JUDGE DENIES UNSAFE MOTHER VISITATION
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2024
- in this court case the mother is trying to fix a mess she created with paternity
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"He has not allowed me to see my daughter"
Good, he doesn't want his child to die while you're driving her around under the influence.
"I only hit him once."
Yeah, and that's ONE time too many regardless if the aggressor is male or female.
💯
"I didn't drive far or anything."
You didn't get the chance to drive far because you quickly drove your drunk butt into a ditch. Not actually a good defense, honey.
I thought the same thing! She's a danger to her daughter and everyone around her. She's in denial about her drug/alcohol use.
And what many in the comments here missed is that after the police were called when she drove into said ditch, she was placed on a *72 hr hold in a state mental facility* which means she was out of control and in danger of hurting herself or others, and completely unfit to parent. She's nowhere even close to getting a handle on her issues.
Couldn't believe that statement 😮
She didn't drive far guys! She pulled out of the driveway and right into a ditch. That's actually her reasoning lmao.
She’s reasonable but right?!
Yea she gets pass, DUI is Always ok for them because they didn't hurt anyone
She will never care about her child until she gets sober.
Gets sober and embraces her sobriety by admitting she's an addict, and needs long term permanent care.
Taylor is just digging her own grave with all her stories of ‘one time abuse’ and not ‘driving very far’ into the ditch and we ‘were’t on any medication’. I wouldn’t let her watch my cat.
She’s ate all the catnip 😂😂😂!!
I wouldn't let her watch a goldfish. She'd probably neglect it to the point it would die.
Or my pet rock 🪨
Nor the cats flees.
I wouldn't let her watch my pet rock
Girl why are you crying for? This is all on you. No one to blame but you.
Even so, this is a stressful, emotional issue. I don't fault her for crying at all.
Unfortunately, I think this addiction is way bigger than she is. God bless her. I hope she can get it together.
@@adamsmall5598 Well she needs to straighten up her life. She can't be drunk and high while driving especially with her kid in the car
@@irongirl8007 Well she needs to straighten up her life. At least the father sounds like the level one. Unbelievable, driving drunk or high while her baby is in the car.
@@lynnvh5445 Even if we judge her past actions harshly and hold her to strict standards, we can still offer empathy and understanding. The two are not mutually exclusive.
The smug look she gives when he said she hit him says a lot . Her eyes say even before he said about drugs she’s on something
Finally a judge that speaks for the safety of children. I watched another judge grant permission for a mother who burnt down there house trying to kill husband and kids inside the house and get permission to see children. WTF!!!
I watched that too & was in shock!! The Mom's family is loaded & I seen a follow up & the mom was finally arrested for the arson & didn't spend one night in jail, & had the charges reduced!! She got probation, money talks of course. She should have been charged with attempted murder for burning the house down with her husband & children inside!!!
Was it the judge in Texas who speaks with a strong southern drawl and seems to hate fathers having time with their kids and practically makes them get a 2nd or 3rd job because he sets the limits too unreasonably high?
Just wondering because he’s an absolute disgrace.
Wait a min. The woman tried to burn the house down WITH her family inside and she still got some custody/visitation with the babies?.you can't be serious .
I’m surprised he is usually a horrid judge that sticks up for mothers. She made it easy to rule against her. He had no choice.
@@MarySmith-bc7mf agreed. I'm surprised if he still doesn't require the dad to pay 100% of expenses since he can't force the mom to work (but he sure does make the dads work more than one job if their income drops). Guess the judge had no choice. He really is a biased judge against dads.
The dad looked really upset seeing her cry. But what can you do? She has to make the decision to choose her child.
She's got a long road ahead of her. I hope she can move in a good direction, and I hope she can see her child and build a good relationship with her. I hope she is careful about bringing any more children into the struggle, as well.
@@adamsmall5598yeah the chances aren't great though. She doesn't act like she feels responsible for anything
I saw a separate clip of a father telling the judge they are the biggest advocate for the ex wife becoming drug free but he loves his kids more and chose them, just reminded me of that moment.
@@8bitKatwalk And those types of people/parents always go so unappreciated for so long. Just a sad situation.
