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  • @TheMakhs
    @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    The installment has been re-uploaded!!! Sound issues have been resolved. Thank you so much for your patience!
    Love
    #TheMakhs

    • @theresahmensah287
      @theresahmensah287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I looooove u guys so much
      So much love ❤ from Ghana
      Pls can u guys speak English throughout plsssssssss
      We dont understand when u chip in ur language lol
      Sorry
      But i looooove listening to u both
      Love love love u both ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @keyzfimi271
      @keyzfimi271 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊

    • @keyzfimi271
      @keyzfimi271 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😊😊

    • @keyzfimi271
      @keyzfimi271 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😢😮😊 51:18
      😅

  • @noluthandomakhoba9853
    @noluthandomakhoba9853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm not even married yet but I was triggered for the most part. Like Peto said, I'll take it like a CHAMP and work on myself :). You guys are just amazing!

  • @prudencemathe8219
    @prudencemathe8219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The maturity is out of this world. I'm learning a lot. 😭😭😭

  • @jennybrown1570
    @jennybrown1570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I love how you guys are unraveling right infront of us. It's appreciated.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aaaah thank you Jen❤️❤️❤️

    • @madupe21
      @madupe21 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Huge mistake

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Pheto is so beautiful.Yoh I am forever in awe of her.

  • @alricamoatshe4638
    @alricamoatshe4638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hi Guys. I've just recently discovered your channel, and I love, love, love you guys! My husband and I have been married for 21years, and we are very passionate about Marriage done God's way, and you guys aredoing exactly that! There is so much to learn from your videos, and I think this one specifically, I will listen to it again, take notes and then discuss with hubby! Keep up the amazing work that you are doing! You are changing lives!!!

  • @bernicemaina3004
    @bernicemaina3004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Learnt alot, love it here! 😍💯
    1) Respect
    2) Emotional Intimacy
    3) Security
    4) To have fun
    5) They want/need space

  • @Nadiamatlala
    @Nadiamatlala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I love the honesty and authenticity you guys display. And the vulnerability you guys are showing and how you are both able to receive each other’s feedback without getting angry but willing to process and acknowledge.
    Thank you for the wonderful content and sharing your love with us, all facets of it ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you so much dear friend❤️❤️. It took us a lot of learning to arrive at this point. We’ve had to have some really tough conversations along the way and get to a point where we truly see each other’s hearts.
      We appreciate your kind words of affirmation and encouragement❤️❤️🤗🤗

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Sanele! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

    • @moitshepisparkles
      @moitshepisparkles 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯

  • @ritobaloyi3735
    @ritobaloyi3735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The way he emphasized on having fun 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you see that??🤣🤣🤣

  • @joynkuna6604
    @joynkuna6604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    If only you guys knew how much we(me and my boyfriend) learn from you.. like we literally have conversations about everything you talk about and this is a awosome way to preparation for us as we planning to get married next year.. Thank you so much

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you so much for your feedback. We are so humbled by it.🤗🤗We are so encouraged to hear that the conversations are being carried forward❤️❤️

    • @alemalem2395
      @alemalem2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheMakhs I am watching u guys and i think as a wife u need to understand your husband listen to him put his needs to have fun with you before your fears. I love that he want to have fun with you.

    • @alemalem2395
      @alemalem2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a widow and there were fun things my husband wanted us to do and i would say no .I regret it now we cannot go back so try to meet him half way u might be surprised.

    • @alemalem2395
      @alemalem2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I say this in love for you both .

  • @MannaMeals
    @MannaMeals 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Loved how you both didn’t sugarcoat marriage or your relationship struggles. Can you do a specific video on how God confirmed each other as your Godly spouse. And how He continued to confirm it while you were dating. Thank you.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi Erica! Thank you so much🤗🤗❤️❤️. We talk about the “confirmation” in the “How We Met” installment😀

  • @kiaashlii6268
    @kiaashlii6268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    One thing I’ve learnt is that sometimes in relationships we have to try and be apart of things our partners enjoy doing (find fun) even if it isn’t something we enjoy most. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @adelheidkatjiru9402
    @adelheidkatjiru9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The honesty and Transparency from your husband, thank you for bringing us in

  • @phiwo8998
    @phiwo8998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So Authentic and raw ! No content like this elsewhere! Love watching these with my partner !

