Age Gap Love: My Family Disapprove! | A True Story

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  • This documentary ventures into the world of age-gap dating, where we meet older women with a taste for the much younger man. Produced for Channel 5 by Nine Lives Media.
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  • @PeaceSM1954
    @PeaceSM1954 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +475

    Bob in the shower…..who the hell approved of that scene? 😬

    • @mariamawits3689
      @mariamawits3689 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Exactly my thoughts 😅😮

    • @christinamccarthy8683
      @christinamccarthy8683 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I know I thought the ultimate tmi

    • @melstevenson2994
      @melstevenson2994 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      He loved it!!

    • @chesspunk489
      @chesspunk489 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Bob tested mother approved

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AI i suppose 😅

  • @Sarah24871
    @Sarah24871 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

    Never ask someone to marry you in front of other people. Ever.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Is that because of the pressure to say yes in front of others? (even if they don't want to)

    • @PeaceSM1954
      @PeaceSM1954 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I agree it’s just not right

    • @laidedges
      @laidedges 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@museonfilm8919exactly

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      It's just a lot of pressure. It's better to have an engagement party afterwards

    • @daisychain3007
      @daisychain3007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I have heard of that, Sarah. Not everything has to be out in the open.

  • @chadshill
    @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Wow! It seems so long ago since we made the programme! 😍
    We're both very happy to tell you all that after more than 13 years we are still together, blissfully happy in our own home with a Jack Russell to keep us on our toes, and loving the acceptance we now have from our families on both sides 🤗
    Thanks to everyone who made those nice comments, and, as always, to those whose comments centered on my weight and other negatives, we'll just say. L.A.F.W.!! 😉🤗😍
    Richard and Immy 💖

    • @IngenerateIngenue
      @IngenerateIngenue 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      So happy both families have acknowledged & accepted your relationship. ❤

    • @TeriHargraveartist
      @TeriHargraveartist 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Jack Russell, great choice!

    • @joypotbg
      @joypotbg 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ❤ love a happy ending!

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Congratulations!

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are my favourite couple on this video- how wonderful that you are happy and well. Wishing you many more great years together!

  • @morganlawrie1158
    @morganlawrie1158 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    It's not the age gap that bothers me. It's when it turns into parenting rather than a partnership that creeps me out. The way Pat is ordering him about and speaking for him gives me a weird vibe. Especially when she mentioned he'd never had experience. It sounded like she was kind of mocking him and I know she's had a few hubby's but to not even remember their names?! That's just hurrendous
    James just reminds me of a guy that never grew out of his "15 year old gamer" phase and he just needs someone to aid that.

    • @user-zs5ho2lw2t
      @user-zs5ho2lw2t 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This is so sad for james parents i'm sure. You protect your children from preditors their whole life, to then have one come in after the time that you can't protect them. This women is a disgusting narcissistic sociopath. She acts like she is some kind of saint, Sick!!!!

    • @Mistwalker67
      @Mistwalker67 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You put my thoughts into words, she has the eternal son and he has a replacement mum, I've had big age gaps but I was always the mature one.

    • @Goldrefinedthrufire
      @Goldrefinedthrufire 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think Pat preys on the low IQ of a man.

    • @allyw1364
      @allyw1364 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And she has been Married 8 times before?? No thats absolute craziness

    • @elap1529
      @elap1529 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I didn't want to say it. Also I might be wrong about James being maybe a little mentally disabled. And that shes taking advantage of that.. Kind of disturbing

  • @dl4403
    @dl4403 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    James and Yet Wah look the same age, despite the 20 year age gap. It’s the youthful Asian genes! 🧬

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's true they have amazing age genes for some reason must be all the seaweed and seafood.

  • @racheljackson6973
    @racheljackson6973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +275

    Pat is taking advantage of Mark, he is disabled, it needs to be reported, she knows damn well what she’s doing… disgusting 😢

    • @Deborah-rq9qt
      @Deborah-rq9qt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      Totally agree. She’s probably getting some form of carers benefit money too. This isn’t love.

    • @user-ox1jw7ur6g
      @user-ox1jw7ur6g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Silly people with silly opinions?.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      Controlling and narcissist people isolate you from friends and family to maintain control. He "does as he's told " says a LOT

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      Mark's family probably has a problem with PAT as a person, not her age.

