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Bengi Opens Up About Mum's Murder When He Was 15 | First Dates Hotel

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ค. 2021
  • 24-year-old Essex man Bengi reveals how he's different to most Essex boys, and has a spiritual side. Could he have found his soulmate in his date Lara?
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ความคิดเห็น • 74

  • @l.jaynepritchard7294
    @l.jaynepritchard7294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    He’s so genuine this man, you can tell by his expression when he asked her about her dreams

  • @maxshepherd926
    @maxshepherd926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I know this guy in real life he’s this genuine too and this is 100% not a front, he’s story about his mother is horrifying.

    • @ZainabHabib
      @ZainabHabib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did they end up together? I hope so (as long as they're happy!)

    • @maxshepherd926
      @maxshepherd926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ZainabHabib not sure he went travelling for ages so never saw him.

  • @festiva93
    @festiva93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    So lovely that she made him comfortable enough to share that. Cute couple.

  • @Chezzgirl69
    @Chezzgirl69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    He’s got that cocky Essex swag, but he seems like a decent bloke. Hope they went on a second date.

  • @ilovemysweeties
    @ilovemysweeties 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    "when uve had something hurt you, you will use it to protect someone else" 😭😭😭 love it

  • @ttp436
    @ttp436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    She’s lovely too. Hope it works out for them

  • @ttp436
    @ttp436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Sad bout his mum and sad for him too. God bless him

  • @AviationTV
    @AviationTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Once you break the ice you tend to discover a true personality.

  • @Ariesmonique
    @Ariesmonique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The world needs more people like these people! ♡

  • @believeinyourself7511
    @believeinyourself7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I like this date. When she mentioned having a place to teach young people about horses. That is great. And he mentioned that he is not materialistic. Yay!!!! So sad about his Mother. God Bless Both of Them. Therapy is wonderful to help us all through tough times in our lives.

  • @ms.suzanna2511
    @ms.suzanna2511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    He fancies the pants off her - I love it!!!! Wishing you both the best of everything - together 😊

  • @vickyvuong268
    @vickyvuong268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Very lovely couple. I feel so sorry for Bengi about his loss, but very glad to see him channel his grief into such a meaningful purpose to serve others. She is also very lovely. Their shared desire to help others will make them wonderful and happy together.

  • @svlagonda7417
    @svlagonda7417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Top bloke. Top babe. I like both of them - they seem so genuine and down to earth.

  • @pawlakar
    @pawlakar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    His story of mom makes me think of my mom All the beautiful moments... And now just memories 😌💓💓💓💔💔💔

  • @noverdehuevos
    @noverdehuevos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm dying to see an update about these two!

    • @RayyBailey
      @RayyBailey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They’re not together and he’s single now

  • @levischuurmans9400
    @levischuurmans9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    They're both so lovely and genuine, rooting for them. 💜

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a terrible tragedy for this young man. I can't imagine how he feels, "like a part of his soul is missing," as he said. Still, not what one would normally talk about on a blind date. But she showed much empathy and understanding. They do seem to share values regarding giving back to the community/society. And they seem very much at ease in each other's company. So maybe a promising match?

  • @ceciliapuime4038
    @ceciliapuime4038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just wanna give that guy a hug. That most of been hard so go through that. 💔💔💔💔❤❤❤❤

  • @jessicarekker5106
    @jessicarekker5106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like this guy. He is so real. I hope they will work out. ❤️

  • @vidyanair77
    @vidyanair77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really felt for him.. Bengi.. hope he does well!!

  • @justbusiness4223
    @justbusiness4223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When she winked something grew inside of me

  • @craptap2029
    @craptap2029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    They’re both lovely. This was so sweet!

  • @denapattison6363
    @denapattison6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a pretty couple. They would have beautiful offspring. Hope they find happiness, even if not with each other

  • @tacticalgamer4520
    @tacticalgamer4520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    His date is beautiful and that’s sooo sad what happened to his mum he had a hard childhood life growing up I also have experienced a bad childhood life as well sadly 😢

  • @ikkeik3987
    @ikkeik3987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a great couple, she was so respectfull. His/your mother is watching, just like mine. And she would be so proud!! 🥺🙏💙 he is a good soul and want to do what is right. If you read this, all the best and love mate!

  • @manjumarwaha2196
    @manjumarwaha2196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aw he’s so nice I wish him all the best🥰

  • @halethewhale
    @halethewhale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bless this guy man.

