Medicine will do its best to prevent that... because if his ideas really become widely accepted, then we wouldn't need a lot of medicine. But I agree with you.
I feel the same. He doesn't rush but is never boring. He has a soothing voice that explains things in a way that everyone can understand. He leaves time for the knowledge to sink in without being patronising. He's great! And I love the way he analyses and breaks down the true meaning of words as they relate to the latin etc. I heard him say he used to be an English teacher - I wish he could've been mine!
Yep, and he shows his own trauma and his own mistakes with his kids and his own addictions in the past (workaholic, buying music and giving talks). He is very authentic, not like all the other helpers, who only want to help to feel strong and significant and gain power. Dr Gabor genuinely wants to help and make the world a better place for everyone. 💖💖💖💪🏻👌
I adore this guy! He genuinely uses himself as a model of all that he speaks leaving no stone unturned. He knows we need to get it right admitting he doesn't have all the answers as to how to help ourselves. I like the 12 step as he does but on the other hand disagrees with self labeling/shaming we must do to 'earn coins.' This man uses and leads retreats using hyauasca 2x/ year to help increase the the healing process in his highly acclaimed The Jungle Prescription, free on youtube. He has hundreds of free videos explaining in depth his process for helping us understand ourselves and the familial vs inherited flaws. There is simply no other person with a valuable mission to help heal the world from a psychosocialbio analytical perspective as he does. Gabor is screaming edge adept at knowing the human discord.
@@christinerosevalenti387 Dr Gabor has never said anything about selflabeling/shaming we must do to ‘earn coins’. He is an advocate to not to shame ourselves, and not even do the blame-game. And that healing starts when you reconnect with the Self, which was the trauma in the first place (disconnection with the Self). And to recover is to find the Self within us, which we lost when we gave up authenticity in order to keep the relationships whom were important for our survival.
@@t.d.6731 Gabor does talk about shaming and the 12 step program. It is just one point that he intimates regarding how he only questions that part of the program. He in fact supports 12 step but only questions the part where one labels themself as an alchohol
Maté explains not just the reality of addiction, but the tragedy of it both in the way addicts crave relief as a love substitute, but are then punished for finding it. It's just heart-stopping.
I teared up a little when he shared how his patient described the feeling of heroin. We're all just doing our best trying to cope with what we have. Be gentle with yourselves! ❤
Me, served 20 years in the army, did countless ultramarathons….was crying all the time during the movie Wisdom of Trauma…this man is so clear and must be heard everywhere
I was at a train station in LA a few weeks ago, and noticed someone tweaking out near me. I thought about what Gabor said. I offered the person a hug if they wanted it. Everyone else was avoiding them. They nodded and came in like a child for a quick hug. I really hope they find more peace and connection.
He really gets to the point of your addiction so you can realize it, sit with it, and heal it..if you want that. Really wish I listened to him years ago. Helping people and knowing the right questions to ask, is imperative to healing. Thanks Dr.
One of my great heroes. Utter gratitude for the times which have informed Dr. Mate and are supporting his community of us like-minded workers. Because of his bravery and pure-heartedness, I am no longer afraid to speak my mind.
Somatic Experiencing and Grieving your early childhood losses fully and completely and also your current losses, true grieving process reduces the pain and being aware of your bodily sensations dissolves it.
It does not “dissolve” it. Unwise to even suggest this as a failure can trigger a suicide. It can be managed but not healed or dissolved. The future may bring imorovement but we are not there now.
@@rs5570 it certainly takes time but dissolves it to lesser intensity...I would say beliefs get cured when you work on your thoughts and be aware of them, feelings get cured when you feel them with full awareness, that is what SE is, but every case is unique and a personal journey to cure, I would suggest below video from Eckhart to listen to more and more....
