Stop Taking "Real Life" Advice From Out of Touch Influencers

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  • @onceuponamelody
    @onceuponamelody 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4853

    If Gabbi Hanna was able to get a real job after TH-cam, I feel like anyone can. They just don't WANT to.

    • @elisethearmy
      @elisethearmy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +265

      FACTS I'm so happy for her too

    • @Laneylovesworms
      @Laneylovesworms 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@elisethearmyno fr like to see her look so much happier and see the light in her eyes return, it gives me a lot of hope and inspires me to

    • @crumarki
      @crumarki 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

      I feel like that's unfair to Gabbie because she actually has an education and a job history.

    • @celluloid_love3431
      @celluloid_love3431 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +204

      @@crumarki if we’re speaking just in terms of TH-camrs that fell off, they would have experience, and loads of connections that would give them a lot of job opportunities. It’s never too late to go back to school either (community colleges, scholarships, education may even be free or more affordable if you’re outside of the U.S etc). And they could even freelance with the skills the already have.
      They have WAY more options than the average person would have by a landslide. Good for her for getting an education and considering her options.
      I don’t feel bad at all for the TH-camrs that fell off and don’t want to put in the work to find a job outside of TH-cam. They had multiple opportunities to make better choices for themselves and seek out other options 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      @@crumarki yes but she’s also working a job that requires pretty minimal training and likely paid training, so it’s pretty accessible. it’s good inspiration for ppl narrowing their opportunities unnecessarily-you /can/ actually find a “normal person job” post-influencing and be happy.

  • @bylleish
    @bylleish 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +952

    i'm a 21 year old grad student who cleans airbnbs and subs to make extra money on the side. your words at the end legit had me crying while cleaning a toilet bowl. i needed that. there is nothing wrong with working hard for what you need/want. working various jobs has humbled me so much and taught me to never give up. thank you for this video. please make more like this.

    • @VivaciousLyla
      @VivaciousLyla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      good luck 🫶 may God make life easier for you

    • @dinni3318
      @dinni3318 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Good luck girlie u can do ittt ❤

    • @SunflowerKidAugust
      @SunflowerKidAugust 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And that's amazing because subbing and teaching is difficult. Kids are wild these days

    • @Mangomochiluvr
      @Mangomochiluvr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Never give up ever 🫶 You’re doing incredible and learning life skills that will benefit you and push you so far into success.

    • @sophiagonzales8974
      @sophiagonzales8974 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Gl with your job i know youll manage

  • @AT-iu3ye
    @AT-iu3ye 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5166

    instead of demonizing 9-5 jobs, we should instead be asking/requesting to have a better work-life balance. so instead of 9-5, make it a 9-3:30pm.

    • @carly709
      @carly709 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +719

      Or just raise minimum wage & lower the cost of living so no one has to work 9-5s 6-7 days a week

    • @notaspeck6104
      @notaspeck6104 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +385

      The worst thing is that those hours are superficial, like it doesn’t matter if you can get your work done effectively and to a high standard within a smaller time frame. For some reason companies are reaaaaaaal attached to the idea of a 9-5, regardless of its necessity or practicality. Imagine if we rewarded people who did quick and efficient work instead of forcing them into a 9-5 box.

    • @grandempressvicky6387
      @grandempressvicky6387 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@notaspeck6104Exactly. Look at how companies freaked out during and after COVID when their employees wanted to work from home. Even though working from home made them more productive, companies wanted workers to go to their shitty skyscrapers or else they'll loose money

    • @TrichelleIvory
      @TrichelleIvory 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      It’s not that easy tho. People need to work those hours to be able to make enough money to pay for things.

    • @indigoearthhealing4927
      @indigoearthhealing4927 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup!

  • @SimplyNotLogical
    @SimplyNotLogical 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1742

    who else was nodding their head the entire video? mmmmhmm me. this was really well done. you sharing this take with your audience is so real of you because it's a stance/lesson that'll benefit your AUDIENCE and not yourself. i was going to comment why i think some influencers publicly talk down about post-secondary education or why some end up at the end of their influencer career with no transferrable life skills but you already articulated it so well. so, nothing much to add from this ~ influencer ~, ok kids stay in school and keep your job(s) and your common sense🦆

    • @gwendolynrobinson3900
      @gwendolynrobinson3900 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      Thank you for always advocating for postsecondary school and day-jobs, Cris :) ❤

    • @Jillberto
      @Jillberto 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

      I had to think of you during the video. You always advocate for staying and school and getting education which is not common for influencers.

    • @naomi_2949
      @naomi_2949 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      OMG, you watched this 😊 in my opinion. You are the definition of an influencer who advocates for people to get an education and to be smart about the steps they take in life. Love ur brand & podcast!❤

    • @dianazaragoza9822
      @dianazaragoza9822 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Simplyyyy!!

    • @gabby_jse23
      @gabby_jse23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I got into Sociology because of you Cristene and I love it so much

  • @bxx3366
    @bxx3366 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4093

    Apparently some people are making fun of gabbie for not being an influencer anymore and getting a real job but I couldn't be happier for her. I wish I'll be able to get my dream job too as a currently unemployed person

    • @Ryanneey
      @Ryanneey 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

      I bet she's probably happier

    • @miadeanemusic
      @miadeanemusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +401

      i’m glad someone else commented that. She even said that fitness would be her dream job if it weren’t for influencing. Like we watched this woman go through a bad time for her emotionally and i think that we should all be extremely proud of her for powering through and still taking care of herself in a way that’s healthy and happy for her.

    • @I_Am_NiiTA
      @I_Am_NiiTA 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

      Honestly glad for her. Breaking down on the internet would’ve been a wake up call for me 🤣🤣🤣

    • @daltonanderson3718
      @daltonanderson3718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      She really needed to get off the internet and be surrounded by normal people.

    • @Daanis99
      @Daanis99 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      She looks so much happier … and I’m more than sure that this job is just for happiness and has a nest egg…..Gabbie too me is exactly how influencers should end with her nest egg and doing what she wants …. I’m real happy for her and is showing her personal strength …..

