Date Opens Up On The Heartbreaking Reason She's Single | First Dates

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  • Hollie and Paul meet at the First Dates restaurant, with the pair from Portsmouth both looking to find love and someone to start a family with. Hollie tells him that it's her first ever date, but when she opens up on the tragic circumstances in which she has found herself single again, Paul is speechless...
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  • @daveclark3337
    @daveclark3337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    If something happened to me, and my partner had to move on, I’d rest easier knowing that she had met somebody like this guy who is genuine, nice and would look after her

    • @cheesball96
      @cheesball96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nice comment ❤️

    • @monicagaglione6365
      @monicagaglione6365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      How kind of you! Well done

    • @michaelfitzpatrick6264
      @michaelfitzpatrick6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hear hear. She acted with total respect and dignity and deserves a wonderful future

    • @daveclark3337
      @daveclark3337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @The mysterious Miss X he’s my brother

    • @michaelfitzpatrick6264
      @michaelfitzpatrick6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, do you not think the program researchers interview and research the participants?? Remember Jeremy Kyle ?? If you think there was any chance what she said was questionable it would never be aired. These programs have lawyers going through everything to make sure the show can not be sued. I would suspect on this show with this topic the family of her partner were consulted pre airing etc… as the uproar if they then rebuked her statement would have serious consequences.

  • @margkropf5541
    @margkropf5541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    These two are genuine. So many phonies. This was indeed a breath of fresh air.

  • @mattneillninasmom
    @mattneillninasmom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    After an 11 year relationship it must of course, feel like a "first date". Life goes on, and she deserves to live it to the fullest. Good luck to them both.

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But its not her first date - kind of misleading.

  • @ebl36
    @ebl36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    That bartender is hilarious! He and Fred are very good at calming people down!

  • @Cal222
    @Cal222 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    What a lovely couple. I think he is exactly what her family needs. ❤

  • @junecarr1883
    @junecarr1883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    They both seems really nice . I hope they find their happy ever after !!

  • @rarity2006
    @rarity2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    That was heartwarming and beautiful to witness. Seems like they are ment for each other

  • @Matt-cz6ti
    @Matt-cz6ti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She’s so pretty and comes across as such a lovely person. I really hope she found/finds lasting happiness

  • @Justaperson630
    @Justaperson630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I can only hope he would love so much to see her happy and with a man that treats her well. It almost felt like she felt the need to defend her choice to move on, but I hope that’s what everyone wants for her. They can honor his memory together.

  • @martinengelbrecht5384
    @martinengelbrecht5384 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Delightful, so many people are innocent and pure when it comes to dating.

  • @kait7144
    @kait7144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Oh I hope they are compatible…they seem very compatible but if not I hope they both find happiness and love because they are just sweethearts

  • @armonpajouheshnia4837
    @armonpajouheshnia4837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Caring, Kind, genuine woman. She has a lovely smile and a decent man, with heart, morals, respect and principles.
    Lovely to watch. Good luck to their happiness.

  • @Leoviliti1
    @Leoviliti1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is probably one of the best I've watched ..they are ideally suited and I hope their relationship will flourish long into the future 💐
    Can almost picture their children right now! 😊

  • @kareymartin
    @kareymartin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Two sweet people, i wish them both the best ❤

  • @simonacland9028
    @simonacland9028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Imagine being the poor fiancee that had the accident knowing it's all gone and not being able to say it's ok. I hope he has a peaceful remainder x

  • @CactuarKnight
    @CactuarKnight ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She's gorgeous and he's a nice guy.
    You never know if they'll hit it off, but at least he give's us nice guys hope lol

  • @cathyaustin3219
    @cathyaustin3219 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I hope they hit it off permanently. They make a perfect couple 💕

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I met a 37 year old woman who said she had just started a relationship and it was her first real boyfriend. After some further probing she told me she had hooked up with 44 guys before the boyfriend.

  • @queenbee7074
    @queenbee7074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’d love to know if they got settled together as such people who r so down to earth and play no games r so hard to find im genuinely happy for them

  • @PHILDEBEAST
    @PHILDEBEAST 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    They seem like 2 very nice people

  • @lesleecharles9803
    @lesleecharles9803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    These two melt my heart...

