@@purslane231 hey, l am not trying to be the smart or dump ass. What is the truth? For example, who to vote for Trump or Harris? For the purpose of making a point, who ever others feel right with either candidate, that is their truth. Now we might have felt for all the wrong and right reasons, we the think the alternative is the truth. I understand whoever you feel is the better choice, it's just as hard to reason with you. I read that it's quick a common phenomenon across the United States that family members are no longer talking to each others because of their held beliefs in different truth. Marriages are broken. If we analyse more deeply and may come to the conclusion that this differences in the belief of everyone should not break the relationships with the closest and dearest. Yet there are too many families and marriages are now broken. Why? Please read my other comment in this video above of the real problem behind this worthless fight with one another.
@@WiseAdvice93 what is the truth? Ours or others. This is the single most potent delusional folly that rob away our peace, thinking that we have the truth and others don't. For example, who should we have voted, Trump or Harris? Whatever one feels right, that is the truth. But what if others feel differently? This ego of holding one's belief more than others and forcing others to bend their will is deadly.
@@WiseAdvice93 Also, the consequence of speaking a truth can often result in a personal attack and/or follow-up shunning. The beauty of living this stage of life is that we essentially don’t care anymore (if we’re shunned, denigrated or even verbally defiled)! The world is full of people; find new friends that are not offended by thought and speech with which they may not agree. That was once the measure of our society and a standard THAT MUST be recovered!
I recently went to Japan. When an elderly women walked through the train platforms people made way for her, some even bowed as she passed by, held head high. Wow!
My mother was Japanese. She explained to me that "ancestors" were revered and we should do nothing that dishonored them. I'm now 76 and could use a little of that respect.
@@MsBuffalopoo i can't forget the atrocities Carried out by the Japanese in.world war two a very secular race of people its a fact they do revere their old and in a strange way its Japanese culture down through the centuries
1. Envy & jealousy. 2. Misunderstandings & ineffective communication. 3. Differences in fundamental values & beliefs. 4. The influence of rumors & gossip. 5. Personal insecurities & projection. 6. Lack of empathy & understanding. 7. Competition or rivalry. 8. The influence of social expectations. 9. The lack of recognition.
Gotta be appreciative for every moment and day because nothing is guaranteed. Keep your success quiet and help ones you can tell are down but trying so hard to make it in life w/o a crutch like drugs, alcohol or cigarettes that our government loves you getting addicted to so they can control you. If you avoid these 3 evil things and just work steady you’ll become financially independent real quick as long as you don’t have a bad female in your life that can ruin all things . Don’t let pussy from a pretty woman rule you. It’s all good so find a woman is is a good person and have a nice marriage with someone who can build a beautiful life and family for you both.
My word Tom Tom your advice is as true & sound as your name 😊❤ agree 💯 with all you say simple but people sadly complicate life. I too believe life is what you make it don't have to own the bank. Appreciate don't destroy self, anyone else or world we are so blessed to live in. Do best you can with your life don't waste it life goes quick is short even if live to 100. If do right things can't go too far wrong. No additives root of all evil. Drinking alcohol if like ok if have stipulated amount. I'm lucky not a drinker glad don't like but everyone to their own. Respect all help when can can't be a taker all your life & live look after your health rest then takes care of itself..practice inner health. Keep 🚶 🙏 thanks to Great Creator - again whatever works in your life as no one else's business.
@@jangriffin-fi1yx yes God is at the center of my heart I pray a lot thru my day saying at least I love You Jesus thank You. Once I got alone time and really listened to His word my life got way more calm. Thank you for your response I loved reading it and agree with you also about the alcohol in a light amount occasionally. The reason I got turned away from it as a teenager is because it wasn’t good in my family. God bless you
Oh Boy! Do I understand! But if you look at it, all the haters are also YOUNGER and have NOT HAD THE EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE HAD! Ya Gotta love it, really.
I don’t want to “work” at “understanding” young people who don’t know squat about life. If they won’t listen to my wisdom, then let them make their own mistakes.
And what annoys me about older people are they are stuck in their ways and want everything their way. And are manipulative and know it alls .And I'm 68 and trying not to be that way 😁
I used to think that my optimism and belief that there was a reason to help others by inspiring them was appreciated and embraced on social media. Instead it brings out envy and jealousy in a majority of people. I only share what I do now with those I choose. My unshakable optimism is still there and I find great joy in sharing it with those who deserve it and appreciate it. My silence on Instagram and Facebook is creating a vacuum in the lives of the haters. They are confused and unable to target me anymore. It gives me a great sense of freedom and peace.
My wife and I are building a Timber Frame mountain lodge style cabin on a piece of land we purchased 8 years ago after renting for 40 years. It's been the greatest adventure of our lives. Our sons and some amazing friends are helping us build. Follow your dreams, don't listen to the people who doubt you. Be the Hero of your own life not a victim of it. Have fun, laugh often and sit around a campfire often with family and friends. You can thank me later.
Not quite 70, but I've been single for a long time. Dating doesn't interest me. Been through enough of them. I've learned relationships take a lot of work. I have many dear longtime friends. They have become my family, and we don't get together often. But keep in touch. I'm never lonely. More of an introvert I spend lots of time alone. I prefer it that way. Love my piece of mind. No more stress! I won't have it.
All through my life I have been hated by Men, and Women liked me very much. Now I'm 70 yrs old I Understand. People tell me even now that I'm good looking and very intelligent. In other words They were Jealous ! So I told most men to F*ck Off ! And I never got married or had children. I live in my own place with my 2 Dogs and I couldn't be happier !
@@spaceted3977Me too, never got married (almost 25 years ago but I broke the engagement) I am retired with my 2 dogs living in my own home and so damned happy. I live right down the road where I worked for over 40 years. I thought a few times in the past few years I wasn’t going to make it to retirement because of all the miserable people I worked with who turned into mean, nasty people and they were jealous that I was near retirement and they had to stay. I love the peacefulness and contentment in just something as simple as sitting outside drinking coffee listening to the birds and watching the donkeys and horses in the pasture behind my house. 😊
@@spaceted3977 I LOVE it ! lol Everybody wants to stand next to a beautiful person or have sex with them but the truth is that humans want to be be understood and heard. I'm glad that you where smart enough to figure that out and be authentic. By the way I too serve dogs because...... " I've never met a dog that lied to me."
