The crazy thing is that beauty standards always come from what we don’t have. For instance, in North Korea, in which there is a scarcity of food, more body fat would mean a better standard of living. But in the US, where junk food is actually cheaper than healthy food (and due to the fact that exercise takes time and work), obesity can be a sign of poverty. A skinnier, fit body would be a sign of a higher standard of living. Edit: It would seem that I should acknowledge that North Korean "fashion" still favors slim women... however to the average North Korean those models still don't represent health and prosperity. And anyways, who, in NK, has time to look at models? Not the average citizens. Only the ruling elite, and - more importantly - foreign visitors.
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 ...I've seen North Korean vids many times....Looks pretty synonymous with her explanations ! Kinda hard to narrow down a 25 Million plus population !...You're just trolling 👎
@@matas253 It's more like many are working 2 - 3 parttime jobs, and their jobs are more likely to be manual labor than desk jobs.....they come home and are to exhausted to cook. Also, especially in big cities with high cost of living, many poor people can't afford ovens or microwaves, so they have to buy take-out or read-to-go food. Lack of education in nutrition and how to cook also plays a part.
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 Um, you are proving her point. She said everybody in NK is slim and underweight because of lack of food. A normal slim model (which is probably still underweight) IS considered heavy by NK standards because most people are starving there.
@Mr. & Mrs Smith To some extent that's true. However, in countries such as the US (and possibly others), there are unlimited opportunities for people having wealth but little class or discretion to advertise both.
True, as a South american, I used to think skinny women weren't very pretty, until I lived in asia for a while. Now I find petite thin women very attractive
“My ideal body type was Kim Jong-Un. Omg, so embarrassing!” Nothing embarrassing about not wanting to starve. Edit: this is both the most popular comment I've ever written and the one that has received the dumbest replies. Seriously, how is it even possible to misinterpret what I've written as a defence of obesity?
You might look at NK media before believing everything in this video. They showcase slim people with hair. They wouldn't do that if they thought fat bald is attractive.
Chevy SparkEV she said they like fat bald people because it's a sign of power. I guess women being attracted to power and money is quite universal and doesn't really have anything to do with beauty standards.
Well, most Black men consider ladies with big buttocks to be sexy and attractive. But I don't like large buttocks at all. I find ladies with small round buttocks to be very sexy. Different strokes for different folks-- Sylvester "Sly" Stone.
@@stacybaldwin3346 I concur. Not only do I see many of these amorphous beings slowly killing electric scooters at the grocery stores, but have seen many at fairs/festivals/etc sitting around with legs spread to make room for a mass of fat/skin/cellulite hanging down through the parted legs. It's amazing the shapes a human being can take. Those seen on _My 600 Pound Life_ are not too unrealistic!
Well, I am... :) Kim Jong Un is most likely not a nice guy, but his wife is looking gorgeous. She's exactly my type of woman. I'm talking about how she looks, of course. More important is of course the personality, the good look wears off during the years, the character stays. I would never choose a partner by her look.
My father once made the observation that many people in the US probably buy sport utility vehicles simply because they are too fat to fit inside an ordinary car.
I think it’s so beautiful how open minded you’ve become. You came from this oppressive culture where you were taught everything had to be ONE way, and you have so much appreciation for diversity despite that. You’ve overcome so much.
Do you mean your perception of beauty? You're right. Initial attraction can be retracted once they open their mouths 😅. It's all subjective and relative though.
@@kitsulu8576 I guess I realize I was pretty naïve when I was younger thinking simply outward beauty is going to make me happy. It’s much more than that.
@@hollowrift no he couldn't do that, he'd probably tell others she's a criminal or something, I think he does know about her though as well as other defectors who make videos
I am told the same principle applied in medieval Europe: food was not easily at hand the same way it is today; as a consequence, being well-padded was a (relative) sign of health and thus attractive.
We Always want whatever we are not! If you have a loving, predictable, respectful marriage, you want someone to disrespect you and someone you can't trust because it's "exciting"!!
True but it also depends on what government message is broadcasted. Being fluffy used to be very sexy in America until the Great Depression & war times. The government & fashion industry made being skinny popular to help relieve some of the need for food.
I disagree. Being surrounded by food and denying it to stay thin is sexy HERE in the U.S. How many starving North Koreans would deny themselves if they were EVER surrounded by food?
salvation 777 while I have heard that my whole life, science has proven there are metrics to beauty. But I do agree, everyone has their own definition to beauty. This is why I did not use the word “Beautiful” in my original comment and instead describe her as “very attractive”. However after seeing more of her videos I would now comfortably use the word “beautiful” as a descriptor.
@@Todd66 beauty is in the eye of the beholder I tell you why somebody from the United States to go to China he's going to think every Chinese girl he sees is beautiful because it's new to him and it's unique stay there a couple years and you get used to it and you will no longer find them all of them attractive
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Well sure, but nowadays there's not a single beauty standard in the west, specially for women. You have skinny clothes models, hourglass women , fit women. And they are all considered beautiful.
"Not everyone can be the same size as Kim Jung Un" This woman is straight savage EDIT: Apparently some of you are not smart enough to know savage is a SLANG TERM for something that is funny and ruthlessly on point. Christ you people assume the worst of a stranger. How hard is a google search???
"I thought they were so ugly" hahaha I have never imagined someone's first impression would be like this. This really proves society shapes our mindsets and process thinking.
I'm FROM USA and I find victoria secret models ugly. They look too thin, like they're dying. They look unhealthy. I like skinny, but they take it way too far. Their faces tend to look over modified too. Fake. Disgusting all around. I think average weight or being fit is the best appearance.
@@wardogthemasterofwar I do agree that some models take it to far but damn lol don't shame on them that hard. I'm a teen model and I'm in the industry, I have a normal body, I have some stretch marks to but a lot of modeling agencies want them to be so skinny and its crazy
Lthough that has nothing to do with looks...we are talking specificly about looks here. I am from Finland, I think Swedish women are the most beautiful, those of them who are slim and beautiful I mean.
This makes a lot of sense... psychologically, what we actually see as "attractive" or "beautiful", is what we subconsciously associate with wealth/security....it takes Money to look like a movie star...it takes Money and free time (again usually requires money) to stay fit and eat healthy...thus our "beauty standards"...some places it takes money to stay pale, some it takes money to tan...old paintings have Chubby ladies in them for the same reason she thought chubby was attractive, because those with wealth could afford to eat like that back then. We're attracted to what we subconsciously associate with wealth/safety/well-being....whatever that means in our society and circumstance.
I don't wanna be annoying, but i don't think the ladies were chubby at all, they look like normal women to me. Except for Rubens and his school of course.
@@gabitzakissy lol, I didn't say they All did...but a Lot of old paintings have chubby people and they even made their dresses to pad/poof the stomach and butt at one point, to look more "voluptuous". Wither some had "normal" (chubby can't be normal?) or "skinny" people is entirely beside my point... perhaps you're viewing my comments with some form of bias of your own. The point is: being what we (or even science) consider "over weight" was considered attractive and beautiful during Many points in history (and Still is in Many countries!)...for the Same psychological reasons.
"beauty" standards are a social construct highly based on what aspects indicate "wealth"...extra weight= food, tan= the ability to travel, nice hair and fit body,etc= money and time off (have to spare), a certain "chin shape" indicates money for modification, skin texture = money for skin products.... etc etc etc.