  • @vidyanair77
    @vidyanair77 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First Dates should start a matrimony agency! They really find cute matches!!

  • @amethystfeathers7324
    @amethystfeathers7324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Feel good about these 2 -they're so sweet ❤️

  • @milanomaticbydjcat5951
    @milanomaticbydjcat5951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Lovely girl!! I have been in a similar situation. You have to put yourself first. Xxxxx

  • @danielsark4118
    @danielsark4118 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "would you like to see each other again?"
    *all youtubers glare expectantly*

  • @cassandratarotspells369
    @cassandratarotspells369 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gosh… how heartbreaking.. bless her. I’m sure that she feels so many emotions about moving on.. bless them both 😢

  • @denapattison6363
    @denapattison6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    OMG I want to follow this wholesome couple. What a delight!

  • @TheMissaysia
    @TheMissaysia ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They're both so lovely and seem perfect for each other.

  • @jenniferwilliams1999
    @jenniferwilliams1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Two beautiful people. I wish them both the best!.Loves makes everything possible. Beautiful ending I love this ending for both of them! 🙏😇💖🇨🇦

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They were definitely a match! 2 very nice people. I wish them the best!

  • @daigab.8645
    @daigab.8645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They were soo beautiful people. Made me she'd a tear. Happiness for them both and more 💕

  • @handoromper7987
    @handoromper7987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    How can this be your first date when you’ve already been engaged ?? ?
    Women seem to like saying this is my first date even tho they’ve been on many dates and also like this, even engaged.
    Strange.

    • @SongbirdCollageArts
      @SongbirdCollageArts ปีที่แล้ว +18

      If you consider their age and how long they were together, they were likely mates in high school and started "dating" at like 17, hanging out in groups or going to parties. Having a date late in your relationship is a lot different than going on a first date with someone new.

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes its ridiculous, but the men they have on too its the same, single for 14 years and then he says 3 children and divorced. Im 40 and been alone almost all of my life , only kissed a few men . I wouldnt apply for these shows though but find it entertaining to watch.

  • @kennethyoung141
    @kennethyoung141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is so amazing all around and so beautiful

  • @phoebeevans1436
    @phoebeevans1436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is my brother they are talking about. Everyone saying shes a good person when she left him she took his money,sold most of his belongings.she’s saying she will always be there and support him but hasn’t ask how he is since and blocked all of us

    • @yogalyfe
      @yogalyfe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm sorry about your brother. I obviously don't know all the information but if she was with him for 11 years that's longer than most marriages.

    • @phoebeevans1436
      @phoebeevans1436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yogalyfe I know but they wasn’t actually married , they were engaged and the way she went about the situation was bad , 11years must not of meant anything to her if she could leave him after the accident so quickly .

    • @amandabuffery5749
      @amandabuffery5749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@phoebeevans1436 how sad for your brother I hope he finds strength and support In other people xx

    • @kabirsardana1282
      @kabirsardana1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so sorry to hear about your brother. a lot of women play act for the camera but are completely different in real life. do not worry. she will get hers in due time.

    • @md61211
      @md61211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      5:14
      "He can't tell me ..."
      "... having to make this decision for the two of us ..."
      I found that interesting bc she's really making the decision for herself.

  • @menectus8959
    @menectus8959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Both such lovely people 🥰

  • @semvlasveld8799
    @semvlasveld8799 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does anyone have an update? First I thought see looked a little older, then I heard her tell her story and I feel like she has been crying, realised how beautiful she really is. Hope they are doing ok...

    • @Mabbah066
      @Mabbah066 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sadly she left him for a singer in a heavy metal band :(. She´s touring with the band as we speak and works as a backround dancer. I wish them both good luck in the future. Forgot to mention that he quit his job and works as a underwear model in Milano

    • @tomsnow6327
      @tomsnow6327 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smashed that night unfortunately no longer together. Paul has perused his dream of becoming a football manager and holly has got back with her ex

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tomsnow6327 and @Mabbah066, LOVED these! Want more from the both of you. Maybe you should team up.

  • @kathyverrelli5170
    @kathyverrelli5170 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    They felt "joined at the hip" from date #1. Comfortable together.

