4 TIPS for Living Alone and Loving It! Start Now Over 50 Over 60
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- 4 TIPS for Living Alone and Loving It! Start Now Over 50 Over 60
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I am 67, always lived alone, no husbands no kids, but an exciting job, lovely pets, beautiful house and garden, wonderful trips around the globe, great health ( so far!). And, above all, no regrets! From Italy
But you have chased after the world all your life and left Jesus Christ far behind .
@@misha-elministries5246 just stop
@@misha-elministries5246Stop your Religious comment.
@@misha-elministries5246 I entirely echo RaffaelaIT's comments and guess what, Misha Baby, I'm a Christian. I guess it's entirely possible to live alone, no husband or kids, have lovely pets, a beautiful house and garden, and travel . . . AND be a Christian, too, since that's my exact status also. How about that, you judgemental croak. You are the worst of Christianity and you make me ASHAMED OF YOU to read your know-it-all, uber-judgemental, nasty comment about another woman whose religious status you wouldn't have a clue about.
@@misha-elministries5246You are making a mighty big assumption. Stop with that.
having been in abusive relationships in the past for me it is bliss not having to listen to what is wrong with me :) ....
I had this happen to me once and I understand what you mean. No screaming or holes in the walls either. It is peaceful ❤
so true! lol
I have been there too am also glad I am not in an emotionally abusive intimate relationship. Except now since I’m single I have my ailing widowed mother in my house who continues to tell me what’s wrong with me 😔 Working on emotional fortification in my 50s unfortunately
@@stacey3332 sorry to hear that. I have in the last year gone no contact with my abusive father and I am 60! I guess the family is where it all starts. Take good care of your lovely self x
@@elizabethforsyth3054 Thank you :) I agree, family and generational trauma. Blessings to all of us brave souls taking the path towards healing
1. Take care of yourself
2. Assess your skills/abilities
3. Create personal safety
4. Have fun/Enjoy your freedom
Thank you!
Thanks so much for the gust of it
@@Dwsrs24 Great points!!
ThAnks
Thanks
I would like to add the fifth suggestion..
Find something to occupy your mind by doing something productive. You could sort the house out by focusing on each room or a corner each day to get rid of the accumulated stuff. Create your own exercise routine, learning from watching videos on TH-cam. Join a library to start reading books, if you don’t already. It is very important to keep our brain ticking, and body healthy.
Excellent 5th!
Thank you for sharing
which book do you recommend? i read what people suggest when searching on the internet. no love storys. but altual things.what i can learn something from
@@mosey5878 Atomic Habits by James Clear and Elastic Habits by Stephan Guise.
Very good advice 🌅
Iam 82 and have lived alone for 40 years I traveled to India and plan a trip in two years to.India and Pakistan Iam writing a book have a beautiful life
@@normarussell8769 Congratulations on your book!
thank you for sharing ~
Wow, you are a super lady. I am glad you are travelling to my country Pakistan, wish you all the best,
I’m 56. I’ve been living alone for 14 years. The peace is immeasurable.❤
Ditto, 15 years. I agree, the peace is immeasurable; well said.
❤ same here. Choice.
Congratulations,perfect.I hate it,would prefer living with another person at 70😂😂
@@Fegga1955Maybe living in a community setting would be the fix-for practical/logistical reasons, and maybe even for social reasons, it helps to have people you can count on, and vice versa.
Hope you can find a better setup, if that’s what you need. 🙏
same here the peace is amazing
I am 64 and have lived alone since my 20’s. So it’s all I know. I have taken care of me and have done a great job. There has been no one there for me but God. All things are possible❤
🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
God bless you. ❤
@Lovetoloveu01 Bless The Lord 🙌
@@Lovetoloveu01 Amen. I understand that!!
Awesome, I just turned 60. But, I love this channel and all the comments. I'm not alone, but this is good to know before hand.
I can’t believe this woman is 67. She looks amazing.
She definitely looks her age.
Yes she looks good for her age. I am sure she spent a good amount of time in front of a mirror creating the image. No negative vibes, just the truth.
My thoughts exactly
Make-up and a woman who knows how to use the brush can do wonders.
It's the results of a well trained, degreed plastic surgeon. Money well spent. Well worth it. 👍
Just turned 51, divorced for 8 years
My loves
Bathroom to myself
Wardrobe to myself
Sleep in the middle of the bed & have a pristine white duvet cover
Eat early, in my pjs early
Cinema on my own
Self care buying beautiful clothes on occasion
Do I get lonely, of course, was lonelier with the wrong person
When you're unwell that's tough
Rock on solo sisters xxx
Burn the candles
Wear the shoes ❤
Same here 🙌 🎉 62 years of age, separated 6 years holidaying we’re I want, eat what I want, no ties 👌 captain of my own ship 💚
It is way lonelier with the wrong person
I was so lonely in the past marriage. Nightmare stuff. I'm never lonely now. Sometimes I might feel alone - especially when I might have to deal with a snake that the cat brought in! I can handle anything!
It's lonelier with the wrong person, it's the truth.
Well said. I'm 51. Married 23 years and separated for 3. Scary but liberating. ❤
64 yrs old live alone and love my peace. I stay as busy as I want to be. I sew alot make bread, watch older movies, play piano, raise garden,can from garden. Have time to research all my interest. Love,love,love being alone.