    • @malachinumba1
      @malachinumba1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      I was hoping he's just a bit slow & has the disadvantage of a tongue too big for his mouth 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SnowWhite717_
    @SnowWhite717_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    My partner is 19 years younger than I am. I met him when he was 29 and I was 48. We’ve been together now 6 years. I’m 54 and he’s 35. I was very nervous meeting his parents because they’re just 12 years older than I am but we get along really well together and they don’t mind. They said I’m the first woman he’s dated that has her own money, doesn’t require his attention 24/7, doesn’t get jealous and we have no drama. I get him to try new things and he keeps me young. But I must say, I’m Asian and look 38 so people can’t tell we have an age gap. We run 6 miles a day and spend 2 hours at the gym 6 days a week. We go hiking, climbing, camping, hunting, skiing, golfing, dancing… we have a full and happy life. I used to worry about what people thought. Now I I don’t care. ❤

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @naomid Do you have children and has that been a topic of conversation?

    • @SnowWhite717_
      @SnowWhite717_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Myraisins1 I have 2 kids, he had one. He got a vasectomy, we don’t want anymore children. I wouldn’t have another baby even if I could. Not for all the money on earth 🤣

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SnowWhite717_ Okay. You're an inspiration!

    • @user-rd4xj2ei1l
      @user-rd4xj2ei1l 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm looking for a young woman.. Asian would be great. Do you know any available ???

    • @Railroadchick
      @Railroadchick 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The poor cattle . Being shoved in a truck , poked with an electric cattle prodder, only to have their throats slit , while their relatives stand there watching

  • @elisabethelias681
    @elisabethelias681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    I don't like Pat! She seems manipulative. I mean, 8! husbands before her current one?

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I wonder if they all ate the mushrooms?

    • @iceladi01
      @iceladi01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Clever (from an Aussie)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Not being funny but...what happened to the other 8 husbands, was infidelity involved? Did they all die unexpectedly? I think I would want to know if I was going to marry someone who had been married so many times. And poor Mark, he does seem like he may have some learning issues, bless him. Feel like he's been taken advantage of in a way.

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But love is love so beautiful 🌹
      ​@@katewolfspirit6722

    • @Will.Flavell
      @Will.Flavell หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@iceladi01Your a Collingwood fan

  • @ahmritroets2596
    @ahmritroets2596 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The Elmo sounding "I love yew!" Would be a deal breaker.

  • @yukiefromoz2573
    @yukiefromoz2573 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    Mark seems a bit slow, in which case he probably doesn't even have the mental capacity to question why his missus has been married so many times. She might even be taking advantage of that.

    • @tessrobin4548
      @tessrobin4548 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      He may talk slowly but that doesn't mean he's slow mentally. They're in a good place it seems.

    • @cravenmoorehead8
      @cravenmoorehead8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's f*cking disgusting. 32 year age gap 🙄🤢

    • @Lunchladydoyle
      @Lunchladydoyle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ⁠@@tessrobin4548who isn’t at the beginning of the relationship ?? Studies by law firms show marriages with a 20 year age gap have a divorce rate of 95 %
      When the gap is 30 years or more the chance is 167 %

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      ​@@Lunchladydoyle167%😅😅😅 what kind of percentage is that

    • @treacletarrt8591
      @treacletarrt8591 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@andreabobbette825mark wrote that comment

  • @marilynalexander5446
    @marilynalexander5446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Pat has serious problems, i can understand why marks parents were against this, she has been married 9 times and he is slow. Glad he is not my son otherwise pats backside would have been bouncing down my front steps.

    • @rozdoyle8872
      @rozdoyle8872 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wouldn't even give her time to bounce, her sneaky ass would be on the footpath with the tracks of my size 8 on it .

    • @Ife17
      @Ife17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

    • @nonsensetalk8953
      @nonsensetalk8953 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big talk but you wouldn't get away with your aggressive assault on someone."Slow"or not,Mark is an adult,and can do what he likes.So keep your violence to yourself.

  • @bp7707
    @bp7707 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Did anyone else catch that Liz is 23 and said twice that they've been together 6 years...but she was 19 when they met. Something doesn't add up.

    • @francessharkey4467
      @francessharkey4467 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I did finger counting and everything when she gave the numbers!

  • @user-gp6yo7fs5c
    @user-gp6yo7fs5c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    This Pat character, taking advantage of a mentally challenged person and cutting him off his family, she is a criminal.

    • @lanabmc3519
      @lanabmc3519 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      She’s no quite all their herself either.

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Now Bob we didn't need that image of you in the shower

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Tattoo of his lady on the head? That shows real class (or should I say NO class!)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@museonfilm8919 He shows (no) class but lots of ass! ;-))

    • @annabiotic1078
      @annabiotic1078 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂 and a closeup of his bootie! Oh boy. Lol.