Last time I checked, the sun was free. So you don't need money for a tan which is why pale skin is desirable in the first place in places like North Korea.
I would be interested to know what Yeonmi thought when she first saw bodybuilders (since presumably If fat means weath to buy food then muscle would have a similar logic ). Also, thank you Yeonmi for sharing your story. I read your book a few years ago and was pleasantly surprised to see you pop up in my TH-cam recommentions :)
@Arturo Blanco communism isnt as bad as yall make it seem like. capitalism also has a lot more cons than you guys want to realise. you just have your eyes closed for it. how about the unfair wage distribution, between higher ups and people that work for them. you cannot tell me if capitalism was that great people would be underpaid.
Most Japanese women are acculturated to praise and prop up men, it is a lady-like virtue. I guess Japanese men expect it. I think of it as “damning with faint praise”.
which layer of skin? the subcutis provides cushion to organs and even some bone so since subcutis is skin and it right next to some bone.......beauty goes all the way to the bone.
This proves how beauty standards are an illusion. But I don't really mind, I'm considered pretty in my country if I lose weight, which means that if I lost weight I will achieve maximum prettiness. My face doesn't need work
@@anjelkazina2045 that is his way of power just like guys are only permitted to wear their hair in a few ways and Kim wears his totally different from everyone else, power again
Americans have all shades, shapes, sizes, all styles, etc. Most men that are real men appreciate a woman for whatever she dares to reveal, that is, personality, voice, shape, color of eyes, skin color, texture, etc. The only problem is immature men or women that never grew up and try to imitate mama suggestions, until they are independent. We have many cultures, religions, politics, educstions we can choose to appreciate and follow. Ms Yeohmi you are beautiful because Americans appreciate the beauty that choice of freedom you have choosen to live, and your story is that of a beautiful soul (no pun intented). We love women that are brave, gutsy, and achievers! Continue to enjoy your life in America and continue to speak of important thing you deem necessary. Your perspectives brings more richness and appreciation to the richness of American life despite the ignorant masses that can never appreciate their neighbor, and we learn from your culture as much as you learn from ours.
She's very attractive, both physically and personality-wise. I would have loved to have a girlfriend or wife like her (if I were a :"few" years younger LOL!).
Hearing her story has really made me rethink all the things I’ve took for granted and that I need to be more grateful for living in a country like this.
yes because of the cheapness and amount of cheap bad food, westerners are heavy and eat bad compared to asian countries. Here we consider being slim and skinny healthy since many of us are not. I think she knows already that she is good looking just by the way she dresses now. I just love people who get out of their own countries to experience other stuff and like it, not only those in oppressive countries, but any country. Americans who go to Europe and like the differences, those who come to america and like stuff, etc. Not every place has good things, but they are there. And there are many things we like about the east. Many westerners admire the asian/east educational system which is more rigid more like what american schools used to be. You have less freedoms in those schools, less activities, but better education. Some good, some bad.
Yes, it feels good to know she has a good husband and healthy family. She is a beautiful and intelligent woman, and after all she has been through, no one deserves a great family more than her
@Shimmy Shai Jesus, talk about making a mountain out of a mole hill. You're unnecessarily fabricating subtext just to have something to be angry at on not just this comment, but multiple. Grow up.
This is sad. She is talking about how much the people don't get much to eat. It the same way in the Philippines. If your fat you're seen as rich, but if you're skinny you're poor.
This is not that true tho? Yes most people are poor and dont get eat much (but ph is not as poor as n korea. North koreans eat mud and roots and filos arent that poor afaik) most filipinos find skinny attractive, fat shaming is popular. Guys who have big bellys are often referred to as heavy drinkers. Being fat won't make you look rich but rather greedy for food.
@@sandrachix7549 its more of skin tone. part of it is because the rich often stay in their homes because theres nothing they need to do outside, so their skin gets lighter or atleast stays the same shade. The people who need to work outside in the sun because of their status gets their skin darker. Also, the white man's burden and american colonization also played a part in it.
@@designstudio8013 she’s wearing…. Eyeshadow, mascara, lipstick, foundation, eyebrow pencil? At least. Probably eyeliner? Probably some concealer? Probably blush? What does makeup have to do with it anyways
I’m from Colombia and when I came to the U.S I was surprised by how people care way less about appearance than in my country. I hope the world becomes more open to uniqueness.
@@Isabelmarin1609 Honestly this entire channel just makes me more grateful to be living comfortably in Cambridge, UK. I didn't realise that about the country I was born in until you stated it. 😊 BTW I'm replying to this not the main post because it won't let me
Well ,Yeonmi for an older grandpa, I find women who are attractive inside first , with good character (a belief system.) And then pretty, and look like she may be nice to hold.,✌️
I love how this shows that beauty depends on the culture and time. I sometimes think about getting plastic surgery, but the fact standards change so often stops me. Its best to look and feel healthy and confident.
keep a fit body, be kind and sweet, and guys will melt before your eyes, and fall over to marry you...source me, a guy....players aside, guys are really simple to captivate, women omg they are soo picky and complex, you never know what to expect
Yes, you are extremely pretty, especially the picture on your book cover, which I will be buying next month. Really enjoying the insights you are delivering to us all. Thank you very much.
That's not embarrassing, honey. It's all you knew and were conditioned to know. That's actually very old world to see larger people are powerful, attractive, and wealthy because they could afford food, and skinny was for "peasants" because obviously they were working hard and burning off any calories they could afford.
You are one of the most beautiful persons I have ever seen and your beauty also comes from the inside. The fact that you can still smile after all you have been through is nothing short of admirable. Your voice and strength is so important to the world. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Love from Oslo, Norway. I live in one of the best countries in the world which is ranked highest in the UN when it comes to quality of life and happiness. I sometimes forget this and take things for granted. I'm embarrassed. Please come visit!
They do look weird. A large portion of it is they're out of proportion for what they should really look like. I mean, anyone would if you've had only a carrot to eat in the past month, causing you to have sunken eyes just like a meth addict (which incidentally is sometimes used by them to lose weight.)
@Drew Hong I'll tell you something you go to China you going to think all the women are beautiful because it's new to you it's not something your eyes can't tell part beauty from abomination
@ Men have always preferred women with more meat and skin on their bones, but not obese of course. 20% to 35% is typically considered attractive. The modeling and fashion industry doesn't cater to men's taste, it caters to women's perception of status and glamour. I wouldn't even call it beauty.
@@tigonridge And it happens again - I’m judges by you on whether I am attractive or not. Well, I don‘t care. A woman doesn‘t only live to appeal to men.
If you watch North Korean videos, they show slim women. It's pretty clear North Koreans view slim women as beautiful. See this as an example. th-cam.com/video/HG5m3gQTy7o/w-d-xo.html
Must admit, I never felt the urge to snog President Lincoln even when he was alive. Miranda Kerr - now SHE is worth snogging. Her security guards keep grinding my nose into mush though.
