Why We Marry Who We Marry
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Jimmy Evans discusses two important decisions we make when looking for a spouse. When you understand what compatibility really means, your differences can bring harmony and peace to your relationship.
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Jimmy Evans is one of America’s leading experts on family and marriage relationships. He is Founder and CEO of MarriageToday™ and co-host of MarriageToday with Jimmy and Karen, the marriage ministry and national award-winning broadcast that airs to millions of homes each week. A popular church and conference speaker, he has also authored a number of books, including Marriage on the Rock, Our Secret Paradise and The Right One.
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This is dead on. And people need to recognize that as humans, we all still have a choice of who to marry and who not to marry. I’m remarried (almost 2 years!!) and came with two kids. My now husband and I have been through hell. Losing a baby, facing temptations, etc. But here we are with our first child, and we are moving on. We both were broken and hurt but we put GOD first. Makes a difference.
AMEN WOG 🙌 🙏
Thank You soo very much. I love my wife Kerry even more now. Realizing I was sent to her to help her heal, and she even more so to help me heal. Lord Jesus Thank You for my wife. I Love you so much Kerry Amanda. God bless you all.
Awww. So happy for you. Hope you guys are going strong!!
As an unbeliever, I married twice (and divorced twice) men who "could heal me." Now, as a believer, I realize that my Healer is Jesus.
AMEN WOG 🙌 🙏
Yes Jesus is your healer, but he is not a husband.
Jesus is the ultimate .... healer and restorer in all areas. GLORYYY
RESPECT to YOU
"Some trust in horses, and some trust in chariots, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God." Love this channel. There are still those who are with you Lord, even in these times.
listening to him makes me feel more relaxed
God wired us to marry someone according to His will.💛💛💛
This teaching was on point. It gave me a different perspective on finding someone "compatible".
'God wired us to find our "opposite." God created Eve, partly, to complement and supply for Adam what he did not have himself.'
Every time she got close to his wounds he rejected her. This helps more than you know. God bless 🙏💕
Looking forward to a Part two on this message! I'm learning a lot about myself and how much I've been wounded. Please pray for me and my spouse Troy. Thank you Jimmy Evans and wife 🙏💕
May God bless your union and provide you both with love, patience, kindness, and joy.
It is so true. I never understood why all my relationships took me to my past, I so wanted a future with them but I always found myself in a dead end. God was giving me a signal to fix my past through him. I never thought my past was the issue.
Blessed to be around people that support my values, despite being different from me. An important part of marriage. Thank you :)
Its true, we go to our partner who will heal us....but if they begin to trigger us. It will take u in a down spiral. Honestly nothing worse than being vulnerable and being hurt by spouse
Loved this ! I'm ready for my marriage God is good and soverign!!
Please pray for my marriage, I know with God all things are possible.
Eye opening! What a blessing.
I did not know when I first was married that I was wounded. Unfortunately, we're no longer together. I hope to someday be the wife and
partnerGod always wanted me to be. Such tremendous insight in those 27 + minutes.
Francie Odendahl same here!
@MarriageToday Jimmy Evans, I love your videos. Thank you and your wife for sharing and connecting it to Biblical aspects. Can you please do one on boundaries with exes and coparenting with exes in a blended family?
Thank you. I’ve always wanted to hear something like this connected to the person for marriage.
I love someone. I’ve loved him for years, but he has a hard time believing the Word. So I choose God over him everytime. I miss him every day
I've been there too.
@@pep590 God finally removed him from my life, and I’m now dating someone I believe is God’s will for me. Worth the wait!
@@amandanallie6726 That's wonderful! Very happy for you.
That's amazing . What a great testimony, you were obedient to God and He provided the person you yearned for
Great and impactful message 🔥🔥💥💥
You are a blessing to millions, Jimmy Evans, God bless you, you are gifted in teaching on this subject and end times.
Thank you very much for sharing this wonderful message. Only God can repay, for all you’ve done for marriages.