    • @chrisk7091
      @chrisk7091 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠@@museonfilm8919so ppl w tattoos have no class ?😂😂😂

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      IDK why they wanted him naked, but I didn't.

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I do not agree with public proposals as it puts the woman on the spot.

  • @chevylynsue5531
    @chevylynsue5531 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Being married for the ninth time is wild!

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you can understand you marry 1 time, when you marry 2 times you are not so smart, but 3 times or more you must have very low IQ

  • @Ab-bk7bq
    @Ab-bk7bq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Mark, blink twice if your in danger 💀

  • @pinkdiamonds9137
    @pinkdiamonds9137 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    “I love Bob’s blue eyes-“ those are cataracts, dear

    • @rachaelphiri2299
      @rachaelphiri2299 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @museonfilm8919
    @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I think a few of these people seem to have learning difficulties - or at least something seems amiss.

    • @marigoldbeam5475
      @marigoldbeam5475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed. There is some sort of mental and/or social deficiency in most of these couples.

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@marigoldbeam5475I thought the same thing it's sad mark and pat seem she's the boss

  • @JaguarRacingTeamX
    @JaguarRacingTeamX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Pat is a predator.

    • @elisabethelias681
      @elisabethelias681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yes! And 8 men were smart enough to find out how manipulative she is. But poor Mark....

    • @JaguarRacingTeamX
      @JaguarRacingTeamX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I get the feeling she left them given the fact she can't remember their names. She pathological.@@elisabethelias681

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Pat needs to be locked up.....she is taking advantage of this poor boy

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And her punishment, should be sharing a cell with James, The Master of SillyBilly Cute Noises

  • @PeaceSM1954
    @PeaceSM1954 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Pat the rat is definitely a control freak, been married 8 times before….red flags galore there! Mark is her lil whipping boy, I can see why his parents didn’t attend the wedding

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's content and seems to need her.

    • @rubytuesday5412
      @rubytuesday5412 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ~ This one will work out, for obvious reasons......

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s a nutter and lying being married 8 times before .

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please don't call her a rat 🐀 that's insulting rats the four legged kind😅

  • @spencerveyron
    @spencerveyron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Pat really loves a wedding! Poor vulnerable Mark.

  • @debbiemycroft8221
    @debbiemycroft8221 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    When James makes that stupid voice noise when saying "i love you" is enough to want me to knock him into nexr week. Good god he needs a baby sitter not a girlfriend 🙄 .
    As for Pat she is talking to him as if she is he is her son. Personally i dont think his family care about the age difference it would be more about how she is as a person and i think she comes across as a controlling user. Just my opinion but my gut tells me im right.😢

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Pat should spend a week in a cell with James. I think that would be wonderful for them both...

    • @Felicity2121
      @Felicity2121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She will be claiming carers benefits for him.

    • @chrislabedzski9076
      @chrislabedzski9076 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Holy crap your comment is brutal however you are correct though and tbh I don't think pat and James relationship will last though, I give them about 2 months tops

  • @emmsue1053
    @emmsue1053 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    Hubby & I have almost 18 years between us. Everyone said it will never last. Here we are thirty years later & still say we love each other at least four times a day. Age is just a number.

    • @luns486
      @luns486 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did you guys meet?

    • @Mouschimooo
      @Mouschimooo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he prob cheated on you btw

    • @cristinapatellani5332
      @cristinapatellani5332 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awww that’s fantastic 🙌🏽😍
      Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈🍾☺️

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don't think age is just a number, your age gap has worked for you, but if everyone thought it was acceptable for a 50 year old man, for instance, to have sex with a 13 year old then that's completely unacceptable, age matters.

    • @RearFacingToddlers
      @RearFacingToddlers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @charlottebruce979 That's completely different. This is about consensual relationships between adults of different ages, not having sex with a child!

  • @nnh5050
    @nnh5050 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    bob in the shower like that .... i'm officially dead forever💀☠💀

    • @pattymelt-go3fv
      @pattymelt-go3fv หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh common!

    • @vickitrotter3404
      @vickitrotter3404 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How silly of you.....good grief

    • @vickitrotter3404
      @vickitrotter3404 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How silly of you.....good grief...🙄

    • @tinkerbell8507
      @tinkerbell8507 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @nnh5050, Thanks for the laugh😂😂😂

  • @shazj2210
    @shazj2210 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    A promise of commitment off pat is comfort to a fool

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Omg hahaha she can’t even remember all her husbands names 😂

    • @Theresa-lt3ki
      @Theresa-lt3ki 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. she needs a slap.😮

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because she’s lying she’s a nutter .shes probably been married twice

  • @karis6978
    @karis6978 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My Fella & I are 22 Years apart. He is 59 & I am 37.... we have been together 7 years next Saturday

  • @aprilbatzle7956
    @aprilbatzle7956 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    How have they been together 6 years and she is 23 but they got together when she was 19 ? The math doesn't add up

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's a Great question. I wondered about that math too.