Yeonmi I think you are extremely beautiful and not just because of your physical appearance. Your personality, character, sense of humor, strength and compassion would make you a beautiful person regardless of what you looked like. Thank you for keeping us informed about what the people of North Korea's lives are like. I pray they will be freed soon. God bless you! 😊
Yeonmi, I say you are a most beautiful representative from North Korea. I congratulate you on Your wonderful voice. Thank you for sharing your culture.
Oh my goodness you are quite the sweetie pie. I noticed this when travelling in asian countries e g Vietnam and Thailand they complimented my friends very pale skin and said they were envious of it. She was overweight as well so I'm wondering if that also was a factor in why she was deemed attractive. I was tanned and athletic in appearance but she recieved all the attention. So interesting 😊❤🏴
I think it is also a matter of what you believe is healthy. If you are faced with occasional food shortages, some extra weight may be subconsciously attractive, as in, likely to survive.
I really love that your take away after transitioning to western culture is "if it doesn't hurt anybody, be whoever you want and respect other people's differences"! I think that's the highest ideal of America and (while I think we've gotten away from that the last couple years) it was so refreshing to hear and be reminded that that quality is still very much alive here!
Mike Jones well obviously. It’s not something to joke about. People are tortured and go through living hell there, you don’t make jokes surrounding that. Do you also enjoy dead baby jokes?
When I'm feeling down for almost no reason, I'm way beyond grateful at what we have in this country..Things we take for granted..We open the refrigerator to get food, we turn the water on if we're thirsty, & freedom of speech..We are land of plenty & most people don't realize..I have lived abroad, & unless people have you have no idea how lucky we are.
Hey Yeonmi, I just subscribed to your channel yesterday night! You are a wonderful person, and congrats on finding freedom. Hope everything has been alright with you! Hello from USA! 🇺🇸🇺🇸
Park is quite smart, tough as hell, quite street smart wise, and a positive spirit and human dignity which solidifies her beauty. All the best on this channel and your future endeavors.
Bravery, honesty and compassion is beautiful. Everyone is capable of these traits. Thank you for modelling them despite your hardships. Bless you sweetheart.
amazing insight as always!! it’s so neat to hear about other countries’ beauty standards, given that i’ve lived in the west my whole life. looking forward to new videos:)
Watch North Korean videos. They find slim women attractive as all their media showcase slim women. If they thought slim is ugly, they wouldn't put them in media. An example here. th-cam.com/video/HG5m3gQTy7o/w-d-xo.html
You are so sweet, intelligent, elegant and have excellent communication skills. Your videos are extraordinary Yeonmi! Iḿ grateful that I found your youtube channel!
I saw your first on Rubin Report. I was a Korean linguist for the US Army and have been fascinated by your story and your perspective. Thank you for sharing. You are an extremely intelligent, beautiful person. Best of luck to you, dear.
@@brianschuetz2614 listen, she is a Woman who is short, small in frame & East Asian. East Asian women and being infantilised is a common stereotypical trope that is centuries old.
Hey Yeonmi! I have been watching your content for a couple weeks now, checking out some videos reccomended to me by a friend. I just want to say I am so happy you survived your escape from that harsh personality cult led by a VERY cruel dictator. I hope you're doing well, nowadays. I know it can be hard to move past things like that, but from what I can tell, you've done the best you can to do just that. So I am proud of you! You have gained a new subscriber, and I will be buying your book soon! Best regards, Francis 😊❤
I think in maturity most people eventually look beyond beauty standards all over the world and begin to view nice people as the most beautiful. It is the thing which makes you smile the most. I like nice people. Pretty girls can be cruel but nice people are always beautiful. I'm sure most people think that way as they get older, don't they?
Frankly, if I saw a young lady with big breasts, buttocks and thighs that had enough flesh on them to be something soft to caress without being gross, short skirt, beautiful long hair and pretty underwear, I would definitely want to @#!$ her even if she had the most shallow, selfish, callous, ignorant, uncultured personality. So would 99% of straight men. Yes, I could also be fond of a woman who had none of these physical qualities but was a kind, pleasant, interesting personality but that might never lead to physical passion. Not saying that is how the world ought to be, just saying it is how the world is.
I have enjoyed watching a few of your videos. I do feel sorry for those still stuck in North Korea. I am very glad you were able to escape. I hope others will be as fortunate as yourself someday, if not the entire country escaping such depression. I thank you for sharing your experiences between growing up there in North Korea, and your learning of the differences here in the US. I have always enjoyed learning about different cultures. I am very thankful for our freedoms we have here. But I do fear that some freedoms are being abused or misused. I'd love to have the opportunity to discuss more about your experiences. But like all others here, I'll just have to keep watching more of your videos, and wait for my questions to be answered. Take care, and best wishes to you!
Well honestly, when your not being a activist I enjoy yout fashion sense...Thats why I think your own line would do well along with skin care products from YPF...Yeonmi Park Fashion..🍾🥂💃
5:15 you nailed it there, it's so interesting just how influenced our ideas of beauty are dependent on economic factors. In a less drastic comparison, you can see it with WWII-era US preferring more voluptuous body types vs. the much slimmer body types of today.
Started watching your videos a few days ago, and I honestly can’t stop watching. Every experience from NK sounds alien to so many people; and you’re doing a great thing by sharing these stories.
I find it very on point. Due to lack off food in NK, being skinny means you're hungry 😢 and being chubby means you have enough food and signifies status.
We Americans have an epidemic of eating disorders to achieve what the majority of people in NK painfully are forced to live with and don't even know different... Cruel 😭
One of the best cures for obesity is to buy a bicycle. Cycling can burn up to 900 calories per hour and its fun in winter too . Please dont buy stationary indoor bike because it's boring and you will probably give up on it in a month .
@@serenity5985 That's a tough question . I average 100 km or 50 miles at possibly 10 km or 5miles an hour . I stick mostly to bike lanes and trails and don't keep track of speed . I just go untill I get hungry about a five hour ride twice a week and more in the summer .
Cause we do not know and understand how to turn our appetites towards what is Morally (Christian-Catholicism) what is right and just, and being humble. Without morals a Republic CANNOT subsist any length of time; they therefore who are decrying the Christian religion, whose morality is so sublime and pure (and) which insures to the good eternal happiness, are undermining the solid foundation of morals, the best security for the duration of free governments. Charles Carroll of Carrollton He was the longest-lived and last surviving signatory of the Declaration of Independence, dying 56 years after the document was signed. Delegate to the Annapolis Convention and was selected as a delegate to the Continental Congress in 1776 First United States Senator for Maryland
You are so beautiful! And your story is absolutely inspiring and amazing. I am sorry for everything you had to endure to escape from North Korea, but I applaud your efforts to educate the rest of the world about North Korea and what goes on there. The world needs to hear it. Thank you for exposing the truth and being so brave. I pray that God blesses and protects you and your family. 🤗
I know that I watched this video a year ago but watching it again warms my heart all over again, you are such a beautiful person inside and out, thank you so much for sharing your story and spreading awareness ❤😊❤😊👍👍
Not sure how I was recommended this content but I always enjoy hearing in-group perspectives on other cultural norms. Endlessly fascinating and endearing people of North Korea! Much respect.
It's so odd to think of girls crushing on Kim Jong Un.
Not too odd if you’re starving
@@MsDF936 LMFAO
He looks like a failed version of the Tweety bird.
