They pretend nothing happened because they’d have to acknowledge it and therefore be accountable for their actions. So by pretending nothing happened, that’s their way of not taking accountability.
and they come with a whole different personality as if they changed people, smiling gracious, and happy like they’re the best thing on the planet. It’s scary.
My abuser is my mother, it’s been such a struggle to go no contact. I finally made it passed everyone guilting me. Now, it’s family stuff she always uses to cross boundaries.It’s actually easier to pretend like there is contact because she’ll leave me alone. My mother isn’t interested in a relationship with me. I’m just not allowed to be the one who makes that call.
They play the victim to get sympathy and turn everyone you know against you. It happened to me. I no longer dwell on it. Karma's a b**** and their actions will come back to them. No matter how entitled they are thinking they got away with it. Give no reaction. Ignore them and move on with your life. And do not accept their hoover or their half assed apology. "Im sorry for what I did but you made me do it!" 😂
5 months no contact. FINALLY starting to feel so much better and seeing the breakup as the blessing in disguise that it was. I was so hurt and confused by that man’s behaviour. These videos have helped my mental remain intact and allowed me to stay strong during the process!!! Thank you Lee, narcissist or not, you’re doing the Lords work out here 🙏🏾
My therapist told me this is why you don’t just have to hold boundaries, but there have to be consequences when boundaries are breached. Because otherwise some people will have no motive to listen to them.
Wheeeww this was the bookshelf moment! I told him the next time he gave me the silent treatment we’d be done. He did it and went almost an entire month then one day he assumed we’d just have seggs and it’d be all better. I absolutely refused and he lost his mind. A couple weeks later moved out and haven’t looked back since
@@AmericanDreamer yes. He is an extremely entitled person that I literally have zero patience for at this stage in my life (we’ve been apart almost an entire year now). If we are not talking about our children…do not bother me!
Called me a B when we was in a restaurant in a loud voice everyone heard . Outside he just acted like nothing happened. What’s more worrying is that I didn’t walk away. I think they confuse you on purpose, like a stun gun
Thank you. This confused me, when i began spending time with my companion. No discussions, no behavior changes, Unless there's an argument. But, the changes don't last. It's like he's on his better behavior, for a few days, at most, then it's right back to the same stuff.
What i dont understand is what is their point ....why do they feel that they have to do this stuff.... why not just be aingle then and leave other people alone...?
This why I totally believe it's a spirit, because Narcissist has the same playbook all over the world. If you look at people speak about it. It's a a download in the coor. The leave the same type of damagge behind them.
I remember mine called me the B word the day before my birthday in front of our three children. A week of the silent treatment and it’s, “hey, you wanna go to dinner?” Smh
Indeed, even when you've just broken down the specific issue during a 'discussion'...they still refuse to get it and throw it back at you. Drove me mad coz I always used to be so gentle, loving and empathetic. Left me feeling paranoid. He'd sit with me or any gathering and be punching his phone@ soooo anti-social and disrespectful😢😢😢 He would just shut up and ghost me rather than talk. Likr a big old baby throwing tantrums. With time, I began to tell him, "You're throwing out all your toys out of the pram again"...it drove him bananas😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
I live in an area in Egypt where nearly everyone is a narcissist to some degree. It's all toxic. Its a breeding ground for them, because they all born from loveless marriages. It's very sad 😢
wow , that's sad to read ... How are parents raising their children that causes it?? Also - would you share please - how you would rate the safety for a woman on the streets of Egypt? I guess it might depend front the city, but overall....?
@@AmericanDreamer overall safe. I live in Luxor on the West Bank of the Nile; we can walk around very late at night and will never come to any harm. It's a very relaxed and casual lifestyle here, one big family lol of narcissists haha joking, they are really very good people, but the traits are there. Marriages are not for love. they often don't know their partners until sometimes weeks before marriage. They are marriages of convenience, not love. So, growing up in loveless marriages is what causes it, plus the high tourist industry and the temptation that comes with that. But even still they are very nice people, just don't get sucked in with the charmers ;) laugh it off because there is always an agenda because times are hard for them, and they need money. learned behaviours mostly.