I am a 78 year old male and find young people are almost always nice and respectful to me. Perhaps it’s because I am nice and respectful to them. They realize that I like them. Also I think it’s because I give out good vibes. I generally really like young people, and they realize it. Many of them are going through very tough times and I am very empathetic.
Dr Joe Dispenza does a lot of clinical research at his 7 day retreats :) He expected the Young People to impact positive results to the Older People...The Opposite happened. Your Elders have Extra Wisdom :)
Sadly, this program simply reinforced my desire to avoid as many people as possible. Relationships inevitably bring conflict and heartache. I suggest pets and God as alternatives to people. They won’t let you down.
Who gives a shit what people think, either they like me love me or hate me it’s none of my business and it’s not my concern. Who cares, the most important person that loves me is me, everyone else can FO.
You are right to not give a shit. I was recently at a supermarket checkout with only as much as I needed in my basket, which was around sixty five dollars worth of food. As I waited for the woman in front to finish loading her four hundred dollars worth onto the belt, I remembered I had a supermarket coupon in my wallet worth fifty dollars if you spent more than $350. Being that I could not use the coupon and which would expire soon, I took out this coupon and offered it to the woman. As I explained she would be welcome to use it. She half closed her eyes, said nothing, disapprovingly looked me up and down as if I was asking to shit in her handbag, snatched the coupon from my fingers and waved it at the checkout lady, who took it and discounted the woman's bill. Not a word of thanks or even a nod of gratitude. As this woman customer left, the checkout lady (who had seen all of this) was as disgusted as myself and we were both astonished at how rude some people can be. Top marks to the checkout lady...but the other lady...you can guess what I think. Help some women and they accept the help but spit in your face.
This is a very well thought out dissertation on what life brings us over the years, the thoughts we and others in our lives have and the complexity of life’s dynamics. It encourages introspection, compassion and humility. Life is complex and this helps us to step back a little in a calm manner and try to achieve understanding in our relationships with others.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Life's complexities indeed require introspection, compassion, and humility to navigate relationships meaningfully.
In regards to reasons 4 and 7, my personal solution to these is to learn the Number One rule of basic survival: NEVER TRUST ANYONE! The younger generations of Americans thrive on stirring up anger, bitter feelings, hostile confrontation, and making enemies. They do not like kindness, compassion, nor affection from older generations of people, like myself. Younger American women misinterpret all forms of kindness from men as sexual harassment.
I believe, my brother and sister are envious of my life decisions and prosperity. I have remained single without kids. They have had unhappy relationships with their spouses/ boyfriend and troubled children. Their bad behavior towards me has caused me to greatly distance myself, from them. My sister thinks she is entitled to my money. (Delusional/Narcissistic)
I found this very helpful, since I'm just entering my Golden years. A few things I refuse in doing is let my grey come in and to ever discuss my money situation to anyone ever(or lack thereof)
I thought that was high school and workplace problems. When you're old nobody cares because you're just plain old. I don't see what there is to be jealous of
I'm old and alone. My wife died and here family hates me. What was left of my family are gone too. No one left. Only Me. All gone brothers sisters ants uncles.
Screw them all. Younger generations waiting for you to die. Love yourself, get a cat or dog. People suck. It is what it is. If you have a good friend, you are Lucky. Don't waste your Time on the kids.
@Will-ko I feel for you, I'm a female all alone, my daughter has turned into someone I don't even recognise anymore, not the person I brought into the world. I can't deal with the loneliness. 🇦🇺
I'm in your generation. Don't forget how arrogant we were back in the 60's 70's and 80's when we were first stoned and moralizing hippies and then turned into fashion- and trend-obsessed sleep-arounders in leisure suites and mutton chops and then we really made asses of ourselves in the 80's as evangelists of the importance of money-making, conspicuous consumption and bodily health. And we were pretty rude about it all along, denigrating our parents' generation as uneducated Archie Bunkers whose morals were laughingly passe.
This is western culture is like. Whereas countries in SE Asia such problems are non existent. Like Japanese culture they treasure the elders in their community.
Your videos are always welcome. Being age 71 I've experienced trials and troubles but there always has been a reason for me to press on. As always "1". Thank you.
I’m 72 and can hike 8 k no problem. And not a hint of dementia . Right now I’m in the jungle in Central America on an adventure . Nope, not going down without a fight ….
I've never thought of the older generations as a burden, not even in my teens. I WAS mighty upset with them between the ages of 5 and 11 when I was denied two deserts at every meal, had to be in bed by 9:30 and wasn't allowed to drive the car.
Mymymymy, ! For the first 76 years of my life - well,perhaps not years 1 thru 7 ! - I told myself much what this video said! HOw lovely to hear it expressed !
I've been treated like outcast and not approachable since I was a kid..now on my 60s and not a thing has changed.. I'm a very patient, quiet sigma male..so I'm used to being ignored or not the center of someone else's attention.. don't need it.. figured out human nature and life very young...life goes on until ot doesn't...Have a great weekend folks.
Being authentic rather than a chameleon reliably drives people away. But not having been authentic, reportedly, is one of the things dying people most regret. It comes down to choice.
I disagree...its not about others hating on the elderly, its about the younger generations resenting having to show ( or societal expectations concerning respect and compassion to the elderly) concern that they would rather lavish on themselves. JMO....
My mother is 95, her life now completely depends on others, care giver, doctors, nurses. I feel this is very sad when you are so old and fully depends on someone, I do not think her life is with dignity, which is what I am so afraid of when I am getting to her age.
You can always find at least one common value with anyone, even if you have to go to the most core value: everyone wants to have a good life. Problem is, there's still immature people who just don't care how they treat others.