    • @shellyhall7393
      @shellyhall7393 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I thought the same thing. Together 6 years and she's 23 😒😒😒

    • @esthermurugi4882
      @esthermurugi4882 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      For fear of saying she is/was underage 😂

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years maybe she is nearly 24

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years. Maybe she is nearly 24

  • @nicole-louisastevens7885
    @nicole-louisastevens7885 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    9 times getting married!! There should be a stop somewhere lol 😅

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s lying she’s a nutter and predator

  • @dlcalbaugh
    @dlcalbaugh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    There is a 12-year age gap between my husband and me. I am 59 and he is almost 47. We love each other and that's all that matters to us. We have been married for 25 years and together for 26.

    • @becksgroom49
      @becksgroom49 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm 57 and my lovely one is 44. It works x

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@becksgroom49 15 years is still possible, but not 30 or 40 years that is even disgusting !! what is possible devide age of oldest by 2 and add 7 years that is the minimum age. So when you are 50 she may be 32y. I am 15 years older than my partner too.

    • @brandyw4285
      @brandyw4285 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm 13yrs. and 1 day younger than my husband and we've been together for 23 yrs now!❤

  • @zim-zf7mq
    @zim-zf7mq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    No judgement on age gap relationships. With that said, Mark seems to have developmental issues, and it seems weird how Pat interacts with and for him…

    • @jasenkavukelic5047
      @jasenkavukelic5047 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To me, she too seems to have it.

  • @gandalf751
    @gandalf751 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Is it just me, or is there something odd with Pat and Mark? Anyway, I think if you really love someone and you are adults, go for it! True love is beautiful!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      I got the impression that Mark is mentally challenged.

    • @tahneeyuh3382
      @tahneeyuh3382 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I mean if he’s not able to make an informed decision- it’s wrong. She’s been married EIGHT times and could not remember their names. Not quickly forgotten- she literally couldn’t remember lol. I think she’s odd

    • @1mustangsally
      @1mustangsally 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, it's definitely not just you

  • @travelingdude33914
    @travelingdude33914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    25 years age difference between my partner and myself, and we have a wonderful life together. Both of our families are very accepting and supportive.

  • @lindakoenig9946
    @lindakoenig9946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This show is from 2014. I wonder how many are still together or even alive ?

  • @natinaharris8381
    @natinaharris8381 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bob looks better than me in the shower. Go, Bob, it's your birthday! ❤😊

  • @renb6133
    @renb6133 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Regardless of age, the ones that give me most hope are the couples that really like each other & who appreciate what their partner has brought to their lives. For eg, James put enormous effort into his proposal because Yet Wha means so much to him. He talks in terms of how much she’s bettered him as a man & you can see he truly admires & appreciates her. Age isn’t the issue, true respect, friendship & commitment are & are critical to a couple’s success. If you’re good friends who also happen to passionately love each other, I think you’ve got a better than average chance at success!

    • @blessed7645
      @blessed7645 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agree 👍🏿😊💕

    • @delilahhart4398
      @delilahhart4398 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      James and Yet Wha are a cute couple.

  • @lovelyshirl
    @lovelyshirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I think Pat just loves wedding cake 😂

  • @Artistbrits
    @Artistbrits 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I fell head over heals in love with a 55 year old man when I was 32 years old. I never had a preference for older men. Most of the men I dated were usually 3-7 years younger than me. I was always accused of being a gold digger from others but he wasn't wealthy at all. It didn't last, but the breakup had nothing to do with the age gap. I think it may seem unusual but you can't predict who you will love and sometimes that love can be met with hostility by people committed to societal norms.

