North Korea sounds like hell for women. Men go off and do one task while women do literally everything while still being subjected to weird beauty standards and gender expectations. Horrifying.
@@jasa9707 No one said that men/boys don't get treated badly. This video is just focused on women. Make your own video focused on men instead of complaining about her content.
@@jasa9707 This video focuses on how women are treated in North Korea. No one said that men dont get treated like shit there. Also, what is wrong with being a feminist? Its about bringing equality for all. Think before you comment.
Let's see, all men in North Korea have to serve at least 10 years of mandatory conscription. That is a ridiculous service time. (There is selective conscription for women so it is unlikely one would have to serve). The situation in North Korea is terrible for all ordinary citizens
@@georgie9224 she says in the video that they at least get to have some fun in their works while women are expected to serve endlessly and still their effort is never acknowledged. So, I'm not saying men don't suffer at all. They all do. But the way they treat all women is, hmmm, different. In a horrible way. I guess even the most opressed man is above a woman in that type of hierarchy
Woman's rights exist in america and all english countries other places that are socialist like north korea and communist countries there's not really any at all if any. People don't realize how good Americans have it
This is absolutely horrendous, NK literally treats women like trash. I sincerely hope North Korean women will someday be free and be able to fight for better treatment. I'm so glad you were able to escape. A question, if even a doctor earns only $1 per month, what are the consumer prices in North Korea? Like how much it costs to buy bread, rice, milk etc?
It’s nice getting a first had perspective from a women from North Korea and you are so inspiring. I just found your TH-cam and can’t wait to read your book.
@@YeonmiParkOfficial : You have such gorgeous , porcelain skin.... Can share what's your secret - skincare, diet etc ..... And where do North Korea ladies get their cosmetics ?
Rol? Did you mean lol? Jk though😂 , it's doesnt like role more like they only living to fulfill their lol, but yeah.. i'm glad i'm not born in nk .. poor them..
If only our third-wave feminists would watch this, quit yelling about the patriarchy here, and fight for someone who is truly oppressed; like these oppressed women.
Do you know the feminist concept of "the double shift"? This is one of the very first feminist ideas I heard of in the 1980s. The patriarchal man says "The fact that you work outside the home does not excuse you from any domestic duties. You are not allowed to relax when you come home after work. The first thing I will always ask you when you get home after a long day's work is what you will be cooking for dinner. I will tell you that the most important part of the evening is that I am impatient for a freshly cooked evening meal. Hurry up and start cooking now!!!"
This reminds me of a book I read about women in Afghanistan where the comment made was "my favorite time of day is at night when I am asleep because no one can bother me then". Thank you for sharing this very important insight Yeonmi!
@@michaelwiebe4282 - yes it was but mostly in Kabul. This quote comes from a woman struggling under the Taliban who lives in a remote area under a more tribal way of life.
@@janinekleerup7936 Yes. Iran the same before 1979. Look how the women were clothed in Iran, pretty western, miniskirts ( not all, surely) and well educated. People were enjoying themselves before the Mullahs seized power.
@@michaelwiebe4282 Yes, but today amomg students of Natural Science and Medicine the ratio of female students is much ghigher than in western countries. That is an achievement of the Islamic Revolution. Before the Revolution women were treated as dolls, wearing miniskirts, and not respected for their skills and minds. That has really much improved under and after the islamic revolution. (I don't say everything is fine so, sometimes there are hardliners that better should shut their mouthes. But to say women are surpressed is far from the truth.)
Most defectors actually say they were happier in north Korea, before they got to south Korea. Through their common oppression and comrodery they found ways to to be happy. Most who defect know it's a better life outside of North Korea but have a hard time adjusting to the hard core competitiveness of South Korea and being uneducated, looking like a country bumpkin and finding it difficult to fit in with western society. Most testimonials I've seen on defectors say they were likely happier in NK.
@@jaredmccormick If they go to S. Korea, I'm not surprised by what you're saying (I have S. Korean friends and have learned how incredibly competitive it is in the areas of education and jobs, as well as socially). A friend committed suicide once she left the U.S. to return to S. Korea, after completing university in the U.S. Returning to the competitive environment wore her body, mind, and spirit down. S. Korea is in the top 10 countries with the highest suicide rates (according to the WHO). They tend to adjust much better and are happier when immigrating to Western Europe, the U.S., or Canada, where, yes, they may have to learn a new language and adjust to a very different culture, but the competitiveness and pressures are generally lower, leading to better mental health.
@@jaredmccormick To be fair South Korea is a bit of a capitalist shithole that puts an inordinate amount of pressure on people to not only be successful, but to outwork and outperform everyone else.
This is heartbreaking. I want to do something about this, to help these women. I can’t imagine going through something like what is described here... I don’t think I’d be strong enough to handle that.
What North Korean women have to go through with hardships, abuse, torture, being sold in China, having their rights taken away from them seriously makes me sick to my stomach. Everything that you are doing for your people and country and raising awareness to free North Korea, is truely inspiring.
Even in Western countries, it was only a few decades ago that women wearing pants was not considered normal or proper attire when going out somewhere in public or a formal occasion. Maybe to do the gardening. I'm surprised that they are allowed to wear shorter skirts.
Really? That’s the crappiest thing? I’m assuming (and hoping ) that you didn’t watch the video through to the part that details the virtual enslavement of married women, and the actual sale and enslavement of North Korean women.
In a country where you have no free speech, no food, no rights and you've been seeing public execution since you were a child, I don't think wearing a dress is your biggest concern
My heart is aching, this is so incredibly sad and unacceptable. You are doing an amazing job, bringing this information to the ignorant world. Thank you so much! Greetings from Israel. 💜
They can not be real men in North Korea. A real man helps his wife and children. Make sure the family has food and money. Make sure the family has somewhere to live .. Make sure his wife knows he loves her and the children. That's what a real man does for his wife and children❤ 🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪
@Mithilesh M riding a bicycle as a woman can stretch the skin lining inside of our areas. in many places they judge whether or not a woman is a virgin by how intact the skin lining is even though it's not even accurate
@Mithilesh M I'm a girl and I believe that bicycle is more uncomfortable for boys than for girls. I love bicycling and do it since I was 5 and it didn't affect my body in any negative way. But because in some countries the woman have to bleed in their first sexual experience, it might make them to bleed less, idk, what I do know is that bicycling can make all of our muscles stronger, which is good.
@Mithilesh M actually, I'm a girl and a medical student, and sometimes due to bike riding or any strenuous activity (exercise) their hymen can tear (which is a thin membrane inside her vagina-- which is used as an indication of a girls virginity. And sometimes hymen can also repair itself 🤷 so scientifically it is decided that the presence or absence of hymen is not proper indication of whether a girl is a virgin or not because it can get torn by many other things apart from penetration (like putting a tampon in)
Every time I watch a video from you I don’t think I will be shocked because I’ve seen the previous one. I keep getting a shock ! It’s vital work you are doing. Brava to you !
#7 is breaking my heart. On top of providing food for their families that they are not allowed to eat, leaving the house and being at risk of rape or being selected for pleasure house, they run the risk of bring sold into slavery. This is truly terrifying. 💔
I think skirts are the least of their concerns. Especially after not being executed, finding food, medical care, dentistry, clean water, avoiding rape, etcetra ad nauseam ...