  • @matshiamolebese3692
    @matshiamolebese3692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Lerato gave a great example of when someone is being "unnecessary". That sort of thing gets to anyone, irrespective of gender. Those people tend to come across as bo tsibinki and ba bora blind bao. LOL. I stumbled upon your channel like literally 2 hours ago and I have been binge watching your videos. 🙈🙈🙈😂😂😂😂Thanks for sharing your story. The interview with the rents was such nourishing soulfood. May the good Lord continue to strengthen you in your individual capacities as well as a couple. 🌺🌺🌺

  • @ntefengmoloisane5418
    @ntefengmoloisane5418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I can relate to Phetola, If you ask me ,“what do you do for fun?” I won’t know what to say, but I am completely happy and having fun 🤣

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Happy and content right? 🤣🤣Fun is very relative❤️

    • @mahlengimadonsela493
      @mahlengimadonsela493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂🤣

    • @edgylee977
      @edgylee977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @denzeleiseb6364
    @denzeleiseb6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have never seen such a genuine conversation between couples.
    Thanks for the Channel.

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I'm definitely afraid of opening up to men. Especially about family dynamics. Men diminish a lot of things we complain about & use it against you in future

    • @madupe21
      @madupe21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't good idea...
      Advise: ask yourself when is he going to do that.. Which I also think of often doing?

    • @hunadimakgatho3403
      @hunadimakgatho3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nothing but fax

    • @siphodlamini4834
      @siphodlamini4834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heal.

    • @christinehamujompa1614
      @christinehamujompa1614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @zanelem.
      @zanelem. หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yho. Emotional boundaries are a big thing. We were advised to limit what we share during the boyfriend-and-girlfriend stage at a ladies fellowship; but it's hard cause this person is the one person you talk to frequently 😫😭. And where do you draw the line when it comes to knowing each other without over sharing

  • @VhugalaHaweM
    @VhugalaHaweM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Topics suggestions as requested
    1. Contentment
    2. marriage contracts
    3. Independence within a message
    4. Parenthood
    5. Story Times
    love you guys tons!!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THANK YOU!! We appreciate these suggestions so much! All so important!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. We love and appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @thandomazwi337
    @thandomazwi337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love the conversations you have. It gives me a whole lot of perspective

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES!!! Perspective is the goal. Love this comment. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

  • @deepdiver849
    @deepdiver849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I barely watch anything as long as an hour...but this was very genuine and refreshing.
    For me its important that a man just informs me he needs space...

  • @wandilekwanda541
    @wandilekwanda541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a heated conversation today😅. @Lerato we feel well represented. Loved it once again. ❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yoooo! The heat was too much🤣🤣. Lerato did well! We will give him that👏🏾👏🏾. And all the women are taking notes❤️

  • @nazikiwe8259
    @nazikiwe8259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm obsessed with your accents 🤗 and love the occasional phrases in your local languages.

  • @lydiagomah9048
    @lydiagomah9048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this Family so much, I love when he talking she looking in his Face

    • @j.aolani
      @j.aolani 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right soo cute♥️

    • @euphodianetshakhuma2594
      @euphodianetshakhuma2594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It just show that she is still in love with her busband

  • @charlesiaheard2639
    @charlesiaheard2639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love this expression of truth to his wife and done with love.

  • @nontsikelelokhasu5257
    @nontsikelelokhasu5257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you guys were so honest in this installment. We need these real conversations in relationships!

  • @answersfrommylips197
    @answersfrommylips197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the honesty and vulnerability you guys shared with us. I think women naturally act like mothers when they truly care about someone. Enjoyed and learnt from the video.