He has such a genuinely concerned soft voice, a pure soul, when stressed or anxious i just hear his lectures doing my chores, and at times i may not be able to concentrate on what he says, but strangely his voice soothes
Such a great human being, Dr. Mate is exceptional by admitting himself his own problem with addiction... so compassionate, eloquent explaining this Illness is like having fresh air in yourself. Authenticity is lacking in humans, we need to be ourselves to live the best life
What a day! Such a life changing look at the way we view ourselves and others around us. With compassion we can help heal ourselves and one another. Thanks for making this happing. #ACESAWARENATION 🙌🙏❤️
Excellent talk Thankyou.. The problem is the audience will clap , applause write articles and “policies “ in agreement with Gabior and then implement absolutely ZERO .. Its ALL TALK .. I’ve seen this first hand .. It’s not the “damaged “ that need help!! It’s thoses claiming to help them who are in the most need..
I hear what you're saying and share your frustration, but I will say that although it took literally 20 years since the ACE Study was first published in America, trauma informed care is now becoming much more widespread in our schools and in the education of human service workers (I'm a retired social worker and didn't encounter the ACE study until the last few years before I retired in 2014 unfortunately). This is of course only a beginning, but this information is so compelling and powerful and important that we the people must force our politicians to address it and fund necessary programs and training. I agree that many of those who historically have claimed to be "helping" have often been doing the exact opposite, particularly because the Medical Model of illness simply stigmatizes the person suffering, diagnosing them and simply treating symptoms rather than the root causes of that suffering.
1. Who has the power to "implement" things in capitalism? 2. On what basis are these things decided? Answer these, and you will stop asking such silly questions of your own.
The realization of past lives and bringing certain karma (predispositions) into this life is will be what the individual has earned and must work thorough and master. Responsibility for ones actions, though, and words helps to understand and recover and become healthy. We are all wounded and need help, and it certainly is a pleasure to see and know people like Dr. to get to the heart of the matter. Thank you.
So simple knowledge, just knowing it and believing in it gives relief. The effects of ACE can be seen everywhere. It takes years for sufferer to know what is happening to him. A simple solution reaching to the needy in years...or in decades, why.. because few are talking about it, awareness are low, subject is taboo. Ppl sitting high in Medicine practices are so satisfied in their elitist attitude that they hardly care for the one who is suffering....but probably social changes are always slow to come.....
Not to take anything away from this amazing talk...I have listened to many interviews with Dr. Mate, but I never realized he had such a great sense of humor. I love how he can laugh at himself too. Thank you Gabor for sharing this vital information and helping to set some adults on the road to a better and more fulfilling life, including me.
Thank you Dr Gabor Mate for sharing your videos. They definitely resonate with me and I believe they will help me to get better. I'm so glad I found you!
Wow He is bringing ACES in to his usual amazing and clear talk of the human condition Everyone could be talking about and the world would be much better off Thanks Gabor and Scottland
I don't know how much I can thank you Dr. Gabor, now I can go on again. It's a proces ofcourse, but the pain and disbelieve I thought I should never overcome is gone. It works immidiate and that's almost incredible, but it's definate credible, and I believe it and you made it possible to continue to grow and to regain strenght, so again thank you a lot! One of the millions who loves you.
excellent that this channel is bringing this info to a wider audience. love gabor mate, if only because he has helped me understand myself better n thus heal that lil bit more :)
My hero! This guy lived it and has a phenomenal message that's compelling and resonates with the majority of trauma victims. Thank you so much for your wonderful contribution to humanity.
Well,.. so much actually makes perfect sense after listening to Gabor. . . . . (And I so wholeheartedly agree with what he stated in a conversation with his son, Aaron,: ''People need to think for themselves . . . .'' and: ''It is in fact _better_ to be disillusioned, than to live with a [false] illusion'' . . . .) What a very, very special individual! . . . .💓
@@sharkamov god is not a delusion Eric, it’s a belief system, a set of values, betterment of the human condition, people throughout the world draw inner strength from various higher powers. . It’s a belief not in a biophysical realm.
He’s brilliant I’m so pleased that I found him because all of my philosophies are being validated I’m 63 and I would like to have my next years in a way that I see as my best self. I am done pointing fingers and suffering I’m doing a meditation room and I have a whole wall in chalk paint to write on. Whatever the hell I want to say. When I’m tired of connecting to it, I will close my eyes and metaphorically put it in either a wastebasket for not as important things. And the hard “”shit” (Pun intended) flush down the toilet and say goodbye like we did when we were Little kids being potty trained. Namaste my peace be in your lives.