🌻🌻🌻
I'm 70 and never married, have no kids, have been an independent loner for years, and lived alone for 5 years, decorated my whole apt and love, love it. I love the freedom, eat alone, come and go whenever and wherever I have hobbies, and have friends. It's wonderful!
If you are healthy, living alone is a good thing.
So true
Absolutely
If not, you are in danger.
@@ParisianThinker Learn ow to depend on yourself and don't spent future money.
58, never been married. Living alone expert.
You're smart, I regret getting married, especially to the wrong guy but I'm legally separated from him now and living on my own for the first time at 57 and much happier🙂
never married you must be don't like man?
Me too!
Me too... And childfree!
Me too... And childfree!
I got divorced in 2017 and was left with a lot of debt accumulated by my then husband. I got depressed and didn’t enjoy my life.
My mum passed away in May 2019 and in May 2020 I was diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer. Am in remission as of April 2021 and am living my best life at 71 yrs old.
Thank you so much for this video.❤ Much love from The Netherlands.
Bless you. Gives me hope ❤
I'm so sorry for what you've been through. You have a very positive attitude which has helped you. Blessings for the future
Yes, congratulations on your remission from stage IV ovarian cancer. Its such an encouragement to learn woman can get past the worst.
Blessings to you 🙏 ❤
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I’m 62, my husband passed away this past August. And I’m still not used to living alone. Thank you for this positive and uplifting video. I know in time, living alone will be the new normal for me. I’m so happy I came across your TH-cam video today. 😊
I don't know your circumstances. I am a widow. I just wrote a long post. I just want to say make sure you give yourself all the time you need to grieve & lead with your heart & don't let anyone encourage a change you are not ready for. My heart goes out to you for your loss. Losing a spouse to divorce is not the same as losing a loving spouse to death.
Thank you for your kind words. ❤
My heart feels for you (my husband passed 3 years ago). You will get more used to it, but I still turn around to say something to him. Give yourself time and take care of yourself first. Keep in touch with friends (it's too easy to isolate yourself). Take care.
@@margareth3479 You are so welcome. Anytime!
God bless you. My husband has a grave illness now and I've worried about being alone after he passes. I know the sadness will be all consuming in the beginning but hopefully you and I can be as happy as she is being single. She makes a lot of good points. Take care of yourself.
I have lived alone for 50 years, and I am happy 😅
super x
Good for you ❤
I have been widowed for 15 years and love living on my own. I do what I want, when I want and answer to no one x
🎉
I’m the same and I did have a relationship for 10 years and it was traumatic no wonder his wife had left him ! Now I look after me and I’m going to get a dog and I have lovely friends and at last I have peace in my life and I’m loving it 🥰 with social media how could anyone be lonely!!! I’m in my 60s and looking better than I ever did
I'm 62 and have been living alone for 16 years and I have never been happier. I stopped dating then as well.
I think I'm about to join this tribe of women. Dating is a hustle, men don't give as much as they promise 😂😂😂
@@tinachristine4573 Most men lie, I just became legally separated in April of this year and much happier in many ways.
Drama free!!!! 🙏🩷🙏
Then adopt someone so you be happy again or I help you find some one
I’m 67 and have been divorced for almost 30 years and loving it. When I was married I felt so alone, now I’m alone but don’t feel like I felt when I had someone. Also, even when I was married, I was the one making all the decisions,working, taking care of the kids, trying to fix things, etc… I know I’m very independent and self sufficient which helped me a lot living alone. I love my freedom and cannot see myself married again. Love my life! Ladies, you can do anything by yourself! Be blessed🙏🥰
thank u for your nice words. i felt also lonely in my relationship. now iam alone still feel lonely. it take time to feel not alone.i keep be busy
14 years divorced, 65 years old…never been happier! ❤
Was it expensive to go throughthe divorce. I saw a lawyer they said it would cost me $100,000
I'm happy that you're happier.
🙌🙏🏼🌻🌻🌻
I’m 72 today! June 22…I’ve been on my own since 2006 and I love my life!
I’m responsible for me and me alone. It’s wonderful!
Happy Birthday, my birthday is also June 22 I just turned 57 and separated April 1, smartest thing I've done in my whole life.
Yay!! Enjoy!
What happens when you're in the hospital for a heart attack or stroke?
@@Jammer411
She has family
Encouraging, thank you!
My favorite part is when nobody asks me "What do you want for dinner?" which actually meant "What are you cooking for me?" 😂
Love living alone, being alone, and my freedom. Cannot imagine dealing with another person. Come and go as I please and no one to report to.
Totally agree
Isn't it great?! :-)
@@sallyrobbins7770 it really is. Relaxing, no one getting on your nerves (apart from yourself!) doing your own thing, eating what you want, when you want, silence is therapeutic IMO
I love living alone. I do live in a high rise apr bldg, which is like a small community. If I want to be around others, I join some if the activities here. If not, I have my primary and no one bothers ne.
💯 true! I don’t think I’ll ever get married again. It is so nice and liberating!
I heard about a study that showed that married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. I am soooo happy, grateful and joyful that I live alone. There really isn't a day that goes by that I am so glad I'm not married. Yes, I had horrible relationships, but dating even after 50 I haven't had good experiences. I'm just so happy to have peace.