Ive got no sympathy for dad. There is no way he didnt know what kind if woman whose crotch he was hosing down the inside of with baby batter.
Only person that deserves sympathy here is the kid!
Good decision judge …this woman should not be allowed to see child until she treats her addiction and I am not hopeful she will succeed 🙏
That’s weird, why on earth would you not be hopeful she succeeds? Do you even care how that impacts the child, or do you just prioritize spite to the mother over the child’s well being?
Her body language spoke volumes.
“I drove into a ditch” but I didn’t drive far! Oh my GOD!
She's crying because she knows she's about to fail that hair follicle drug test!💯
Facts 💯💯💯
Absolutely. And lose any benefits she got from having custody of the child.
my exact thoughts too. She broke down once he said she needs to do that test to see her kids.
Imagine choosing drugs and booze so much that you only get to see your child for 2 hours a month. I’ll never get it.
Addiction is not really a choice. But i get what you are saying..
Some breeders are not cut out to be parents
@@soulwarrior7721Once addicted it isn’t as much as a choice but it is still a choice
Addiction is a struggle but when they first decide to get help and stick with it they will get to live a good life and get to have more visitations and then maybe someday even get joint custody of their children but they have to get their life together first
Let's be real so that those who are addicted can face reality that can bring about a change. Addiction is the consequence of the choices that we make. @soulwarrior7721
This whole case tells me everything I need to know about her as a human being.
For years, judges have been siding with the mothers. It's nice to see the judges siding with the fathers, more.
The states attorney did a wonderful job with questioning
I wish that parents were warned before court about the faces and head shaking! It makes you look immature and petty.
Don't know why she's crying. She essentially got what she said she was willing to do: Every 2nd Saturday supervised visitation for 2 hours providing she provides a clean hair folicle test. She says she's clean and willing to do supervised visitation. What's the problem, huh?
(I'm being somewhat facetious, of course)
If you notice, the way the Judge says it: "I can't give you regular visitation ..." He starts with that, and that's when she starts getting emotional. When he follows up with the supervised visitation she starts nodding and looks like she tries to pull it together. But it would have been a tremendous blow to me to hear those words myself when I was a young father. I'd get pretty choked up too. Even (perhaps especially) if it were my own fault.
@@adamsmall5598 I fully appreciate that. However, even before the Judge was making his ruling, (when she was testifying earlier in the hearing) she had acknowledged she wasn't going to be looking at normal visitation. She knew all along she wasn't going to get and the reason she knew is that she knew she wouldn't pass a hair follicle test.
@@doilysimpkin6972 She knew she wasn't getting overnights immediately. What he said could easily be misinterpreted as she wasn't getting *any* time with her child. Which is what I did when i heard those words, and only realized my mistake when he granted the supervised. I can easily see her doing the same and feeling that loss.
She agreed readily enough to the drug testing, and nodded repeatedly when the judge told her that the visits wouldn't start until she submitted one, so it looked to me like she was committed to trying. She claimed to be clean for at least a few months, and I didn't see any reason to automatically reject that claim. I think a little benefit of the doubt is reasonable here.
@@adamsmall5598 All I can say is that you're more optimistic than I am. I am perhaps jaded, as I once lived with a heroin addict and what they say and what they end up doing are often two very different things. 'Best laid plans' and all that. Perhaps we'll get to see if how it went if there's a follow up.
@@doilysimpkin6972 True, she could be a s sincere as anyone and still fail. I'm not experienced in Heroin at all, so I'll defer to you on that one.
Watching the mother and how shes acting while the father is talking tells me EVERYTHING he is saying is true.
She literally openly stated every reason why she should not see the child
What about not seeing him for 6 months? Time flies..especially w kids... If she is gonna not fix her issues she needs to be away from the kid... the dad needs to be having sole custody.
Putting drugs and alcohol first over her children how sad those kids are going to resent her
“I was working 40 hours a week and couldn’t make an appointment”. Jesus
unlike the rest of the workign world who works 40h weeks on the regular and makes all our and our childrens appointments
Pathetic 😂 I work 70 a week
Why blaspheme His name? Use your mothers.
@@freyamccauley because I can prove my mother is real.