A Course in Miracles - sounds like your a great soul to dive in to the teachings. I've been a student for 5yrs and it's not a cult, or a religion. Promise! You may be familiar already - who knows? We are about the same age and when I was introduced to ACIM, I heard truth🤩 I've heard that - ACIM is a pathway to God for Intellectuals? Many people are waking up and drawn to the course. David Hoffmeister is one of the best teachers 💕 Peace and Love, Roseburg Oregon ✨
We hear so much about healing from trama...there is much to learn...dr mate is amazing...i hope someday we will have the answer to why the human male rapes childen or inflicts trama on anybody this way...can we get all shrinks on board for this study with answers and cures or rightful punishments in our society today...???
thank you dr Gabor Mate I understand this on such an intuitive level I wish the basic clarity with which you explain symptoms and conditions was investigated first and utilized by all professionals . It makes more sense .
All my life from a child never grasping education as my classmates seemed so easily to do. I honestly thought I was thick, different, the odd one out...It's starting to make sense now, being abandoned at 5 put in children's home till 16. Now at 51 still trapped in addition after repeated attempts in rehab, and countless failed relationships sadly affecting our children and their mums.
Awesome stuff...most of my problems were from my childhood abuse and later on as i got older...i have an eating disorder and auto immune disease ...thyroid problems...i now have heart problems and emotional problems from paiful experiences ive endured
I wish I had a tool to give you that you can not find online but this is one I am trying . It is called setting healthy boundaries. It has only been a few days but I set a goal for my well being then I work on doing what I need to to feel okay with myself .
I agree with much of Dr. Mates’ theories regarding addiction , the connection between mind and body , etc........Unfortunately , the depth that is needed to reach , regarding the understanding of a patient’s physical and mental totality is simply UNREALISTIC in today’s 10 minute maximum given the number of patients that Drs. schedule during the course of a days work.
I have always received the time I need from physicians & therapists in the US. To have improvement after being abused as a child I believe a person must do most of the heavy lifting themselves.
I will have to tell you something you nailed the stress response in the body when I came down with eczema my world feel apart and I was 47 never had any skin condition an it came on. Crazy the body does talk to you😇
I was adopted as an infant (6.5 weeks) - there are no baby photos of me because I allegedly had terrible eczema when they got me, head to toe... that didn't settle down for another 3months. I only realised in the last couple of years that I was already grieving the loss of my biological mother, plus 6.5 weeks in a hospital with nobody to bond with, when I was handed over to someone with a LOT of unresolved rage issues... It wasn't an "allergy"!
It may have not started as an allergy, but due to stress, your immune system was shutting down and the food you were getting was not right. You needed mother's milk in the early years!
@@rebeccayoung9434 why I persevered - despite latching problems for the first two months - and breastfed my baby up to 18mos. Once we got the hang of it, it was awesome 😍
This talk brings to mind the idea that what we call a disorder is normal in context, it is our cultural failures (individualism) in secure sustainability or the real acknowledgement of human health as a bench mark for national success
Agreed about the stay at home parent! Educational curriculums? What changes? Hard to have a stay home parent when 50% people leave their spouses. I am victim to that
I have read a lot of comments written about Gabor and while I completely agree with everything people day for example all the praise but he needs something constructive as well. We could look into what he says about gravity. Everyone needs to grow. Much love is sent with this comment with a deep sense of gratitude
Sooo true.Can subscribe this by my own experiences and the experiences of my patients.This should be the most important thing to know for medical students and all Who decide to give birth to a child. Thank you sooo much.
45:58 "If a plant in your back yard was not developing, what questions would you ask yourself? You‘d ask yourself: What conditions are lacking that promote the healthy development of that plant? Nutrition, minerals, irrigation, sunlight, ... You wouldn‘t necessarily make that plant wrong for not developing. You would simply say: What are the conditions that are needed here?"