Me, too.
i divorced 2 yw=ears ago. no friends 2 kids one only at his room.other with his girlfriend. so a iam mostly alone. i have to get uses to it. i excersise, work, garden.kook clean.learning french. but still feel lonely. why i aks my self
I'm 60 years old and I don't even I don't look 60 and it's very hard to get a date at my age.
Hi. Can we have a group of single women. One can create and add
@@godwilling7250single polo ridge
I have been living alone since my divorce 22 years ago. I’m 62 now and honestly, cannot imagine living any other way! I love the freedom of being able to do everything from staying up late to sew with music on to having a martini with cheese and crackers for dinner if that’s what I feel like. The first weekend I was alone years ago, I called a girlfriend and told her I was giddy with content and it’s been that way ever since.
This is crazy...it reads like I wrote it! I've also been divorced 22 years and just turned 62. I love living alone doing whatever I want to do. I love my PT job in mental health, and I'm perfectly content.
@@tammymelvin6254 Kindred spirits! My marriage wasn’t horrible or abusive and we’re still friends…I just don’t think I’m cut out for marriage.
Yes living single feels healthy and peaceful…..Love the freedom👍🏻🌻
Yes living single feels healthy and peaceful…..Love the freedom👍🏻🌻
Me too!!!! God my dog and I ❤ 22 living my life
I have been alone for a long time and I live by the love in Psalm 91. ❤ You Kimberly
Psalm 91 is one of my favorite passage of scripture in the Bible! Thanks for sharing!
Just read Psalm 91 because of you! I really needed it....thank you! God Bless- Kim
Psalm 91 is better than the best security cameras or barking dog one could have!
@@user-ry1vi1jc7o
💯 agree... Great comfort through God's Word 🙏
Lv psalm 91❤
Living alone is great, but it's also crucial to have friends.
55 year old male,financially secure,live alone and dont date anymore.Modern dating is no longer worth my peace.
I second that. No more dating for me either. ❤😊
I decided that a few years ago and then I met a beautiful man! I spent with him best 6 years of my life. He passed away 2 years. So you never say never:) sending lots of love 💕
@@monika2470 Sorry for your loss....Stay strong and take care.
69 year old single male for 14 years. Enjoying my freedom and happiness. I am grateful for my health and contentment.
Same for me living alone I'm 48 years old. No dating ....peace of mind
Listened to an interview of a lovely 101 yr old lady. She was asked if she’d be young again what would she do differently her response was she wished she didn’t marry & enjoyed just being a woman. And she said that with a big smile.
That's awesome!
Thanks Kimberly for this video! My husband passed very unexpectedly 3 years ago now. Since then TH-cam has been my main man - I have fixed my Dyson animal vac, my washer, and just the other day my garbage disposal jammed - found the fix on TH-cam and saved myself serious $$$ on a house call. You inspired me when I found myself suddenly alone - I figured if you could get rid of everything, pack up the dog and cat, and move across the country on your own, I needed to get my act together (so I did).
Wow, you ladies are so inspiring!!!
Wow, that's amazing and inspiring. I applaud you.
Well done. Surprising what one can do when one has to
My family and friends contact me when requiring help with technical things, even changing internet providers!!
I moved home on my own, decorated, everywhere and organised things I'm not qualified to do like electrics etc. I was 72 at the time. The removal people came 4.30pm, drove my things to my new home and by the following morning I'd unpacked all my boxes and put things away, clothes in wardrobes and drawers too yet months after I moved people were asking if I was settled and no longer living out of boxes!!!
🙌💛🌻
I can go eat alone in restaurant , go to the movies alone, shop and enjoy my morning walks. You're the Boss of You!😊
I agree, I do that all the time
I love the idea of starting a group for people 45 plus who are single and want to still live a full and exciting life. So many groups have a focus on romantic connection but I love the idea of like-minded people who want to form a community to be a support and do fun stuff. You have inspired me to start something like that locally. The emphasis is on positive fun-loving people who want to enjoy life and have fun experiences with others to connect and form a community.
When I was in my 30s I belonged to a singles group where the emphasis was finding others to go do fun things, romantic involvements happened but were absolutely not the focus…. So fun…. And so needed. I think one of the more intimidating aspects of living alone is the idea of being lonely…. Starting and/or joining a group like this can make a big difference.
I think a smart developer would build things like bungalow courts, where the residents would then have a built-in community. Everyone would still have their privacy & independent living, but also have the benefit of neighbors with common values-intentional communities are key.
I am 55 and living alone but my pets keeps me company.
Im 43 now living alone this is my 4th months in my small garden. Km in process of getting a pet. I can never be happier really. No regrets
Find a man or adopt
I'm 55 and never married. I love living alone! Nothing like it! 😊💛
Super well done! blessed be x
.... what I need to do to keep myself optimally healthy and happy is ... to LIVE ALONE. Husbands are such a drag when you're past a certain age ... But let's be realistic: Living alone isn't for every woman, be it for financial reasons, emotional ones or a combination of both. The tips you offer are excellent for any woman who is financial stable, physically healthy and emotionally strong to have quality life living by herself.
My husband died 6 years ago after a 15 year cancer battle - even though it was difficult,, I would give anything to have him here as a "drag on my life" because I miss him so much.
I'm 64.5 healthy and taking care of myself. I workout, I watch my diet, I do things for myself, I travel twice a year in different States in America, I'm from the Philippines. I enjoy my beach life, God is good... I enjoy people in my community and church. Life is good. I'm not lonely but loving my time alone and the freedom. Blessings 🙏.