THANKS JIMMY AND KAREN!! GOD'S BLESSING"
Thank you sir. God bless me this morning through your teachings
Thank u for this teaching
Blessings to you and Karen and Marriage Today for helping so many families in their marriages with God words.🙏
Amen! I love this
Thank you!
Thank you❤
Such an insight
Thank u so much
I agree and concur.
Okay thank you Jesus
Wow!!! Praise God!!!
From the get go this guy threw me off when he said “why God tricks us into falling in love with someone...” God doesn’t trick anyone, that’s deception. The only one who tricks people is Satan. God leads people into certain things, but NEVER tricks.
Also, when He talks about God making a “helper” for Adam, the word of origin he is talking about is èzer, which means to help or aid. It does not have anything to do with a sense of making up for what’s lacking as he claims. It means help in the sense of giving aid to Adam, which makes sense since it was his responsibility to dress and keep Eden. For him to do that alone without any help/companionship would’ve probably been too much for him to bear.
Also, I agree that compatibility does have to do with beliefs, character, and what not, but there does have to be similarities. Look at the friends people have. They are friends with people who like doing the same things as them, and the same applies in a marriage (many times people marry their best friend). If there aren’t similarities between the two, they won’t want to hang out or spend time together and grow closer to each other. If one person likes basketball and only wants to spend time doing anything related to that, why would the other person who hates it but likes knitting want to do that? Beliefs and values are the most important thing, but similar interests in hobbies, food, etc. do matter and play a role.
He said God gives us a spouse to help us go back to our pasts to heal us, and that’s when I had to stop listening to Him. Healing comes from God and God alone, not our spouses. We don’t need other people in our lives to help us heal or get past some brokenness we had. All we need is to cast our pain and burdens on the Lord, and He will take care of them. If we’re truly believers in Christ, then He will give us victory over these things if we ask Him. Why would we go back to our pasts to address something we should already have victory over through the cross? And if we don’t have it, we didn’t ask God for it. And if we didn’t ask God, why would we seek first our spouses? It all just doesn’t make sense or line up with what’s true.
I’ll admit he does have some good points in what he says, but there’s already too many false things to keep listening on... Don’t just accept anything you hear from people, even if they are in pastor positions. Always test everything to check its validity. God bless!
If the task which was given to Adam was too much to bear, he was apparently lacking something.
Talk some sense, dude...
@@LivingForYahuah You shouldn't confuse a challenge to your thoughts with someone being (of) negative (spirit). It is not the same.
So your statement 'too much to bear' was solely meant with respect to man being alone in the sense of being lonely, not regarding the size (and nature - be fruitful...) of his task?
Aryeh “talk some sense, dude...”
Now you’re seriously going to deny it? You could’ve easily put it in a manner that wasn’t putting me down. What you insinuated what that I had no sense. There are MANY ways to go about challenging someone with being negative towards them or insulting them. I’m not going to argue with you man. Have a nice day!
Omar Albawab I’m so glad you said something I stopped listening at the same time my spirit did not bear witness with this at all only like two points it sounds like he has a whole congregation of people who married the wrong person and is trying to bring healing but in a indirectly deceptive way. You are suppose to be madly in love with your spouse not marry people to get healed. I’m so glad I wasn’t alone in what I felt. Godbless you man of God 🙏🏾
Anna Dominique I wasn’t going to say anything and just stop listening, but I felt lead by the Spirit to do so. It didn’t sit right with me and so I had to share with other brothers and sisters so they aren’t led astray. Nice to know someone else had the same conviction. Have a blessed day!
Because in-laws are in my business.
Very true!
I knew from the start who I was suppose to be Married to because It was at the time I was visiting my mom at her apartment and he was visiting his aunt on the same floor and just a door down from my moms He said hello first and I looked at him and responded with hello I got threw my moms door and knew That I was suppose to be with forever..
Cant wait for that moment
I saw my reflection in my husband’s eyes after our first kiss ♥️ Thank you Lord for sending me that sign!
She was the only one to trick me into it.
Lol
Amen
I love you James J.C.B
Opposites attract!