25 years Psychiatric DSW behavioural : Your talking about B-Cluster Personalities that run 6 / 1000. Study on Narcissism and antisocial personalities and borderlines plus Psychopaths that make life difficult for people looking for love and joy in life.
Yep...I turned 50 & literally overnight I became invisible ignored and treated less than. I'm stunned because I don't look much different from 48 -49. Very much a change in the matrix, the world is for the young obviously
I wish for someone who has no family or friends left, as those who were like you have passed away. Today, we need a community of our own, to help each other through this end of life… is there any chance of finding someone who will help?
I’m amazed at the things that my family respects me for. I overcame an addiction, for instance. I’m so angry at myself for having the addiction and not being successful at overcoming it for so long. I respect myself for the political work that I did, and even though my family agrees with me politically, they never want me to speak about politics.
Well, he is right about the gossip and the erosion of trust in a family. The thing is that the people who listen and believe it about one individual, don't realize they are also a target, behind their backs. The drama queen gets away with it and creates this poisonous atmosphere. The envy comes from failures in that gossiper's own life. And the damage that is done is real. It gets worse with time.
Haters will always hate, but it often comes from a place of weakness and laziness. For some, tearing others down feels easier than facing the challenge of personal growth.
I have come to recognise the biggest error in our expectations and ways of handling many types of relationship. The common belief is that we can change others, if we have enough wisdom to demonstrate to others why their feeling or view toward certain things are not right or the best. Why? How we feel about certain things, actually translate to what we think about them and hence they become our world views. Simply put, these are our truths. The common wisdom is that they are sciences and big data behind all things. It's therefore critical to enlighten others to help others to see the truth truth. It's as if there are buttons in people's heads that you can somehow enter their heads and help them switch on the right switches and off the wrong switches. Then your own world views and truths can be imparted to others. This becomes power play of will. The fact is that we all believe we got the truth to just about everything based on how we feel each one of them, rightly or wrongly to others. But to everyone, their feeling about anything and everything is the truth. They don't have any button in their heads for you to manipulate. Neither do we. If we can come to realise that there is no switch in other's head, we can let go of any differences between one another and move on. For example a wife think that this is the best products to invest in after she had or had not done the studies, and likewise, her husband think otherwise. You can imagine how they tried in every means to convince the other and for some marriage, this going back and forth never end. But if one understood how not to look for the switch in the other head, he or she would have let the other have his or her way. The outcome of these products in reality have a big part on luck and is for the future to reveal. With knowing that there is no switch and move on to let go of the desire to change other can bring about inner peace for yourself and yet can enjoy life alongside others. If can can truly believe that there is absolutely no switch in other's head, this power play stops and we can go on to enjoy things that cannot destroy our inner peace. Perhaps when kids were growing up under your care, you do have a responsibility to push them to a certain extent, but even that not all kids can deal with that in any meaningful and beneficial ways. They don't have a switch either. Perhaps the only difference is that they haven't established their feels toward many things and are stll teachable. Once we depart ftom this power play and letting go of how other think and feel of all matters, we have just deleted all the expectations on others. What causes us stresses and anxieties? Misalignment of our expectations with realities. Once we know that there is no cat up on a tree, the sooner we leave the tree alone and move on with our own lives to enjoy what is available in that narrow space.
My philosophy on people who hate me is based upon the Conan movie: What is best in life? To crush your enemies. See them driven before you. And to hear the lamentations of their women.
I prepared for old I don't live with nobody I don't beg nobody pay my bills so don't care if you hate me because I am old if you are young start prepared for old age
Many people use the word "hate" loosely and don't mean a word of it. I have done it and heard it myself. I blew it off as most people I know did too. We understood that the person didn't REALLY hate anyone. Just momentary anger. 3:36
My husband and I raised four boys...two sons married and had each had two children, and two (twins) never married... My husband grew up in very poor circumstances with God fearing and hard working parents in a large family. As a small boy he had 3 to 4 part time jobs to support the family. He helped with chores. He supported his parents when he grew up. My parents were fairly well off, Dad had a trade, Mom in sales..both worked hard...had their own home and gave our children best education they could afford. Both sets of parents disapproved of our marriage for language, cultural and financial reasons. We were of age when married in church, had very little, both of us worked hard for 6 years before we welcomed our first child. We provided a home, holidays, private schools, love and encouragement for all four, who graduated, each with two degrees from universities, local and international. They all have good jobs, lived independently and provide for their families in very expensive countries and two in home country. I live alone in a Retirement Centre, with lovely other residents...find it expensive and not providing adequate services or real caring ...this forces me to do most of my own cooking, cleaning, gardening,washing, and as boys far away, all my own financial matters, car services, hospital check ups etc. I exercise, dance with a group, go to to Bible Study and church every week. Only one son invites me to visit, and it is a 20 hour flight in two carriers...both he and his wife work in the day...this son has been retrenched and cannot understand my needs and I must not voice my problems at retirement centre as 'there are many so much worse off'... My second son may pop in to visit when in my country on business or visiting his wife's family....no invite to his countr...he supports me financially towards medical bills...his wife does not invite... grandchildren grown up...seldom shared while growing up... My twin sons cut off all communication with my husband and I for past 20 years...they live near me... I really try communicating, must try harder not to share difficulties I encounter with management in retirement centre or my other concerns...my dance classes are my saving grace, friends have moved or busy with families...brothers ill or moved to distant towns...keep in touch on WhatsApp...just feel exhausted mostly...so little touch, 'Mom we love and appreciate you...we miss you'...when I can no longer be active...? Will pray more, try harder, never ever complain, and smile.... God bless, Merle.
Oh! This is a wonderful subject!!! I'm 70. Boy do I get looks! Most haet you because your retired. Their Hell is ahead of them. They hate you because you have a nice car or truck. These kids want to be doctors or lawyers. That dose not fall from the sky!!! It's a laugh to me. I have a farm. Some my mom and dads. Some I bought worked and paid for. The LITTLE BUMS. At my home don't have credit. They don't work. That's the heart of it! THEY WONT WORK!!! LAZY!!!😮😮😮😮😮
One thing people don't realize is they have the exact same amount of hours in their lives as others, if you did not fill your time with meaningful things it's no one else's fault but your own. Stop trying to blame others because you wasted the time given to you. Take responsibility that YOU blew it. You get old as the result of a blessing from God. I know many that died young and at other ages. If you won't respect others, respect God's gift to them.