Yes this is exactly what he was doing going home like a big sook then come back after a few wks like nothing happened. Breaking your heart & acting like he didn't care what he was doing. I had to leave cause my kids were seeing what was happening. One time he got so moody around one of my daughter's & she's quite bright & caught on, on the way he was acting. My daughter said to me, mum you can do better. I don't wish bad onto someone but I hope karma hits him hard.
I'm just starting my healing journey, and this very topic has been the main cause of my trouble. His acting like nothing happened over and over, while living through the hurt has been a lot for me to process. I ordered your self-love book and it got delivered today and can't wait to start my journey with it this weekend! Thanks again for all these helpful videos!!!!
That’s the Ex Favourite saying .. “ I didn’t do Anything” smdh or “ what did I do today” Pathetic an Immature as hell he’s horrible… I don’t even like talking to him at all
This is what exactly is happening to me right now! After months of disputes to no avail. Couples & individual therapy. Never held herself accountable for her behavior. Now she's invisible to me. I dropped every issue and said that the marriage is over. Now, in her head, the pressure to be accountable iss off, so now she walks around with a new attitude as if things never happened. Weird and Crazy at the same time
💯 percent correct! When we get in an argument he aways will act like nothing happened afterwards! My husband can't acknowledge the things he has done! Everytime I bring up an issue he says I'm crazy, something is wrong with me, or it's menopause and I need help. He says I used to be a good wife but now I'm not! He used to be able to manipulate me but I realized what was happening and now he can't. He has tried manipulation, gaslighting, bullying etc. He tries to make me question reality. There is no holding him accountable. Never any resolution! Always circular arguments. Exhausting!!!!
It is easy in fact. They know exactly what they do and did. They even take revenge and also say that. But you are guilty in their eyes because they just don´t want to reflect themselves - they don´t want to feel ashamed. In their minds they are delusional - they think they are the best on earth (like Gods). And therefore they can do anything no matter what. It is sad in fact because with their behaviour they destroy other people. I personally know that I am not at fault if someone has bad character.
Here's a good one for you. The ex narc stalked me, turned around and followed me in a car to where I was driving, 6 months after I dumped him. I dumped him for good when he decided to have elective surgery at the same time as my cancer surgery. He had the freaking nerve at that stalking to tell me that he didn't know I had cancer! No accountability for anything ever. Is this really how anyone wants to live? No thank you! See you later monster.
Yeah, I brought it up after he said he didn't know what was happening, why I made him leave, even though I we've gone over that extensively the night before. When I brought it up again, he was driving. That's scary. Not recommended.
I have this person a 3rd chance even knowing that she’s never changed so many secrets and lies and again as I kept trying to break it off it was a no no we can work it out but overall they never like to held accountable nor accept they did nothing wrong and now again I feel used and abused and I regret letting my self be vulnerable again because they’re use your vulnerability against you believe me I learned so much and I will give myself love and care instead of putting my time and money for someone that never cared about me.
i am MORE CONFUSED by HOW folks WHO KNOW they are with a narcissist WHO CANNOT AND WILL NOT CHANGE choose to REMAIN with the person. THAT is what CONFUSES me!--those who CHOOSE to REMAIN in these "relationships"--SETTLING-- AFTER KNOWING what is going on!!!!!!!!
I'm playing the game with my dumbass boss who doesn't seem to realize I'm way better off in life than him. Oh no problem at all, you have fun coming in early EVERY Saturday morning now instead of me😂
But what if he still acts the same way, even if I AM holding him accountable? I feel like there’s no right thing I can do, to get him to act right anymore. There’s got to be something I’m missing. He has to have a weak spot somewhere
But like ... Don't you have friends and family? How do YOU manage these things? You tell us not to tolerate the behavior but will they ever realize that's why we left and change one day?
Would another form of this be pretending not to remember? In this example they have stirred the pot between you and other person, repeating something that’s someone else has said about you that’s not nice. Then after the fireworks between you and this person the Narcissist can’t remember telling anything or certainly not details. I call this advantages amnesia.
Well in that case it’s been my absolute pleasure to hold people to account, regardless of the personal consequences 😅🥵💪 (the last part is a lie) And now we 🤐
Any action causes a reaction but we tell ourselves we are responsible for our own emotions and they use that religiously to avoid being accountable for their own actions. Hypocritical, double standarding, emotionally immature individuals!
