So he gets denied his kid for a year and the mother has no consequences and the father has to pay the court cost and child support. Honestly, he should get the kid completely and she should be the one paying child support
Not really much the judge could do because they didn't have a parenting plan in place. It sucks, but honestly, establishing a visitation schedule is all the judge could do
The judge's job is to act in the best interest of the CHILD, not to punish the mother. Ripping an autistic, non-verbal child out of his home is punishing HIM.
@@StellarTJJ keeping a child from their father is never in the best interest of the child lol. Only if the father was abusing the child but that is not this case
@@StellarTJJI agree . Father will get to build a relationship now. But ripping child away from comfort of mother not in best interest of the child. Judge is correct
👏🏽 the judge saw she hates him more than she loves her child! And she's very immature as a result of it. It isn't about u, MOM, it's about that precious baby....get over urself
I didn't see my autistic two year old for almost a year. As soon as o walked into the room he looked at me with a smile like "Oh! There you are!" The judge is telling the truth about their memories. It's amazing.
Heck yeah. That had to have felt good! My son is almost 11 and he can look at any Godzilla and tell you what year movie it’s from lol. He also is our built in GPS due to spending hours on google earth 😂
Thank you, @linzbrad, for sharing your story. I found it inspiring. ☺️ The journey with my grandson has been a unique one for us. He didn't start speaking until he was four, and during that time, we made sure to create a supportive environment for him. We read to him, sang and danced with him, and let him play with his trains as much as he wanted. When he started his Special Ed class at age four, the teacher called my daughter and asked why she had registered him as non-verbal because he was perfectly reading the posters on the wall as he walked down the hall. It was then that we realized that he had been absorbing everything we had been teaching him despite not speaking. It was a heartwarming moment for all of us to learn that he was learning and understanding, even though he wasn't verbal. He is 17 and a senior in high school. We aren't sure what the future holds, but we will be there for him every step of the way. 🤗
1. You don't talk to a one year old on the phone. 2. This girl is so full of it that her eyes are brown. 3. She illegally denied her child's father access to his child. She would rather bash this man rather than resolve any issues; she thought she would come into court and gaslight the Judge, I'm glad she FAILED.
That's not what gaslighting is. The internet is fkn ret*rded. That is one of the most egregious examples I have seen. She did not "gaslight" the judge. She lied to the judge. How are people so comfortable using words they don't know how to use?
The mother admitted to withholding the child and this had to be filed based on her actions. Mother should have been assessed the court costs in whole. You play games you pay, period. Other than that I agree with this ruling.
Yes he FILED it they took it from him and filed FOR HER. which is BS why he was assessed the fees. Thats why he said I filed this..He has 2 kids and works 18 a hour and paying 400 month plus 75 is ridiculus.
Dad needs to save money and get a lawyer and I bet you she won’t get away with anything. The system works against fathers unfortunately unless you get a lawyer
It seems as if the 'system' worked pretty well for the father in this case. In fact, it worked *for* dad rather than *against* him because he was awarded very important visitation that he & Ethan deserve. Not only that the judge ordered that the father have 50/50 joint conservatorship over the little guy. In my state fathers' are routinely awarded custody so reference to the 'system' seems to be subjective as to who might be assessing it. Js
@@djjones7226what? he has had parental rights for over a year now and she refuses to drop her kid off to him or let him get his kid. seriously make it make sense. the judge already awarded him the 1st time and she refused to.let him see his kid. nothing will change. stop being a simp
I call bs, my buddies kid was non verbal till 4yrs old to them, funny thing was he had mentioned it to me once, and he lived way out in the middle of nowhere. No other kids around at all. He invited my family over, i have 4 kids, my youngest amd his the same age. They all were playing down at the creek and when i went to tell them food was ready, that little boy was laughing and talking up a storm with my kids. When he hit the stairs at the deck he didnt say a word the entire time he ate . They ran ran off back to the creek and i had both parents follow me secretly so we could watch them play. His wife broke down in tears, my buddy was speechless. I told him, dont look at my 4 yr old thinking yours is behind, they are the same, its the interaction of others that brings it out. Kid hit kindergarten and changed, talked to his parents nonstop. This mom is making excuses and again, not being held accountable.
