nothing makes me lose respect for someone faster than when they dunk on poor people unprovoked, especially now when so many people are struggling to survive right now. so many causes for poverty are out of most people's control so I hate it when people imply that being poor is some kind of personal failing when 99% of the time it isn't, but it's especially ironic coming from someone who's only rich because they got lucky and became tik tok famous
“When she was struggling with her mental health her friends encouraged her to get on TikTok and be herself” instead of encouraging her to find help for her mental health? I’m gonna say those were not her friends
Let’s not equate being loud and mean as confidence.. also just because you dress showing your body when you were “big” doesn’t mean you were confident.. she’s got a lot of healing to do.
Fannita is a case where if one does not work on themselves on the inside. Their traumas and shadows, then the change on the outside won't matter. She can say that content creators of color aren't treated fairly, but when she had the opportunity to stand in solidarity during the tarte situation she didn't hésite to go on that trip.
I’m shocked she admitted she always felt this way but only released her mean thoughts untill she was skinny because she could “get away” with it ???? that’s so upsetting and disappointing idk how her audience trusts her anymore
Unfortunately that's the truth. That's why her audience trusts her. Because that is our EXACT reality. The very frickin truth we've now come to reject in the new century but it's still true. 11:32
Unfortunately as bad as it sounds I can get why she thinks like that because those who are considered attractive get away with saying the most diabolical things compared to those who are not🤷🏾♀️ can hate on her and society for such nonsense
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Even as someone who occasionally watches asmr I prefer video essays like this to have your normal voice over the whispering and soft spoken voice. Love your video Salem but the whispering does make it hard to listen to 😭
Seriously! I love ASMR too, but trying to listening to her opinion for 30 minutes like this? I had to take pauses, because it got so much on my nerves at some point + when she drank that water 😩
@@thegoldthatglitterssame! I love Salem's docu-series vids regardless of her spoken style ~ those of you complaining, go ahead & turn up the volume if you don't like this quieter 'ASMR' style maybe? But, as a lot of people asked her to try ASMR for ages... so she's giving it a go! I personally find her voice super relaxing & enjoy her ASMR style 😊
In the text exchange regarding her backing into the waitress, the drug phentermine is mentioned. If she is taking it, it can cause behavioral changes. Just sayin’
@@GaiaCarney Ah. Glad you mentioned that, because I was about to say anyone that treats people like that needs canceling and a slow fade into obscurity. Trauma and mental illness are no excuse for that, but a drug induced behavioral change is. I hope those around her recognize this and get her help.
The fact that she’s calling everybody else stupid yet she doesn’t understand that the tarte situation makes her calling out the unequal pay seem redundant, is very funny. She obviously did not care until it affected her personally.
I had witness and seen some TH-cam content creators who are like that. They insult the very people who support them the most through view count, thumbs up and other ways. Very baffling. These are the TH-camrs who don't last for long. MrBeast has over 500millions of followers for a reason. He gives back!!!!
plus size creators suddenly becoming skinny after using their money on surgery and ozempic and then bullying others and acting like they’re better than everyone else directly after is so infuriating lmao
"This is why it's so important to work on yourself internally before you change yourself externally" oh my goodness this is such a point! i never really realized this, but you are so right!
Has to be something, or a propensity for mania and psychosis (changes in eating habits and nutrition can cause this). But she doesn’t even act like the same person and this erratic behaviour is not just “getting famous” or rich or “glowing up”
I was thinking just that as soon as i saw the video. The outbursts and getting skinnier, obv is not the only way, but i know some girls that have purposely done coke to get skinny. Might be just work but idk 🤷🏻♀️👀
She was talking about how not everyone meets our society’s standards of beauty and attractiveness, and that it’s okay. And that should be something that we need to be okay with hearing. It upsets people because we are conditioned to value and treat attractive people better, but stating the truth is a good step towards acknowledging beauty as just one trait that a) doesn’t define a person and b) doesn’t determine how others treat you.
wish the captions were manually made with punctuation and accuracy, it's a bit hard to hear what you're saying due to the whispering, and the discrepancy between words being said and the accepted auto captions doing whatever it wants makes parts of the video hard to understand.
I take issue with the original statement she made on that podcast. Because she’s right, but she should have phrased it differently. Beauty is subjective and the definition of it is so diverse, so technically anyone could be unattractive to anyone. Even the most desired person in the world could be viewed as unattractive to some. Not everyone is beautiful because it’s a subjective term.
Not exactly. Not everyone is physically attractive because it is mostly OBJECTIVE. And yes it is subjective but only to a lesser extent but A LOT less than people think and not in the way u think. The range of subjectivity only applies between people that are already generally considered attractive where one might prefer one over the other based on personal preference. For example when u compare a sunset to a sunrise, they are both considered aesthetically pleasing but people might prefer one over the other.
Secondly ur talking ab the general term "beauty" as in aesthetically pleasing which is not exactly the same as human physical attractiveness. U can have a face that is aesthetically pleasing to someone yet not be attractive to them. In terms of general beauty, yes it can be very subjective in things like architecture, but also in intangible things, thats what "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" refers to, but same can't be applied for human physical attractiveness.
@@miabellaperez3367it’s not mostly objective. like at all. we physically do not see everyone the same. our personal interpretation of someone’s character influences the way we see them physically. and it will never be the same as the next. even if both of us think megan fox is the most beautiful woman in the world, we see her differently.