He said that a lottt of times. And he also said no one will believe you. No one. I did nothing. Standing ready to punsh me in the face above me pint on under need him on the bed. Sad fact 🙄🙄
I just learned about the OG of scholarly narcissism: Professor Sam Vaknin. He makes Dr. Ramani seem rudimentary! And I love Dr. Ramani, so that's not a slight to her. Prof Vaknin is a clinically diagnosed self-aware narcissist, and his resume is impressive. Would love your feedback on some of Vaknin's work. His book is called "Malignant Self Love", and he also has a youtube channel.
My narc is mad at me because I would not leave the video call on while I slept. Then says he wanted make sure I wasn't fucking. 😮 I am so done. He thinks I'm messing around because that's what he's doing. 😬
“Easy like Sunday morning” I never understood that song so well… until recently. Made me so happy to hear you reference that song. That song is in my heart forever.
Oh Lord lee. You nailed that on the head. Drama King is my ex-wife's name for me in her emails. Because I'll tell her she's not supposed to be doing something she's doing. But I'm being dramatic for pointing out she's doing it
I want someone to tell me if you think my partner is a narcissist, so I'm going to give you a scenario. When I went on holidays, she knew where I was going, she knew the friends that I had aound me, she use to call me at points and even on videos when she was taking the kids to school, cause I was on holidays and she was still doing the family chores. But when she went on holidays she contacted me 3 out of the 8 days, then got annoyed when we had a small argument and ignored me until she came back into the country and when I said to her that how comes when I was on holiday I was still being communicative and she had people around me that she could contact, she said that I'm lying and she never used to contact me. And this person was someone who contacted me daily am I insane or is she just narcissist
He called the next day after I told him our FWB just goes to “friends” because of what I found on his phone. He claimed only FWB but wanted the rest of the aspects of a relationship. He love bombed but I took it wrong. When he called he wanted me to know he was sorry and it would only be me..boy was I dumb to believe it! Had to break no contact but I’m back 10 days NC!! I had to explain what FWB really is! Text to see if they’re available, clap cheeks and roll out! Not what he did! 😂
A new friend, like a week that's a Christian. She gave me a small job of dusting her house yesterday. I turned up, and she met me at my car, she said , no dusting today, you're coming with me, she took me to work as her employee called in sick, i ended up working half a day gardening. Stupid me!!!! Fell for it...during her running everyone down in her world, she also commented, that we weren't friends 😮😮 to make sure i heard right, i repeated, so we're not friends? To her reply, no. I should've called someone to come pick me up right then but no silly me, stayed until the end. At the end she asks me what I'm doing tomorrow, I answered, not gardening!!!! She texted last night and this morning, both ending with, thankyou True friend, & have a blessed day my friend 🧐😠I answered nicely, We aren't friends, and recapped the conversation. The response was pure narcissist, and I was confused. I replied," no, we are not friends, is what you said, it was plain and clear, that's not confusing!? She then asked if we can start again and can we be friends. I answered, no, I don't need friends like you. Her reply back was a sad face. Boom, I caught ya in time, 1 week and a day of , what the heck is happening here, to figure this 58 Ur old child lady. Good try, good try...!
Two things that come to mind when trying to have an accountability conversation with my xNarc: 1) He says annoyed during mid-convo of trying to share my concerns: “And here I was hoping you came all this way so we could have sex….” 2) Quite agitated, “I don’t like discussing bad news first thing in the morning. I prefer my days to start on a positive note…”
They pretend nothing happened because they’d have to acknowledge it and therefore be accountable for their actions. So by pretending nothing happened, that’s their way of not taking accountability.
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That's exactly what he said right in the beginning. 😂
Narcissists are emotionally stunted and deluded
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and they come with a whole different personality as if they changed people, smiling gracious, and happy like they’re the best thing on the planet. It’s scary.
True and so so so sad.
Mind boggling 😢
This is so true! They make you feel like you're the problem...its sick!
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Exactly!!
All my abusers claim that they didn't do anything for me to go no contact 😂 the delusion is REAL 💯
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My abuser is my mother, it’s been such a struggle to go no contact. I finally made it passed everyone guilting me. Now, it’s family stuff she always uses to cross boundaries.It’s actually easier to pretend like there is contact because she’ll leave me alone. My mother isn’t interested in a relationship with me. I’m just not allowed to be the one who makes that call.