@@fjb4932 True. The stupidest part of this whole thing is North Korea's people would be far better off even if they just improved it to the way China is now (which is saying something.) I know it's not going to happen (Korean culture is basically an all or nothing type of culture) so when the Kim regime finally falls, the North Koreans are going to either just go to another horrible regime or go full on capitalist like nothing anybody's seen before. It sounds like the black market is already there to support the capitalist society it really needs as long as chaebols don't get involved.
Men need to keep men on check. I know it's not easy for the good men. But to those of you who care, validate and protect us - continue to do so! I'm raising two men and deeply appreciate the real men. One step at a time. Men, thank you for doing the work to actively understand this imbalance. You are the ones making us feel safe and comfortable all around.
My heart goes out to all the women of North Korea. How terribly sad, hard and depressing that existence would be. I feel so blessed but also so ungrateful, spoiled and selfish for the many freedoms and blessings I’ve been granted by being born in the US. Thank you for sharing this information. I plan on making my daughter watch this so she can too see just how fortunate and blessed she w. ❤️💜❤️💜
As sad as this life is for the women in N Korea, I am fascinated to hear about it!!! Thank you for all of your informative vlogs. 🥰 I hope, someday, soon.... there will be freedom for All N Koreans!!!
These women are so strong! I honestly don’t know how they do it, I have so much respect for anyone able to make a life against all odds in NK. I hope someday soon Yeonmi can visit them as free people and help them come to know just how strong and brave they have been.
This is probably one of the reasons N korea stays like this. Men are complacent in how they are treated and the lack of responsibility. Why would a man be mad at this and want to change? There is no drive for change when their life is simpler. Terrible they will not fight for their women.. You are strong and i admire you coming out and talking about this. I have learned so much from your channel. Stay strong and stay brave.
They grow up and they forget it was a woman who raised them, who cared for them, who fed them. All while the man was off gambling and smoking apparently. Yet it seems to not mean anything to them.
Do you realize that if the men open their mouths in North Korea, most times they will be imprisoned or even killed?? You are using Western logic and blaming the average man. I've spent a couple of years in South Korea and know a little bit about North Korea. Trying to place blame on the men of North Korea is asking them to destroy what little life they have, either through imprisonment or worse. You have no idea what you are talking about and your statement is an example of modern people thinking they know so much. That regime is worse than the Nazi's. Many times an entire family is forced to pay for the "sins" of one person. I guess it's worth being imprisoned and tortured so a few women can wear pants.?.?.?.?
It’s not like the men are free either, both men and women in North Korea have to accept the roles and social class they were born into, there is no such thing as freedom, it is literally illegal to challenge these rules
@@notsosilentmajority1 Def not trying to place blame on the men. The government is in control there as in most countries. I apologize for not thinking about the many men who get imprisoned probably everyday there for little ass shit. Just saw it as ONE of the many reasons things MAY stay the same but I dont presume to know anything about their country, how its run, or what the people do/think in it. Obviously the issue is much more then just being able to wear pants. Just pointing out something i thought may be related. Not trying sum anything up at all and I am sorry if i offended you and if i sounded like i was trying to judge them. Life is not black and white and fighting for freedom is a dangerous game, there is no denying that.
@@ivi3261 I wasn't offended. I'm from a generation that doesn't see men get offended too easily but I am impressed by your response. If more people were willing to listen to different opinions we would all be in a better place. Yes, life in North Korea is probably worth less than anywhere else in the world, it doesn't matter which sex you are. It is an extremely brutal regime that was even a little worse (just opinion)under Kim Jung Il. Hopefully more awareness will help bring the changes that the people have been hoping for for such a long time. It's too bad some sort of reunification couldn't have been done when there were more relatives from the Korean war still alive. Good luck to you and best wishes. 🙏🏼
Young Lady, I'm so Glad that you have gotten out of North Korea. I'm a Christian man. And I believe a woman should always be treated with respect, and to be equal with the man. No one should ever make a woman feel to have less worth than a man. Even if the man is a king. In Christianity, when a man and women marry they become One. Not divided or mis treated. Thank you fir sharing the video. It brakes my heart that you were having to live your life like that. And to all the others stuck in North Korea, I was they could all have a better life.
This made me so upset. I wish the concept of "womens rights" didn't exist. Even in Europe where I'm from (a very privileged place), women have historically had to fight for equality and still are. I just can't understand how women have been penalised throughout history (clearly, across the world) - it makes me physically sick. We are intelligent, we are human. Your chanel is such a blessing but it makes me so sad to hear of the struggles of North Korean women. Women from all over the world need to stick together.
One reason women are mistreated is because they have babies. It sounds crazy but it's the truth. If women would have more control over giving birth society would take them more seriously.
@@horacecooper1527 I totally agree. Which makes it even crazier to a rational mind. Like technically (meaning no offence), female humans no longer need male humans as humans have developed ways to freeze sperm and have enough in banks to repopulate the world over, but still need a woman's womb to fully develop humans. So how does that not make us the most dominate sex? (Not that I think there should be a dominate sex - but just a perception).
the partriarchal system worldwide is not aware of the fact that this imbalance is selfdestroying in the long run. male and female energies as divine aspects need to be equaly presented in all creation. what is done onto others will eventually attract the same energy back, like a boomerang. personal responsibilities will show up somewhere in time and space for reparation/compensation as a cosmic divine law. i feel these dark, dark ages of patriarchy are coming to an end soon.
In NK, unmarried woman must go to factory or farm to earn 1 dollar per month. But married woman can stay home and go to black market and she can earn about 50 dollars per month. Which one is better?
Women have it really difficult at some places, especially in North Korea - for a Slovak like me, it is both terrible and terrifying. I think both genders should respect each other and make the other's life easier. I am a man and I would really like women to be respected without these nonsensical laws. Banning women on bicycles? Like really? Who will profit from that?
All the videos I have watched has just broken my heart. I can't imagine living and growing up in those circumstances. You truly have an inner strength made of steel to survive and then go on to thrive. I admire you and respect you...you are fighting g to help the people from where you escaped. You haven't forgotten from where you came from...that to me speaks volumes of your fine character. I will pray for you and your mission .
I would assume that if a person or family is brainwashed to the point that they think Kim Jong Un can read their minds and he is their god, they might think it is an honor that their daughter is chosen. They most likely don't even know what is going to happen to her. If someone knows and has a choice, it most likely does happen.
@@locky2127 even if not an honor, parents probably want their daughters to be chosen because it gives them a slightly better chance of better life, not having to starve in their homes... it's just sad
I'm not sure if you have talked about it before but I'm interested to know how women's health issues are handled in North Korea (like pregnancy and menstruation). Thank you for sharing your story with the world. Your voice is so valuable. Love from Michigan. 💜
@@MetaPhysicalLifeMastery i watched that clip and my mind couldnt wrap itself around that... They hav one Crazi crazi crazi fat leader... But the wheel turns..
Thank you for sharing your story. A few possible video discussion ideas: • How does the North Korean accent differ from the South Korean accent? What are some words that are different? • What is the currency in North Korea? • Had you ever seen someone of a different race or mixed race in Korea? • How do defectors assimilate/blend in and survive in China? • What do they sell in the North Korean black market (ex. South Korean movies etc) and what are the most common black market items. Where do you suppose they get these items from? • What illnesses do you see in North Korea that you see in North America. • Are pregnant women looked after by midwives? Do they deliver at home or in hospital? Is formula available or solely breastfeeding. • How do weddings happen in North Korea? Is it arranged marriages? Are there proposals and big celebrations?