I think child abuse is epidemic. There is so much shame around the topic that very few can bear to properly address it, to ask these questions. My parents were wealthy yet profoundly abused us, physically & sexually. No one would help us because of the money we had. Wealthy people do not beat their kids or sexually torture them, of course… Very high profile people abuse their kids. It must be kept secret no matter what. There is a glitch in humans as a species that this goes on. It is too horrific to even look at much less properly address.
Gabor arrived just in time for Humanity. The suffering has never been greater and is getting worse. He's a kind man even offering compassion to Trump who he knows grew up with a father who was a brute. Love and kindness all Life responds to. And Truth and Justice which America has totally corrupted. As we all know the more massive the crime-no penalty no time.
Such common sense wisdom and insights and yet so profound. I think its saying something about US when we are so engaged with hearing these simple powerful truths. Our cultures (& humanity itself) is struggling with finding the space to cultivate life giving practices that empower and enable us all not just to appreciate the profound insights but to act on our understanding in our daily lives. We are all standing in the otherwise tragic gap between potentiality and reality as Parker Palmer would say.
After getting an MA in English , I decided to get a teaching credential in order to be practical as regards job employment. It was after receiving that credential that I read that "a childhood education was to provide productive members of society". I took this to mean what I think it did mean: ie to produce kids who could make money for the USA. Even as I read it and tried to learn it by heart- in case I was asked by a job interviewer the goal of education- I thought that's NOT right! Hearing your lecture, what I really felt has been given words and I'm going to stand by that and ignore the other dictum which is not based on Humanity or children in any way shape or form. The education of a child is to guide the development of their brain in all its manifestations: curiousity; expressions contrary to the status quo; expressions of hurt; and, in short, providing a sanctuary for emotional and intellectual vulnerability as it arises. That is, to be able to say- I do not know or that does not feel right-are important to the development of a mature, curious and questioning brain.
Dr. Mate, you deserve the Nobel prize in the field of medicine. You are awesome.
Agreed.
Medicine will do its best to prevent that... because if his ideas really become widely accepted, then we wouldn't need a lot of medicine. But I agree with you.
I agree with Nobelprize In Medicine Or Something else.
100% agree.
I agree.
Screw the celebrities. This guy is my hero.
Celebritis .What do they give as Human to Human ...Nothing..So Amen to what you said.!
Why were celebrities your hero?
@@ehrlinnmuxx5842 they aren't. That went over your head.
He is my hero also!!!
I definitely would love to have his autograph.
Thank you - beautiful man. You've freely sacrificed so much of your time, , life, to help humankind.
He amazes me every single time...can listen to him speak for hours st a stretch...listening to him.is like mindful meditation
fall asleep peacefully everytime
Totally agree. He is out of this world. Amazing human being.
Same for me. I listen on and on and always get to realise something new. It's a real pleasure. His voice is part of it, deep and soothing.
I feel the same. He doesn't rush but is never boring. He has a soothing voice that explains things in a way that everyone can understand. He leaves time for the knowledge to sink in without being patronising. He's great! And I love the way he analyses and breaks down the true meaning of words as they relate to the latin etc. I heard him say he used to be an English teacher - I wish he could've been mine!
Agree with You ..We realy need to understand this and Demand changes.!
Gabor Mate is a great man. He contributes so much to humanity.
Yep, and he shows his own trauma and his own mistakes with his kids and his own addictions in the past (workaholic, buying music and giving talks). He is very authentic, not like all the other helpers, who only want to help to feel strong and significant and gain power.
Dr Gabor genuinely wants to help and make the world a better place for everyone. 💖💖💖💪🏻👌
I adore this guy! He genuinely uses himself as a model of all that he speaks leaving no stone unturned. He knows we need to get it right admitting he doesn't have all the answers as to how to help ourselves. I like the 12 step as he does but on the other hand disagrees with self labeling/shaming we must do to 'earn coins.' This man uses and leads retreats using hyauasca 2x/ year to help increase the the healing process in his highly acclaimed The Jungle Prescription, free on youtube. He has hundreds of free videos explaining in depth his process for helping us understand ourselves and the familial vs inherited flaws. There is simply no other person with a valuable mission to help heal the world from a psychosocialbio analytical perspective as he does. Gabor is screaming edge adept at knowing the human discord.
