ไม่สามารถเล่นวิดีโอนี้
ขออภัยในความไม่สะดวก

Forced To Live In a Shed as a Child - Date's Heartbreaking Story | First Dates

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 มิ.ย. 2018
  • He had his bedroom moved to the shed.
    Watch the episode on All 4: goo.gl/trNp5b

ความคิดเห็น • 595

  • @Channel4Entertainment
    @Channel4Entertainment  6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Watch the episode on All 4: goo.gl/ZwgFJh

    • @sjg2
      @sjg2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      but what episode is this? that is the real question.

    • @sjg2
      @sjg2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hey me from the past, it is season 10 Episode 9

    • @rhythmisadancer8394
      @rhythmisadancer8394 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sjg2 Nice one mate 😊

    • @iancannon2825
      @iancannon2825 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joana C Me too!☹ I'm in Australia!🇦🇺How's about you?🙄

    • @iancannon2825
      @iancannon2825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Channel 4 Hey Channel 4! You guys need to get your shit together!🤨 Here in Oz🇦🇺,we can't download your app or watch any of your episodes!😡....☹

  • @jessicab4751
    @jessicab4751 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1703

    Awe, bless him. He deserves a great life.

    • @erica5624
      @erica5624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ben grey wtf is wrong with you?

    • @adamwest2688lea
      @adamwest2688lea 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ben grey that’s a bit cold. I mean do you just dabble in talking bullshit or is it a full time thing?

    • @GBAPCLAN
      @GBAPCLAN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ben grey is getting into heated debates on TH-cam about masculinity alpha? He's confident enough to go on national television and open up about himself.

    • @mandyschmidt7164
      @mandyschmidt7164 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ben grey ironic that you, a beta male, are telling others they need to be alpha. He’s more of a man than you are. Also, please get an education. Your syntax, diction, grammar and just overall literacy is awful. Go ahead, reply to me and get butthurt. It only proves my point, so go for it🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @adamwest2688lea
      @adamwest2688lea 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ben Grey, you have proven my point. Your comments and attitude do not sound manly of alpha but instead childish and attention seeking. Mandy is proof that she is not impressed from your attitude and has not fallen for you. I would also suggest you watch the clip again as the woman seems interested in him. It takes a lot of strength and character to go through what that person has gone through growing up and takes even more strength to tell someone.

  • @ibrarmfaiz
    @ibrarmfaiz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2330

    Want to know the saddest part guys ? She liked him and found him really interesting so wanted another date. He REALLY liked her but didn't want another date because he felt that it would be a few dates and that he wouldn't ultimately make her happy for life so she still needs to find her soulmate......wtf how like genuine can someone be

    • @StonerAardvark
      @StonerAardvark 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      fuck ;_;

    • @Gadfly333
      @Gadfly333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      or gay?

    • @stanbarkworth6198
      @stanbarkworth6198 6 ปีที่แล้ว +469

      Ibrar Faiz because he was neglected as a young man. When people are abandoned/neglected and seen as the least favourite by their parents they think it's their fault and push people away later in life...

    • @bloodsling
      @bloodsling 6 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      His folks putting him in a shed for 5 years did a number on him,his thought is if even his folks can cast him aside then why would a woman ever love him.

    • @mzaphod64
      @mzaphod64 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Stan Barkworth
      That's sad.
      How do you counter that?

  • @saltycycling
    @saltycycling 6 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    I've always said - if a child REALLY loves school there must be something bad going on in the house...

    • @LoveYou-ol3dt
      @LoveYou-ol3dt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Damn I loved school lol...😕

    • @EIsabella1
      @EIsabella1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True that

    • @Karlijn2
      @Karlijn2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or in the shed.

    • @rahbid121
      @rahbid121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had an abusive upbringing, but I hated school.

    • @natalala1803
      @natalala1803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dokladnie!

  • @MartinsGarage97
    @MartinsGarage97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1381

    I bet he's a great guy.

