I ended up contracting herpes from an IG fling…. Because I had absolutely no standards. I’m so grateful for my growth!! Tony’s videos have been a MAJOR key in my healing.
My sis, thank you for your honesty. I lowered my standards also & the very same thing happened to me from a teenage ex, who took 6 months to tell me cos according to him he was mad at me for giving it to him.
@@simonespencer2244 Girlll!!!! Thank you for sharing as well.....SO glad we learned the lesson. Ive learned to TRUST God with it and do the work!!! My confidence is at an ALL time high now because of the work I've done!!
Having standards will keep most toxic people out, and having boundaries will scare most toxic people away. They will quickly see that they can’t take advantage of you and will have to leave your life or change themselves if they want to be a part of your life. Either way, having standards and boundaries is a win-win situation for you.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@@earthreign The man maybe serious minded but not serious about having a serious long-term relationship with you. He may be serious about trying to have sex with you. I'm just saying.
I hear Mr. Tony in my ear when i'm fielding these men, went on a date last nite with a man that most find attractive (tall-6f6, dark and handsome) had at least 10 phone calls prior to going out (even a vid date)...first date in person ..i met him there...was eating...I offered to pay my part...he snatched the tab away so fast! (but it sent a message like Mr. Tony said!) ate and talked and laughed for about 2 hours--then he walked me to my car...he leaned in for a kiss...caught this cute cheek!!!...he had no choice but to be a gentleman...wants to see me again...seems like he's trying to take me off the market....my eyes shall remain open & legs closed..CLARITY....Mr. Tony, I listen to your message religiously and using your teachings in practice...omg....you are a Godsend and thank you so much for helping to decode the male mind.
Technology can be the death of a relationship. I go to restaurants and see ppl on devices instead of talking to each other. How you have time to chat with others and you don't see me all day?
@@tru_kru_bahbee24 Absolutely! Well within a month he was asking for exclusivity. He lives in another close by city (that I visit often) and I said yes....but that quickly turned bad. Turned out he was a MAJOR drinker, and the behaviors showed up squarely after me agreeing to be his gf. It's like once he thought he had me---that other side showed up. Welllll....I'm "Tony G Trained" and left that joker where he was....still entact! he still saw no parts of "me" !
@@blah843 thanks for sharing love! Isn't it great to learn about the strength you possess, and observe all the growth that you are experiencing? This is indeed the blessing that comes from all of this. May you continue to make room forage for your the one that is right for you ❤. Blessings
Standards are so important. Something we are not taught. I was taught to find a man who can take care of you which gives the impression that he can do whatever he wants as long as he takes care of home. Tony is out here changing lives for those who listen and apply the lessons!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
He's right. The more standards you tell a man u have the more he'll test u. I stopped vocalizing the ones that i didnt have to and just start living what I know i want and they don't test u as much.
I have my standards in place & am firm on them!! I appreciate this message/reminder 🙌🏼🙌🏼. If you say NO to the wrong things… the RIGHT thing will come to you!!! I’m putting my faith on this!!!
Standards protect us from people and situations that would make us lose, suffer or waste valuable time, feelings or money. We live in a world where most people try to take and gain as much as possible from you while giving as little as possible, where your kindness can be taken as weakness, where no one would come to you admit that what they bring to your table is less valuable than what you bring. So it's up to us to observe, draw the line and use standards as a protective and filtering method that doesn't allow everyone and everything get to us, while also knowing that people who want to be in our lives will rise up to meet them.
I'm just now trying to bounce back from a 7 yr dumpster fire "relationship". I learned SO many lessons. One I'm most proud of is finally getting oveer of the fear of being alone. It's weird at first but I can practice on treating myself how I want to be treated.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Our brother Tony Gaskins is teaching us women how to level up and he does it with a little humor added i love this for us...we appreciate you and we thank you.
Setting standards is the way you love and protect yourself, the way you make sure you will be valued, appreciated and cherished. Know your worth and know that when you accept whatever is given to you and close your eyes to hurtful disrespectful things, you only have to lose, BUT when you refuse to be treated anything less than you deserve, that's when you filter the wrong people out and meet the right one who respects and truly cares for you.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Once you make that commitment that unclean spirit will return to see if the house is swept CLEAN!!!! Don't fall for the counterfeit bc guess what, when that spirit comes back, he comes back with seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they enter and dwell there, and the last state of that person is worse than the first!! Telling u, make that commitment and stick with it. This applies to all aspects of your life. When you speak that in the atmosphere, here comes the joker ready to trip you up. Put on the FULL AMOR.. It's war out here. Stick to your commitments and pray!!!!! HE IS BUSY............ KEEP YOUR STANDARDS, STAY WITH YOUR COMMITMENTS! This message came at the best time. Thank you Tony!
