their heart in the bed to someone else buddy. You can try, but it's not going to go so well for you.
Marriage should come before sex & yes you need to work on developing a friendship. Lots of prayer should go into waiting on God for a spouse, so you can recognize them when you meet them, that they were sent by God. Developing a relationship with God the father helps us grow the character we need to maintain lifetime relationships. 💙🕯️🙏🌹
@@savageriverandthepoet6309 Sex itself fixes nothing in my honest opinion outside of a release of hormones. If sex itself TRULY were a relationship fix, the world would be fixed. Sex is hormone ruled. A woman can sex a man daily & it be just an appetizer. Unless people have some maturity & character a happy, long-term relationship cannot be had. Just my thoughts .....
Oh how I wish my husband understood the words the pastor says... I have tried in a loving way to bring up hurtful topics.. and My husband is Dismissive, he is quick to answer but he also does it in a attacking way. N this turns into arguing.
im sorry to hear that. Maybe both of you can watch these sermons together and read more books about marriage together. while youre reading/watching together, take a moment to pause and express your self politely and lovingly with a calm voice. God loves you. Im praying for your marriage.
I felt the same before getting married and almost called off the wedding but seeing counseling changed our lives. I no longer feel like he doesn't care and vice versa. If he doesn't want counseling that's gonna be harder and you'll need to buckle up. Your knees is what will change things either way: pray, fast!! I am sure you can also always seek marital counseling alone and explain your situation. There are a lot of help in church and around us. Humility is KEY though, God had to break us down and it wasn't easy but I am glad He did because He Lsays wants the best for us
NEVER INSULT OR DEGRADE YOUR SPOUSE IN ANYFORM OF NAME CALLING NO MATTER WHAT. IT SHOULD BE IN A LOVING MANOR ALWAYS WITH A LOVING NAME. EXAMPLE: BABE, BABY, SWEETHEART, DARLING ETC. ETC.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Wives if you're husbands aren't following after the things of The Lord, it could be because you keep following after wet noodles of men in these fake preachers.
Thanks to you Jimmy and to your beautiful wife Karen for your valuable teachings. God bless you both abundantly and your family.
Value. Energy. Sacrifice n trust.
Value eachothers emotions. Be a sade place for your spouse to trust you enough to open up to you!
This INVEST acronym is amazing! It could change everything for my marriage. I have a long way to go with respecting, honouring and submitting to my husband, I trust God will help me want to and get better at this. But I feel so weak and so so hard to make progress when I have been shamed and not valued since the early days of marriage. This is exactly what I mean when I’ve told my husband i don’t feel a “safe” space with him.
To God be the glory!!! Thank you lord for always being on time!
Thank you very much for communicating theses principles here. You're ministry has shown me so many of my pitfalls in my marriage. The ideas here are needed and desired to be executed by me. I have been a terrible husband who has asked God for forgiveness and repented.
Thank You so very much for taking the time to loads these videos & to open up Christians/peoples eyes to the Godly views put into communication to help couples that struggle. Thank you & God Bless.
Those videos have been helping me to be a better wife. And also have helped a lot in our marriage. Blessings!
Am really really enjoying this program May Almighty God bless you and your wife in Jesus name
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
Thank you for this I needed this.
Thank you. I'm not where I'm going but I know I am going to be there soon thanks to people like you.
Thank you both. God Bless
If it has to do with priorities, boundaries, responsibilities or limits; I can’t express them in any way, shape or form without major problems.
What a wonderful marriage video!
Love, understand, protect, care, support, sex and most especially make him super rich! Sacrifice! Intelligent people always ignore the bad side and focus the good side! Positive! Give chance as much as you can but if it's too much it's time to go.... Just be honest!!! No ego pride please!
Great enlightening message. Thanks
Thanks so much for all the videos, just found you in the best moment posible. I will try to translate to german for my husband of 7 years, because we are in a bad place at the moment, but I know we can save the marriage if he hears you and we applies your knowlegde. Thanks you so much.
Message reasonable and address real marital problems. Evans provides great suggestions. Unfortunately my spouse sees no reason to change behavior and remains mummified, mute.
