Having a camera for your living room for the sole purpose of being able to disprove an assault claim, is the BIGGEST red flag I’ve ever seen. Normal people don’t think like that.
that expense report is killing me man. hes not giving girlfriend advice, hes giving sugar baby advice 😭 while not even hitting sugar baby expenses tbqh
Exactly. What's sad is that I see dudes online saying women are all about money, looks, stuff like that, and I'm willing to bet it's because of guys like this peddling "knowledge".
@@jkutiye87 fr the shock after you jump through all these hoops to appear "one of the good ones" to guys like this just to find out they don't even want girls like you hahah what an embarrassing time of my life
Yeah, it's kind of genius. If a guy is seriously considering doing something like hiring his "services", the relationship is long dead already, if it was ever anything more than a status for both parties at all
The amount of insecurity required to want to pay someone to test their partners loyalty is insane but like if you’re gonna do it you could find someone on instagram to do it for like $10 lol
"I'm sorry honey, that chocolate bar you just bought brings us over my 200 dollar a week date expenses. Sadly this arrangement is no longer profitable for me, and unfortunately I will have to let you go. If you don't mind filling out a survey about your experience that'd be great!"
@@24shineon I dunno, Caleb Hammer says it is possible to have a meal prep plan for $300 per month for one person, but even assuming a bit less care and time (since the $300 limit is for people in really bad situations), it should still be way lower than $800 per month? (I myself can't tell since I don't live in USA). Though it seems to be about a date, and that's a different thing than normal groceries.
@@tymondabrowski12 it’s definitely possible it’s just sometimes more difficult depending on the stores near you and the ingredients you need, it varies by household for sure
27:16 I appreciate Jarvis mentioning positive stereotypes are harmful too. Hearing comments about "Asians being smart" makes individual Asians who don't view themselves as smart feel bad, "positive" comments about being skinny makes ppl feel like they have to stay skinny to be liked etc
on a somewhat similar note, the positive stereotypes regarding east asian appearances bc of the growing popularity of stuff like kpop and k or c dramas is very uncomfortable to read/hear as an east asian. I've read/heard stuff like "All east asian people are skinny and have spotless skin." Every time I just feel so uncomfortable bc I'm overweight, and struggle with losing weight bc of health problems. I've also struggled with acne for forever, and know many other east asians who deal with the same. It just rubs me the wrong way when people lump all east asians as all being the same, whether it be a positive or negative stereotype.
Hey this is so off topic but I actually really appreciate you using the example of positive feedback on being skinny still being harmful in particular. Getting praised for being skinny as a kid led to me having issues with disordered eating as a teen, and this is the first time I’ve seen anyone validate that it’s bad. So yeah I can definitely second that positive stereotypes are still not a good thing
As someone with an ED, this is so true, even though I of course enjoy the compliments, it makes you notice how you don’t get them anymore when you’re recovering. No insults even necessary to show me that you prefer me less now that I’m “recovered.”
@@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6I assume they mean in a world where there’s enough social services/gov funding that people don’t need to pay for therapy and it’s a free service
@@ImAgentKmodern women don't like that their tactics are being exposed. W0m3n can be just as shitty as m3n, just a lot more subtle/covert about their fuckery, and ofc we're not allowed to talk about it cuz that's considered "creepy" or "misogynistic", just allow them to continue operating in the shadows..
@@dcarter455 I think an Argentinian black and white tegu enclosure should be perfectly good for a human who really likes sitting on scorching hot rocks. Those guys are big and they like it HOT.
@zyyl1949 how real do you think it is... like for real? I get that he is only helping men to get women who are gold diggers. But since and lot of these guys are scammers I'm don't really believe anything they say
Whooaaaaa buddy. Might want to be careful who you are messing with. Based Austin might just steal your partner’s significant other. Stay safe out there
Attempting to invalid the men that have already been validated by the objective goal that all men must in order to pass and maintain anything at even the most fundamental basics of all things necessary to not risk astronomical failures only to be proven the validity of reality on the most personal levels to not be able to be ignorant of the truths anymore, would be the best redpills for a bluepilled white-Knighting Bob to experience to be liberated from the fantasy that men and women are equal, and that want and react to things all the same ways that the "manosphere highlights daily" describes in his recent upload about how all of this simping and viewing relationships with modern women under the halo effect like delusions and the results experienced when just trusting them or treating them as males like or respond well to be treated does not ever reap the same results based on their actions.... All Women operate under "briffaults law" if every mans truly honest with themselves... Just look that up and seriously question every past and future outcome from anything expected having anything to do with any interaction with any woman, where the women in our lives act and live their lives in such ways to any standards that briffaults law doesn't apply to them, and you'll find that it simply doesn't exist..... Because men aren't loved or respected for who they are! We're only ever valued for what be provide! Without bringing value or displaying it, no relationship or interactions happen to get anywhere with women and nothing can be maintain without constantly meeting or exceeding their demands enough for them to feel like what have we done for her lately????.... Because they'll always continuously move the goalposts to want more and more..... Look up the story called "the husband store" and thats literally all modern women in a nutshell and how they're never happy wanting to be happy all the time in a society where they can ruin a mans life at any moment just because they're not feeling happy anymore..... For men that don't understand or refuse to acknowledge the reality of the potential threats of anything that can and has harmed countless good men, for these guys to be forcefed the redpills by their own good women that they talk about being so different or nothing at all of a risk to them ever being disappointed in would be the best thing for them to experience in life continuously until they accept the truth for what and how its always been. What modern women say and do behind our backs and feel inside about many things in theory aren't the truth in reality. The best recruiters of redpills aren't redpilled men.... It's always the women themselves. Its up to each man on his own time and strength to face the truth and set himself free from the bluepilled matrix that the evil powers want us all to believe to keep us in line to benefit themselves to have very little if any accountability or consequences at the expenses of those few that want the truth and to live in reality..... The second a war were to break out, or you're gone or sick.... You better believe that you're lovely woman will be getting dug out my chad and Tyrone balls deep all over that 304! And I the rest of us will be here to see y'alls crying and hearing y'alls say 1. Oh maybe the next ones different, I just had some bad luck 2. You know, but you lie to yourselves as a cope to not go insane or something, so you're in denial that you're all cuks 3. You accept the truths and you're able to come out with a realistic understanding of female nature and how men are hardwired, and now you can clearly see the landscape better and how things really work between the genders differences as men value a woman with no past and woman value men with a future and almost everything else we feel very differently about towards one another and value such as beauty and fertility. The manosphere has spoken and proven many hurtful truths. I'm not saying all women are bad, but all can very easily be if they aren't already all damaged today even before they get into any relationship not being able to pair bond and having delusional standards being an entitled modern women. Most simps will just keep simping as most haters are going to hate. These white knights will keep faking their tactics to try to score points with women or not get canceled for fake approval and views catering toward these women for views and chances to get leftovers of Chads and pookies. These types of men cannot be helped, because thats the only thing they've got left to have any skin in the game lying to themselves and women. These are the weak men that have ruined society making hard times for us all that ultimately caused most women to be the most unhappiest they've ever been. Its all so amusing to watch far lefty society ruin itself simping....... Y'alls can have our leftovers! The rest of us will just keep laughing at the fact that these men made another the old saying right again! That one mans trash could always be another mans treasure.... And those men are beta simps that wife up 304s and shame men that have standards and dont accept disrespectful behaviors and other toxic crap from women 😂
As a man, I'm so often thinking "what's the point though?" when learning about "how to get women" content. Like, if you can't "get a woman" by just being yourself, if you have to put on this whole calculated persona in order to attract her, how are you ever going to actually be happy with her? Craziness
Literally the moral of like, the average Disney kids/teen show where the character gets a makeover and changes their personality to appeal to their crush… and then we learn that it never works 😅 Love the username, btw
@@heatherangel9700 i can actually confirm this. i hung out with a lot of guys when i was 16-17 (im 19 now) and there was a group of like 3 guys i occasionally ran into who all followed people like andrew tate and believed in all his “how to get women” advice. one guy in the group worshipped the buffest and most physically attractive so much that i actually thought he was gay until he started talking to a girl. none of them ever made eye contact with me. not once. one of them had a female teacher once a week and ditched all her lessons. i tried to have a conversation with one of them once and he only spoke to me through his friend who was standing next to him. women were not human to those guys at all. i ended up spending a lot of time with them because i found them fascinating - like animals in a zoo. the way they acted towards women was so bizarre i had to find it funny otherwise i’d find it terrifying.
You've got it right!! These guys will make these tutorials and follow these kinda guys just for the approval of other men, not to find genuine connection w women themselves. It's so tragic that some people get on the internet and see this, believe this bs and end up influenced into becoming incels.
Him breaking down women based on races (and cultural backgrounds) is so... weird and gross. 🤢 Date someone who sees you as a person, not just your race lmao wtf
All of these people don’t see women as humans with individual personalities and needs. They view them as objects, who all act and think exactly the same, who can be manipulated into a relationship with the same action list. And then they wonder why no woman wants to be with a “nice guy” (lol) like them… it’s so sad. I’d feel pity for them if they weren’t such hateful creeps.