Having standards keeps you strong and disciplined, they keep you on your purpose. Your standards are based on your self esteem, integrity, and self worth. People tricking you into lowering your standards should only be viewed as a test, that you’re on the right path, so stay on the right path and keep your standards.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
So true! I recently went out on a few dates with a guy and right away I picked up on things weren't of my standards. I gave it a total of 3 dates before I finally concluded that we were not compatible. So the 4th time that he asked to take me out, I was able to tell him that I didn't think we were compatible. No hard feelings involved or anything. He just wasn't for me. Surprisingly, he responded by saying "Thanks for being honest I appreciate it". And that was that.
You sound so mature and intuitive. I'm happy that you set a standard and stuck to it. May I ask, what were the deal breakers? I'm always stuck between being 'too picky' and having standards. Mmm. Would like your opinion.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Standards are Mandatory! I’ve learned this the hard way, and most definitely have learned from my mistakes. It definitely keeps TOXIC people away & saves so much time! I have learned so much from you Tony! Thank you!
Agree! Having Standards, Morals, and Value for the type of relationship you and your partner agree upon, speaks volume. And I also believe in celibacy and abstinence, while you and your partner wait until marriage. Blessings! 🙏🏼
This video was handcrafted for me today!! I just told a guy I was getting to know that getting to know each other more is not best for me. He talked the talk, encouraging me and pointing me towards God, but he didn’t believe in waiting until marriage for sex. That was so hard for me to wrap my mind around. He is respectful, loving, intelligent, wise, everything that I think makes a person a man. But that one standard, I almost gave in and sacrificed. I was in the car yelling at God, why would you put someone so tempting in my life? With tears streaming down my face I told him no more talking, and I’ll see him in church. After watching this video I felt so much relief and thankfulness that I did not give in. I needed some good direction for this situation I was in. I am going to make my list of standards right now! The whys, and the potential worst tests. Thank you so much!! God knows what I need!
Love this I was in a similar situation cried to God after too. The guy had an unclean spirit and I could sense and smell the spiritual stench of the need for sex all over him. He would slyly bring up sex talk and when mentioned that it was ungodly he’d say God forgives and judges 🤢I hate this excuse I find it extremely disrespectful. I should have listened to my intuition because I sensed this all early. Last straw was when he had the audacity to call me after a date and to come over and imply that he wanted me to “jerk him off as he didn’t want to keep doing it himself” 2 weeks into deep talking and this was after daily talks over an hour a day, church weekly, praying over me and talking about scriptures ( he knew them better than me) doesnt smoke, drink etc. Scary out there.
So true I had to learn the hard way, now 4 years later I know what I want and need from my future spouse. I have grown so much from watching your videos. Thank you so much !!!
My Brother, Kim had what he called: Qualifications with his possible girlfriends. He didn't waver. He was my best friend, may he RIP. He taught me well . I won't settle. Done. Been there and thank you for the reminder.