Why should we elders be the ones approach with humility, offer empathy and compassion, and listening? When people are openly hostile and disrespectful, I don’t owe them a damned thing.
Yip. That gossip is a really ugly thing. I have been hurt down to the core by that. But on reflection I realized that in no way can I expect such ugly people to have the same values and morals than me. I of course realize that I have my faults. But, by distancing myself from such ogres I have had time to rather reflect and change my own weaknesses and improve my life. I was a goody two shoes but I have learned that that sweet frame of mind has left me wide open to attacks. I now take a more balanced approach to how I help people and learned the very hard lesson to build an invisible barrier to protect myself without being nasty. I have found that when you let go of the resentment you have so much more time to occupy yourself with the things you enjoy and place a value in. I have so much to do and it takes me longer to do it. Time goes faster the older you get but that is because you get slower the older you get. If you dont have people around you all the time you dont mind. You are not lonely you just enjoy your privacy and the ability to get things done in your own time and capacity.
It's inspiring how you've turned a hurtful experience into an opportunity for self-growth. Setting boundaries while staying kind is a powerful skill, and it's wonderful that you've found peace by focusing on what truly matters to you. Keep prioritizing your well-being and passions-your strength shines through!
I don’t live my life trying to get people to like me you either do or you don’t I really don’t GAF if you don’t that’s not my problem it’s yours being myself attracts the right kind of people
Because we speak truth! Nobody wants truth it’s too uncomfortable😢
Truth can be tough to hear, but it’s important to speak it anyway.
I have this problem withy youngest daughter not so much other kids. Yep there is a disconnect.
@@purslane231 hey, l am not trying to be the smart or dump ass. What is the truth?
For example, who to vote for Trump or Harris? For the purpose of making a point, who ever others feel right with either candidate, that is their truth. Now we might have felt for all the wrong and right reasons, we the think the alternative is the truth.
I understand whoever you feel is the better choice, it's just as hard to reason with you.
I read that it's quick a common phenomenon across the United States that family members are no longer talking to each others because of their held beliefs in different truth. Marriages are broken.
If we analyse more deeply and may come to the conclusion that this differences in the belief of everyone should not break the relationships with the closest and dearest. Yet there are too many families and marriages are now broken. Why? Please read my other comment in this video above of the real problem behind this worthless fight with one another.
@@WiseAdvice93 what is the truth? Ours or others. This is the single most potent delusional folly that rob away our peace, thinking that we have the truth and others don't.
For example, who should we have voted, Trump or Harris? Whatever one feels right, that is the truth. But what if others feel differently? This ego of holding one's belief more than others and forcing others to bend their will is deadly.
@@WiseAdvice93 Also, the consequence of speaking a truth can often result in a personal attack and/or follow-up shunning. The beauty of living this stage of life is that we essentially don’t care anymore (if we’re shunned, denigrated or even verbally defiled)! The world is full of people; find new friends that are not offended by thought and speech with which they may not agree. That was once the measure of our society and a standard THAT MUST be recovered!
I recently went to Japan. When an elderly women walked through the train platforms people made way for her, some even bowed as she passed by, held head high. Wow!
Your sharing is wonderful!
Thank you very much ❤️❤️❤️
My mother was Japanese. She explained to me that "ancestors" were revered and we should do nothing that dishonored them. I'm now 76 and could use a little of that respect.
@@MsBuffalopoo i can't forget the atrocities Carried out by the Japanese in.world war two a very secular race of people its a fact they do revere their old and in a strange way its Japanese culture down through the centuries
1. Envy & jealousy.
2. Misunderstandings & ineffective communication.
3. Differences in fundamental values & beliefs.
4. The influence of rumors & gossip.
5. Personal insecurities & projection.
6. Lack of empathy & understanding.
7. Competition or rivalry.
8. The influence of social expectations.
9. The lack of recognition.
You think you would have "Peace-Of-Mind" in your old age😊
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
thanks my friend
Thanks a lot for sharing!
@@georgevavoulis4758 That depends on the life you lived. Many were turds and now have time to sit around and reflect on the turds that they were.
Haters gonna hate. Weak ,lazy people find hate easier than self improvement.
Gotta be appreciative for every moment and day because nothing is guaranteed. Keep your success quiet and help ones you can tell are down but trying so hard to make it in life w/o a crutch like drugs, alcohol or cigarettes that our government loves you getting addicted to so they can control you. If you avoid these 3 evil things and just work steady you’ll become financially independent real quick as long as you don’t have a bad female in your life that can ruin all things . Don’t let pussy from a pretty woman rule you. It’s all good so find a woman is is a good person and have a nice marriage with someone who can build a beautiful life and family for you both.
My word Tom Tom your advice is as true & sound as your name 😊❤ agree 💯 with all you say simple but people sadly complicate life. I too believe life is what you make it don't have to own the bank. Appreciate don't destroy self, anyone else or world we are so blessed to live in. Do best you can with your life don't waste it life goes quick is short even if live to 100. If do right things can't go too far wrong. No additives root of all evil. Drinking alcohol if like ok if have stipulated amount. I'm lucky not a drinker glad don't like but everyone to their own. Respect all help when can can't be a taker all your life & live look after your health rest then takes care of itself..practice inner health. Keep 🚶 🙏 thanks to Great Creator - again whatever works in your life as no one else's business.
@@jangriffin-fi1yx yes God is at the center of my heart I pray a lot thru my day saying at least I love You Jesus thank You. Once I got alone time and really listened to His word my life got way more calm. Thank you for your response I loved reading it and agree with you also about the alcohol in a light amount occasionally. The reason I got turned away from it as a teenager is because it wasn’t good in my family. God bless you
From God's lips, to your fingers . . .