@@carmelaelliott227 hmm, that's what i'm thinking of doing when I can. where is this good beach life? East coast?
Having children is over rated as far as for me. I am divorced & I turned 76 last July. I have 2 boys. One lives far in a different state, I haven’t seen him for over 25 years & the other one lives in my town but not seen for over 2 years. They are very busy with living their own lives, no time for the only mother or being brothers with each other. They texted me now & again like Christmas or new year. No Mother’s Day’s greeting or birthday calls! No any help in any shape or form! I gave up being sad & I learned to live my life without them! Single & alone is alright as long as you are healthy & financially stable. I am not financially stable but I am in ‘ok health’ so far. Making lots of good friends is essential for morale & mental support & survival at this age. Learn to take good care of oneself and look for the positive things in life. Doing the best I can that’s all I can do….still loving life & keep on learning! Blessings to all❤!
Great tips but unfortunately not all of us can travel, live elsewhere, go to alot of places unless we have the means and the desire. Also, please never overestimate where you live and deem it safe..... No where is safe these days, even if you are in a "good, safe" area. Self awareness is key anywhere and everywhere. Living alone is not always terrific, it's lonely a lot of times and takes a while to get used to. I applaud you on your journey and joy of living alone, it's just not that easy..... For some maybe for not for all. Thanks for a great channel!
Especially for those with no family, yet I enjoy living alone 70% of the time
Thank you. I needed this. I am 56, was a single mom for 20 years, but my daughter is now moving away.
Thank you so much. You look amazing. Thank you for the inspiration.
I’d also add:
1. Leave a spare house key with a neighbour in case you have a fall and can’t get up - it will save the emergency services having to break down your door.
2. ALWAYS carry your mobile (cell) phone wherever you go on your property: if I were to pass out in my rear garden no-one would see me for all the greenery so don’t get caught out - always plan for emergencies.
3. If you live in a concrete jungle and hate it - move. I left it too late and am now stuck in a house I love in a location I loathe because the local authority (city hall) focusses on families, not older people. Don’t make the same mistake.
Very wise advice. Thank you very much.
I love the comment about the food you left in the refrigerator are still there when you go back. I laughed out loud.😂
Same. I laughed 😂 out loud too
The comment about food in the fridge is funny.
For me though, I was always the culprit, and it was others who suffered the loss of their food. Particularly vanilla ice cream.
I’m 63 and still want a soul mate…I still work and take care of myself…😢
Know we’re you are coming from. 63 also.
It easy when you have money.. but how about single women on a budget. Diana
Yes. A video about this very thing would be helpful.
If your married on a tight budget it’s worse
When one partner would like to spend money on takeaway and you would like to bring your own food
Single woman can make lentils dishes or pumpkin soup any thing really and freeze for lazy days
And even miss the food shop that week
And find a local vege shop
I was married for 28 years separated and divorced for 8 this year
It’s the best thing that’s happened to me
I raise 5 kids last two on my own when 12 and 13
Woman are right it’s not that lonely on your own as I was lonely be married
I’m about to move into a home again in 5 weeks
Been living on property since June granddaughter visit every day living in a shed
Son in law wants to total live in mess in the house and shed scratch around looking for he’s stuff
Yea living alone will be heaven
Dd moved out of home last year
I been living with my sister and her husband for 12 months
I cannot Waite
I’m 86 years old. I’ve lived alone for 25 years.My two sons live nearby and are very helpful. I love living alone. I love to cook, do limited gardening,crochet, bible study and my house work, I also enjoy church and interacting with my younger neighbors. I have a full life and rarely get bored.
Sometimes lonely and bored.
Anybody here living alone but doesnt have kids? It makes a difference, when you don't have kids/grandkids you truly feel alone.
I am in that situation too. I don't have kids so the isolation is worse. I don't have any visitors. I do work and that's my social interaction but it's true no one talks about the childless woman living alone. I wish someone would.
I don't have kids either, but I do have sisters and nieces and nephews. I'm looking forward to living alone. I am 55, getting healthier as time goes by.
@@Angela-tt5ik that's why pets are so popular! Some do foster grandparents program and volunteer, clubs....develop hobbies and interests...explore your options and have fun!
I also do not have kids…it is tough sometimes when I see former classmates and friends happily involved with their families. I do have a dog and will always have one, I need that companionship.
And Even When You DO Have Kids.. Trust That ... 😮😊😊
I don't mind being alone, but at the same time, I can't imagine life without my husband.
Even in rough times
( I’ve had them 😮)
Remember… U can do ALL THINGS WITH JESUS!
Amen❤👏 👏
Is that like google?
Amen!
Amen and God Bless you always.
Amen. May you all be blessed🙏🏼❤️
Great info ❤I’m 67 and live alone for the last 3 years and I adopted a 5 y/o Labrador and feel so much more comfortable and safe. I love living alone and eating by myself… freedom indeed 😊
Loved all my companion babies, like you I also like eating alone blessed be x
Growing up and watching my mom depend on my dad - I vowed never to be dependent on a man. I’ve been married 32 years and I’m not dependent on my husband. He traveled a lot so I made sure that I can do things around the house and mechanical. If something happens to him or a divorce - whatever may happen, I’m confident I will make it 😊
I’ve been living alone since 1986. Can’t believe it’s been that long! I’m a happy lady. ❤
Hi, I'm 78, orphaned and never married, successful retired prof.its not always been easy, but remember there are many senior women who were married, now slone...girls we can do it we are stronger than we think... try to enjoy the years ahead...not moaning and sad..theres life in us yet!❤Remember just because we're alone, doesn't mean we're lonely. Travel, take up a sport fo what you want etc be happy 😊
Good of you
You look beautiful! Healthy and glowing.