  • @Jac-Jay
    @Jac-Jay ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wouldn't he be wondering that if anything happened to him she'd do another runner?

    • @Sonnymonster
      @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My thoughts exactly🙄

  • @lovelyskull3483
    @lovelyskull3483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love these two beautiful people.

  • @dawnsweeney7969
    @dawnsweeney7969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aww they are lovely together 🥰🥰

  • @MelliaBoomBot
    @MelliaBoomBot 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your watching 2 people fall in love before your eyes.something usually private..feel rather honoured.❤

  • @wge621
    @wge621 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They're both gems

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit47 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor girl, I can relate. Starting over after such huge loss is so hard, at least it was for me. I lost everything twice.

  • @cheesball96
    @cheesball96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing human beings ❤️

  • @jonirnmomba4130
    @jonirnmomba4130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She resembles Blake Lively a bit.

  • @heartpursuer
    @heartpursuer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really wish more guys would step up and declare themselves at the end -- instead of looking tentatively at their dates for guidance, permission, whatever. "Yes, I'd love to have a second date." If she says no, then an honest "oh, I'm disappointed" will leave you with your dignity and her with a sense of affirmation.

  • @user-iu2ez4bo7p
    @user-iu2ez4bo7p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are right for each other.

  • @johnnyserdon9694
    @johnnyserdon9694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ah so sweet here's to the future

  • @P-CROZIER
    @P-CROZIER 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very sweet people and really Lovely to see, Hope they work out 🥂🍷🍷

  • @rogerbixley6911
    @rogerbixley6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is mega beautiful

  • @karissakline6765
    @karissakline6765 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I married the bad boy, and divorced just as quickly. Currently married to a nice guy and can safely say, ladies bad boys are for the birds!

    • @silverdale3207
      @silverdale3207 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Trouble is most of us nice guys get sick of waiting while the girls play with the bad boys and have decided to go our own way. Always makes me laugh when I hear "where are all the good men". There's plenty they just chose not to date.

  • @wayyanling
    @wayyanling ปีที่แล้ว

    on first date People always say about sad story to gain some....
    every body hurts sometimes but dont show sad story

  • @ppumpkin3282
    @ppumpkin3282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very weird it would be like a triangle relationship.

  • @Thomas-eu6fj
    @Thomas-eu6fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OMG ! Holly is a stunning beauty 🌞

  • @julesnorton2138
    @julesnorton2138 ปีที่แล้ว

    aww Holly......that decision must've been so hard 💔🤗

  • @featherbabes
    @featherbabes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE the staff. They are a classy bunch.

  • @feingetarntesfischfilet4841
    @feingetarntesfischfilet4841 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope they lived happily ever after. ✨ God bless ✨

  • @j9lorna
    @j9lorna ปีที่แล้ว

    He's a slightly younger version of myself. I'm even a telecomms engineer. But on the other side, I have also lost someone irreplaceable with a brain injury. Mix them both together and that is me.

  • @bowlchamps37
    @bowlchamps37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How brilliant (you never have dated one before).

  • @garyyyyyyy7
    @garyyyyyyy7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro was a nervous wreck and still went in for the kiss at end ,legend

  • @creativitycell
    @creativitycell ปีที่แล้ว

    A compliment would be nice mate! She's got lovely eyes! Tell her! 👍

  • @bobbyhanna1220
    @bobbyhanna1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's not ready

  • @wynnleven3984
    @wynnleven3984 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When a woman dates a man younger she’s called a cougar. Why did she put herself down ? I hate the word cougar . Men are not put down when they date much younger women . I hope this couple find happiness ❤

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cougar is not an insult. Relax.

    • @wynnleven3984
      @wynnleven3984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you speak of 4 legged cougars ?

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wynnleven3984 1,2,3, and 4 legged kinds. Men love all beautiful, fun loving women.

  • @PiperTMTotalWar
    @PiperTMTotalWar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hope her all the best in the future.

  • @veckym9805
    @veckym9805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry for your lost , but you’re still young pretty lady I think when you have chance to enjoying life why not .🌹🌹🌹

  • @jiannelegere8320
    @jiannelegere8320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfect for each other.

    • @md61211
      @md61211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he needs to watch his back

  • @mo1976ney
    @mo1976ney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are they still together? They seemed to match really well.