The truth is that most people only like to hear compliments or lies, the truth always brings uncomfortable feelings.
True
I agree. There's only one truth. But there are a lot of lies.
That's the truth and if you don't like it tough haha 😆
I was one of the lucky ones.. I didn't have to wait to get old for people to hate me.
lol (I like that one!)
Oh Boy! Do I understand! But if you look at it, all the haters are also YOUNGER and have NOT HAD THE EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE HAD! Ya Gotta love it, really.
That’s tough, but remember, it’s not about being liked by everyone. Focus on those who value you.
That’s funny.
I don’t want to “work” at “understanding” young people who don’t know squat about life. If they won’t listen to my wisdom, then let them make their own mistakes.
The number one piece of advice I have for young people is don't worry about things that you can't change.
Absolutely true! Focus on what you can control and let the rest go.
I've found that the only person I can change is myself.
And what annoys me about older people are they are stuck in their ways and want everything their way. And are manipulative and know it alls .And I'm 68 and trying not to be that way 😁
@@theodoregibbons4615and not always ha ha
Most on TH-cam are seniors so it is good to be grateful for the season you are in.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I used to think that my optimism and belief that there was a reason to help others by inspiring them was appreciated and embraced on social media. Instead it brings out envy and jealousy in a majority of people. I only share what I do now with those I choose. My unshakable optimism is still there and I find great joy in sharing it with those who deserve it and appreciate it. My silence on Instagram and Facebook is creating a vacuum in the lives of the haters. They are confused and unable to target me anymore. It gives me a great sense of freedom and peace.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Misery loves company.
My wife and I are building a Timber Frame mountain lodge style cabin on a piece of land we purchased 8 years ago after renting for 40 years. It's been the greatest adventure of our lives. Our sons and some amazing friends are helping us build. Follow your dreams, don't listen to the people who doubt you. Be the Hero of your own life not a victim of it. Have fun, laugh often and sit around a campfire often with family and friends. You can thank me later.
Not quite 70, but I've been single for a long time. Dating doesn't interest me. Been through enough of them. I've learned relationships take a lot of work. I have many dear longtime friends. They have become my family, and we don't get together often. But keep in touch. I'm never lonely. More of an introvert I spend lots of time alone. I prefer it that way. Love my piece of mind. No more stress! I won't have it.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Most of us who are older are long over trying to impress people. We say what we need to say.
Absolutely true-freedom comes with being real and speaking our minds.
JEALOUSY ! That's the Reason !
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
All through my life I have been hated by Men, and Women liked me very much. Now I'm 70 yrs old I Understand. People tell me even now that I'm good looking and very intelligent. In other words They were Jealous ! So I told most men to F*ck Off ! And I never got married or had children. I live in my own place with my 2 Dogs and I couldn't be happier !
@@spaceted3977Me too, never got married (almost 25 years ago but I broke the engagement) I am retired with my 2 dogs living in my own home and so damned happy. I live right down the road where I worked for over 40 years. I thought a few times in the past few years I wasn’t going to make it to retirement because of all the miserable people I worked with who turned into mean, nasty people and they were jealous that I was near retirement and they had to stay. I love the peacefulness and contentment in just something as simple as sitting outside drinking coffee listening to the birds and watching the donkeys and horses in the pasture behind my house. 😊
@@spaceted3977 I LOVE it ! lol Everybody wants to stand next to a beautiful person or have sex with them but the truth is that humans want to be be understood and heard. I'm glad that you where smart enough to figure that out and be authentic.
By the way I too serve dogs because...... " I've never met a dog that lied to me."
I was surrounded by narcissists at work, who never valued my contributions until I was gone.
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If anyone hares me, that's their problem. I'm too old to worry about it.🎉
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My experience as well. Like I say: People deserve themselves.
I am a 78 year old male and find young people are almost always nice and respectful to me. Perhaps it’s because I am nice and respectful to them. They realize that I like them. Also I think it’s because I give out good vibes. I generally really like young people, and they realize it. Many of them are going through very tough times and I am very empathetic.
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I'm young and I love most older people.
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@@HurricaneIrene07 I'm old and love old people, but young people as well.....
Dr Joe Dispenza does a lot of clinical research at his 7 day retreats :) He expected the Young People to impact positive results to the Older People...The Opposite happened. Your Elders have Extra Wisdom :)
Sadly, this program simply reinforced my desire to avoid as many people as possible. Relationships inevitably bring conflict and heartache. I suggest pets and God as alternatives to people. They won’t let you down.
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Sad, But true.
Me too.
@@garymiller1875 Except the invisible friend part. That is just fear.
People like me or hate I do not care, I do not need them period.
Not any more!
That's a strong perspective-staying true to yourself is important, even if not everyone agrees.
That's exactly how I feel , I don't need them for money I have my own money, I don't need them for shelter, I have my own home etc.etc.
Wise comments, thanks a million!
You're welcome! Keep spreading positivity. 🌟
Who gives a shit what people think, either they like me love me or hate me it’s none of my business and it’s not my concern. Who cares, the most important person that loves me is me, everyone else can FO.
Great mindset! Loving yourself is what matters most-others’ opinions aren’t your problem.
Well said
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You are right to not give a shit.
I was recently at a supermarket checkout with only as much as I needed in my basket, which was around sixty five dollars worth of food. As I waited for the woman in front to finish loading her four hundred dollars worth onto the belt, I remembered I had a supermarket coupon in my wallet worth fifty dollars if you spent more than $350. Being that I could not use the coupon and which would expire soon, I took out this coupon and offered it to the woman. As I explained she would be welcome to use it. She half closed her eyes, said nothing, disapprovingly looked me up and down as if I was asking to shit in her handbag, snatched the coupon from my fingers and waved it at the checkout lady, who took it and discounted the woman's bill. Not a word of thanks or even a nod of gratitude. As this woman customer left, the checkout lady (who had seen all of this) was as disgusted as myself and we were both astonished at how rude some people can be. Top marks to the checkout lady...but the other lady...you can guess what I think. Help some women and they accept the help but spit in your face.