    • @bengrey4856
      @bengrey4856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      he is not going to get women acting soft and crying about childhood he is putting himself in friend zone right away

    • @katherinepettit6585
      @katherinepettit6585 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's so cute and sweet sooooo dateable! 😍💓

    • @bengrey4856
      @bengrey4856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yah you will get all the resources you can from him because he will give them too you then when the time comes in your cycle you go out and screw the alpha male who does not give a fk

    • @katherinepettit6585
      @katherinepettit6585 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He seems like boyfriend material not promiscuous 😍💓 so calm and cuddly haha

    • @bengrey4856
      @bengrey4856 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      he would fold in a street confrontation against aggressive men , fail in a animal attack and not be prepared in a survival situation with knowledge and gear there is a reason you ladies go for us alphas is because we are the strongest to survive and protect not be crybaby material , we all would not be here if men were weak and cuddly

  • @HashCorp_
    @HashCorp_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The thing about being neglected as a kid is that you don't know how bad you have it because you don't know any better. It's only as you get older that you realize just how damaging it truly was..

  • @shoot4thstars
    @shoot4thstars 5 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Some of the nicest people have the biggest issues. He has very low self-esteem and abandonment and trust issues. I think he can work through it. He has intelligence on his side and once he does he is the kind of person who would blossom knowing he is loved. I wish him luck. Never give up.

  • @viola7052
    @viola7052 6 ปีที่แล้ว +811

    His parents are terrible, they sound like Petunia and Vernon Dursley but a shed instead of a cupboard under the stairs

    • @viola7052
      @viola7052 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      kellyc612 Yes and she chose a man over her own son, so sad

    • @howey935
      @howey935 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@viola7052 it disgusting but shes not the first and definatly wont be the last to put a man before her kids. If my mother had a boyfriend and he suggested me or my brother had to live in a garden shed its him who would be in the shed but more than likely out the door with his bags. Im so glad and so lucky i have an amazing mother. She brought me and my brother up alone after we lost my dad when i was only 3 so I can only remember having a mother. Even before my dad died i hardly saw him as he was in the navy and spent 10 month a year at sea.

    • @ashleym8658
      @ashleym8658 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nenethegreat W i know, how can someone ckmpare a true life story to Harry Potter wtff

    • @ediejeanne1930
      @ediejeanne1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m maxes little sister, my mum is one of the most incredible women in my whole life, my real dad (maxes step dad) didn’t get along with max and my other sister, they were not abusive at all nor terrible

  • @clairefigiolini5856
    @clairefigiolini5856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    No wonder he loved school.. he felt part of something, sense of belonging!! Humans are made that way, so if you don't receive it from your parents for whatever reason you search elsewhere x

    • @chellephillips349
      @chellephillips349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so true.

    • @Redruby27
      @Redruby27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Claire Figiolini Yep I had this said about me as a young girl

    • @BarriosGroupie
      @BarriosGroupie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, that's why so many from broken homes fall into the prison system or right-wing nationalism because they find their sense of family there.

    • @Tombrosapien
      @Tombrosapien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Barrios Groupie Or gangs, or the army

    • @abz1ist
      @abz1ist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hauha most introverts still want to be part of something, just in small doses

  • @weknowwhatweare7600
    @weknowwhatweare7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This guy is so humble when he is talking about his upbringing he down plays everything

  • @esma2933
    @esma2933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    ‘I love school so much, its probably because of the attention’ that part broke me man😔😔 I really hope he gets the best life and sweetest wife ever💕💕..

  • @soundseeker63
    @soundseeker63 6 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    Well, I say shame on the stepfather for doing that to him, and equally shame on his mother for letting him do that to her son!
    He seems to have turned out really well considering what crappy parents he appears to have had. Respect for that!

    • @thisguy976
      @thisguy976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Vankruze negligence, poverty is never an excuse for neglect.

    • @thisguy976
      @thisguy976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Vankruze well you asked why he was left isolated and I replied with neglect as the answer to your question. They parents could have been poor but that's isn't a valid reason to neglect your child or in other terms it isn't an excuse.