@@Beandal STRAIGHT SAVAGE
@@Beandal lol
The crazy thing is that beauty standards always come from what we don’t have. For instance, in North Korea, in which there is a scarcity of food, more body fat would mean a better standard of living. But in the US, where junk food is actually cheaper than healthy food (and due to the fact that exercise takes time and work), obesity can be a sign of poverty. A skinnier, fit body would be a sign of a higher standard of living.
Edit: It would seem that I should acknowledge that North Korean "fashion" still favors slim women... however to the average North Korean those models still don't represent health and prosperity. And anyways, who, in NK, has time to look at models? Not the average citizens. Only the ruling elite, and - more importantly - foreign visitors.
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 ...I've seen North Korean vids many times....Looks pretty synonymous with her explanations !
Kinda hard to narrow down a 25 Million plus population !...You're just trolling 👎
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 I think I'll take the info froma n actual N Korean than from you, no thank you.
@@matas253 It's more like many are working 2 - 3 parttime jobs, and their jobs are more likely to be manual labor than desk jobs.....they come home and are to exhausted to cook. Also, especially in big cities with high cost of living, many poor people can't afford ovens or microwaves, so they have to buy take-out or read-to-go food. Lack of education in nutrition and how to cook also plays a part.
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 Um, you are proving her point. She said everybody in NK is slim and underweight because of lack of food. A normal slim model (which is probably still underweight) IS considered heavy by NK standards because most people are starving there.
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The thing that interests me most is that your own opinions of beauty can change when you assimilate to a new culture.
@T K On the other hand, I doubt there are many men watching women in "plus-size" beauty contests.
@Mr. & Mrs Smith To some extent that's true. However, in countries such as the US (and possibly others), there are unlimited opportunities for people having wealth but little class or discretion to advertise both.
@Mr. & Mrs Smith finally someone that get it. Yes people can have preferences but yes, wealth is one of the factors.
True, as a South american, I used to think skinny women weren't very pretty, until I lived in asia for a while. Now I find petite thin women very attractive
She wears too much makeup now. NK women are beautiful because they don't wear much makeup and don't do face jobs.
“My ideal body type was Kim Jong-Un. Omg, so embarrassing!”
Nothing embarrassing about not wanting to starve.
Edit: this is both the most popular comment I've ever written and the one that has received the dumbest replies. Seriously, how is it even possible to misinterpret what I've written as a defence of obesity?
The fact that she thought Kim Jong-un was hot says a lot less about her and a lot more about North Korea.
In ancient time in Europa as well fat pale lady was seen as so attractive.
@@SauceGod-y5p not fat, curvy
@@ива-к6п No it was not thick it was really fat, because fat people were seen as rich because they have good foods
@@WaxyLT He kinda is tho
I knew I could be famous somewhere! I’m fat and bald!
The Charles Tribune - Charles Nickens haha you are too funny, Charles! Good to see you here :)
You might look at NK media before believing everything in this video. They showcase slim people with hair. They wouldn't do that if they thought fat bald is attractive.
Chevy SparkEV she said they like fat bald people because it's a sign of power. I guess women being attracted to power and money is quite universal and doesn't really have anything to do with beauty standards.
The Charles Tribune - Charles Nickens Lol 😂
@@mychevysparkevdidntcatchfi1489 well maybe in that girl's town? 🤷🏻♂️ Since they're not in a high-class village?
Man... Girls crushing on Kim Jong Un shows how much beauty stardards can be influenced by the media
Not just media but culture as well
I think they're actually crushing on the food at his dinner table
Well, most Black men consider ladies with big buttocks to be sexy and attractive. But I don't like large buttocks at all. I find ladies with small round buttocks to be very sexy. Different strokes for different folks-- Sylvester "Sly" Stone.
They're not attracted to his physique but to his status, she explained in the video.
Everything is a social construct
"Not that many people can be the size of Kim Jong Un" 😂😂
Please compared to a lot of the women in the States, he is skinny.
@@stacybaldwin3346 I concur. Not only do I see many of these amorphous beings slowly killing electric scooters at the grocery stores, but have seen many at fairs/festivals/etc sitting around with legs spread to make room for a mass of fat/skin/cellulite hanging down through the parted legs. It's amazing the shapes a human being can take. Those seen on _My 600 Pound Life_ are not too unrealistic!
Well, I am... :) Kim Jong Un is most likely not a nice guy, but his wife is looking gorgeous. She's exactly my type of woman. I'm talking about how she looks, of course. More important is of course the personality, the good look wears off during the years, the character stays. I would never choose a partner by her look.
My father once made the observation that many people in the US probably buy sport utility vehicles simply because they are too fat to fit inside an ordinary car.
Dip some gravy over Kim lol
I think it’s so beautiful how open minded you’ve become. You came from this oppressive culture where you were taught everything had to be ONE way, and you have so much appreciation for diversity despite that. You’ve overcome so much.
The older I get the more I realize how personality can influence my reception of beauty.
Eg damn xactly!
Do you have ant tips for someone who also desires their own reception?
Do you mean your perception of beauty? You're right. Initial attraction can be retracted once they open their mouths 😅. It's all subjective and relative though.
@@kitsulu8576 I guess I realize I was pretty naïve when I was younger thinking simply outward beauty is going to make me happy. It’s much more than that.
Exactly
Kim Jong-un is making multiple accounts just to unlike this video.
Lol😂😂😂
nah, if he saw this he would have it taken down, along with the whole channel itself lmao
@@hollowrift you're never invited to a party eh?
I was thinking the same thing! Those authoritarians just do NOT like other people, do they?
@@hollowrift no he couldn't do that, he'd probably tell others she's a criminal or something, I think he does know about her though as well as other defectors who make videos
By American standards Yeonmi is very Beautiful.
Also by European standards!😊
By any standard, but I like your point
@@LvT4303 Yes you are right
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She's pretty and classy. So many American woman have lost that.
I love how honest she is and no one is offended it’s amazing that she can speak her truth
Aged badly
When youre starved, fatness is sexy. When youre surrounded by food, denying it and getting skinny, makes you sexy there.
I am told the same principle applied in medieval Europe: food was not easily at hand the same way it is today; as a consequence, being well-padded was a (relative) sign of health and thus attractive.
We Always want whatever we are not! If you have a loving, predictable, respectful marriage, you want someone to disrespect you and someone you can't trust because it's "exciting"!!
True but it also depends on what government message is broadcasted. Being fluffy used to be very sexy in America until the Great Depression & war times. The government & fashion industry made being skinny popular to help relieve some of the need for food.
Also, it's what ever is harder to attain is what you are expected to be. It's a control mechanism
I disagree. Being surrounded by food and denying it to stay thin is sexy HERE in the U.S. How many starving North Koreans would deny themselves if they were EVER surrounded by food?
You are what is considered the “full package”. You are intelligent, well spoken, polite, good personality, very attractive.
Hard earned life lessons, can bring out the best in some people, other are trapped.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
salvation 777 while I have heard that my whole life, science has proven there are metrics to beauty. But I do agree, everyone has their own definition to beauty. This is why I did not use the word “Beautiful” in my original comment and instead describe her as “very attractive”. However after seeing more of her videos I would now comfortably use the word “beautiful” as a descriptor.