You are so strong and thank you for sharing your experiences as a defected North Korean. I've learned so much from listening to you. Many blessings of the Great Spirit continue to protect you
Yeonmi, I really enjoy your videos describing the abuse and lack of respect that women in No.Korea must tolerate. All women in the United States should value the freedom that they possess and all the benefits that this country affords. It is great that you are raising the awareness of the evil regime in No.Korea. You are fortunate to have escaped the persecution in No.Korea and continue to support your family. You are a true champion of freedom!
@@FrozenPasta I love to wear pants and I find skirts as a sign of oppression because women have to shave their legs regularly. In my schooldays, I had to wear skirts because it is regarded as a school derss code for girls in my country. But now, I don't have to wear skirts because I have my own choice to wear what I want.
@@rishikapaul4740 my whole family just was praised by god and got dry pale skin so no matter was lotion I use I'm always cursed. no way my shiny glowing flakey skin with for some reason red dot/zits with no puss all over meh legs. It's not as noticeable now have I cut out dairy but I also got a bit thIcC in the legs so that makes me self conscious too. In elementary we had a private school I had to wear skirts too. But after 1st grade we left and moved to public schools with no dress code. I always fell and scraped my legs
I really loved this video Yeonmi, I think it helps demonstrate to some of the younger Western generations, myself included, the importance of the women's rights movement in each country or region. Some people may not see the significance that each method of control has over women, especially restricting freedom of movement and travel under the guise of maintaining a feminine appearance or nature. I would love another video on the importance of freedom of travel and movement as a global human right. I think many people in the west do not realize that in restricted places like NK and China that you do not have the freedom to travel freely from region to region and you certainly do not have the freedom to move from region to region to see a better life or employment or school opportunities. I am so strongly hoping in my lifetime that freedom of movement and travel is declared a global human right and we start to hold countries who do not value this right accountable for each and every denial of basic human rights.
We all know NK is not a country, it is the darkest place in the world. This video and the reality approve it. Women in NK are not free, they have nothing- love, support, time to do whatever they want and so many other things. We need to fight for their freedom and lives. They all deserve and need to live their lives like us. Thank you so much Yeonmi for this video🥰. With this video you show us not only the reality in NK, you showed how brave you are. Thank you so much again. Pleasure be strong and dont stop. Love from Bulgaria
Really makes me angry when I listen to citizens of Western Liberal Democracies talking about how oppressed they are - the Woke movement. It's ridiculous. You are doing a great service to raising awareness of what is going on there. We need to count our blessings and be thankful for being born in the USA or Europe or Britain. I am so happy that you escaped.
Knowing that this is a reality that is going on in this world today is so awful! I'm so happy that you got out of that place! As a woman that lives in Ohio I am so lucky for the life I was born into. You're videos inspire me to help others and to not take my life for granted. Thank you for making these videos!
Dont blame it on the north korean men instead blame it on Kim Jong un for making these laws if them men say anything against this stuff they will probably get killed.
@@bubbletea4829 I'm not blaming it on them. I'm just stating a fact, that it's sad and disturbing. It's sad and disturbing that their government is so corrupt that that type of behavior is encouraged.
I don't even understand how is this country working. I can't even imagine life their so greatful to be born in an independent country..we all should be really grateful
Yeonmi explains this thing in her vlogs. In North Korea communist regime, there is no such a thing, they must marry their rapist. Im not sure what if woman gets raped by arleady married man, I'm sure i read somewhere that both will get sended to prison camp. But I'm not sure, must ask Yeonmi on her live.
Yeonmi, this isn’t about the the topic of the video, I just wanted to say you don’t need plastic surgery to be beautiful! Don’t feel pressure from western society to change your appearance because it’s available! Your cheeks without the filler are gorgeous, and so are your lips!
so sad that the women of north korea will never know their true worth just because their country doesn’t value them enough. kim jong un makes me furious especially when you said that bikes were like BMWs. it’s times like this that i’m so grateful i was born in the US
This is so disgusting. I'm literally in tears watching your video Yeonmi. It's utterly heartbreaking to know this is going on as I type this message. I'm so very glad you escaped Yeonmi but my heart breaks for your countrywomen (and men) who haven't escaped these atrocities.
You have such a beautiful name, Yeonmi! And I really like your shirt. Also, thank you for informing us here in the US of what really goes on in NK. It's so refreshing to hear truth and I pray that NK be free soon!
I really enjoyed the live stream today. We are so lucky to have you in our country. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and perspectives. You are amazing. I'm a huge fan
Not even ladies first? It's been "women and children first" in emergencies since forever in western culture, even back when our societies were very patriarchal. Also usually when I've been cooking, I usually don't feel like eating right away, so I often wait a bit while my wife and kids start out. Anyway, it's my wife that has the better education and better paying job, so she's the breadwinner, but then I'm the one with most spare time. So, except from weekends, it's always me doing the shopping and cooking. Most often also me handling the dishwasher. But my wife has some clothes that needs special attention, so she prefers to do that herself, over the weekend.
I just want to say I read your book a few years ago and was so excited to see you have a TH-cam channel, I am obsessed! I'm watching all your videos and I'm amazed at how insightful and intelligent you are and you're such an inspiration!
Awful and they have to do all this without an feminine hygiene products as well! Although the N. Korean men sound a bit like my ex husband. He did go to work for 8 hours everyday, but that was all. I worked, did all the housework, laundry, cooking, child care, etc. And I never did it good enough as my mother-in-law would make rude comments as if I wasn't doing enough while her son sat around watching TV and reading the newspaper. I am so clad that you got away from there and it makes me sad to see the pictures of the totally worn out women.
It makes me so happy that you take the time to like and reply to comments 😁 Also the fact that the idea of feminism isn’t even a thing in North Korea really puts everything into perspective. Not saying that just because NK has it worse means we should stop fighting for change, but it really makes you see how hard women have to struggle just to live and provide for their families.
If that’s what keeps you alive. For me the only thing that stopped me from killing myself was the knowledge that my parents would suffer because they had already lost a child
It’s videos like this that make me happy and thankful to be an American. Most people have no idea what life is like in these other countries. They get up and just the convenience of turning on a light , having heat/air conditioning, hot/cold water, food and transportation!!! My sincere condolences go out to all these people! I wish I could help and do something for them! You take care and I wish you all the best in your future endeavors!!! Sincerely Art PS: how do you stay in contact with your loved ones and how do you get to help???
I’m not asking this to be disrespectful. I’m asking for your safety. Are you considered a legal citizen here yet? I love how you are standing up for the people being treated unfairly in your home country. I love how you were able to get out and finally find your freedom and voice. I fear that one day you’ll have to go back before it is safe for you. I want so badly for you to be able to stay here and stay safe. You are doing such amazing things. ♥️
I can't fathom the daily hardships that the women in NK go through. Absolutely incredible. Amazing the toughness of their minds to be able to survive at all. Am at a loss to express my thoughts about it. When just to go from day to day becomes an act of heroism.
We've all seen the video of DPRK military females marching in skirts. Are they allowed to wear combat fatigues/pants when they are not in parades? They can't seriously be expected to fight in skirts right?
So tragic. There has been so much oppression against women all over the world for so long. However we are slowly getting better and working towards a better world. Sadly North Korea is lagging behind. I pray we get to see the freedom and prosperity for North Koreans within our lifetimes.