    • @terrysmith295
      @terrysmith295 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did no one know this? The school his classmates

    • @terrysmith295
      @terrysmith295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think both parents should be arrested . What happens to the next kid

    • @rmz2232
      @rmz2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know nothing about went on. why do people feel the need to share their useless feelings on these things like they know everything. okay yeah his stepfather seemeed shitty but who is to say his mother enjoyed this? You never know what happens behind closed doors. I'm not feeling sorry for.his parents at all, no kid deserves that upbringing. But he never said as to why, as someone said before could have been because of the money, maybe it was abuse.... Who knows.... He had it difficult and he didn't deserve any of that.

  • @Jojohumf
    @Jojohumf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Damn he seems like such a down to earth guy, I hope he finds love. Wish him and her all the best. He might have been taken out of school but you can see his clear intelligence

    • @PunkyPrincessPop
      @PunkyPrincessPop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cetus he wasn’t taken out of school, he was taken out of his home.

  • @TheWilDOn31
    @TheWilDOn31 6 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Some ppl should never be parents. How can you do that to a child? Bless him, he's good looking, and seems so sweet.

    • @lilylily3230
      @lilylily3230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheWiLdOne Daniela There are two sides to every story. He could have cast himself out of his family home out of jealousy or fighting with his step dad. Some kids like the attention 🤷🏻‍♀️ we'll never know

    • @Lucyinthskyy
      @Lucyinthskyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lily Lily wtf are talking about. It’s still his mothers fault for picking a man over him. You’re probably one of those.

    • @peterbalac1915
      @peterbalac1915 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilylily3230 I pondered on what you said lily and somewhat agree, I've witnessed this ist hand with my freind and his son. The shed as his son called it was a summer house although it was built of timber it was very warm and cosy, basic amenities like having your own pad he had his drum kit playstation ect. Tha lad in question was a bit of a loner similar age to this kid at the time. He could have stayed in the house he chose not to, obviously there is more involved to my freinds story but basically you summed it up.

    • @emilyryan892
      @emilyryan892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lilylily3230 "cast himself out". He was 11 for God's sake. A CHILD. Whether it was attention seeking or not no child deserves to be neglected. Idiotic comment.

    • @shannondavidson683
      @shannondavidson683 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah but I would like to know if he communicated this to his mother at the time? I know my teenage daughter and I have had times where we made decisions together that she said and seemed to be perfectly ok with at the time. And then months later it came out that she was very upset about it (was sharing a room with my BF's daughter). I honestly didn't know she was all that time as we had had many conversations with her to make sure she felt absolutely comfortable and ok with whatever rooming situation was decided upon. Just saying. I was heartbroken to learn that she felt like it wasn't her room or home anymore as a result of something I thought she was good with. 🤷‍♀️

  • @helenlingard7790
    @helenlingard7790 6 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Hes so gorgeous, I want to give him a hug.. I hope they last..

    • @ffi1001
      @ffi1001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Helen Lingard he decided not to date her

    • @mikelitorous5570
      @mikelitorous5570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Helen Lingard tell Jesse to play better

  • @tinabaker8115
    @tinabaker8115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    What a lovely bloke..

  • @emilyslaton2100
    @emilyslaton2100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    My dad beat me up regularly and I constantly had to wear dark sunglasses to school to hide the black eyes. Different kind of child abuse but still just as terrible. I feel for him and I 100% relate to his comment that the abuse changed him for the rest of his life. It changed me.

    • @KingFrederik1309
      @KingFrederik1309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @Vankruze it's not that easy fucktard...

    • @petuniamuffins
      @petuniamuffins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Vankruze Yes, she’s the “dumbass” as opposed to the person trolling someone sharing a story of abuse. You must be well liked and not at all tedious to be around. Good job.

    • @lila8546
      @lila8546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Vankruze you’re disgusting.

    • @lila8546
      @lila8546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Emily Slaton I’m so sorry. I wish you happiness for the rest of your life. I hope you know you don’t deserve any of the abuse that happened to you

    • @ralphlyda4545
      @ralphlyda4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm a stranger, but it breaks my heart this happened to you! 100% well wishes and, and Godspeed on your life from here forward!

  • @IHACKER316
    @IHACKER316 6 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    What a great guy - Love him

  • @duvine3882
    @duvine3882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    So dreamy with bedroom eyes, inner & outer beauty of an individual; like a strong shining diamond made out off pure pressure.