Mike G I did not know science had a nose
@@Todd66 beauty is in the eye of the beholder I tell you why somebody from the United States to go to China he's going to think every Chinese girl he sees is beautiful because it's new to him and it's unique stay there a couple years and you get used to it and you will no longer find them all of them attractive
YOU’RE beautiful by ANY standard. 🙂
Like Audrey Hepburn - en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Audrey_Hepburn
simp
Shimmy Shai If you’re trying to discern whether or not I treat people differently based on appearance, the answer is yes.
Adam Honesty and decency siiiiiiimmmppp
Dont lie to her pls! xd
Im kidding;]
Comments: Wow, beauty standards are relative and shaped by regional culture, politics and economics
Social scientists: Yeah, we told y’all. We’ve been telling y’all for years
Exactly.
Busting a nut is every dudes favorite thing to do since 200,000 BC. Don't forget that.
Well sure, but nowadays there's not a single beauty standard in the west, specially for women.
You have skinny clothes models, hourglass women , fit women. And they are all considered beautiful.
obese will never be beautiful
It's not relative. Symmetry has always been regarded as beautiful.
"Not everyone can be the same size as Kim Jung Un"
This woman is straight savage
EDIT: Apparently some of you are not smart enough to know savage is a SLANG TERM for something that is funny and ruthlessly on point. Christ you people assume the worst of a stranger. How hard is a google search???
Ricky Spanish!!!
I love her honesty
888th like
you mean nobody?
Well, to be honest its a while I have been to the US but there I saw a lot of people try.
"I thought they were so ugly" hahaha I have never imagined someone's first impression would be like this. This really proves society shapes our mindsets and process thinking.
Exactly
I always thought that and I’ve lived in America my whole life. I just like wider hips.
I'm FROM USA and I find victoria secret models ugly. They look too thin, like they're dying. They look unhealthy. I like skinny, but they take it way too far. Their faces tend to look over modified too. Fake. Disgusting all around. I think average weight or being fit is the best appearance.
@@wardogthemasterofwar I'm from America too and I agree 👍
@@wardogthemasterofwar I do agree that some models take it to far but damn lol don't shame on them that hard. I'm a teen model and I'm in the industry, I have a normal body, I have some stretch marks to but a lot of modeling agencies want them to be so skinny and its crazy
So basically Kim Jung Un is the model of beauty.
Moon face, small lips, fat... what a lucky man!
I would say it's the other way around lol... it's the beauty standard _because_ that's what the supreme leader looks like.
That’s why all women in North Korea cry when they see him.
Dassy Neppe ....
I was sarcastic saying he's lucky...
too much to be coincidence
You make your own luck in life and clearly he has! ;)
Beauty eventually fades...I think a person is beautiful when they have a good heart and treat others well. 💜
But you still wouldn't say that someone is beautiful if they are literally the ugliest person you've ever seen...let's be honest
Lthough that has nothing to do with looks...we are talking specificly about looks here. I am from Finland, I think Swedish women are the most beautiful, those of them who are slim and beautiful I mean.
@@mrsTraveller64, ,,I think slim and beautiful Swedish women are the most beautiful". How does that sound to you?
@@bigboye9420 Sounds like you find slim Swedish women most beautiful
big belly, fat face, chubby body?? Seems like I'd be the prettiest person in NK if I was there lol
Lol I was thinking that too
That's exactly what they want you to believe. That you be happy living under north korea's view of beauty.
You will most likely shrink down if u move there so u won't be the standard beauty anymore
@@REDBONEPRODUCTIONS876 exactly that xD
Me too just not the brown skin
This makes a lot of sense... psychologically, what we actually see as "attractive" or "beautiful", is what we subconsciously associate with wealth/security....it takes Money to look like a movie star...it takes Money and free time (again usually requires money) to stay fit and eat healthy...thus our "beauty standards"...some places it takes money to stay pale, some it takes money to tan...old paintings have Chubby ladies in them for the same reason she thought chubby was attractive, because those with wealth could afford to eat like that back then. We're attracted to what we subconsciously associate with wealth/safety/well-being....whatever that means in our society and circumstance.
I don't wanna be annoying, but i don't think the ladies were chubby at all, they look like normal women to me. Except for Rubens and his school of course.
@@gabitzakissy lol, I didn't say they All did...but a Lot of old paintings have chubby people and they even made their dresses to pad/poof the stomach and butt at one point, to look more "voluptuous". Wither some had "normal" (chubby can't be normal?) or "skinny" people is entirely beside my point... perhaps you're viewing my comments with some form of bias of your own. The point is: being what we (or even science) consider "over weight" was considered attractive and beautiful during Many points in history (and Still is in Many countries!)...for the Same psychological reasons.
"beauty" standards are a social construct highly based on what aspects indicate "wealth"...extra weight= food, tan= the ability to travel, nice hair and fit body,etc= money and time off (have to spare), a certain "chin shape" indicates money for modification, skin texture = money for skin products.... etc etc etc.
@@mirrormirror3414 oh yeah, views on beauty shift throughout time, of course, based on external and internal factors
Last time I checked, the sun was free. So you don't need money for a tan which is why pale skin is desirable in the first place in places like North Korea.
Holy crap 37 kg is 81.5 lbs. I’m glad you got out of that country. They were starving you.
perfect spinner weight, however!
its common weight in south asia for girls
And I'm 100kg then how much is that?
And I'm 100kg then how much is that?
Retro Cysper 220 lbs
I would be interested to know what Yeonmi thought when she first saw bodybuilders (since presumably If fat means weath to buy food then muscle would have a similar logic ).
Also, thank you Yeonmi for sharing your story. I read your book a few years ago and was pleasantly surprised to see you pop up in my TH-cam recommentions :)
"Damn, girl, you look like you've eaten in the last month - that's mad hot!"
man maybe we should learn from nk
😭😭😂😂😂
@Arturo Blanco my comment was meant as a joke and no. communism actually has its pros and cons you are just too brainwashed by capitalism to realise
@Arturo Blanco communism isnt as bad as yall make it seem like. capitalism also has a lot more cons than you guys want to realise. you just have your eyes closed for it. how about the unfair wage distribution, between higher ups and people that work for them. you cannot tell me if capitalism was that great people would be underpaid.
@Arturo Blanco omfg are you 12? but no actually North Korea isnt really communism like it was Karl Marx his theory.
I once asked my Japanese wife why she liked me as I’m not so handsome, she said beauty fades with time; personality and care doesn’t..
Mmmm I never tell my husband that he is not handsome...I think women...fail on this.
Wise woman
I just remembered the song, "they call you mister personality because you're so ugly...you're so ugly" :P
Most Japanese women are acculturated to praise and prop up men, it is a lady-like virtue. I guess Japanese men expect it. I think of it as “damning with faint praise”.
If your wife is sincere, you have a wonderful wife. She is a blessing :)
Beauty is only skin deep but an ugly personality goes all the way to the bone.
That's a good saying.
Kim Jong un is definitely ugly to the bone lol.
So true
Everyone has ugly personality parts and tries to hide them.
which layer of skin? the subcutis provides cushion to organs and even some bone so since subcutis is skin and it right next to some bone.......beauty goes all the way to the bone.
Her: “I thought Kim Jong Un had a sexy body type”
Me: “So you’re saying there’s a chance?”
Lol!
