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- In a world of serving “Couple Goals” we answer the question “Have we ever felt like giving up on our Marriage”?.
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Am I married? No. Am I 100% single? Of course. Am I watching this and taking notes? Definitely.
Love this comment!😀😀. Thank you so much for journeying with us!🤗♥️
Am I exactly the same? Yes
It's Pheto's support for me mehn when her Husband is speaking she's looking at him the entire time and consistently agreeing "hmm, ya, yes babe" nothing better 😍😍😍 gotta love the Makhs ❤️
After watching this I was like yeah neh by the time I get married I will have so much wisdom and insight. I applaud you guys for being transparent, its not easy but thanks a lot! Much Love for you guys! (Mark me present lol).
Hi Sam! Thank you so much for tuning in for each and every instalment! We appreciate you so much♥️
Totally agree with u Sam.
you but what about the other person?
The authenticity of your channel and content is unmatched. Your teaching (might not seem to you) is so beautiful and empowering.
Thank you so much Sam. Your kind words of affirmation are so appreciated🤗♥️
"It was a summer of 2008, she abuti ke kopa re thome ka date,....." you guys don't how crazy I am about this song 💃💃💃😍😘
I repeat the intro atleast 3 times before watching the video😂😂
Eeeyyy I hope couples are watching, we can't gain this knowledge alone as singles 🙌🙌🤗🔥🔥
Exactly Sinazo🙌🔥🔥
@@bonolomasuku5896 There is a lot to learn here 🙌
🤗🤗we are also learning so much for these conversations🤗♥️
Kkkkkkkk yes @ Sinazo, like abo "post graduate" turn to ignore thinking they know it all.
"Don't Diminish An Entire Relationship To One Argument."🔥🔥 Always Grateful For Your Wisdom Fam. Your Convos Always Help Me Check Myself. I'm Definitely Going To Be A Better Partner Thanks To You Guys.
I feel like I'm in a marriage seminar. 👌🏾
Really!?? This is such a great compliment. Thank you so much❤️❤️
Man it's 3:55am in Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲 and I'm up watching you guys, and I'm not even dating more so married 😅 But mannn, you guys are such a blessing to listen to and learn from. God bless you!
Thank you so much! Jamaica stand up! We would love to visit your beautiful Country one day. ❤️❤️
@@TheMakhs Please do! You will not regret it!
Never use words like " you NEVER or you ALWAYS because it erases all the good" inamandla leyo 💪💯
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I've never met a married couple who has never wanted to walk away. It's not a bed of roses, but its a calling. I've realised that we expect so much perfection from s/o because maybe we want to be perfect ourselves or we believe in our heads that we are perfect. Love you guys❤❤❤
Shuuu well spoken
Marriage is definitely a calling and a ministry♥️♥️. We love you!🤗
One thing about me, I'll always watch until the end 😄💃🏾 There is so much wisdom to absorb from Mr and Mrs Makhetha✨🙌🏾 May God continue to nourish and sustain you ❤️
We love and appreciate that so much! Thank you Lerato♥️♥️
My brother and sister/uncle and aunt 😂looking radiant as ever😍 Nice to see you back on the couch of truth.
Thank you lil sis/niece🤗♥️. Love that! The couch of truth!
You guys have changed my entire perspective on life and relationships. So much authenticity and wisdom shared on this channel. Thank you for contributing to my growth.
I'm so guilty of making assumptions and taking things so personal too and it's not a good place to be at 😩! I love how your installments kinda forces us to do some self introspection and learn along the way, beautiful man! ❤️
Thank you so much for journeying with us. The reality is that we are all trying to figure it out. When we know better we do better🤗❤️
You're such a warm couple though🙏🏽 You both carry God's presence and glory❤️
A topic I would like your perspective on One day is '' The COMPARISON of various RELATIONSHIPS " Many partners have insecurities of outside relationships and also family, friend's relations on how those other relationships add more value to the partner's life, more than they do. Every Relationship plays a different role in one's life. Maybe what could be the cause or reasons behind the insecurities and why the need to even compare the relationships in the first place.