Couldn't agree more!
This is a very well thought out dissertation on what life brings us over the years, the thoughts we and others in our lives have and the complexity of life’s dynamics. It encourages introspection, compassion and humility. Life is complex and this helps us to step back a little in a calm manner and try to achieve understanding in our relationships with others.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Life's complexities indeed require introspection, compassion, and humility to navigate relationships meaningfully.
Experience is life's best teacher.
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In regards to reasons 4 and 7, my personal solution to these is to learn the Number One rule of basic survival: NEVER TRUST ANYONE! The younger generations of Americans thrive on stirring up anger, bitter feelings, hostile confrontation, and making enemies. They do not like kindness, compassion, nor affection from older generations of people, like myself. Younger American women misinterpret all forms of kindness from men as sexual harassment.
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They SUCK so bad! Cant stand them!
You make a good point!
Regardless of your age, there will always be people who dislike you for whatever reasons.
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I believe, my brother and sister are envious of my life decisions and prosperity. I have remained single without kids. They have had unhappy relationships with their spouses/ boyfriend and troubled children. Their bad behavior towards me has caused me to greatly distance myself, from them. My sister thinks she is entitled to my money. (Delusional/Narcissistic)
Women can't stand the silent treatment from men it drives them nuts ! Men don't care we just want peace.
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I had a Sister like that. Tell her to F*ck Off !
I guess she doesn't know an inheritance is a GIFT not an entitlement. lol :o)
There is a line from.a poem i read even the dearest i loved the best are strange nay stranger than the rest that sums up the human condition for me 😊
Excellent!
You just described my retired life situation in words of great wisdom. I can not thank you enough.
Regards!
I'm glad the words resonated with you. Wishing you peace and fulfillment in this phase of life!
I found this very helpful, since I'm just entering my Golden years. A few things I refuse in doing is let my grey come in and to ever discuss my money situation to anyone ever(or lack thereof)
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I thought that was high school and workplace problems. When you're old nobody cares because you're just plain old. I don't see what there is to be jealous of
You’re right-priorities and social dynamics often shift with age, and external judgments tend to fade.
You are a rare breed, what’s more you are truly free!
I am in my late sixties and I am experiencing 100% what you explained , glad you gave some solutions to combat some social pressures.🇨🇦
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I'm old and alone. My wife died and here family hates me. What was left of my family are gone too. No one left. Only Me. All gone brothers sisters ants uncles.
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Hang in; Stay strong Vieho.
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Screw them all. Younger generations waiting for you to die. Love yourself, get a cat or dog. People suck. It is what it is. If you have a good friend, you are Lucky. Don't waste your Time on the kids.
@Will-ko I feel for you, I'm a female all alone, my daughter has turned into someone I don't even recognise anymore, not the person I brought into the world. I can't deal with the loneliness. 🇦🇺
"I am who I am in the eyes of God, that and nothing more". (St Francis of Assisi)
Such a beautiful and profound truth. 🙏 Stay grounded in faith and love.
I know I'm a cranky old man, I don't like today's rude kids around me. Seriously, lol.
It’s okay to feel that way sometimes-it shows you value respect and kindness. Your sense of humor about it is refreshing!
Hear,hear
No you're not ! My best friends are my 2 Dogs. I have no time for anyone else !
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I'm in your generation. Don't forget how arrogant we were back in the 60's 70's and 80's when we were first stoned and moralizing hippies and then turned into fashion- and trend-obsessed sleep-arounders in leisure suites and mutton chops and then we really made asses of ourselves in the 80's as evangelists of the importance of money-making, conspicuous consumption and bodily health. And we were pretty rude about it all along, denigrating our parents' generation as uneducated Archie Bunkers whose morals were laughingly passe.
The truth will set you free.
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This is western culture is like. Whereas countries in SE Asia such problems are non existent. Like Japanese culture they treasure the elders in their community.
That’s an insightful comparison; cultural values around aging and respect for elders do vary significantly worldwide.
Not anymore. The elderly are left to fend for themselves.
Maybe get on to find about about the neglect of the aged in China. Not sure about other Asian countries.
Japan many elders die alone
I could care less if people hate me. Their loss anyway.
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Your videos are always welcome. Being age 71 I've experienced trials and troubles but there always has been a reason for me to press on. As always "1". Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and perseverance. Pressing on through trials is truly inspiring.
I think that people see you as a burden, because of both mentally and physically limitations.
I’m 72 and can hike 8 k no problem. And not a hint of dementia . Right now I’m in the jungle in Central America on an adventure . Nope, not going down without a fight ….
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I've never thought of the older generations as a burden, not even in my teens. I WAS mighty upset with them between the ages of 5 and 11 when I was denied two deserts at every meal, had to be in bed by 9:30 and wasn't allowed to drive the car.
Words of wisdom very helpful to me.
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I am the best, and they have a lot to be jealous of! 😊😊
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That's exactly my attitude. I feel sorry for them
Yea I know I'm going through that myself, but I can deal with it
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Mymymymy, ! For the first 76 years of my life - well,perhaps not years 1 thru 7 ! - I told myself much what this video said! HOw lovely to hear it expressed !
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Who cares , I’m 70 and prefer not being around people the older I get . I found true peace . So kiss my grits !!😂
Glad you’ve found peace and joy in your own way-cheers to living life authentically! 😂✌️
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😎 I'm 69 yr look good smell good dress dapper active and fit. I can feel the jealousy envy 😎
Ok...I'm envious
Life is good !
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Awesome
66 fit old style, God.
I try to keep my mouth shut with what the kids are doing.
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1! Great video. Just what I needed to hear today!
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I've been treated like outcast and not approachable since I was a kid..now on my 60s and not a thing has changed.. I'm a very patient, quiet sigma male..so I'm used to being ignored or not the center of someone else's attention.. don't need it.. figured out human nature and life very young...life goes on until ot doesn't...Have a great weekend folks.
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I am recognizing some of this. now at 70
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Reflect yourself and enjoy what you have done.