  • @georgiagoldson7156
    @georgiagoldson7156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    OMG. I love this couple. Met them last week and I'm hooked. When Mrs. Makh said it's getting tense and Mr. Makh started scratching his head 🤣😂🤣

  • @ShereenRamahuma
    @ShereenRamahuma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “TH-cam will show you wonders”😭😂😂😂😂

  • @mssangvanza879
    @mssangvanza879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Bathong your content is so honest and relatable. Love & respect has been a leading topic in our marriage of late. Funny part is everything Lerato is saying I’ve heard from my hubby before and I defs identify with most of Phetola’s views. To know that these are shared experiences is a relief. Thanks so much for sharing your experience and wisdom.❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for letting us in. 😁 The truth is our stories are more common than we think, but perspective (hearing it differently) is important sometimes.
      Love to you and yours ❤️

    • @pascollcampbell7580
      @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she’s over protective, she just want you to be okay 👍..No worry.......

    • @pascollcampbell7580
      @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We really need to reevaluate our self

    • @pascollcampbell7580
      @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the true meaning of romance? Every one needs that...Dont you think so???????

  • @herstory1012
    @herstory1012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is gold dust....it needs a billion likes!

  • @nazikiwe8259
    @nazikiwe8259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You're such good listeners! You're each so attentive when the other speaks

  • @SimbaTheComicKing1
    @SimbaTheComicKing1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lerato is my dude...my girlfriend made the mistake of introducing me to your channel now your advice has become my reference point, I've always said some of these things but you say them so brilliantly and succinctly as you put it, keep up the good work!

  • @maseramemolumo1440
    @maseramemolumo1440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how even in disagreement, respect and love still shines in your conversations. You are so authentic, and the second thing I love is how you are comfortable with your differences too. I don't know why it took so long to watch your vids, but 5 vids later and no regrets 🙂

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the honesty. I do think I’m like Phetola with the fun question, I’m risk averse and I get how that can “ruin the fun” for others

  • @keh-dalia809
    @keh-dalia809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow, the candid speaking has actually helped me a lot to understand more!!! I think my problem is, is that I have gained a lot of wisdom early on in life and I end up giving great advice to guys who don't want to feel like they're being told what to do. Then I just think they are immature and too egotistical to see the value of growing and learning to better their own life. But this giving advice triggers guys and makes them feel insecure and not the strong superhero they want a woman to see them as. But honestly the insecurity and immaturity is already there underneath if they are triggered by something that can help them grow and learn. A lot of people don't like to grow and learn from others, but I love it, and you can only love growing and learning if you put your ego aside and open your mind to the possibility of what you can grow into. This will never change, and all the wisdom I gained through an intense life will not be denied either, and I cannot go back. But I see the issue, and this helped me understand again that I need a mature man who also has some fruits of wisdom too! Being that I'm still pretty young in a dumbed down American fast food culture, meeting the right guy is going to take some serious miracles of God!

  • @gracehlatshwayo2789
    @gracehlatshwayo2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mrs. Makhs on the FUN part please don't feel bad😅 I totally understood him. I saw myself in his demonstrations... Wow I'm that wife.

  • @kiaashlii6268
    @kiaashlii6268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You realize even though Loreta stated initially that he was okay with partners having friends of the same sex now he is saying her not actually having male friends like that gives him that sense of security lol 😂 so once again it proves that many times we say we are ok with things until it is happening to us. 🤥🤷🏾‍♀️ y’all are the best!

  • @simakahlemahlatini
    @simakahlemahlatini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love how informative this was! However please please tell us how we can make it a safe space? It’s so hard to figure out where exactly we go wrong to make it not feel like a safe place.

  • @sthembinkosimaswanganyi2148
    @sthembinkosimaswanganyi2148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Then let's go for counselling." 😂😂😂😂 that took me out.
    You guys are doing well👏. Love your content!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @pontsotsoeunyane9395
    @pontsotsoeunyane9395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe I'm watching this for the third time. Thanks for sharing and always being so authentic and vulnerable around us

  • @GugulehuShange
    @GugulehuShange หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just discovered this channel, and I love openness, transparencyand mat displayEd in your videos guys. How you represent God's kind of marriage is amazing. May God 😢 to bless you and keep you❤

  • @octovianKamau
    @octovianKamau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really enjoy this installment, i shall revisit after marriage. Love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @OnlyQueenE
    @OnlyQueenE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love yall transparency. So much growth is seen by your speech with each other, I love this. Thank you both for sharing!