  • @icasma5038
    @icasma5038 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +241

    One of the big questions about these Tiktok beggars is 'WHO is PAYING them???" Like who are the people giving their hard earned money, probably from 9-5 hardworking jobs? How did these influencers convince their viewers to make all these donations? Like, who cares that much about an influencer to give them your money? It's ironic because the influencers demonize 9-5 normal jobs, but yet, their money comes from fans who work those exact kinds of jobs.

    • @oneyangh
      @oneyangh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      this

    • @chouaxo
      @chouaxo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol frrrr

  • @Going_gone
    @Going_gone 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6185

    I stopped watching TikTok 24/7 and my life got so much better I still struggle with my appearance but your channel helps me a lot I just want to say thanks

    • @_salemtovar_
      @_salemtovar_  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +790

    • @vvitch-mist20
      @vvitch-mist20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +295

      I stopped it too, and I'm mad at TH-cam shorts now because I don't like the short video format, but it sucks you in.

    • @yin4296
      @yin4296 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vvitch-mist20 right? sometimes when I use TH-cam, it automatically puts me on the shorts tab to suck me in immediately, you have to be so intentional on social media

    • @chrisakane9840
      @chrisakane9840 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@_salemtovar_ love dark hair and makeup. ❤😅

    • @selayeo
      @selayeo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      same here !!

  • @Hazeyface
    @Hazeyface 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Kenji was my son’s middle name. He passed away in 2019. He loved animals, so hearing that was your puppies name made me smile. I needed that today.

  • @PanickinSkywalker
    @PanickinSkywalker 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1329

    As someone who is currently remodeling a house, I know she was just kinda joking around about us having “too many influencers and not enough electricians”, but like for real we actually do not have enough electricians. 🦆

    • @bmet102
      @bmet102 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      Definitely! Electricians make good money and they have such important skills that most people need but don't have.

    • @mariya_tortilla
      @mariya_tortilla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      theres a literal deficit of mental health professionals in places like MI where the suic1d3 rates are hella high lol

    • @PanickinSkywalker
      @PanickinSkywalker 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      @@mariya_tortillai believe it. There’s a deficit of medical providers of every type! We need less TikTok influencers and more…everything else lol.

    • @Jessamine29
      @Jessamine29 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      I work for a construction company that does kitchen/bathroom/insulation upgrades and house rewiring and hoo boy is that true. Take your pick of a part of a house and we probably don't have enough people with that skill

    • @marleneflanagan7137
      @marleneflanagan7137 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      After the real estate market crash, loads of people left the trades. It's a great union job that people need to get back into again. College and desk work isn't for everyone!

  • @orangepeelqueen2787
    @orangepeelqueen2787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    "I can't do anything else." Do people not have hobbies or passions outside of being liked? If I had the money I would take classes so I could get a job I loved.

    • @lucidtofu
      @lucidtofu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Honestly, I'm sure they don't want to work at all. Being youtuber actually gives you a setskill, videography, video editing, and video producing stuff, theres also agency related works like content planning, pr stuff, managing currently trending influencers, etc. Sure, youre probably not PRO pro, but you have something to start with. Not only that, some youtubers have their niche such as gaming, makeup, food, etc. So at the end, they really have an array of job possibility in those niche. But I guess if you stumble into being youtuber just because you're friends with an already famous youtuber (like david dobrik) and therefore you never had to do anything yourself, then you're pretty stumped.

  • @alexyssaubrie1606
    @alexyssaubrie1606 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2028

    This is why I love Cristine from Simplynailogical. She kept her day job until she had a nail polish brand, and then when she was burnt out from TH-cam, she switched to streaming. I give her my money because I get nail polish from it. It’s a good deal for both of us. What do Jason’s viewers get from giving him money? Nothing.

    • @juliettes6226
      @juliettes6226 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

      omg yes I love Christine she really is a good person and sets a very good example❤️

    • @notaspeck6104
      @notaspeck6104 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

      Literally this because the relationship between an artist or content creator is transactional. If you’re getting a good product, then you pay to support it so that you can get more of that product. You might grow to like that content creator, but the basis should still be transactional cause that’s literally what it is 😂

    • @shukuleit
      @shukuleit 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wait, Im out of the loop, did she quit her day job after her business became stable?

    • @LoveAndSnapple
      @LoveAndSnapple 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      I think she said she would never quit her day job because she just loves forensic crime statistics (I think that’s what it was.)

    • @alexyssaubrie1606
      @alexyssaubrie1606 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juliettes6226 she’s definitely a good person. I forgot to mention the cat charities and giving away college tuition!

  • @brunaamorim20
    @brunaamorim20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    “There is no shame in working hard for the things that you want” PERIOD

  • @Ryanneey
    @Ryanneey 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +648

    Nobody should ever be shamed for working a regular job. That's how society keeps running. We can't all be influencers, or we'd crumble.

    • @juliexiong4124
      @juliexiong4124 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @dianazaragoza9822
      @dianazaragoza9822 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That part !

    • @nodmami
      @nodmami 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is everything rn

  • @xXDarkMidnightMoonXx
    @xXDarkMidnightMoonXx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    "The grass is greener wherever you water it" is such bars

  • @BeantownMrs
    @BeantownMrs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1139

    I'm proud of Gabbie realizing that social media was bad for her mental health and she's moved onto something that actually makes her happy (and is productive to humanity).

    • @kiwikoopa6806
      @kiwikoopa6806 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Dude ikr last time I heard of her was when she had that massive breakdown on TikTok. I hope she has a great life away from social media. Jason Nash begging for money is washed up, Gabby working a regular job is not.

  • @kat12.
    @kat12. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I’m convinced a lot of influencers come out with videos about being depressed because it would actually benefit their mental health to have more of a structured schedule that a regular job or school can give. I think it provides structure and teaches someone how to create their own routines. I know that when I’ve gone through dark times mentally, oddly enough, what helped me get up each day was to go to work, pay people in my little payroll job, feel like I’m completing something each day even though that may have been all I could complete all day. Eventually, it also helped me meet a friend who helped me a lot with getting back to who I was previously.

  • @percyorsomething2641
    @percyorsomething2641 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +806

    If it makes anyone feel better, as a high school senior, no one i know seriously wants to be an "inflencer". My friends are going to school for a lot of different things. Carpentry, tattooing, computer science, business, nursing, art, teaching, psychology, history, pharmaceuticals. And that's just what i can pull off the top of my head. I'm going to college for geography and urban planning. People write off gen z as unambitious and lazy when that's not true at all. Every kid i know has a whole lot of ambition and wants to be a positive force in the world.