  • @njh8277
    @njh8277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great first date topic

  • @MortazaProduction
    @MortazaProduction 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hope I find someone like that will make me feel comfortable

  • @christopherd597
    @christopherd597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a nice guy

  • @kayleighcarter8287
    @kayleighcarter8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He’s a lovely person and they are a good match

  • @tricialowe1090
    @tricialowe1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovely down to earth couple

  • @SuperMaz1986
    @SuperMaz1986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohh he reminds me of Jonathan Rhys Meyers.

  • @happydays5989
    @happydays5989 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it's great he wants to open up, but this should be saved for a later date.
    First dates should be light and upbeat, I always appreciate men opening up, but this is quite intense.
    Seems like a genuine guy, I hope they find love♥️

  • @AdisaKola
    @AdisaKola 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful couple. Did they end up together?

  • @darryljones8369
    @darryljones8369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, that went well.

  • @giggitycore1982
    @giggitycore1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful woman.

  • @snitty1996
    @snitty1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im in love

  • @iwakuraSanta
    @iwakuraSanta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    his mom was certainly beautiful ,my mum killed heself .when I was 13

    • @vantheman1238
      @vantheman1238 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry to hear that ❤

    • @iwakuraSanta
      @iwakuraSanta ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vantheman1238 it's a long time ago ,60 years ,takes about 30 years to get over it

    • @lightblue5559
      @lightblue5559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So very sorry for your loss 😔

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Did they wanna see each other again?

    • @RapidBlindfolds
      @RapidBlindfolds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yep :)

    • @jojobee42
      @jojobee42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RapidBlindfolds Yay! Thanks. :)

    • @katieg905
      @katieg905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RapidBlindfolds oh really unreal i loved how at ease they were with each other

  • @beatpirate8
    @beatpirate8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I’m crying

  • @johannatheone
    @johannatheone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both gorgeus

  • @montywormald7089
    @montywormald7089 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is Lara's last name anyone know

  • @fifi4326
    @fifi4326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful

  • @y4zmns879
    @y4zmns879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your a strong guy bles you made me upset

  • @evelynclare7827
    @evelynclare7827 ปีที่แล้ว

    Robbie Williams?

  • @lightshine2786
    @lightshine2786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beats thinking of evil of world like rulers and banksters

  • @artemi25
    @artemi25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    02:28

  • @mollywackrow8247
    @mollywackrow8247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She looks wasted 😄

  • @nevkrisjackson8065
    @nevkrisjackson8065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sad about his Mum. Asleep in death awaiting a resurrection back here on earth soon like my darling husband who died recently. Revelation 21.3+4

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Not the first topic of conversation I'd choose for a first date... any date.

    • @Braddicusfinch
      @Braddicusfinch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Massively disagree, coming from a family that has had it's own, but admittedly less, troubles, sometimes you worry people are going to judge you, so getting it out there and seeing the other person react in a considerate fashion feels like a load off the mind. Also, whilst this is a TV show, at the end of the day it's 2 people, she chose to let him tell her, nothing wrong with communication

    • @mimibehee1112
      @mimibehee1112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would like to know something like so I can leave 🤣

    • @OlpyColpy
      @OlpyColpy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah it’s not really first date craic is it

    • @Braddicusfinch
      @Braddicusfinch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@OlpyColpy Maybe not for yours, but for two people who are both interested in helping other people and appear to have a lot of chemistry, much of which appears to be predicated upon that, that may well be something they both feel fine talking about on a first date. Different strokes for different folks

    • @gemmarubino4463
      @gemmarubino4463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I wouldn't mind if someone were to tell me that on a first date. This must have shaped A LOT who he is now. And that's the person who I actually want to discover. I see that's hard to talk about... Yet. It's life. And you can move on to something else fun and lighter :)

  • @PMPblue07
    @PMPblue07 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The girl looks like my ex and it's messing with my mind. Mentally yelling “dont trust her!!” “ she's crazy!”

  • @user-oc7cz3ep6f
    @user-oc7cz3ep6f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ngl I use to love this show. But it’s become a sad depressing thing to watch. No dig on them it’s just not as fun and enjoyable anymore.

  • @kabirsardana1282
    @kabirsardana1282 ปีที่แล้ว

    you know what. people with this kind of hearts should meet each other. and not get ruined by the hoes and playboys out there. hoes and play boys should not be be allowed anywhere near men and women with such good hearts.
    im soo happy they found each other and I really hope this goes on long term.
    PS: any updates on how this is going??? are they together or not??

  • @user-uw6ji5hv6t
    @user-uw6ji5hv6t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Caus people with no money.. need to know all about horses.
    L@u