Do,n't expect from others.
Always think everything is not permanent and expect the reality
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Blessed and happy to see a
mile stone of my life.
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Maybe reminds them, they will be old 1 day
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Let the young ones bridge the gap, and put in the effort. I paid my fucking dues. I will not make an effort to pamper or coddle some soft kid.
Hear,hear
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Yes it’s all about you
I feel ya!
Old the suffering life only one things in life when age old always call the lord
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Grow old with grace-learn to give it to those younger than you.
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Right on brother!
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Being authentic rather than a chameleon reliably drives people away. But not having been authentic, reportedly, is one of the things dying people most regret. It comes down to choice.
Authenticity may challenge some relationships, but it’s worth it. Living true to yourself is a gift you give to your soul
Very good,ten out of ten ,I learned a lot.
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Yes, I see it at work because of my knowledge and experience
Very good
I disagree...its not about others hating on the elderly, its about the younger generations resenting having to show ( or societal expectations concerning respect and compassion to the elderly) concern that they would rather lavish on themselves. JMO....
Good point! Respect and compassion go both ways-it’s about mutual understanding. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
My mother is 95, her life now completely depends on others, care giver, doctors, nurses. I feel this is very sad when you are so old and fully depends on someone, I do not think her life is with dignity, which is what I am so afraid of when I am getting to her age.
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You can always find at least one common value with anyone, even if you have to go to the most core value: everyone wants to have a good life. Problem is, there's still immature people who just don't care how they treat others.
Well said! Common values can connect us, but it takes maturity and care to truly build trust.
@@WiseAdvice93Absolutely ! And true/realistic maturity is required to put deep listening, understanding, and kindness into action.
Yes, I was one.
25 years Psychiatric DSW behavioural : Your talking about B-Cluster Personalities that run 6 / 1000.
Study on Narcissism and antisocial personalities and borderlines plus Psychopaths that make life difficult for people looking for love and joy in life.
Yes, jealousy does exist among the insecure. We can tell when one is jealous
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@WiseAdvice93 your videos are wonderful. Happy thanksgiving
Yep...I turned 50 & literally overnight I became invisible ignored and treated less than. I'm stunned because I don't look much different from 48 -49.
Very much a change in the matrix, the world is for the young obviously
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I guess it just that when we were young ourselves, we never noticed it. 😅
@dorismahoney1440 well in that case... ignorance was bliss 😭
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I wish for someone who has no family or friends left, as those who were like you have passed away.
Today, we need a community of our own, to help each other through this end of life… is there any chance of finding someone who will help?
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I will be eighty in six months and am curious about the future. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
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I’m amazed at the things that my family respects me for. I overcame an addiction, for instance. I’m so angry at myself for having the addiction and not being successful at overcoming it for so long. I respect myself for the political work that I did, and even though my family agrees with me politically, they never want me to speak about politics.
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Well, he is right about the gossip and the erosion of trust in a family. The thing is that the people who listen and believe it about one individual, don't realize they are also a target, behind their backs. The drama queen gets away with it and creates this poisonous atmosphere. The envy comes from failures in that gossiper's own life. And the damage that is done is real. It gets worse with time.
Wise observation. Gossip only hurts everyone-let
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Never really gave a wit what people think, life has been good!
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Ha ha😂😂 yes I remember that guy in Fawlty Towers.."It matters not one whit"
Most are just JEALOUS of way u live and talk, take no bs! 😐
Stay true to yourself. Confidence often makes others uncomfortable, but it’s worth it to be authentic.
I am French and I appreciated also the beautiful english of the comment.
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You can't change others. Focus on yourself and be kind to them. Don't let their behaviors get to you. 🎉
So true! Kindness goes a long way, and focusing on self-improvement is the best way to inspire others. 🎉
Haters will always hate, but it often comes from a place of weakness and laziness. For some, tearing others down feels easier than facing the challenge of personal growth.
Absolutely, negativity often reflects inner struggles. Choosing personal growth over tearing others down is always the higher path.
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I have come to recognise the biggest error in our expectations and ways of handling many types of relationship.
The common belief is that we can change others, if we have enough wisdom to demonstrate to others why their feeling or view toward certain things are not right or the best. Why?
How we feel about certain things, actually translate to what we think about them and hence they become our world views. Simply put, these are our truths.
The common wisdom is that they are sciences and big data behind all things. It's therefore critical to enlighten others to help others to see the truth truth. It's as if there are buttons in people's heads that you can somehow enter their heads and help them switch on the right switches and off the wrong switches. Then your own world views and truths can be imparted to others.
This becomes power play of will. The fact is that we all believe we got the truth to just about everything based on how we feel each one of them, rightly or wrongly to others. But to everyone, their feeling about anything and everything is the truth. They don't have any button in their heads for you to manipulate. Neither do we.
If we can come to realise that there is no switch in other's head, we can let go of any differences between one another and move on.
For example a wife think that this is the best products to invest in after she had or had not done the studies, and likewise, her husband think otherwise. You can imagine how they tried in every means to convince the other and for some marriage, this going back and forth never end. But if one understood how not to look for the switch in the other head, he or she would have let the other have his or her way. The outcome of these products in reality have a big part on luck and is for the future to reveal.
With knowing that there is no switch and move on to let go of the desire to change other can bring about inner peace for yourself and yet can enjoy life alongside others.
If can can truly believe that there is absolutely no switch in other's head, this power play stops and we can go on to enjoy things that cannot destroy our inner peace.
Perhaps when kids were growing up under your care, you do have a responsibility to push them to a certain extent, but even that not all kids can deal with that in any meaningful and beneficial ways. They don't have a switch either. Perhaps the only difference is that they haven't established their feels toward many things and are stll teachable.
Once we depart ftom this power play and letting go of how other think and feel of all matters, we have just deleted all the expectations on others.
What causes us stresses and anxieties? Misalignment of our expectations with realities.
Once we know that there is no cat up on a tree, the sooner we leave the tree alone and move on with our own lives to enjoy what is available in that narrow space.