"As soon as you set your standards of excellence your going to be tested with Mediocaracy!" TG mind blowing, yet so simple. I love my big brother I Christ, he speaks all facts! 🙌🏾
“I don’t want to be yelled at or lied to” --> “I want to be spoken to with honesty and respect, even when there is a disagreement. I am willing to call out behavior and expect positive results. I am willing to leave when my standards are not met”
Yes I learned this the hard way like most people! I know now after experiencing a one of the lowest/toxic relationships I ever experienced. It was partially my fault, esp during quarantine last year...Don’t let loneliness take over EVER ladies, & gentleman
You may just want to be with someone that's in a certain type of profession that requires them not to smoke weed or someone that's really big about health and just doesn't smoke weed that all
Everything Tony said is so true. In dating, without setting my standards in stone and having them written out and clear to me, I have tolerated a lot of BS that looking back I think - how did I let that slide? I realized I was dating men I was attracted to, getting to know them by spending a lot of time on the phone, and by the time things came up that I would consider to be a red flag, I would already feel like I’ve invested time & built an emotional bond. Also, prior to abstaining, I would sleep with a guy within 3 months. When you don’t have standards and a concrete plan as a woman, you are setting yourself up for failure. I’m so thankful for videos such as this that gives us women the blueprint for success
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
I recently failed the test. He was tall, dark, and handsome, and he could talk. Unfortunately he was into friends with benefits. And wants nothing serious going on 49 years old. So says
Wait until the end Golden.. the “why” and the “tests” took this to the next level in terms of solid advice. Thank you and may the Holy Spirit continue to guide you and shield you and your family from the snares of the enemy! 🙏🏽
You aren't lying about those tests Tony. I went on an 8 night cruise after eating a plant based diet for two weeks. By the grace of God, I made it with my diet 🙌🏾 It takes standards and discipline. Sometimes it's hour by hour. Stay the course, reap your rewards 💯
Set standards and firmly stand by them, without compromising. If who you date doesn't meet them. Change who you meet and date. But don't change your standards. Setting standards, means you know your worth and value. Also be extra discerning and prayerful. 🙏🏼🧐💖
Wow Tony is so right!!! My ex husband ruined our honey- moon trip to Colorado. He was either annoyed because he couldn’t find we*d or riding around looking for it. I was naive so there was probably more to it. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
During honeymoon he treated you like that?😳Wow how disrespectful. You must have been so upset and disappointed. I prob would have reverse the marriage if he acted like that during honeymoon. Some dudes arent husband material 😕 disappointing
Thanks for the video and reminder! Cause you do get caught off guard with the test!!! 🤣..Licking my wounds but at least I was quick enough to walk away! I did try to reach out to the guy to just be friends but once again I got the cold shoulder. Everybody can’t handle not being compatible in a mature way without falling out with people. Oh well 🤷🏾♀️.
Thank you for this video. It's definitely going to be something I need to think about this weekend, even though I've already had just about every test thrown at me, I still need to continue fortifying myself with conviction. That is a journey that never ends. One thing I notice in the past that has helped me a great deal, is that once I become committed to something, I don't speak it out loud. Every time I do, it doesn't work. When I keep it to myself though, I get blessings. Maybe that's because while God can hear every prayer, so can the devil...
My why: sleeping with men have broke my heart every time. Yes it’s a sin, and I know why. I’m born in Sweden, it’s a country of atheists and feminism. I take accountability but I’ve learned all by myself. But my new belief have to be even stronger, to the core, so I CAN stand my ground in any temptation to come. Thank you Tony.
I lowered my standards this one time with my ex. He had a street persona, manners, and respectful as I was very interested in this very handsome man. I found out later he didn't care about improving himself. He liked drugs, fast younger women, sex, and lying to me.
the boundaries and standards starts with YOU ... not about projecting on the other person ...that comes after .... Tony makes these points in the video ...
This is so true Tony! My ex smoked weed a lot and I was always guilty by association. I received complaints from my apartment manager because she smelled weed in my apt. When I was selling my house a prospective buyer also complained of smelling weed coz my stoner ex smoked in the backyard. There was no traveling anywhere with him because there was no weed where we were going. Ladies leave these stoners alone.
Goals, Moments of isolation is imperative for solid realist perspective of life period. Even more so now than ever bc our surroundings are changing rapidly.
@@earthreign that’s why it’s phrased “moments” not total isolation. Therapy can aide you along the way, however only you know what’s best @ the end. Thanks for feedback ❤️
Thank you for the good word Tony. Its HARD these days but to be after Gods heart and follow his word and create that standard for myself feels so peaceful
Point 27:00 In vision how I will ne tested. I never thought about that part. My lack of approaches have been my protection. I'm not bad looking or body ain't busted but they don't approach. But I need to try this activity.
Tony you broke it all the way down. And I know what you mean about, you have to know why you’re doing what you’re doing. I went for 5 year without being tested. And it was a TEST, believe me. It was with somebody I was CRAZY about. BUT, I have to say I did pass the test. By the grace of nobody but GOD, because HE gave me a way of escape and I took it. 1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV
The brain responds best to positive words to express standards. “I don’t want an inconsiderate cheater with a wandering eye” -> “I want a faithful, integrity keeping man who is loving, attentive and considerate to me”. I already know what you don’t want, it’s an exercise to try expressing what I do want. It becomes an affirmation of what I believe I deserve and what I am holding out for.
I got finessed yall after 1 year of total abstinence including not drinking for 2 years.. I got tested just as TG said and failed .. alcohol was involved and I was immediately regretful and disgusted and had to seek repentance like I never did before.. the fear of God took over me like wild fire!!! Like Tony said I didn’t think about what the test would be and it came HEAVY! I failed but is not happening again thanks TG!!