@@NikD215That is deep insight, though. Better to know than not know. 🙂👍
very real😅
They play the victim to get sympathy and turn everyone you know against you. It happened to me. I no longer dwell on it. Karma's a b**** and their actions will come back to them. No matter how entitled they are thinking they got away with it. Give no reaction. Ignore them and move on with your life. And do not accept their hoover or their half assed apology. "Im sorry for what I did but you made me do it!" 😂
Same happened to me.
My narc tries to sweep EVERYTHING under the rug!! 😂😂 he's a professional !!! A professional carpenter!! 😂
I always use this analogy! Sweeping right under that rug of his.
Professional rug doctor lol😂
This is worse than the fight. No accountability kills me more than anything
Yes……… it’s the biggest disrespect to you.
I so been there. That's why we are done. He is not emotionally healthy. They don't want to talk at all about anything. All about them.
Facts. Been stonewalled since about March April in the same house because we have 2 young sons
Damn, who the hell wants to live with a crazy drama maniac? I want my home to be a place of peace and tranquility. That's just me. Thank you Lee 🙏☺
5 months no contact. FINALLY starting to feel so much better and seeing the breakup as the blessing in disguise that it was. I was so hurt and confused by that man’s behaviour. These videos have helped my mental remain intact and allowed me to stay strong during the process!!! Thank you Lee, narcissist or not, you’re doing the Lords work out here 🙏🏾
Keep going you got this
So glad you are doing this subject this bothered me the most
Appreciate it
If you refer them to a scripture in the bible, how will they receive it? @MentalHealness
My therapist told me this is why you don’t just have to hold boundaries, but there have to be consequences when boundaries are breached. Because otherwise some people will have no motive to listen to them.
Wheeeww this was the bookshelf moment! I told him the next time he gave me the silent treatment we’d be done. He did it and went almost an entire month then one day he assumed we’d just have seggs and it’d be all better. I absolutely refused and he lost his mind. A couple weeks later moved out and haven’t looked back since
phew well done for you not budging!!! Omg he is shameless but at least you chose to respect yourself! 🔥
@@AmericanDreamer yes. He is an extremely entitled person that I literally have zero patience for at this stage in my life (we’ve been apart almost an entire year now). If we are not talking about our children…do not bother me!
Facts. I ignored that dumb @$$ text. Just Ludacris
7:33 OMFG 🤬 yes!!!!!!!
If I bring it up later then i get blamed for ruining a good day…… 😩
Called me a B when we was in a restaurant in a loud voice everyone heard . Outside he just acted like nothing happened.
What’s more worrying is that I didn’t walk away. I think they confuse you on purpose, like a stun gun
😢😫 so true!!!
Yep, I can relate
Thank you. This confused me, when i began spending time with my companion. No discussions, no behavior changes, Unless there's an argument. But, the changes don't last. It's like he's on his better behavior, for a few days, at most, then it's right back to the same stuff.
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No accountability is how they roll. Pick it up n keep moving. Pretend everything is cool. 😅
Because they cant handle the guilt and shame of making mistakes.. they cant deal with it.. so they ingore there mistakes
Total mental disorder😪😬
I caught my partner cheating and called him out on it and hes more concerned with me finding out than apologizing for his cheating.
Same! Then they will flip it on you.
Same here
This!!!!!!!
Caught mine at a hotel and he was mad I “burned the spot”
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Your skits are SPOT ON, absolutely accurate!! So glad I'm safe and can laugh about it now....took a while to escape and maintain my boundaries.
Like nothing just happened period. Its sick
Sometimes you really crack me up! "I been told I was useless by my dad before.. now I'm a narcissist" lol
What i dont understand is what is their point ....why do they feel that they have to do this stuff.... why not just be aingle then and leave other people alone...?
Do Narcissists take classes like Narcissists 101 😂 I swear you have him 💯
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Yes they do..😂
I stg they do!!! They have to!!!! They all got their narc manual!!
Tutor: Andrew Tate
This why I totally believe it's a spirit, because Narcissist has the same playbook all over the world. If you look at people speak about it. It's a a download in the coor. The leave the same type of damagge behind them.
I remember mine called me the B word the day before my birthday in front of our three children.