It’s just baffles me the line of questioning. So the mom doesn’t get work questions but that’s all the dad gets asked. Doing calculations for child support before the judge even makes a judgement. Sickening.
@@shainedupuis2649 Indeed - Ma'am/Sir, even aside from the fact that I actually do have a psychology degree, you proved my point if the intention of this copy-paste definition was to insinuate the judge was caused to question his own thoughts, memories, or perception of reality, which is not conducive to what actually happened. Internet armchair psychologists are the worst of them all.
So because she FEELS like he'll steal his son, she's decided to steal him first, and keep him from the dad... Notice how the father is guilty without a trial for the very act that the woman herself is doing? even though he hasn't done
Also, why does dad get asked about *his* job and pay, but mama blue hair here admitting she lives with her mom and boyfriend doesn’t get asked if she’s working or what she’s paid? 🤬 dispectful.
What I learned is that the parties are to move the court to get the result they want. I’d file a motion for contempt for breach of contract and have my motion heard by the judge showing all facts and any evidences I may have in support. Expecting a judge to do the job both parties are to do will assure a defeat in court. When filing the paperwork (my motion) id also file a proposed order with it to make the judges job easier.
@@freewillchoice8052 they agree in court ,it's outside court,they dont obey anything there's no repercussions just told don't do again,months go very quickly,years pass still ignored 2nd time in few wks there's no penalty
@@garagearts you’re not paying attention which is why there is no penalty. You didn’t read what I wrote and if you did, you’re not comprehending what I wrote so read it many times until it sinks in. if your handle on this platform speaks of garage you may work on cars and working on cars is no different than court. If you want that engine to run right you gotta have all parts functioning properly and in place. One part missing and the car may not run at all. A little wire not being connected can often mean the whole thing doesn’t work. Same for court; if you want the court to function properly you gotta know what to do and have all the parts in place for a judge to rule in your favor. It’s not rocket science but it does take effort.
@freewillchoice8052 wrong. Family court is geared to make the father the primary "defendant", as if he has been charged with something. That is dead wrong & needs to change, not the father having to breakdown every aspect of the situation because the mother 95% of the time never does.
don't think that please. lots of colorful haired women aren't at all like this woman and they're wonderful to know. FYI - i've never dyed my hair - it's white now from age, so it's not my dog in the race but you may be doing yourself a disservice to paint a picture you haven't really seen
She's lying he never told her he'd burn down the house. She said I just don't want to deal with him. She just wants his money. Any excuse is better than known. Like my mom would say. She's busy with the other kids and boy friend.
My two children have been withheld from me for four years. The mother moved address, moved schools. I don’t even know where they are but I still have to pay weekly child support. That’s bad enough but children have not even contacted me. I had children more than 50:50 for well over four years. They didn’t return because of a single argument in the phone. Be careful men. The mother has a lot of influence on children
Now, she will file false police reports on the father because she hates the father MORE than she loves her son. Major control issues. Useing her children as control toys. Unreal.
This breaks my heart for the child. I have 2 boys which are grown now, same Father. The Father and his family wanted nothing to do with them. Begged over the years to co parent and any of them to have visitations with the boys, all of them turned me down . Children need all family for their development and especially their father. This caused a lot of pain on my boys.
I really like this judge. He doesn't mince words, he just tells it like it is. I feel bad for Ethan and his father. Selfishness is a really nasty flaw in a human, especially when it comes to a case like this! A whole year is one-third of that child's short life and that year is lost forever!
@@kennethsjvold9212 Huh??? The judge did exactly what he should have done. This father is a stranger to his child and progress needs to go slow, especially for a special needs child.
lying disgraceful woman. this dude needs a lawyer. this liar is going to keep making BS accusations against this dude no matter what. she wants current man to be the childs father. that's what this is about.
My friend hasn't seen his daughter since she was a newborn. He's raised two boys alone , paid child support to her, (but didn't get any for his boys who he has has alone with absolutely no contact to the mother, since they were 2 and 4) Another Friend married a women with two girls 7 and 9, they had a boy together and then she split. He raised all three alone, again with no help from the court. No man gets anywhere close to a fair hearing. I didn't expect fairness here. So I will never have children , because even though I wanted them, I have no rights to them, they are just something that can be used to enslave me.