Tony, Thank you for speaking in a clear way to us women; so, that we can better ourselves. I feel like I should have been exposed to your videos when I was younger. I might've been married to the man of my dreams now. Lol. Keep doing what you do, Tony. Thanks again. 👍🏽
@34:46 you should setup a correspondence automation or just have a text automation ready to respond to all DM messaging from any social platform... telling people how to officially request a session with you and attach the applicable website and email. I run a outsource customer service and executive assistant firm... you have filter real and worthy situations.
Bro Tony this message is so good about standards in Relationships. This is so much golden nuggets right in our laps. Am so grateful for you. God bless you abundantly 1000 fold . I pray everything that you touch that God just pour out in your favor .🙏🏾❤️
Praying for you Tony 🙏 that God protects you and your family from all these tests and this world and the enemy himself. Surprised you’re not canceled, praying for you so it never happens
That is so true. I rarely joke about anything that I don’t do or don’t want bc that’s just a set up for future fail. It’s like challenging the adversary. Nahh.
@18:14 you don’t go anywhere alone... the trip is designed to set you up!!! The goal is marriage... you want to go somewhere private we’re need to be married!! Lol...
The reason I abstain from sex is for God and because he asked me to also, or at least he said, until marriage with my God ordained spouse. Also because I chose that.
Thank you for always keeping it 💯💯 I have learnt so much from your videos. Thank you, you’re an amazing and blessed man, father and husband. Blessings to the Gaskins Fam.🙏🏼💯
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY BSAFE! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! KEEP YR FAITH AND LOVE! KEEP YR JOY AND HAPPINESS AND PEACE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! STAY CALM! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
“As soon as you commit to excellence, you’re going to be tested with mediocrity.” TG
Smelling like a XMas 🎄 tree from a different kinda yard….😂😅😂🤣😆
I ended up contracting herpes from an IG fling…. Because I had absolutely no standards. I’m so grateful for my growth!! Tony’s videos have been a MAJOR key in my healing.
My sis, thank you for your honesty. I lowered my standards also & the very same thing happened to me from a teenage ex, who took 6 months to tell me cos according to him he was mad at me for giving it to him.
I pray for healing for you all. God bless. You are helping people. I am angry for yall.
@@simonespencer2244 Girlll!!!! Thank you for sharing as well.....SO glad we learned the lesson. Ive learned to TRUST God with it and do the work!!! My confidence is at an ALL time high now because of the work I've done!!
@The Harmony Pill Yes Queen!! Its UP & STUCK OKAY?!?!?!!
@@arandaholley1719 Appreciate you sis!! Prayer CHANGES THINGS!!!
Having standards will keep most toxic people out, and having boundaries will scare most toxic people away. They will quickly see that they can’t take advantage of you and will have to leave your life or change themselves if they want to be a part of your life. Either way, having standards and boundaries is a win-win situation for you.
Yess! Needed to hear that in this exact moment 🙏🏽
Weed out the time wasters , amen !
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Yes true
OMG this is so true. I need to set it and go by this to improve my life situation. Thank you Tony!!
Having standard and boundaries doesn’t drive away serious prospects
Yes !!!
@@earthreign The man maybe serious minded but not serious about having a serious long-term relationship with you. He may be serious about trying to have sex with you. I'm just saying.
@@earthreign Sorry I misunderstood your post. I was married within six months myself. Once again sorry for the misunderstanding.
@@gwenlee9562 thank you!
Truth
I hear Mr. Tony in my ear when i'm fielding these men, went on a date last nite with a man that most find attractive (tall-6f6, dark and handsome) had at least 10 phone calls prior to going out (even a vid date)...first date in person ..i met him there...was eating...I offered to pay my part...he snatched the tab away so fast! (but it sent a message like Mr. Tony said!) ate and talked and laughed for about 2 hours--then he walked me to my car...he leaned in for a kiss...caught this cute cheek!!!...he had no choice but to be a gentleman...wants to see me again...seems like he's trying to take me off the market....my eyes shall remain open & legs closed..CLARITY....Mr. Tony, I listen to your message religiously and using your teachings in practice...omg....you are a Godsend and thank you so much for helping to decode the male mind.
Technology can be the death of a relationship. I go to restaurants and see ppl on devices instead of talking to each other. How you have time to chat with others and you don't see me all day?