Yeonmi is into chubby guys?
turns out I'm too pretty in North Korea, and ugly in america. Almost everything she said about North Korea's beauty standards, matches me...
This proves how beauty standards are an illusion. But I don't really mind, I'm considered pretty in my country if I lose weight, which means that if I lost weight I will achieve maximum prettiness. My face doesn't need work
@@thenon-painter4747
F A C T S
The people are starving and he is so fat. That is evil.
@@anjelkazina2045 that is his way of power just like guys are only permitted to wear their hair in a few ways and Kim wears his totally different from everyone else, power again
Its becuz its so rare lol if it was all over, it wouldn’t be considered pretty I guess
I think in America we have many different ideas on what's attractive because we're such a mixture of people from every country.
toxigenic yes!
Yep! Ghetto booty and junk in the trunk for me...
Americans have all shades, shapes, sizes, all styles, etc. Most men that are real men appreciate a woman for whatever she dares to reveal, that is, personality, voice, shape, color of eyes, skin color, texture, etc.
The only problem is immature men or women that never grew up and try to imitate mama suggestions, until they are independent.
We have many cultures, religions, politics, educstions we can choose to appreciate and follow. Ms Yeohmi you are beautiful because Americans appreciate the beauty that choice of freedom you have choosen to live, and your story is that of a beautiful soul (no pun intented). We love women that are brave, gutsy, and achievers!
Continue to enjoy your life in America and continue to speak of important thing you deem necessary.
Your perspectives brings more richness and appreciation to the richness of American life despite the ignorant masses that can never appreciate their neighbor, and we learn from your culture as much as you learn from ours.
I personally like British type of people which is not a big difference from American and Latin
There are beautiful women in all ethnic groups. Besides minor physical differences we are all put together the same way.
You definitely have a lot of charisma. Which makes you very beautiful. Even though you do you have a beautiful face.
She's very attractive, both physically and personality-wise. I would have loved to have a girlfriend or wife like her (if I were a :"few" years younger LOL!).
It’s plastic. I can immediately tell that her nose wasn’t like that haha
@@epicfly4319 + eyes + fat grafting.
@@Lindsayluver13 exactly!!😂😂
@@epicfly4319 whats wrong with having plastic surgery, you're very judgmental
Im so happy for this bb. Im so proud of her, i wanna give her a strong hug, she looks so happy now
Hearing her story has really made me rethink all the things I’ve took for granted and that I need to be more grateful for living in a country like this.
I thought the same thing. I felt shame.
Same here.
I like ur pf? Where is from!?
Charm is more than beauty, but by American standards, Yeonmi Park is beautiful. She also seems to have a lot of charm.
yes because of the cheapness and amount of cheap bad food, westerners are heavy and eat bad compared to asian countries. Here we consider being slim and skinny healthy since many of us are not. I think she knows already that she is good looking just by the way she dresses now. I just love people who get out of their own countries to experience other stuff and like it, not only those in oppressive countries, but any country. Americans who go to Europe and like the differences, those who come to america and like stuff, etc. Not every place has good things, but they are there. And there are many things we like about the east. Many westerners admire the asian/east educational system which is more rigid more like what american schools used to be. You have less freedoms in those schools, less activities, but better education. Some good, some bad.
Yes, it feels good to know she has a good husband and healthy family. She is a beautiful and intelligent woman, and after all she has been through, no one deserves a great family more than her
@Shimmy Shai Jesus, talk about making a mountain out of a mole hill. You're unnecessarily fabricating subtext just to have something to be angry at on not just this comment, but multiple. Grow up.
This is sad. She is talking about how much the people don't get much to eat. It the same way in the Philippines. If your fat you're seen as rich, but if you're skinny you're poor.
philippines philippibes always philippones may maisingit lng dyusko
@@nikkiesmeralda9947 there's nothing wrong about her comment... In fact that's true... So what are you so mad about?
@@Vizible21 something wrong is how she spelt the Philippines wrong
This is not that true tho? Yes most people are poor and dont get eat much (but ph is not as poor as n korea. North koreans eat mud and roots and filos arent that poor afaik) most filipinos find skinny attractive, fat shaming is popular. Guys who have big bellys are often referred to as heavy drinkers. Being fat won't make you look rich but rather greedy for food.
@@sandrachix7549 its more of skin tone. part of it is because the rich often stay in their homes because theres nothing they need to do outside, so their skin gets lighter or atleast stays the same shade. The people who need to work outside in the sun because of their status gets their skin darker. Also, the white man's burden and american colonization also played a part in it.
Dear, you are such a gentle soul. You are both beautiful outside and inside! Much love from Florida!
You are a very pretty girl. I'm glad you were able to escape that horrible situation.
Thats because she wears no makeup
@@designstudio8013 she’s wearing…. Eyeshadow, mascara, lipstick, foundation, eyebrow pencil? At least. Probably eyeliner? Probably some concealer? Probably blush? What does makeup have to do with it anyways
You're glad she was able to escape because she's very pretty? What?
@@mikhail.lawley I was thinking the same lmao
I think he means that she has a a lot of potential that’s why he’s glad she escaped . for some reason men associated Beauty with potential.
The one dislike is from Kim Jong-un
There are 20 now, omg they're multiplying
Kim Jong-un and his fake profiles
@@videogra5645 they are North Korean politburo members.........
🤣
I’m from Colombia and when I came to the U.S I was surprised by how people care way less about appearance than in my country. I hope the world becomes more open to uniqueness.
I cannot agree with you more on that ❤️
Voice of North Korea by Yeonmi Park ☺️☺️
@@Isabelmarin1609 Honestly this entire channel just makes me more grateful to be living comfortably in Cambridge, UK. I didn't realise that about the country I was born in until you stated it. 😊
BTW I'm replying to this not the main post because it won't let me
Well ,Yeonmi for an older grandpa, I find women who are attractive inside first , with good character (a belief system.) And then pretty, and look like she may be nice to hold.,✌️
@@johnsparkman1126 Good for you. Many younger women like older.
I love how this shows that beauty depends on the culture and time. I sometimes think about getting plastic surgery, but the fact standards change so often stops me. Its best to look and feel healthy and confident.
keep a fit body, be kind and sweet, and guys will melt before your eyes, and fall over to marry you...source me, a guy....players aside, guys are really simple to captivate, women omg they are soo picky and complex, you never know what to expect
This is why wealthy societies value thin fit people while being overweight is a sign of prosperity in a nation of starving people!
#1: The face shape: When that chart popped up I thought we were going to see a list of authorized face shapes.
"not everyone can be the size of kim jong un"
kim: *ill show my self out*
Kim: You can show yourself out
That one made me laugh 😹 It was hella smooth how she threw shade at him .
I used to say if it's hard being the fat kid in school, try being the only fat kid in the country, like Kim Jong-Un.
Yes, you are extremely pretty, especially the picture on your book cover, which I will be buying next month. Really enjoying the insights you are delivering to us all. Thank you very much.
You are very a brave, attractive, articulate young lady. The future is yours. I wish you all the best 🙏!
That's not embarrassing, honey. It's all you knew and were conditioned to know. That's actually very old world to see larger people are powerful, attractive, and wealthy because they could afford food, and skinny was for "peasants" because obviously they were working hard and burning off any calories they could afford.
