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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ส.ค. 2020
- About two months ago, I made the decision to come out to my friends.
I wanted to film their reactions so I could remember these special moments and share my experience of coming out on TH-cam.
I would not be who I am today without the brave people who courageously shared their stories and gave me a glimpse of what it looks like to accept yourself.
This video is dedicated to the many courageous LGBTQIA+ people who’ve come before me.
Thank you for watching :)
p.s. I couldn’t figure out how to record sound on FaceTime… which is why there is none on the first few!
:)
Jonah
the first dudes reaction. dude didn’t even blink. like he knew 😂
You got great friends.
Aww, your friend at 4:03 is so happy for you, that's an awesome buddy.
That's love right there.
"So I dont have to sing?..." priceless
He was focused on what he saw as the important things, lol.
You have the best friends. I wish I was as strong as you.
You’ll find the strength when it’s time! It was when I had found support and help that I found strength! Couldn’t have done it without therapy first!!!
I love your confidence, I wish I could come out to my family 😶
there is NO RUSH!!! You will be ready when its time!!!
@@jomsi1914 thanks 🙂
awww i loved the last two reactions
haha so sweet. thanks for watching!
I don’t think it was a surprise to any of them
Bahahahahhaha😂
I had Chills the whole time. Love your face Jonah, I’m so happy that you are happy ❤️🌈
Thank you !! 😌
THIS is the kind of coming out video I live for - such amazing friends and great reactions :)
LMFAO the guy that knew 😂
I was terrified to come out and most of my friend reacted just like your friend in the grey tshirt it makes me cry 😁 thanks for making this video because it definately helped me
I just came out to my grandparents this weekend and they r happy for me and were so supportive! My mom and dad knew for so long and r super supportive but I was not sure about my grandparents. I’m so happy they were
This is one of the most heartwarming videos I have watched in a long time, thank you 🙏 And congratulations with your wonderful friends 😁
Thank you so much!!
That first lady was the real reaction of the true friend. 😍😍😍😍
I’m so mad that I didn’t come out to my closest friends in person or even on ft so I could film it but all of them were through messages (and one was through an Instagram question box but we won’t talk about that) and I will forever regret that because ik I want to film telling my family but ik some of them will most likely not support me I wish I had filmed my friends because they were so kind and supportive and I wish I could have seen their full reaction and not just the messages they sent but I’m so grateful they still love me and I have the most supportive friends in the world
You did what felt comfortable and right at the time. I’m happy you have been met with some good responses. Many many people come out over text and it’s a great way to do so. Sending love!
thank you so much for this. so much love to you 💞💞
THANK YOU!!! LOVE to U 2!!
so happy for you
congrats
So glad you came out, it wasn’t that easy for people from my area, we kinda had to hide it totally......good luck with the rest of your life hope everything goes great......52 🌈🐻 from Texas here.....
Thank you so much!!!
@@jomsi1914 your so very welcome there cutie….hope your doing well? 53 gay 🐻 texas
Fantastic video. Made my heart smile.
That was beautiful!
Dude with the black hairs reaction ❤ wish i had a friend like that
I love it! I especially love the guy with the raised eyebrows, like, "What, you thought we didn't know?" But, seriously, if you live at home, your Mom is going to come in that mess of a room and pop your head for showing it in that way! Girl! You have to look behind you before you shoot! It looks like you crawled to the back corner of the dirtiest closet you could find to film your intro Dude!
Hahahahhahahaha 😂😂 luckily I don’t live at home. It’s clean now I promise !!!
Good for you!!!
Amazing friends 👏👍
Awewee!!! So sweet
:)
SO CUTE. sending love from asia.