Can we get an update?? 🥰🥰
@@tru_kru_bahbee24 Absolutely! Well within a month he was asking for exclusivity. He lives in another close by city (that I visit often) and I said yes....but that quickly turned bad. Turned out he was a MAJOR drinker, and the behaviors showed up squarely after me agreeing to be his gf. It's like once he thought he had me---that other side showed up. Welllll....I'm "Tony G Trained" and left that joker where he was....still entact! he still saw no parts of "me" !
@@blah843 thanks for sharing love! Isn't it great to learn about the strength you possess, and observe all the growth that you are experiencing? This is indeed the blessing that comes from all of this. May you continue to make room forage for your the one that is right for you ❤. Blessings
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This! Standards are so important … and BELIEVING YOU’RE WORTHY is even more important ⭐️💫✨
Standards are so important. Something we are not taught. I was taught to find a man who can take care of you which gives the impression that he can do whatever he wants as long as he takes care of home. Tony is out here changing lives for those who listen and apply the lessons!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
He's right. The more standards you tell a man u have the more he'll test u. I stopped vocalizing the ones that i didnt have to and just start living what I know i want and they don't test u as much.
I have my standards in place & am firm on them!! I appreciate this message/reminder 🙌🏼🙌🏼. If you say NO to the wrong things… the RIGHT thing will come to you!!! I’m putting my faith on this!!!
Standards protect us from people and situations that would make us lose, suffer or waste valuable time, feelings or money. We live in a world where most people try to take and gain as much as possible from you while giving as little as possible, where your kindness can be taken as weakness, where no one would come to you admit that what they bring to your table is less valuable than what you bring. So it's up to us to observe, draw the line and use standards as a protective and filtering method that doesn't allow everyone and everything get to us, while also knowing that people who want to be in our lives will rise up to meet them.
So you think it's to late to set standards in a ten year marriage?
I'm just now trying to bounce back from a 7 yr dumpster fire "relationship". I learned SO many lessons. One I'm most proud of is finally getting oveer of the fear of being alone.
It's weird at first but I can practice on treating myself how I want to be treated.
@@jsimon7737 It is never too late to do anything!!! I left a marriage after more than 20 years after I became aware of the situation.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Our brother Tony Gaskins is teaching us women how to level up and he does it with a little humor added i love this for us...we appreciate you and we thank you.
It"s all vice versa...men too are victims of toxic women. Why would you say us women why not us humans.
Setting standards is the way you love and protect yourself, the way you make sure you will be valued, appreciated and cherished. Know your worth and know that when you accept whatever is given to you and close your eyes to hurtful disrespectful things, you only have to lose, BUT when you refuse to be treated anything less than you deserve, that's when you filter the wrong people out and meet the right one who respects and truly cares for you.
This, in my opinion, is the most rewarding form of self love 🙌🏾
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Once you make that commitment that unclean spirit will return to see if the house is swept CLEAN!!!! Don't fall for the counterfeit bc guess what, when that spirit comes back, he comes back with seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they enter and dwell there, and the last state of that person is worse than the first!! Telling u, make that commitment and stick with it. This applies to all aspects of your life. When you speak that in the atmosphere, here comes the joker ready to trip you up. Put on the FULL AMOR.. It's war out here. Stick to your commitments and pray!!!!! HE IS BUSY............ KEEP YOUR STANDARDS, STAY WITH YOUR COMMITMENTS! This message came at the best time. Thank you Tony!
Having standards keeps you strong and disciplined, they keep you on your purpose. Your standards are based on your self esteem, integrity, and self worth. People tricking you into lowering your standards should only be viewed as a test, that you’re on the right path, so stay on the right path and keep your standards.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
So true! I recently went out on a few dates with a guy and right away I picked up on things weren't of my standards. I gave it a total of 3 dates before I finally concluded that we were not compatible. So the 4th time that he asked to take me out, I was able to tell him that I didn't think we were compatible. No hard feelings involved or anything. He just wasn't for me. Surprisingly, he responded by saying "Thanks for being honest I appreciate it". And that was that.
You sound so mature and intuitive. I'm happy that you set a standard and stuck to it. May I ask, what were the deal breakers?
I'm always stuck between being 'too picky' and having standards. Mmm. Would like your opinion.
I love that I can laugh and recieve good lessons that are in line with my Christian values. Thanks uncle Tony!😆😆
they keep dragging me back in! Give it a minute then move on. Keep your eye on the sparrow.
“You save yourself years by having standards” Amen to that 👏🏾
You’ve changed my life. Thank you for what you are putting out into the world 🙏 God bless you and your wife 💕
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Standards are Mandatory! I’ve learned this the hard way, and most definitely have learned from my mistakes. It definitely keeps TOXIC people away & saves so much time! I have learned so much from you Tony! Thank you!