When somebody is going off about somebody being stupid. The call is inside the house. Basically, she got skinny. Just like people get rich, and she's showing us who she really is. May I suggest something called therapy.
It’s not an excuse though, she very clearly had low self esteem as well as the bad attitude, and she clearly still has the low self esteem since she trash talks her past appearance so much, once again it never justified her bad attitude but saying that there was no low self esteem there as well is honestly a huge stretch
I'm surprised she had ANY fan base for that nasty thought process in the first place. Its hilarious that now they're the ones she's focusing all that talk on, she's SUDDENLY a bad person. Just because she struggled doesn't mean she gets to put people down now that she finally feels beautiful
I unfollowed her after seeing the rant of her telling her followers she hates them! How anyone followed her after that voice memo to that waitress blew my mind, that was absolutely vile
It depends on your perspective and experience about beauty. Unfornately she isn't wrong but she didn't filter her word in an appropriate mindful way. There a danger to being "yourself" unleashed drunk on pretty peiviledge- you can grow ego then when people figure you out it's not pretty.
From the way her eyes looked before compared to her eyes now, I’d not be too surprised if she’s currently having some king of manic episode. She looks really mentally unwell. I hope she gets help, if that’s the case
The sad part is she was legit gorgeous plus size too. What's making her unpleasant now is how nasty she's being to people who didn't do anything to cause her anger. She's making legit points but she's doing it under the "I'm just being honest" guise that is often used as a way to just say mean things.
but doja was shaming ‘fans’ for attacking her, hating on her new music, etc. at least she had a REASON to talk back and give the same energy her ‘fans’ were giving..the girl..on the other hand, is just straight up shaming her fans, thinking she’s superior.
Damn. I was really excited for this video topic but my sensory issues can’t stand the ASMR mic / soft whisper talk combo. No hate this is a super well researched video and you are so lovely, but I wish you would talk at a normal register. Just some feedback not meant to be negative criticism😅
Also i think such a big reason for her not working on her insecurities is that she got surgery and didn't even really have time, or like the time she would've had without surgery, to process her transformation and really work on that stuff and see her body over time changing.
Thank you so much for your videos! I’m an educator and I’ve been watching TH-camrs who can explain social media drama to me so I can better understand my teen student’s online experiences… without having to sign up for TikTok, etc myself. I really appreciate your compassionate, supportive takes on these issue.
Are you whispering more? 😅 I’m watching the video at low volume cause it’s night time and I can’t hear 😅 I love asmr but can’t stand this for some reason, which makes me sad bc I love your videos
So weird cuz just last night I was talking to my mom about what a mind F it is to have been bigger & smaller several times in life & how wildly different the experience is.
I would and will not give this girl a second of my time outside of your videos. She has the absolute worst attitude and approach, she better be saving up whatever money she is making for that inevitable backslide. 🦆
14:49 "sorry i cheated on you, my grandma died" same vibes💀💀 Also: It Is true. Everyone (most people) don't think every single person is beautiful, that ain't the point of beauty positivity, the point is that it doesn't matter what you look like you are your own type of beauty. She always had problems on delivery her thoughts 🤠 She called everyone dumb but she doesn't even know the point of such a big movement 💀💀 thoughts and prayers
Cuz of her voice used in that vid, the constructive criticism is good. But the rest, y'all don't gotta watch if ya don't like it, I mean it ain't the first time she's talking like this.
Right Message, Wrong Messenger. She lowkey 'forgot her place' (Bear with me, bear with me) She forgot that she was the comedic relief. That loud, mean girl, B.S was cute when she was big, but now she that associates herself (very poorly) with the people she used to demonize, it's an issue. She was always this way, it was just funnier when she was bigger because no one took her seriously in the first place.
Venom is technically an anti-hero, not a full villain. The symbiote you're thinking of, who is a villain, is Carnage. Fannita got bitten by the skinny beetch virus 😮.
There’s nothing unique about fajitas anymore. She is no different than any other content creator who speaks out of “their mouth”. “I hate my fanbase” Well then go get a job.
Would you consider speaking louder in your videos? Or at least mixing it so that everything is closer to the same volume? You whispering and then all the clips shouting by comparison is really hard on the ears.
I was so annoyed. I literally stomped to the comments, cause wtf?! The voice is uber fake and I don’t think I’m going to make it through, and I really wanted to watch this.
Salem I love ur content and always watch when you upload. I usually don’t comment but this video was hard to listen to.. The whispering is overstimulating (especially the ads). I just want to listen to the video with ur regular voice at a regular volume 🥲
I’ve disliked her ever since she laughed and hyped up Bretman Rocks mom after she threw boiling oil at her husbands mistress and dragged her on the floor. It was so dystopian seeing the, laugh at that situation.
that’s so messed up. also it’s crazy that she went after the mistress instead of the husband if she was gonna go attack someone…like the mistress wasn’t the one that broke a sacred vow with you
@@coolchameleon21it’s not tooo crazy, a whole grown woman was being paid in her home and disrespecting her by engaging with her husband in front of her children probly the entire time she was there. Grown decisions have grown consequences
Wow can't believe I needed this video. Usually I watch your videos because of how well-structured they are and how calming you sound, how informative and interesting the speech is. This video kinda helped me realize my own problematic behavior which stems from my low self-esteem.