Living alone is a choice. Some people don't know that.❤😂😊
exactly well said
😂life is a choice. No one size fits all.
Im 52, been divorced 11 years, left a toxic relationship of 5 years 2 months ago, he was much older than me, i ended up looking after him, no support from his awful family, i became unwell, so forced to look after me finally. Just living with my 17 year old daughter, has her own life, 2 cats and a dog. I will NEVER live with anyone (male)again!! Now its time for me! Men, who needs them! Theyre more trouble than theyre worth lol 😂
So glad i found your channel, thank you 🙏🥰💞🌈
Yes! They are WAY more trouble than their worth! Pets are the best. Enjoy your freedom!
Men need us more than we'll ever need them. Just my humble opinion. Dating today really bites. No one wants a real relationship anymore. So I am not wasting anymore of my precious time getting my heart broken. I enjoy my own company. And my 2 cats are my babies. So bossy but I love them so much! 🐈 🐈 😻 ❤😊🙏
@@lc7169 thank you and you to my Friend 💖🌷
Great advise! Kimberly I was married for almost 35 years and have been living alone for quite sometime and love it as well. I live in Tx in a safe cul-de-sac. All of my neighbors are super friendly and so helpful. I’m an extroverted introvert so I love visiting but relish my alone time! I’m 70 and blessed to be in good health. I live with two very appreciative pets!
Can you talk about living alone and being broke?
Companion pets are such a joy blessed be x
Can't afford pets they come with medical bills and food it's like having a child. You must be able to afford to care for them properly. It's not in the budget but I do love them.
I learned that there's a term for an extroverted introvert... It's called an ambivert! That's me and it sounds like you too!
@@babydollkincaid4584 look on TH-cam for videos on living on a tight budget... There are many tips and hacks out there. 🙏🏻✝️
I've lived alone (divorced) for over 25 years and I have enjoyed the freedom. That said, I do envy people in a stable, long term relationship. It just wasn't in the cards for me but I wish it had been different. I don't waste time wallowing in misery but I do wish things had been different for me. I have friends and relatives who have had very long marriages or relationships and I'm happy for them but occasionally feel sad that I never managed that.
i can best relate to YOUR comment. Divorced for 18 years, in my mid 60's. Miss male company and am disappointed I haven't connected with any available and suitable men beyond a few pretty awful 'dates'. No interest in independent, self sufficient, capable women, apparently. It is not as if I flaunt myself around how I can do everything, etc. I do so cause I have no choice. I would dearly love a partner, preferably a husband! It isn't all that great to make decisions on my own and carry the whole load alone, 24/7. I fixed my washing machine and dishwasher and am proud of that. I take care of my finances, car, cleaning, shopping, travel, do hobbies, go to activities, keep fit, eat well, read, help with grandkids,etc, but sure would be nice to have some relief and TLC, from outside now and again. The solitude is just too much after awhile.Women friends are fine, but can never be a replacement for the real deal. Many married friends got it right first time, 40 odd years ago.Can't help but wonder why I did not and how things got messed up... sigh...
TLC means what?
Tender Loving Care TLC @@aparnabhatia5072
My ex did me a huge favor by making me a married single woman. I’m pretty independent but he taught me that I could definitely handle being alone. Im in my 60s & this peace❤is priceless. One thing I’m going to add is a smart lock keyless/fingerprint entry to my doors.
My husband died over a year ago and I hate living alone. I absolutely can't stand it. I miss having him say I love you, to give me a compliment I know he meant, the companionship, to have someone to talk to, to sound off ideas to, to share things with, to work side by side, etc, etc. You ladies that are happy being alone, that's great and I know everyone's situation is different. As for me, I'd rather have him with me to do the things that are talked about here. No fear here just lots of loneliness.
I understand what you're saying. My husband of 41 years passed away almost 4 years ago, and it has been a difficult transition. Right now I feel like I'm somewhere in between your loneliness and Kimberly's lifestyle. Like Kimberly I find myself enjoying some of the freedoms of living alone. I can keep things clean and organized, eat what I want when I want, etc., but I miss the companionship of having my husband by my side, to talk to, and snuggle with. My youngest daughter got me a rescue dog almost 3 years ago and that has made a difference in my life. I still enjoy those freedoms, but now I have some companionship and unconditional love. Obviously, it's not the same as human companionship and I still miss my husband and always will, but it has helped me. I no longer feel like I'm talking to myself because my little fur baby is there listening, though most likely not understanding. But she's excellent company, and I don't know what I'd do without her. You're still fairly new in your widowhood, so give yourself time to continue grieving and adapting. Things will get easier and you will find what works for you to bring joy into your life again and feel less lonely. I'll be praying for you in your new journey. 🙏💕
There's no short cut through grief. Each person must goes through the process in their own way. 18 years ago I was unexpectedly widowed. It was devastating! 6 months after I decided I had to make an effort to move on and I enrolled in every class that sounded interesting at my community center. I fell in love with line dance, no partner required. Then surprisingly, my previous place of employment asked if I would like to return. Best thing ever! I retired 3 yrs ago at 83. There's still a hole in my heart and a song, thought, or comment will bring tears but with some effort on my part, life slowly became full and satisfying in a different way. I wish this for you. 🤗 ❤
My brother died 21 years ago and my sister in law never grieved her loss, kept smiling etc but I believe most need time to grieve in their own way.