For sure.....this me 👍
It's so helpful to hear the examples of how something that seems so small can become bigger over time
Agree! Having Standards, Morals, and Value for the type of relationship you and your partner agree upon, speaks volume. And I also believe in celibacy and abstinence, while you and your partner wait until marriage. Blessings! 🙏🏼
This video was handcrafted for me today!! I just told a guy I was getting to know that getting to know each other more is not best for me. He talked the talk, encouraging me and pointing me towards God, but he didn’t believe in waiting until marriage for sex. That was so hard for me to wrap my mind around. He is respectful, loving, intelligent, wise, everything that I think makes a person a man. But that one standard, I almost gave in and sacrificed. I was in the car yelling at God, why would you put someone so tempting in my life? With tears streaming down my face I told him no more talking, and I’ll see him in church. After watching this video I felt so much relief and thankfulness that I did not give in. I needed some good direction for this situation I was in. I am going to make my list of standards right now! The whys, and the potential worst tests. Thank you so much!! God knows what I need!
Love this I was in a similar situation cried to God after too. The guy had an unclean spirit and I could sense and smell the spiritual stench of the need for sex all over him. He would slyly bring up sex talk and when mentioned that it was ungodly he’d say God forgives and judges 🤢I hate this excuse I find it extremely disrespectful. I should have listened to my intuition because I sensed this all early. Last straw was when he had the audacity to call me after a date and to come over and imply that he wanted me to “jerk him off as he didn’t want to keep doing it himself” 2 weeks into deep talking and this was after daily talks over an hour a day, church weekly, praying over me and talking about scriptures ( he knew them better than me) doesnt smoke, drink etc. Scary out there.
So true I had to learn the hard way, now 4 years later I know what I want and need from my future spouse. I have grown so much from watching your videos.
Thank you so much !!!
My Brother, Kim had what he called: Qualifications with his possible girlfriends. He didn't waver. He was my best friend, may he RIP. He taught me well . I won't settle. Done. Been there and thank you for the reminder.
"As soon as you set your standards of excellence your going to be tested with Mediocaracy!" TG mind blowing, yet so simple. I love my big brother I Christ, he speaks all facts! 🙌🏾
“I don’t want to be yelled at or lied to” --> “I want to be spoken to with honesty and respect, even when there is a disagreement. I am willing to call out behavior and expect positive results. I am willing to leave when my standards are not met”
Yes I learned this the hard way like most people! I know now after experiencing a one of the lowest/toxic relationships I ever experienced. It was partially my fault, esp during quarantine last year...Don’t let loneliness take over EVER ladies, & gentleman
Keep your standards even if he's doing everything right! The ring isn't the finish line. "Til death do u part" is.
Yes, endurance thru all things together.
Tony spoke to me about the smoking…. I was thinking about relaxing my standards on it.. so many men smoke weed! But I’ll hold tight!
Think about being equally yoked with the person when choosing.
You may just want to be with someone that's in a certain type of profession that requires them not to smoke weed or someone that's really big about health and just doesn't smoke weed that all
Was he refering to regular and w.? I was suprised when he said more ppl smoke now than before..?
So a man thinketh so is he; that which you thinketh, is what you will receive.
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Amen!!
Everything Tony said is so true. In dating, without setting my standards in stone and having them written out and clear to me, I have tolerated a lot of BS that looking back I think - how did I let that slide? I realized I was dating men I was attracted to, getting to know them by spending a lot of time on the phone, and by the time things came up that I would consider to be a red flag, I would already feel like I’ve invested time & built an emotional bond. Also, prior to abstaining, I would sleep with a guy within 3 months. When you don’t have standards and a concrete plan as a woman, you are setting yourself up for failure. I’m so thankful for videos such as this that gives us women the blueprint for success
God speaks through Tony! He post always at the right time. Thank you
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
I recently failed the test. He was tall, dark, and handsome, and he could talk. Unfortunately he was into friends with benefits. And wants nothing serious going on 49 years old. So says
Wait until the end Golden.. the “why” and the “tests” took this to the next level in terms of solid advice. Thank you and may the Holy Spirit continue to guide you and shield you and your family from the snares of the enemy! 🙏🏽
I am the change that I want to see in the world!🙌🏾
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Absolutely!!!
You aren't lying about those tests Tony. I went on an 8 night cruise after eating a plant based diet for two weeks. By the grace of God, I made it with my diet 🙌🏾
It takes standards and discipline. Sometimes it's hour by hour.