I came into the comments just for this. But i also don't watch or enjoy any asmr. It's slightly very annoying instead of calming like people say it is for them
@celestialceleste369 I feel seen. I thought I was the only one who struggled with the ASMR trend. I do, however, like Salem and her content amd can get through most videos.😅
Salem, it's not even specific to this video individually, but just your stuff in general - thank you for your energy and your content. I had such a long day today for Father's Day, and while I love my and my husband's family, I became so burnt out and so over stimulated from our gathering that I just laid in a dark room for 30 minutes trying to reground myself. The first thing that I could listen to was your really calm and soothing voice. I normally hate ASMR, just not my thing usually, but your voice has such a soft and gentle quality to it that it was somehow so soothing. So, again, not specific to this topic, but just thank you for your videos.
Even losing a few pant size (I went from a 3x to a 1x) is jarring on my mind but I'm glad that I started therapy and have a support system around me to help bridge the gap
Salem, you have a beautiful voice for ASMR but I think it just took a lot of the audience aback being out of nowhere. Maybe just have it in your title next time :) and please don’t abandon your regular voice videos❤
@iH3artKitties indicated that although they don't always watch ads when they have the ability to skip them, they may watch it if it catches their attention, the whispers made it immediately clear they weren't inclined to watch it, so if they might want to get more view time on the ads this is constructive criticism. Statement of personal perspective, declaration of interest and intention, identified a major problem for them, clear feedback provided
@onyxhasautism3889 well it oddly does the opposite for me. I skip it when people speak normally and especially when they speak loudly. It hurts my sensitive ears.😂
@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed and that would be your personal opinion and feedback, different perspectives, personally I didn't like the whispered ads but I do love thought out sponsorships such as some more news
@@iH3artKitties idk, can't imagine I'm the only one, personally I'd want to know as a creator🤷♀️, I don't think I was mean about it, but whispering into a microphone makes my skin crawl
This reminds me of Caitlyn Jenner. Though she transitioned to live her truth and encouraged others to do the same, the spirit of a conservation white man is deep in her.
Hey girl just started watching but unfortunately I may have to stick to your old videos without the whispering. As others in the comments have stated, ASMR works in its own space but I think for some neurodivergent people it’s just too much in this long-form content. My constructive criticism would be to maybe just start labeling the ASMR videos as ASMR. It can be disappointing when I really want to get into this video but I physically cannot with the whispers.
I can't take the asmr whispering element of this video. I'm going to go find a different video about Fannita. I'll be back for the next non-asmr video. 😁
She didn’t change, society just would rather hear disrespectful things being said by people they look down on so they never take them seriously, she’s always been this way. It’s more of an everyone else problem because you can’t make someone with a specific personality popular then be made when they are who they are.
@potatowellcox8870 well, i followed her for her funny "hear me out" tiktoks where she'd just just lust over men. i remember those tiktoks were the ones that got thousands of likes cuz before i didn't even know her. yea, she's always been loud and proud. but i think the subject of her content *did* change into morally ehhh. her old viral stuff compared to her new viral stuff is bad... because now instead, shes getting negative attention instead of positive
This is getting way and way more asmr whisperey . Why? I swear this wasn’t an original part of the brand, and I’ve been following for ages and I can’t listen any more. Gutted because I love Salem and don’t know why this is necessary
Why are people complaining about the asmr when in all her latest videos she's mentioned asmr in her intros 💀 She's not even whispering (it's just more soft spoken than usual) Like wtf you mean you can't hear what she's saying 😭 I can hear her perfectly. Or put on some damn earphones Side note, your ren faire outfit looked so good!
@@Alienaddikt his mom basically got into a fight with the house maid because she saw that her husband was cheating on her. After she saw him cheating on her, she grabbed a pot of hot boiling water and poured it on the maid leaving her permanently deformed.
I don't want to speculate really on people's mental health, but I do have to say, she does have that look in her eyes. I don't know her mental health but I wouldn't put it past her that this is a manic episode. Regardless I hope she gets better and I hope she gets the healing that she needs and can become a better person
I still can't understand how people like this have any followers at all. If she doesn't get canceled, that tells you a lot about the people who follows her since she's being telling them how she hates them. Like seriously 🙄
What does not sit right with me is that influencers have the financial reassures to seek professional help / a modest PR team / align themselves with a religion / go to a retreat / get involved with a helpful temple or church….and yet they chose to fail themselves. They chose to not seek help.
Self hate disguised as confidence is the hardest to watch
yesss when people start bringing others down in order to uplift themselves...it's giving very much low self esteem i fear!!!
@@_salemtovar_I love your cool calm voice ❤❤❤❤❤
I agree!!
So right 😢
Comments trying to be relatable and relevant are the ones that annoy me the most! 😂😂😂
nothing makes me lose respect for someone faster than when they dunk on poor people unprovoked, especially now when so many people are struggling to survive right now. so many causes for poverty are out of most people's control so I hate it when people imply that being poor is some kind of personal failing when 99% of the time it isn't, but it's especially ironic coming from someone who's only rich because they got lucky and became tik tok famous
well said. completely agree with you.