  • @napriaa5175
    @napriaa5175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He's kind and funny, no one taught him that let alone anything hes just good. Even after being utterly neglected in every sense of the term he turned out good by the grace of God. I hope he gets the peace we all deserve, that he's never had. Sending love and strength to you from out in the world 💗.

  • @Cookieman524
    @Cookieman524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Max, if you are reading this I totally understand why u did that. I have done the same before. It's not good for us tho bro. I'm 31 soon and never had a gf because of fear of intimacy because of the emotional pain that I feel due to being abandoned as a kid. I get told I'm a great guy and get attention from girls but I have a problem. I have decided now to go to counselling to try sort it out. Please do the same mate. And also next time a girl likes u and u like her just stay with it as best u can man even if u have to take it really really sliwly. Be strong, I know it is painful, but it will get easier. The right girl will bewith u regardless. I am doing this now as my psychotherapist recommended I just 'stay with it'. I can only handle friendship for now tho as even a basic connection like this is something I never had. It's easier now. I set u that challenge man to 'stay with it'!

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mathew Cooke, waw my brother is 35, we r trying to help him to date too, i never realised the fact he was abandoned as a child might be the reason for this... Im speechless.

    • @ralphlyda4545
      @ralphlyda4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a lovely, heartfelt comment! Quite good advice, and absolute Godspeed to both of you chaps!

    • @hellovanite
      @hellovanite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I highly recommend you do some spiritual healing in order to let go of the past. Meditation is excellent for this but you must do it guided first.

    • @yasminwinwinkxD
      @yasminwinwinkxD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best wishes! You can do it! Xx

    • @MissCBwasadancer3
      @MissCBwasadancer3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very kind & brave of you to tell your story. My thoughts are with you. Reiki is wonderful for all kinds of pain. I wish you luck in your journey. ‘Love & light’💡

  • @blademaster9297
    @blademaster9297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He seems like a beautiful soul. Obviously still holding onto a lot of trauma from his childhood. I hope he finds happiness.

  • @katlondon9618
    @katlondon9618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Heartbreaking. We are told all the time as teachers how much school can mean to children. We are so aware of this but never quite know who the child is as it’s not obvious. Hope his life now is lovely.

  • @krystal498
    @krystal498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    God I pray he finds his soulmate. An lived the happiest life ever.

  • @opheliacloser6255
    @opheliacloser6255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I want to date him! He's adorable, pretty and I just want to sit down with him, talk about life and the world and hug him for what has happened. See his drawings, hear his poetry, just, like, spend time with him to find out more about his personality.

    • @rinkle396
      @rinkle396 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah so did she and he rejected her

  • @laurenbonsor2359
    @laurenbonsor2359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a sweet sweet guy. I never find myself interested in anyone and I shall stay this single until I find someone like him

  • @tasneemshhake
    @tasneemshhake 6 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Heart breaking 😢

    • @magaman5154
      @magaman5154 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately as lovely as a bloke he seems to be..he personifies the motto nice guys finish last

  • @keepXonXrockin
    @keepXonXrockin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wonder how his little sister feels about this now, looking back on it as an adult. Wonder if she realised that her parents were being horrible.

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What a lovely guy! And it has nothing to do with the shed - not saying this out of pity etc - he's just a really nice guy! And the best part is he doesn't even realize it himself.

  • @ralphlyda4545
    @ralphlyda4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Max, you are an absolutely lovely human being!!! Most people would have crippling hatred over the abuse you suffered, but you are philosophical about it, and have a wonderful personality!!! A few detractors are saying you're gay, but I don't believe that; it's just their feelings of inadequacy about themselves. In addition to being one of the loveliest personalities on the planet, you're extremely good-looking. You'll make a lovely husband for any human you choose, and any human would be extremely fortunate to have you as a friend!!! Absolute well wishes and Godspeed for your life!!!!!!!

  • @tommyftw4996
    @tommyftw4996 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    He seems like a great guy. Most people would break after going through what he's been through.

  • @scharika1
    @scharika1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awh his story actually hurts to listen too, he seems like such a genuine and loving gentleman. Would love to go on a date with him ❤️

  • @kingpuppet5881
    @kingpuppet5881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want to give him a big hug. It's nice to see that he is doing something creative and amazing with his life. You can't change your past but your future is very much in your control. They seemed really cute together.