A week of the silent treatment and it’s, “hey, you wanna go to dinner?”
Smh
Indeed, even when you've just broken down the specific issue during a 'discussion'...they still refuse to get it and throw it back at you. Drove me mad coz I always used to be so gentle, loving and empathetic. Left me feeling paranoid. He'd sit with me or any gathering and be punching his phone@ soooo anti-social and disrespectful😢😢😢
He would just shut up and ghost me rather than talk. Likr a big old baby throwing tantrums.
With time, I began to tell him, "You're throwing out all your toys out of the pram again"...it drove him bananas😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
I live in an area in Egypt where nearly everyone is a narcissist to some degree. It's all toxic. Its a breeding ground for them, because they all born from loveless marriages. It's very sad 😢
wow , that's sad to read ... How are parents raising their children that causes it?? Also - would you share please - how you would rate the safety for a woman on the streets of Egypt? I guess it might depend front the city, but overall....?
@@AmericanDreamer overall safe. I live in Luxor on the West Bank of the Nile; we can walk around very late at night and will never come to any harm. It's a very relaxed and casual lifestyle here, one big family lol of narcissists haha joking, they are really very good people, but the traits are there. Marriages are not for love. they often don't know their partners until sometimes weeks before marriage. They are marriages of convenience, not love. So, growing up in loveless marriages is what causes it, plus the high tourist industry and the temptation that comes with that. But even still they are very nice people, just don't get sucked in with the charmers ;) laugh it off because there is always an agenda because times are hard for them, and they need money. learned behaviours mostly.
This use to have me completed paralyzed and questioning my truth. with my grandma and My ex husband 😭
Yep, I feel paralyzed a whole lot. I have to free myself. 😢
I'll just pretend like I don't see them stonewalling and go live my best life. Sad litter critters they are!!
Mines a big critter now and blames everything under the sun but him lmaoooo he has a beer belly and doesn't drink. Welp
Hey it's all good we can never talk again, so you can always be right! I win every single argument we never have now, hope your happy too!
You are 💯 accurate 😢
The nerve of that narcissist
Done!
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Like Diddy right now trying to fight his charges when everything he did is on tape! 😂
Some called me useless but they didn't realize how overcoming it all would make me grow even stronger!
Yes this is exactly what he was doing going home like a big sook then come back after a few wks like nothing happened. Breaking your heart & acting like he didn't care what he was doing. I had to leave cause my kids were seeing what was happening. One time he got so moody around one of my daughter's & she's quite bright & caught on, on the way he was acting.
My daughter said to me, mum you can do better.
I don't wish bad onto someone but I hope karma hits him hard.
I'm just starting my healing journey, and this very topic has been the main cause of my trouble. His acting like nothing happened over and over, while living through the hurt has been a lot for me to process. I ordered your self-love book and it got delivered today and can't wait to start my journey with it this weekend! Thanks again for all these helpful videos!!!!
I am requesting a “Dance Video” of yourself to the staring music-you look so happy!!! 💯🤩 I will start a signed petition 🎉😂
That’s the Ex Favourite saying .. “ I didn’t do Anything” smdh or “ what did I do today” Pathetic an Immature as hell he’s horrible… I don’t even like talking to him at all
Every time you say "hot and ready" you make Little Caesars pizza sound so good lol
This is what exactly is happening to me right now! After months of disputes to no avail. Couples & individual therapy. Never held herself accountable for her behavior. Now she's invisible to me. I dropped every issue and said that the marriage is over. Now, in her head, the pressure to be accountable iss off, so now she walks around with a new attitude as if things never happened. Weird and Crazy at the same time
Ugh! Such a narc move !!!
💯 percent correct! When we get in an argument he aways will act like nothing happened afterwards! My husband can't acknowledge the things he has done! Everytime I bring up an issue he says I'm crazy, something is wrong with me, or it's menopause and I need help. He says I used to be a good wife but now I'm not! He used to be able to manipulate me but I realized what was happening and now he can't. He has tried manipulation, gaslighting, bullying etc. He tries to make me question reality. There is no holding him accountable. Never any resolution! Always circular arguments. Exhausting!!!!
