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COMING OUT TO YOU! (MY COMING OUT STORY) 🏳️‍🌈😁
In honor of #nationalcomingoutday I thought I would share my coming out story.
Thank you for watching!
xx
Jomsi
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COMING OUT TO MY MOM, SISTER, & DAD 🏳️‍🌈 (LIVE)
มุมมอง 12K3 ปีที่แล้ว
Hello there! This is me coming out as gay to my mom, stepdad, and sister. It's been a long, long journey but I'm so grateful to finally be able be myself (openly) and have my family know this part of me (that I kept hidden for so long). Let's support one another... I know how difficult being in/out of the closet can be. I believe social media should be used to support, encourage, and highlight ...
COMING OUT TO MY FRIENDS 🏳️‍🌈 (LIVE REACTIONS)
มุมมอง 46K3 ปีที่แล้ว
About two months ago, I made the decision to come out to my friends. I wanted to film their reactions so I could remember these special moments and share my experience of coming out on TH-cam. I would not be who I am today without the brave people who courageously shared their stories and gave me a glimpse of what it looks like to accept yourself. This video is dedicated to the many courageous ...

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  • @geraldstephens7539
    @geraldstephens7539 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congrats man...BTW...You're adorable! *wink

  • @lilyromo3437
    @lilyromo3437 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you know Nickandant

  • @lilyromo3437
    @lilyromo3437 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What

  • @lilyromo3437
    @lilyromo3437 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you know Nickandant

  • @Nick-xe7ek
    @Nick-xe7ek ปีที่แล้ว

    👍💜👍

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 ปีที่แล้ว

    I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @ethanohannessian7270
    @ethanohannessian7270 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi TH-cam comments ❤ My whole life I thought I was straight until ,get this, a TikTok of Pierre boo and Nicky Champa came onto my FYP… my confusion about my sexuality was no more After I watched the TikTok I couldn’t stop thinking about it, and throughout the last year and a bit I’ve accepted myself as being gay. I’m often asked if I’m gay by friends and classmates, and my answers was no, every time until yesterday at my best friends birthday party. The people there made me feel welcome, cuz they were so diverse compared to my classmates and some of my friends who are very Homophobic. At this birthday party, a mutual friend casually asked me what my sexuality was, and whether I was gay by saying “I will support you no matter what, but I was wondering whether you are gay.” And I waited for my bsf to leave the room, I pulled him into the bathroom and came out to him,I thanked him and later came out to my bsf in the pantry lol…it went like: Me: Bestie, I need to talk to you about something serious Bsf: umm, okay are you good, you look stressed *I was leaning over the kitchen sink breathing heavily* btw Me: I’m Gay Bsf: *she burst into tears *I’m so proud of you, I’m here for you and Hank you for coming out to me We had a good hug and I felt a relief like no other, like I could do anything In the world *homophobic friend walks in and asks we’re crying* Bestie lies instantly saying they’re happy tears cuz her cousin got into their dream school. We must’ve hugged and given thumbs up’s at least 200 times lol Also, she painted my nails😊 I was forced to take it off and my dad called me disgusting but that’s besides the point… When I’m around my parent, who I know I can’t come out to for the mean while at least I can calm my anxiety by knowing I have to supportive best friends. So , to all the ally’s that might see this and to all my closeted people, I love and respect every single one of you ❤ I hope that one day, South Africa 🇿🇦 will be more accepting and respectful of the LGBTQIA+ community. I hope that I can still be seen and respected as much post coming out to people as before. Stay strong people ❤

  • @djm55
    @djm55 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww, your friend at 4:03 is so happy for you, that's an awesome buddy.

    • @ciel1083
      @ciel1083 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's love right there.