“When she was struggling with her mental health her friends encouraged her to get on TikTok and be herself” instead of encouraging her to find help for her mental health? I’m gonna say those were not her friends
yeah wtf that is so strange to suggest going on tiktok to be yourself instead of seeking help
Those friends sounds like they are chronically online 💀
You can’t be friends with someone like her. You can only just tell them what they want to hear to rush them off the phone 😂
Or ppl who really dont have any other outputs for these issues :(
@@sinestesianestesia9079 yeah she was in a bad place financially I really doubt she would have been able to go to therapy
someone tell her to stop doing drugs and going on tiktok vents... them eyes look possessed
@@rabiaaylmazdr7533 I’m reading this while at 19:46 🤣🤣🤣
Fr it's giving manic 💀
Ur paying her bills 💀
@@PreppyPrincesss been 3+ months sine the last time i saw any content about fanita
@rabiaaylmazdr7533 ohhh sorry I thought u we’re talking about Salem 🩷
I hate it when people use financial status as a diss. Its sad and unoriginal.
Few insults annoy me more. Anyone can become broke, so please humble thy self.
Exactly because it’s objective. Not everyone values wealth and materialistic things. These ppl want validation so bad
Finance and unchangeable appearance insults are honestly trash. Like the game is rigged for and against people at birth!
Especially since she’s begging those same people she’s downing to give her money
And it's irrelevant.
Let’s not equate being loud and mean as confidence.. also just because you dress showing your body when you were “big” doesn’t mean you were confident.. she’s got a lot of healing to do.
Wow this is facts. Never thought about this , great point. Jesus Loves you , God bless 🫶🏽
Fannita is a case where if one does not work on themselves on the inside. Their traumas and shadows, then the change on the outside won't matter. She can say that content creators of color aren't treated fairly, but when she had the opportunity to stand in solidarity during the tarte situation she didn't hésite to go on that trip.
The Tarte trip situation totally slipped my mind when making this video, thank you for bringing that up!
@@_salemtovar_ your welcome 🌻
Yep, I went through that in my 20's. On the outside I was beautiful, but on the inside I was rotten.
@@sleepyspacegremlinand bless you for changing that for yourself...feel proud to be able to see that now! Makes me feel happy!
yeah. it makes the rest of us people of colour look sooo bad
It wasn't a change in personality. She is the same.
Mhm she just has the shield of thinness on her side now
I’m shocked she admitted she always felt this way but only released her mean thoughts untill she was skinny because she could “get away” with it ????
that’s so upsetting and disappointing idk how her audience trusts her anymore
Unfortunately that's the truth. That's why her audience trusts her. Because that is our EXACT reality.
The very frickin truth we've now come to reject in the new century but it's still true.
11:32
@ville__No fucking way...
Unfortunately as bad as it sounds I can get why she thinks like that because those who are considered attractive get away with saying the most diabolical things compared to those who are not🤷🏾♀️ can hate on her and society for such nonsense
To be honest, her interview where she said everyone is not beautiful revealed exactly how she felt.
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Even as someone who occasionally watches asmr I prefer video essays like this to have your normal voice over the whispering and soft spoken voice. Love your video Salem but the whispering does make it hard to listen to 😭
That's so funny to me because I was thinking just the opposite lol
Ikr. It makes me cringe in the most respectful way possible. Just a little less whispery a would be great 😅
I agree! The half-whisper makes me cringe, I almost can’t listen to it
Seriously! I love ASMR too, but trying to listening to her opinion for 30 minutes like this? I had to take pauses, because it got so much on my nerves at some point + when she drank that water 😩
@@thegoldthatglitterssame! I love Salem's docu-series vids regardless of her spoken style ~ those of you complaining, go ahead & turn up the volume if you don't like this quieter 'ASMR' style maybe? But, as a lot of people asked her to try ASMR for ages... so she's giving it a go! I personally find her voice super relaxing & enjoy her ASMR style 😊
She got skinny and somehow also lost the ability toooo close her eyes properly? Like. Babe. Blink.
In the text exchange regarding her backing into the waitress, the drug phentermine is mentioned.
If she is taking it, it can cause behavioral changes. Just sayin’
@@GaiaCarney Ah. Glad you mentioned that, because I was about to say anyone that treats people like that needs canceling and a slow fade into obscurity. Trauma and mental illness are no excuse for that, but a drug induced behavioral change is. I hope those around her recognize this and get her help.
it's the amphetamine
drugs
@@intpleb4206 huh, mental illnes aint an excuse but drugs would be? Umm ok strongly diasgree
pls put in the title that this is asmr 😭
I cannot listen to it, the whispering is too much
I can’t take it
Reference for the future, almost all videos in this chanel are like this, something to keep in mind if you don't like this style.
It’s really annoying
@@sodiumsodiumsodium1109 they're not though. She has used her regular voice for years
Why does she widen her eyes like that it scares me sm, she’s like the influencer version of Azalea Banks
Influencer azealia banks is so accurate LMAOOO and I think she’s trying to be like ekane (another problematic influencer) w the whole eye thing 😭
Leave Azealia out of this😂😂😂😂
People do this when they have lost reason and logic in their mind.
I call them the crazy eyes (All White around the pupils)
I’m so glad someone else commented this 😭 her eyes were freakin me out, it’s something I noticed with influencers who are trying to start sh*t
she thinks bc she's skinny she's more beautiful 😭😭
That’s…how that works. Yes. 🫠😂🤣
That's my hot take but... I don't think she is, whether she is skinny or not. Maybe it's because of her personnality
@@dayanapierce8467 her face is big idk, she scares me
@@loveicecream9947 I sincerely think what threw me of was way of her speaking, her undead eyes, like I think maybe she is taking some medication
@@dayanapierce8467 right? Lol
Fannita is literally the definition of hurt people hurt other people
💯
So true
yessss‼️
"Money doesn't change people, it reveals them" 😒
The fact that she’s calling everybody else stupid yet she doesn’t understand that the tarte situation makes her calling out the unequal pay seem redundant, is very funny. She obviously did not care until it affected her personally.