I’m so sorry for what you have seen with your friends. How sad is this! I am a mom who has 2 daughters with my ex husband. Our girls are amazing and we tell them constantly that they are the best parts of us. I could never do this to their dad as that would be denying half of who they are and would be an attack on them! Women, get it together and realize you can’t give them the things their fathers can! Sir, I’m sorry this has spoiled you from having children, but I understand. ❤️☮️
@@robingalbraith323 I'm watching 1 now she has 32 contempt of court charges for not letting father see still no repercussions for her just judge says she has do ,32 no punishment not even a mention
My son was 3 years old and not talking good but he didn't have autism. I had a evaluated he needed a speech therapist and occupational therapist. He did so well it was discontinued for Pre-K.
Mother keeps saying he had things on her property and that his things are now legally hers. Well she just got done saying she lives with her mother and her boyfriend stays there too. Sounds like not her property and can't support herself or all her kids and boyfriend can't as well.
I'm not at all sorry when I say that she is doing this because she "doesn't want to deal" with her baby daddy. She needs to grow tf up. It's not about your personal feelings anymore, you have a child, and you need to do right by your baby.
Not as much as they "want a break" & not for the father to have a relationship with the children. Especially if they are in a new relationship. Tired of the "I don't trust him" narrative as an excuse because they trusted him between their legs?🤔🤷🏿♂️
Judge seems very reasonable. I like how he is no nonsense with both sides. There are problems with both parents here, and he takes a very prudent path.
@@andrewwalker2153 I have watched this judge a number of times and he is always fair with both sides. Your mileage may vary but I think he asked good questions of both sides and held them accountable appropriately.
How does she expect child support but doesn't want him to see his son. Craziness. Then she says My child. Sounds like someone is really upset that he has moved on.
Im am pleased to see this is one of the more fair judges who has truely valued the dad and set a progressive integration rather than the dad having to wait months and bring more cases to court to extend his visitation
And where is the medical reports, medical expert? Just bc mom said so? Maybe it’s the environment that the child has been living in that causing the issue. Dad needs a lawyer!
I TOTALLY believe it’s the environment! She’s pitiful, has a bum laying up playing stepdad, living with somebody else! Pitiful. I bet that baby starts talking when he sees his daddy!
My son didn’t talk until he was 5 & once we gave him Adderall to slow his mind down he was talking in 2 weeks. Before that the speech therapist couldn’t get my son to concentrate for more than 2 seconds 😂.
“Junk men came to get the stuff, I didn’t get any money from it.” I call bullpoop, especially if he was a mechanic. Bet she scrapped all of his “junk” and got a nice little sum.
That’s it! Laying on her azz all day, supporting a nothing bum, not engaging enough with her son! I bet as soon as he sees his Dad, he’ll talk! Poor baby is suffering from the obvious chaotic environment!
This Judge put this Momma in her place. Gave her a quick lesson to remind her this isn’t just HER CHILD! Now she needs to LEARN HOW TO PLAY IN THE SAME SANDBOX TOGETHER WITH DAD!
Don’t agree. Mom should have to do some jail time & lose primary custody. That judge is his you make up the time & penalty bc mom “didn’t feel like dealing with it.”
I absolutely hate mother's who use their child's disabilities to keep the dad away. The mum didn't have knowledge how to look after her child with ASD but I'm sure she get the help she needed to understand, just as the father will do the same and he's had experience with his step child. I really like this judge, he's mostly on point with these type of cases
My BFF’s son is Autistic and one of the smartest men I know. I always enjoy hanging out with him while having very entertaining conversations. He lacks, in some areas, but he makes up in many other areas. We all benefit from those chats.
when the states comes to the door and takes your kids they don't give a transition time. the mom withholds the child and the dad is penalized. what a system against the dad.
My son turns 3 at the end of the month and his speech therapist has diagnosed him with ASD. We’re taking him to be properly diagnosed in a couple weeks. Anyway, that is absolutely no reason to keep a son away from his father.
I like this judge. Its too bad his hands are tied with this one. A child that hasnt seen his father for over a year and has these types of needs will need to have a transition/reunion specialist work with he and dad. Poor baby.
"I decided to let him see Ethan.." ... She decided to let him. She's saying "I'm in control! I'm angry and will use my control of the child as a weapon!"
