The fine dudes were not there that night. The club owner told me NFL players go on Sundays. On a normal night, most people just use apps instead of bathhouses.
Hey! I'm born and raised here in Dallas. You must b talking about Midtown Spa. You must b from a small town in rural Illinois because they have this in Chicago and St Louis. And I disagree with you about young and older guys not getting together. That mean nothing. Also i disagree wit they're no attractive guys at bathhouse. There's been plenty from.my experience
🤫🤫🤫 it must've not been my night but like I said, I was told NFL players go there..a lot. I'm thankful it was low key because I was way too young and inexperienced to have delt with a fine man. God knows what that man would've had me doing 😄
@@TheAlfredPlatformI guess the NFL players were busy every time I went to the spa in Dallas which was midtown spa. I didn't have the pleasure.I'm from the west coast and started going to bathhouses in the 80's. My first time at midtown in 06 was rather boring.. I'm use to packed houses coming from California and this place was practically dead I was surprised because Dallas is a big city. When I moved down south I decided to give it another try. I went in total of about 7 times. I have never seen the place with a big crowd of folk. Fast forward to 2019 I think I went and the place had shut down. So I went to the other bath "Club Dallas" It was more busy but the clientele was not for me so I didn't go back. I expected more from Midtown and was really shocked at how boring it was. I think you probably had an encounter with an angel because no demon would have given you instructions to stay away from the maze. I was like 19 or 20 when I first visited a bath house and I have never been attracted to the maze areas. First they are too dark for me and I always preferred renting one of the rooms for privacy and comfort. The most fun bath house for me was in Berkeley CA. They usually kept a packed house. I have met guys from all over some of the most fine men I have ever seen. I think I only met 2 guys that I thought was fine at midtown in Dallas. I never made it to midtown in Los Angeles CA however there were like other spa's I would visit that were hot with locals and international men. L.A. was where I went to get a break from the bay area where I lived for almost 30 years. I have had my fun in the spa's throughout the years. Some of the baths have closed in California but I do know that the one in Berkeley is still open. The south has played out for me. I only moved back here to help with my sick parents and 10 years is more than enough for me.. It's back to the west coast by years end.
Thank you for sharing. I feel you were protected in that place. Whether it was an angel or a demon you may never know but the result was that you realised that the bathhouse was a dangerous place for you to be in.
@@TheAlfredPlatform well, I actually stopped listening when you firat said 20 and then a few mins later changed it to being underage and drinking at the bar. Kinda hard to believe the rest of the story. Wish you good luck with your channel anyways. Peace
Statute of limitations has long expired. No one is getting in trouble with the law at this point. It’s ok to say what bar it was if that’s a concern as long as they aren’t still breaking the law.
it is a problem as a young gay man and no real family support or organization. At 18 fresh out of high school and in the Navy on a ship in the Bremerton shipyard I though I had it made, money and a car and street guys in Seattle at the time. I didn't comprehend the bar scene being underage or its pitfalls. As an older guy I have tired/used the bathhouse for hookups and sadly (but it was a more youthful time)the body count probably was high. The biggest thing-thinking you found that right guy and it was going to be forever and only getting HIV out of it in the end (now 24 years). Youth need guidance of the older community.
I see you're driving in the golden triangle of Texas...I know the city, but I won't say....I was just there 3 days ago....I lived in Dallas over 4 decades, so that's home for me too...., however I just recently moved back to the country over 7 months ago....continued success in your marital life.❤
Thanks for your content. There is so much that can be said here. However, I'm certain that the bartender was a flesh-and-blood male like you. Most likely he was checking the floors and bumped into you. He probably left immediately because he did not want you to think that he was chasing you. Overall, bath houses are not dangerous places to be. They can be places of great fun. And sex does not have to be the focus.
Right. And if the room was so dark that a person could barely see who they were hooking up with, I suspect that he just couldn't see the bartender after the bartender walked off. I don't think the bartender went "poof!!" into thin air. I honestly think that those apps are more dangerous than bathhouses. At least the bathhouse is in a controlled environment with employees who can call the cops if something gets out of hand. We've heard about way more ppl being harmed or unalived from apps than we have at bathhouses.
@@chellotrevino7323 Yes, a lot of that is floating around. However, a person has choices. You don't have to hang out there to have sex. People who have not visited a bathhouse find this difficult to understand. Nevertheless, I trust that you are safe wherever you are and never have to worry about contracting an STD. Happy living to you.
I live in Chicago and in the late 1990's I enjoyed going there Man's Country bath house owned by Chuck. Rennslow.With a roof top deck and entertainment on the weekends, with porn stars and poen stars who lived in Chicago.Weekend were always busy and it was low key week day.Man's Country closed when Chuck Renslow died.Haven't been to any bathhouse in years..
7:52 "most undesirable people are going to these Bathhouses"; 12:12 "Fine Football Players are at the Bathhouse"
The fine dudes were not there that night. The club owner told me NFL players go on Sundays. On a normal night, most people just use apps instead of bathhouses.
@@TheAlfredPlatform You're sure selling that club with that plug of the NFL players.