My expectations for the quality of life in North Korea were low, but I didn't realize it was this low. I hope in my life I can see North Korea free, with the citizens able to live in the free world. Thank you for sharing your experiences and raising awareness.
This so heart breaking, I'm from Mexico and I can relate to some things but of course not at the same level, I can't imagine... I wish we could do something it makes me feel hopeless. You are so brave! Seeing you love and blessings
You inspire me and make me feel so grateful for every little privilege I take for granted! You are such a bright light in this world and I’m grateful to have heard your story 감사합니다 ❤️
I’m so glad you are telling your story. I’ve been telling so many people to watch you so they can learn. I can’t describe your story. It must be told by you. You are incredibly inspiring.
So many people complain how awful women are treated in America but truth is we are very blessed.. Is it perfect- No !! .. can it be a lot better- Yes !! But compared to most other countries women are treated with respect and valued.
It's not that we complain, it's that we used to have it like this and don't want it to become this. Some of the conversations from American men all over social media, especially on reddit, mirror North Korean ideals. If we stay asleep, and let those ideas run rampant, we can find ourselves in a NK kind of society, where none of the men no longer care about the laws of our land, and don't really care to treat women with respect anymore due to their frustration with women having too many rights. It's the little things that eventually build into oppressive regimes.
in my culture women are the head of the family "Navajo" when a child is born they take their mother's Clan first then the men when they divorce the woman takes everything in my Navajo culture the woman is the most important person without a woman they would have been no soldiers no dictators no presidents, or prime minister without a woman for that reason the woman is very important I'm glad you're out of the country and you are worth more than anything in this world until then walking n Beauty
Hello Yenomi , I just discovered your channel and I'm intrigued by your bravery and your sense of duty , as soon as I watched this video I hit subscribe. I appreciate that you raise awareness even though you can possibly be killed. Greetings from India.
The fact that a bicycle is considered like a BMW is making me so angry. Kim Jong Un has NK set back in the 19th century. That man is disgusting.
Nice that he is fat and His people starving
He was educated here I believe and abroad
He is a vile creature
@@estelleschneider9033 yes in Switzerland
coz he is selfish
He doesn’t even deserve the word disgusting 🙄
North Korea sounds like hell for women. Men go off and do one task while women do literally everything while still being subjected to weird beauty standards and gender expectations. Horrifying.
Do your research and tou will find that in North Korea everybody gets treated like shit, even the children. This women is just a whinging feminist.
@@jasa9707 She’s from North Korea you human dung heap...I think she knows more about it than you do - regardless of whatever “research”.
@@jasa9707 No one said that men/boys don't get treated badly. This video is just focused on women. Make your own video focused on men instead of complaining about her content.
@@jasa9707 She has other videos about how badly men suffer in the military for example.
@@jasa9707 This video focuses on how women are treated in North Korea. No one said that men dont get treated like shit there. Also, what is wrong with being a feminist? Its about bringing equality for all. Think before you comment.
Expecting women to take care of their husbands like babies. What are men good for then? Just extra pain in the as baggage. Sad.
true. Extremely sad and shameful.
😂🤣😂🤣 Amen!
Let's see, all men in North Korea have to serve at least 10 years of mandatory conscription. That is a ridiculous service time. (There is selective conscription for women so it is unlikely one would have to serve). The situation in North Korea is terrible for all ordinary citizens
@@georgie9224 she says in the video that they at least get to have some fun in their works while women are expected to serve endlessly and still their effort is never acknowledged.
So, I'm not saying men don't suffer at all. They all do. But the way they treat all women is, hmmm, different. In a horrible way. I guess even the most opressed man is above a woman in that type of hierarchy
@@georgie9224 And despite that women get the short end of the stick.
Women's rights: **exists**
Kim Jong Un: *imma just ignore that*
@-Celleas- I know but im specifically talking about women's rights.
Human rights are a fucking joke lmaoooo
"we don't do that here"
@@CursedHero.1rl Go live in North Korea then.
Woman's rights exist in america and all english countries other places that are socialist like north korea and communist countries there's not really any at all if any. People don't realize how good Americans have it
How did you ever survive your childhood? Ms. Park I'm so glad you are in America now and telling us your story!
Not just in America, she’s an American. And I am DAMN proud to call her a fellow American.
Can korean japanese girls stop worshipping white guys?
@@yonggeun4222 what are you talking about?
This is absolutely horrendous, NK literally treats women like trash. I sincerely hope North Korean women will someday be free and be able to fight for better treatment. I'm so glad you were able to escape.
A question, if even a doctor earns only $1 per month, what are the consumer prices in North Korea? Like how much it costs to buy bread, rice, milk etc?
white rice is 3$ per kilogram
I'm from india and in my region white rice starts from around 0.03 to 0.5 $ per kg depending on the quality...huge difference🥺😔
@Lost Witness why?
@Lost Witness why must she go back?
We in the west; women and men, we are so lucky we seem to have it all....for now. I count my blessings all the time.
It’s nice getting a first had perspective from a women from North Korea and you are so inspiring. I just found your TH-cam and can’t wait to read your book.
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@@YeonmiParkOfficial : You have such gorgeous , porcelain skin.... Can share what's your secret - skincare, diet etc ..... And where do North Korea ladies get their cosmetics ?
@@TinaSomaS last time I heard her say makeup was not allowed but people use it illegally by smuggling from SK.(if I am not wrong 🤗)
@@eldamitiku3480 If I remember about this video about a defector and cosmetics, they call lipstick something you paint on your lips or something.
What a horrific life. No hope, nothing to look forward to, no happiness ever.
Made me feel so sad I don't have much like really .. but this made me realize... It could be worse 😕
Oh so men In north korea fulfill a very important rol:
1)spem donor
2) being a pain in the ass and exatra baggage
Don't forget the third point:
3) rapist
Rol? Did you mean lol?
Jk though😂 , it's doesnt like role more like they only living to fulfill their lol, but yeah.. i'm glad i'm not born in nk .. poor them..
Kim Jong Un runs his country like a Minecraft server, he is literally shaped like a square.
This comment 👌 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's probably how he runs his country
It's really depressing and sad how women are treated in most societies. This must stop.
Garima Killedar sounds like conservative dream to me. I bet they ban abortions, and woman must be virgin before she marries.
It's up to women to help make the madness stop.
@@vg7985 abortions should most certainly be banned. It seems you support murder.
If only our third-wave feminists would watch this, quit yelling about the patriarchy here, and fight for someone who is truly oppressed; like these oppressed women.
@@calypso7636 IDK why periods are taken as a unpure thing and not able to talk about it freely in public
*You know it's that bad when people find this cruel but isn't surprised.*
Yeah this comment summarises it the best tbh
Wow it very confusing how you have to be a breadwinner but you can't even wear comfortable clothes 😑
That's what I was thinking most of the time.
Is not confusing ,is a sad sad reality.Is not just about clothes,is about everything they have to do for family.....😪😪😪😪😪😪😪
Do you know the feminist concept of "the double shift"? This is one of the very first feminist ideas I heard of in the 1980s. The patriarchal man says "The fact that you work outside the home does not excuse you from any domestic duties. You are not allowed to relax when you come home after work. The first thing I will always ask you when you get home after a long day's work is what you will be cooking for dinner. I will tell you that the most important part of the evening is that I am impatient for a freshly cooked evening meal. Hurry up and start cooking now!!!"