  • @emerlytodd6486
    @emerlytodd6486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The sad thing is he’s going to keep pushing girls away in fear of rejection. I wish him all the best and hope he finds the one.

  • @ramtoon
    @ramtoon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Aww he is making me sob reminds me of my childhood

  • @Jac-Jay
    @Jac-Jay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shame on his "parents"....some people don't deserve children.

  • @sykosaiphy
    @sykosaiphy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Feel so sorry for him 🤕no one deserves that upbringing

  • @sebastianp3181
    @sebastianp3181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Wow dude, I lived in a shed too but I hated school.
    My fav size card has to be small enough to make a descent roach

    • @FeOfTheElement
      @FeOfTheElement 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sebastian P madman

    • @mush3787
      @mush3787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Quality

    • @justloc3908
      @justloc3908 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      loool

    • @anguskane8195
      @anguskane8195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A big piece of card is unlimited roach my dude

    • @kingjaack6332
      @kingjaack6332 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U killed me 😂

  • @charlisa24mimi
    @charlisa24mimi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I'm the biggest lesbian but i want him, he's so sweet

    • @duvine3882
      @duvine3882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks sister, more than sweet; naturally feminine without trying. Perhaps the studious isolation, the lashes, the smile, mannerisms, tone, level & inflection of voice, expressions, the perfect one for any who dislike & get turn off masculinity or machismo in others.

    • @BarriosGroupie
      @BarriosGroupie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He comes across as gay, so perhaps you're attracted to his femininity.

    • @1rewd133
      @1rewd133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How big, exactly?
      295, 300 ?

    • @keithhinchcliffe5629
      @keithhinchcliffe5629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BarriosGroupie - You gay people are so good at picking up on that; he didn't come across to me as gay at all; I missed it completely! Hat's off to ya Groupie Girl!

    • @lostinspace699
      @lostinspace699 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can have me ,,, Yes

  • @beckyfab4874
    @beckyfab4874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Horrible vile mother . I hope she is feeling it now ..
    No child should have to endure a life like that
    It breaks my heart everytime I hear about kids who are neglected abused .
    This has to stop
    My prays are for any child who is experience abuse . Reach out to someone or myself , organisation. You are not alone and your life does matter ...

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    *Different is good* Indeed man, indeed. A painful past can teach you a lot of lesson. And since you're there now, in front of that beautiful lady means you survived and learned from it. You are both adorable. I wish you the best. :)

  • @sineadcollins7594
    @sineadcollins7594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That poor man. His story is heartbreaking 💔 I do hope he finds happiness & his soulmate ❤️

  • @jaimeewitkowski9918
    @jaimeewitkowski9918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's such a genuinely kind soul, god love him. Just hearing that absolutely broke my ♥ heart. No child should be treated that way, I just want to hug him xx

  • @LittleLifeGuru
    @LittleLifeGuru 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a lovely human being. Love the way he thinks. Found him hilarious

  • @jojibot9193
    @jojibot9193 6 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    So is Tinder in the Binder yet?

    • @lisab9541
      @lisab9541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Did he come up with Bumble?

    • @RabbitTeaPot
      @RabbitTeaPot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Bumble! That’s what I was thinking...

    • @hollyrebekahblog7097
      @hollyrebekahblog7097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Witney Wolfe came up with Bumble.

    • @diamondhead5432101
      @diamondhead5432101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      His app is called, "The Shed".

    • @adam-uy6qg
      @adam-uy6qg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Think he made grinder

  • @lisagoff2033
    @lisagoff2033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An absolute gentleman and beautiful person. ❤️

  • @kiefywhy4342
    @kiefywhy4342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some people make the worst parents. How can they send a child to a shed. Shame shame shame on his mother for doing that. She should have been there to look after him not abuse him.

  • @DrDudelidge
    @DrDudelidge ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He turned out amazingly well for his experience. That’s the kinda stuff that creates dangerous individuals.