I had witness and seen some TH-cam content creators who are like that. They insult the very people who support them the most through view count, thumbs up and other ways. Very baffling. These are the TH-camrs who don't last for long. MrBeast has over 500millions of followers for a reason. He gives back!!!!
the jokes write themselves😂
@ville__ somebody didn’t love you enough when you were little did they?
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Arrogance isn't confidence
side note i have never seen a non-villainous person have a versace robe. idk what it is about that garment!!
its probably in the fabric.... sewn with sadistic intent or something
You have a point🤔
yeah big jeffree star vibes
LMAO @@lex0.075
this is such a funny observation 😭
plus size creators suddenly becoming skinny after using their money on surgery and ozempic and then bullying others and acting like they’re better than everyone else directly after is so infuriating lmao
"This is why it's so important to work on yourself internally before you change yourself externally" oh my goodness this is such a point! i never really realized this, but you are so right!
Honestly, the bulging eyes, erratic behavior, and asking for money has me thinking it’s because she’s doing ❄️ now.
that’s what i was thinking too 😭
Has to be something, or a propensity for mania and psychosis (changes in eating habits and nutrition can cause this). But she doesn’t even act like the same person and this erratic behaviour is not just “getting famous” or rich or “glowing up”
damnnnn
I was thinking just that as soon as i saw the video. The outbursts and getting skinnier, obv is not the only way, but i know some girls that have purposely done coke to get skinny. Might be just work but idk 🤷🏻♀️👀
Makes sense
😩 I thought you were going to drop the whispering after a couple minutes. I physically can’t keep watching.
I love her and I’m listening because I’m interested but I do indeed want to crawl out of my skin
I had to unsubscribe. I really loved her commentary but the whispering is too much :(
@@emiraabdall3529 it’s just one video, so dramatic
@@emiraabdall3529 same here. I couldn't take it
Same. If I want ASMR I’ll look for ASMR
No one should be shocked that the person who said "I don't think everyone is beautiful" turned out to be an awful person.
Beauty is subjective so she's technically right?
@@vjk4170 no she should have said I don't find everyone beautiful. Instead of that ( I hope you are not like her because you sound kind of defensive)
@@djotchuiangela9955 they don’t sound defensive
She was talking about how not everyone meets our society’s standards of beauty and attractiveness, and that it’s okay. And that should be something that we need to be okay with hearing. It upsets people because we are conditioned to value and treat attractive people better, but stating the truth is a good step towards acknowledging beauty as just one trait that a) doesn’t define a person and b) doesn’t determine how others treat you.
It’s a delusion to think that everyone is physically beautiful.
wish the captions were manually made with punctuation and accuracy, it's a bit hard to hear what you're saying due to the whispering, and the discrepancy between words being said and the accepted auto captions doing whatever it wants makes parts of the video hard to understand.
I take issue with the original statement she made on that podcast. Because she’s right, but she should have phrased it differently. Beauty is subjective and the definition of it is so diverse, so technically anyone could be unattractive to anyone. Even the most desired person in the world could be viewed as unattractive to some. Not everyone is beautiful because it’s a subjective term.
yesss exactly. its like everyone is beautiful but also not everyone is. its all about perspective what one person likes the next person might not
@@DJ-cr9nb Exactly.
Not exactly. Not everyone is physically attractive because it is mostly OBJECTIVE. And yes it is subjective but only to a lesser extent but A LOT less than people think and not in the way u think. The range of subjectivity only applies between people that are already generally considered attractive where one might prefer one over the other based on personal preference. For example when u compare a sunset to a sunrise, they are both considered aesthetically pleasing but people might prefer one over the other.
Secondly ur talking ab the general term "beauty" as in aesthetically pleasing which is not exactly the same as human physical attractiveness. U can have a face that is aesthetically pleasing to someone yet not be attractive to them. In terms of general beauty, yes it can be very subjective in things like architecture, but also in intangible things, thats what "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" refers to, but same can't be applied for human physical attractiveness.
@@miabellaperez3367it’s not mostly objective. like at all. we physically do not see everyone the same. our personal interpretation of someone’s character influences the way we see them physically. and it will never be the same as the next. even if both of us think megan fox is the most beautiful woman in the world, we see her differently.
love how well rounded your videos are! A side note, i felt like the whispering voice overs are a little hard to listen to 😅
When somebody is going off about somebody being stupid. The call is inside the house. Basically, she got skinny. Just like people get rich, and she's showing us who she really is. May I suggest something called therapy.
Girl I love your content but is getting hard with the ASMR I'm trying not to cry while listening to you 😭
I find putting an ear bud in only one ear helps. I have misophonia and don't want to miss a Salem upload!
@@violetsavage193 right! Sound more high pitch and less of the "wet" sounds
I’ve never been a fan of asmr but I want to listen to the video so I keep taking breaks to make it bearable
Her personality hasn't changed. Its just people felt sorry for her when she was bigger so they excused her bad attitude for low self esteem.
Right. I don’t understand what the uproar is about…same person, different body.
Thank you! People are acting obtuse
Omg I never thought about it this way! It really hasn’t.