Woman: *Breathes*
Kim Jong Un: *T H O T*
Based Kim Jong-Un.
This reminds me of a book I read about women in Afghanistan where the comment made was "my favorite time of day is at night when I am asleep because no one can bother me then". Thank you for sharing this very important insight Yeonmi!
That is so sad 😪
Afghanistan was very progressive in the 1970ies, and a bit later!
@@michaelwiebe4282 - yes it was but mostly in Kabul. This quote comes from a woman struggling under the Taliban who lives in a remote area under a more tribal way of life.
@@janinekleerup7936 Yes. Iran the same before 1979. Look how the women were clothed in Iran, pretty western, miniskirts ( not all, surely) and well educated. People were enjoying themselves before the Mullahs seized power.
@@michaelwiebe4282 Yes, but today amomg students of Natural Science and Medicine the ratio of female students is much ghigher than in western countries. That is an achievement of the Islamic Revolution. Before the Revolution women were treated as dolls, wearing miniskirts, and not respected for their skills and minds. That has really much improved under and after the islamic revolution.
(I don't say everything is fine so, sometimes there are hardliners that better should shut their mouthes. But to say women are surpressed is far from the truth.)
I also notice that the people of North Korea don't smile, if it's paradise they should be happy
@content content apparently
Kim Jung un’s sister is also bad 😟 idk I saw it somewhere on a vid or sumthn
@@tiaislam645 yeah and elbiage for leader if they except a female (which probably wont)but they will have to
Most defectors actually say they were happier in north Korea, before they got to south Korea. Through their common oppression and comrodery they found ways to to be happy. Most who defect know it's a better life outside of North Korea but have a hard time adjusting to the hard core competitiveness of South Korea and being uneducated, looking like a country bumpkin and finding it difficult to fit in with western society. Most testimonials I've seen on defectors say they were likely happier in NK.
@@jaredmccormick If they go to S. Korea, I'm not surprised by what you're saying (I have S. Korean friends and have learned how incredibly competitive it is in the areas of education and jobs, as well as socially). A friend committed suicide once she left the U.S. to return to S. Korea, after completing university in the U.S. Returning to the competitive environment wore her body, mind, and spirit down. S. Korea is in the top 10 countries with the highest suicide rates (according to the WHO). They tend to adjust much better and are happier when immigrating to Western Europe, the U.S., or Canada, where, yes, they may have to learn a new language and adjust to a very different culture, but the competitiveness and pressures are generally lower, leading to better mental health.
@@jaredmccormick To be fair South Korea is a bit of a capitalist shithole that puts an inordinate amount of pressure on people to not only be successful, but to outwork and outperform everyone else.
Lol Are North Korean women even allowed to breathe?
Depends who they ask for permission
That isn't surpising at all if they need permission to breathe or has a timer.
@content content you don't say?
@@nomoreflooples fr thoooooo
@@nomoreflooples 😂
This is heartbreaking. I want to do something about this, to help these women. I can’t imagine going through something like what is described here... I don’t think I’d be strong enough to handle that.
This woman totally changed my life today. I am so proud of her.
It’s so terrible that when you need to choose human trafficking to survive... 💔
and she is smiling !
@@anna_m59 She really isn't
Yeonmi Park also went through human trafficking, she's seen the horrors of it.
Unless you are captured or forced into it you dont have to choose it
@@iloveamerica64 that is what is happening
@@iloveamerica64 It's not much of a choice either way.
What North Korean women have to go through with hardships, abuse, torture, being sold in China, having their rights taken away from them seriously makes me sick to my stomach. Everything that you are doing for your people and country and raising awareness to free North Korea, is truely inspiring.
I’m a guy myself, and this is infuriating. Wearing pants isn’t “womenly” enough? That’s the crappiest thing i’ve ever heard.
Even in Western countries, it was only a few decades ago that women wearing pants was not considered normal or proper attire when going out somewhere in public or a formal occasion. Maybe to do the gardening. I'm surprised that they are allowed to wear shorter skirts.
Wear a skirt and people will bully you your are living in a biased society in which men are seen as atm machine open ur eyes
Really? That’s the crappiest thing? I’m assuming (and hoping ) that you didn’t watch the video through to the part that details the virtual enslavement of married women, and the actual sale and enslavement of North Korean women.
@@jills4597 he probably means that “isn’t womanly enough” is the dumbest reasoning he ever heard, not like the worst act
In a country where you have no free speech, no food, no rights and you've been seeing public execution since you were a child, I don't think wearing a dress is your biggest concern
My heart is aching, this is so incredibly sad and unacceptable.
You are doing an amazing job, bringing this information to the ignorant world.
Thank you so much! Greetings from Israel. 💜
They can not be real men in North Korea.
A real man helps his wife and children.
Make sure the family has food and money.
Make sure the family has somewhere to live ..
Make sure his wife knows he loves her and the children.
That's what a real man does for his wife and children❤
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This is like afghan culture that my dad is from. So glad he escaped especially the men eating first. They believe bicycles take your virginity too 🙄
@Mithilesh M riding a bicycle as a woman can stretch the skin lining inside of our areas. in many places they judge whether or not a woman is a virgin by how intact the skin lining is even though it's not even accurate
@Mithilesh M I'm a girl and I believe that bicycle is more uncomfortable for boys than for girls. I love bicycling and do it since I was 5 and it didn't affect my body in any negative way. But because in some countries the woman have to bleed in their first sexual experience, it might make them to bleed less, idk, what I do know is that bicycling can make all of our muscles stronger, which is good.
Mithilesh M LOL, the bicycle seat does not penetrate 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@evealexandra4367 Some like to take the seat off, you know. ;)
@Mithilesh M actually, I'm a girl and a medical student, and sometimes due to bike riding or any strenuous activity (exercise) their hymen can tear (which is a thin membrane inside her vagina-- which is used as an indication of a girls virginity. And sometimes hymen can also repair itself 🤷 so scientifically it is decided that the presence or absence of hymen is not proper indication of whether a girl is a virgin or not because it can get torn by many other things apart from penetration (like putting a tampon in)
"Democratic" in the name of North Korea is a slap in the face of democracy.
Me 2 yo day 😭
If I remember correctly, they do vote for various leaders. Its just that the choices are very restricted. ;)
@@darwinjina yea they have one party and one candidate to “vote” for. Talk about choice!
Just as democratic as the Democratic Party in the US.
"Democratic" is really "Demon Crazed". This is slavery.
I feel so bad for the people in North Korea I believe one day they will get the freedom they deserve
I think that this conservative dream is sneaking into to western countries. Let's start from banning abortions.
oh shut up
@@aliceinwonderland394 Why I'm speaking what I think
@@karenstarringveatrice9800 OMG I am sooo sorry....I wasn't replying to you.....I think that ur very much right.......I was saying that the @VG
@@aliceinwonderland394 oh that's ok have a great day tomorrow 😅👍
Every time I watch a video from you I don’t think I will be shocked because I’ve seen the previous one.
I keep getting a shock !
It’s vital work you are doing. Brava to you !
I hope one day all this stops and everyone is treated fairly. My prayers to anyone who has to go through this.