If she was truly devoted to her child , she would be falling over herself to do whatever it takes. Can't find time for a phone call??...you're not committed to this.
She isn't interested in being a mother to the child. She is just looking for a few hours not overnight visits.
Good for Dad for asking for a hair follicle test.
12:55 - Watch her face. Not anger, childish resentment and a sneer of derision when told she couldn't not watch her child while being high. She has absolutely no plans to quit heroin. None whatsoever
That's how you saw her expression? She looked to me like she was still regaining her composure from the crying, and trying to listen to the judge at the same time. I don't see any sneering or resentment there. I feel like a lot of people in the comments want this girl to fail, and have come to these videos with some unwarranted distrust. Frankly, I hope you are wrong and that what I see is closer to the truth here.
WOW. I wonder if the judge is now ruling correctly because of all the backlash he's received from past rulings. (Biased)
I have no doubt that if this happened last year, he would have given her unsupervised visits.
Not the worst judge but not the best
I was thinking the same thing. However in a case a few days ago he reduced a mother's arrears by $700+. He would never do that for a father from my experience watching him.
I agree. This judge is very biased in favor of mothers. It’s very obvious.
It's not because of the backlash it's because she's such a mess that not even he can rule in her favor. That's the only way for a father to be treated fairly in his court. The woman has to be an absolute disaster and it's easily proven. He seems like the son of a single mother in my opinion. That would make a lot of sense to me
Yep, he should never be a judge.
I was surprised that the judge is allowing her to be solely responsible for reporting the results of the hair follicle test. I would be suspicious of her reporting the true results.
This judge is notorious for being extremely lenient on the mother
She did this all to herself. Goodjob
This one time, at band camp
😂😂😂😂
Both of them keep saying "my child" like shes eachothers possession . I pray the mother gets through her addiction and puts her daughter first.
Should have used protection. Or another
Im in disbelief that this judge sided with dad. Wow
What do you mean, sided with dad? The parties agreed to all points, and he issued the order. He didn't really make a decision in favor of one or the other of them.
@adamsmall5598 This judge typically ignores what dad wants. Whether agreed upon or not
@@colonybud I see.
@@colonybud Bullshit. We have plenty of videos that show this to be false. The judge sides with the best parent of the two regardless of whether that's the mother or the father.
Why on earth would he side with the druggie violent mother?
Spending one’s whole paycheck on their child’s birthday presents is not a positive thing, in my opinion. Parents need to know how to manage their money properly…
She appears under the influence of something? I would love to see her pupils. The judge is quite right in his summary.😢🇬🇧
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
She must want a holiday child.
Wow…this judge usually goes out of his way to help the mom. Good on him for not doing it in this case.
Wtg for being a dad that cares. We need more dads like this.
She just keeps looking at her reflection 🙄
Prove yourself woman! If you really love your child, you'll do what the Court asks. Thank God that baby has a stable parent and good job Judge for making the right decision! You are straight to the point.
What a waste of what could be a beautiful young lady lost to drugs & alcohol.
He picked the wrong one to have a child with just like I did 🤦♂️
I really really hope this little girl gets through this and 10 years from now shell think about this and be ok because shes not that person anymore.
She looks high or drunk at this hearing.
heroin, heroin holy crap my parents got on that drug and never got off until they died, he's right to want drug testing, if there's a test for it then she should have to take it. it makes me happy that his dad is actually fighting to keep her away.
Good on him, but for me my pet peeve is "my child" statements. It shows ownership that they are attempting to establish. I let this one slide based on his young age.
I agree, except they both did the same thing.
I too took offense by his pretense of domination, of commandeering - "The child is mine and NOT YOURS" is a poor debating strategy. I wish he'd have attacked her with a barrage of documention to call out her lie about "she and boyfriend in the car" by simply saying, "The police report at the scene listed HIS name..." And maybe arrests/convictions over heroin. But I do give him points for his full-ownership attempt.
You can make a phone call while on your break the law requires they give you a break if you work over a certain amount of time which full time employees do work.
You can also make phone calls before and/or after work.
She couldn't take time from her day to make a phone call. Nice
There are no "but's", except for the one named Taylor
She is high on this Zoom meeting!! You can tell!