It’s not an excuse though, she very clearly had low self esteem as well as the bad attitude, and she clearly still has the low self esteem since she trash talks her past appearance so much, once again it never justified her bad attitude but saying that there was no low self esteem there as well is honestly a huge stretch
Exactly while watching her videos I was confused at the public reaction. She seems like the same person she always was. Why are people only upset now
Your voice is like siren (the one mystical creature which lures sailors through their voice) it's soooo soothing, goshh, it's therapeutic
I'm surprised she had ANY fan base for that nasty thought process in the first place. Its hilarious that now they're the ones she's focusing all that talk on, she's SUDDENLY a bad person. Just because she struggled doesn't mean she gets to put people down now that she finally feels beautiful
she explained it all in the video why she had a fan base
@@water_turks I love the pfp. Literally my face as I learn about this 😩
I unfollowed her after seeing the rant of her telling her followers she hates them! How anyone followed her after that voice memo to that waitress blew my mind, that was absolutely vile
She's using drugs
love your whispery voice in the background while I’m drawing, and such a thoughtful, nuanced take on this topic too! 💖🦆 ty salemmm
Immediately stopped what I was doing and clicked on this
girl same
Girl SAME 😭
100% same
It depends on your perspective and experience about beauty. Unfornately she isn't wrong but she didn't filter her word in an appropriate mindful way.
There a danger to being "yourself" unleashed drunk on pretty peiviledge- you can grow ego then when people figure you out it's not pretty.
Same tbh
i really love your videos but the asmr is really tough to listen to like its really jarring when it randomly appears outta nowhere
From the way her eyes looked before compared to her eyes now, I’d not be too surprised if she’s currently having some king of manic episode. She looks really mentally unwell. I hope she gets help, if that’s the case
Its drugs..
The AUDACITY she has to say that not everyone is beautiful 😂
The sad part is she was legit gorgeous plus size too. What's making her unpleasant now is how nasty she's being to people who didn't do anything to cause her anger. She's making legit points but she's doing it under the "I'm just being honest" guise that is often used as a way to just say mean things.
Literally that's exactly right
Salem I’m hating the new breathy voice 😢 pls go back to normal I couldn’t even finish 😭😭
its so unbearable lmao
🎻🤏🏽😣 womp womp.
Costco shirt goes HARD
Why do I get the vibe that you're a guy? 😅
I could not focus on anything in the first 3min of the vid because I was googling costco hot dog tees
@@yuzu-tsuyu Did you ever find one?
She’s definitely on something, she’s not making much sense and acting incredibly weird.
I love her voice, but it would be better if she just talk like she normally does.
It's giving Doja bullying fans
Doja was not nearly this bad
@@imnotleloShe was
but doja was shaming ‘fans’ for attacking her, hating on her new music, etc. at least she had a REASON to talk back and give the same energy her ‘fans’ were giving..the girl..on the other hand, is just straight up shaming her fans, thinking she’s superior.
@@myuinz she shamed them for liking her older albums
& Cardi b
Damn. I was really excited for this video topic but my sensory issues can’t stand the ASMR mic / soft whisper talk combo. No hate this is a super well researched video and you are so lovely, but I wish you would talk at a normal register. Just some feedback not meant to be negative criticism😅
Just commented the same, I think if she maybe labeled it at least but its sad coning to watch a video and I just physically cannot
Also i think such a big reason for her not working on her insecurities is that she got surgery and didn't even really have time, or like the time she would've had without surgery, to process her transformation and really work on that stuff and see her body over time changing.
I miss the days Salem talked normally
same. it lowkey weirds me out. i was wondering if anybody else noticed
@@kaitsenpai yeah it's a little TOO whispery now
she has mega crazy eyes lmfao
Thank you so much for your videos!
I’m an educator and I’ve been watching TH-camrs who can explain social media drama to me so I can better understand my teen student’s online experiences… without having to sign up for TikTok, etc myself. I really appreciate your compassionate, supportive takes on these issue.
I used to be plus size and now I’m skinny but my mental wasn’t right . I got into therapy and it did 😊 wonders for me .
Are you whispering more? 😅 I’m watching the video at low volume cause it’s night time and I can’t hear 😅 I love asmr but can’t stand this for some reason, which makes me sad bc I love your videos
omg the whispering girl i cant 😂
Im starting to get mad cause it makes me sleepy and im trying to stay awake 😢❤
it’s too much 😢
Thank youuu. Finally someone said it. I had to turn it off halfway through because the whispering was so annoying.
Nooo i love the asmr vibe it brings i listen to them before bed
the whispering is unbearable at times, i feel like she goes lower with each vid 😭
why is she whispering 😭?? I really hate mouth noises .
she's an asmr commentary channel! 2 niches in 1
So weird cuz just last night I was talking to my mom about what a mind F it is to have been bigger & smaller several times in life & how wildly different the experience is.
It really is it's mad how different people treat you depending on size
Its true!
Oh same here. It's insane. It'll def F u up
I like your videos but the ASMR angle makes this hard to watch tbh
yep. i feel like she should have stated in the title that this was an asmr video
She's not talking to her supporters, she's really talking to herself. Projecting her insecurities on everyone else and making it their problem.
Inreally love your videos but the whispering/asmr is not for me 😢
She actually disgusted me by saying all these things but when she was quote "bigger" she would have had a different reaction
@ville__ no?!, child porn is one of the worst crimes out there, please think before you comment such horrible things
Why is Salem whispering? Did she mentioned it?