#7 is breaking my heart. On top of providing food for their families that they are not allowed to eat, leaving the house and being at risk of rape or being selected for pleasure house, they run the risk of bring sold into slavery. This is truly terrifying. 💔
As much as I like skirts, they really should have the choice as whether to wear them or not.
I think skirts are the least of their concerns. Especially after not being executed, finding food, medical care, dentistry, clean water, avoiding rape, etcetra ad nauseam ...
@@fjb4932 True. The stupidest part of this whole thing is North Korea's people would be far better off even if they just improved it to the way China is now (which is saying something.) I know it's not going to happen (Korean culture is basically an all or nothing type of culture) so when the Kim regime finally falls, the North Koreans are going to either just go to another horrible regime or go full on capitalist like nothing anybody's seen before. It sounds like the black market is already there to support the capitalist society it really needs as long as chaebols don't get involved.
Men need to keep men on check. I know it's not easy for the good men. But to those of you who care, validate and protect us - continue to do so!
I'm raising two men and deeply appreciate the real men. One step at a time. Men, thank you for doing the work to actively understand this imbalance. You are the ones making us feel safe and comfortable all around.
Skirts should be banned they show to much of a womens legs
You’re the best Yeonmi! Thanks for sharing us these facts! Everyone is equal and should be treated with the most respect. Thank you!
My heart goes out to all the women of North Korea. How terribly sad, hard and depressing that existence would be. I feel so blessed but also so ungrateful, spoiled and selfish for the many freedoms and blessings I’ve been granted by being born in the US. Thank you for sharing this information. I plan on making my daughter watch this so she can too see just how fortunate and blessed she w. ❤️💜❤️💜
This hurts my heart and makes me angry at the same time
As sad as this life is for the women in N Korea, I am fascinated to hear about it!!! Thank you for all of your informative vlogs. 🥰 I hope, someday, soon.... there will be freedom for All N Koreans!!!
@@howdyfellas920 God has given us freedoms here on earth too. But eternal freedom is in heaven, yes.
These women are so strong! I honestly don’t know how they do it, I have so much respect for anyone able to make a life against all odds in NK. I hope someday soon Yeonmi can visit them as free people and help them come to know just how strong and brave they have been.
So true
I just wish they had the push to fight back because I truly believe a revolution is the only possible way of getting this country freedom
This is probably one of the reasons N korea stays like this. Men are complacent in how they are treated and the lack of responsibility. Why would a man be mad at this and want to change? There is no drive for change when their life is simpler. Terrible they will not fight for their women.. You are strong and i admire you coming out and talking about this. I have learned so much from your channel. Stay strong and stay brave.
They grow up and they forget it was a woman who raised them, who cared for them, who fed them. All while the man was off gambling and smoking apparently. Yet it seems to not mean anything to them.
Do you realize that if the men open their mouths in North Korea, most times they will be imprisoned or even killed?? You are using Western logic and blaming the average man. I've spent a couple of years in South Korea and know a little bit about North Korea. Trying to place blame on the men of North Korea is asking them to destroy what little life they have, either through imprisonment or worse. You have no idea what you are talking about and your statement is an example of modern people thinking they know so much. That regime is worse than the Nazi's. Many times an entire family is forced to pay for the "sins" of one person. I guess it's worth being imprisoned and tortured so a few women can wear pants.?.?.?.?
It’s not like the men are free either, both men and women in North Korea have to accept the roles and social class they were born into, there is no such thing as freedom, it is literally illegal to challenge these rules
@@notsosilentmajority1 Def not trying to place blame on the men. The government is in control there as in most countries. I apologize for not thinking about the many men who get imprisoned probably everyday there for little ass shit. Just saw it as ONE of the many reasons things MAY stay the same but I dont presume to know anything about their country, how its run, or what the people do/think in it. Obviously the issue is much more then just being able to wear pants. Just pointing out something i thought may be related. Not trying sum anything up at all and I am sorry if i offended you and if i sounded like i was trying to judge them. Life is not black and white and fighting for freedom is a dangerous game, there is no denying that.
@@ivi3261
I wasn't offended. I'm from a generation that doesn't see men get offended too easily but I am impressed by your response. If more people were willing to listen to different opinions we would all be in a better place. Yes, life in North Korea is probably worth less than anywhere else in the world, it doesn't matter which sex you are. It is an extremely brutal regime that was even a little worse (just opinion)under Kim Jung Il. Hopefully more awareness will help bring the changes that the people have been hoping for for such a long time. It's too bad some sort of reunification couldn't have been done when there were more relatives from the Korean war still alive.
Good luck to you and best wishes. 🙏🏼
Your videos are so well made not to mention that the contents are eye-openers. Very informative & inspiring. You are amazingly brave and blessed.
Young Lady, I'm so Glad that you have gotten out of North Korea. I'm a Christian man. And I believe a woman should always be treated with respect, and to be equal with the man. No one should ever make a woman feel to have less worth than a man. Even if the man is a king. In Christianity, when a man and women marry they become One. Not divided or mis treated. Thank you fir sharing the video. It brakes my heart that you were having to live your life like that. And to all the others stuck in North Korea, I was they could all have a better life.
This made me so upset. I wish the concept of "womens rights" didn't exist. Even in Europe where I'm from (a very privileged place), women have historically had to fight for equality and still are. I just can't understand how women have been penalised throughout history (clearly, across the world) - it makes me physically sick. We are intelligent, we are human.
Your chanel is such a blessing but it makes me so sad to hear of the struggles of North Korean women. Women from all over the world need to stick together.
One reason women are mistreated is because they have babies. It sounds crazy but it's the truth. If women would have more control over giving birth society would take them more seriously.
@@horacecooper1527 I totally agree. Which makes it even crazier to a rational mind. Like technically (meaning no offence), female humans no longer need male humans as humans have developed ways to freeze sperm and have enough in banks to repopulate the world over, but still need a woman's womb to fully develop humans. So how does that not make us the most dominate sex? (Not that I think there should be a dominate sex - but just a perception).
@@horacecooper1527 they give birth to babys and the have their periods.
the partriarchal system worldwide is not aware of the fact that this imbalance is selfdestroying in
the long run. male and female energies as divine aspects need to be equaly presented in all creation.
what is done onto others will eventually attract the same energy back, like a boomerang.
personal responsibilities will show up somewhere in time and space for reparation/compensation
as a cosmic divine law. i feel these dark, dark ages of patriarchy are coming to an end soon.
I don't think we can use the words "even in Europe" anymore. Not after Poland banned all abortions, even for medical reasons!
Do women have a choice not to marry?
NK men seemed like useless extra baggage...
I wonder about this as well.
@Ethan Kunz I wonder what are the chances?
In NK, unmarried woman must go to factory or farm to earn 1 dollar per month. But married woman can stay home and go to black market and she can earn about 50 dollars per month. Which one is better?
One of the defectors said in part of her story that her parents chose a husband for her, so I'm guessing she was forced to marry him with no decision
Many times it’s arranged marriage and there is no choice
Women have it really difficult at some places, especially in North Korea - for a Slovak like me, it is both terrible and terrifying. I think both genders should respect each other and make the other's life easier. I am a man and I would really like women to be respected without these nonsensical laws. Banning women on bicycles? Like really? Who will profit from that?
All the videos I have watched has just broken my heart. I can't imagine living and growing up in those circumstances. You truly have an inner strength made of steel to survive and then go on to thrive. I admire you and respect you...you are fighting g to help the people from where you escaped. You haven't forgotten from where you came from...that to me speaks volumes of your fine character. I will pray for you and your mission .
