Gay bathhouses are supposed to be a safe space for gay men to express their sexual selves and feel liberated without getting judged. I feel bad for the men who were there when you went. Also, 99.9% of bathhouses have a rule that anyone should not be under the influence of drugs or alcohol while inside so it's either this story is made up or y'all just disrespectful of the rules and regulations. But I get it bathhouses are not for everyone. 💅
And what about those hundreds of thousands DEAD. Bright beautiful, young men. At their prime. Dying the most grisly, painful deaths ? Gay Hero (Randy Shilts) fought to close down the bathhouses. That is history. Please. Let's not glamorize some idiotic capitalist business model that used gay people's bodies as commodities. And did no favors to the transmission of lethal diseases. That is not love, that is business.
@matthewtuttle1272 Alcohol inhibits decision-making processes. This can have serious adverse consequences on sex safety and health. Makes one more vulnerable to impulsive and risky decisions. State Authorities should shutter bathhouses that allow in inebriated patrons. Etc
1. This is gayshaming. 2. This is gayshaming. 3. This is gayshaming. 4. This doesn't sound entirely honest, people don't usually go to bath houses without knowing what they are. 5. What bath house can people drink in? 6. Towels required?
He can t remember to whom He talked going the sauna ,He was soooo drunk, and next second he could remember every little single detail????hahahahaha, darling its nothing special beeing gay!live your life!!!
That cat is very judgmental, kinda like one of my homophobic aunts. 🤭🤭🤭 She’ll disapprove in your presence, but will use it all when she’s with her girlfriends…
You do know that just being against bathhouses DOES NOT equate to being "homophobic". Hello?! Duh. Wake up. So long as one is against sex venues both gay and straight alike, it is not homophobic. I for instance am for a strong, healthy, & happy gay community. Which is why I'm for lobbying to shut down bathhouses and legislate to regulate hookup apps. 👏 The lessons of HIV, MPOX, Syphilis etc (not to mention how demeaning it is to base someones value solely on looks and body-worship and commodifying everyone as if theyre a product). But now we have same sex marriage, gay book stores and coffee shops instead of just dingy bars. The bright sunshine is out and we have more rights than ever before. Let's not squander all that progress on dangerous, fleeting hookups that only lead to disease....
I feel bad for those people there when you entered in the bathhouse. They go to the bathhouse to be safe from judgemental people like you, and you hunt them there!
Bathhouses aren't "safe" places. Danger lurks beneath. Think of the Hundreds of Thousands... who died (grisly painful deaths) - so those businesses could turn a profit. Some bathhouse owners were straight, and couldn't care less at the hundreds of thousands of bodies dropping in just 2 decades. HIV has shown us the clear and present dangers of BOTH bathhouses, and hookup apps. Hookup culture in general. It's not healthy. Nothing morally wrong with it. Perfectly sweet people. Just like alcoholism. Not a moral failure at all. But it is a Health* concern for sure. Mpox is another canary in the coal mine. Let's heed the warning and reduce* the # of partners. For our own health as well as for the wellbeing of our larger glbtq community. Bathhouses & Sex Apps are an extension of Capitalist society that commodifies people. It is not some type of gay culture. Nothing to bring back, but instead learn from and change for the better.
Not a typical experience of a gay bathhouse. The description is really not to be taken seriously. I think what was said was influenced by the drinks/drugs which were consumed. Why did he need to "slam down" some booze? Could it be self-induced fear and shame? IMO really homophobic. Don't accept this video as true. I hope he gets some help to sort out his experience. Clearly unreal-except in his own alcohol. Induced blackout.
I've been to way to many bathhouses, and have been sober like once...lol. I agree, you should never been blackout stage drunk, but I need a buzz when going in. That liquid courage has lead to so hookups with alot of muscle bound dudes I normally would have never been confident enough to approach. BUT....as a negative, it's also lead to some hookups under normally circumstances I'd be like.....pass!
You get what you put in to it not for every one I have fun in one in Tampa FLcheck it out all of you and tell us what it as like maybe I will see you there haha
I met my current boyfriend at a gay bathhouse. We’ve been together for 10 years. ❤
Gay bathhouses are supposed to be a safe space for gay men to express their sexual selves and feel liberated without getting judged. I feel bad for the men who were there when you went. Also, 99.9% of bathhouses have a rule that anyone should not be under the influence of drugs or alcohol while inside so it's either this story is made up or y'all just disrespectful of the rules and regulations. But I get it bathhouses are not for everyone. 💅
We all know that's bs. Gays are constantly being judged by other gays. It's all about the meat market and how someone looks.
And what about those hundreds of thousands DEAD. Bright beautiful, young men. At their prime. Dying the most grisly, painful deaths ?
Gay Hero (Randy Shilts) fought to close down the bathhouses.
That is history.
Please. Let's not glamorize some idiotic capitalist business model that used gay people's bodies as commodities. And did no favors to the transmission of lethal diseases. That is not love, that is business.
Alcohol would dull your senses, I would think.
@matthewtuttle1272
Alcohol inhibits decision-making processes. This can have serious adverse consequences on sex safety and health. Makes one more vulnerable to impulsive and risky decisions. State Authorities should shutter bathhouses that allow in inebriated patrons. Etc
1. This is gayshaming. 2. This is gayshaming. 3. This is gayshaming. 4. This doesn't sound entirely honest, people don't usually go to bath houses without knowing what they are. 5. What bath house can people drink in? 6. Towels required?
You are right. What did he expect to see.
"I am not a super sexual guy"...goes to a bathhouse...???? Yeah sure...