I had custody of our son, ex had custody of our daughter. For 9 years she prevented me from having any contact with my daughter, totally against the court order where we were supposed to have 50/50 time. 9 years and court only ever kept telling ex that she Must give me access. I was very unwell one day and in a total of 9 years I had to miss taking son for ex to pick up and I was hauled into court, fined and threatened with imprisonment. It's an absolute joke!!!!!
Wow! Finally a GREAT Ruling!! Stay with it dad & next time, YOU file- don't wait. When their son gets school age, I hope dad goes back for 50/50. Ethan deserves both parents.
I totally agree she wants their son for herself and her family. However, did you see the father's stunned face when he was ordered but to pay child support? He didn't smile or look delighted he would get the visitation rights the Judge gave him at all. I think he thought he could have his own schedule agreement with the mother, especially as he has step children and a baby in the way. Did I hear correctly he has a baby on the way with his wife/partner? I just hope she behaves properly and doesn't interference with his visits and all goes smoothly.
I swear I’ll never understand why dads only get their kids every other weekend…Every Dad I know would go nuts only seeing their children twice a month….
When she says MY child, that tells us all we need to know.
Blue hair's a pretty big hint too!!
Plus the smug look on her face the whole time.
ABSOLUTELY!
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I think the Judge might knock the smug off when he gives Dad some visitation.
Awesome judge! Excellent ruling. Bravo!
So he gets denied his kid for a year and the mother has no consequences and the father has to pay the court cost and child support. Honestly, he should get the kid completely and she should be the one paying child support
Karma wins in the end
Not really much the judge could do because they didn't have a parenting plan in place. It sucks, but honestly, establishing a visitation schedule is all the judge could do
The judge's job is to act in the best interest of the CHILD, not to punish the mother. Ripping an autistic, non-verbal child out of his home is punishing HIM.
@@StellarTJJ keeping a child from their father is never in the best interest of the child lol. Only if the father was abusing the child but that is not this case
@@StellarTJJI agree . Father will get to build a relationship now. But ripping child away from comfort of mother not in best interest of the child. Judge is correct
👏🏽 the judge saw she hates him more than she loves her child! And she's very immature as a result of it. It isn't about u, MOM, it's about that precious baby....get over urself
I didn't see my autistic two year old for almost a year. As soon as o walked into the room he looked at me with a smile like "Oh! There you are!"
The judge is telling the truth about their memories. It's amazing.
Heck yeah. That had to have felt good! My son is almost 11 and he can look at any Godzilla and tell you what year movie it’s from lol. He also is our built in GPS due to spending hours on google earth 😂
That’s so sweet! 🥹
Thank you, @linzbrad, for sharing your story. I found it inspiring. ☺️
The journey with my grandson has been a unique one for us. He didn't start speaking until he was four, and during that time, we made sure to create a supportive environment for him. We read to him, sang and danced with him, and let him play with his trains as much as he wanted. When he started his Special Ed class at age four, the teacher called my daughter and asked why she had registered him as non-verbal because he was perfectly reading the posters on the wall as he walked down the hall. It was then that we realized that he had been absorbing everything we had been teaching him despite not speaking. It was a heartwarming moment for all of us to learn that he was learning and understanding, even though he wasn't verbal. He is 17 and a senior in high school. We aren't sure what the future holds, but we will be there for him every step of the way. 🤗
Yeah Autism memory is great. Where it comes apart is with those of us with both autism and adhd. 😂
They remember everything. Children on the spectrum are extremely intelligent so sadly he will remember this. He'll be able to see this video.
1. You don't talk to a one year old on the phone. 2. This girl is so full of it that her eyes are brown. 3. She illegally denied her child's father access to his child. She would rather bash this man rather than resolve any issues; she thought she would come into court and gaslight the Judge, I'm glad she FAILED.
It comes down to she wanted her NEW boyfriend to play daddy
That's not what gaslighting is. The internet is fkn ret*rded. That is one of the most egregious examples I have seen. She did not "gaslight" the judge. She lied to the judge. How are people so comfortable using words they don't know how to use?
"Honestly, i didnt want to deal with him." The unsaid part is, "but i still want his money."
What’s the harm in those kinds of moments just going to a sperm bank instead?