  • @mutoidliz2320
    @mutoidliz2320 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mark looks utterly trapped.I've never once described my relationship as my older partner holding a gun to my head 💀

  • @ColleenMarie111
    @ColleenMarie111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have a 31 year old special needs son he's mentally disabled but you can't tell just by looking at him. Mark reminds me exactly of my son. He even does the same thing with his tongue when he focuses on something. I guess the good thing about Pat and Mark is Mark can't get her pregnant. She's not after his money she's just wanting companionship I think. And his mother I'm sure is not happy she feels like an old lady is taking advantage of her special needs son. But really he has someone to take care of him to show him things to make sure he eats and bathes and all of that good stuff she's taking care of Mark. So Mark's mom can relax I know it's easier said than done. I have never liked a single girlfriend that my son has had. And that's just because with his cognitive disabilities he just doesn't know any better thats all. So I try to stay out of the way when it comes to his girlfriends but sometimes it's absolutely impossible and I have to speak up when they're just way way out there with their behavior or what they're saying I hope Mark and Pat Atlanta's last for a while I think it's good that they both have someone to keep them company and help each other. I don't think it's love I don't think Mark even knows what that means really. And after 8:00 marriages I don't think Pat does either but as long as they're not mean to each other or hurt each other then it's really not hurting anyone

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I absolutely agree. ❤

  • @itsashortshortworld7815
    @itsashortshortworld7815 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Ran to the comments so fast 💨 when I heard pats been married FUCKING 9 times goddamn 💀😳

  • @rubytuesday5412
    @rubytuesday5412 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    **SPOILER**
    I can't think of anything worse than popping that GIANT question
    in front of a load of people.
    I wonder how old this is and where are they now?

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Made in 2014

    • @chrisk7091
      @chrisk7091 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      But how creating and cute that was 🥹

  • @mandarue5104
    @mandarue5104 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    WTF!!! Pat has been married 8 times prior? If that isn't a red flag I don't know what is.

  • @SueP-D
    @SueP-D 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Okay but the gay couple is too sweet for words 🥹

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you 🤗 that's so nice of you to say... 🤗💖

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠​⁠@@chadshillAwww is that y’all? You guys are too lovely. 🥰. I hope your days are filled with love and laughter and from the bottom of my heart I genuinely wish you nothing but joy 🥰 🌈

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep, that's us! Almost 14 years together now and stronger than ever! 👍🏼🤗😍

  • @devbachu7072
    @devbachu7072 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    8 times my my something wrong with her

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She says she doesn’t remember all there names if they are as intelligent as number 9 I’m not surprised I would forget them scratch that I wouldn’t have married them in the first place but some people just can’t live themselves and therefore tend to take what they can get and as a result they end up with a lower intellectual specimen as these people need a mother not a partner and no one of there own age would take them on thank god they can’t procreate

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Her problem is she keeps getting married. It's ok to be single or just dating.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Some people just like weddings - just like some (for whatever bizarre reason) watch Christmas movie channels all year long!!

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@museonfilm8919 Yes, you and I are on the same wavelength! It's a funny old world...

    • @marilynalexander5446
      @marilynalexander5446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love the white wedding dress and the long viel, who is this old woman kidding,

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Yikes , “wont mind having children in the future just not with bob” 🤡😂😂😂😂

  • @urmelausdemeis4743
    @urmelausdemeis4743 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I think that truck driver is quite annoying....

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He loves himself, and says he has a great sense of humour.
      I beg to differ.

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Seems like he doesn't give a crap about his wife, looks bored af.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's thick as they come.

    • @lanigirl01
      @lanigirl01 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@katewolfspirit6722I agree.

  • @kristenglenn7026
    @kristenglenn7026 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kudos to all of these couples for living their lives the way they please-it is their life to live the way they please. They aren’t hurting anybody.

  • @Ife17
    @Ife17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That trucker couple were very suspect … their relationship definitely started when she was underage 🤮🤮🤮

  • @pripri3404
    @pripri3404 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    The Asian woman does look quite a bit younger than she is.

    • @hblock8361
      @hblock8361 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Asian genes 💪

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Asian women are usually taught at a young age to look after and cater to their husband but god she will have to have the patience of a saint to take him on this guy lives on cloud cuckoo land plus he’s so annoying

    • @PeaceSM1954
      @PeaceSM1954 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She’s beautiful!

    • @emmaphilo4049
      @emmaphilo4049 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She is very pretty :)

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She seriously picked a total freak, though! He is dumb, and beyond annoying.

  • @hilariecalijo4643
    @hilariecalijo4643 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ok I don’t need to see Bob naked. That said, Kelly looks close to his age. I think they actually were old souls together.🎉

    • @QueenAmethyst55
      @QueenAmethyst55 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not as bad as seeing that truck driver in the shower. 😬

  • @jerrimenard3092
    @jerrimenard3092 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am 52 and I have had age gap relationships that have gone both ways. Sometimes I am older by mire then 10 years. Other times they are older by more then ten. I am casually dating someone 20 years older then me, and we are having a lot of fun.