Stay the course, reap your rewards 💯
Set standards and firmly stand by them, without compromising. If who you date doesn't meet them. Change who you meet and date. But don't change your standards. Setting standards, means you know your worth and value. Also be extra discerning and prayerful. 🙏🏼🧐💖
A Christmas 🎄 from a different type of yard. 🤣🤦🏾♀️, Tony you have a way of telling it like it is. 🙏🏾
Gems of advice and counseling! Thank you 🙏🏼
Wow Tony is so right!!!
My ex husband ruined our honey- moon trip to Colorado. He was either annoyed because he couldn’t find we*d or riding around looking for it.
I was naive so there was probably more to it. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Wow ... why would a person prioritise weed in that moment?
@@leespicey6948 hmmm 🤔 maybe because an addict prioritizes their vice in every moment.
During honeymoon he treated you like that?😳Wow how disrespectful. You must have been so upset and disappointed. I prob would have reverse the marriage if he acted like that during honeymoon. Some dudes arent husband material 😕 disappointing
Thank you. A very important message. You decide who and what you allow into your life by the standards you set and keep.
The “Why” portion of the video 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾. Our Heavenly Father truly speaks through you Tony. 💙💙
TONY
YOU AIN'T NEVER LIED .
TRUE FACTS.
Thanks for the video and reminder! Cause you do get caught off guard with the test!!! 🤣..Licking my wounds but at least I was quick enough to walk away! I did try to reach out to the guy to just be friends but once again I got the cold shoulder. Everybody can’t handle not being compatible in a mature way without falling out with people. Oh well 🤷🏾♀️.
Thank you for this video. It's definitely going to be something I need to think about this weekend, even though I've already had just about every test thrown at me, I still need to continue fortifying myself with conviction. That is a journey that never ends.
One thing I notice in the past that has helped me a great deal, is that once I become committed to something, I don't speak it out loud. Every time I do, it doesn't work. When I keep it to myself though, I get blessings.
Maybe that's because while God can hear every prayer, so can the devil...
The test part is soooo real God bless you for this message 🙏🏾🙏🏾saving lives including mine !!! May I continue to honor God by his Grace and strength.
Tony said "Imma give her these MeMossas" 😆🤣😂
My why: sleeping with men have broke my heart every time. Yes it’s a sin, and I know why. I’m born in Sweden, it’s a country of atheists and feminism. I take accountability but I’ve learned all by myself. But my new belief have to be even stronger, to the core, so I CAN stand my ground in any temptation to come. Thank you Tony.
Definitely clarifying my standards magnifying my WHY I’m manifest all that God has for ME 🙏🏾🤞🏾🙌🏾
I lowered my standards this one time with my ex. He had a street persona, manners, and respectful as I was very interested in this very handsome man. I found out later he didn't care about improving himself. He liked drugs, fast younger women, sex, and lying to me.
Can you do a video on what kind of boundaries to set and how to set them, thank you Tony
Yes please! As a young girl in college I would really appreciate that Tony!
the boundaries and standards starts with YOU ... not about projecting on the other person ...that comes after ....
Tony makes these points in the video ...
@@kaleema1987 yes ...he recently did a video on it ...
@@kaleema1987 I did thank you 😊 I would like to see a video more specific that would be helpful
This is so true Tony! My ex smoked weed a lot and I was always guilty by association. I received complaints from my apartment manager because she smelled weed in my apt. When I was selling my house a prospective buyer also complained of smelling weed coz my stoner ex smoked in the backyard. There was no traveling anywhere with him because there was no weed where we were going. Ladies leave these stoners alone.
Goals,
Moments of isolation is imperative for solid realist perspective of life period. Even more so now than ever bc our surroundings are changing rapidly.
@@earthreign that’s why it’s phrased “moments” not total isolation. Therapy can aide you along the way, however only you know what’s best @ the end.
Thanks for feedback ❤️
Excellent Lesson.....write your standards daily...in your own notebook.
Thank you for the good word Tony. Its HARD these days but to be after Gods heart and follow his word and create that standard for myself feels so peaceful
Point 27:00 In vision how I will ne tested. I never thought about that part. My lack of approaches have been my protection. I'm not bad looking or body ain't busted but they don't approach. But I need to try this activity.
