Thanks for sharing, really informative. 1) Attraction; 2) Uncertainty (Doubt); 3) Commitment (do not over giving, learn to ask what you need); 4) real intimacy (which will trigger your fears & issues); 5) engagement.
I decided before meeting my current man that I would not worry about superficial things and would meet him a second time no matter whether there was any physical attraction or not. I am SO glad I took on that mindset!! We connected straight away and have talked every day since. We have developed a mutual love for each other and the relationship is amazing! The most incredible thing was that from right at the beginning I felt safe. He made me feel so safe. I don't know how he did it, but he did. And that blew my mind because I have a long background of abuse and trauma. I went through a little freak out that it was all too good to be true, but it was too good to not keep going 😉
3:31 10% of your happiness is in your partner 6:0316:35 Balance of Masculine and Feminine 11:42 Prolactin 12:39 Doubt your Doubts 15:57 Winning Formula 17:34
GREAT VIDEO! I had no idea Gray was homeless. So was I back in 2012. This is so helpful, Antia. Thank you so much for interviewing John. He is a genius.
John is very good at this! Im between stage 2 and 4 - doubt/uncertainty on his part and triggering. Only just learning about rubberbanding so embracing our month apart becauase i've never felt safer and more emotionally connected to someone and i wasn't even initally attracted to him!
Wow this was so well explained! I really appreciate you for giving me a better understanding of the stages of relationship and the differences between men and women. I love being in my feminine and receiving from my man.
Sorry, I know I won't like the guy if the attraction on my end isn't there.. I dated 7 of them & kept on looking cause there was no interest/ attraction with any & I'm sure I could have felt "safe" with them but no butterflies existed. Seemed boring. That's the 1st step when u see / meet someone. I'f it's not there then there is no interest. You have to both be turned on to one another. Not one more than the other. It has to be mutual.. So if I don't like bald men I would feel safe with them ? And ur saying u can't feel safe with the guy your attracted to then... wth?
I’m the same way I need to feel that attraction to even consider him. I tried dating the guy I’m not attracted to and it went nowhere it never grew on me.
I agree with you 💯 on my end if I am not attracted to him it just doesn’t go anywhere. I married my first husband with the principles you mention. I got the proposal the ring the wedding of my dreams but guess what. I was not in love with him I never felt the butterflies I never felt that feeling of when you love someone. This affected my marriage tremendously because I couldn’t be loving nurturing towards my ex husband. Love was lacking in my marriage. This time arroyo want to make sure I am sexually attracted to the man I marry
I totally agree. If I’m not sexually interested in a man, the feelings that drive me to be affectionate and take good care of him just aren’t there. I feel repulsed at touching (and being touched by) him, my whole female reproductive system stays firmly locked at level zero, and I’m sorry, but in my experience, “feeling safe” and getting to know him prevent none of that! I feel perfectly safe with many wonderful people, but that doesn’t equate to me wanting to date or sleep with them, and I’m not about to LIE to myself and say that it does just to spare fragile feelings or prove myself PC. Dating based on physical attraction (in early stages) isn’t shallow, nature created it for a REASON, and both males *and* females should abide by its wisdom if we know what’s good for our futures and our species. Besides, it would be awfully cruel for me to lead a man on if I’m not interested in him. He deserves a chance to be with a woman who thinks he’s cute, and me selfishly wasting his time while *knowing* we would go nowhere would take that away from him. I wouldn’t want to date or marry a man who didn’t find ME desirable, so why would I want to hypocritically put someone else in that position?
Don't give too much Wait till commitment to be intimate sexually. Pull back Man can only make me happy 10% of the time, rest of the time, I make i own self happy 😊 🥰
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Thanks for sharing, really informative. 1) Attraction; 2) Uncertainty (Doubt); 3) Commitment (do not over giving, learn to ask what you need); 4) real intimacy (which will trigger your fears & issues); 5) engagement.
I decided before meeting my current man that I would not worry about superficial things and would meet him a second time no matter whether there was any physical attraction or not.
I am SO glad I took on that mindset!!
We connected straight away and have talked every day since. We have developed a mutual love for each other and the relationship is amazing!
The most incredible thing was that from right at the beginning I felt safe. He made me feel so safe. I don't know how he did it, but he did. And that blew my mind because I have a long background of abuse and trauma.
I went through a little freak out that it was all too good to be true, but it was too good to not keep going 😉
3:31 10% of your happiness is in your partner
6:03 16:35 Balance of Masculine and Feminine
11:42 Prolactin
12:39 Doubt your Doubts
15:57 Winning Formula
17:34
23:28 Love Yourself
24:10 proposal
25:17
John is so on point. I'm so grateful for these videos. I can't wait to discuss with my sisters.