It’s mind blowing to me how many mothers are not doing right by their kids. Thankful this child has a father who is. As a mom, I cannot imagine not being my best for my children always. These moms give the good moms a bad name. I see more moms that don’t have their kids due to their drug addiction or being in abusive relationships or being an abuser of some sort than I do dads on these videos. It’s sad. Do better moms.
Her crying started, and demeanor changed, once the judge confirmed she had to do the hair follicle test before they would even consider visitations at the family center. What a bad look.
Because she will fail. She is in the throws of her addiction. Clearly, she uses often and has used within the last 12 hours of this hearing.
Dad is way too lenient with her
Well done to this guy. From the sounds of this woman, her attitude stinks! And I can bet her families attitude stinks too, that's why he fights so hard to keep them away!
Well done! Reality Trends! My second time and I’m so impressed with your work. You do it talk over nor. interrupt. That is so refreshing.
No one should be forced into giving birth... this woman proves that point...
She chose to not take birth control.
Part of me feels bad for her. She clearly loves the kid but just can't get a grip on adulthood.
Good for this dad!! Great dad's don't get enough credit but this one absolutely deserves credit for putting their child first!! Well done dad!
Why is she crying didn’t she just say she would do anything to see her child. Then get on with it do what needs to be done nobody wants a mother who is on drugs
I am also wondering why she is crying.
My bother hasn’t had any contact with his children for about 6 years because he refuses to do the drug tests. I have zero sympathy for addicts that involve their children, put them in danger etc.
Thankfully I was able to help my sister in law and the kids get away from him 4 years ago and they are all now doing so well!! This woman definitely should NOT be allowed any contact until she goes through rehab and is clean and sober!
Please call them children, NOT KIDS. At least call them kiddos. I have no doubt she loves her child, I hope she can get clean so she can be a responsible parent. Thank goodness the child has at least one parent who can love and care for her. Please allow the grandparents into her life too.
"I was unable to take time out of my 40 hour work week to call and make a mediation appointment". Really?! I work 60+ hours a week yet still have time to make appointments. How hard are you REALLY trying???
You can have supervised visitation. Per a worker. Who has a safe building, cameras. If she’s not actively using, she should be allowed to see her baby. My ex per dhs, was still allowed to have supervised visitation a few hours a week. That’s not unreasonable.
Awesome Judge love his orders. Wish more courts would implement orders such as these. I have known of Way too many parents that never have any real punishment for their bad behavior court is just an inconvenience so they continue to repeat the bad behaviors.
She worked 40 hrs and couldn't make a call at her lunch hr or break time?
I didn't drive far.. well, it could be because you ended up in the ditch.
Why is she crying.. she said she'd be fine with supervised visitation.
She is definitely high on something right now
Definitely
The Tatum gentleman speaks incredibly fast and indistinctly 😳
You only need to look at her eyes to see she is not even close to being clean and sober
Hitting your partner isn't inappropriate behaviour it's abusive. Pure petulance and zero insight into her actions
Good Judge!
Let's be clear, our sobriety is our own responsibility. If you cannot muster up the energy to call and make your own appointments, you aren't ready to put in the hard work gaining and maintaining sobriety requires.
great Judge
This Dad started to cry when he ex cried & then he looked over to his rt trying to not let whoever was in the room with him see his tears. It's sad he still has feelings for her 😢.
You can tell Dad still cares about her. He looked hurt when she started to cry. And he's willing to allow her to see the baby if she takes the drug test. That's really good, that he is being so protective while still keeping the door open to Mom stepping back in with safety in place. Good job Dad. I really hope Mom can get herself on track and be successful. She obviously has some love for her child. And, there's a little girl who will always need her Mother.
I wonder why she's abusing substances? Her tears at the end suggests that she is hurt by the judges decision. However, I hope it also means that she finally realizes what's at stake and that she makes positive life-altering decisions so she can be the mother that her daughter needs.
She's crying because she is being held accountable for her actions & she is trying to gain sympathy.
Non shouldn't be allowed to visit the child. Why put the kid through the trauma of having to deal with Mom during in a car accident, overdose, or disappearing into jail.