Mines too
Same here
Little kids girls and boys! Crazy
If we can’t talk about it we can’t move on! Next
It is easy in fact. They know exactly what they do and did. They even take revenge and also say that. But you are guilty in their eyes because they just don´t want to reflect themselves - they don´t want to feel ashamed. In their minds they are delusional - they think they are the best on earth (like Gods). And therefore they can do anything no matter what. It is sad in fact because with their behaviour they destroy other people. I personally know that I am not at fault if someone has bad character.
That’s so funny because it’s very very true
Those near Dallas, y'all should do whatever you can to attend, the worshops are very important to the healing process!
Here's a good one for you. The ex narc stalked me, turned around and followed me in a car to where I was driving, 6 months after I dumped him. I dumped him for good when he decided to have elective surgery at the same time as my cancer surgery. He had the freaking nerve at that stalking to tell me that he didn't know I had cancer! No accountability for anything ever. Is this really how anyone wants to live? No thank you! See you later monster.
100% on point!!! 💯
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"But I haven't done anything wrong today!!" On a day when they are kissing ass
What it do lee!!!❤
Yeah, I brought it up after he said he didn't know what was happening, why I made him leave, even though I we've gone over that extensively the night before. When I brought it up again, he was driving. That's scary. Not recommended.
Hi from the Bay Area California!
Hello there!
The most sickening person I have ever met in my life. It’s crazy
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I have this person a 3rd chance even knowing that she’s never changed so many secrets and lies and again as I kept trying to break it off it was a no no we can work it out but overall they never like to held accountable nor accept they did nothing wrong and now again I feel used and abused and I regret letting my self be vulnerable again because they’re use your vulnerability against you believe me I learned so much and I will give myself love and care instead of putting my time and money for someone that never cared about me.
I had a narcissist block ME because I held her accountable then when I blocked her back she lost her mind 💀
I want 🚨🚨🚨🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊! Facts big facts big no more talking 🥊🥊🥊🥊🙄🥊🤬🤬
Yup !! Acting like he was drunk
i am MORE CONFUSED by HOW folks WHO KNOW they are with a narcissist WHO CANNOT AND WILL NOT CHANGE choose to REMAIN with the person. THAT is what CONFUSES me!--those who CHOOSE to REMAIN in these "relationships"--SETTLING-- AFTER KNOWING what is going on!!!!!!!!
I'm playing the game with my dumbass boss who doesn't seem to realize I'm way better off in life than him. Oh no problem at all, you have fun coming in early EVERY Saturday morning now instead of me😂
Freakin lies and delusion, you literally have to enter the twilight zone to attempt to understand their lies oops I mean logic and reasoning
But what if he still acts the same way, even if I AM holding him accountable? I feel like there’s no right thing I can do, to get him to act right anymore. There’s got to be something I’m missing. He has to have a weak spot somewhere
How are they all the same???
Right. Its like we experienced the exact same person. 😂
😂same with not being visit the kid....nothing but they will tell the other parent that it's her or him....
But like ... Don't you have friends and family? How do YOU manage these things? You tell us not to tolerate the behavior but will they ever realize that's why we left and change one day?
Would another form of this be pretending not to remember? In this example they have stirred the pot between you and other person, repeating something that’s someone else has said about you that’s not nice. Then after the fireworks between you and this person the Narcissist can’t remember telling anything or certainly not details. I call this advantages amnesia.
Well in that case it’s been my absolute pleasure to hold people to account, regardless of the personal consequences 😅🥵💪 (the last part is a lie)
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Any action causes a reaction but we tell ourselves we are responsible for our own emotions and they use that religiously to avoid being accountable for their own actions. Hypocritical, double standarding, emotionally immature individuals!
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He said that a lottt of times. And he also said no one will believe you. No one. I did nothing. Standing ready to punsh me in the face above me pint on under need him on the bed. Sad fact 🙄🙄
Lmao not easy like Sunday mornin
REAL 💩
They're not all toxic, you just have to speak the right language
Narcs has to understand something. Karma is a b####. If you're over 18 then you're on your own. No one cares to be your parent.
Said his brother did it. Just one of many lies.
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I just learned about the OG of scholarly narcissism: Professor Sam Vaknin. He makes Dr. Ramani seem rudimentary! And I love Dr. Ramani, so that's not a slight to her. Prof Vaknin is a clinically diagnosed self-aware narcissist, and his resume is impressive. Would love your feedback on some of Vaknin's work. His book is called "Malignant Self Love", and he also has a youtube channel.