    • @emkab100
      @emkab100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

      I mean when i was little everyone wanted to be a dolphin caretaker Hahah.. so maybe we should take what kids say with a grain of salt

    • @Man-ej6uv
      @Man-ej6uv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      yeah, my younger friends want normal jobs, and my older friends have normal jobs lmao.

    • @percyorsomething2641
      @percyorsomething2641 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      @emkab100 haha when I was a kid I wanted to be a garbage man, because I wanted to ride on the back of the truck and hold onto the handle. Then I learned garbage smells 😭

    • @michellerhodes5477
      @michellerhodes5477 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      My Gen Z daughter is a junior and she wants to be a paramedic. It's not something she just thought of, either. She's been saying this for years.

    • @Ileaveangrycomments
      @Ileaveangrycomments 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I can relate, a lot of my friends (including me) are going to med school, and others I know are going to engineering, business, social work, psychology, architecture, aviation, etc.

  • @verseapocalyptica668
    @verseapocalyptica668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I love this take! We’re all raised with this linear idea of going to school, finding one career, retiring, dying, and it’s not that simple anymore. We’re allowed to have chapters and volumes of things we do with our lives, especially jobs. I went from tutor to professor to social worker to stay-home parent, and I’m not done by a long shot. Hell, I might get a job at MY YMCA, it’s a dope gym and everybody who works there looks happy!

  • @kim_bucha
    @kim_bucha 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +974

    I feel like the antithesis of these influencers is Simply Nailogical. She's had her full-time job the entire stretch of her TH-cam career, invests in her followers postsecondary education, and has always stressed the importance of work and education to her young fanbase. Plus building a successful business off of her platform is really impressive.
    I cannot even begin to imagine how the TH-cam landscape would improve if more creators were like that.

    • @espeon871
      @espeon871 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Nail Megan thee stallion

    • @rue6914
      @rue6914 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Just bought some Holo Taco as an investment 😊

    • @BreMue
      @BreMue 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Another thing too is some people "get into business" by slapping their name on something but she puts in the WORK to make sure she is putting her "brand/name" on things that will keep it valuable long term and not a quick cash grab

  • @_flowerfluff_9215
    @_flowerfluff_9215 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I think what bugs me the most is the fact that most of these people could AFFORD to go to college. It feel like a slap in the face . Like I would LOVE to be able to go to college, it’d help alot in the long run but not everyone ( in fact most people ) can’t afford to send themselves to college. It’s a spit in the face that they just simply refuse bc there too lazy . I don’t know how you could continue to feel good about yourself as a 50 year old begging for money on TikTok live

    • @PeachPlastic
      @PeachPlastic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unless you go to a school for a specific technical trade, college doesn't teach real-life application of knowledge.

    • @_flowerfluff_9215
      @_flowerfluff_9215 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@PeachPlastic no I’m not saying it does , however almost all jobs that pays over 15 an hour need a college education. As 23 year old I struggle a lot to get places to hire me without one . Unfortunately that’s just the world we live in now .

  • @molly-kl7pi
    @molly-kl7pi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +584

    As someone who works at a grocery store, I don’t get people who hate on these kinds of jobs. Like, do you want to eat or is that not something y’all do?

    • @CrazyMama75
      @CrazyMama75 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      You'd think COVID would've taught us as a society how vital service level jobs are, like store packers and checkout staff, but nope. Humans have such short memories when it comes to what is really important in life, it's the "undesirable jobs" that hold society up, keep us functioning and should be respected and well paid.

    • @chynnasjrnl
      @chynnasjrnl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@CrazyMama75 Right! I def agree with you both !

  • @pleasestopscreaming
    @pleasestopscreaming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    This man is 50. That's Gen X. He lived a significant portion of his life pre-internet. What was he doing before that? He didn't grow up hoping to be an influencer or dreaming of going viral because they weren't things!

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly. Didn't he have a whole wife with kids before David's vlogs? He should go back to what he was doing before.

  • @amw2005
    @amw2005 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1863

    my mom is an oncologist and obv we’re extremely well off…but why on earth is jeffrey star making more than her as she’s saving lives :( NOTHING MAKES SENSE ANYMOREEEE

    • @vvitch-mist20
      @vvitch-mist20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

      Capitalism, and probably sexism.

    • @_salemtovar_
      @_salemtovar_  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +734

      its the culture in capitalistic places like america unfortunately, they value the football player more than the surgeon who will patch them up at the end of the day...strange.

    • @yin4296
      @yin4296 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

      at one point in time, entertainers had to be actually talented people-oriented creators (a hard thing to come by, even more so than doctors), which is why they were initially so highly paid and sought after. Now it's just about who can create the most addicting content, but advertisers still pay the same now as they did then

    • @buffer_brain1917
      @buffer_brain1917 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      Capitalism rewards things that are rare more than things that are helpful. There are 26,200 Oncologists but only 1 Jeffree Star. Because it’s easier to find an Oncologist than someone as famous as Jeffree Star, corporations will pay alot more money to hire him to compete with other companies who are also trying to hire him.
      It shouldn’t work like this, but unfortunately that how capitalism works.

    • @epicleak
      @epicleak 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      i think about things like this daily, it’s genuinely so sad

  • @Neon_Medusa
    @Neon_Medusa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The grass isn't greener on the other side, it's greener wherever you water it. This is my new mantra, especially for media!!! Thx

  • @TolentinoBT
    @TolentinoBT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1028

    I have a family member that says she wants to be an influencer, and that she’s not meant for that “work life”. She barely wants to graduate high school and that worries me deeply. I also think that this mindset of “getting the easy way out” comes from parents that don’t push their children to become more. I want every one to know that if you’re not going to college, please at least have a plan and a backup plan if the first one fails.

    • @imapotato7391
      @imapotato7391 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

      I feel like a lot of schools don't mention that trade schools are an option as well. Idk why they're so looked down on.

    • @melteddarkchocolate000
      @melteddarkchocolate000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Honestly. Everyone wants to be a streamer or TH-camr but barely knows any financially literacy or basic social skills to surpass. It’s like you can become one however you need a back up plan. Everything is becoming expensive so long fast money turns into short spent stash.