I support this
What a way to start the day, “motho wa Modimo’😂😂😂😂😂 . Guys it’s good tho know that the thought is real and happens to the best of us. Thanks for the bareness 🙏🏽
🤣🤣🤣! Thank you for making it easy for us to be bare♥️
First thing I did when woke up today is to check if The Makhs uploaded ..my excitement burnt about a 1000 calories🤣
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I think it's a blessing to have pre-marital counseling because it is very rare to find. And again it's rare because it is difficult to find a church to go to or even genuine church leaders. It is almost as if one has to figure this journey out alone with God; because even our parents are not married and when you look around your surrounding its either people are not married or the marriage is just not happening. But you guys' journey is so inspiring and beautiful.
Okay mina mangishada you guys are going to be invited to my wedding. You will do the cutting of the cake segment or wait the welcome to mama and baba land thing🤔🤔o konke nje infact get your licenses guys so nizongishadisa once😂😂❤️
We are so there!!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love the transparency you are so real and when Mr Makhs says "remember when we spoke about.." you guys are teaching us who are still going through the dating phase on how to deal with real life relationship issues... All I am trying to say is that we or I personally appreciate the genuineness coming from you guyss yho#motivated
The type of questions we as youngsters get to ask ourselves but can never get from our elders... This is AMAZING!! ❤️❤️
What kinds and inspiring words! Thank you Mangy. ♥️🙏🏾
Recently discovered your channel and picking up so many lessons for my own marriage. God bless you guys.
This is beautiful. You are so real. Mrs Makheta...what you mentioned, most women are like that. One issue concludes the entire marriage🤣. The points y'all mentioned from the counselling sessions 👌👌
Thank you so much for riding with us🤗♥️. 😱😱 listen, one issue nje and it’s over🤣🤣. We learn as we grow though🤗
Wow guys, that was so informative especially to the young couples, I wish you all the best as you pursue your journey in marriage. After 50 years in marriage I can honestly say it was by the grace of God and plan that we survived through the storms. These conversations are an eye opener even to remind you about the counseling you had before marriage, there was no such in our time. Keep it up 💪🏽❤️
This message is so heartwarming . Thank you so much♥️🤗. We look forward to one day celebrating our 50 years in marriage and are truly blessed to have people like you, sending us messages of encouragement and love. We are so humbled and eternally grateful♥️♥️🤗
A gentleman you are Mr Makhetha. Address Sesi Phetola as, "My wife" 👏
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Definitely would listen to y'all speak all day 🥺♥️
Aaahhh🥰🥰. This is such a great compliment. Thank you so much❤️❤️
Right?! 🥺
You guys are addressing the core issues in marriage that makes or break it. Keep at it and I always look forward to your next video. ❤❤❤
I haven't been here in a minute and I actually feel bad. Thank you fam for sharing yourselves with us, I don't think you guys understand the positive impact you have in my life as an individual, and my marriage thank you ❤️
Hi fam. Thank you for such a beautiful installment. At some point we paused and discussed some of the things that you were saying. The points mentioned actually can be applied to relationships in general.
Aaaahh🥺🥺🥰🥰. Music to our ears. It is our desire that we can create a safe space for people to have open conversations. Day made🙏🏾🙏🏾
You will never understand just how much I always play back your videos to ensure I don't miss a single thing. And this instalment was very emotional for me because as I'm listening to each point mentioned, events keep replaying in my mind and I get to realize that there are many times I was wrong when I thought I was right, that there's a lot that can be avoided, and that we rush to giving up when there's no reason to. Never ever underestimate the impact your channel has, it is enriching in so many levels, and I'm always looking forward to tune in and learn. Your practical examples are highly appreciated as well. Once again, thank you The Makhs.
This was amazing. I love how transparent and honest you are. The Makhs are definitely the best thing that has ever happened to TH-cam. ❤️
I am a lot like Mrs Makh -- very emotional and sometimes irrational 😂. This channel couldn't have come at a better time. I can never thank you guys enough for your transparency. Your conversations have undoubtedly contributed to the wife I am now ❤❤ .
Wow.... It is a fact that we never stop learning, l without mincing my words have gained alot from your instalments. You guys are so practical and l love that about you. Having been married for 25yrs l still find time to sit and listen to you, l pray that God may help you influence most of young couples to love, cherish and be transparent to one another above all to invite Christ in their personal lives then to their homes. Thumbs up to you. I am part of the Dream team family. Please don't forget to feature the senior Makhs once ngaleso skhathi to cater for the old blood in this family. I thank God for you.
GEMS! Waitse the way you two love us! 🥺 The authenticity in the content you share, PRICELESS! Thank you so much family!