The mother admitted to withholding the child and this had to be filed based on her actions. Mother should have been assessed the court costs in whole. You play games you pay, period. Other than that I agree with this ruling.
Yes he FILED it they took it from him and filed FOR HER. which is BS why he was assessed the fees. Thats why he said I filed this..He has 2 kids and works 18 a hour and paying 400 month plus 75 is ridiculus.
Dad needs to save money and get a lawyer and I bet you she won’t get away with anything. The system works against fathers unfortunately unless you get a lawyer
It seems as if the 'system' worked pretty well for the father in this case. In fact, it worked *for* dad rather than *against* him because he was awarded very important visitation that he & Ethan deserve. Not only that the judge ordered that the father have 50/50 joint conservatorship over the little guy. In my state fathers' are routinely awarded custody so reference to the 'system' seems to be subjective as to who might be assessing it. Js
That's your state! And is very rare!!@@djjones7226
@@djjones7226what? he has had parental rights for over a year now and she refuses to drop her kid off to him or let him get his kid.
seriously make it make sense.
the judge already awarded him the 1st time and she refused to.let him see his kid.
nothing will change.
stop being a simp
@@TrueBlunty Hey genius, comprehension is key😅
I thought it was a bit rough that the father has to pay the court costs? I hope he gets 50/50 in the future.
Imagine living with your mom, boyfriend, and three children
NOOOO! Don't make me do it. I don't wanna. I REFUSE to imagine such a thing
She needs money for blue hair dye and tattoos.
I call bs, my buddies kid was non verbal till 4yrs old to them, funny thing was he had mentioned it to me once, and he lived way out in the middle of nowhere. No other kids around at all. He invited my family over, i have 4 kids, my youngest amd his the same age. They all were playing down at the creek and when i went to tell them food was ready, that little boy was laughing and talking up a storm with my kids. When he hit the stairs at the deck he didnt say a word the entire time he ate . They ran ran off back to the creek and i had both parents follow me secretly so we could watch them play. His wife broke down in tears, my buddy was speechless. I told him, dont look at my 4 yr old thinking yours is behind, they are the same, its the interaction of others that brings it out. Kid hit kindergarten and changed, talked to his parents nonstop. This mom is making excuses and again, not being held accountable.
It’s just baffles me the line of questioning. So the mom doesn’t get work questions but that’s all the dad gets asked. Doing calculations for child support before the judge even makes a judgement. Sickening.
Dear internet: THAT IS NOT WHAT GASLIGHTING MEANS. She did not "gaslight" the judge. She lied to the judge. Holy shit.
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse or manipulation that causes a person to question their own thoughts, memories, or perception of reality.
@@shainedupuis2649 Indeed - Ma'am/Sir, even aside from the fact that I actually do have a psychology degree, you proved my point if the intention of this copy-paste definition was to insinuate the judge was caused to question his own thoughts, memories, or perception of reality, which is not conducive to what actually happened. Internet armchair psychologists are the worst of them all.
100% custody to the father - this woman is negligent, vindictive and not truthful
So because she FEELS like he'll steal his son, she's decided to steal him first, and keep him from the dad... Notice how the father is guilty without a trial for the very act that the woman herself is doing? even though he hasn't done
Also, why does dad get asked about *his* job and pay, but mama blue hair here admitting she lives with her mom and boyfriend doesn’t get asked if she’s working or what she’s paid? 🤬 dispectful.
No accountability no repercussions, she doesnt have to obey anything
Exactly. Unless these mothers face repercussions for this evil, it's going to continue.
What I learned is that the parties are to move the court to get the result they want. I’d file a motion for contempt for breach of contract and have my motion heard by the judge showing all facts and any evidences I may have in support. Expecting a judge to do the job both parties are to do will assure a defeat in court. When filing the paperwork (my motion) id also file a proposed order with it to make the judges job easier.
@@freewillchoice8052 they agree in court ,it's outside court,they dont obey anything there's no repercussions just told don't do again,months go very quickly,years pass still ignored 2nd time in few wks there's no penalty
@@garagearts you’re not paying attention which is why there is no penalty. You didn’t read what I wrote and if you did, you’re not comprehending what I wrote so read it many times until it sinks in.
if your handle on this platform speaks of garage you may work on cars and working on cars is no different than court. If you want that engine to run right you gotta have all parts functioning properly and in place. One part missing and the car may not run at all. A little wire not being connected can often mean the whole thing doesn’t work. Same for court; if you want the court to function properly you gotta know what to do and have all the parts in place for a judge to rule in your favor. It’s not rocket science but it does take effort.