Yes now I know to call skinny people peasants-
love how she said her ideal man body type was kim jong un!!!LOL
Ben Maps i love her already!
lolll you guys are so funny
Lol I need to eat more.
Me too! And her son is a chubby (and adorable) little boy- having a chubby baby probably makes her so proud that she can feed him well! 🥰
Yes my brothers, there is hope for us in North Korea!
You are one of the most beautiful persons I have ever seen and your beauty also comes from the inside. The fact that you can still smile after all you have been through is nothing short of admirable. Your voice and strength is so important to the world. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Love from Oslo, Norway. I live in one of the best countries in the world which is ranked highest in the UN when it comes to quality of life and happiness. I sometimes forget this and take things for granted. I'm embarrassed. Please come visit!
Agreed about Norway. The US can't hold a candle to Norway, it really is the best place to live.
"I liked Kim, it's so shameful now"... No shame at all if you saw only him, how could you know there are other types of more attractive men...
That’s exactly what I thought. That’s the way he wants it.
@@randomperson6433 so true!
I'm American and I think those Victoria Secrets models look weird. Not exactly unattractive, but nothing ideal about them.
Soy boy
They do look weird. A large portion of it is they're out of proportion for what they should really look like. I mean, anyone would if you've had only a carrot to eat in the past month, causing you to have sunken eyes just like a meth addict (which incidentally is sometimes used by them to lose weight.)
@@Zachomara In person - you can't mistake a high end fashion model for a normal human.
well conditioned by modern media and the overweight american society. shame
@Miguelle Landry is a perfect 10 what, they look in need of a good meal. Do people actualy find them actractive?
hey yeonmi, i just wanted to say that i really love the enthusiasm you put into your video. Keep up the good work and keep inspiring!
I think Victoria's secret models don't fit the beauty standards for majority of the world, and that's okay.
They dont fit?
@Tzuyu Minatozaki nah, majority of the world's people are short since they're mostly east and south Asian
@@km-hi9or yeah they don't, that's okay though
I think they are what women think men find attractive, though it isn't really the case.
@@person4169 you never know tbh depends on the person, everyone's different
A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. Korean or American or whatever country she is from.
@Drew Hong I'll tell you something you go to China you going to think all the women are beautiful because it's new to you it's not something your eyes can't tell part beauty from abomination
@Drew Hong bruh north koreans cnt afford food so how exactly are they going to get plastic surgery
@Drew Hong she escaped for food, stupid dickass
@Drew Hong really?
But beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
For the record many of us American guys aren't into the Victoria Secrets model look.
But most are.
@ Men have always preferred women with more meat and skin on their bones, but not obese of course. 20% to 35% is typically considered attractive. The modeling and fashion industry doesn't cater to men's taste, it caters to women's perception of status and glamour. I wouldn't even call it beauty.
@@tigonridge Just the expression "meat on their bones" is in some way degrading women by objectifying them, don't you think?
@@sophiarain8901 I would use the same expression for men. Taking offense over nothing is an unattractive trait, and a sign of neurosis.
@@tigonridge And it happens again - I’m judges by you on whether I am attractive or not. Well, I don‘t care. A woman doesn‘t only live to appeal to men.
you are so courageous to do what you do, and everything you have done. thank you for your voice and your perspective.
I love how you dress. Very elegant and fashionable, you wear it so well :D
Every woman is beautiful in their own unique way.
True
Haha ok
You've obviously never been to Wal-Mart
If you watch North Korean videos, they show slim women. It's pretty clear North Koreans view slim women as beautiful. See this as an example. th-cam.com/video/HG5m3gQTy7o/w-d-xo.html
mrsparex lol 😂🤣
Abraham Lincoln's cheekbones are the best.
Facts
That's because he had Marfan syndrome.
Must admit, I never felt the urge to snog President Lincoln even when he was alive. Miranda Kerr - now SHE is worth snogging. Her security guards keep grinding my nose into mush though.
Yeonmi I think you are extremely beautiful and not just because of your physical appearance. Your personality, character, sense of humor, strength and compassion would make you a beautiful person regardless of what you looked like. Thank you for keeping us informed about what the people of North Korea's lives are like. I pray they will be freed soon. God bless you! 😊
I love how you are not judgmental ❤️ everything you say is to educate us. You are so smart
Agreed
hi! can you maybe talk about mental illness in NK? i’d love to hear about how others cope (or don’t) and how society deals with it
bullets
Yeonmi,
I say you are a most beautiful representative from North Korea. I congratulate you on
Your wonderful voice.
Thank you for sharing your culture.
Oh my goodness you are quite the sweetie pie. I noticed this when travelling in asian countries e g Vietnam and Thailand they complimented my friends very pale skin and said they were envious of it. She was overweight as well so I'm wondering if that also was a factor in why she was deemed attractive.
I was tanned and athletic in appearance but she recieved all the attention. So interesting 😊❤🏴
Like many African communities.....When you are skinny, that means you are poor.....Bigger girls are more popular there...
@Ricker69 None I like big butts and I can not lie.
I think it is also a matter of what you believe is healthy. If you are faced with occasional food shortages, some extra weight may be subconsciously attractive, as in, likely to survive.
this not true. I’m African
@@cookwithLucia where in africa are u from, most of the Countries I went to they don't like skinny girls, they prefer big butt and voluptuous women
@@AA-ek5kz she's from one of the places where they kill wypipo I guess. So like south Africa or Zimbabwe probably. RIP.
It is interesting that your sense of beauty changed when you changed countries.
her accent is so cute :) Welcome to America honey. Glad to have you here.
Thank you so much for sharing! It's so fascinating how beauty standards differ throughout cultures.
I really love that your take away after transitioning to western culture is "if it doesn't hurt anybody, be whoever you want and respect other people's differences"! I think that's the highest ideal of America and (while I think we've gotten away from that the last couple years) it was so refreshing to hear and be reminded that that quality is still very much alive here!
Overweight+Bald=AttractiveInN.Korea... North Korea, here i come!!!
People would do anything to get out of there and you’re making a joke about WANTING to go there??
😂🤣
You might get in trouble after being accused of "imitating" Kim Jong Un--maybe there's an unwritten law that he has a monopoly on being fat.
@@kayla1245768 Omg Karen he was joking!
Mike Jones well obviously. It’s not something to joke about. People are tortured and go through living hell there, you don’t make jokes surrounding that. Do you also enjoy dead baby jokes?
When I'm feeling down for almost no reason, I'm way beyond grateful at what we have in this country..Things we take for granted..We open the refrigerator to get food, we turn the water on if we're thirsty, & freedom of speech..We are land of plenty & most people don't realize..I have lived abroad, & unless people have you have no idea how lucky we are.
All of those things you mentioned are in great danger of disappearing now.
Thank you for your deep healing and honesty- and sharing it with all of us. You are a gift to the world.
Hey Yeonmi, I just subscribed to your channel yesterday night! You are a wonderful person, and congrats on finding freedom. Hope everything has been alright with you! Hello from USA! 🇺🇸🇺🇸
Welcome and thank you so much for your support xoxo
You look great and your English is improving!