  • @Phishy87
    @Phishy87 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't know where you live but I recently just came out to my parents and friends. I love all of these reactions. Your friends are the best kind. And I'd date you =P

  • @supremeprime660
    @supremeprime660 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude with the black hairs reaction ❤ wish i had a friend like that

  • @hareth3424
    @hareth3424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cute ❤🏳️‍🌈

  • @alexcorrigan6974
    @alexcorrigan6974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was absolutely amazing. You have a wonderful family. Any guy would be so lucky to have a beautiful guy like you in their life. Much love xxxx

  • @willemp.m.9131
    @willemp.m.9131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this story…. love you man..

  • @TeamAI.
    @TeamAI. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am coming out tomorrow

  • @ramryn592
    @ramryn592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was anyone really surprised?

  • @roberthines4882
    @roberthines4882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to stay in the closet! Would love to do this though! You look so good!

  • @SuckerKiss
    @SuckerKiss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The real question is how did they not know

  • @calebmigues
    @calebmigues 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the first dudes reaction. dude didn’t even blink. like he knew 😂

  • @jburnes41
    @jburnes41 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think they already knew

  • @charlotte6887
    @charlotte6887 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so mad that I didn’t come out to my closest friends in person or even on ft so I could film it but all of them were through messages (and one was through an Instagram question box but we won’t talk about that) and I will forever regret that because ik I want to film telling my family but ik some of them will most likely not support me I wish I had filmed my friends because they were so kind and supportive and I wish I could have seen their full reaction and not just the messages they sent but I’m so grateful they still love me and I have the most supportive friends in the world

    • @jomsi1914
      @jomsi1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You did what felt comfortable and right at the time. I’m happy you have been met with some good responses. Many many people come out over text and it’s a great way to do so. Sending love!

  • @caseydumoulin5859
    @caseydumoulin5859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was terrified to come out and most of my friend reacted just like your friend in the grey tshirt it makes me cry 😁 thanks for making this video because it definately helped me

  • @toddsmith1969
    @toddsmith1969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out to my mom this year for pride, never been happier 😊

    • @jomsi1914
      @jomsi1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay!!!! So happy & congrats 🎊🎈

  • @rebecaa7482
    @rebecaa7482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this so much! This is how every family/loved one should be when someone comes out to them. 😌❤️

  • @troyross984
    @troyross984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    His friend @ 3:25 probably suspected on his gaydar.. lol

  • @mikeschulte4271
    @mikeschulte4271 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just came out to my grandparents this weekend and they r happy for me and were so supportive! My mom and dad knew for so long and r super supportive but I was not sure about my grandparents. I’m so happy they were

  • @RFDeStefano
    @RFDeStefano 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish people would stop asking if the person is kidding or serious? Who makes this up?

  • @richardjuggins9386
    @richardjuggins9386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "So I dont have to sing?..." priceless

    • @zacharydunn6577
      @zacharydunn6577 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was focused on what he saw as the important things, lol.

  • @butchb2988
    @butchb2988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That first lady was the real reaction of the true friend. 😍😍😍😍

  • @BrownsBacker
    @BrownsBacker 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been there done that...but for me it was in the 1970's and 1980's...even less acceptance...my dad was like Archie Bunker (Google it) and in 1968 was a George Wallace supporter (Google it)...it just wasn't possible in my life that I could be gay...I was the perfect student and got straight A's just to be loved and have my dad be proud of me....I had a girlfriend in high school...but I knew that it was a lie...I had fooled around with a male cousin since I was 13 (he was straight), I went to a Catholic college and everyone was straight and wanted to have 10 kids...and I fell in love with my best friend at college (he is straight)...being the 1970's, I married my high school girlfriend and had a daughter in 1983...but the feelings inside never went away...and the longer I denied it,.the more miserable and crazy i became....until i finally asked for a divorce by coming out to my wife in 1987 (I was 30yrs old)...I came out to my family, including my dad...which was challenging, but eventually he came around. I'm now about to turn 64, but am single...my first boyfriend died of AIDS in 1993...and I had 2 relationships that ended after 4 and 6 years...having been raised with straight values, I'm a very monogamous person, which not all gay men are...but...to be happy within your soul, even when alone, is a wonderful thing. I wish you well and know that you are going to have a wonderful life. Oh, my daughter has known I am gay since she was 4, so no problems there...and I have a beautiful 9 yr old granddaughter who has always known...life is good...but I do wish I could find a bf/,husband to share the joys of life with. Post more...you have a sharing and joyful soul and I would love to hear how you are doing now that you are living your truth. Take care and be happy. Life is good.