    • @Sweet_Dee
      @Sweet_Dee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

      Agreed. I don't believe that traditional college is the best fit for everyone, but that doesn't mean "do nothing"! Go to a trade school, get a job, learn a profitable skill, find a gap in the market and start selling a service that meets people's need.

    • @cr_ystal5147
      @cr_ystal5147 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imapotato7391i tried going to technical school they rush and they are not helpful teachers they said to me i had to do it alone when i did. So I decided regular college

    • @ahstiasummers5583
      @ahstiasummers5583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      It's like trying to make it big doing only sports or the arts. You have to be exceptionally talented/lucky to make it, and even then you might not make it because most of the industry is about having the right connections. Maybe 1-5% have a chance at making ends meet, and then 0.1% of that group have a chance at making big bucks. The others will need to have it be a side gig or hobby if they don't want to bleed money

  • @SKR00PYN00p3Ls
    @SKR00PYN00p3Ls 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    🦆I'm so glad you are calling these influencers out on their shenanigans. I work a 9-5 and would 100% pick this over the stress of having to constantly reconstruct my image to suit someone else's opinion just to get a few bucks. That's just too much for me. Great work miss! Love listening to you whist I save the world from behind the scenes 😊

  • @ErutaniaRose
    @ErutaniaRose 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +437

    One thing I hate as a disabled person is when the same people complaining that I or other disabled people aren't working when we literally CAN'T due to both limitations and a lack of workplace accommodations--(hopefully not forever for me) are the same people that say they can't work when they are able-bodied and capable of grueling without accommodations!!!
    It's fine to not want to work in shitty conditions, you SHOULD protest that! But saying you can't work while shaming people who actually can't work is just gross.

    • @ambrusin4889
      @ambrusin4889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I think Salem did not talked about disabled people, please, correct me if I`m wrong, it may be that I just missed to see or hear about that matter in this vid. But now that you said it, I can say that I agree with you, I thank god have not ever met people like that, but damn, so sorry if you have.

    • @ErutaniaRose
      @ErutaniaRose 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I haven't finished the video yet, but I'll let you know if there is something. In general, I just like to put in things about disability in more lefty spaces since I don't want disabled people to be forgotten--and from watching on this channel, Salem is chronically ill so she knows about the difficulties and has spoken on it at other times. :)@@ambrusin4889

    • @Ziggy.rabbit
      @Ziggy.rabbit 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I was looking for this comment !! This exactly !! I don’t qualify a lot of jobs, and especially without secondary education. And I can’t get secondary education therefor accommodating jobs because I’m majorly chronically ill and disabled !!

    • @CrazyMama75
      @CrazyMama75 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes! My disabilities don't impact my cognitive usefulness but do affect my physical health and safety, meaning I have the brain that wants to work and has the skills to do a great job, but no one will employ me cos they don't want to fit my necessary accommodations that really are pretty simple. I can get volunteer work, I've got great work experience that way and now get told I've got too much experience by employers who don't want to hire me instead of a non-disabled person with less experience than me. Then we face stigma and governments calling us lazy for not working. It's dehumanising and degrading. While we have able bodied people proudly boasting about how they don't want to work, etc. It's infuriating.

  • @TreesNotBeach
    @TreesNotBeach 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I remember an older video from PewDiePie, who, if I remember correctly said that all his success is just a luck. He made videos, had fun, but didn't plan on becoming so big. Sure, he was kind a well off from the beginning, but still. It sort of wasn't his goal to become big but he did. And years later, he lives his life.

  • @mariiaoreshko
    @mariiaoreshko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +376

    this is the reality check i needed. we need to stop letting *rich online gurus* make us feel bad for working regular jobs, drinking coffee everyday and sleeping 8 hours a day. enough with the guilt trips

    • @LexNuno
      @LexNuno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This is exactly why I've been unfollowing and blocking a lot of celebrities and "influencers". At this point I know how the algorithm works so I purposely engage with content that is more wholesome for me.

    • @unchartedraider7547
      @unchartedraider7547 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Most of us don't get 8 hours of sleep but yes.

  • @ishitasahoo6572
    @ishitasahoo6572 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These influencers made me believe college isn't necessary and because of my naivety I wasted two years after high school, hunting for jobs and finding none. 😭 I learned the hard way that college is necessary and now I'm pursuing my chemistry degree. ❤ I wish people would stop pedestalizing influencers as everyone's situation is different.

  • @thisisnancybot
    @thisisnancybot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +453

    Thank you for defending 9-5s! I’m a part time writer who works a 40 an hour a week day job. This is something I would continue to do even if my books were making enough to pay for my mortgage. My day job is reliable and allows me to pay my bills, care for my diabetic cat and save for my future. It’s uncommon for a creative lifestyle to do that. I have several friends who are full time writers, but they’re only able to do so by being financially supported by their parents or a man. And supportive family members are great but I’ve seen the later lead to toxic situations. There’s no shame in 9-5s!

    • @Sew_OzzyWar_Made_This
      @Sew_OzzyWar_Made_This 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Say it louder!!!

    • @amyrobbins5251
      @amyrobbins5251 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Writers with an unrelated day job unite!! 🎉

    • @sacrealen
      @sacrealen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Girl you do you. No one should be spending their lifetime working and making someone else rich just so we can eat or at least pay rent.
      Not saying we shouldn't pursue our goals, but I really don't see the point on defending 9-5 jobs.

    • @jenjoestar.
      @jenjoestar. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Fr!! Use your everyday job to find your career! The smartest thing ever

    • @thisisnancybot
      @thisisnancybot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@sacrealenI don’t work for a for profit. I’m a public librarian. I’m not making anyone rich.

  • @LexNuno
    @LexNuno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I have my own small cleaning business. Yes I clean toilets for a living but I make full time income working about 12hrs a week. I recently moved back in with my parents at 27 and I'm working hard on saving up money for my next business venture. People look down at me simply because I clean for a living and it's always felt disheartening but I've been learning to take pride in my work and not let others shame me.

  • @vcutler4735
    @vcutler4735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    I was surprised to see Gabby Hannah teaching a fitness class but honestly good for her.
    Honestly I think the biggest social media success story remains Jenna Marbles. She got her money and invested it wisely so when she no longer wanted to make videos she didnt have to. Thats the real smart move there.