Your words just made me cry 😪
Gosh I am so blessed that I wasn't born there
God bless them
Pray one day we are all gonna have equal rights
Do families with daughters ever do anything to them to ensure they can't be selected for the pleasure squad? Such as giving them a scar or something?
Right! That's what I would feel forced to do.
I would assume that if a person or family is brainwashed to the point that they think Kim Jong Un can read their minds and he is their god, they might think it is an honor that their daughter is chosen. They most likely don't even know what is going to happen to her.
If someone knows and has a choice, it most likely does happen.
@@locky2127 even if not an honor, parents probably want their daughters to be chosen because it gives them a slightly better chance of better life, not having to starve in their homes... it's just sad
@@rx500android yup. Nothing is more important than feeding themselves
Likely with the rampant food scarcity they think “I’ll never see her again, but wherever she is, she will have food”
I'm not sure if you have talked about it before but I'm interested to know how women's health issues are handled in North Korea (like pregnancy and menstruation). Thank you for sharing your story with the world. Your voice is so valuable. Love from Michigan. 💜
@@MetaPhysicalLifeMastery i watched that clip and my mind couldnt wrap itself around that... They hav one Crazi crazi crazi fat leader... But the wheel turns..
Sanitary pads are banned in NK. They just use old clothes and they stay at home for 5 days (menstruation period)
@@ericasharma9929 🙄🙄🙄
Wtf!!!!
Why pads are banned in NK?!?!?!🙄
It’s sooooooooo essential for women to survive menstruation. 🙄🙄
That sounds senseless!🙄
@@crystal_bold yes... and just imagine how hard it will be for them😖
@@ericasharma9929 yeah, but I just imagine how common senseless, rutheless, narcistic kim john-un or whtever the name is🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Thank you for sharing your story. A few possible video discussion ideas:
• How does the North Korean accent differ from the South Korean accent? What are some words that are different?
• What is the currency in North Korea?
• Had you ever seen someone of a different race or mixed race in Korea?
• How do defectors assimilate/blend in and survive in China?
• What do they sell in the North Korean black market (ex. South Korean movies etc) and what are the most common black market items. Where do you suppose they get these items from?
• What illnesses do you see in North Korea that you see in North America.
• Are pregnant women looked after by midwives? Do they deliver at home or in hospital? Is formula available or solely breastfeeding.
• How do weddings happen in North Korea? Is it arranged marriages? Are there proposals and big celebrations?
You are so strong and thank you for sharing your experiences as a defected North Korean. I've learned so much from listening to you. Many blessings of the Great Spirit continue to protect you
Yeonmi, I really enjoy your videos describing the abuse and lack of respect that women in No.Korea must tolerate. All women in the United States should value the freedom that they possess and all the benefits that this country affords. It is great that you are raising the awareness of the evil regime in No.Korea. You are fortunate to have escaped the persecution in No.Korea and continue to support your family. You are a true champion of freedom!
In North Korea, there is no LADIES FIRST.
Wearing pairs of trousers 👖is not womanly enough?
I'm neva gonna wear a skirt over tights
What even is womanly?
@@FrozenPasta I love to wear pants and I find skirts as a sign of oppression because women have to shave their legs regularly. In my schooldays, I had to wear skirts because it is regarded as a school derss code for girls in my country. But now, I don't have to wear skirts because I have my own choice to wear what I want.
@@rishikapaul4740 my whole family just was praised by god and got dry pale skin so no matter was lotion I use I'm always cursed. no way my shiny glowing flakey skin with for some reason red dot/zits with no puss all over meh legs. It's not as noticeable now have I cut out dairy but I also got a bit thIcC in the legs so that makes me self conscious too. In elementary we had a private school I had to wear skirts too. But after 1st grade we left and moved to public schools with no dress code. I always fell and scraped my legs
@@Rustam7899 having thicc thighs to save lives. And how I like to say it- thicc quick dummy thicc thicc oh yeah thicc thicc.
I really loved this video Yeonmi, I think it helps demonstrate to some of the younger Western generations, myself included, the importance of the women's rights movement in each country or region. Some people may not see the significance that each method of control has over women, especially restricting freedom of movement and travel under the guise of maintaining a feminine appearance or nature. I would love another video on the importance of freedom of travel and movement as a global human right. I think many people in the west do not realize that in restricted places like NK and China that you do not have the freedom to travel freely from region to region and you certainly do not have the freedom to move from region to region to see a better life or employment or school opportunities. I am so strongly hoping in my lifetime that freedom of movement and travel is declared a global human right and we start to hold countries who do not value this right accountable for each and every denial of basic human rights.
We all know NK is not a country, it is the darkest place in the world. This video and the reality approve it. Women in NK are not free, they have nothing- love, support, time to do whatever they want and so many other things. We need to fight for their freedom and lives. They all deserve and need to live their lives like us.
Thank you so much Yeonmi for this video🥰. With this video you show us not only the reality in NK, you showed how brave you are. Thank you so much again.
Pleasure be strong and dont stop.
Love from Bulgaria
So-so heartbreaking! If only we could do something for them! Thank you for all the information you share!
Really makes me angry when I listen to citizens of Western Liberal Democracies talking about how oppressed they are - the Woke movement. It's ridiculous. You are doing a great service to raising awareness of what is going on there. We need to count our blessings and be thankful for being born in the USA or Europe or Britain.
I am so happy that you escaped.
As an American, I wholeheartedly agree!!
Even us in South Africa we are fortunate.
There is no difference when liberals conservatives complain about oppression. They all do it.
Heartbreakingly sad. Women have so much inner strength, they are the true champions of Nth Korea.
Knowing that this is a reality that is going on in this world today is so awful! I'm so happy that you got out of that place! As a woman that lives in Ohio I am so lucky for the life I was born into. You're videos inspire me to help others and to not take my life for granted. Thank you for making these videos!
It's so sad and disturbing how similar north korean men are to children
Dont blame it on the north korean men instead blame it on Kim Jong un for making these laws if them men say anything against this stuff they will probably get killed.
@@bubbletea4829 I'm not blaming it on them. I'm just stating a fact, that it's sad and disturbing. It's sad and disturbing that their government is so corrupt that that type of behavior is encouraged.
@@dw13479 Sorry I misunderstood
I don't even understand how is this country working. I can't even imagine life their so greatful to be born in an independent country..we all should be really grateful
It’s such a good idea to spread the word over TH-cam. Wish you all the success !
What if a woman in North Korea gets pregnant without consent from a man she doesn’t know ? How will the child get the father’s name ?
Yeonmi explains this thing in her vlogs. In North Korea communist regime, there is no such a thing, they must marry their rapist. Im not sure what if woman gets raped by arleady married man, I'm sure i read somewhere that both will get sended to prison camp. But I'm not sure, must ask Yeonmi on her live.
@@anesiaw3906 omg I see
@@anesiaw3906 absolutely horrible and disgusting. I pray these women will be freed some day and this regime goes through literal hell
@@FarahNathanna , I would say they are already in Hell.
@@anesiaw3906 but marital rape is not illegalised there.
Yeonmi, this isn’t about the the topic of the video, I just wanted to say you don’t need plastic surgery to be beautiful! Don’t feel pressure from western society to change your appearance because it’s available! Your cheeks without the filler are gorgeous, and so are your lips!