  • @nyeletimanganyi4197
    @nyeletimanganyi4197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm here for the intro 😂💞🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌 aowa "life is but a dream" I always feel that differently

  • @karloskaumunika2750
    @karloskaumunika2750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your realness just won yourselves a brand new fan!!! DOPE STUFF👌👌👌🔥🔥🔥

  • @madampraises4450
    @madampraises4450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'd like for aus Phetola to unpack how did she manage to be the breadwinner when abti Lerato was still trying to find his feet. Thank you for yet another educational episode. We really are learning a lot!! ❤️

    • @madampraises4450
      @madampraises4450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Basically how did she handle finances and the emotional stability that comes with doing so. Didn't she feel like she was settling for less?

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I must admit it was very difficult for me to be the breadwinner especially because the gender roles in the house were still as they were. So I went through a period of feeling quite resentful about the situation.
      What really worked for us was when I started my own business. At the time it didn’t look like the best idea because it meant that we would both be self employed, but pursuing my own dreams released me from the resentment. I think it was difficult for me, being in a job that I hated, whilst he was living his best life, and me still being the breadwinner. It just felt very unfair.
      A lot of prayer, spending time with couples that we respected who at some point went through what we went through and speaking to a counselor also helped us a lot.

  • @kwanelenomondemncube3478
    @kwanelenomondemncube3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm all for the raw unraveling in your conversations! It's a whole lot of love from me. God bless your union.

  • @kholofelomonene4440
    @kholofelomonene4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lerato are “ norh TH-cam will show you wonders “ 😹😹😹

  • @sisref
    @sisref 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ijoo hubby is giving it to us ladies. "We are not fun".

  • @thandiwengidi5226
    @thandiwengidi5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The mothering part convicted me 🙂I feel like I am like that too. We are caring, we are nurturing, please get it 🙂

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi again, guys! I'm SUCH a big fan of this channel and I can't wait for it to blow up!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaah thank you so much!!Blow up!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @monicacking5126
      @monicacking5126 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes what do you use to shoot

  • @imeldaoffiong677
    @imeldaoffiong677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are so honest, it's beautiful. I learn so much from every video you upload. Love you both❤️❤️❤️ God bless you🙏🏽

  • @jasonfrancis1612
    @jasonfrancis1612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a new fan, and I've watched several of your videos now and will continue!.. You guys are fantastic! Your discussions are extremely refreshing, relatable and authentic. It all feels real and genuine and true. As a combination you're also really fabulous and present well. It is fun and enlightening. You are both wise and charismatic! But man to man, special props to Lerato, he is absolutely solid, wise and articulate. #Respect.

  • @matomerapholo9516
    @matomerapholo9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much guys. Your shows are so inspiring. Playing catch on most of your episodes. This particular one made me to exchange a light bulb that has been dead for almost two years.

  • @shawnawallace4582
    @shawnawallace4582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    22:15 fun! I was that way in past relationships. Thank you for this now I know. I love the open, honest authentic conversation. Please keep them coming. As a divorced woman interesting in marriage again I need this information. So, please keep the honesty with love of course

  • @angelakamodi8527
    @angelakamodi8527 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh man soo thankful for finding ur channel! this particular instalment was as real as they come,love love and appreciate your honesty,not easy to share but please know you are helping soo many out there! God bless!

  • @palesapalesa938
    @palesapalesa938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was such a scary conversation 🤣Yo guyzini, my heart is beating so fast

  • @heavenlyshope723
    @heavenlyshope723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you being honest and transparent. This was beautiful to watch.