  • @avsha1533
    @avsha1533 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    you articulated all my thoughts so well. I'm someone who had a big interest in teaching and education and currently work as a behavior therapist. it deeply upsets me how underpaid teachers are. they are literally educating the next generations, are putting in hard work, love, patience, and time into educating these kids, and they deserve SO much more than what they're getting.

  • @ZombieOwl12
    @ZombieOwl12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    My dad immigrated here when he was very young. He never got the chance to get an education until he came here. He worked really hard to get his associates degree, and always told me and my brother to get an education; that's the one thing no one can take from you

  • @rileyjoy2926
    @rileyjoy2926 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Salem I LOVE this video!! I'm finishing my degree in communications and the more I've learn about content creation/social media the less it has appealed to me. I'm happy I have a communications degree because it's a good degree to have, but I appreciate it most because the skills I have learned are applicable in so many fields beyond social media. It's an excellent foundation to build off of if I want to get a 9-5 job in a different industry than media. I think social media and social media influencers give a very narrow view of the types of content creation jobs/communications jobs are out there and it's upsetting to think that so many kids want to be social media influencers. That said, I wanted to be a TH-camr when I was a kid and now that's not a very appealing job to me, so maybe they'll change their minds as they get older. Anyways, excellent work and excellent video. Also Kenji is adorable.

  • @pandas4evr123197
    @pandas4evr123197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I've become so disillusioned with influencer culture, especially because of how common its become. I tend to only follow influencers who do content as a side gig and still have a more traditional job. I think because of the cost-of-living crisis it's just less enjoyable to see people making insane amounts of money for doing next to nothing. I do still enjoy a lot of influencers who are down-to-earth but I really struggle with how commercialized and phony a lot of content has become lately. No shame in people making money in whatever way they have to, but I do wish that people would stop idolizing influencers to such an insane degree.

    • @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer
      @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I wish that influencers wouldn't be earning more than most doctors.

    • @pandas4evr123197
      @pandas4evr123197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer Exactly! No issues with them earning a living but they earn… so much more than just a living most of the time…

    • @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer
      @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @ville__ nah not you man, get outta here

    • @JuneKafaltiya
      @JuneKafaltiya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@pandas4evr123197 same now, i just watch aesthetic vlogs of clg students especially in med field or similar biology field, it feels motivating, relatable and still connected to the real world

  • @eastgermanhattrick3330
    @eastgermanhattrick3330 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That thing about greener grass was amazing. I’d never heard that before. Thanks for sharing

  • @kacie-lynn
    @kacie-lynn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +213

    “Who is Jason Nash? Gurl, I don’t know. 💁‍♀️”
    Hit my soul. 😂

    • @kacie-lynn
      @kacie-lynn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🦆🦆

    • @sansastark4040
      @sansastark4040 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Insert keke Palmer man I really don’t know who this man is

  • @nanananananananana00
    @nanananananananana00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    this lowkey happens at normal jobs too, definitely not in the same way but watching all of the high-salary, bonus receiving employees receive gifts and money and trips etc for holidays that the LOW PAID hourly employees buy with THIER OWN MONEY??? makes me feel a certain way

  • @LyiachTheArtist
    @LyiachTheArtist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +225

    As a college student who works as a substitute para, I constantly question if me going to my degree is even worth it because people like this make so much money. It's good to know that at least I've building up skills I'll need in life by going to college.

  • @heathermariegaming
    @heathermariegaming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for talking about this and identifying how dystopian tiktok lives are. I watch a commentary channel that reacts to these and the people doing battles literally just sit there and ask people to tap the heart button, to share, and give them galaxies. It's so bizarre. Yes, I wish I could be making some of the coin they are making, but it feels like it would be such a low way to go about getting money. I'm glad you have pride and respect for yourself!

  • @_salemtovar_
    @_salemtovar_  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +312

    WELCOME MY LITTLE PUPPY KENJI TO THE TH-cam FAMILY!

    • @Thepeanutcollector
      @Thepeanutcollector 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Yes! Because they CAN get a job, and they CAN spend less money on extravagant goods and live less lavishly

    • @simplyspice7916
      @simplyspice7916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He's adorable! My husband just brought an 8 week old puppy home 5 days ago, we named him Dozer. Puppies are awesome but alot of work! The kids love him and our other animals will just have to get used to him😅 Congratulations on the new addition, I love your videos!

    • @jasminsoutlet6938
      @jasminsoutlet6938 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m glad you’re back!! Happy Sunday Salem ❤❤

    • @slloyd2008
      @slloyd2008 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just worry that your foundation may be damaging to Kenji. I do love your videos, thank you for sharing them. 🦆

    • @isabelp187
      @isabelp187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think if they are raising money for a good cause it is acceptable and they usually also make a large donation, we cant just rely on them to pay everyones hospital bills, sports fees and that stuff. If its for a charity I also think its good to show more people. Begging for money or setting up a go fund me for themselves is a whole other thing and just simply unethical.

  • @teethbones
    @teethbones 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the little breaks where you ask if we’re still watching! It’s very grounding and reminds me to focus on one things at a time :)))

  • @graciepoo18
    @graciepoo18 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    i absolutely respect and agree with the “i’ll never feel bad for having a regular job and working for things”. even though it seems easier to be an influencer and do nothing to get millions on dollars, it’s more fulfilling to work for stuff. it’s more tiring and requires more energy and effort, but it’s more fulfilling putting in effort and getting rewarded instead of getting everything for free. also builds confidence and self efficacy

  • @ZeckeGegenRechts
    @ZeckeGegenRechts 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I believe a significant issue lies in the cost of living in America. The American dream once promised that hard work would lead to success. Nowadays, people see the reality for what it is. Those attending university face exorbitant student loan debts, while living expenses, housing costs, and healthcare expenses are unmanageable. People are desperate, and aspirations have shifted from dreams of becoming a superstar or NBA player to aspiring influencers. This shift reflects the prevailing desperation. Many find it challenging to survive on normal 9-5 jobs. In the US, teachers often need second jobs during the summer to make ends meet. A potential solution would involve ensuring that wages are commensurate with the cost of living. Also what you have to factor in is, that America is extremely capitalistic. Everything is designed a certain way, so people get the feeling of desperate need.