Omg so cool!! Thank you 🙏
Congrats on coming out 😊
"Tell me more" JAJAJAJAJAJAJ:')
I wasn't going to comment but I can't not. You know what I think really stinks? It's that in 2021, young people still feel the need to have to hide who they are from friends and parents. I wish that this issue becomes such a non issue that that people don't need to "come out" to anyone and just be able to love who they love. JMHO
Hi TH-cam comments ❤
My whole life I thought I was straight until ,get this, a TikTok of Pierre boo and Nicky Champa came onto my FYP… my confusion about my sexuality was no more
After I watched the TikTok I couldn’t stop thinking about it, and throughout the last year and a bit I’ve accepted myself as being gay. I’m often asked if I’m gay by friends and classmates, and my answers was no, every time until yesterday at my best friends birthday party. The people there made me feel welcome, cuz they were so diverse compared to my classmates and some of my friends who are very Homophobic. At this birthday party, a mutual friend casually asked me what my sexuality was, and whether I was gay by saying “I will support you no matter what, but I was wondering whether you are gay.” And I waited for my bsf to leave the room, I pulled him into the bathroom and came out to him,I thanked him and later came out to my bsf in the pantry lol…it went like:
Me: Bestie, I need to talk to you about something serious
Bsf: umm, okay are you good, you look stressed
*I was leaning over the kitchen sink breathing heavily* btw
Me: I’m Gay
Bsf: *she burst into tears *I’m so proud of you, I’m here for you and Hank you for coming out to me
We had a good hug and I felt a relief like no other, like I could do anything In the world
*homophobic friend walks in and asks we’re crying*
Bestie lies instantly saying they’re happy tears cuz her cousin got into their dream school.
We must’ve hugged and given thumbs up’s at least 200 times lol
Also, she painted my nails😊
I was forced to take it off and my dad called me disgusting but that’s besides the point…
When I’m around my parent, who I know I can’t come out to for the mean while at least I can calm my anxiety by knowing I have to supportive best friends.
So , to all the ally’s that might see this and to all my closeted people, I love and respect every single one of you ❤
I hope that one day, South Africa 🇿🇦 will be more accepting and respectful of the LGBTQIA+ community. I hope that I can still be seen and respected as much post coming out to people as before. Stay strong people ❤
*Wholesome.*
Congrats man!
Thank you!! :)
@@jomsi1914 can we talk?
Sachin Narendrakiri sure!
That was great!
thx dude!!!
Josph and Saturday 😀🇨🇮
Don't know where you live but I recently just came out to my parents and friends. I love all of these reactions. Your friends are the best kind. And I'd date you =P
Howdy from the lone star state of Texas. Sending you great big size Texas hugs and kisses to you
Congratulations
thank you so much!
You have great friends! Nice
Thanks!!☺️
this is so cute
I have to stay in the closet! Would love to do this though! You look so good!
You're very lucky!
Lucky, lucky you. All the best from Amsterdam, a relaxed, progressive, pink city. Bye.. 👌
Him: I'm gay. Friend: So I don't have to sing?
Respect Dude! I am gay as well!
❤️
@@jomsi1914 thank u brother👌😊
👍💜👍
LOVELY.hAPPY 4 U
Ok so I don't have to sing........Love it!!!!! :-)
😆
Your handsome
I kind of think that you already knew that they knew, but you just wanted to make it official. I like the video and all, but not to have a single drawback from your coming out. You kind of felt everyone out, and once you got the green light, you went for it, which is a good thing. For the most part, the ending won't be no way near the ending you had. Caution or make a disclaimer the case like your does not always end happy.
I totally value your comment! It’s true... these are all positive reactions. I did come out to friends who didn’t take it as well... but I didn’t want to video tape that bc that would just be uncomfortable. I do address how difficult coming out is in my other two videos! Thanks for the perspective!
Do you know Nickandant
I'm assuming coming out as in coming out about u being gay
I have a friend that he is gay & I had a gay teacher my freshman year of high school cuz he told us
"I don't have a problem with gay ppl cuz all that really matters is if are happy"
That is so special and exactly!!! Thanks for sharing :)
@@jomsi1914 yw
U is good look men xx
... with a tidy bedroom, you get easily a nice partner;-)
Sweet guy plus sweet home makes sweet partner
🥰
The real question is how did they not know
Cute ❤🏳️🌈
Your friends are awesome and congrats for taking that next step. Now, time to join the gay stereotype and organize your room. We are known to be very neat so you need to get your clean on!
So still single? 🤣 cause I'm trying to find out
Single forever
@@jomsi1914 I mean come to Georgia we can change that 😂😅.
Was anyone really surprised?
What
hello, do you think that witnessed violence in the family could be the cause of homosexuality?
No.
Do you know Nickandant