Told you
Whewwww 💥💥💥
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You had me til you asked for money. Jesus said at Matthew 10:8 ...you received free, give free.”
Cee Cee 😂😂😂
They need money to keep running their programs
I guess 🤦🏽♀️💁😂😂😂
Oh really, you had to pay to watch the TH-cam video?
@@andrij13 i agree with you. It should not be for the money Just want to let you know this is a television broadcast you were watching.
When did he asked for money?
This is job he deserves to be paid like any motivational speaker he has to pay his bills he has to study.
Millions get legally married and never loved the other person. They legally marry out of convenience or desperation or slight mental illness. My ex is my overall 5th choice. Really tied for 5th. But the difference between 1st or 2nd choice and 5th are millions of light years from each other. Wish Jimmy Evans would discuss this, if he is even aware of it.
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My fiancé thinks that he has to be completely whole before marriage. What do you say to him? He’s an amazingly good godly man, but has some wounds from his past. I believe we are all wounded to some capacity, but the right marriage with God can do amazing things for us.
Let him deal with his wounds from his past or else those wounds will become a huge stumbling block in your marriage. I wish my soon to be ex-husband dealt with his demons before we got married. Now I have to get tested to make sure I'm "clean" and I don't feel comfortable to be in the same room with him.
When people tell you who or what they are the most truly loving thing you cam do for them is believe them. He has lived with his wounds longer than he has known you and they are well-known to him. If he believes he needs to heal from that before he is fit for marriage then agree with him because every action, word and relation that follows will be colored with his belief. If you can't walk with him with a buffer of distance until he is healed how then will you do so when you are daily in each other's faces being directly and immediately affected by the choices and actions of your partner? Marriage will bring sufficient challenges without packing a suitcase full to bring along
Am not a cheat unfortunately am married to a cheat is that God's plan for me ?
God's plan for you, is to love you and you love him. Everyone has a choice, your husband chooses to cheat. The question is why?
It might just be Gods plan for you. I am in a similar situation, and one of the many lessons I learned was forgiveness, and finding an unconditional love for my wife. Pray for your marriage, especially your spouse. They aren't praying, so maybe you need to pray for them, on their behalf. Keep the faith, I will pray for you. God bless you. Ask God to rebuke the destroyer of marriages, and to end adultery in your marriage. Ask God to keep adulterous people and situations away from your spouse and your marriage. Keep praying that every day until God brings what you are asking for.
God does say that is an out so you dont have to stay in it . You can move on but if you chose to stay work on bettering you and pray for him
Iron sharpens iron? Possible the Devils rise up to work for destruction? God does not orchestrate destruction in our lives? But as believers, we are overcomers? Not all marriages are from the Lord.
I get a little bit prickled when he says ‘she heals me, I healed her’... God does that, we don’t. We can’t. God uses us, but HE does the work. That ‘we heal each other’ can be misconstrued in some people’s minds that we can do the work. That we must do the work. The fact is, the Holy Spirit works... He works through people, but it is not of us, but of HIM. That’s it, said my piece.
I believe God chooses our spouse.
By the way, it's 'courting', not 'dating'.
What would be the point of focusing on the past when you can just look to the future? It would be pointless to just think about all the negative things in life.
Focusing on the past will heal wounds that don’t heal by themselves. If you both go through it together, you become stronger!
@bravoman God would give you a partner you want to be with. If you're not attracted to that individual and aren't compatible then you wouldn't build a relationship with them. You can't blame God as you've made a decision to be with that individual. When God brings two people together they're both happy together and that partnership brings both the man and woman into a closer relationship with God. You should pray about your relationship and ask God what is his will for your life. God bless.
God doesn't choose spouse's for us...
If he is to choose someone for you then things go wrong its Him you would blame for not letting you choose what you would have thought is better for you ...
If God is to choose things for us He would have choosen salvation for you which is very important then marriage is ... But He doesn't He let's you choose that
@@syombuamercy1542 If that's true how do you explain Boaz and Ruth or Isaac and Rebekah? There are more examples in the Bible. If you choose a partner how do you know they're the right person? I'm trusting God to bring the right women knowing his choice will always be better than mine.