ASMR
I would and will not give this girl a second of my time outside of your videos. She has the absolute worst attitude and approach, she better be saving up whatever money she is making for that inevitable backslide. 🦆
“Humble” & Fannita are NEEEEEVER the two words tht should be used synonymously 😭 EVEN before the clout.
14:49 "sorry i cheated on you, my grandma died" same vibes💀💀
Also: It Is true. Everyone (most people) don't think every single person is beautiful, that ain't the point of beauty positivity, the point is that it doesn't matter what you look like you are your own type of beauty.
She always had problems on delivery her thoughts 🤠
She called everyone dumb but she doesn't even know the point of such a big movement 💀💀 thoughts and prayers
Cuz of her voice used in that vid, the constructive criticism is good.
But the rest, y'all don't gotta watch if ya don't like it, I mean it ain't the first time she's talking like this.
Right Message, Wrong Messenger.
She lowkey 'forgot her place' (Bear with me, bear with me)
She forgot that she was the comedic relief. That loud, mean girl, B.S was cute when she was big, but now she that associates herself (very poorly) with the people she used to demonize, it's an issue. She was always this way, it was just funnier when she was bigger because no one took her seriously in the first place.
@arariddley3314 your not wrong.I think in gerneral when comes to being overweight society/people just don't take you seriously.
Isn't that more a negative reflection of society than her?
You’re not wrong, she even acknowledges this herself
@@oo4758it is but her continuing it and filling in the stereotype is so damaging
@@oo4758 yep but it’s also our sad reality, which just sucks.
Venom is technically an anti-hero, not a full villain. The symbiote you're thinking of, who is a villain, is Carnage.
Fannita got bitten by the skinny beetch virus 😮.
😂
Is a villain in spiderman's stories though, I remember he's a full villain in spiderman 3 the last one with Toby
11:38 her eyes 👀 I don't know what she is smoking, but it's giving crazy
There’s nothing unique about fajitas anymore. She is no different than any other content creator who speaks out of “their mouth”.
“I hate my fanbase”
Well then go get a job.
i dont like ASMR. But your voice is so calming as im laying down
Would you consider speaking louder in your videos? Or at least mixing it so that everything is closer to the same volume? You whispering and then all the clips shouting by comparison is really hard on the ears.
she has more videos where she speaks louder!
I was so annoyed. I literally stomped to the comments, cause wtf?! The voice is uber fake and I don’t think I’m going to make it through, and I really wanted to watch this.
does anyone know why she’s whispering now in all her videos?
I don't get why she is doing ASMR with Fanita screaming at the top of her lungs in the clips 🤣🤣🤣
@@shhhhh529 it’s asmr, and her voice isn’t fake. that’s literally her voice
Salem I love ur content and always watch when you upload. I usually don’t comment but this video was hard to listen to.. The whispering is overstimulating (especially the ads). I just want to listen to the video with ur regular voice at a regular volume 🥲
same. i miss her normal voice so much. the whispering + ads + inserted video clips is making me so fidgety and anxious
I’ve disliked her ever since she laughed and hyped up Bretman Rocks mom after she threw boiling oil at her husbands mistress and dragged her on the floor. It was so dystopian seeing the, laugh at that situation.
I also laughed
@@keysharamos-qf8ptwow you’re so edgy
that’s so messed up. also it’s crazy that she went after the mistress instead of the husband if she was gonna go attack someone…like the mistress wasn’t the one that broke a sacred vow with you
@@coolchameleon21it’s not tooo crazy, a whole grown woman was being paid in her home and disrespecting her by engaging with her husband in front of her children probly the entire time she was there. Grown decisions have grown consequences
I mean....that's not a grown consequence....it's just a consequence and it's illegal lol.
Wow can't believe I needed this video. Usually I watch your videos because of how well-structured they are and how calming you sound, how informative and interesting the speech is. This video kinda helped me realize my own problematic behavior which stems from my low self-esteem.
The whispering voice… gives me anxiety… I wanna see the video this is so saaaadddd….
yeah,im gonna have to skip this one....I cant stand whispering,its her choice tho lol
you could mute it, and read the subtitles if that helps, they're pretty accurate
I came into the comments just for this. But i also don't watch or enjoy any asmr. It's slightly very annoying instead of calming like people say it is for them
@celestialceleste369 I feel seen. I thought I was the only one who struggled with the ASMR trend. I do, however, like Salem and her content amd can get through most videos.😅
💯💯
She didn’t lie though, not everyone is beautiful to the eye. That’s one of the main reasons people get rejected.
I don’t think she’s making any money from tik tok … what advertiser would risk working with such a controversial figure?
I want to watch this so bad but asmr makes me angry instead of calm 😭😭😭
Salem, it's not even specific to this video individually, but just your stuff in general - thank you for your energy and your content. I had such a long day today for Father's Day, and while I love my and my husband's family, I became so burnt out and so over stimulated from our gathering that I just laid in a dark room for 30 minutes trying to reground myself. The first thing that I could listen to was your really calm and soothing voice. I normally hate ASMR, just not my thing usually, but your voice has such a soft and gentle quality to it that it was somehow so soothing. So, again, not specific to this topic, but just thank you for your videos.