Bartender: " Alfred, no matter what you do, DO NOT GO INTO THE DARK ROOM"
*Alfred proceeds to go into the Dark Room** 😅🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Hey, I was 20 lol
Hey! I'm born and raised here in Dallas. You must b talking about Midtown Spa. You must b from a small town in rural Illinois because they have this in Chicago and St Louis. And I disagree with you about young and older guys not getting together. That mean nothing. Also i disagree wit they're no attractive guys at bathhouse. There's been plenty from.my experience
🤫🤫🤫 it must've not been my night but like I said, I was told NFL players go there..a lot. I'm thankful it was low key because I was way too young and inexperienced to have delt with a fine man. God knows what that man would've had me doing 😄
@@TheAlfredPlatformI guess the NFL players were busy every time I went to the spa in Dallas which was midtown spa. I didn't have the pleasure.I'm from the west coast and started going to bathhouses in the 80's. My first time at midtown in 06 was rather boring.. I'm use to packed houses coming from California and this place was practically dead I was surprised because Dallas is a big city. When I moved down south I decided to give it another try. I went in total of about 7 times. I have never seen the place with a big crowd of folk. Fast forward to 2019 I think I went and the place had shut down. So I went to the other bath "Club Dallas" It was more busy but the clientele was not for me so I didn't go back. I expected more from Midtown and was really shocked at how boring it was. I think you probably had an encounter with an angel because no demon would have given you instructions to stay away from the maze. I was like 19 or 20 when I first visited a bath house and I have never been attracted to the maze areas. First they are too dark for me and I always preferred renting one of the rooms for privacy and comfort. The most fun bath house for me was in Berkeley CA. They usually kept a packed house. I have met guys from all over some of the most fine men I have ever seen. I think I only met 2 guys that I thought was fine at midtown in Dallas. I never made it to midtown in Los Angeles CA however there were like other spa's I would visit that were hot with locals and international men. L.A. was where I went to get a break from the bay area where I lived for almost 30 years. I have had my fun in the spa's throughout the years. Some of the baths have closed in California but I do know that the one in Berkeley is still open. The south has played out for me. I only moved back here to help with my sick parents and 10 years is more than enough for me.. It's back to the west coast by years end.
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Thank you for sharing. I feel you were protected in that place. Whether it was an angel or a demon you may never know but the result was that you realised that the bathhouse was a dangerous place for you to be in.
So which one is it now? Were you 18 and drinking at the bar? Or were you 19? You even said right in the beginning that you were 20!!!????
I don't exactly recall because it was 12+ years ago; just enjoy the commentary bro.
@@TheAlfredPlatform well, I actually stopped listening when you firat said 20 and then a few mins later changed it to being underage and drinking at the bar. Kinda hard to believe the rest of the story. Wish you good luck with your channel anyways. Peace
Statute of limitations has long expired. No one is getting in trouble with the law at this point. It’s ok to say what bar it was if that’s a concern as long as they aren’t still breaking the law.
I don’t think now a days people really care how many people you’ve been with before. Everyone has a past and should never be judged.
when they do that, they have no intention for relationship. just u kno wut.
People are in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
You were smart enough to take the advice given to at the time.
it is a problem as a young gay man and no real family support or organization. At 18 fresh out of high school and in the Navy on a ship in the Bremerton shipyard I though I had it made, money and a car and street guys in Seattle at the time. I didn't comprehend the bar scene being underage or its pitfalls. As an older guy I have tired/used the bathhouse for hookups and sadly (but it was a more youthful time)the body count probably was high. The biggest thing-thinking you found that right guy and it was going to be forever and only getting HIV out of it in the end (now 24 years). Youth need guidance of the older community.
Wow, thank you for sharing your story🙌🏾
I can accept your experience but, lots of very attractive men go to BH all over the world.
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Oh girl
It’s a bathhouse I wonder what you was thinking and they had bathhouse in Chicago
I see you're driving in the golden triangle of Texas...I know the city, but I won't say....I was just there 3 days ago....I lived in Dallas over 4 decades, so that's home for me too...., however I just recently moved back to the country over 7 months ago....continued success in your marital life.❤
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Man disappears in a pitch-black room. Must be an angel or demon. Obviously. LOL Do the spirits/demons use the apps too?
Not for everyone. We def all different.
This story extraterrestrial wow 😦😳
You knew where where you were so what did you expect??? You were obviously curious about it because you were told not to go in there. Be for real!!!
Tell a psychiatrist not us
He said very attractive black dudes
What’s up man, I’m a country gay man, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair
then go on grinder/ it’s just as bad 😂
Thanks for your content. There is so much that can be said here. However, I'm certain that the bartender was a flesh-and-blood male like you. Most likely he was checking the floors and bumped into you. He probably left immediately because he did not want you to think that he was chasing you. Overall, bath houses are not dangerous places to be. They can be places of great fun. And sex does not have to be the focus.
Right. And if the room was so dark that a person could barely see who they were hooking up with, I suspect that he just couldn't see the bartender after the bartender walked off. I don't think the bartender went "poof!!" into thin air. I honestly think that those apps are more dangerous than bathhouses. At least the bathhouse is in a controlled environment with employees who can call the cops if something gets out of hand. We've heard about way more ppl being harmed or unalived from apps than we have at bathhouses.
Hep c and STDs are wild in there yah just dirty 😂😂😂😂
@@chellotrevino7323 Yes, a lot of that is floating around. However, a person has choices. You don't have to hang out there to have sex. People who have not visited a bathhouse find this difficult to understand. Nevertheless, I trust that you are safe wherever you are and never have to worry about contracting an STD. Happy living to you.
Thank u
You’re driving on the left ,is that correct …
Wow thank God for his protection
Oooooh my 😩😩😩😩
This is lame....
I live in Chicago and in the late 1990's I enjoyed going there Man's Country bath house owned by Chuck. Rennslow.With a roof top deck and entertainment on the weekends, with porn stars and poen stars who lived in Chicago.Weekend were always busy and it was low key week day.Man's Country closed when Chuck Renslow died.Haven't been to any bathhouse in years..
Off topic but you got very pretty fingers
Tom foolery
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Ridiculous story
I think you are talking too much something’s don’t need to be mention
We already know that BM are mostly homosexual and screwing other men. The world knows, so there is nothing to be silent about 🤷🏼♀️😬😬😬
Chile we dont need to know this...