The irony of him saying that and being a BM, growing up i dealt with that A LOT. bm making HUGE deal about me being blasian. It made me so uncomfortable. It taught me to run for the hills when people do that. Ive had my share of WM feeling the need to tell me how they love BW. Like oh ok thats cool fam…i am a normal person. You could simply say im pretty. Not be weird and make it about my race. Its one thing to think my culture is “cool” or whatever, but to literally want me for being black or biracial is weird af 😂 Which is actually how i ended up with another mixed person. He also can relate to people being super weird dating about race.
@@BlasianLynn This. I'm not an "exotic" race or anything, but I do have red hair. That shit is fetishized SO MUCH that it became a legitimate squick for me to have someone compliment me on the color of my hair. I very much understand the feeling of "I don't want you to want me for this trait alone." It's so gross.
Honestly, couldn't even finish the video after that part. I'm so sick and tired of Black Women being put down, truly. Talks positively about any other race of woman, then just has to imply that most BW aren't feminine and have a ton of negative stereotypes "he won't mention". I know I'm the least desired type of woman. I'm just sick of it being shoved down my throat so much that a man can't even say something positive about us without mentioning a negative.
when you don't value the humanity of the group you pursue or the person you are with.....of course it would feel like a chore. all about what jarv said...all about the value of the person
@elizabthr.9359 I think it’s a bit more complicated than that. I’m saying this as someone who dated and is in a happy relationship, but from what I’ve seen, some instances of resentment toward dating have to do with finding the right person or feeling like you constantly have to start over again. A lot of people want relationships, fewer want to put in the necessary work, and even fewer want to put in the perhaps unnecessary work that modern online dating culture has introduced. In general unless someone’s outed themselves as an idiot, people complain because they’re struggling with a certain stage of a process, not because they don’t want to do it at all. Moving out of the country or changing a diet for instance.
@@Window4503 moving out of a country or changing your diet plan solely affects you. But dating and how you treat your partner affects the other person in the relationship as well.... So projecting your awful experiences of the past into your new relationship isn't a solution or even a logical thing to do in the first place, but yeah choosing to remain single and not date if you have issues, is something that can be done
@@Window4503 I don’t disagree with your comment, I was more touching on the idea that people often feel that they’re not whole unless they have a partner. I’ve met quite a few people who genuinely seem to hate dating and being in relationships yet they still do it. But it’s ok to not date or marry, it’s not something you have to do for people who really don’t want to but feel societal pressure to.
'Things Girls Hate but secretly LOVE!!! Number 1, Handsome Guys!!!!' To me that reads as 'well IM handsome and women keep saying they think im creepy... but that cant be right, they HAVE to love me!!!!'
That's what I thought too. Lol "girls say they hate me but they actually love me. Source: trust me, bro!" The whole idea of women not knowing what they want is already super gross, but that being his very first point legit made me snort laugh.
@@animeartist888 a lot of people don't know what they want when they're teens, regardless of gender. with experience they learn and decide their own preferences
You mention that this is what Teachers have to go through, my sister is a teacher and she said now-a-days they will pull any kids to the side that they think might have used it, and take words and passages out of their papers - and ask the students to explain what the word means, or have them read the sentence. All of them cannot. Its so easy to tell what is written by AI and what isnt when you know the writers lol.
Yeah, I’m an English teacher, and I know my students. There is no WAY some of them wrote some of the things they’ve handed in lol. The fact that they think they can trick me is absurd. If you don’t know how to use periods or capitalize the letter “I”, there’s no way in hell you’re suddenly pulling out words like “elucidate”.
@ahobbit1273 Right? It's so funny the stories I hear. Like my dude, you can't even pronounce, use in a sentence or SPELL most of the words you've turned in papers using -the audacity of some kids kills me lol
I'm not even a bad writer and I still refuse to use ai. My mom is a math teacher of all levels, and her lower level students sometimes get essay opportunities when in need of a grade boost. Needless to say, it is so devastatingly obvious when someone has cheated
Fun fact, in Don Quixote someone tells a story about a man who hires a friend to test his wife's loyalty. The story ends bad and even Don Quixote says it is not realistic. 400 years ago ppl did already think that's ridiculous
Thank you for explicitly not making fun of people who need social norms explained. I’ve been seeing a lot of videos that use the misogynistic rhetoric as an excuse to be ableist and make fun of people for not understanding social norms
I think after a certain age there's a line you cross. You go from being unaware by nature, to choosing ignorance of the way others function. And I say that as someone who struggles with interpersonal facial cues & social norms 💀
@@kdmac8110 Social norms and cues are different everywhere you go. There's no universal body language, each person has their own. While some might be able to adjust pretty fast, some can't. And it's not just what's okay or not on a bigger scale but also smaller things you do that other people will notice. Point is, there's a lot more to communication and what people do and don't do. A lot that can inform how people communicate. And if you have struggled with this, don't put other people who struggle with it down, you should already know what that experience has been like for you. Be kind. Not just to others but, to yourself too.
@@kdmac8110 no. Just no. I'm autistic, and a big ol Hallmark of autism is the struggle with social norms. I cannot understand tone, I cannot express proper tone, I can't understand how and when and how much I am meant to express myself in a given moment. I can read facial expressions ok, it's all the secret tone shifts and nonverbal cues that get me. I've been in therapy for years. I've cried for years begging to just be normal and be able to understand people the way that other people can. But I just can't. I have made progress but there's only so much progress I can make.
@@scream_kinh614 everyone is so different too with how they express themselves as well. There are no hard and fast rules to every single situation and emotions are so complex. I have a difficult time understanding when people are being mean/rude to me. Apparently people bullied me in HS and I didn’t even know until my friends told me.
So many of these men are basing their "advice" on the metrics of celebrities, influencers, rappers, pro athletes etc Yeah, if you're a pro athlete dating an IG model who has Drake in her DMs, she's probably used to a lifestyle that includes quarterly vacations, $5k in misc gifts and $200 dates every week. But most of the men taking this advice are never ever gonna be with those types of women, respectfully. The pretty, down to earth, regular degular girl you meet at target or the grocery store probably isn't gonna require literally any of the stuff he's naming. It's just so wild to watch regular guys trying to apply these completely niche dating metrics onto regular women who literally just want time, honesty, and companionship.
The nails one gets me. I don’t get my nails done. I’d rather my boyfriend buy me a bunch of tea lol. The list of supposed “expenses” assumes a very specific type of woman, never mind the concept being ridiculous as a whole.
Yeah its just kinda weird. I saw a reel on instagram the other day that said “as a man your woman’s hair and nails should be included in your monthly budget”
I think it would depend on what was said? If he starts out acting normal-ish, like he found my profile by chance and wanted to chat, maybe. But if he slides into the DMs all like "hey, you're hot ;)" yeah I'm outtie 9000
SAME! I'm in my early 20s, but I learned really fast that the second I turned 18 that a lot of men didn't care who I was in relation to them that I was a sexual object to them. I had my ex's stepdad message me on my 18th birthday. I didn't know the guy! We had never met and he only knew me because my Ex had mentioned me once or twice. The block button and the private account setting are a life saver!
No because im instantly suspicious of any man who messages me then i tell my husband how the interaction went its usually small talk then they say some weird sexual shit then i say im married they say i don't mind then i block they are very predictable
There's definitely a disconnect between men online and women in the real world. Women in the real world enjoy fun experiences, not just expensive stuff. Women may want to be treated by their partner every once in awhile, but having a budget for nails and shopping is bizarre, especially when most working class women are not shopping on a regular schedule. Normal women want to go out with someone emotionally available with shared interests who they enjoy spending time with. They conflate the women that guys like this date with everyday women that they'd pursue and wonder why everyday women don't like them. They place a ton of emphasis on momey and sex because they think thats all women want and then question why they're single 🙄
@@elijahishere it gets even weirder when you consider how much men like this complain about gold diggers. there’s millions of career women out there who you could date, have separate bank accounts with and each pay your own expenses if you don’t want a woman to “steal” your money, but these men are so deep in their traditional mindsets that they force themselves into a wallet x incubator relationship even though they don’t want one. but then again, man smart woman stupid, so what do i know.
@@elijahishereI wonder, too, if it’s like…an obtuse misunderstanding of some conversations I remember seeing online a few years ago where someone was questioning men paying on dates and some women went into what all went into getting ready for a date? But it’s like he took that conversation and thought, “Oh, so it’s a literal transaction. If I want dates, I have to help cover this stuff.” I dunno. I could be totally off. That’s what it made me think of, though.
13:02 in my college english class, some people submitted ChatGPT project proposals for stories that WE DIDN'T EVEN READ in the class. it's rough for the english professors fr
this dude started talking about bath and body works candles and i said "he looks like he's got mahogany teakwood in his house" and then he immediately shouts it out. STOP😂
He talked about it on the podcast! Someone came into his house mistakenly thinking it was the house of their tinder hookup. Just a mistake, thankfully, but still terrifying.