But was dating before marriage accepted by Jesus.. won't Jesus guide to get married to the wright person
The more I listen to Marriage talks the less I wanna get married.
It sounds very challenging to me
@@amandanallie6726 as someone who's been single for a very long time and is incredibly used to it, it all sounds a bit much. Way too much work 😅
@@jccarty1477 same! At least I won’t be the only one single 😅
@@jccarty1477 Bible says two are better than one. Yes, marriage is challenging. So is obeying & following Christ but it's ALL worth it.
we are made in HIS image
A good prayer:
I'm a sinner JESUS please forgive me for all my sins I know you shed your Blood for me on the cross at Calvary. Thank you JESUS for my salvation and for shedding they Blood for me. I love you JESUS.
Romans 10:5/10 ct...❤️k
JESUSisLord!Amen...
Amen..
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The subsconscious choices of picking your partner is not from God it's from way u were treated as a child if it was abuse more than likely u pick a partner who will abuse u
Reg so not true, my dad was verbally abusive, a macho man, and very angry. My husband is kind, patient, gentle, but leads our family in a strong way. I saw my reflection in his eyes after our first kiss. He has healed me because I was so wounded and angry. He has also showed me what TRUE love and respect is, through his love I see how unconditional Gods love is for me. My husband led me to God through the way he loves me. He wasn’t even a believer, but God called us both and we started going to church and he transformed our lives and further healed us. It is a miracle, we know it was God, glory be to him for blessing us with true love.
@@lifewitholliethegsp9203 that may be true for u and that's great but myself and many more met with further abuse my mother abused me mentally emotionally physically the man I met did same thing long after I left him he continued to abuse me and try to manipulate my kids to hate and resent me for no reason it was serious brainwashing that totally destroyed me inside and out lots of people meet with these people after childhood abuse it's just not true for u u were lucky u didn't I did and many others suffer effects of abuse well into adult hood and spend rest of there lives trying to heal from what was done to them
Reg, you are right in what you say. I was thinking exactly this throughout the video and then I remembered another TH-cam video that illustrates your point very well.
m.th-cam.com/video/Hvysy11716g/w-d-xo.html
He speaks philosophy, and not from a spiritual perspective. MFT, ‘Balaams’ doctrine.
The word philosophy literally means to "love wisdom". There exists both worldly philosophy and godly philosophy. I'm sure you've heard of the book of Proverbs.
So can I assume that God puts people in our lives who will spiritually and psychologically torture us , give us grief and drama and otherwise cause us pain...no thanks...I'll stay single.
Brothers and sisters please be aware of the false teachers which are many in this last generation, let us not have itching ears seeking the voice of man but come unto the Lord and seek his truth through his holy word and prayer. (I include myself in this because it is tempting to believe everything that sounds similar to the word of God to be true). Listen to the Holy Spirit and be ye not deceived. I say this because I too was listening to this man and he sounds like a true man of God until he did this: At approximately 5:26 into the video as he references Eve listening to God, he throws up the devils horn clearly and blatantly. (I did not watch anymore after this because that was a clear sign that this is worldly nonsense). He is acknowledging the god he serves. As God matures me spiritually I see everyday people who unconsciously possess the spirit of the Antichrist just by their natural gestures, many of them use the devil horns or 3 6’s when speaking because they have already been wired to accept him. I pray we all ask our Father for wisdom and discerning spirits so we can flee from the false teachings that gives us false comfort which can only be found through Jesus Christ himself.
Oh please.
You're wrong. It doesn't even talk about Eve listening to God.
What's wrong with what he is saying? Nothing. You are slandering this man
Most women are looking for weakness in a Man and when she finds it she loses all respect for him. She picks at that wound until she destroys him or pushes him away
A genuine God fearing woman will never do that.....
A weak man is sooo unattractive! If a woman has done this to you, that comes from a selfish mean heart.😢
Total heresy
What is?
Thank you❤