  • @carrolmatlhako8088
    @carrolmatlhako8088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No 4 bafwethu 🤣😂🤣. Having to strike a balance by not sounding too happy or depressed Modimo! Definitely taking notes, another phenomenal installment as always ❤.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True story 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ItumelengParage
    @ItumelengParage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is so refreshing. Love how articulate you both are. Learned a lot! ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Tumi! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @LindiMhlophe
    @LindiMhlophe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this conversation, even the nearly tense moments. You guys are a blessing

  • @lesegodlulane8222
    @lesegodlulane8222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Point no. 5 😂😂😂.
    I am the worst at giving him space.
    God help my inability to give space, cause Wow, I am alot 😂😂😂

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Space must fall🤣! On a serious note though, men we hear you. We will give you space. But just reflect quickly and come back to us🤣🤣

  • @nalsmaebela5853
    @nalsmaebela5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i loved the authenticity shared with us. we need more openness and honesty such as this content right here!! it is rare to find. Thank you guys

  • @CpheM
    @CpheM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ultimately, compromise!!! Wow, this just shifted my perspective...particularly point 4 &5. You guys are beautifuuuul!!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️. Thank you so much🤗🤗

  • @cynthiahillian
    @cynthiahillian 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Because the subject matter can be rather hectic..I appreciated how you both affirm one another as well as take responsibility when the other is correct.
    Mostly, I appreciated the resurrect and well as you guys are always in physical contact. Touching one another, holding hands etc. And I'm learning lots.

  • @neodlamini6115
    @neodlamini6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoyed this. I like the organic-ness/authenticity of the conversation.

  • @vuyiswanhleko3405
    @vuyiswanhleko3405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    O.M.G....emotional intimacy...can't blv I've just discovered your channel guys...best lessons ever..thank you beautiful people. All love from Swaziland

  • @tshepangmokotedi
    @tshepangmokotedi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First time coming across your channell and oh my God! I'm hooked. I love your honesty and openness. I'm learning so much 🙏🏽

  • @keaolebogakgotlaebonywe6754
    @keaolebogakgotlaebonywe6754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when Lerato said TH-cam WILL SHOW YOU WONDERS!!!LOL!
    another wonderful instalment ditsala!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bathong Lerato🤣🤣🤣. Why is he this person🤣🤣🤣

  • @MsAmarie90
    @MsAmarie90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Is your wife's love language touch? I love that she is always holding on to you.

  • @anthonymalgas260
    @anthonymalgas260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big up to the fun commentary by the hubby and the woman acting as our mother robbing us guys of having fun. Spontenaity is fun in a relationship.

  • @abbaamuyungesin2131
    @abbaamuyungesin2131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just want it in the record books that I was watching this instalment when The Makhs hit 31.3k subscribers.😜
    Changed before my very eyes!!! 😂 Lol.
    I love you guys!!!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260
    @thetherapeuticcoacht.7260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate these points and I’m listening and taking heed. This conversation is necessary, for men to open up. Thank you.

  • @mbalib2694
    @mbalib2694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s the quality of your videos for me🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @luvogiba1526
    @luvogiba1526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You Guys!! A Whole Shout out!! 🤭
    So this Channel is definitely my kind of fun!! Always a treat listening and learning from you guys...the topics are so real and hard ones, but watching you handle them with vulnerability, honesty, humility and laaawd the humour! 😆We love to see it! Bless you guys 🥰

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for this heartwarming message. We are so humbled by the love, encouragement and affirmation❤️❤️

  • @travelwithposh7129
    @travelwithposh7129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 “soooo how did it goooo” 💀💀😂😂 eyyyy this is definitely what I would do.