You just speak so much life in your videos. Your videos just make sense and there’s so much truth and wisdom in them 👏🏾 I’m so grateful that I subscribed ❤️
Counting down days to our big day🎉;we have learned so much from you guys. God bless you guys. This was amazing as always
Let's extend the Makhs family to 20k this 2nd quarter of the year🙏🙏❤❤❤
That would be so cool!! Let’s!!!🙏🏾🎉💃🏿💃🏿
Not me watching this again & again & again #muchlovefordreamteam!
Me too🥰
@@motheowalerato701 you feel me😘
God sent me here today 😭😭😭 I needed this.
I loved this! So informative! Great key pointers! Forgiveness is everything ❤️❤️
Phetola is soooo loving my goodness,It’s such a cute thing to see enjoyed this one as well fam It was candid and relatable ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this heartwarming message! Means a lot to me(Phetola🥰😀). It really is my desire to one day be remembered as someone who just loved people, and loved them hard♥️!😩🥺🤗
I am about to take that big step and I am finding your instalments very informative.Thank you so much.
My partner and I bumped into your channel yesterday. ❤️You guys are so genuine. We can also definitely relate
I'm such a 'never and always person' aaah man. Thank u
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As soon as I came across you (AMAAAAAAAAZIIIIIIINNNNNNG couple) I am hooked and wow, everything you share is so so invaluable. I now sit with a notebook to take notes, because when the Mr shows up, home girl will be ready😎☺️😁🙃🤗💃🏾.
Loads of love, best of wishes and abundant blessings upon abundant blessings from 🇩🇪 . You two are the realest👌🏾.
P.s Now I am shamelessly going to copy paste this until I get a shout out😂😂
So much maturity,so much wisdom....❤️your the best
Thank you so much. You’re so kind♥️
Forgiveness 🥺💯 loved how y'all articulated that
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Hey Dream Team🥰💃This installment was fire🔥👌Profound also, Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with us.
I appreciate you 💫
Thank you for journeying with us!🙌🏾♥️ . We love and appreciate you so much.
What I find unique with you guys is your level of vulnerability and openness.. I am looking forward to attain this in my marriage, it's doable
I really enjoy these kind of installments. I love real, deep conversations.
Thank you guys❤❤
Ausi Pheto, you're so pretty🥺❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so kind for riding with us!🤗.
Thank you for your beautiful compliment♥️
Watching from Kenya🇰🇪
Sending you lots of love♥️
Every time I watch your videos, I leave with a new prospective and view when it comes to marriage/relationships.
You guys are so real and authentic, love to see it
Thank you guys. I think almost all married couples once in their lives crossest that bridge. Been married for 9 years and in my 1/2years heyi the hurdles but today 9 years and happy and don’t even think of living. But guys it was my husband on my side with those threats and I used to look at him and got tired one day and told him to stop it and he never. Because it was as if he’s not invested in our marriage I’m here alone! 🙏🙏💗💗💗
Congratulations on 9 years of marriage❤️❤️We thank God for your journey and the growth along the way. We are all trying to figure it out and are grateful for these open conversations🤗🙏🏾
Ya'll are heavenly sent, God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for this kind message🤗♥️
"Abuti kgopela re thome ka date!" Aaaaah! 💃💃💃💃 that part sets me off every time
Hey guys I learnt so much . I honestly support marriages especially Christian married couples that are transparent and real about what marriage actually is . Due to the fact of how marriage is idolized in the Christian community . Keep it real all the time ❣❣❤
When fighting, it is healthy to put it at the back of your mind that you both are on the same team. This will help avoid pointing fingers at each other and rather ask the questions how does this person feel in this situation and how can we move forward from here, what do we need to do in order to strengthen our team.