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Love the cattle trucking couple .think they are a great match and they both have an amazing sense of humor . Wish them many years of happiness and love .from the UK

    • @ANNtique
      @ANNtique 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      She’s 23 and said they’d been together 6 years but then she said she was 19 when they met 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Mohomonners10
      @Mohomonners10 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@ANNtiquerighhtttt, I think she knows how it would look if she said “I just turned 17” so she’s tried to blag it 😬

    • @marciareid2482
      @marciareid2482 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am not good in maths but I must be missing something. Six years ago she would be 17 ,,but you never know with these new generation things must have changed and I am too old to keep up

  • @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642
    @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Im laughing tears at the hubby teaching the wife to drive, whilst shes driving a SHOE n hitting every curb😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Deborah-rq9qt
    @Deborah-rq9qt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    That guy with the weird voices. That’ll get old fast..

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My grandpa once tried to teach my grandma how to drive. Let's just say that it was a short-lived effort.

  • @bubble8c492
    @bubble8c492 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for uploading yhis, i remember watxhing this documentary ages ago but couldnt find it when i searched. Happy to see someone archived it thank you!

  • @susanclaire901
    @susanclaire901 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Poor Mark is obviously mentally disabled SEVERELY. Who proposed to whom?

  • @thilde2337
    @thilde2337 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    If I am being honest I find the large age gaps creepy. It just feels very much like fetishism, and the couples are not always at the same level due to the age difference.

  • @rhondasworld9989
    @rhondasworld9989 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    So Mark needed another mother 😮

  • @karmaleenash2841
    @karmaleenash2841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages. As long as both are adults, then it is nobody’s business but theirs. Why do people think they have any business judging who someone loves? As my grandmother used to say, mind your own business and hush. ❤

  • @BobbieXxoo
    @BobbieXxoo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I don’t judge because that’s not my job but I do question Pat…. I wonder if Mark gets like a SSI check every month?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Either way, seems he's the one cooking and cleaning while she just watches.

    • @gingersmith2888
      @gingersmith2888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He definitely has mental problems. Maybe not even capable of making a legal commitment like a marriage. The other couples may be outside of the norm, but Pat and Mark being together is sick.

  • @AliM-tk4ez
    @AliM-tk4ez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Omggggg don't know which is worse...Bob's bum or the tatt on his head 🤣🤣 good luck to em I say. Not sure about Pat n Mark tho...9 times married n can't remember the previous 8 hubbies names 🤔

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what she’s saying we don’t know how many times she’s been married she’s probably lying .shes probably been married twice .shes a nutter .

  • @reginamushi6582
    @reginamushi6582 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mandem says the triple warmy... religion, race, age gap, you forgot you are gay mate...some society still have a problem with it!

  • @willsmith39
    @willsmith39 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I really liked yetwah ( spelling) and her "toy boy" as a couple until he did that non proposal proposal on her which was absolutely lousy.
    Asking someone to marry you out of the blue in front of their family and friends isn't a proposal at all it's emotional black mail. They can't say no without putting everyone involved through enormous embarrassment so it's about as far from a genuine gesture as I could imagine.
    Either he's really too thick to understanding that in which case she's best out of it or he absolutely saw that and that's why he did it - in which she's also best out of it.

  • @rozdoyle8872
    @rozdoyle8872 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Pat has a Saviour Complex , Resucing some one in very dangerous because one day the resentment on both sides kicks in big time and both parties are too exhausted to admit it and too broken to leave.

  • @avengernemesis7990
    @avengernemesis7990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    9 times married !
    Hey lady what didn't you learn after the 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 marriage...lol
    Nuts !
    Australia

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The truck driver couple is funny.

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Poor Bob and Kelly .they seem nice together. And Bob is thinking about her future . That's a really nice thing for him to do. He's thinking about her having babies and a family of her own. The saying if you love someone set them free comes to mind . He knows he's too old to have anymore kids with her . These are the things people don't think about when going into these relationships

  • @ionascumihaela
    @ionascumihaela 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Great documentary, i am happy for them❤. Age is just a number when it comes on love.The only limitations are the ones you set for yourself.

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Age isn't just a number, pedophiles use that excuse. Age gap love is appropriate when there are two consenting adults whose mental capacities and values align.