  • @ongeziwemepha4815
    @ongeziwemepha4815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Number 4 had me in stitches hey... It really stretched you guys. I love that. I myself was stretched and had to do a lot of introspection & to be truly honest with myself... Lerato made me see things differently. This blessed me. Yes Phetola; you're right😁Boys will be Boys. Let's let them

  • @VhugalaHaweM
    @VhugalaHaweM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    my fiance loved this video hahahahah....I enjoyed my one last week 🤣🤣🤣
    on a serious note thank you guys so much for opening conversations in our home . we thoroughly enjoy these💛

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We appreciate you watching and journeying with us🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you❤️❤️. So glad your hubby to be enjoyed it as well🤣🤣

  • @VangileM
    @VangileM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently come across this account n yesterday I cried myself to sleep due to the lord I see in you guys may God bless you .
    No 5 I thought it’s my husband thing only , I am the type that want things done now talked about now this processing issue I struggle with because I end up feeling ignored

  • @samanthab4524
    @samanthab4524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just met you guys, I love you already, you just "make sense" and im gonna binge watch all ur vids ♥

  • @monixmonix916
    @monixmonix916 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh what a couple....you have a new sub from Kenya....love it. God bless you

  • @pascollcampbell7580
    @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don’t fight now!!!!! You guys are speaking to us.........

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fight? We discuss intensely 🤣

    • @pascollcampbell7580
      @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think this guy is speaking to us men generally,I really like your contents....You speak to us male,very clearly...Thank you for high-lighting these topics....Male thinks different from female...Chances are,we do things differently as men........

  • @snyder190
    @snyder190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I appreciate what he has shared, thank you!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾😁

  • @rabeccamwila1314
    @rabeccamwila1314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh my. i so needed this as a young woman trying to understand our men, this was super helpful and liberating

  • @tshegofatsodolly6168
    @tshegofatsodolly6168 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Makhs I love your content,wisdom filled and just rich. A new subscriber from Botswana

  • @Gulexy_Gulexy
    @Gulexy_Gulexy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the time out scheduling Ntate Makhs. It will create expected excitement. Love it! It sounds exciting. Hai you guys are giving my mind therapy. 🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @wanda_za
    @wanda_za 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been waiting for this. 😄
    You guys look beautiful.
    Thank you for pouring out your wisdom to us. May God bless you abundantly.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaaaah🤗🤗🤗😊😊😊. Thank you so much for your kind words. Giving us all the feels❤️❤️

  • @faithlivingwithSam
    @faithlivingwithSam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my word l have done the "you are going to drown at the beach" 😂😂😂😂 disclaimer he had a knee injury

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣it’s the disclaimer for us 😁❤️

  • @pascollcampbell7580
    @pascollcampbell7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My bro, respect goes a long way......So true for males.......

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely 👊🏾

  • @jennybrown1570
    @jennybrown1570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yeyiii Pheto can explain😂🤣 she will explain shem💞 body language ya Lerato is like can we move on😂
    You guys rock🎉

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she doesn’t stop talking🤣🤣🤣🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @nkatekoqhibi637
    @nkatekoqhibi637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    New subbie 🙋🏿 I am so happy to have discovered you guys, the authenticity is amazing 😍 👏🏿

  • @everjoymercysigauke87
    @everjoymercysigauke87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recently started watching your installments and they have been so educative and refreshing at the same time. Thank you for sharing your great content!

  • @maty4206
    @maty4206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooooh my word I loved this! "Thabo come into the house killed me" Fantastic episode!

  • @bathabiledlamini2785
    @bathabiledlamini2785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lerato is so confused shem... I like how he wants to get clarity to avoid doing the wrong thing

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Communication and clarity are very important 🤣❤️

  • @Withlove.K95
    @Withlove.K95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Of course I loved this video. The insights are insane... Who knew that if possible, men really want to have fun with their spouses?! Shocked by that actually... 👌🏽
    Suggestion: Lady P mentioned something about how hectic it was in the first year of marriage if I remember correctly... Maybe a video on learning about your spouse, how to adjust to a new human living with you daily and how to adjust to each other's families. I'm new here so I haven't had a chance to view all your videos,you might have touched on this already 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @yolandamoyo4047
    @yolandamoyo4047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pethlo love love your hair.... how did u do that? please have a channel for your hair..

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    From 27 minutes onto 31 minutes I’m cracking up at the ocean scenario 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @joyminnies9037
    @joyminnies9037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had such a good laugh at the candidness of this conversation. Love it!!!

  • @Pru777
    @Pru777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I needed to hear that. Perspective 🎉