He talked about it on Sad Boyz! He came home late and forgot to lock his front door, and some guy wandered in thinking it was his tinder hookup. Worst part is, after the guy realized the mistake, he was like "um... are you Jarvis Johnson? omg man i've seen your videos!" Super freaky. iirc Jarvis was already set to move a few days later, so thankfully he got out of there pretty fast.
I’m the most average-looking guy you could possibly imagine and I’ve had gorgeous girlfriends. Granted I’ve also had gorgeous boyfriends. I am not straight.
Agreed! If you have a camera set up in your living room to combat assault allegations, my first thought is NOT "ah, that's smart" or "oh no did someone lie about you before?" but rather "What did you do that made someone claim you assaulted them???" and then a followup of "Do you just not know the legal definition of assault and disagree over what happened???"
It'd be really funny if he was in a non-single party consent state for recording, and tried to use the video he secretly recorded to defend himself in court and got done for violating that law lol
@@Vantitas where are you getting the idea that women falsely accusing men is rampant??? It literally is not. Especially not in comparison to real SA that goes completely unreported.
Where the hell is blankets in the things you should have in your living room?? Have u ever known any woman *not* to love a soft blanket? It's TRUE SHIT
Right?? Suggesting something snuggly and warm to keep her from wanting to get up once she's all cozy would actually be a lifehack. Not this "have a camera in case of assualt allegations" BS. So weird and gross!
This guy is, no joke, the embodiment of the mindset of so many men I talk to. It is genuinely scary. They have been conditioned to think that money is everything. It's very sad and guys like him are predators who look for men to take advantage of.
Ye I used to work with a guy who was just obsessed with money and this sort of 'i will be mega rich' mindset. At least he was nice enough to say he'll remember me when he's wealthy 😂
Not gonna support this guy but there is no plagiarism checker that can actually detect AI output. It is probably copied off some other website but thats it. AI plagiarism checkers themselves are a grift 😂.
@@iksskan9147 there are lots of ways to detect the use of ai generated text. Just because you don’t know how these programs work doesn’t mean they can’t work. While plenty are scams, AI text isn’t as smart as some people seem to think
@@iksskan9147no they’re not. they’re currently used by universities and colleges everywhere, the parent company of Chat-GPT even made it for the sole purpose of recognising its own AI, it’s not a plagiarism checker, it’s an AI checker, made by the AI company.
@@iksskan9147 Exactly my thoughts, it's such short pieces of text that sounds like your average marketing speak. Sure there is something funny about calling that AI generated but 82% is a deceitful confidence to give for this short an amount of text, let alone accepting that percentage on face value. I get wanting to hate on this guy for justifiable reasons and he probably didn't put much effort into things to begin with, but randomly claiming it's AI off these unreliable tools is just a bit weird. He's already a terrible grifter, we don't need to make things up or discard reasonable doubts to make him even more lazy or malicious.
I can already tell that he's not confident about the girlfriends wanting him. He's confident that insecure guys will believe him. And more relevantly, that they'll pay him
Honestly, if you think you need to test your partner's loyalty, you should probably just break up. Good relationships are built on communication and trust. Clearly, you have neither if you're hiring someone to bait your partner into cheating.
@@animeartist888 i agree, it is really saddening that people are made to believe they need to be untrusting via toxic masculinity culture etc, super duper not good for society since we do live in a society :p
27:59 “I’m not gonna say anything because there are plenty of lovely FEMININE black women out there” Oh brother, I’m white, not even American, and I still clocked it. he REALLY couldn’t be any more blatant with that one 😭
The SMV calculator just reminds me of Ho-Math and his charts That episode is such a comfort watch when I need to remember not everyone views relationships as transactional and women as less human.
men need to realise that women DO NOT THINK IN TERMS OF RATINGS!!!! you CANNOT appeal to everyone. the men i think are gorgeous are ugly to other people. the men other people think are gorgeous are unattractive to me. it's individual taste!!!! someone's 10 is someone else's 3!!!!! oh my god!!!!! there is no universal attractiveness!!!! this guy is a 1 to me because i don't like this trimmed, hyper-masculine, muscly look!!! understand personal preference and the importance of personality and hobbies and humour and intelligence and subjective attraction!!!!
So much this! I've had many women in my life show me pictures of dudes who they said were "SO hot, omg you have to see him" only for me to make that little instinctual "Ugh, really?" face on first sight. They get offended, but like... our tastes can be different. That's fine. I tend to dislike the traditional muscly masculine look as well. Dude, if you look like you could snap my spine in half with a sneeze, I'm not comfortable hanging out with you at ALL, much less alone. I prefer a chubby nerd!
Ok but can we get more recognition for chubby nerds? Do guys really think girls don’t want to hold on to someone huggable too?! We love people who are passionate about whatever their interests are (basic definition of a nerd) and someone who is comfortable in their own skin (confidence) and make a good human pillow for cuddling 😂 that’s pretty much the beauty standard right there!!!!
One day men will discover that women are human beings and therefore each single one is different and surely out there there’s at least one who’s gonna like you for what you are
the ai text detection systems are hugely unreliable- there's loads of cases of neurodivergent students being accused of cheating because they don't write in a way that the detector would deem 'normal' for a human. not saying he didn't use ai, but i think it's bad practice to assume any unusual language/syntax must be ai
This. I work in AI and the text in question reads very much as AI to me, however there is no ai detector on the market right now that can detect ai perfectly
@@ked49 that's v cool for you but unfortunately a lot of people have had the opposite experience. i've seen people in adhd communities online literally posting screen recordings of them typing something and it immediately getting picked up as ai
'Having vacations quarterly' yeah, so pretty much most people can't do that lmao. Even if they sacrifice money to their significant other to make sure they are cared for or whatever, having the ability to take a vacation every 3 months is wild to me and adding in a partner you don't know well or haven't met yet makes no sense. My partner and I do a few fun nights but we can't do vacations due to our conflicting work schedules. It just is what it is for a lot of people. How do they expect the average person to go on 4 vacations a year WITH their partner every time?
India is IN ASIA. Indians ARE ASIAN. 🇮🇳 They aren't separate categories. 😭 Asian is a category that comprises regions in the Asian continent. Love the video, Jarvis 🫶🏼
My first thought when he generalized "Asians" as one category and then said stereotypes that were primarily Japanese. Was a severe eye roll moment when he went on to India without mentioning that they are Asian by definition.
Which is why you know for a fact that 1) he has never dated any of the women he speaks of, and 2) has based all his information on generic stereotypes that are fetishized and gross.
Bro is literallt breaking down expenses like he's budgeting to keep a horse or something 😭 If you have to do this to keep a girl, you don't have a relationship, you have a transaction. It's soulless and sad
I've fitted cameras throughout my entire home because I am the protagonist in a found-footage horror movie and people won't be able to see doors slam on their own or gaudy CGI phantoms rush the camera in IMAX if I didn't have them. Doesn't everybody do this prior to getting possessed by a demon and going on a rampage in all the areas with camera coverage?
what makes me sad is imagining vulnerable young guys out there who don’t have access to things like therapy. it’s one thing to have those resources and turn your back on them but another to be left helpless due to circumstances. not saying people, even young ppl, aren’t responsible for their actions but… idk, it feels tragic. also, when he started qualifying how different ethnicities of women behave in relationships… it made me sick. but i’m sure i’m not alone there.
Holy shit I recognize this guy. We matched on a dating app and when I drifted he did NOT STOP harassing me and DEMANDING I go on a date with him. I told him to stop harassing me once and he said “lmao stfu” these men are terrible
"things women say they hate but they actually love" why is it so hard for men like this to realise there are no cheat codes or secrets to connecting with women, JUST TREAT US LIKE PEOPLE. IT WILL ACTUALLY BE SO MUCH EASIER THAN ALL THIS BS.
He always sounds so condescending. I think he leans into it for the character, but I'm not sure it's helping young boys and men. Just perpetuates toxic masculinity
12:26 ai checks arent an accurate thing to use... all they really check is grammar and stuff like that, so i wouldnt listen to them tbh. they say stuff is ai generated like 98% of the time
@@spaceybirdiemy own writing gets flagged as ai and honestly i think it might have something to do with my autism. i don’t think im alone in that either
I can't overlook the irony of Jarvis being sponsored by a security camera, takes shots of him putting the camera on his bookcase shelf in his living room, and then laying into this guy for having security cameras. Lol! Yes, I understand the creepy he's pointing out, and they are totally different things, but it made me laugh watching it. 😂
" you're allowed to like things" that's exactly why it's super weird to refer to normal things you like as a "talking piece", it's like your life revolves around dating
on the camera in the living room topic, this isn’t entirely the same thing, but i was dog watching for my coworker for about a week (just feeding them, taking them out for a minute) and found out on the last day that there was a camera in their living room. when i asked about it, they openly admitted to watching me while i was in there helping out. my issue doesn’t come from there being a camera in general, it’s ID LIKE TO KNOW IF IM BEING WATCHED AND RECORDED. even if i’m not planning on doing anything wrong and have no i’ll intentions. it feels so wrong to videotape someone without informing them at all
He used to be a fitness channel and was in ROTC for college. But dropped out the program and went to the manosphere/red pill after his channel blew up and had his heart broke x2. Oh how the mighty have fallen.