@freewillchoice8052 wrong. Family court is geared to make the father the primary "defendant", as if he has been charged with something. That is dead wrong & needs to change, not the father having to breakdown every aspect of the situation because the mother 95% of the time never does.
The blue hair says so much.
don't think that please. lots of colorful haired women aren't at all like this woman and they're wonderful to know. FYI - i've never dyed my hair - it's white now from age, so it's not my dog in the race but you may be doing yourself a disservice to paint a picture you haven't really seen
I am a huge fan of this judge.
She's lying he never told her he'd burn down the house. She said I just don't want to deal with him. She just wants his money. Any excuse is better than known. Like my mom would say. She's busy with the other kids and boy friend.
My two children have been withheld from me for four years. The mother moved address, moved schools. I don’t even know where they are but I still have to pay weekly child support. That’s bad enough but children have not even contacted me. I had children more than 50:50 for well over four years. They didn’t return because of a single argument in the phone. Be careful men. The mother has a lot of influence on children
Now, she will file false police reports on the father because she hates the father MORE than she loves her son. Major control issues. Useing her children as control toys. Unreal.
For Men stop getting hooked up with these baby mamas please stop saving and creating chaos in your life WoW
She needs to understand that he's the father. The father has just as much of a right to see his child.
This breaks my heart for the child. I have 2 boys which are grown now, same Father. The Father and his family wanted nothing to do with them. Begged over the years to co parent and any of them to have visitations with the boys, all of them turned me down . Children need all family for their development and especially their father. This caused a lot of pain on my boys.
I really like this judge. He doesn't mince words, he just tells it like it is. I feel bad for Ethan and his father. Selfishness is a really nasty flaw in a human, especially when it comes to a case like this! A whole year is one-third of that child's short life and that year is lost forever!
?? 32 contemps, if the father have done this he would be in jail, and still have to pay child suport, some of the worst judge i ever seen
@@kennethsjvold9212 Huh??? The judge did exactly what he should have done. This father is a stranger to his child and progress needs to go slow, especially for a special needs child.
@@kayja2949because of the MOTHER & it has nothing to do with him but her new love interest.
It's not about the child. It's about power.
lying disgraceful woman. this dude needs a lawyer. this liar is going to keep making BS accusations against this dude no matter what. she wants current man to be the childs father. that's what this is about.
Judge Webster ROCKS!! I love that man
This judge is absolutely the best one for these cases. He sees right through the bs. Man or woman he is and even man.
The fact she claims property he left is legally hers is why he was concerned, she likely threatened him with that stuff every day.
I love this judge. My son is also on the spectrum and he talked about it perfectly
The fact that she is denying this boy from seeing his father she’s hurting her son as well as the father
My friend hasn't seen his daughter since she was a newborn. He's raised two boys alone , paid child support to her, (but didn't get any for his boys who he has has alone with absolutely no contact to the mother, since they were 2 and 4) Another Friend married a women with two girls 7 and 9, they had a boy together and then she split. He raised all three alone, again with no help from the court.
No man gets anywhere close to a fair hearing. I didn't expect fairness here.
So I will never have children , because even though I wanted them, I have no rights to them, they are just something that can be used to enslave me.
I’m so sorry for what you have seen with your friends. How sad is this! I am a mom who has 2 daughters with my ex husband. Our girls are amazing and we tell them constantly that they are the best parts of us. I could never do this to their dad as that would be denying half of who they are and would be an attack on them! Women, get it together and realize you can’t give them the things their fathers can! Sir, I’m sorry this has spoiled you from having children, but I understand. ❤️☮️
But mama thought she could go against the court order and be in charge of the visits, wrong.
She can disobey all she wants there's nothing he can do except court again there's no repercussions she can just say she's in fear for child cut off
If she doesn't follow court orders, she can be held in contempt by the judge and can get jail time,. There are consequences.
No there's not ,try and find a contempt court video ,she can disobey judge in court to he's face he still won't do, the dad always gets wiped,
@@garageartsweird, I've seen hundreds of them. Maybe you should do more research.