  • @myuinz
    @myuinz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    i remember this girl interviewing this social media influencer and the influencer was going on and on how she got tattoos on her face, quit her job for social media to be full time, and even burned her high school diploma (but called it a degree🤥) and the interviewer was saying how dumb she was, that she can’t get a real job now she has tattoos on her face, and social media isn’t forever. although the lady was a bit rude in how she was delivering it, she was right. people in the comments were so mad about how the interviewer just ran on the girl’s parade but she just gave the girl a slap of reality.

  • @ruthr3180
    @ruthr3180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad there are people like you who work in the digital space that advocates for post secondary education. You, your sister, simplynailogical, joanna ceddia, and even anthpo who left the social media to focus on getting a career have voiced that they like youtube, tiktok, etc but inform their audiences that an education is going to take them further than their influencer life will. Thank you for talking about this, and congrats on the puppy ❤

  • @hannah-814
    @hannah-814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    I teach high school seniors. I don't push my kids toward any specific path, but I do push them to think about what they want their life to look like and what skills and interests they have. I have a couple of students who say they want to be influencers, mostly because they want an 'easy' job. I always push back and try to make them think about all the planning and effort that this may take (What are you going to do to stand out? What kind of branding are you going to create for yourself?). I'm never going to outright discourage a student, but i think it's important to make them think critically that being an influencer is not going to just be having money and going on brand trips.

    • @gustavus0013
      @gustavus0013 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tbh I feel super inflected about this discourse because it reminds me how older gens would discourage us from pursuing creative degrees/jobs.

  • @ninarubi6034
    @ninarubi6034 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Salem this video brought me so much reassurance. im 18 and just finished high school and I feel so much pressure to try and persue some kind of social media job because it seemed like people working a 9-5 don't have a good work - life balance or income, but this made me feel so much more secure in my decision to have a regular career. thanks so much for your hard work on this vid ♡ ♡ ♡

  • @jaidaletexier
    @jaidaletexier 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

    all jokes aside I’m proud of gabby Hanna, I grew up watching her and seeing her escape social media, get a job where she looks happy at is just awesome motivational👏🏽🙏🏽

    • @yankee7238
      @yankee7238 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Same ! So glad she finally found happiness ( i hope ) again ! Her mental health looks so much better now :)

  • @cyrahkingsley2187
    @cyrahkingsley2187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “The grass is greener wherever you water it” so true ❤️

  • @helulia
    @helulia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I love my job, I love the stability, I love having pension, I love having savings, I love being able to afford my apartment, I love the invaluable experience of working shifts at a hotel, which might seem tedious but it's actually fun and interesting, I will never share my life online cause the cost is not worth the reward, privacy is a privilege.

  • @bluefaeriefury1614
    @bluefaeriefury1614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "The grass is greener wherever you water it" 😲😲 never heard truer words 👏🏻👏🏻 love your videos, Salem!! 😄❤

  • @JuniperLucas555
    @JuniperLucas555 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    It is really surreal that the average person goes to work day by day and busts their butt but can’t afford rent yet some of these influencers literally just sit there and beg and can afford so much more

  • @JoannaHolman
    @JoannaHolman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Something that's extra frustrating about these influencers begging for money is there is skills they could have learned if they were willing to put in the effort that would have both benefited their influencer career and been marketable for normal jobs when they were done. They could have developed graphic design or video editing skills working on their own content, they could have learned to interpret marketing metrics, they could have learned public speaking, they could have developed systems for managing staff/contractors, they could have developed their sales skills. So many ways a savvy influencer could make themselves an appealing future candidate for normal jobs but they don't bother.

  • @11namesknow6
    @11namesknow6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    I think the main issue is really the fact that normal jobs just don't pay enough. Being a successful influencer does, why wouldn't anyone want to be an influencer? Especially as it's "low effort". And also how expensive college has become people don't want to be tied down into debt. And also hustle culture bros.

    • @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer
      @SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Anyone can be an influencer but not anyone can be a SUCCESSFUL influencer.
      You need to have the right connections, be conventionally pretty and have one of the cookie cutter personalities (extroverted, quirky or awkward). Even then it might not work out...

    • @keeleyhank6812
      @keeleyhank6812 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's not the issue. People are lazy and they need attention. You have to LOVE attention and be a narcissist to be an influencer.

    • @sacrealen
      @sacrealen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@keeleyhank6812Wait till you realise Salem is also an influencer lol

    • @Val-xx
      @Val-xx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer To be a stereotypical “influencer”yeah but being a successful TH-camr there’s a lot of paths like animation, compilations, specific niches, commentary, Vtubing, and sm more that you don’t need connections or looks, not saying those are easy to achieve either tho

  • @anneenna9755
    @anneenna9755 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cannot express enough how much I love this video. I agree with what you said, 100%. Social media and chronically online people have made it seem that having a regular day job is lowly, pitiful, and unimportant, but what they don't realize is that the world will fall apart if everyone who has a regular job decides to quit. Like, have we not learned anything about the financial security that these jobs give? I'll take a fixed but sure salary every month over virality-induced spurts of money any day. It's all just super sad, thank you for speaking facts.

  • @crewtwospace
    @crewtwospace 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +890

    You and your sister are one of the only Latina commentary TH-camrs that I’ve seen and I really appreciate it. Bc it’s hard to feel represented in this sub genre of youtube

    • @_salemtovar_
      @_salemtovar_  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +214

    • @paresseuxdesneiges
      @paresseuxdesneiges 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Who is her sister

    • @c.m.leavemealone
      @c.m.leavemealone 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Uu who's her sister gimme a name i will take a look^^

    • @jizzypuff
      @jizzypuff 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @@c.m.leavemealonepenny Tovar she was a hair influencer

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @ville__no one cares lol

  • @venusadum302
    @venusadum302 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this video, I realized that a lot of those thoughts of “who wouldnt wanna live like that” were internalized after growing up on social media almost all one’s life, and im a ‘99 baby so I cant IMAGINE growing up as these kids nowadays and basically being raised by social media LITERALLY their whole life! I used to wanna have a platform and slowly realized ew i dont wanna walk around and people recognize me everywhere and have to put on a face for the camera all the time. That grass is not greener for me

  • @soleyaastra7099
    @soleyaastra7099 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    "There is no shame in working hard for the things that you want"
    PREACH is all I'm gonna say 🙏🏻

  • @RocketJenGen
    @RocketJenGen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really appreciate you saying this as an influencer yourself. My 7 year old niece keeps telling me she wants to be "a tic tocker" and while I'm never going to be the adult to dash her dreams... I just keep telling her that there are a lot of skills she needs to learn as an investment in herself if her dream is to reach that level and have a shot at maintaining it. Having a fall back plan isn't giving up, it's a long term investment in you. Great video... I'll definitely be showing it to her at some point.