I heard this modified scale and i like it so much better then 1-10. 1: Not attractive to me and i don't think other's would find them attractive 2: Not attractive to me but i can see how others would find them attractive 3: Attractive to me and i dont think other's find them attractive 4: Attractive to me and i think others also find them attractive
Oh an indoor security camera! Ok the world is pretty crazy these days gotta stay sa- oh he wants to make sure girls don’t accuse him of assault…. Oh…..
Now this is fully my opinion but I’d bet he’s recording explicit videos of women without their consent. Hopefully not distributing but that’s another possibility that isn’t too far off
i met a guy who had cameras in his living room and used them to disprove an assault claim.... but once he told me that story i realized i never wanted to talk to him again
I’m a teacher and I have caught students using AI based on how high level and out of character the writing seems compared to their usual on paper style. One kid, I asked him to define a word he had used and he had no idea it was even used in his work. I get students to do a lot of draft work to help compare to any final typed pieces just in case.
can you really be a dating "expert" since you probably need experience but at the same time having to date many people means that you are probably not that successful
I love how all these dating coach/redpill men are like “women are shallow and only want you for looks and money! So play into the shallowness and buy my course on how to get more looks and money!”
The dating pool nowadays is trash. I gave up on looking for any kind of companionship when I realised that most m3n don't see a human being when looking at me, they just see an attractive object. It's even worse when men try to perpetuate that idea or behaviour that money can buy me..... I have my own..... A lot of m3n, think that having money is a good enough personality trait and when women don't want to deal with them, regardless of them being rich, they resort to whining and broke shaming. There is so much bad advice on the internet and people actually take it in real life.... it's shocking
@@mayaaa3932 iirc, I think it happened a while ago, like a couple years ago before jarvis moved into his current place. I think they talked about it on a couple old sadboyz episodes but I don’t know which ones
Since my son got me hooked on Jarvis's channels etc I've never been this early for a video! I guess sometimes it pays to have a day off for a dread doc appointment.
Hope your doctor appointment went okay ❤️ my nerves always get to me before appointments. It can just be like a dental cleaning or something else basic, and I know I'll dread it. I've started making my appointments earlier in the day when possible, so I can just sleep in a little, and when I get up, I really only have time to get ready and go. It does help a little.
Having a camera for your living room for the sole purpose of being able to disprove an assault claim, is the BIGGEST red flag I’ve ever seen. Normal people don’t think like that.
Like H U H
Maybe he had a negative experience with women claiming something happened that didn’t. Maybe think about why people view things this way or ask idk
@@darthstarfireMen are more likely to be sexually assaulted themselves than to be falsely accused of ANYTHING so maybe sit down and shut the fuck up.
That's some Diddy stuff it's not for security it's for home movies
@@darthstarfirebffr dude the amount of false accusations in comparison to sa cases is so insignificant 😭😭😭 only sex offenders are worried about that
that expense report is killing me man. hes not giving girlfriend advice, hes giving sugar baby advice 😭 while not even hitting sugar baby expenses tbqh
Exactly. What's sad is that I see dudes online saying women are all about money, looks, stuff like that, and I'm willing to bet it's because of guys like this peddling "knowledge".
Self fulfilling prophecy
@@redfrog1628as someone who used to be a pick-me, they only like "women who are after their money".
@jkutiye87 yeah, I've tried telling them that but they didn't wanna hear it. That's when you know they're deep in the stew.
@@jkutiye87 fr the shock after you jump through all these hoops to appear "one of the good ones" to guys like this just to find out they don't even want girls like you hahah what an embarrassing time of my life
paying a guy to hit on your girlfriend via DM is crazy. SELLING that service is even crazier
toxic and genius lol
I’ve seen this girl on TikTok live who FaceTimes girls’ boyfriends/husbands to test their loyalty. It’s highly entertaining but also sad
Yeah, it's kind of genius. If a guy is seriously considering doing something like hiring his "services", the relationship is long dead already, if it was ever anything more than a status for both parties at all
The amount of insecurity required to want to pay someone to test their partners loyalty is insane but like if you’re gonna do it you could find someone on instagram to do it for like $10 lol
He's trying to get money the only way his immature mind can think ok
"I'm sorry honey, that chocolate bar you just bought brings us over my 200 dollar a week date expenses. Sadly this arrangement is no longer profitable for me, and unfortunately I will have to let you go. If you don't mind filling out a survey about your experience that'd be great!"
Dating, but make it Shark Tank
Imagine having a $200 limit in this grocery economy 😭
@@24shineon I dunno, Caleb Hammer says it is possible to have a meal prep plan for $300 per month for one person, but even assuming a bit less care and time (since the $300 limit is for people in really bad situations), it should still be way lower than $800 per month? (I myself can't tell since I don't live in USA). Though it seems to be about a date, and that's a different thing than normal groceries.
@@tymondabrowski12 it’s definitely possible it’s just sometimes more difficult depending on the stores near you and the ingredients you need, it varies by household for sure
Imagine breaking down dating costs like it’s a business expense. Can I write this off on my taxes?
Not until marriage 😂
These are the people we thought the people who split checks were
“Someone help me budget this my girlfriend is dying.”
i write down my divorces as business trips so yes
Depends, you a politician? If not no, if so yes(and you also get paid)
27:16 I appreciate Jarvis mentioning positive stereotypes are harmful too. Hearing comments about "Asians being smart" makes individual Asians who don't view themselves as smart feel bad, "positive" comments about being skinny makes ppl feel like they have to stay skinny to be liked etc
I think it's called "benevolent racism" if u want to find more about this topic :-)
This phenomenon is often called model minority stereotyping :)
on a somewhat similar note, the positive stereotypes regarding east asian appearances bc of the growing popularity of stuff like kpop and k or c dramas is very uncomfortable to read/hear as an east asian. I've read/heard stuff like "All east asian people are skinny and have spotless skin." Every time I just feel so uncomfortable bc I'm overweight, and struggle with losing weight bc of health problems. I've also struggled with acne for forever, and know many other east asians who deal with the same. It just rubs me the wrong way when people lump all east asians as all being the same, whether it be a positive or negative stereotype.
Hey this is so off topic but I actually really appreciate you using the example of positive feedback on being skinny still being harmful in particular. Getting praised for being skinny as a kid led to me having issues with disordered eating as a teen, and this is the first time I’ve seen anyone validate that it’s bad. So yeah I can definitely second that positive stereotypes are still not a good thing
As someone with an ED, this is so true, even though I of course enjoy the compliments, it makes you notice how you don’t get them anymore when you’re recovering. No insults even necessary to show me that you prefer me less now that I’m “recovered.”
I tell myself every day “im gold, im premium” and it helps me get through the day
Same❤😂
You ARE gold! And Premium!
GOOOOOLD!!!!
We are gold. We are premium. Once upon a time on a small (obviously very flat and not at all 3 dimensionally spherical) world far far away...
I hear a faint “GOOOOOOLD!” In my mind sometimes when I need a laugh lmaoo
$500 an hour for his consult is wild. I'm a therapist in an expensive city and most of us only charge around $150 an hour. With our Master's degree.
I don’t think therapy should be charged but someone could not pay me enough to listen to rich people’s problems for 45 minutes
@@qa5159But how would that work?
@@qa5159 therapist need to eat and live , sorry 😅😅
@@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6fr 😭🙏
@@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6I assume they mean in a world where there’s enough social services/gov funding that people don’t need to pay for therapy and it’s a free service
Dating coaches are having a competition to see how creepy they can be istg
Just because you disagree with their views, doesn’t make them creepy. I don’t agree either, but still.
@@ImAgentK No. Telling people to record their girlfriend or wife without their knowledge is fucking *creepy*
@@maraque16 Oh ok fair enough, in my defense I didn’t watch the whole video.
@@ImAgentKmodern women don't like that their tactics are being exposed. W0m3n can be just as shitty as m3n, just a lot more subtle/covert about their fuckery, and ofc we're not allowed to talk about it cuz that's considered "creepy" or "misogynistic", just allow them to continue operating in the shadows..
he talks about having a girlfriend like having like...a lizard. brb calculating the money it will take to get my girlfriend a heat rock
Not a bad strategy tbh. Living room heat rock would kill with the cold feet girlies
Honestly, I’d actually really enjoy a sunning rock🤔 how much would that cost for a North American copper topped squish dragon like myself?
A heat rock would get me better than these men
@@dcarter455 I think an Argentinian black and white tegu enclosure should be perfectly good for a human who really likes sitting on scorching hot rocks. Those guys are big and they like it HOT.
@@dcarter455 i think that would have to depend on your size. How tall are you? About 5 inches?