  • @Londongirl2000
    @Londongirl2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww bless him. He looks like such a nice man😭

  • @AH-mg3hj
    @AH-mg3hj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He deserves nothing but the best, what a sweet soul

  • @jus2cute09
    @jus2cute09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg he’s so sweet and a lot of people would turn out complete psychos from that abuse but he seems emotionally intelligent. I would totally marry him.

  • @dmballadon
    @dmballadon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wtf isn’t that illegal? Get that stepdad down the social work centre

  • @chrizzygoesoriginal
    @chrizzygoesoriginal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    That is so sad

  • @eggznbakey1
    @eggznbakey1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This broke my heart! Such a lovely guy, but his background has left him so vulnerable and scared of rejection. I hope he comes back. X

  • @mitkat68
    @mitkat68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bless him.
    How can parents be so cruel.
    I hope he finds love in its sinserest form

  • @mikajulius8148
    @mikajulius8148 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😢What a beautiful soul he has & still a sense of humour despite it all,bless.

  • @theadinesen7294
    @theadinesen7294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how happy he was about School. I envy him. For me all I wanted was to be alone. I’m not trying to sound like I’m all sad and need some attention, that was just how it was for me in the situation with my family. He seems like a very warmhearted person

  • @dreamer2260
    @dreamer2260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an intelligent, lovely guy. Really feel for him. I hope he finds someone. They were both completely lovely actually.

  • @jonathanwood8847
    @jonathanwood8847 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the sudden change of subject at the end

  • @Kajp-se9eq
    @Kajp-se9eq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg what a monster mother he has. He's so sweet we can see his character he deserves to be happy.

    • @ediejeanne1930
      @ediejeanne1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i am maxes little sister, my mum is NOT a monster she is one of the most loving people ever, max and mum love each other to pieces

  • @x4nd3r1n0
    @x4nd3r1n0 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Its going to put Tinder in the BINder"
    Me: *screams internally*

  • @rachelnikiforou4639
    @rachelnikiforou4639 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what a delightful angel he is

  • @JessicaHarmina
    @JessicaHarmina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every story makes you think of just how hard some ppl really have it.

  • @alexgawthrop1748
    @alexgawthrop1748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Where is this geezer? Let me be friends man.

  • @bojana27
    @bojana27 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😔 sending this boy good vibes he deserves the best in life, nobody can give you your childhood back or make it better, but you can have the best life ever I promise.

  • @evasummer5240
    @evasummer5240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some people shouldn't have children! Every child deserves to be loved.

  • @taliehughes4341
    @taliehughes4341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Breaks my heart 😢
    He’s turned into a great guy by the looks of it

  • @luciadewinterbottom3203
    @luciadewinterbottom3203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww the same. Grew up alone in an attic for 5 years so my mom couldn't hear me cry and then emotionally full on abused for the rest. I loved school.

    • @ralphlyda4545
      @ralphlyda4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% sympathy! So sorry this happened to you! Well wishes and Godspeed for your life from now forward!

  • @poppybee9709
    @poppybee9709 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a guy. The question he asks at the end. Much love to you in your life.

  • @jessmyzelf5912
    @jessmyzelf5912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly that sounds like child neglect you cant just let your kid live in a shed

  • @asiamahmood8230
    @asiamahmood8230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a lovely bloke. I wish him all the success in every part of life

  • @Bed8Biscuits
    @Bed8Biscuits 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where ever this man is, I hope and pray he is happy, sending warmest hugs god bless x

  • @georgielancaster1356
    @georgielancaster1356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is at least 4 years ago. Anyone heard of something trying to rival tinder?
    It's never been an interest to me. I wouldn't know.
    I actually would have quite liked to have a separate bedroom from the house. Not if I was really young and still afraid of ghosts, etc but I could disappear into my cubby house for half a day - or into the library - and I only came into for meals. I was quite happy to never see my father.
    If I had my dog, if I got my meals sent out, if I had access to a TV, I would be happy as a pig in mud.
    Main problem would be parents worrying about dodgy strangers maybe realising.
    The sad thing is this child felt punished and not wanted. To me, it would be wonderful!

  • @barbaraoconnor7038
    @barbaraoconnor7038 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor guy, I hope he and anyone who is neglected as a child is surrounded by love as they grow up xx

  • @connorlowe1302
    @connorlowe1302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're a hero mate. Keep on keeping on.