@@christinerosevalenti387 Dr Gabor has never said anything about selflabeling/shaming we must do to ‘earn coins’. He is an advocate to not to shame ourselves, and not even do the blame-game. And that healing starts when you reconnect with the Self, which was the trauma in the first place (disconnection with the Self). And to recover is to find the Self within us, which we lost when we gave up authenticity in order to keep the relationships whom were important for our survival.
@@t.d.6731 Gabor does talk about shaming and the 12 step program. It is just one point that he intimates regarding how he only questions that part of the program. He in fact supports 12 step but only questions the part where one labels themself as an alchohol
...he only questions the labeling.
Maté explains not just the reality of addiction, but the tragedy of it both in the way addicts crave relief as a love substitute, but are then punished for finding it. It's just heart-stopping.
Thank you for sharing. I wish his books were mandatory reading for all health professionals .
mary pat brosnan, Gabor Mate’s books should be required reading for all adults with children! Spread the word!
Gabor changed my life .. what a compassionate intelligent human ..
How he did It?
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I LOVE this man. The wise father I never had.
I had this loving father, yes he was imperfect but he love was pure.
Viewing this is so highly recommended for all education, health and social care professionals but also parents.
One of the most amazing humans beings existing on this planet today ❣❣❣❣❣❣
UK and US are toxic cultures.
I had seen his work as a child and he is gifting the world with his wisdom.
I teared up a little when he shared how his patient described the feeling of heroin. We're all just doing our best trying to cope with what we have. Be gentle with yourselves! ❤
Me, served 20 years in the army, did countless ultramarathons….was crying all the time during the movie Wisdom of Trauma…this man is so clear and must be heard everywhere
I was at a train station in LA a few weeks ago, and noticed someone tweaking out near me. I thought about what Gabor said. I offered the person a hug if they wanted it. Everyone else was avoiding them. They nodded and came in like a child for a quick hug. I really hope they find more peace and connection.
Trauma is not what happened to you, trauma is what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you - Gabor Maté
Kind of the same definition as Peter Levine's
Beautifully presented as it’s truthful.
He's iconic..
YES
Perfectly said.
Such wisdom compassion in his delivery. Very moving. He speaks fundamental truth.
He's helped me more than any relationship I've had in years. Sad but true.
I love this man so much, his words has saved my life on more than one occasion.
Look up 'Gabor Mate Clues series' on TH-cam. Some great videos
He's a cultist.
@@7550375503 why do you say that?
@@lydieuhh Because I can?
Bless you, keep up the noble fight to be alive.
A brilliant talk explaining the many new understandings of trauma and addiction coming out of neuroscience. Dr. Mate is a treasure.
He really gets to the point of your addiction so you can realize it, sit with it, and heal it..if you want that. Really wish I listened to him years ago. Helping people and knowing the right questions to ask, is imperative to healing. Thanks Dr.
I love this guy
Beautiful wording!
Well said
Beautifully put 💓❤️
One of my great heroes. Utter gratitude for the times which have informed Dr. Mate and are supporting his community of us like-minded workers. Because of his bravery and pure-heartedness, I am no longer afraid to speak my mind.
This guy is unbelievable. Amazing humanity.
Somatic Experiencing and Grieving your early childhood losses fully and completely and also your current losses, true grieving process reduces the pain and being aware of your bodily sensations dissolves it.
It does not “dissolve” it. Unwise to even suggest this as a failure can trigger a suicide. It can be managed but not healed or dissolved. The future may bring imorovement but we are not there now.
@@rs5570 it certainly takes time but dissolves it to lesser intensity...I would say beliefs get cured when you work on your thoughts and be aware of them, feelings get cured when you feel them with full awareness, that is what SE is, but every case is unique and a personal journey to cure, I would suggest below video from Eckhart to listen to more and more....
th-cam.com/video/Aujrhxwu8CA/w-d-xo.html the crux of eckhart teachings in 11 minutes
I can listen to this amazing man for hours. Sir...the world needs you.