I find it interesting you call yourself a "defector". I understand where it comes from, and why you say it. I find you very brave.
so sad that the women of north korea will never know their true worth just because their country doesn’t value them enough. kim jong un makes me furious especially when you said that bikes were like BMWs. it’s times like this that i’m so grateful i was born in the US
“Ladies first,” however, is still part of that same patriarchy. It’s just milder over here and more hidden.
You may be happier in North Korea, miss.
This is so disgusting. I'm literally in tears watching your video Yeonmi. It's utterly heartbreaking to know this is going on as I type this message. I'm so very glad you escaped Yeonmi but my heart breaks for your countrywomen (and men) who haven't escaped these atrocities.
You have such a beautiful name, Yeonmi! And I really like your shirt. Also, thank you for informing us here in the US of what really goes on in NK. It's so refreshing to hear truth and I pray that NK be free soon!
I really enjoyed the live stream today. We are so lucky to have you in our country. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and perspectives. You are amazing. I'm a huge fan
Not even ladies first? It's been "women and children first" in emergencies since forever in western culture, even back when our societies were very patriarchal. Also usually when I've been cooking, I usually don't feel like eating right away, so I often wait a bit while my wife and kids start out.
Anyway, it's my wife that has the better education and better paying job, so she's the breadwinner, but then I'm the one with most spare time.
So, except from weekends, it's always me doing the shopping and cooking. Most often also me handling the dishwasher. But my wife has some clothes that needs special attention, so she prefers to do that herself, over the weekend.
I am so thankful for your videos. I have learned so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Women in the USA are not required to change their names when they marry. My wife did not.
Thanks for sharing all of this information Yeonmi. It breaks my heart but we can’t make a change if we don’t know.
I'm hooked on your videos, I've been telling everyone I know about your stories. Change is coming.
I just want to say I read your book a few years ago and was so excited to see you have a TH-cam channel, I am obsessed! I'm watching all your videos and I'm amazed at how insightful and intelligent you are and you're such an inspiration!
I accidentally came across your channel and subscribed right away . Wow you've really opened up my eyes. Thank you for educating us .
Awful and they have to do all this without an feminine hygiene products as well! Although the N. Korean men sound a bit like my ex husband. He did go to work for 8 hours everyday, but that was all. I worked, did all the housework, laundry, cooking, child care, etc. And I never did it good enough as my mother-in-law would make rude comments as if I wasn't doing enough while her son sat around watching TV and reading the newspaper. I am so clad that you got away from there and it makes me sad to see the pictures of the totally worn out women.
It makes me so happy that you take the time to like and reply to comments 😁 Also the fact that the idea of feminism isn’t even a thing in North Korea really puts everything into perspective. Not saying that just because NK has it worse means we should stop fighting for change, but it really makes you see how hard women have to struggle just to live and provide for their families.
Whenever suicide thought comes to my mind, I always pause myself just because I want to see their freedom before I die.
You should have more hope that good days are ahead because they actually are. Even your breath is a gift.
If you want a new friend, let me know! ☺️
Thank you. If only I live in a good environment with positive people like you, I might be having an easier life than nowadays.
If that’s what keeps you alive. For me the only thing that stopped me from killing myself was the knowledge that my parents would suffer because they had already lost a child
@@neverland5514 look for a Christ centered church to find support and friendship, I will pray for you tonight.
It’s videos like this that make me happy and thankful to be an American. Most people have no idea what life is like in these other countries. They get up and just the convenience of turning on a light , having heat/air conditioning, hot/cold water, food and transportation!!! My sincere condolences go out to all these people! I wish I could help and do something for them!
You take care and I wish you all the best in your future endeavors!!!
Sincerely Art
PS: how do you stay in contact with your loved ones and how do you get to help???
I’m not asking this to be disrespectful. I’m asking for your safety. Are you considered a legal citizen here yet? I love how you are standing up for the people being treated unfairly in your home country. I love how you were able to get out and finally find your freedom and voice. I fear that one day you’ll have to go back before it is safe for you. I want so badly for you to be able to stay here and stay safe. You are doing such amazing things. ♥️
I can't fathom the daily hardships that the women in NK go through. Absolutely incredible. Amazing the toughness of their minds to be able to survive at all. Am at a loss to express my thoughts about it. When just to go from day to day becomes an act of heroism.
We've all seen the video of DPRK military females marching in skirts. Are they allowed to wear combat fatigues/pants when they are not in parades? They can't seriously be expected to fight in skirts right?
So tragic. There has been so much oppression against women all over the world for so long. However we are slowly getting better and working towards a better world. Sadly North Korea is lagging behind. I pray we get to see the freedom and prosperity for North Koreans within our lifetimes.
This is what I imagine being in the apocalypse would be like. I will never complain about my life again
My expectations for the quality of life in North Korea were low, but I didn't realize it was this low. I hope in my life I can see North Korea free, with the citizens able to live in the free world. Thank you for sharing your experiences and raising awareness.
I appreciate every single video you upload! The insight into all of these things is devastating but so important to learn. I appreciate you
This so heart breaking, I'm from Mexico and I can relate to some things but of course not at the same level, I can't imagine... I wish we could do something it makes me feel hopeless. You are so brave! Seeing you love and blessings
You are doing a wonderful job yeonmi. ❤️ Keep going 👍
How can you give this woman a thumbs down????
Thank You for your voice Yeonmi..you are an eye opener to the whole world..We support you for your passion..
I just got your book in the mail I can’t wait to read it!
I read it 4 years ago! it's so good! enjoy!
You inspire me and make me feel so grateful for every little privilege I take for granted! You are such a bright light in this world and I’m grateful to have heard your story
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This makes me so mad at how insanely wrong it is. Omg.
All these rules sound like projected insecurities of a man with an exceptionally small "manhood".
I’m so glad you are telling your story. I’ve been telling so many people to watch you so they can learn. I can’t describe your story. It must be told by you. You are incredibly inspiring.
I found your videos yesterday and I watched almost all of them already, thank you for the education
So many people complain how awful women are treated in America but truth is we are very blessed.. Is it perfect- No !! .. can it be a lot better- Yes !! But compared to most other countries women are treated with respect and valued.
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It's not that we complain, it's that we used to have it like this and don't want it to become this. Some of the conversations from American men all over social media, especially on reddit, mirror North Korean ideals. If we stay asleep, and let those ideas run rampant, we can find ourselves in a NK kind of society, where none of the men no longer care about the laws of our land, and don't really care to treat women with respect anymore due to their frustration with women having too many rights. It's the little things that eventually build into oppressive regimes.
in my culture women are the head of the family "Navajo" when a child is born they take their mother's Clan first then the men when they divorce the woman takes everything in my Navajo culture the woman is the most important person without a woman they would have been no soldiers no dictators no presidents, or prime minister without a woman for that reason the woman is very important I'm glad you're out of the country and you are worth more than anything in this world until then walking n Beauty
@Catch_Me_If_You_Can In the U.S. in parts of Arizona, New Mexico, and Utah.
I guess this man first is common in most Asian countries. Sad reality of our lives. Things are slowly but surely changing. Hoping for the best....
Hello Yenomi , I just discovered your channel and I'm intrigued by your bravery and your sense of duty , as soon as I watched this video I hit subscribe. I appreciate that you raise awareness even though you can possibly be killed. Greetings from India.