Tony you broke it all the way down. And I know what you mean about, you have to know why you’re doing what you’re doing. I went for 5 year without being tested. And it was a TEST, believe me. It was with somebody I was CRAZY about. BUT, I have to say I did pass the test. By the grace of nobody but GOD, because HE gave me a way of escape and I took it. 1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV
The brain responds best to positive words to express standards. “I don’t want an inconsiderate cheater with a wandering eye” -> “I want a faithful, integrity keeping man who is loving, attentive and considerate to me”. I already know what you don’t want, it’s an exercise to try expressing what I do want. It becomes an affirmation of what I believe I deserve and what I am holding out for.
I got finessed yall after 1 year of total abstinence including not drinking for 2 years.. I got tested just as TG said and failed .. alcohol was involved and I was immediately regretful and disgusted and had to seek repentance like I never did before.. the fear of God took over me like wild fire!!! Like Tony said I didn’t think about what the test would be and it came HEAVY! I failed but is not happening again thanks TG!!
Tony these messages apply to the home team too! Thank you sir. Your helping me with my Purity in my relationship💯
Tony, Thank you for speaking in a clear way to us women; so, that we can better ourselves. I feel like I should have been exposed to your videos when I was younger. I might've been married to the man of my dreams now. Lol. Keep doing what you do, Tony. Thanks again. 👍🏽
Wow everything Tony predicting happened with me, even the job situation!😂. God bless you TG🙏
Story about your wife and Beyonce 👏 your wife is cool and truly believe in your professional growth.
You have been on it with all the topics.
Having the discussion with your partner puts it on the table so there's less chance of misconception of standards you have regarding relationships
Standards rock. They are my favorite. 💕. They keep me happy and safe. They come from God.
Tony is speaking so much truth! I pray this message needs spreads. God Bless
@34:46 you should setup a correspondence automation or just have a text automation ready to respond to all DM messaging from any social platform... telling people how to officially request a session with you and attach the applicable website and email.
I run a outsource customer service and executive assistant firm... you have filter real and worthy situations.
God bless you Tony and your words! It feeds my soul each time! Thanks for that gift!
18:59 Tony, brotha! You are hilarious!
Beautiful word Brother Tony, Blessings to you and your family
Bro Tony this message is so good about standards in Relationships. This is so much golden nuggets right in our laps. Am so grateful for you. God bless you abundantly 1000 fold . I pray everything that you touch that God just pour out in your favor .🙏🏾❤️
TG...." For that money I might be a thot" 😂😂😂😂 Tony crazy
Thank you! This is very helpful information. 🙏🏾
This is good, so real. Thanks Tony.
I needed to hear this today. God bless your ministry.
Praying for you Tony 🙏 that God protects you and your family from all these tests and this world and the enemy himself. Surprised you’re not canceled, praying for you so it never happens
So true we get weak as we're walking with God the devil knows us too .
That is so true. I rarely joke about anything that I don’t do or don’t want bc that’s just a set up for future fail. It’s like challenging the adversary. Nahh.
Good stuff Mr. Gaskins!
as soon as you commit to excellence … you will be tested with mediocracy
@18:14 you don’t go anywhere alone... the trip is designed to set you up!!! The goal is marriage... you want to go somewhere private we’re need to be married!! Lol...
Thank you for Sharing Tony 🙏🏽
We can't let the world tell us what we can not have.. working on my list 📝
The reason I abstain from sex is for God and because he asked me to also, or at least he said, until marriage with my God ordained spouse. Also because I chose that.
I definitely did not think ahead and prepare for the tests. This is so wise
Ophra & Bey omg toni haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!! >But have to say, thanks for the honesty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for always keeping it 💯💯 I have learnt so much from your videos. Thank you, you’re an amazing and blessed man, father and husband. Blessings to the Gaskins Fam.🙏🏼💯
I needed to hear this! Thanks Tony
You always talking good wisdom
@31:18 absolutely
LOLOLOL at the MALDIVES and OUTFIT TRICK. THATS WHY WE HATE YOU NINJASS LMAOOO!!
💯 💯 💯 🔥 🔥 🔥 I needed this encouragement today Tony!🙏🏽🙌🏾💕
God bless you and thank you for this message
Thank you for this 🙏🙏
Thank you brother Tony!
I am going to watch this video before each date!!!
Bro Tony you is something serious 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you said if you done rode that bicycle you have not forgot to ride it.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY BSAFE! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! KEEP YR FAITH AND LOVE! KEEP YR JOY AND HAPPINESS AND PEACE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! STAY CALM! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
You get what you settle for.
We appreciate you Tony!
You are so helpful. Thank you brother