Absolutely speechless. He is an EQ (Emotional Inteligence) genius..
Absolutely. Alice Miller too. That woman amazes me.
Dr. Mate...what a man, mind and heart💖💖💖
He has such a genuinely concerned soft voice, a pure soul, when stressed or anxious i just hear his lectures doing my chores, and at times i may not be able to concentrate on what he says, but strangely his voice soothes
Scotland, you rock! 2,000+ participants! Love to you all, from Florida!💞
Wise decision. Best wishes.
I stand with Dr. Gabor Mate on his polical lenses!! He treats the body as a "WHOLE".. connected..
Our society needs more people like Dr MATÈ.
Such a great human being, Dr. Mate is exceptional by admitting himself his own problem with addiction... so compassionate, eloquent explaining this Illness is like having fresh air in yourself. Authenticity is lacking in humans, we need to be ourselves to live the best life
What a day! Such a life changing look at the way we view ourselves and others around us. With compassion we can help heal ourselves and one another. Thanks for making this happing. #ACESAWARENATION 🙌🙏❤️
Excellent talk Thankyou.. The problem is the audience will clap , applause write articles and “policies “ in agreement with Gabior and then implement absolutely ZERO .. Its ALL TALK .. I’ve seen this first hand .. It’s not the “damaged “ that need help!! It’s thoses claiming to help them who are in the most need..
I hear what you're saying and share your frustration, but I will say that although it took literally 20 years since the ACE Study was first published in America, trauma informed care is now becoming much more widespread in our schools and in the education of human service workers (I'm a retired social worker and didn't encounter the ACE study until the last few years before I retired in 2014 unfortunately). This is of course only a beginning, but this information is so compelling and powerful and important that we the people must force our politicians to address it and fund necessary programs and training. I agree that many of those who historically have claimed to be "helping" have often been doing the exact opposite, particularly because the Medical Model of illness simply stigmatizes the person suffering, diagnosing them and simply treating symptoms rather than the root causes of that suffering.
1. Who has the power to "implement" things in capitalism?
2. On what basis are these things decided?
Answer these, and you will stop asking such silly questions of your own.
Bullseye 🎯 thank you for your accurate observation
01:00 how convincing, how touching. Thank you doc for being the voice of people suffering from bad addictions
The realization of past lives and bringing certain karma (predispositions) into this life is will be what the individual has earned and must work thorough and master. Responsibility for ones actions, though, and words helps to understand and recover and become healthy. We are all wounded and need help, and it certainly is a pleasure to see and know people like Dr. to get to the heart of the matter. Thank you.
Past lives? There is no need to share your delusions sister.
No.
Spectacular. The closing words were so elegant and precise, they gave me chills. Thank you.
I admire Dr Maté. Great man.
So simple knowledge, just knowing it and believing in it gives relief. The effects of ACE can be seen everywhere. It takes years for sufferer to know what is happening to him. A simple solution reaching to the needy in years...or in decades, why.. because few are talking about it, awareness are low, subject is taboo. Ppl sitting high in Medicine practices are so satisfied in their elitist attitude that they hardly care for the one who is suffering....but probably social changes are always slow to come.....
So very true. God bless you.
Best talk ive seen from him yet gives me lots to think about in relation to human needs . Infact my needs .
Yeah, this is heavy.....
Not to take anything away from this amazing talk...I have listened to many interviews with Dr. Mate, but I never realized he had such a great sense of humor. I love how he can laugh at himself too.
Thank you Gabor for sharing this vital information and helping to set some adults on the road to a better and more fulfilling life, including me.
Thank you Dr Gabor Mate for sharing your videos. They definitely resonate with me and I believe they will help me to get better. I'm so glad I found you!