Aha it’s true I’m not…was soo drunk when I went..not a usual this for me to do when I’m single
@@davidblake1Reminded me of the expression: "Drunk words are sober thoughts"
European bathhouses often have a bar (and sometimes a restaurant!)
He can t remember to whom He talked going the sauna ,He was soooo drunk, and next second he could remember every little single detail????hahahahaha, darling its nothing special beeing gay!live your life!!!
That cat is very judgmental, kinda like one of my homophobic aunts. 🤭🤭🤭 She’ll disapprove in your presence, but will use it all when she’s with her girlfriends…
You do know that just being against bathhouses DOES NOT equate to being "homophobic". Hello?! Duh.
Wake up.
So long as one is against sex venues both gay and straight alike, it is not homophobic.
I for instance am for a strong, healthy, & happy gay community. Which is why I'm for lobbying to shut down bathhouses and legislate to regulate hookup apps. 👏
The lessons of HIV, MPOX, Syphilis etc (not to mention how demeaning it is to base someones value solely on looks and body-worship and commodifying everyone as if theyre a product).
But now we have same sex marriage, gay book stores and coffee shops instead of just dingy bars. The bright sunshine is out and we have more rights than ever before. Let's not squander all that progress on dangerous, fleeting hookups that only lead to disease....
Never go to a bathhouse drunk or high not all bathhouse are like this very nice and clean one south FL and where I live now in Tampa FL.
Will there be any more detailed/close up braces update videos coming up?
Possibly :)
Some people need to stay home when they drink😅🤔
Something is wrong in this Story, you are not allowed entering Saunas totally drunk!!!
That’s what I thought too
I'd love to know what really happened.
Wow, you sure remember a lot for being “blacked out”, definitely you shouldn’t be drinking in excess.
Why did you make this clip, it sounded like you are whining...and complaining
Just a story time video my dude…my life and experiences
@@davidblake1 I 100% enjoyed it. I thought it was hilarious. I feel like if I ever went I’d probably be the same way
Hahahahaha Hahahahaha you are so funny im dying over here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
[you would not be my first choice nor my last choice so I am sure you would be completely safe, even plastered drunk]
Don’t try to act like you are innocent and the bathhouse is weird. Wow! What an irritating account.
You were literally Vergil being guided through every layer of hell
I feel bad for those people there when you entered in the bathhouse. They go to the bathhouse to be safe from judgemental people like you, and you hunt them there!
Yeah me too lol..I was just hammered at the time
Bathhouses aren't "safe" places. Danger lurks beneath. Think of the Hundreds of Thousands... who died (grisly painful deaths) - so those businesses could turn a profit. Some bathhouse owners were straight, and couldn't care less at the hundreds of thousands of bodies dropping in just 2 decades. HIV has shown us the clear and present dangers of BOTH bathhouses, and hookup apps. Hookup culture in general. It's not healthy. Nothing morally wrong with it. Perfectly sweet people. Just like alcoholism. Not a moral failure at all. But it is a Health* concern for sure.
Mpox is another canary in the coal mine. Let's heed the warning and reduce* the # of partners. For our own health as well as for the wellbeing of our larger glbtq community.
Bathhouses & Sex Apps are an extension of Capitalist society that commodifies people. It is not some type of gay culture. Nothing to bring back, but instead learn from and change for the better.
Not a typical experience of a gay bathhouse. The description is really not to be taken seriously. I think what was said was influenced by the drinks/drugs which were consumed. Why did he need to "slam down" some booze? Could it be self-induced fear and shame? IMO really homophobic. Don't accept this video as true. I hope he gets some help to sort out his experience. Clearly unreal-except in his own alcohol. Induced blackout.
Crazy story!
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Millennials, and Z's. LOL
If u had a bad experience why are you suggesting to ppl to go to a bath house???
Suggesting it for ppl that are looking for more of the intense sexual experience…wasn’t for myself but could be great for others
Going to a bathhouse drunk- not a good idea. I would love to have a moment with a hot guy like you, though! 😜
Yikes! FINEDIAMOND.
@@coreycox2345: Yikes why???
I've been to way to many bathhouses, and have been sober like once...lol. I agree, you should never been blackout stage drunk, but I need a buzz when going in. That liquid courage has lead to so hookups with alot of muscle bound dudes I normally would have never been confident enough to approach. BUT....as a negative, it's also lead to some hookups under normally circumstances I'd be like.....pass!
Yeah at some point...we've all walked around a bathhouse drunk and naked!
@@EM-eb1lf: I've never been to a bathhouse, not that I haven't wanted to go. But liquid courage does a lot to the ego, for sure!
😂😂😂 I’m dying right now
Very judgy-
Good video David
Well done lovey well done po faced gits. They have nerve to say keep towels on but bitch if it slips. I would have loved to have been there to witness
You get what you put in to it not for every one I have fun in one in Tampa FLcheck it out all of you and tell us what it as like maybe I will see you there haha
I had fun my 1st time, although the trolls, oldies, bears kept following me.... creepy.....
Do you have to be totally naked
so you got f
What do you call 3 homosexuals in a gay bathhouse??? A viral epidemic
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@@davidblake1 ????
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like your black cat.
[if you get plastic surgery you might not look so bad]
Damn...Elvis has left the building
Haha
I WISH I LEFT THE BUILDING WITH HIM TOO
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@@davidblake1 Done
BLACK-OUT BATHHOUSE EXPERIENCE! - the time I will remember, forever! Loved it!!!
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You're a cutie yummy
🥺🥺🥺 Ew!!!🥺🥺🥺
Cute kitty.