You can tell she’s dirty. Glad the Dad is protecting his daughter.
Her no longer working seems pretty coincidental with her timing of receiving the court order concerning support 🤔🤔🤔
Let's just ignore the fact that the mother IS CLEARLY A CHILD HERSELF!!! THE FATHER SOULD NOT HAVE THOSE KIDS!!!!
Shes actually an intelligent girl if she would straiten out things would be better
Supervised visitation as long as she can prove she's not using.
How can you tell an addict is lying, their mouth is moving. (Cue from Judge Judy). Still takes little to no responsibility for her dangerous behavior.
She's a whole bobble head 😂
Speaking as a mother...
Good dad
Good judge
Good outcome
To translate the nonsense! I tried to hurt myself with my baby in the car! But devine intervention intervened! So what my baby father said is not true
As someone who’s children’s bio father is similar to the bio mother her but far worse, I can say that my now 8 year old is impacted, even with an amazing father who has raised him, he still wonders why his bio dad didn’t stick around, who was he, and has even asked, “did he just hate me?”.
I think even if someone is too dangerous to care for the child or be unsupervised with the child, that if an addicted parent is willing to show consistency via counseling and just fucking showing up, and willing to abstain for a supervised video call, then I think the calls should be allowed in place of supervised in person visitation. But ONLY if they can show consistency regularly for an extended period, and can abstain and be checked prior to the child having access to the call to ensure they aren’t plastered.
It’s sad, but it would just be so much easier if I could show my son that at least his bio father cares and is out there thinking about him, but is just too sick to be a dad to him which is why his “real dad” stepped in that place. I can tell him that, but him actually having his bio dad show up twice a year for a call would make all the difference, but he won’t day any of it, no counseling, no abstaining temporarily, and no call
I give you credit for the way you think of bio dad. As an addict for over 2 decades ( say addict because even sober we know what we are ). I have known many women in recovery and the hardest part of being clean is knowing what you did for money. I consider the men that use them as dirtbags. Once you start getting clean then you look at all the people you hurt and every addict knows this. Never give up on an addict but banning them from your home is correct. Waiting for them to prove their clean takes years and isn't done in a year. I hope 1 day your son has a relationship with bio dad that doesn't ruin any relationship you have
I do SO wish people would stop referring to "my" child in front of the other parent. No matter what the situation, it is so hurtful. Just a pet peeve of mine.
Same.
I do too, but I suspect that he may have been directed to say that because this is on TH-cam
I just think it’s generally sad that she’s gone so far down the rabbit hole, she’s not capable of getting a hold of her addictions and mental health issues. I feel the most for the child because she doesn’t know what’s going on but thankfully she has a responsible and loving father
Raising kids the days are long but the years are short and she’s missing out on a lot plus that child is going to remember but seeing her!
I can't stand her smirk. I bet every selfie she takes has it. Its her signature look...
She cant face time cuz she works, she cant make her own therapy appointment cuz she's clueless.
Spare us the tears!
Wow, she makes very bad choices!
Dad needs to stop with the facial expessions and head shaking. Its not helping and is annoying. Happy he is taking care of his little girl! Good job dad! I hope the mom actually gets help
I think everyone behaves very reasonably
"Your Honor ... he wouldn't call and setup the mediation and counseling sessions or make the appointments" "I mean ... if he had I would have complained about the dates and times so he left it up to me to make them but he should have done it so I could complain about it and now I want to use it against him that he didn't make the appointments,"
Pretty on outside, so messy on inside. She is blowing her life. So glad court isn't taking on responsibility for her getting mental health etc treatment. It's HER responsibility and ridiculous when people think someone else needs to take care of it for them.
And this is where it doesn’t matter if your a man or a woman, you don’t see your child in DV or substance abuse issues!
Is there a followup? I wanna know why she was crying at the end. Was it because she was going to get supervised visits or because she knew she wasn't going to pass a hair follicle test. How far back can a hair test say you have been doing any drugs? I can Google that last part but just curious.
I like when channels show a followup to these kinds of stories, no matter how it turns out. Why didn't judge order her to submit to the test within 48hrs and to come back to court for a ruling? Or did I miss that part?