Wow
He is bringing ACES in to his usual amazing and clear talk of the human condition
Everyone could be talking about and the world would be much better off
Thanks Gabor and Scottland
I don't know how much I can thank you Dr. Gabor, now I can go on again. It's a proces ofcourse, but the pain and disbelieve I thought I should never overcome is gone. It works immidiate and that's almost incredible, but it's definate credible, and I believe it and you made it possible to continue to grow and to regain strenght, so again thank you a lot! One of the millions who loves you.
Aren’t we lucky to have this genius man right here in our living room
Hats off Dr. Mate you are doing such great work. Thank you.
Dr Matte you have been anointed to speak truth and understanding hugs to you your a gift to this world thank you sooo much
Gabor Matte You Are melting my heart. Thank you so much
You would know the truth, and the truth would set you free.....thank you Doctor Gabo
This man is a blessing
excellent that this channel is bringing this info to a wider audience. love gabor mate, if only because he has helped me understand myself better n thus heal that lil bit more :)
How did I not find this guy sooner!
It's never let grandma, haha.
Btw i have found him in my twenties.
Wishing you good health.
When the student is ready.. :)
Glad you found him later rather than never!
My hero! This guy lived it and has a phenomenal message that's compelling and resonates with the majority of trauma victims. Thank you so much for your wonderful contribution to humanity.
Well,.. so much actually makes perfect sense after listening to Gabor. . . . .
(And I so wholeheartedly agree with what he stated in a conversation with his son, Aaron,: ''People need to think for themselves . . . .'' and: ''It is in fact _better_ to be disillusioned, than to live with a [false] illusion'' . . . .)
What a very, very special individual! . . . .💓
@@susanrichard1653 I've got a nagging feeling, that somehow Gabor was actually talking about exactly types such as yourself . . . .😉
@@sharkamov you don’t know me personally Eric, how could possibly make such an assumption. You care on with your shallow life experience NB, Canada
@@susanrichard1653 You're pathetic with your god delusion. Full stop.
@@sharkamov god is not a delusion Eric, it’s a belief system, a set of values, betterment of the human condition, people throughout the world draw inner strength from various higher powers. . It’s a belief not in a biophysical realm.
@@susanrichard1653 *_PROVE IT!!!_*
He’s brilliant I’m so pleased that I found him because all of my philosophies are being validated I’m 63 and I would like to have my next years in a way that I see as my best self. I am done pointing fingers and suffering I’m doing a meditation room and I have a whole wall in chalk paint to write on. Whatever the hell I want to say. When I’m tired of connecting to it, I will close my eyes and metaphorically put it in either a wastebasket for not as important things. And the hard “”shit” (Pun intended) flush down the toilet and say goodbye like we did when we were Little kids being potty trained. Namaste my peace be in your lives.
A Course in Miracles - sounds like your a great soul to dive in to the teachings. I've been a student for 5yrs and it's not a cult, or a religion. Promise!
You may be familiar already - who knows? We are about the same age and when I was introduced to ACIM, I heard truth🤩 I've heard that - ACIM is a pathway to God for Intellectuals? Many people are waking up and drawn to the course. David Hoffmeister is one of the best teachers 💕
Peace and Love,
Roseburg Oregon ✨
Thanks you for all you expose and having the bravity to see
This guy knows his stuff interesting we need more people like him worth listening to
We hear so much about healing from trama...there is much to learn...dr mate is amazing...i hope someday we will have the answer to why the human male rapes childen or inflicts trama on anybody this way...can we get all shrinks on board for this study with answers and cures or rightful punishments in our society today...???
I fully agree but would add that women sexually abuse their own children too. Believe me.
Yes. Thankyou for brave insightful human beings who have the courage to put their necks on the scaffold. They are humanity.
thank you so much for sharing this very important work (East Tennessee, USA)
thank you dr Gabor Mate I understand this on such an intuitive level I wish the basic clarity with which you explain symptoms and conditions was investigated first and utilized by all professionals . It makes more sense .
All my life from a child never grasping education as my classmates seemed so easily to do. I honestly thought I was thick, different, the odd one out...It's starting to make sense now, being abandoned at 5 put in children's home till 16. Now at 51 still trapped in addition after repeated attempts in rehab, and countless failed relationships sadly affecting our children and their mums.