There again I also believe it's best not to dwell on grief for too long because I'm sorry to say we humans get fed up of people who are always miserable. Life is precious and we only have one go at it, so we have to enjoy what we've got while we have it. Grief is part of life, but time is a great healer
@@jovickers5313 I get what you're saying, and with all due respect, I don't care if someone gets fed up with me. I don't need them. THEY can move on OUT of my life. I'll take as long as I feel to grieve.
@@debw7120 Thank you so much for the kind words and prayers. I'm glad you have your little fur baby to be there for you. God bless you.🙏
I’m 77 and am comfortable and happy living alone. My beloved dog keeps me from ever feeling alone. She adds joy, laughter, and love to my life. I enjoy my freedom and seriously doubt I could be married again.
Enjoyed stumbling upon your video.
That’s all well and good if you live in a friendly and warm area as you do - try being single and older in dull, grey, rainy and unfriendly UK where no-one speaks to you, smiles or even has eye contact: and if you’re an ‘elder orphan’ people think there’s something wrong with you! I had a bad fall in April and was stuck in bed for 7 weeks - not one of my neighbours came to check if I was OK - and one of them’s a preacher! You are SO lucky.
Hey Susanne, sorry you are having a bad time. Why not do what you just did? Write to people! No one gets letters or cards nowadays. You could bring such a light to others!
Sorry to hear. :(
I live alone in grey England and I couldn't have it any other way. The Brits are not into each other's business at all. I had to adjust to that.
I completely agree to that statement. I live in the UK and feel completely isolated even though I am a friendly person and easy to make friends. People are just so unfriendly here, I have never seen anything like this!
You're not alone with that problem, I'm friendly and nice to everyone of my neighbors but have been without a car for a couple of years and now none of them try to speak to me, have never offered a ride to the store, watch me struggling riding transit busses in a small town, not even a big city where many people ride them, I don't get it either. I would have never sat back and done nothing for someone that so obviously needs a hand. Even now I would probably come to one of these neighbors aid if it was needed but that's just me, I know that sounds dumb probably.
I am 53 and newly single. I appreciate this video because everything you covered has been on my mind lately.
Im 67, have been living alone since 2001...loving it! "Truer words have never been spken". The freedom is phenomenal.
I've lived alone for 35+ yrs now! I do it all myself at 64. People just don't get it at all. Its just better. I'm with you all the way girl!!🥰💜💜💜
I have done many things by myself, and I'm comfortable eating out alone, but I have to admit that when I do go to touristy places by myself, I do feel a little embarrassed not to be with somebody else. But this video and the comments here give me some encouragement to not be embarrassed and just enjoy it all the more.
I am 53 and lived by myself for the past 4 years. For the first time in my life. I do not like it. Humans are social creatures and not meant to be in isolation.
I've been married 46 years and through all the ups and downs we've always been there for each other. Some enjoy the solitude of living alone and there's nothing wrong with that...but for me having my life partner by my side has only enriched my life even more. I feel very blessed. And when that one day comes when one of us is ready to pass on, the other will be there to hold their hand, give them comfort and tell them how special they made their life...and be by their side until they take their last breath. 💞
You are a blessed lady!!
That's beautiful.
I would feel different I'm sure if I had had a great partner, I had the worst marriage, not supportive, not loving, hated to go home each day!
@@barbsinclair7352Best to remain single , girlfriend. Have your own enriched and fullfilling life! Very, very , very few marriages are truly wholesome and truly supportive and truly loving.
@@barbsinclair7352Best to remain single then , girlfriend. Have your own fullfilled and rewarding life. Very, very, very few marriages are truly supportive, truly honest and truly loving.We are fortunate to live in a society where we can make our own choice.🤍
❤ Your Personal Ideology. Recent Widow. Lost the Sweetest, Kind Husband last year. I have a couple of nice friends. 1 works , 1 complains too much. I think she's a Worry Wort? I learned to get out and go out on my own. I attend all kinds of events, local arts and craft faires. I took it very hard, for the first year grieving. I am over the grief, I miss my husband. However, he would want me to be happy and not sad. Yes, I agree "I am my own Boss" & happily moving right along at 73.
I miss being married.
I'm also comfortable being SINGLE these 20+ yrs. I don't look at my life as being alone. I'm choosing to be single until this story changes. This is another season of personal growth and my trust in my Heavenly Father.
The Lord is my comforter and my rock! I don't know where I would be without Him.
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@@DraGnFly007 🌹 so beautifully said!
All I can focus on is #1which I have to do, so thanks on that. My husband has dementia & the darker side of his personality has taken over. So every day I have to walk on egg shells. So the idea of living alone sounds like heaven to me.
Wishing you health and happiness.
So very sorry you have to go through that. Care taking is the hardest job in the world.