This was so sweet🥺🥹
Girl, i cant with you anymore, how are you always glowing
Even losing a few pant size (I went from a 3x to a 1x) is jarring on my mind but I'm glad that I started therapy and have a support system around me to help bridge the gap
Salem, you have a beautiful voice for ASMR but I think it just took a lot of the audience aback being out of nowhere. Maybe just have it in your title next time :) and please don’t abandon your regular voice videos❤
Just to be honest I'm probably gonna skip the ads anyway, but whispering them at me absolutely guarantees it😂
… why comment this? its not kind of helpful
@iH3artKitties indicated that although they don't always watch ads when they have the ability to skip them, they may watch it if it catches their attention, the whispers made it immediately clear they weren't inclined to watch it, so if they might want to get more view time on the ads this is constructive criticism.
Statement of personal perspective, declaration of interest and intention, identified a major problem for them, clear feedback provided
@onyxhasautism3889 well it oddly does the opposite for me. I skip it when people speak normally and especially when they speak loudly. It hurts my sensitive ears.😂
@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed and that would be your personal opinion and feedback, different perspectives, personally I didn't like the whispered ads but I do love thought out sponsorships such as some more news
@@iH3artKitties idk, can't imagine I'm the only one, personally I'd want to know as a creator🤷♀️, I don't think I was mean about it, but whispering into a microphone makes my skin crawl
This reminds me of Caitlyn Jenner. Though she transitioned to live her truth and encouraged others to do the same, the spirit of a conservation white man is deep in her.
SHE IS BACK!! GIRL WHY U SO PRETTYYY😭
Hey girl just started watching but unfortunately I may have to stick to your old videos without the whispering. As others in the comments have stated, ASMR works in its own space but I think for some neurodivergent people it’s just too much in this long-form content. My constructive criticism would be to maybe just start labeling the ASMR videos as ASMR. It can be disappointing when I really want to get into this video but I physically cannot with the whispers.
🗣️🗣️🗣️EVERYONE WAKE UP!!! NEW SALEM VIDEO!!!!!
WAKEY WAKEY!!!
Eggs and bakey@@_salemtovar_
She's pulling a Doja Cat
I can't take the asmr whispering element of this video. I'm going to go find a different video about Fannita. I'll be back for the next non-asmr video. 😁
her mannerisms changed so much, it's like she's a completely different person 😶
i remember following fannita in quarantine... the change :(
She didn’t change, society just would rather hear disrespectful things being said by people they look down on so they never take them seriously, she’s always been this way. It’s more of an everyone else problem because you can’t make someone with a specific personality popular then be made when they are who they are.
@potatowellcox8870 well, i followed her for her funny "hear me out" tiktoks where she'd just just lust over men. i remember those tiktoks were the ones that got thousands of likes cuz before i didn't even know her. yea, she's always been loud and proud. but i think the subject of her content *did* change into morally ehhh. her old viral stuff compared to her new viral stuff is bad... because now instead, shes getting negative attention instead of positive
This is getting way and way more asmr whisperey . Why? I swear this wasn’t an original part of the brand, and I’ve been following for ages and I can’t listen any more. Gutted because I love Salem and don’t know why this is necessary
me too. it's been really bugging me and takes some of her personality out of her voice over but to each their own
you can be happy go lucky with out being nasty, lashing out or continuing the cycle of bullying
Why are people complaining about the asmr when in all her latest videos she's mentioned asmr in her intros 💀
She's not even whispering (it's just more soft spoken than usual)
Like wtf you mean you can't hear what she's saying 😭 I can hear her perfectly. Or put on some damn earphones
Side note, your ren faire outfit looked so good!
isn’t fannita the same girl who had bretman’s rock goofy ass on her podcast to tell a story about how his mom permanently disfigured another woman??
WHAT HOW??? WHEN? WHAT😢
What what did his mom do????
@@Alienaddikt his mom basically got into a fight with the house maid because she saw that her husband was cheating on her. After she saw him cheating on her, she grabbed a pot of hot boiling water and poured it on the maid leaving her permanently deformed.
Yes that is her.
@@izzyc127 wtf??? There is proof of that? She should be in jail
girl pls put that this is ASMR 😭
Love your content but I can’t do the ASMR style narration im so sorry lol. I’d love to watch this but it hurts my brain
same! lmao i feel bad because i really like this topic, but the asmr is driving me insane 😭
@@perlyshellthe way she decided to pivot to asmr with no warning and without labeling it as ASMR is really slimy IMO
that must be why i can't stand watching it🤒
I don't want to speculate really on people's mental health, but I do have to say, she does have that look in her eyes. I don't know her mental health but I wouldn't put it past her that this is a manic episode. Regardless I hope she gets better and I hope she gets the healing that she needs and can become a better person
i love the aesthetic of ur videos and how they’re borderline asmr but still contain amazing commentary
I still can't understand how people like this have any followers at all. If she doesn't get canceled, that tells you a lot about the people who follows her since she's being telling them how she hates them. Like seriously 🙄
What does not sit right with me is that influencers have the financial reassures to seek professional help / a modest PR team / align themselves with a religion / go to a retreat / get involved with a helpful temple or church….and yet they chose to fail themselves. They chose to not seek help.
Do you have the same videos but not asmr? I really want to watch the video but I cannot do the asmr , it’s giving major sensory issues
Your bangs really suit you
Do they, though?
Do bangs really suit anyone?
@kcbh24 if the face shape fits and the bangs are cut nicely it looks very cute and that's her case
@@You.Make.Stray-STAY ok, first you said gorgeous and now you say cute. Which is it?
It's both.... @@kcbh24