  • @joanclawford8964
    @joanclawford8964 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Richard & Immy seem a very happy nice couple ... 😊

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thankyou 🤗 that's very nice of you to say 👍🏼 happily, we're still together and even stronger after 13 happy years ☺️🤗💖

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Mark is a lot like my friends brother who is mentally not all the way up to his age … he was not born that way, blood was in his diaper mom rushed him to the hospital trusting that they was going to treat him accordingly, apparently they dehydrated the baby meaning not giving him fluids 3 days causing brain damage , parents sued the hospital and was granted a large sim but doesn’t even make up the damage that was done :( no amount can :( in any case he is now 44 and looks and talks exactly like mark but keoni had more “ fun side” to him meaning he laughed a lot a bit more playful but over all this guy reminds me a lot of him… ppl may think this woman is taking advantage, maybe she is in a way but honestly he wouldn’t be there with her if he didn’t want her.. he is an adult I would be lie hmmmm no if he was18 but 28 it’s whatever

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It seems like she is also a carer. So provided she is trustworthy (which she certainly appears to be) Mark would be benefitting.

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She has been married eight times before; LOL for her wearing a white dress on the wedding day

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If he is mentally disabled, his age doesn't matter. It should have been determined, if he is fit to make the decision to get married.

    • @samanthathompson9812
      @samanthathompson9812 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Quite a few people in these age gap videos seem intellectually challenged in some way.

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    We come to this earth at different times. We are ageless spirits, and it is only the body that ages. So if we meet someone of any age that we truly love, the body is not a consideration if both parties want whatever time they can have together. They know they both won't grow old together, and that the younger one may turn into a caregiver or leave if it gets to be too much. They know what can happen. So they are happy right now, and right now is all anyone has anyway. When we go back where we came from, time doesn't matter.

  • @Seekingimmortal
    @Seekingimmortal หลายเดือนก่อน

    True Love overcomes all barriers in age, caste, culture, tradition and language. Love from India❤

  • @claudiahamilton9884
    @claudiahamilton9884 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why is there this silly kindergarten music in the background throughout the entire film?? Is this about people being in love or do you just want to make them look silly? There is romantic music on every other commercial. Why not here? These couples deserve more respect for their bravery to stand up for each other, despite their age gap. Put the appropriate background music on. This is ridiculous

  • @Kwd123
    @Kwd123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ‘I’m 23, we’ve been together for 6 years… we met when I had just turned 19’. Umm… maths no make sense

    • @maryam7402
      @maryam7402 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂

  • @aliceschmid9697
    @aliceschmid9697 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Mark doesn't seem of normal intslligence.

    • @PoodleDoo212
      @PoodleDoo212 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      intelligence

    • @sp-1973
      @sp-1973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hmmmm.....eat your words sweetheart!!

    • @FamLawJ.D.
      @FamLawJ.D. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sp-1973awww! It’s just a typo.

    • @angelapietras1235
      @angelapietras1235 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FamLawJ.D. yes you are right and it happens often with most of us.😄

    • @sp-1973
      @sp-1973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FamLawJ.D. you clearly don't understand the irony here!

  • @kiranightlee7291
    @kiranightlee7291 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's not as significant as the age gaps here, but my husband is 13 years my senior and we just celebrated 5 years together. Hands down the best relationship I've ever been in. We met when I was 26 and he was 39. I would find and love him again no matter the age gap in any and every life time.

    • @maliabella
      @maliabella 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow! I have a similar story. We have a 12 age gap, I was 26 and he was 38 when we met. Happy to hear you guys are going strong! Us too ❤

    • @brandyw4285
      @brandyw4285 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same age gap between me and my husband. I've always been drawn to older men. The oldest age gap for me was 20yrs. It's funny because when I first went out with the guy 20yrs. Older than me he subtracted 10 yrs. 😅

  • @marilynvallance
    @marilynvallance 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    If Richard doesn’t lose some weight he won’t be around for much longer.

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well, guess what Marilyn? I did, once my steroid treatments had finished I easily managed to drop those extra kilos..
      Whilst we're into personal and not particularly pleasant comments, Marilyn, did you ever get around to the botox and fillers you were in need of? 💅🏼

  • @chynaajade
    @chynaajade 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When I was growing up my mother always told me to marry a man who was younger. She said that, because generally women live longer than men. I am not sure if I was influenced by her or not, but I have always liked younger men. I have noticed over the years, that alot of older men are grumpy. (not all, but alot of them are)

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly, on average, women live five years longer, if you want to avoid being a widow for years marry a younger man!!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @sadekHessen If you're not bothered by what either of us say, why bother to make your pointless statement? If you think being a widower of many years is something that appeals to you, good luck to you!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@charlottebruce979 but love is love
      No problem for women if she wants love