Nothing builds trust in a relationship like hiring someone to spy on your partner. Truly a modern love story.
Its the cutest 😍
Relationship goals lol
"She's my girlfriend"
"And he's my fbi agent"
"👕❤👕"
The DM service as though the girlfriends wouldn't automatically go to his page and see that he is offering that service
Right, also how discreet can the service be, the girlfriend is going to know who sent him
He did a few videos showing the results, a lot of the girlfriends actually did cheat
@@zyyl1949he probably just faked them lol
And you believed those videos were real? @@zyyl1949
@zyyl1949 how real do you think it is... like for real? I get that he is only helping men to get women who are gold diggers. But since and lot of these guys are scammers I'm don't really believe anything they say
Whooaaaaa buddy. Might want to be careful who you are messing with. Based Austin might just steal your partner’s significant other. Stay safe out there
Attempting to invalid the men that have already been validated by the objective goal that all men must in order to pass and maintain anything at even the most fundamental basics of all things necessary to not risk astronomical failures only to be proven the validity of reality on the most personal levels to not be able to be ignorant of the truths anymore, would be the best redpills for a bluepilled white-Knighting Bob to experience to be liberated from the fantasy that men and women are equal, and that want and react to things all the same ways that the "manosphere highlights daily" describes in his recent upload about how all of this simping and viewing relationships with modern women under the halo effect like delusions and the results experienced when just trusting them or treating them as males like or respond well to be treated does not ever reap the same results based on their actions.... All Women operate under "briffaults law" if every mans truly honest with themselves... Just look that up and seriously question every past and future outcome from anything expected having anything to do with any interaction with any woman, where the women in our lives act and live their lives in such ways to any standards that briffaults law doesn't apply to them, and you'll find that it simply doesn't exist..... Because men aren't loved or respected for who they are! We're only ever valued for what be provide! Without bringing value or displaying it, no relationship or interactions happen to get anywhere with women and nothing can be maintain without constantly meeting or exceeding their demands enough for them to feel like what have we done for her lately????.... Because they'll always continuously move the goalposts to want more and more..... Look up the story called "the husband store" and thats literally all modern women in a nutshell and how they're never happy wanting to be happy all the time in a society where they can ruin a mans life at any moment just because they're not feeling happy anymore..... For men that don't understand or refuse to acknowledge the reality of the potential threats of anything that can and has harmed countless good men, for these guys to be forcefed the redpills by their own good women that they talk about being so different or nothing at all of a risk to them ever being disappointed in would be the best thing for them to experience in life continuously until they accept the truth for what and how its always been. What modern women say and do behind our backs and feel inside about many things in theory aren't the truth in reality. The best recruiters of redpills aren't redpilled men.... It's always the women themselves. Its up to each man on his own time and strength to face the truth and set himself free from the bluepilled matrix that the evil powers want us all to believe to keep us in line to benefit themselves to have very little if any accountability or consequences at the expenses of those few that want the truth and to live in reality..... The second a war were to break out, or you're gone or sick.... You better believe that you're lovely woman will be getting dug out my chad and Tyrone balls deep all over that 304! And I the rest of us will be here to see y'alls crying and hearing y'alls say 1. Oh maybe the next ones different, I just had some bad luck 2. You know, but you lie to yourselves as a cope to not go insane or something, so you're in denial that you're all cuks 3. You accept the truths and you're able to come out with a realistic understanding of female nature and how men are hardwired, and now you can clearly see the landscape better and how things really work between the genders differences as men value a woman with no past and woman value men with a future and almost everything else we feel very differently about towards one another and value such as beauty and fertility. The manosphere has spoken and proven many hurtful truths. I'm not saying all women are bad, but all can very easily be if they aren't already all damaged today even before they get into any relationship not being able to pair bond and having delusional standards being an entitled modern women. Most simps will just keep simping as most haters are going to hate. These white knights will keep faking their tactics to try to score points with women or not get canceled for fake approval and views catering toward these women for views and chances to get leftovers of Chads and pookies. These types of men cannot be helped, because thats the only thing they've got left to have any skin in the game lying to themselves and women. These are the weak men that have ruined society making hard times for us all that ultimately caused most women to be the most unhappiest they've ever been. Its all so amusing to watch far lefty society ruin itself simping....... Y'alls can have our leftovers! The rest of us will just keep laughing at the fact that these men made another the old saying right again! That one mans trash could always be another mans treasure.... And those men are beta simps that wife up 304s and shame men that have standards and dont accept disrespectful behaviors and other toxic crap from women 😂
Based on Austin? I'm calling CalebHammer if you get his $200 loyalty test 😂
Based Austin is going to steal your partner's significant other aka yourself???
@@rp2741or polyamory
As a man, I'm so often thinking "what's the point though?" when learning about "how to get women" content. Like, if you can't "get a woman" by just being yourself, if you have to put on this whole calculated persona in order to attract her, how are you ever going to actually be happy with her? Craziness
Literally the moral of like, the average Disney kids/teen show where the character gets a makeover and changes their personality to appeal to their crush… and then we learn that it never works 😅
Love the username, btw
hot
It's because it's not really about finding a partner to be happy with. It's about collecting women like Pokemon to impress other men.
@@heatherangel9700 i can actually confirm this. i hung out with a lot of guys when i was 16-17 (im 19 now) and there was a group of like 3 guys i occasionally ran into who all followed people like andrew tate and believed in all his “how to get women” advice. one guy in the group worshipped the buffest and most physically attractive so much that i actually thought he was gay until he started talking to a girl. none of them ever made eye contact with me. not once. one of them had a female teacher once a week and ditched all her lessons. i tried to have a conversation with one of them once and he only spoke to me through his friend who was standing next to him. women were not human to those guys at all. i ended up spending a lot of time with them because i found them fascinating - like animals in a zoo. the way they acted towards women was so bizarre i had to find it funny otherwise i’d find it terrifying.
You've got it right!! These guys will make these tutorials and follow these kinda guys just for the approval of other men, not to find genuine connection w women themselves. It's so tragic that some people get on the internet and see this, believe this bs and end up influenced into becoming incels.
Him breaking down women based on races (and cultural backgrounds) is so... weird and gross. 🤢 Date someone who sees you as a person, not just your race lmao wtf
All of these people don’t see women as humans with individual personalities and needs. They view them as objects, who all act and think exactly the same, who can be manipulated into a relationship with the same action list. And then they wonder why no woman wants to be with a “nice guy” (lol) like them… it’s so sad. I’d feel pity for them if they weren’t such hateful creeps.
U hit the nail on the head @@smears6039
The irony of him saying that and being a BM, growing up i dealt with that A LOT. bm making HUGE deal about me being blasian. It made me so uncomfortable. It taught me to run for the hills when people do that. Ive had my share of WM feeling the need to tell me how they love BW. Like oh ok thats cool fam…i am a normal person. You could simply say im pretty. Not be weird and make it about my race. Its one thing to think my culture is “cool” or whatever, but to literally want me for being black or biracial is weird af 😂
Which is actually how i ended up with another mixed person. He also can relate to people being super weird dating about race.
@@BlasianLynn This. I'm not an "exotic" race or anything, but I do have red hair. That shit is fetishized SO MUCH that it became a legitimate squick for me to have someone compliment me on the color of my hair. I very much understand the feeling of "I don't want you to want me for this trait alone." It's so gross.
Honestly, couldn't even finish the video after that part. I'm so sick and tired of Black Women being put down, truly. Talks positively about any other race of woman, then just has to imply that most BW aren't feminine and have a ton of negative stereotypes "he won't mention". I know I'm the least desired type of woman. I'm just sick of it being shoved down my throat so much that a man can't even say something positive about us without mentioning a negative.
27:40 this sounds like he’s explaining the behaviours of different dog breeds to see which one fits your lifestyle and would be best for you to adopt
I know too many people who treat dating like it's a chore
I think people forget you don’t actually have to date or marry like if you hate it just.. don’t?
when you don't value the humanity of the group you pursue or the person you are with.....of course it would feel like a chore. all about what jarv said...all about the value of the person
@elizabthr.9359
I think it’s a bit more complicated than that. I’m saying this as someone who dated and is in a happy relationship, but from what I’ve seen, some instances of resentment toward dating have to do with finding the right person or feeling like you constantly have to start over again. A lot of people want relationships, fewer want to put in the necessary work, and even fewer want to put in the perhaps unnecessary work that modern online dating culture has introduced. In general unless someone’s outed themselves as an idiot, people complain because they’re struggling with a certain stage of a process, not because they don’t want to do it at all. Moving out of the country or changing a diet for instance.
@@Window4503 moving out of a country or changing your diet plan solely affects you. But dating and how you treat your partner affects the other person in the relationship as well.... So projecting your awful experiences of the past into your new relationship isn't a solution or even a logical thing to do in the first place, but yeah choosing to remain single and not date if you have issues, is something that can be done
@@Window4503 I don’t disagree with your comment, I was more touching on the idea that people often feel that they’re not whole unless they have a partner. I’ve met quite a few people who genuinely seem to hate dating and being in relationships yet they still do it. But it’s ok to not date or marry, it’s not something you have to do for people who really don’t want to but feel societal pressure to.