I’m glad you are taking care of yourself, and hope you have a good support system in place. I watched my father go through this behavior with Alzheimer’s and encouraged my mother to get respite workers in to relieve her periodically. She didn’t go this route. None of us lived in the same state where they did. They wanted to stay put. We helped as we could around our jobs. I also encouraged her to attend Alzheimer’s Association meetings. She tried one meeting but felt the folks weren’t kind. I asked her to try another group but she didn’t care to try again. I wished I’d tried those same meetings where I’d lived. It broke my heart to see my father that way and my mother dealing with him the best that she could, at her expense.
Take care blessed be x
Don't fear arranging for respite care so that you take a break from time to time.
Im 47, almost, been divorced for 3 years, and livong by myself. I love it too. Its scary at 1st, but ehen you get thr courage to go out and go places by yourself, its so liberating!
My husband died 11 years ago and I too am 67. I live in north central Fl and yes I'm enjoying life. I need to change my diet, but I'm working on that. Thank you for the wonderful video
I highly recommend the Carnivore diet. Check it out. I'm 52 and loving it!
"The conversation is wonderful because it's all in your head." I love it!
Me too. Love that. Also you can leave when you want
I am on the horizon of turning 66, and have been living alone since 2011. Not only do I love it, but I do not even want visitors, nor a mate. I have a tool kit, and use Google and TH-cam to guide me through any task. If it is daunting, I simply contact Task Rabbit. I have moved from Philadelphia, to Phoenix to Scottsdale to SoCal and recently here to Vegas solo. I always make sure to move to a safe neighborhood and have never once had a security issue. My fav thing about being single is I can do absolutely anything I want at any time. This life is just so good. ❤
I found this video very encouraging. I’m 63 and with my husband since I was 19. So I’ve never lived alone. My husband is older than me and has brought up several times in the last few years the subject of what would I do if he wasn’t around. It breaks my heart to think about that, but we’re not likely to die hand in hand.
Hearing your words was somehow comforting.
Hello beautiful lady. Im a widow since 34 and my kids are grown with children ❤. Don't know why but listening to you today. You're words ment so much . I was feeling a bit lost even though im a positive person. The fact that i love living on my own sometimes like all .i get lonely at times. ❤Thank you for reminding me that the world is my oyster. Im blessed i just needed to hear you to remind me of that .love and blessings. 🎉❤❤
I love being alone. I have neglected my health a little while caring for my elderly parents. My health is my number one concern. Thanks for reminding me to care for myself!
I'm 63 and living with my furries since 2016. As the years go by, its has its ups and downs, but i have learned to appreciate the peace.
Same age and feel the same.
me too 2 years alone with ups and downs
Amen! I’ve been single for 9 years and loving my life, especially after moving to my 55plus community in central FL. I like to stay home sometimes and watch what I want to watch on TV, eat what I want to eat and decorate my house exactly how I want it. My ex husband wouldn’t even let me hang a picture myself. I can go out and have fun with my friends or go on vacation wherever I want. I’d love to be in a loving relationship but I am also happy to have my independence and peace.
Lost my wife over 9 years ago. Hated single life before I met her at 35 years old. Married over 20 years. Hate single life even more now. Having this so called freedom you all talk about doesn't make up for the loneliness of not having a partner to thru life with. Would much rather have someone to love in my life than face things without someone there. You can have the things I've read here and someone in your life. Good luck to you all.
Yes i am interested in managing all the working parts to learn and apply to implications of the process PSALM 91 STRENGTHEN YOUR HEART IN FAITHFULNESS
Your hair and complexion look great!!! I so enjoy living with myself after years of hardship( long journey) I finally made it into housing if I need something fixed I call maintenance. I dated for a time all disasters. I am so joyful in my sanctuary home that I found by myself. I became so empowered figuring it out by myself. The freedom is exhilarating and I wake every morning so grateful. I never feel lonely or alone but happy. ❤️
We are WITH ourselves! Atta girl
Atta girl means what?
#selflove… meditation… exercise. Eat healthy, pickup a hobby, enjoying nature.😊👌🏾💕
I L O V E THIS. But... what if you are mid 50's with no financial security. Millions of 50+ Women will probably have to work for the next 20 years to get by. I'm guessing you are retired and financially secure.
My son moved out on his own 9 months ago and I hated living alone at first... but now I LOVE it!!! I see him when I want then go home to my quiet, clean, peaceful, cozy home. ❤
Thank you Kimberly, My beautiful husband has Alzheimer’s ( he age 69, me 58) and he has had significant changes however is We are fortunate enough to spend every moment together and we do have fun. Its a modified version of pre-alzhimers but we enjoy even though the conversations have nearly disappeared. And yes, a lot of work that I am humbled and honored to do.
But you made me chuckle when you said being alone allows you to wear what you want - I laugh because even with my husband’s inability to articulate or converse anymore -he mainly just whistles or smile’s. But recen when I put on an a very expensive brand new gown to attend an out of town wedding -he sure found a way to express his dislike for the gown and shattered my thoughts of how lovely I must look 😆
Luckly I brought with me a backup gown that I could tell he thought was ok. So I wound up leaving the Sachini and Bachi gown along with hotel room tip behind on a hanger.