Such deep wisdom here! Letting go of trying to change others truly brings peace. Thank you for sharing this perspective. 🌟
My philosophy on people who hate me is based upon the Conan movie: What is best in life? To crush your enemies. See them driven before you. And to hear the lamentations of their women.
That’s one way to handle it! Sometimes, channeling a bit of fierce energy can feel empowering. Stay strong! 💪
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"I'm old and can say what I want because nobody takes me seriously".
-- Abe Simpson
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I am seeing a lot of what you've said happening around me. This video helps me to better understand.
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I prepared for old I don't live with nobody I don't beg nobody pay my bills so don't care if you hate me because I am old if you are young start prepared for old age
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@@WiseAdvice93 Your advice gives me comfort and confidence. Because I do have problems with my family members but not friends!
We live in a fallen evil world,satan is the god of this world! Watch Randy Kay and be blessed and saved!
This world is challenging, but there’s hope in faith. Stay blessed and keep seeking the light! ✨
Many people use the word "hate" loosely and don't mean a word of it. I have done it and heard it myself. I blew it off as most people I know did too. We understood that the person didn't REALLY hate anyone. Just momentary anger. 3:36
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My husband and I raised four boys...two sons married and had each had two children, and two (twins) never married...
My husband grew up in very poor circumstances with God fearing and hard working parents in a large family. As a small boy he had 3 to 4 part time jobs to support the family. He helped with chores. He supported his parents when he grew up.
My parents were fairly well off, Dad had a trade, Mom in sales..both worked hard...had their own home and gave our children best education they could afford.
Both sets of parents disapproved of our marriage for language, cultural and financial reasons.
We were of age when married in church, had very little, both of us worked hard for 6 years before we welcomed our first child.
We provided a home, holidays, private schools, love and encouragement for all four, who graduated, each with two degrees from universities, local and international. They all have good jobs, lived independently and provide for their families in very expensive countries and two in home country.
I live alone in a Retirement Centre, with lovely other residents...find it expensive and not providing adequate services or real caring ...this forces me to do most of my own cooking, cleaning, gardening,washing, and as boys far away, all my own financial matters, car services, hospital check ups etc.
I exercise, dance with a group, go to to Bible Study and church every week.
Only one son invites me to visit, and it is a 20 hour flight in two carriers...both he and his wife work in the day...this son has been retrenched and cannot understand my needs and I must not voice my problems at retirement centre as 'there are many so much worse off'...
My second son may pop in to visit when in my country on business or visiting his wife's family....no invite to his countr...he supports me financially towards medical bills...his wife does not invite... grandchildren grown up...seldom shared while growing up...
My twin sons cut off all communication with my husband and I for past 20 years...they live near me...
I really try communicating, must try harder not to share difficulties I encounter with management in retirement centre or my other concerns...my dance classes are my saving grace, friends have moved or busy with families...brothers ill or moved to distant towns...keep in touch on WhatsApp...just feel exhausted mostly...so little touch, 'Mom we love and appreciate you...we miss you'...when I can no longer be active...?
Will pray more, try harder, never ever complain, and smile....
God bless, Merle.
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I think this is right on 🇺🇸
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People project their self-hatred onto you ,and their filled with demons
Stay strong and protect your peace. Their negativity isn’t yours to carry. 🌟
USA needs to revere there older people and honor them much more these days.
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Oh! This is a wonderful subject!!! I'm 70. Boy do I get looks! Most haet you because your retired. Their Hell is ahead of them. They hate you because you have a nice car or truck. These kids want to be doctors or lawyers. That dose not fall from the sky!!! It's a laugh to me. I have a farm. Some my mom and dads. Some I bought worked and paid for. The LITTLE BUMS. At my home don't have credit. They don't work. That's the heart of it! THEY WONT WORK!!! LAZY!!!😮😮😮😮😮
Keep laughing and thriving-your hard work and independence are admirable. Let them wonder! 💪
One thing people don't realize is they have the exact same amount of hours in their lives as others, if you did not fill your time with meaningful things it's no one else's fault but your own. Stop trying to blame others because you wasted the time given to you. Take responsibility that YOU blew it.
You get old as the result of a blessing from God. I know many that died young and at other ages. If you won't respect others, respect God's gift to them.
Beautifully stated! Time is a gift-using it meaningfully is a true blessing. Respecting and valuing life is the key. 🙌
Why even care?
If I apply respect and kindness to those I around me then: What other people think about me is none of my business.
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Why should we elders be the ones approach with humility, offer empathy and compassion, and listening? When people are openly hostile and disrespectful, I don’t owe them a damned thing.
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Yip. That gossip is a really ugly thing. I have been hurt down to the core by that. But on reflection I realized that in no way can I expect such ugly people to have the same values and morals than me. I of course realize that I have my faults. But, by distancing myself from such ogres I have had time to rather reflect and change my own weaknesses and improve my life.
I was a goody two shoes but I have learned that that sweet frame of mind has left me wide open to attacks. I now take a more balanced approach to how I help people and learned the very hard lesson to build an invisible barrier to protect myself without being nasty. I have found that when you let go of the resentment you have so much more time to occupy yourself with the things you enjoy and place a value in.
I have so much to do and it takes me longer to do it. Time goes faster the older you get but that is because you get slower the older you get. If you dont have people around you all the time you dont mind. You are not lonely you just enjoy your privacy and the ability to get things done in your own time and capacity.
It's inspiring how you've turned a hurtful experience into an opportunity for self-growth. Setting boundaries while staying kind is a powerful skill, and it's wonderful that you've found peace by focusing on what truly matters to you. Keep prioritizing your well-being and passions-your strength shines through!
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If you've got more more than others in your family they will feel entitled to it "it's not theirfault that they've got nothing you're just lucky 😅"
It’s a tricky situation, but setting boundaries is healthy. Your effort and success are worth valuing! 💪
I don’t live my life trying to get people to like me you either do or you don’t I really don’t GAF if you don’t that’s not my problem it’s yours being myself attracts the right kind of people
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