'Things Girls Hate but secretly LOVE!!! Number 1, Handsome Guys!!!!'
To me that reads as 'well IM handsome and women keep saying they think im creepy... but that cant be right, they HAVE to love me!!!!'
That's what I thought too. Lol "girls say they hate me but they actually love me. Source: trust me, bro!" The whole idea of women not knowing what they want is already super gross, but that being his very first point legit made me snort laugh.
@@animeartist888 a lot of people don't know what they want when they're teens, regardless of gender. with experience they learn and decide their own preferences
Haven’t started the video but this Jarvis guy seems awfully cool
Premium too. 😊
Trigger warning- he is
he’s golden!
In some ways, he’s a men’s dating and lifestyle coach 😂
I just started watching & luv his humour & advice already... ❤
You mention that this is what Teachers have to go through, my sister is a teacher and she said now-a-days they will pull any kids to the side that they think might have used it, and take words and passages out of their papers - and ask the students to explain what the word means, or have them read the sentence. All of them cannot. Its so easy to tell what is written by AI and what isnt when you know the writers lol.
Yeah, I’m an English teacher, and I know my students. There is no WAY some of them wrote some of the things they’ve handed in lol. The fact that they think they can trick me is absurd. If you don’t know how to use periods or capitalize the letter “I”, there’s no way in hell you’re suddenly pulling out words like “elucidate”.
@ahobbit1273 Right? It's so funny the stories I hear. Like my dude, you can't even pronounce, use in a sentence or SPELL most of the words you've turned in papers using -the audacity of some kids kills me lol
i'm a middle school science teacher and tbh it's so easy to tell just looking at the document. The font and background are all different LMAO
I'm not even a bad writer and I still refuse to use ai. My mom is a math teacher of all levels, and her lower level students sometimes get essay opportunities when in need of a grade boost. Needless to say, it is so devastatingly obvious when someone has cheated
Teachers have been doing this for decades to spot plagiarism 😄even before AI people copied from the internet or from classmates. It works well.
Fun fact, in Don Quixote someone tells a story about a man who hires a friend to test his wife's loyalty. The story ends bad and even Don Quixote says it is not realistic. 400 years ago ppl did already think that's ridiculous
RANDOM OF ME BUT I LOVE DON QUIXOTE SM
Thank you for explicitly not making fun of people who need social norms explained. I’ve been seeing a lot of videos that use the misogynistic rhetoric as an excuse to be ableist and make fun of people for not understanding social norms
I think after a certain age there's a line you cross. You go from being unaware by nature, to choosing ignorance of the way others function. And I say that as someone who struggles with interpersonal facial cues & social norms 💀
@@kdmac8110well that’s kind of gross
@@kdmac8110 Social norms and cues are different everywhere you go. There's no universal body language, each person has their own. While some might be able to adjust pretty fast, some can't.
And it's not just what's okay or not on a bigger scale but also smaller things you do that other people will notice.
Point is, there's a lot more to communication and what people do and don't do. A lot that can inform how people communicate.
And if you have struggled with this, don't put other people who struggle with it down, you should already know what that experience has been like for you.
Be kind.
Not just to others but, to yourself too.
@@kdmac8110 no. Just no. I'm autistic, and a big ol Hallmark of autism is the struggle with social norms. I cannot understand tone, I cannot express proper tone, I can't understand how and when and how much I am meant to express myself in a given moment. I can read facial expressions ok, it's all the secret tone shifts and nonverbal cues that get me. I've been in therapy for years. I've cried for years begging to just be normal and be able to understand people the way that other people can. But I just can't. I have made progress but there's only so much progress I can make.
@@scream_kinh614 everyone is so different too with how they express themselves as well. There are no hard and fast rules to every single situation and emotions are so complex. I have a difficult time understanding when people are being mean/rude to me. Apparently people bullied me in HS and I didn’t even know until my friends told me.
So many of these men are basing their "advice" on the metrics of celebrities, influencers, rappers, pro athletes etc Yeah, if you're a pro athlete dating an IG model who has Drake in her DMs, she's probably used to a lifestyle that includes quarterly vacations, $5k in misc gifts and $200 dates every week. But most of the men taking this advice are never ever gonna be with those types of women, respectfully. The pretty, down to earth, regular degular girl you meet at target or the grocery store probably isn't gonna require literally any of the stuff he's naming. It's just so wild to watch regular guys trying to apply these completely niche dating metrics onto regular women who literally just want time, honesty, and companionship.
The nails one gets me. I don’t get my nails done. I’d rather my boyfriend buy me a bunch of tea lol. The list of supposed “expenses” assumes a very specific type of woman, never mind the concept being ridiculous as a whole.
Yeah its just kinda weird. I saw a reel on instagram the other day that said “as a man your woman’s hair and nails should be included in your monthly budget”
And ironically, all the people this metric is set upon have the all time worst relationships😂😂😂
@@Window4503 I’m the same, although I would probably prefer chocolate, Dr. Pepper or a book (hardcover if he really wants to charm me 😂)
If a random man messaged me I'd be so scared and immediately block him...
I think it would depend on what was said? If he starts out acting normal-ish, like he found my profile by chance and wanted to chat, maybe. But if he slides into the DMs all like "hey, you're hot ;)" yeah I'm outtie 9000
SAME! I'm in my early 20s, but I learned really fast that the second I turned 18 that a lot of men didn't care who I was in relation to them that I was a sexual object to them. I had my ex's stepdad message me on my 18th birthday. I didn't know the guy! We had never met and he only knew me because my Ex had mentioned me once or twice. The block button and the private account setting are a life saver!
My dms are closed all the time cause i got tired of getting dms on social media.
No because im instantly suspicious of any man who messages me then i tell my husband how the interaction went its usually small talk then they say some weird sexual shit then i say im married they say i don't mind then i block they are very predictable
Especially a random dm to meet a stranger somewhere?? Absolutely the fuck not
Once he got to "nails and shopping" I was like "oh okay, he's just talking about being a sugar daddy."
That’s not enough money for a sugar baby 😭 $200 is two mid range meals
There's definitely a disconnect between men online and women in the real world. Women in the real world enjoy fun experiences, not just expensive stuff. Women may want to be treated by their partner every once in awhile, but having a budget for nails and shopping is bizarre, especially when most working class women are not shopping on a regular schedule. Normal women want to go out with someone emotionally available with shared interests who they enjoy spending time with.
They conflate the women that guys like this date with everyday women that they'd pursue and wonder why everyday women don't like them. They place a ton of emphasis on momey and sex because they think thats all women want and then question why they're single 🙄
@@elijahishere it gets even weirder when you consider how much men like this complain about gold diggers. there’s millions of career women out there who you could date, have separate bank accounts with and each pay your own expenses if you don’t want a woman to “steal” your money, but these men are so deep in their traditional mindsets that they force themselves into a wallet x incubator relationship even though they don’t want one. but then again, man smart woman stupid, so what do i know.
@@elijahishereI wonder, too, if it’s like…an obtuse misunderstanding of some conversations I remember seeing online a few years ago where someone was questioning men paying on dates and some women went into what all went into getting ready for a date? But it’s like he took that conversation and thought, “Oh, so it’s a literal transaction. If I want dates, I have to help cover this stuff.” I dunno. I could be totally off. That’s what it made me think of, though.
13:02 in my college english class, some people submitted ChatGPT project proposals for stories that WE DIDN'T EVEN READ in the class. it's rough for the english professors fr
Dude in my CP class I used grammarly and ended up getting a zero on the essay 😭
My college english class had a rule in the syllabus not to use AI for assignments
@@inkystars19 Same, all my classes say not to use AI under the academic dishonesty section of the syllabus
@@The_real_tomoldgrammarly isn’t fair bc my community college made us download and use it… it’s really helpful!
@inkystars19 so does mine lol, I think a lot of people don't really care
this dude started talking about bath and body works candles and i said "he looks like he's got mahogany teakwood in his house" and then he immediately shouts it out. STOP😂
No bc mahogany teakwood is my long-time fav... I didnt know it had such an association 🤚🏻😭
@@kayla_mallen same bruh I adore that candle and now I have to question myself.
What, is that candle a f-boy thing or something?
@@buriedpetteakwood is no-paper behaviour
@@registeredjopper How? That's one of the best ones 😭
Why is everyone skipping over him saying someone broke into his house??? You okay Jarvis 😭😭?
LITERALLY it took me so long to find this comment. the first one that mentions it 😧😭
Yeah he said he’s talked about it before??? Was it on the podcast?? That’s so scary
right?!? I was like HOLD UP
He talked about it on the podcast! Someone came into his house mistakenly thinking it was the house of their tinder hookup. Just a mistake, thankfully, but still terrifying.