This content is scientific and mind blowing.
GREAT VIDEO! I had no idea Gray was homeless. So was I back in 2012. This is so helpful, Antia. Thank you so much for interviewing John. He is a genius.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very nice topic and wonderful ackownledgement ❤ thanks so much ❤
Always love what he has to share!
I just loved this advice ! Especially the idea that a woman must be only 10% into a man. Thanks !
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
John is very good at this! Im between stage 2 and 4 - doubt/uncertainty on his part and triggering. Only just learning about rubberbanding so embracing our month apart becauase i've never felt safer and more emotionally connected to someone and i wasn't even initally attracted to him!
Wow! This was amazing. Thank you very much!
Many men don't want to be in a committed relationship so then where should the sex part happen then?
Wow this was so well explained! I really appreciate you for giving me a better understanding of the stages of relationship and the differences between men and women. I love being in my feminine and receiving from my man.
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
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A MUST WATCH!!!!! GREAT GREAT VIDEO. DROPPING KNOWLEDGE 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
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Anita, you are great! What a genius!!! My guy is very shy and he was going after another woman while I was struggling with feeling love for me!
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Thank You Antia and Doctor Gray💙
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
Sorry, I know I won't like the guy if the attraction on my end isn't there.. I dated 7 of them & kept on looking cause there was no interest/ attraction with any & I'm sure I could have felt "safe" with them but no butterflies existed. Seemed boring. That's the 1st step when u see / meet someone. I'f it's not there then there is no interest. You have to both be turned on to one another. Not one more than the other. It has to be mutual.. So if I don't like bald men I would feel safe with them ? And ur saying u can't feel safe with the guy your attracted to then... wth?
I’m the same way I need to feel that attraction to even consider him. I tried dating the guy I’m not attracted to and it went nowhere it never grew on me.
I agree with you 💯 on my end if I am not attracted to him it just doesn’t go anywhere. I married my first husband with the principles you mention. I got the proposal the ring the wedding of my dreams but guess what. I was not in love with him I never felt the butterflies I never felt that feeling of when you love someone. This affected my marriage tremendously because I couldn’t be loving nurturing towards my ex husband. Love was lacking in my marriage. This time arroyo want to make sure I am sexually attracted to the man I marry
I totally agree. If I’m not sexually interested in a man, the feelings that drive me to be affectionate and take good care of him just aren’t there. I feel repulsed at touching (and being touched by) him, my whole female reproductive system stays firmly locked at level zero, and I’m sorry, but in my experience, “feeling safe” and getting to know him prevent none of that! I feel perfectly safe with many wonderful people, but that doesn’t equate to me wanting to date or sleep with them, and I’m not about to LIE to myself and say that it does just to spare fragile feelings or prove myself PC. Dating based on physical attraction (in early stages) isn’t shallow, nature created it for a REASON, and both males *and* females should abide by its wisdom if we know what’s good for our futures and our species.
Besides, it would be awfully cruel for me to lead a man on if I’m not interested in him. He deserves a chance to be with a woman who thinks he’s cute, and me selfishly wasting his time while *knowing* we would go nowhere would take that away from him. I wouldn’t want to date or marry a man who didn’t find ME desirable, so why would I want to hypocritically put someone else in that position?
so much info!!!
What happens if when I ask and he says no
Wow, this was great!!! Thanks a lot or this!!! 🤩🥳👍
You’re welcome 😊
I love that, I like my self more😅😄😄😄
I miss John. He's just dissappeared.
What are your favorite points or top questions from the video?
Don't give too much
Wait till commitment to be intimate sexually.
Pull back
Man can only make me happy 10% of the time, rest of the time, I make i own self happy 😊 🥰
So many gems!! Bravo
Also, not to shame men for their desires, as long as they are not violating me or anyone else or pressuring for sex.
Wish l d known this at 16
The hormone thing scares me. I am a woman and I truly enjoy sex. I don't want to give it up.
Everyone enjoy sex but with right man 😅
You are very good🤗🤗
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 🥰 I would also highly recommend taking our FREE quiz for custom gifts to help with this also if you haven’t already using the special link here: MagnetizeYourMan.com/Quiz/YT
I can’t be with a man I’m not attracted to…I don’t understand that advice
Hahaha I agree with everything but we don’t come from monkeys 🙈, proven to be a wrong theory 😅
John is brilliant!!