I think ms.park is a very attractive women fact: she's actually way more atracttive than me lol
I agree. I viewed her the same way
Park is quite smart, tough as hell, quite street smart wise, and a positive spirit and human dignity which solidifies her beauty. All the best on this channel and your future endeavors.
Bravery, honesty and compassion is beautiful. Everyone is capable of these traits. Thank you for modelling them despite your hardships. Bless you sweetheart.
amazing insight as always!! it’s so neat to hear about other countries’ beauty standards, given that i’ve lived in the west my whole life. looking forward to new videos:)
This is very valuable information! Nobody else I know in real life could ever explain this.
Watch North Korean videos. They find slim women attractive as all their media showcase slim women. If they thought slim is ugly, they wouldn't put them in media. An example here. th-cam.com/video/HG5m3gQTy7o/w-d-xo.html
You are so sweet, intelligent, elegant and have excellent communication skills. Your videos are extraordinary Yeonmi! Iḿ grateful that I found your youtube channel!
I saw your first on Rubin Report. I was a Korean linguist for the US Army and have been fascinated by your story and your perspective. Thank you for sharing. You are an extremely intelligent, beautiful person. Best of luck to you, dear.
Interesting! I love your dress with the scarf. Its super cute!
Very nice leopard print
She's really cute in just about every way!
I'm REALLY impressed with her command of English!
A grown woman is not “cute”. Very demeaning.
@@ashanon5245 Yes dear...
@@chrislong3938 🤣
@@ashanon5245 I've heard women refer to certain guys as cute. Is that demeaning as well? 😛 Relax your sphincter a bit.
@@brianschuetz2614 listen, she is a Woman who is short, small in frame & East Asian. East Asian women and being infantilised is a common stereotypical trope that is centuries old.
Hey Yeonmi!
I have been watching your content for a couple weeks now, checking out some videos reccomended to me by a friend.
I just want to say I am so happy you survived your escape from that harsh personality cult led by a VERY cruel dictator.
I hope you're doing well, nowadays. I know it can be hard to move past things like that, but from what I can tell, you've done the best you can to do just that. So I am proud of you!
You have gained a new subscriber, and I will be buying your book soon!
Best regards,
Francis 😊❤
I think in maturity most people eventually look beyond beauty standards all over the world and begin to view nice people as the most beautiful. It is the thing which makes you smile the most. I like nice people. Pretty girls can be cruel but nice people are always beautiful. I'm sure most people think that way as they get older, don't they?
Frankly, if I saw a young lady with big breasts, buttocks and thighs that had enough flesh on them to be something soft to caress without being gross, short skirt, beautiful long hair and pretty underwear, I would definitely want to @#!$ her even if she had the most shallow, selfish, callous, ignorant, uncultured personality. So would 99% of straight men. Yes, I could also be fond of a woman who had none of these physical qualities but was a kind, pleasant, interesting personality but that might never lead to physical passion. Not saying that is how the world ought to be, just saying it is how the world is.
Moral of the story, everyone is beautiful. 😂❤️
With an Exception of Kim Jong Un
@@PolishGod1234 and Kim Jong il .)
@@lionlord8784 yeah, him too
Not everyone is beautiful. I see some meth heads every once in a while. Neither beautiful on the outside or inside
"Beautiful like the moon" I like that 🥺
I have enjoyed watching a few of your videos. I do feel sorry for those still stuck in North Korea. I am very glad you were able to escape. I hope others will be as fortunate as yourself someday, if not the entire country escaping such depression.
I thank you for sharing your experiences between growing up there in North Korea, and your learning of the differences here in the US. I have always enjoyed learning about different cultures. I am very thankful for our freedoms we have here. But I do fear that some freedoms are being abused or misused. I'd love to have the opportunity to discuss more about your experiences. But like all others here, I'll just have to keep watching more of your videos, and wait for my questions to be answered. Take care, and best wishes to you!
Well honestly, when your not being a activist I enjoy yout fashion sense...Thats why I think your own line would do well along with skin care products from YPF...Yeonmi Park Fashion..🍾🥂💃
Haha you made me laugh 😆 Thank you for your kindness as always ❤️🥰
There is nothing wrong with your beauty. You are absolutely gorgeous. In any contest, you would be fine.
@@YeonmiParkOfficial What I like about N Korean girls/women compared to S Koreans is that they don't wear much makeup, and don't do face jobs either.
5:15 you nailed it there, it's so interesting just how influenced our ideas of beauty are dependent on economic factors. In a less drastic comparison, you can see it with WWII-era US preferring more voluptuous body types vs. the much slimmer body types of today.
"Hooray for me" omg youre adorable
Started watching your videos a few days ago, and I honestly can’t stop watching. Every experience from NK sounds alien to so many people; and you’re doing a great thing by sharing these stories.
I find it very on point. Due to lack off food in NK, being skinny means you're hungry 😢 and being chubby means you have enough food and signifies status.
Beauty is only skin deep; but ugly goes all the way to the bone.
英文蔡蔡子 Dat’s wat dat nikka’s momma taught him ………………………….
英文蔡蔡子 It’s an old quote that dates back to the 1600s, you troglodyte.
@@milktea4270 dude, i thank you for this word.
Yeonmi...you're so nice, I like to listen your stories, eventhough North Korean stories are sad to hear.🌷
Just found your channel. It’s fascinating. Well done for all your work and education 👍🏼🇦🇺
We Americans have an epidemic of eating disorders to achieve what the majority of people in NK painfully are forced to live with and don't even know different... Cruel 😭
One of the best cures for obesity is to buy a bicycle. Cycling can burn up to 900 calories per hour and its fun in winter too . Please dont buy stationary indoor bike because it's boring and you will probably give up on it in a month .
@@kookamunga2458 how fast do you have to go to burn that many calories?
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@@serenity5985 That's a tough question . I average 100 km or 50 miles at possibly 10 km or 5miles an hour . I stick mostly to bike lanes and trails and don't keep track of speed . I just go untill I get hungry about a five hour ride twice a week and more in the summer .
Cause we do not know and understand how to turn our appetites towards what is Morally (Christian-Catholicism) what is right and just, and being humble.
Without morals a Republic CANNOT subsist any length of time; they therefore who are decrying the Christian religion,
whose morality is so sublime and pure (and) which insures to the good eternal happiness, are undermining the solid
foundation of morals, the best security for the duration of free governments.
Charles Carroll of Carrollton
He was the longest-lived and last surviving signatory of the Declaration of Independence, dying 56 years after the document was signed.
Delegate to the Annapolis Convention and was selected as a delegate to the Continental Congress in 1776
First United States Senator for Maryland
You are so beautiful! And your story is absolutely inspiring and amazing. I am sorry for everything you had to endure to escape from North Korea, but I applaud your efforts to educate the rest of the world about North Korea and what goes on there. The world needs to hear it. Thank you for exposing the truth and being so brave. I pray that God blesses and protects you and your family. 🤗
Man, it's super impressive how much of western culture she's assimilated, especially with all the anti-American propaganda in North Korea.
I know that I watched this video a year ago but watching it again warms my heart all over again, you are such a beautiful person inside and out, thank you so much for sharing your story and spreading awareness ❤😊❤😊👍👍
Not sure how I was recommended this content but I always enjoy hearing in-group perspectives on other cultural norms. Endlessly fascinating and endearing people of North Korea!
Much respect.