He talked about it on Sad Boyz! He came home late and forgot to lock his front door, and some guy wandered in thinking it was his tinder hookup. Worst part is, after the guy realized the mistake, he was like "um... are you Jarvis Johnson? omg man i've seen your videos!" Super freaky. iirc Jarvis was already set to move a few days later, so thankfully he got out of there pretty fast.
“I’m the dating coaches’ coach” is giving “I’m your favorite artist’s favorite artist”, iconic
First one sounds more higherarchical, so kinda but not really 😅
I am your weedman's weedman (Major Lazer)
I’m the most average-looking guy you could possibly imagine and I’ve had gorgeous girlfriends. Granted I’ve also had gorgeous boyfriends. I am not straight.
😂😂☠️💀☠️😂😂
That's because bisexuality raises your Sexual Market Value
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If your new guy has anti grape allegation cams set up, sis you better run so far and so fast!
Agreed! If you have a camera set up in your living room to combat assault allegations, my first thought is NOT "ah, that's smart" or "oh no did someone lie about you before?" but rather "What did you do that made someone claim you assaulted them???" and then a followup of "Do you just not know the legal definition of assault and disagree over what happened???"
It'd be really funny if he was in a non-single party consent state for recording, and tried to use the video he secretly recorded to defend himself in court and got done for violating that law lol
Also, if anybody accuses him, this guy?
I instantly believe them!
@@Vantitas where are you getting the idea that women falsely accusing men is rampant??? It literally is not. Especially not in comparison to real SA that goes completely unreported.
vantities, dude, you're _way_ more likely to get SA'd than accused of it, falsely or not.
we know Jarvis is telling the truth about him caring more about the thought than the execution of the gift bc Drew Gooden's 3D White Jarvis
Where the hell is blankets in the things you should have in your living room?? Have u ever known any woman *not* to love a soft blanket? It's TRUE SHIT
Right?? Suggesting something snuggly and warm to keep her from wanting to get up once she's all cozy would actually be a lifehack. Not this "have a camera in case of assualt allegations" BS. So weird and gross!
Soft blankets are a must, doesn't matter the time of year I have to have a blanket
If he doesn’t have soft blankets and apple juice in the fridge then I don’t want him 😭
Shoot, as a man I still love soft blankets and rugs. Like she can borrow one of mine but best believe I got 3 for myself.
This guy is, no joke, the embodiment of the mindset of so many men I talk to. It is genuinely scary. They have been conditioned to think that money is everything. It's very sad and guys like him are predators who look for men to take advantage of.
Ye I used to work with a guy who was just obsessed with money and this sort of 'i will be mega rich' mindset. At least he was nice enough to say he'll remember me when he's wealthy 😂
82% AI is crazy for a service that charges that much
Not gonna support this guy but there is no plagiarism checker that can actually detect AI output.
It is probably copied off some other website but thats it.
AI plagiarism checkers themselves are a grift 😂.
@@iksskan9147 there are lots of ways to detect the use of ai generated text. Just because you don’t know how these programs work doesn’t mean they can’t work. While plenty are scams, AI text isn’t as smart as some people seem to think
@@iksskan9147no they’re not. they’re currently used by universities and colleges everywhere, the parent company of Chat-GPT even made it for the sole purpose of recognising its own AI, it’s not a plagiarism checker, it’s an AI checker, made by the AI company.
Paying for that GPT Premium
@@iksskan9147 Exactly my thoughts, it's such short pieces of text that sounds like your average marketing speak. Sure there is something funny about calling that AI generated but 82% is a deceitful confidence to give for this short an amount of text, let alone accepting that percentage on face value. I get wanting to hate on this guy for justifiable reasons and he probably didn't put much effort into things to begin with, but randomly claiming it's AI off these unreliable tools is just a bit weird. He's already a terrible grifter, we don't need to make things up or discard reasonable doubts to make him even more lazy or malicious.
hearing him talk about "attractive woman" as if she's a rare lizard or bird with astronomical vet bills XD
“If you want to become an exotic pet owner, here are the expenses you’ll need to afford to maintain their comfort.”😂😂😂
@@dcarter455 LMAO
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underrated😂
Camera+rubiks cube. He clearly just wants to know how to solve it and hes too ashamed to look it up.
Someone tells me they have a security camera inside so women don't "falsely accuse" them, I'm running so fast I'm breaking down the damn door
I can already tell that he's not confident about the girlfriends wanting him. He's confident that insecure guys will believe him. And more relevantly, that they'll pay him
I’m horrified that this guy’s favorite Bath and Body Works scent is mahogany teakwood because that’s my favorite 😭
It’s a solid fragrance… he doesn’t get to claim it. I rebuke him like the demon he presents as😂😂😂
@@dcarter455 he got u all😂😂😂
"Sexual marketplace value" just sounds like sex trafficking, but maybe that's just me
Doesn’t unconsensually filming women during (probable) intimate acts on the couch seem traffick-y too
I mean I hope it was just poor phrasing but this guy makes it hard to hold onto that hope 😬
Jarvis did say he was on some Diddy ish🤷🏾♀️
Yep
Sounds like and is are 2 different things
every time one of these guys makes a list of "things women say they hate but secretly love" it's just so sad to me. she didn't want him i guess
“loyalty tests” are EVERYWHERE it’s ridiculous
Honestly, if you think you need to test your partner's loyalty, you should probably just break up. Good relationships are built on communication and trust. Clearly, you have neither if you're hiring someone to bait your partner into cheating.
@@animeartist888 i agree, it is really saddening that people are made to believe they need to be untrusting via toxic masculinity culture etc, super duper not good for society since we do live in a society :p
Wow I Lowkey fw and agree with this
i literally had to pause the video and reflect after he explained why he was cameras in his living room. INSANE
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27:59 “I’m not gonna say anything because there are plenty of lovely FEMININE black women out there” Oh brother, I’m white, not even American, and I still clocked it. he REALLY couldn’t be any more blatant with that one 😭
The SMV calculator just reminds me of Ho-Math and his charts
That episode is such a comfort watch when I need to remember not everyone views relationships as transactional and women as less human.
This was not the way I expected to find out that my girlfriend has a girlfriend or wife
2:52 yo but Jarvis just killed that Andrew state voice
He did, it was scarily accurate
ikr???
Sadboyz viewers already know all about his his andrew tate impersonation talents 😎
@ wait what?!? I’ve been watching regularly for a good year now, did I miss it or is it an older episode
Right?? 😂😂 spot on
men need to realise that women DO NOT THINK IN TERMS OF RATINGS!!!! you CANNOT appeal to everyone. the men i think are gorgeous are ugly to other people. the men other people think are gorgeous are unattractive to me. it's individual taste!!!! someone's 10 is someone else's 3!!!!! oh my god!!!!! there is no universal attractiveness!!!! this guy is a 1 to me because i don't like this trimmed, hyper-masculine, muscly look!!! understand personal preference and the importance of personality and hobbies and humour and intelligence and subjective attraction!!!!
So much this! I've had many women in my life show me pictures of dudes who they said were "SO hot, omg you have to see him" only for me to make that little instinctual "Ugh, really?" face on first sight. They get offended, but like... our tastes can be different. That's fine. I tend to dislike the traditional muscly masculine look as well. Dude, if you look like you could snap my spine in half with a sneeze, I'm not comfortable hanging out with you at ALL, much less alone. I prefer a chubby nerd!
Ok but can we get more recognition for chubby nerds? Do guys really think girls don’t want to hold on to someone huggable too?! We love people who are passionate about whatever their interests are (basic definition of a nerd) and someone who is comfortable in their own skin (confidence) and make a good human pillow for cuddling 😂 that’s pretty much the beauty standard right there!!!!
@@dcarter455 I love a chunky tech nerd 😍 like a smart teddy bear
One day men will discover that women are human beings and therefore each single one is different and surely out there there’s at least one who’s gonna like you for what you are
@@dcarter455why is fat attractive???
"Thank you, Jarvis!" we all say in unison
"weeoo weeoo it's the cap police". New classroom management line unlocked.
the ai text detection systems are hugely unreliable- there's loads of cases of neurodivergent students being accused of cheating because they don't write in a way that the detector would deem 'normal' for a human. not saying he didn't use ai, but i think it's bad practice to assume any unusual language/syntax must be ai
esl students also get falsely accused often because they tend to use more academic language than expected
My writing is not written in a normal way, but it gets detected as 100% human because it is most definitely not perfect(what ai detectors detect)
This. I work in AI and the text in question reads very much as AI to me, however there is no ai detector on the market right now that can detect ai perfectly
@@3bugsinatrenchcoat yes i've also heard this!
@@ked49 that's v cool for you but unfortunately a lot of people have had the opposite experience. i've seen people in adhd communities online literally posting screen recordings of them typing something and it immediately getting picked up as ai
'Having vacations quarterly' yeah, so pretty much most people can't do that lmao. Even if they sacrifice money to their significant other to make sure they are cared for or whatever, having the ability to take a vacation every 3 months is wild to me and adding in a partner you don't know well or haven't met yet makes no sense. My partner and I do a few fun nights but we can't do vacations due to our conflicting work schedules. It just is what it is for a lot of people. How do they expect the average person to go on 4 vacations a year WITH their partner every time?