Married 16 yrs, that's exactly what happens. He shames me or just will not validate my feelings/emotions. Tells me I just want to live in a fairy tale life.. It's hurtful and frustrating!
You do what's right... no matter how it turns out.
Sounds like you really need to mature and grow up.
I deal with the Very Same thing!! I don’t feel like ANYTHING about me emotionally is valid or important to him… he thinks I’m an over emotional trouble maker
Saddens me to my Core!
I will NOT give up tho and the enemy will NOT Win this war!!!! In Jesus’s Name… Amen 🙏🏼
Just love this , my husband , still to this day , as soon as the kids are around he lashes out at me !
You're probably a crappy wife. So he lashes out at you because he's jealous of the kids that get your best, while he gets your endless honey-do list.
But hey...idk nothing...just taking a guess
@@zerubbabelsbridgeOuch. sounds like someone is jealous of his own children. That makes you a REAL MANLY MAN. Wow
My advice to you sister is to go on a fast against the spirits of anger,abuse , unforgivenss and bitterness.We are in a spiritual battle and your fight is against the demonic spirits that are operating in your husband's life.Seek God he knows your husband,because he created him.SI would like to recommend a book called Fasting For Breakthrough and Deliverance by John Eckhart.I like to recommend that you check out Minister Kevin LA Ewing on TH-cam.I pray that God would reveal to you the root cause of your husband's behavior.Blessings
Wonderful teaching..
Thank you 🙌
👎🏽
I made a walk hanging of the “INVEST” return to intimacy teaching about 10 years ago - curious if you still have it -
Thank you Jimmy. I enjoy listening to you.
Does sex always come before friendship or should friendship come before sex?
Lol this question right here demonstrates where we're at. In the Bible, the word wife and Virgin are the same thing. Can't marry a person that's already given their heart in the bed to someone else buddy.
You can try, but it's not going to go so well for you.
Marriage should come before sex & yes you need to work on developing a friendship. Lots of prayer should go into waiting on God for a spouse, so you can recognize them when you meet them, that they were sent by God. Developing a relationship with God the father helps us grow the character we need to maintain lifetime relationships. 💙🕯️🙏🌹
@@savageriverandthepoet6309 Sex itself fixes nothing in my honest opinion outside of a release of hormones. If sex itself TRULY were a relationship fix, the world would be fixed. Sex is hormone ruled. A woman can sex a man daily & it be just an appetizer. Unless people have some maturity & character a happy, long-term relationship cannot be had. Just my thoughts .....
Oh how I wish my husband understood the words the pastor says... I have tried in a loving way to bring up hurtful topics.. and My husband is Dismissive, he is quick to answer but he also does it in a attacking way. N this turns into arguing.
I don't feel safe telling him anything 😪 I try, but just doesn't care!!!!
im sorry to hear that. Maybe both of you can watch these sermons together and read more books about marriage together. while youre reading/watching together, take a moment to pause and express your self politely and lovingly with a calm voice. God loves you. Im praying for your marriage.
I felt the same before getting married and almost called off the wedding but seeing counseling changed our lives. I no longer feel like he doesn't care and vice versa. If he doesn't want counseling that's gonna be harder and you'll need to buckle up. Your knees is what will change things either way: pray, fast!! I am sure you can also always seek marital counseling alone and explain your situation. There are a lot of help in church and around us. Humility is KEY though, God had to break us down and it wasn't easy but I am glad He did because He Lsays wants the best for us
Probably because you're always changing him but never you.
I’m afraid to communicate - it almost always end in a fight or him just yelling at me 🙏😔
You are not alone.prauers for you.
NEVER INSULT OR DEGRADE YOUR SPOUSE IN ANYFORM OF NAME CALLING NO MATTER WHAT. IT SHOULD BE IN A LOVING MANOR ALWAYS WITH A LOVING NAME. EXAMPLE: BABE, BABY, SWEETHEART, DARLING ETC. ETC.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
4 Levels of Love aka intimacy.
1.) Sex
2.) ?
3.) ?
4..)
Value Energy Sacrifice Trust
Jesus is Lord
LOL
Wives if you're husbands aren't following after the things of The Lord, it could be because you keep following after wet noodles of men in these fake preachers.
Why are you listening to so called 'fake preachers' then!!!!