@@robingalbraith323 I'm watching 1 now she has 32 contempt of court charges for not letting father see still no repercussions for her just judge says she has do ,32 no punishment not even a mention
My son was 3 years old and not talking good but he didn't have autism. I had a evaluated he needed a speech therapist and occupational therapist. He did so well it was discontinued for Pre-K.
Mother keeps saying he had things on her property and that his things are now legally hers. Well she just got done saying she lives with her mother and her boyfriend stays there too. Sounds like not her property and can't support herself or all her kids and boyfriend can't as well.
I'm not at all sorry when I say that she is doing this because she "doesn't want to deal" with her baby daddy. She needs to grow tf up. It's not about your personal feelings anymore, you have a child, and you need to do right by your baby.
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Booooo mom
Boooooo court
How are there no consequences 😡😡😡😡😡😡
This judge sucks, he’s tough on men but doesn’t hold women accountable at all. I’ve seen several videos with this judge and they are all the same.
Most moms are wanting dads to spend time with kids
Not as much as they "want a break" & not for the father to have a relationship with the children. Especially if they are in a new relationship. Tired of the "I don't trust him" narrative as an excuse because they trusted him between their legs?🤔🤷🏿♂️
Judge seems very reasonable. I like how he is no nonsense with both sides. There are problems with both parents here, and he takes a very prudent path.
How exactly was the father wrong or the "both sides" bs?
@@andrewwalker2153 I have watched this judge a number of times and he is always fair with both sides. Your mileage may vary but I think he asked good questions of both sides and held them accountable appropriately.
How does she expect child support but doesn't want him to see his son. Craziness. Then she says My child. Sounds like someone is really upset that he has moved on.
Unfortunately Ethan only knows her boyfriend as his daddy. And there’s no telling what she’s told the kid about his dad. She seems like the type.
The judge is making ME nervous fidgeting so much...
DAD GET AN ATTORNEY ASAP
Wish we had an update about this case.
Im am pleased to see this is one of the more fair judges who has truely valued the dad and set a progressive integration rather than the dad having to wait months and bring more cases to court to extend his visitation
This judge is horrible. This video is an exception because the mom is just evil. But most of his cases, he goes against the dads
TMI. Doxxing children isn't fair
And where is the medical reports, medical expert? Just bc mom said so? Maybe it’s the environment that the child has been living in that causing the issue. Dad needs a lawyer!
I TOTALLY believe it’s the environment! She’s pitiful, has a bum laying up playing stepdad, living with somebody else! Pitiful. I bet that baby starts talking when he sees his daddy!
5:12 that face dad makes. 😂 “wait, what?”
I wish mum could have stayed on screen. Would have loved to see her face 😮
Get declarations written against this lady and take her back to court & get custody of your child
If the child is withheld there should be no child support until the child is turn over.
My son didn’t talk until he was 5 & once we gave him Adderall to slow his mind down he was talking in 2 weeks. Before that the speech therapist couldn’t get my son to concentrate for more than 2 seconds 😂.
Should ask for proof of child diagnosis because mum's love to say he's got ADHD. Maybe she should have paid more attention when younger.
It's ASD. Autism Spectrum Disorder. Dad didn't challenge the claim.
Judge ordered her to turn her video on and she ignored it.
I thought he told her to turn it off to increase the bandwidth to make it easier to understand her
Exactly!!!!! @@PrissyTxTomboy
Saw the blue hair. You better get full custody of your son
Right? She has to live with her mom 2 other kids AND a bf? Does not sound like she is financially stable
“Junk men came to get the stuff, I didn’t get any money from it.” I call bullpoop, especially if he was a mechanic. Bet she scrapped all of his “junk” and got a nice little sum.
Bro heard that 455+75 😮 his whole ❤️ dropped 😢
Mom only wants money from him. She has a boyfriend to support.
That’s it! Laying on her azz all day, supporting a nothing bum, not engaging enough with her son! I bet as soon as he sees his Dad, he’ll talk! Poor baby is suffering from the obvious chaotic environment!
I just witnessed history!!! A judge grilling the mom and siding with the FATHER?!? This is history being made.
This judge seems really good.