  • @fromdirectedme
    @fromdirectedme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hello, do you think that witnessed violence in the family could be the cause of homosexuality?

  • @Robert-es9cb
    @Robert-es9cb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lucky, lucky you. All the best from Amsterdam, a relaxed, progressive, pink city. Bye.. 👌

  • @marcelcharest7662
    @marcelcharest7662 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're very lucky!

  • @percevalmahpouyas9933
    @percevalmahpouyas9933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    *Wholesome.*

  • @rashmiraina8469
    @rashmiraina8469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on coming out 😊

  • @danielandbrodiepride.canad1468
    @danielandbrodiepride.canad1468 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an AWESOME family !!❤️❤️

  • @mikedennington8856
    @mikedennington8856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh dude they did'nt need you to tell them its very obvious.

    • @jomsi1914
      @jomsi1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this comment

  • @cowboykent9091
    @cowboykent9091 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Howdy from the lone star state of Texas. Sending you great big size Texas hugs and kisses to you

  • @Massev6871
    @Massev6871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok so I don't have to sing........Love it!!!!! :-)

  • @benoit2117
    @benoit2117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVELY.hAPPY 4 U

  • @alexanderallan215
    @alexanderallan215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are way too cute 🥰 & adorable. Congratulations, on living your truth, and embracing you. Always surround yourself with positive, supportive, truthful people, you deserve it. Exclude all toxic people, from your life. Just remember, this is only one you , and you are amazing. 🌈🥰🔥❤️

  • @marcberm
    @marcberm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you're going to continue making more videos! Starting a channel is hard!

  • @davejones6812
    @davejones6812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wasn't going to comment but I can't not. You know what I think really stinks? It's that in 2021, young people still feel the need to have to hide who they are from friends and parents. I wish that this issue becomes such a non issue that that people don't need to "come out" to anyone and just be able to love who they love. JMHO

  • @wildbear450
    @wildbear450 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations, you have the most amazing family you could ever have asked for, they really seem very proud and supportive of you.....52🌈🐻 Texas here....❤️🌹

  • @wildbear450
    @wildbear450 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad you came out, it wasn’t that easy for people from my area, we kinda had to hide it totally......good luck with the rest of your life hope everything goes great......52 🌈🐻 from Texas here.....

    • @jomsi1914
      @jomsi1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!!

    • @wildbear450
      @wildbear450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jomsi1914 your so very welcome there cutie….hope your doing well? 53 gay 🐻 texas

  • @robbyel3958
    @robbyel3958 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Him: I'm gay. Friend: So I don't have to sing?

  • @electrafroot344
    @electrafroot344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS is the kind of coming out video I live for - such amazing friends and great reactions :)

  • @LeahInLaguna
    @LeahInLaguna 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jonah you are simply amazing. Your family are the best humans. So much love to you all!!!

  • @Oli92Technik
    @Oli92Technik 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect Dude! I am gay as well!

    • @jomsi1914
      @jomsi1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

    • @Oli92Technik
      @Oli92Technik 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jomsi1914 thank u brother👌😊

  • @benmelman9505
    @benmelman9505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two points I feel a need to make: 1: Congrats, man. :) 2: '90s babies are trash. '90s babies suck. I am a '90s baby and I hate my generation. Don't look to '90s babies for support.

  • @Rskhalil2000
    @Rskhalil2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Tell me more" JAJAJAJAJAJAJ:')