Phetola's laugh😅😅😅 a re Motho o wa sokosisa.. etswa ka ditaba🤞
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Waitsi keng!! I guess we all have our sokodising sides🤣🤣
Such an awesome inspiring episode love and light Fam♥️♥️
I was in the same ordeal of threatening to leave my partner in the past few months and I did that more than twice. Just last week, we had a very heated argument that eventually led to the calamity of the relationship. I learned a lot from this installment
Couch sessions are the best 🙌❤️, my absolute fave mainly cause its what puts you guys above the rest on my List of You-tubers❤️
1 things about you guys... I agree with yol 100%. Yol are absolutely a confirmation of what God has been laying on my spirit lately💕💯
I love the conversations y'all have♥️they are so deep I learn so much from them
The opening track to your channel is fire guys
This is so Beautiful❤ Thank you so much guys for remindering me, how much l love my partner and how much l can't imagine my life without him in it 😊🙏
We definitely have a good deal in our partners. Sometimes life happens, and we could forget that briefly. The trick is to always remind ourselves♥️
Luv u guys spread the word always may God continue to use you as a vessel of hope❤
Beautifully authentic . It is almost like when i am telling God everything of my weakness because He knows it in any case. We want to be like you and be intentional in doing the SWOT ANALYSIS OF OUR MARRIAGE LIFE. Ruri you are doing well and very insightful. TSHEGOFALANG gape ( Be blessed again))
Thank you so much Peter! We appreciate your words of encouragement♥️🤗
Definitely saving this video for my husband 🥺I'm meeting him next year...
I don't know why but I just found myself emotional now the topic hits home.
Thank you so much for this installation. Being following you for some time now and there is no dull moment with you guys. I love you. I like to point out at the when you speak the local dialect I get lost 😔 especially when you are making a very point. Kindly do something about it. I see subtitle but it for come always
My first time watching your videos. Wow 👌👌I subscribed before finishing this video
Had given up on love but when I watched this my hope has been revived
I’ve learnt a lot 🙏🏽❤️😘 ..the chemistry between both of you 👌🏿👌🏿❤️
This was very insightful faves..thank you for being honest with us. Love love you guys so much❤️🤗
Pheto, you are such a good listener. Well both o f you are not speaking past each other.
Notification Gang Gang shout out from 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦 let me dig in❤️Interesting topic
Gang gang!!!!!🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
When she said “I’m a woman” I was like YES.. that’s what I was thinking 😂 like for me everything is bigger than what it actually is. I always think, ya...this is it. It’s over.
Hence I try not to make decisions when I’m angry coz I would have been divorced by now if I did 😂.
It’s 7 years later so I think I’m doing okay.
Just want to let you know guys that i first got to know about you from the how you met video and i've binge watched until i caught up and right now i run to to watch an installment whenever i get notified. i am part of the dream team and kumnandi lana
Hi Lethabo! We are so glad that you are enjoying it here. We love having you here and hope you will continue to journey with us♥️🙏🏾. Thank you.
wowww that part about forgiveness being about yourself hit me hard
Forgiveness is not always easy. It truly can only be the work of the Holy Spirit.
Yoh I'm engaged and coming across this channel really is opening my eyes 🥺🥺.. I don't know yall but I love yall
I love you guys. Pheto I love how comfortable you are with yourself and how you voice your opinion. You inspire me as a woman. Lots of love guys💕
I enjoyed the conversation!!! May the Lord help me because every time I’m upset I threaten to leave but in actual honesty I cannot picture a life without my husband but yhoooo uBhuti uyangibhora sometimes so stubborn 🥺😩
Notification gang 💃🏾🔥🔥 Hey dream team ❤️
Woohoooo!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
Hey Dream team! Love you guys! ❤❤❤❤
Love you!!🤗♥️
Dream Team #All the way and forever🔥🔥🔥
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Yes, yes and yes! The points you raised are so valid, so valuable. The point about the marriage work ethic 👌🏾
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Feeling quite emotional as I type this.
You guys are so real. So authentic.
You were truly called for this generation.
We are learning, and we are growing through you!
Thank you and, may God bless you!
Phew! I'm binge watching. Great content. God bless you as you minister to marriages around the world. ❤️
Wow that's informative...thanks dream team 👏👏👏watching from Eswatini
Back on the couch of love 😂😂
The hot seat🤣🤣♥️♥️
Thank you for being so open and transparent about your journey.❤❤ I'm learning a lot from you guys
Thank you for journeying with us.♥️
Hey dream team😍😍
Hellooooo family🤗🤗♥️♥️
Work Ethic guys 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾, this is so important
So so important to check in with each other and assess the health of our relationships 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Grateful to be part of the family ❤
The wisdom in here 😩❤️❤️
This is soo timely...thank you so much guys, as always power content. Communication (more than just a language/grammar ) should be introduced in schools, or anywhere where we can learn it as early as possible in our lives.
Great presentation
So raw and authentic!!! I loved this installment so much.🤍
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Loving all your conversations on marriage ❤❤