  • @hsfhanaa
    @hsfhanaa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Shout out to Gabbie for realizing who she became in her mental spiral due to social media was impacting her life and taking a step away and finding a healthier lifestyle. Thats really admirable and I'm glad she is doing okay

  • @chelinka777
    @chelinka777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK YOUU why do ppl put influencers on a pedestal like that

  • @emilyeicher7606
    @emilyeicher7606 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +387

    The only thing I disagree with here is the meritocracy. Working hard should be for things like uplifting your communities and building relationships with your neighbors. Hard work should not be for basic needs. The lure of influencing is only getting stronger because nobody wants to bust their asses 8 hours a day and watch their bodies and mind suffer, just to only be able to maybe pay rent and buy food. It’s a symptom of such a larger problem. No shade! I always enjoy your videos. 🦆✌️

    • @Musinator95
      @Musinator95 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Thank you for this one. I agree!

    • @luraymoondust
      @luraymoondust 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @JackJackIsBackBack
      @JackJackIsBackBack 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Never thought about how working hard vs hard work is very different! Good point!

    • @iamroughtrees
      @iamroughtrees 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      "It's a symptom of such a larger problem."
      Yep, you nailed it. Been looking for this one!!

    • @erielkiersten
      @erielkiersten 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss!

  • @brandij3817
    @brandij3817 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My thing is you gain a lot of business social savvy skills from having to run sponsorships and organize schedules and recording videos and editing them and marketing yourself. They have a lot of skills they just don’t wanna apply them to a corporate job….

  • @Cashhhhew
    @Cashhhhew 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I went back to college at 24, now just graduated my MPH at 28! I also just landed my first “big girl job” as an executive administrator after many years as a vet tech and server. It’s never too late. I have a lot of vet tech friends in their 30s starting vet school now as well. Never say “I can’t do that- it’s too late”. Jason Nash could easily get into real estate or insurance. You don’t have to get hired by someone else, you can always start your own thing as long as you’re willing to put the work in. School will always be there and it will always count as “experience”.

    • @emillo9388
      @emillo9388 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congrats on graduating!

  • @iidaia
    @iidaia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how I was listening to this video on the background while doing other stuff, and I got an add about a reality show that was EXACTLY about this situation AND I thought it was a part of your video.

  • @Nicole-zh7pl
    @Nicole-zh7pl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Gabbi not only looks fulfilled but she looks healthier mentally. Yes..there's a look. Jason looks beat tf down and sad. Thank you for saying what you're saying because kids (and some adults...and even SOME middle-aged children) don't get it.

  • @_sunchildd
    @_sunchildd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    salem, what kind of foundation are you wearing here?! and what kind of brush or sponge do you use to apply it?! your makeup looks FLAWLESS here. i needs itttt!! 🥰🥰

  • @YoursTrulyKaitlin
    @YoursTrulyKaitlin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    I tell everyone in my life that my goal is to have a 9-5 office job because I love typing, answering phones, and doing paper work lol they think I'm boring or crazy even for wanting that but it's stable, not too fast paced, I get benefits, and I don't have to work holidays. It's honestly perfect compared to all other jobs I've had in the past 🥰 can't wait to get me an office job when I get out of college 😂❤

    • @lovers807
      @lovers807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Honestly though manifesting my office era

    • @Plantshi
      @Plantshi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Damn i wish i could say that. I mean its stable yes but corporate world is making me honestly depressed.

    • @bradiedean7466
      @bradiedean7466 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And this is why all jobs should pay a living wage. We'd have a lot fewer shortages in essential but low paying fields since there are always people who would enjoy the work but don't think it's financially feasible

  • @stillcelestial
    @stillcelestial 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Adapt & evolve is all I can say. Never get too comfortable Jason is a good reminder of that.

  • @ahilikedinos
    @ahilikedinos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    I will never take advice from someone who could buy me

    • @ahilikedinos
      @ahilikedinos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ville__ ...came

  • @_marloesvh
    @_marloesvh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    'The grass is greener wherever you water it' girl, truthhhhh!

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    We appreciate how well you articulate your own insights. Keep working hard as always.

  • @jiliciar.1423
    @jiliciar.1423 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really appreciate this video. Especially part 3, seeing people going after their dream job and going back to school. 😊❣

  • @Flawlesslmperfection
    @Flawlesslmperfection 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I agree that influencers should have a backup plan, but just want to add that college and university degrees aren't the only option. There are lots of trades programs and apprenticeships out there too. Trades jobs can pay well and are in demand because SO many people go the academic route instead.

  • @tangsprite
    @tangsprite 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    when I saw that video of Gabby, honestly I was so happy for her. I wasn’t even a fan but I was inundated w the coverage when all of it went down back then. she looks so much happier and healthier than the last time we saw her. 🦆

  • @Izzy-lb9pb
    @Izzy-lb9pb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    working 40-50 hours a week also shouldn't be the norm. I want to live my life, not barely survive and spend most of my days at work... but I definitely agree with you that aspiring to be an influencer isn't sustainable.

    • @edwardlovrr
      @edwardlovrr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It really sucks unfortunately that is still reality because the people in power still demand it. It’s sad but your body does adjust to that lifestyle after a few months. Not easy at all however I don’t think it’s going to change anytime soon 😢

  • @_bando_
    @_bando_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The grass is greener wherever you water it.. love that!

  • @P0tat0ssh0uldb3blu3
    @P0tat0ssh0uldb3blu3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Things people also need to think about is what will happen when these apps are no longer popular, or worse, get deleted? I know making webcomics isn’t exactly the same thing as posting on social media, but I’ll use it as an example. There have been multiple times where a site for webcomics has gotten deleted, and the people who make the webcomics for that site are at best left without the artwork and story they spent irreplaceable time making, and at worse their only source of income. This could be the same for TH-camrs, TikTokers, or other influencers at some point. People definitely need to make backup plans and not rely on one place to put all their time and content into, that is if they want to make content creation a full time thing. 🦆

  • @saraheb5080
    @saraheb5080 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We sit around all day watching people live life, we need to get out there and live for ourselves. It’s sick what social media has done to us and I’m glad I broke free.