  • @moniinnola
    @moniinnola 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The cattle herding couple...that girl couldn't be more young and immature just based on her covnvo flow. He's old and severyly obese obvi taking advantage of that sitch. And hate to point this out but they are probably transporting cows for industrial farming and processing...this is a U.K. series but in the USA esp. up midwest north is where tons of industrial farms and plants are its effing terrible and gross, I've seen many on roadtrips tucked qlong back roads and esp. Near amish towns- so many documentaries on that too. Those poor cows were just probably scared being yelled at and shuttled into unfamiliar boxed in truck that isnt grass. Then having to stand up in that metal crammed for hours. Its a gross industry that I'll never supoort and what led me to be pescetarian😢

    • @StargazerLily82
      @StargazerLily82 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This got me all upset, too. She was clearly underage when they got together and those poor cows. You know they're all going to slaughter houses. Also how they hit them with the prods. I used to live in the Midwest and I would see those trucks all the time. They're so upsetting.

  • @Ife17
    @Ife17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    WHO THE HELL requested to see Bob in the shower ??!?? 😓😓😓

  • @NyanyiC
    @NyanyiC 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Bob and his shower. Lol

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I mean....who on earth scripted that? And why did he agree? 😳

    • @chesspunk489
      @chesspunk489 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It was so hot.

    • @cherylween4973
      @cherylween4973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He isn't bad for an old codger 😅

    • @sheilaboston7051
      @sheilaboston7051 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cherylween4973 He's got a better bum than many younger men!

  • @metalcatmom5891
    @metalcatmom5891 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    My spouse and I only have an 8 year age gap. I can certainly relate to having many reasons our relationship shouldn't work. It just does. Seventeen years in, and we have the happiest marriage of anyone I know.

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Eight years is not considered significant by any means.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me and my partner are 8 years apart, too, it's not really an age gap.

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      An age gap is like 12 to 15 years at least.

    • @Ife17
      @Ife17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don’t consider anything under 10 years as significant…

  • @sadekHessen
    @sadekHessen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love, respect, desire for affection, feelings, feelings from within...there is no difference in age, appearance, traditions, etc. I know that love is a blessing. I have seen many people in these successful love stories.. When I find love with a woman, I take care of her, I respect the privacy of life with her, I am jealous. Very much for her. What I mean is love is a blessing that I must take care of. Maybe one day I will find this quickly. Greetings to all of you from an Egyptian young man. I wish you peace, people in the world.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Rebecca_Bailey
    @Rebecca_Bailey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Pat has been married before….8 times
    8 TIMES?!?

  • @marijkeblake1256
    @marijkeblake1256 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Everyone should just do what makes them happy; who cares. Just because I don't understand it doesn't mean it's wrong!

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Richard and Immy are so cute!

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thankyou 🤗 that's really sweet of you to say 🤗💖

  • @Summerbaby_1987
    @Summerbaby_1987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well this is so amazing and so very special!!

  • @choosytvinitaly2506
    @choosytvinitaly2506 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    James and Yet Wa looks at d same age❤

  • @rosshempsall1985
    @rosshempsall1985 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My husband is 15yrs younger than me I had five children and we married in 1096. After being married for so many years we are Still very much in love,have 6 grandchildren and have never regretted our decision

    • @katiecheung7993
      @katiecheung7993 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Wow! No argument, you must have the longest marriage in man kind's history - nearly one whole millennium, so far! 😂😂

    • @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642
      @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Guy must have the patience of a saint else selective hearing. A millenia of nagging is quite a thing!😂😂😂😂

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642😂😂😂😂

  • @sp-1973
    @sp-1973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    That lovely indian man, can't spell his name.... but he's absolutely gorgeous and so handsome ❤❤❤

    • @immis8894
      @immis8894 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aww thank you. My partner Richard still thinks so too 😊

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can confirm that, up close, he's even better looking and has grown even more handsome over the few years since we made the programme 🤗💖

  • @caroline8733
    @caroline8733 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hahah I love the cattle lady!! Top banter

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      she is adorable- I hope she is doing well

  • @paulinebeckett8222
    @paulinebeckett8222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Pat Likes the taste of wedding cake😊

  • @rachaelmoran5205
    @rachaelmoran5205 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really like young Liz's accent and voice and how her hubby speaks about her.

  • @Summerbaby_1987
    @Summerbaby_1987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the ❤ you show him and her!

  • @jaderavenwolf6137
    @jaderavenwolf6137 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    there was 32 years difference in me and my husband together for 39 years bless hum , much missed

  • @KJ-gc8oq
    @KJ-gc8oq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Richard and Immi and Bob and Kelly all seem well balanced, comfortable and genuinely happy and in love ❤

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks 🤗 we certainly were back then and certainly still are after 13 years together 😍💖