  • @missyelious
    @missyelious 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does anybody have an update on this couple?❤

  • @michaelmcginn5275
    @michaelmcginn5275 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did they settle together l wonder lovely pair shes beautiful went through very trying times with her prevous parrner

  • @chorton53
    @chorton53 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a nice looking couple.

  • @laurabier8708
    @laurabier8708 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a lovely couple 💑

  • @joyceparrotta3432
    @joyceparrotta3432 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful date ❤️👏🙏🏻

  • @patrickbump5955
    @patrickbump5955 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wholesome

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's depressing.

  • @nashe1462
    @nashe1462 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does anyone know how it worked out?

  • @dodgyyoutuber9560
    @dodgyyoutuber9560 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly found the guy a little sus cos of all the nice guy talk. “Most girls like a bad boy but I’m hoping there’s a girl out there who likes a nice guy.” “I’m not an alpha male I’m so family orientated.”

  • @conandis5542
    @conandis5542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has beautiful eyes 👀

  • @hmildred_
    @hmildred_ ปีที่แล้ว

    he’s my footy manager brev

  • @showmevids1984
    @showmevids1984 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He looks like jack Dee!

    • @Sonnymonster
      @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just what I was going to say👍🏻

  • @sweetspicy7880
    @sweetspicy7880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She look 17 ☺️

  • @2seels477
    @2seels477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww theyre cute xx

  • @stanbalo
    @stanbalo ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy is handsome!

  • @martinfitzpatrick1551
    @martinfitzpatrick1551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well if women dont like good guys they are welcome to go out with the same guys they always do that wont treat them as well as the good guy. They willl say they can never find a decent man and then go straight back to the same type of guys.

    • @Sonnymonster
      @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My daughter in a nutshell🙄

  • @knownasxristako3321
    @knownasxristako3321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bravo!

  • @Sonnymonster
    @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wonder if these comments would be so supportive if a man had made the same decision as her🧐

  • @MT-ll1zy
    @MT-ll1zy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet guy

  • @charlieweiss8753
    @charlieweiss8753 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ich würde platzen vor Nervosität!
    Ich bin geschieden und dennoch bin ich bei Dates nervös 🙈

  • @davidwussah4312
    @davidwussah4312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These 2 should just marry already 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jonirnmomba4130
    @jonirnmomba4130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Does this mean she never dated her first love?

    • @1969Kismet
      @1969Kismet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      There are plenty of ways to meet people. He might have been a friend before they became partners.

  • @D5DRIFT
    @D5DRIFT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't fully understand. Did she not want to stay and look after her partner? In sickness and in health. Or did she just think about what she wants.

    • @Sonnymonster
      @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pretty much what my wife just said. You couldn’t drag either of us away from each other in a circumstance such as this woman’s🙄

  • @jennistone364
    @jennistone364 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did they get together??

  • @J0nny61
    @J0nny61 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When did Jack Dee have this date?

  • @maryanneborders9602
    @maryanneborders9602 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting how the word "homely" means something totally different in American English ! 😜

  • @carolwood9270
    @carolwood9270 ปีที่แล้ว

    They look alike….

  • @bambi274
    @bambi274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After 2 weeks of the love of her life having an life changing accident. She went on dating? Wow

    • @Mabbah066
      @Mabbah066 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @jojo Aaah, i heard 2 hours.. Thanks for clearing that out

    • @jasminaj3682
      @jasminaj3682 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was 2 years ago

    • @Sonnymonster
      @Sonnymonster 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was 2 years but your point is valid. If you love someone you stay with them through thick and thin🙄

  • @creativitycell
    @creativitycell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being nice is a good thing, being awkward and boring is not, even for Holly! If he snags her, he's hit the bloody jackpot and lottery in one for a bloke like him! 🤣🤣

  • @giafach
    @giafach 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I could overlook the drama with her fiancé who became disabled but as soon as she let out that cackle oops I’m outta there

  • @MonstaMunch101
    @MonstaMunch101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "We were going to get married but I wasn't interested in the till death do us part bit" - mmmk.

  • @philskype101
    @philskype101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice people.

  • @growlerfrown487
    @growlerfrown487 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bit of a cougar...😂