I’m listening to Vaknin , especially very first videos on his Chanel 🤗😃
Yeah but we don’t sleep in the same bed but yes that’s how it is… 😢
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Injust found out not only is my x narcissist a narcissist but a cupholder too
oh wow
@@MentalHealness cukholder misspelled
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My narc is mad at me because I would not leave the video call on while I slept. Then says he wanted make sure I wasn't fucking. 😮 I am so done. He thinks I'm messing around because that's what he's doing. 😬
His favorite thing seemed to be Wanna go to a movie?
He destroyed my son and act like he did nothing at all and my son may never be the same again.
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They pretend well believe me
“Easy like Sunday morning”
I never understood that song so well… until recently.
Made me so happy to hear you reference that song.
That song is in my heart forever.
They are robots
This is exactly what my wife does
Hi Lee
Oh Lord lee. You nailed that on the head. Drama King is my ex-wife's name for me in her emails. Because I'll tell her she's not supposed to be doing something she's doing. But I'm being dramatic for pointing out she's doing it
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Every one is a narcissist
To a point...
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Everyone has narcissist traits to one degree or another. But when you act a fool..course correct. Discipline!! 😊
I want someone to tell me if you think my partner is a narcissist, so I'm going to give you a scenario.
When I went on holidays, she knew where I was going, she knew the friends that I had aound me, she use to call me at points and even on videos when she was taking the kids to school, cause I was on holidays and she was still doing the family chores.
But when she went on holidays she contacted me 3 out of the 8 days, then got annoyed when we had a small argument and ignored me until she came back into the country and when I said to her that how comes when I was on holiday I was still being communicative and she had people around me that she could contact, she said that I'm lying and she never used to contact me.
And this person was someone who contacted me daily am I insane or is she just narcissist
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Positive once again question Lee can u please address the comments that was commented
Every one is a narcissist
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Thank you for all that you do Lee x
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I have soooo many questions 😞
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He called the next day after I told him our FWB just goes to “friends” because of what I found on his phone. He claimed only FWB but wanted the rest of the aspects of a relationship. He love bombed but I took it wrong. When he called he wanted me to know he was sorry and it would only be me..boy was I dumb to believe it! Had to break no contact but I’m back 10 days NC!! I had to explain what FWB really is! Text to see if they’re available,
clap cheeks and roll out! Not what he did! 😂
A new friend, like a week that's a Christian. She gave me a small job of dusting her house yesterday. I turned up, and she met me at my car, she said , no dusting today, you're coming with me, she took me to work as her employee called in sick, i ended up working half a day gardening. Stupid me!!!! Fell for it...during her running everyone down in her world, she also commented, that we weren't friends 😮😮 to make sure i heard right, i repeated, so we're not friends? To her reply, no. I should've called someone to come pick me up right then but no silly me, stayed until the end. At the end she asks me what I'm doing tomorrow, I answered, not gardening!!!! She texted last night and this morning, both ending with, thankyou True friend, & have a blessed day my friend 🧐😠I answered nicely, We aren't friends, and recapped the conversation. The response was pure narcissist, and I was confused. I replied," no, we are not friends, is what you said, it was plain and clear, that's not confusing!? She then asked if we can start again and can we be friends. I answered, no, I don't need friends like you. Her reply back was a sad face. Boom, I caught ya in time, 1 week and a day of , what the heck is happening here, to figure this 58 Ur old child lady. Good try, good try...!
It weird when you encounter the older narcs huh?
At least you saw through her bull shit quickly
Very weird unexpected. I'm into these types quicker by learning from these videos if gold nuggets🧡
3:23 My narcissistic cousin punch ✊ through a window 🪟 and severed his main artery in his hand cus he got angry, and it cost him alot...
Two things that come to mind when trying to have an accountability conversation with my xNarc:
1) He says annoyed during mid-convo of trying to share my concerns: “And here I was hoping you came all this way so we could have sex….”
2) Quite agitated, “I don’t like discussing bad news first thing in the morning. I prefer my days to start on a positive note…”
Don’t stay mad just forgive it’s the Christian thing to do .
Move on and makeup🤷🏽♀️
Great Video❤🔥🪭☮️