  • @boat3501
    @boat3501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Aw, I love your stuff so much. I find it super weird how finance has become so tied to famous people. Their jobs are how they should be making money via sponsorships (the INFLUENCING), not people. I think it’s linked to how society has normalized video games costs (follow with me here). Since Fortnite released, it’s revolutionized payment for video games and brought microtransactions into the mainstream. Along with apps on a phone, many have gotten used to “just spending $5” to get no ads, extras, or supporting a creator because it doesn’t seems like all that much. It becomes exploitative as there’s been such a normalization of this.

    • @Naomi67276
      @Naomi67276 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Will forever hate how I can’t play that hello kitty island game because id have to pay 5$ every month in the apple arcade. It’s just insane!

  • @becksWer
    @becksWer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think it's so sad that most people who call themselves influencers don't even recognise that it comes from the word (to) influence. They just think posting themselves living a nice and glamorous life is everything they have to do and than they get everything they want for free but it's not. They (should) need to have something good/helpful whatever with what they can influence others to do or have. As you said, many of them just tell their community how fancy everything is and that they don't need to have to go to school or learn a job. No wonder that young people just want to become an "influencer".

  • @n.eliana3933
    @n.eliana3933 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    My mom always tells me that even if I for whatever reason don't end up working as an architect, which is what I'm in college for, nobody can take my degree and my education from me. These influencers try to make us feel dumb for having a normal job or going to college 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @anttonism
    @anttonism 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely two years I have changed my life completely, I stopped being in the virtual world 24/7, worry about being aware of everything on the internet and not being connected with my family, now I just focused on my real life that was almost on the floor, maybe I didn't get into college this year but I got a job to have some money and work experience. :D

  • @cynthiastephanie2371
    @cynthiastephanie2371 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The grass is greener where ever you water it- beautifully said!

  • @jaywan5553
    @jaywan5553 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love having a job. I owned my own business for awhile and it was going well but I hated it. I don’t live for my job and owning your business takes over your life, I imagine being an Influencer is the same. I really like having a start time, finish time, knowing exactly what my income is and having a separate personal and work life.

    • @leblanchairstudio
      @leblanchairstudio 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaywan5553 omg I’m closing my business as well and my do I feel free?! Time to put this degree to use!

  • @lol1610
    @lol1610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    how tf did jason nash earn a living before vlog squad then?? hes way older than david dobrik. he must have had some kind of job and maybe/probably fumbled that pretty bad if hes not learned how to money and is trying to hang on to "influencer" money this hard

    • @5naf6
      @5naf6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      he's like over 50, he should have been working for decades

    • @ra-wj1wl
      @ra-wj1wl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Apparently he was on snl, worked as a writer , failed on all of his endeavours and was sustaining on his ex-wife’s money later on. But i still dont believe him being broke broke as when they were making big money he was always seen advising david on how to be responsible with his money.

  • @Jay-ko2ql
    @Jay-ko2ql 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i only browse youtube nowadays and its so insane to hear the shift in what is appreciated and not appreciated now… i love learning and would love to continue college even after i graduate later in life, theres just so many things to learn and people to meet. i cant imagine giving that up for wanting things handed to yu

  • @biteofdog
    @biteofdog 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I think it is so cool that Gabbie found a fulfilling job that helps people be healthier and that she can be in a positive environment around interesting people. It just sounds like a good match for her jobwise.

  • @samyatang
    @samyatang 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “The grass is greener where you water it.” I need that framed. That’s exactly what I needed to hear today.

  • @JennaRahimeh
    @JennaRahimeh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I rly love how Salem thinks and thought about her videos, i genuinely told all my friends and family about her when i started watching.. before male gaze era and these vids, i rly like wut Salem put for us, it's calm, soothing, in the same time full of information and fun

  • @ladyclairee2424
    @ladyclairee2424 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this humbling and REAL perspective from someone that has a large following. This is truly wise advice to keep in mind before jumping head first into a career that doesn’t have guaranteed continued success. I admit I’ve spent a majority of my life desperately wishing I would’ve taken that leap of faith and started a channel.. but I’m glad I held off because life happens.. and now I have so much better of an understanding of the industry and what it takes to stay relevant and successful.. thank you, truly for educating the younger generation about the cautions we should keep in mind before stepping into that field. The cherry on top? Heeding advice for life skills as always plan B if anything. Bravo Salem 👏🏼

  • @LLCoolJ_25
    @LLCoolJ_25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    These influencers would not last a day in corporate America. You have to “up-skill” in the IT field, if you want to continue to increase your value for employers. It’s kind of stressful, but can be exciting. Learning new skills is something a lot of people have to do. I have heard my coworker’s bf wants to make their baby a model, so they can make a lot of money. Like dear god, no. Let your child be able to decide what they want to pursue in their life.

  • @Musikenna
    @Musikenna 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You can not accept real advice from fake people.

  • @usako_jpn
    @usako_jpn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Tyler the Creator had an interview with Jimmy Kennel. He mentioned about working at Starbucks and UPS. Tyler went from working like anyone else to becoming a well known rapper/songwriter. Winning awards and selling albums that reached charts. People tend to forget that artist and even influencers/youtuber started like everyone else, no matter.

    • @zari2662
      @zari2662 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know Jimmy Kennel is a typo but that made me chuckle lol

  • @anyastrydom2098
    @anyastrydom2098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently started working and in the beginning it’s scary putting yourself out there like that, but once you cross the threshold you realize that “oh, this isn’t as bad as i thought it would be”.

  • @whyareureadingthis2037
    @whyareureadingthis2037 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Most most influencers and celebrities are struggling financially or are broke in my eyes, because most of them arent acting a like clown online for free but definitely for cloud/PR

  • @NIAAESTHTIC
    @NIAAESTHTIC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is why I highly respect Salem she is aware that influencing is not glimmer and she actually has had a real job before! Great job Salem 🤗