Naturally I am giving my all to keeping my husband around but for a moment when you said that you can wear what you want-I chuckled and thought “ok good at least there is that’. I love both your channels and I benefit so much by listening while my hubby sleeps-your impact is so positive. Thank you
I am new to your channel and love it … you are so fabulously uplifting and happy … that’s what I need …. I live alone for about 20 years , and very often feel lonely , and not doing much , because of the heat and the traffic , you name it and it’s my excuse… looking forward to see more of your views on living alone
I don't have a car, and cannot afford even a used one. I have to walk to a bus stop to wait for a bus, and then have to tranfer to another bus. I don't own a Smartphone because I can't afford one. I rent a tiny room in an elderly person's house. I am on a super fixed income and even getting to a senior citizen center is two buses each way. Especially hard in hot weather, too hard to be waiting at bus stops to go to a senior center in 90 + degree weather. I have alway lived alone but when I was younger and worked, I rented a one bedroom apt. Now I cannot even afford a studio apt as rents are so high nowadays, on a very fixed income. There is a large senior citizen apt. not too far from me but you have to have 3 x monthly income over the renr to qualify to live there. I think the one bedrooms rent for $1, 750 a month, so you have to have 3 x that. They don't have studio apts. there. So it is very hard to be alone sometimes. My family was never self sufficient type people and we never even camped our or knew how to do things, We always lived in apts anyway, never had a house.
Have you tried the housing authority in your location for senior, government subsidized apartments? It's based on your income, and can also include an electricity allowance.
I hope you can help another person, somehow. Another Senior Citizen who is in need of help, maybe even for a small fee? Helping others is the best way I have found to have a worthwhile existence. Whether tutoring a student, helping a much older person, volunteering at church, etc. You live in a very expensive rent area...Any chance of moving to a smaller city where rents might be lower. However, you might have friends or grandchildren in the area where you live, and being near them might be important, also.
I love living alone! I've lived with a few different men in my 57 years of being alive, but I've always preferred living alone. I eat what I want, dress how I want, I don't hear any whiny complaints about me. And it IS up to me, and I LOVE that. I can't stand being told what to do and how to do it.
And she is correct, everything is do-able. And we do learn to ask for help. I'm actually more social living alone than I was when I lived with someone
I've been divorced for 15 years. And I hate living alone. Thank goodness my daughter still lives with me but not for very much longer as she's 24. I don't have very many friends. I don't go anywhere besides work and grocery shopping. I definitely don't ever go out to eat by myself because I feel too self-conscious. I wish I was more comfortable with this but I'm not. I am dreading the day that my daughter moves out.
I am happy with looking after myself alone , all you said I have no problem, but it’s the emotional side - i miss having someone. Second I love the concept of “sharing” my life with someone where you chat about our shared experiences, the essence of sharing with a partner is wonderful. Thirdly, couples don’t invite single women to things - many many women feel threatened- it’s easier to not invite singles . So it’s the emotional side I must conquer. Thank you
I have almost 10 years of being on my own.My husband died suddenly when I was 57.It certainly has been a challenge for sure but I have adapted. Looking after myself is imperative so that I don’t become a burden to my children.I like planning travel and home projects.Love making those executive decisions. lol. But for the life of me I can’t go to a restaurant by myself. Maybe someday. 👍
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I can't go to a restaurant by myself either but I can go to a diner. Maybe because it's less intimate, more casual and noisy???? You might be able to do that. See how you feel. Take care.
@@susanmurrell635 Thanks for the tip.Maybe,maybe.Have a super Sunday.
Going to a nice restaurant at lunchtime feels different than in the evening. I do go out by myself at night, especially when on holiday. But some people will ask you if you are on your own. Some people even act as though they feel sorry for you. But there is admiration too, especially from the women who would clearly rather be alone than with boorish companions. Sometimes men will try to join you thinking you are looking for company, so it is best to have your no face ready. Still, a smart outfit and a solo lunch has a different vibe. Even when I was in my twenties and married I often had theatre days or park days alone with a nice lunch. My then husband had no interest in my hobbies, and I was happy to go alone rather than argue about it. I do not get the same problems with a restaurant lunch as I do with dinner, and the journey home is safer and easier.
I love being alone. Rather than have a partner which give you headaches, stress,etc.
It's freedom❤
54 living alone the best peace and joy I ever experienced, children seasoned adults, Momma Mia is living her best peaceful life that God truly Blessed upon me. Everyone please live your best life yet.
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Thank you for this video this morning. I needed your positive attitude and great suggestions. My husband passed away almost 6 years ago.
Remember locks on windows too! Especially if they are on ground level… Stay Safe!
I am almost 60. My husband passed away suddenly 4 years ago. I recently started offering my spare furnished bedroom to traveling nurses. They need 3 months at a time. They work long hours.
I work full-time. By having short contracts, I can keep my house available for when my kids come visit. And I can be alone in between contracts until I'm ready to rent it again.
Brilliant!!
Thank you I needed this today I’m single 67 and I will be doing more things
This is all well and good if you are financially set up as an older single woman but there are just as many who aren’t doing so well on that front and life is a struggle so what do you say to them? Go buy an Estée Lauder face cream to cheer themselves up?? Honestly …. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Going to the grocery store and choosing everything you want is so fun after taking care of others for so long!
All the health steps one can take is no guarantee that bad things won’t happen. Best to have a plan for that.
56....very new widow. 😢. Thanks for giving me hope
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You look fantastic. I think your single Florida lifestyle agrees with you. I’ve watched your channel for several years and you look the best ever. Thank you for your weekly inspiration.