This Judge put this Momma in her place. Gave her a quick lesson to remind her this isn’t just HER CHILD! Now she needs to LEARN HOW TO PLAY IN THE SAME SANDBOX TOGETHER WITH DAD!
Parents that actively refuse to allow the second parent to have visitation/quality time with their children should be placed in prison.
Don’t agree. Mom should have to do some jail time & lose primary custody. That judge is his you make up the time & penalty bc mom “didn’t feel like dealing with it.”
My brother has autism & my son has Smith Magenis Syndrome & part autism along with HADD and the term autism gets used to much for able bodied people
I love this judge he is for the child
People are dissing this judge not understanding what he said before his ruling. Even dad understands it.
I absolutely hate mother's who use their child's disabilities to keep the dad away. The mum didn't have knowledge how to look after her child with ASD but I'm sure she get the help she needed to understand, just as the father will do the same and he's had experience with his step child. I really like this judge, he's mostly on point with these type of cases
My BFF’s son is Autistic and one of the smartest men I know. I always enjoy hanging out with him while having very entertaining conversations. He lacks, in some areas, but he makes up in many other areas. We all benefit from those chats.
when the states comes to the door and takes your kids they don't give a transition time. the mom withholds the child and the dad is penalized. what a system against the dad.
Man I wish I could have seen her face 😂
Once one of them starts with the "got mad with me because I got together with someone else", you have found your liar. Biggest red flag
I'm so glad dad got visitation! I wonder what kind of games mom will come up with going forward!
This Mom is making a fool out of herself. I believe she’s also lying about her son.
My son turns 3 at the end of the month and his speech therapist has diagnosed him with ASD. We’re taking him to be properly diagnosed in a couple weeks. Anyway, that is absolutely no reason to keep a son away from his father.
Wow... They both have 5 kids with3 people between each other... Whats wrong with people... Have you heard about condoms or pulling out????
The Judge is amazing
I like this judge. Its too bad his hands are tied with this one. A child that hasnt seen his father for over a year and has these types of needs will need to have a transition/reunion specialist work with he and dad. Poor baby.
Again a women massively violates the law and get scott free, CONGRATULATIONS!
This is an extremely pro mother Judge. I've watched many of his cases you have to go some to get him to critise a mother.
"I decided to let him see Ethan.." ... She decided to let him. She's saying "I'm in control! I'm angry and will use my control of the child as a weapon!"
Nice how mom sets her camera up so she looked down on everybody 😂
Dad couldn’t spend time with his child because Mom thinks the child belongs to HER!
Judge is the man!
Wish we could see moms face during ruling.
Mom you don’t get to make the choice “Not to deal with him” Ethan isn’t just YOUR CHILD!
I had custody of our son, ex had custody of our daughter. For 9 years she prevented me from having any contact with my daughter, totally against the court order where we were supposed to have 50/50 time. 9 years and court only ever kept telling ex that she Must give me access. I was very unwell one day and in a total of 9 years I had to miss taking son for ex to pick up and I was hauled into court, fined and threatened with imprisonment. It's an absolute joke!!!!!
Wow! Finally a GREAT Ruling!! Stay with it dad & next time, YOU file- don't wait.
When their son gets school age, I hope dad goes back for 50/50. Ethan deserves both parents.
Well done judge
She's lying about the speech therapist...not saying the child doesn't have speech issues but she was so bad at explaining what the therapist said
She looks like the Temu version of Anna Paquin
I totally agree she wants their son for herself and her family. However, did you see the father's stunned face when he was ordered but to pay child support? He didn't smile or look delighted he would get the visitation rights the Judge gave him at all. I think he thought he could have his own schedule agreement with the mother, especially as he has step children and a baby in the way. Did I hear correctly he has a baby on the way with his wife/partner? I just hope she behaves properly and doesn't interference with his visits and all goes smoothly.
Why dont schools give lessons on how not to get pregnant. Times will never change until something is done.
My daughter didn’t speak for a long time. She was a very late bloomer. She is 26 and still doesn’t want to grow up.. lol.
Shelives with HER mommy 2 other kids AND a bf? This screams no good IMO
What is with this "tin can" sound? Its like old time radio!
I swear I’ll never understand why dads only get their kids every other weekend…Every Dad I know would go nuts only seeing their children twice a month….
I don’t understand the whole questioning about his employment, when she wasn’t questioned