India is IN ASIA. Indians ARE ASIAN. 🇮🇳
They aren't separate categories. 😭 Asian is a category that comprises regions in the Asian continent.
Love the video, Jarvis 🫶🏼
He thinks that asia it's just JP, CN or KR
Russia is in Asia, although they are considered Eurasian's.
My first thought when he generalized "Asians" as one category and then said stereotypes that were primarily Japanese. Was a severe eye roll moment when he went on to India without mentioning that they are Asian by definition.
Which is why you know for a fact that 1) he has never dated any of the women he speaks of, and 2) has based all his information on generic stereotypes that are fetishized and gross.
I'm sure he's also lumping people from Pakistan and Bangladesh into the Indian box too. Probably assumes any brown person from that area as Indian lol
If he DM’s me I’d see he’s a dating coach and that he sells DM’s??? And then I’d know I was being set up?
No literally how is it discreet if it's coming from his Instagram😭
my thought is that he might use a secondary personal account??? but he is a weird little freak so i have no idea
Me when a randomly attractive male dms me without any prior mention: "Oh, this must be a scam."
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@@jjjabbers cause the only real men who slide into DM’s are scary period!!
Jarvis spent so much time getting progressively angrier at this weird guy that it got dark outside
Bro is literallt breaking down expenses like he's budgeting to keep a horse or something 😭
If you have to do this to keep a girl, you don't have a relationship, you have a transaction. It's soulless and sad
feeling golden today.. thanks
You are golden :)
11:00 the "all purchases are non refundable- even if she passes" ???? that's so wild why would that be a policy LMAO
22:21 But... you're filming in a living room... I can't handle these double standards Jarvis
Top tier comment 😂😂
I've fitted cameras throughout my entire home because I am the protagonist in a found-footage horror movie and people won't be able to see doors slam on their own or gaudy CGI phantoms rush the camera in IMAX if I didn't have them. Doesn't everybody do this prior to getting possessed by a demon and going on a rampage in all the areas with camera coverage?
Getting someone to spy on and manipulate your partner because you don't trust them is a modern Shakespearean tragedy waiting to happen
what makes me sad is imagining vulnerable young guys out there who don’t have access to things like therapy. it’s one thing to have those resources and turn your back on them but another to be left helpless due to circumstances. not saying people, even young ppl, aren’t responsible for their actions but… idk, it feels tragic.
also, when he started qualifying how different ethnicities of women behave in relationships… it made me sick. but i’m sure i’m not alone there.
who up late dating they coach rn
Jarvis's knowledge of magic the gathering and mastery of the pokemon franchise levels up his hotness 1000%
22:29 I have bath and body teakwood mahogany body spray in my bathroom lol. When it came out the staff at my b&bw were calling it the boyfriend candle
That's not an attractive woman, that's a superficial woman. Who cares more for the monitary value rather than the emotional value.
Your partners significant other is you. You're getting an honest and timely response from you to you.
Holy shit I recognize this guy. We matched on a dating app and when I drifted he did NOT STOP harassing me and DEMANDING I go on a date with him. I told him to stop harassing me once and he said “lmao stfu” these men are terrible
He’s so nuts I wholeheartedly believe you lmao
This could be fabricated to all hell and I'd believe you.
"things women say they hate but they actually love" why is it so hard for men like this to realise there are no cheat codes or secrets to connecting with women, JUST TREAT US LIKE PEOPLE. IT WILL ACTUALLY BE SO MUCH EASIER THAN ALL THIS BS.
I always appreciate seeing a levelheaded person point out and break down this nonsense. Thank you, premium Jarvis
He always sounds so condescending. I think he leans into it for the character, but I'm not sure it's helping young boys and men. Just perpetuates toxic masculinity
At first I read this as you saying this about Jarvis' advice 💀
12:26 ai checks arent an accurate thing to use... all they really check is grammar and stuff like that, so i wouldnt listen to them tbh. they say stuff is ai generated like 98% of the time
Not my experience - an English teacher
@@spaceybirdiemy own writing gets flagged as ai and honestly i think it might have something to do with my autism. i don’t think im alone in that either
I wouldn’t put it pass this guy because what he is saying doesn’t even make sense 😭
No not your autism, its just not systems are not accurate @@lucidattf
I don't think the AI check was necessary. That was more obviously written by AI than that mushroom foraging book that poisoned people.
The “goooooldd” always makes me so happy :D
I can't overlook the irony of Jarvis being sponsored by a security camera, takes shots of him putting the camera on his bookcase shelf in his living room, and then laying into this guy for having security cameras. Lol!
Yes, I understand the creepy he's pointing out, and they are totally different things, but it made me laugh watching it. 😂
TH-cam hid this from me for a whole minute sigh
" you're allowed to like things"
that's exactly why it's super weird to refer to normal things you like as a "talking piece", it's like your life revolves around dating
10:04 reminds me of the meme "first date idea I stare at you like this"
on the camera in the living room topic, this isn’t entirely the same thing, but i was dog watching for my coworker for about a week (just feeding them, taking them out for a minute) and found out on the last day that there was a camera in their living room. when i asked about it, they openly admitted to watching me while i was in there helping out. my issue doesn’t come from there being a camera in general, it’s ID LIKE TO KNOW IF IM BEING WATCHED AND RECORDED. even if i’m not planning on doing anything wrong and have no i’ll intentions. it feels so wrong to videotape someone without informing them at all
Right at least give a heads up so you can make sure not to be like picking a wedgie or some shit in view of the camera 😭😂
“all women want a really attractive man” sir im a lesbian💀
i swear these ppl just forget we exist or sum shit lmao😭
Minority.. & don't care anyway
He used to be a fitness channel and was in ROTC for college. But dropped out the program and went to the manosphere/red pill after his channel blew up and had his heart broke x2. Oh how the mighty have fallen.
I heard this modified scale and i like it so much better then 1-10.
1: Not attractive to me and i don't think other's would find them attractive
2: Not attractive to me but i can see how others would find them attractive
3: Attractive to me and i dont think other's find them attractive
4: Attractive to me and i think others also find them attractive
Oh an indoor security camera! Ok the world is pretty crazy these days gotta stay sa- oh he wants to make sure girls don’t accuse him of assault…. Oh…..
Now this is fully my opinion but I’d bet he’s recording explicit videos of women without their consent. Hopefully not distributing but that’s another possibility that isn’t too far off
6:51 fellas get your girlfriend 3rd party tested! Do any of these coaches have wives or girlfriends?
i met a guy who had cameras in his living room and used them to disprove an assault claim.... but once he told me that story i realized i never wanted to talk to him again
I’m a teacher and I have caught students using AI based on how high level and out of character the writing seems compared to their usual on paper style. One kid, I asked him to define a word he had used and he had no idea it was even used in his work.
I get students to do a lot of draft work to help compare to any final typed pieces just in case.
can you really be a dating "expert" since you probably need experience but at the same time having to date many people means that you are probably not that successful
Impatiently waiting for people to stop rating other people's looks with a ten point scale.
These people played video games where dumping tons of items on someone makes them like you and thought that was real life too.
I love how all these dating coach/redpill men are like “women are shallow and only want you for looks and money! So play into the shallowness and buy my course on how to get more looks and money!”
The dating pool nowadays is trash. I gave up on looking for any kind of companionship when I realised that most m3n don't see a human being when looking at me, they just see an attractive object. It's even worse when men try to perpetuate that idea or behaviour that money can buy me..... I have my own.....
A lot of m3n, think that having money is a good enough personality trait and when women don't want to deal with them, regardless of them being rich, they resort to whining and broke shaming.
There is so much bad advice on the internet and people actually take it in real life.... it's shocking
I'M premium??? AND based??? Jarvis, you're too generous ☺️
Ladies, if he's not performing a review of the relationship's Q1-Q4 expenses, dump his ass!!!
sorry you said a strange man was in your house???? when was this previously discussed ??
Same!! I didn’t see anyone else talking about ut
@@mayaaa3932 iirc, I think it happened a while ago, like a couple years ago before jarvis moved into his current place. I think they talked about it on a couple old sadboyz episodes but I don’t know which ones
Everything is so 'calculated' that no woman would ever feel a genuine connection with a guy like that.
Since my son got me hooked on Jarvis's channels etc I've never been this early for a video! I guess sometimes it pays to have a day off for a dread doc appointment.
Hope your doctor appointment went okay ❤️ my nerves always get to me before appointments. It can just be like a dental cleaning or something else basic, and I know I'll dread it. I've started making my appointments earlier in the day when possible, so I can just sleep in a little, and when I get up, I really only have time to get ready and go. It does help a little.
I love the setting of these videos its way more cosy and warm compared to just a white wall. Love it
i forget how much Jarvis uploads it's crazy how much content you put out and its not slop at all keep doing what you're doing (if you want lol)
Jarvis repeatedly referring to him as "sport" is giving me life 😂