  • @samburns6405
    @samburns6405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’d love to see some of those poems and drawings I reckon there real powerful

  • @lily-may1056
    @lily-may1056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He’s so cute!!!

  • @JadeDarby
    @JadeDarby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I relate to his sense of humour so much. WHY IS IT IDENTICAL TO MINE?

  • @Sarah4466
    @Sarah4466 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh, give him to me and I will give him all the love he deserves ❤️

  • @lewislewis4811
    @lewislewis4811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely heart breaking I’m proud of u for talking about it

  • @AJ-2525
    @AJ-2525 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whenever I watch this show and see people talk about difficult things in their past, I always wonder if that's something people do on real first dates or if the show asks them to talk about these things.

  • @carollothian4583
    @carollothian4583 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I really like him

  • @apollospayne
    @apollospayne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the fact she finds humour in his awkward tendencies . I feel that guy will be fine on his own he seems to cope well .

  • @biggreen751
    @biggreen751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😭😭😭 bless him he deserves so much more

  • @Shinyflubba
    @Shinyflubba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This girl is crazy. She was trying to hide her smile as a reaction to his story

  • @michellechee7890
    @michellechee7890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think he will be an interesting friend to have. I used to draw and write poetry at that age, and my fav size is A5

  • @Hannah.hkp6
    @Hannah.hkp6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He has such a pure but damaged soul

  • @caitlin3362
    @caitlin3362 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bless his heart

  • @SuperSwoopdog
    @SuperSwoopdog 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I spent most of my time in the cupboard under the stairs not quite a garden shead but it turned into my little safe space

    • @ralphlyda4545
      @ralphlyda4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry this happened to you!! Absolute 100% well wishes and Godspeed on your life from here out!

  • @hayleymanson6971
    @hayleymanson6971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    heartbreaking that he was left alone in a shed 😢

  • @MostlyMeera
    @MostlyMeera 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Poor guy, what an awful mother to do that to her son

  • @13billy
    @13billy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    What's your favourite size of card

    • @DuncanEscNJ
      @DuncanEscNJ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      what does that even mean??

    • @sleygtc
      @sleygtc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      A3

    • @mthprfs
      @mthprfs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DuncanEscNJ Is he referring to an index card or post card, or does this mean something else in Britain?

    • @noelmcgovern3987
      @noelmcgovern3987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      A4 is a magnificent size. I do admire the A3 size though.

    • @mthprfs
      @mthprfs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noel McGovern Thank you. She knew what he meant!

  • @erricashowe2140
    @erricashowe2140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aw God Love him. The poor soul 😪 Such a lovely guy - I hope he finds love so much 💕

  • @edgroves2051
    @edgroves2051 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think I know where he lived. I bought my first house off a strange family that were told to move as they had their son in a shed so that the little sister could sleep in the house. It was a very odd sale as the woman had issues with her ex husband and the new husband was very strange, loads of problems with the solicitors contracts due to the circumstances. The boy in the shed would have been around 14-15 years old. The way he describes it is exactly like the shed I saw.

  • @Hoodoo123
    @Hoodoo123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I like him:)

  • @brienneoffriggintarth5510
    @brienneoffriggintarth5510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's such a wonderful person! I hope he finds love!

  • @bazthespaz95
    @bazthespaz95 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like the type of guy I'd like to be mates with. Max, you're an inspiration to be completely honest!

  • @saky83
    @saky83 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My man!! The way he holds a wine glass, like a child

    • @gavinreid5387
      @gavinreid5387 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Closing himself off. Lack of confidence.

  • @Sara-tl7hn
    @Sara-tl7hn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had home problems when I was younger so I absolutely loved school too. Where are all the school loving people 😭

  • @agoraphobicadam1171
    @agoraphobicadam1171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the way she listens to him attentively. He seems like a nice fellow But since his upbringing it looks like he is going to have trouble trusting anyone. He may have become accustomed to being alone because it's what he's use to and doesn't feel like he deserves anyone. Is it wrong that I just want to give the dude a hug? He's been through a rough patch.