All that knowledge and a sense of humour absolutely brilliant.
Poverty is a major factor in addiction and self destruction and shame 😔 compassion is our friend
Thank you, Dr. Mate ❤️
Awesome stuff...most of my problems were from my childhood abuse and later on as i got older...i have an eating disorder and auto immune disease ...thyroid problems...i now have heart problems and emotional problems from paiful experiences ive endured
I wish I had a tool to give you that you can not find online but this is one I am trying . It is called setting healthy boundaries. It has only been a few days but I set a goal for my well being then I work on doing what I need to to feel okay with myself .
He defenitely is a hero. The books are great. I like to buy them as presents. You can understand yourself better after reading them.
Love this beautiful soul
I agree with much of Dr. Mates’ theories regarding
addiction , the connection between mind and body ,
etc........Unfortunately , the depth that is needed to
reach , regarding the understanding of a patient’s physical
and mental totality is simply UNREALISTIC in today’s 10
minute maximum given the number of patients that Drs.
schedule during the course of a days work.
I have always received the time I need from physicians & therapists in the US. To have improvement after being abused as a child I believe a person must do most of the heavy lifting themselves.
What a relief, a truth teller. Thank you
I will have to tell you something you nailed the stress response in the body when I came down with eczema my world feel apart and I was 47 never had any skin condition an it came on. Crazy the body does talk to you😇
I was adopted as an infant (6.5 weeks) - there are no baby photos of me because I allegedly had terrible eczema when they got me, head to toe... that didn't settle down for another 3months.
I only realised in the last couple of years that I was already grieving the loss of my biological mother, plus 6.5 weeks in a hospital with nobody to bond with, when I was handed over to someone with a LOT of unresolved rage issues...
It wasn't an "allergy"!
It may have not started as an allergy, but due to stress, your immune system was shutting down and the food you were getting was not right. You needed mother's milk in the early years!
@@rebeccayoung9434 why I persevered - despite latching problems for the first two months - and breastfed my baby up to 18mos. Once we got the hang of it, it was awesome 😍
Did you recover from your eczema? There are physical reasons for eczema, and physical reasons why the body is less or more resilient to stress.
@@infiniLor imprisonment involved or some form of harassment and abuse perhaps residential school??
This talk brings to mind the idea that what we call a disorder is normal in context, it is our cultural failures (individualism) in secure sustainability or the real acknowledgement of human health as a bench mark for national success
Thanks for sharing the upload! Enjoyed this insightful presentation.
Stay home parent, decent wages, change to the educational curriculums is the start to a sophisticated evolving society.
Agreed about the stay at home parent! Educational curriculums? What changes? Hard to have a stay home parent when 50% people leave their spouses. I am victim to that
Careful there, you're talking that disgusting socialist stuff. Unending capitalist greed is where it's at!
Dr. Gabor Mate, Thank you. 💗
So Wonderful, Thankyou Gabor Mate.
Great speech, great insights, very spiritual and honestly true.
I didn't expect him too have such a great sense of humour
Very dry and funny! I adore him
It's eye opening for me. A total surrender to all his explanation 🙏 Thank you sir ⚘️
Gabor has changed my life 🙏❤️ thank you
I 'm so proud of you Gabor
I’m in love with this man.
Love the idea of being cared about itself causing pain relief
No better pain medication than love 💯 nature
I have read a lot of comments written about Gabor and while I completely agree with everything people day for example all the praise but he needs something constructive as well. We could look into what he says about gravity. Everyone needs to grow. Much love is sent with this comment with a deep sense of gratitude
One magnetic, inspirational Canadian Person
Let me guess: you’re Canadian.
Thank you Gabor Mate ,, now I can start to understand
Sooo true.Can subscribe this by my own experiences and the experiences of my patients.This should be the most important thing to know for medical students and all Who decide to give birth to a child.
Thank you sooo much.
What a brilliant man
Thank you, amazing talk!
CCNM is teaching this stuff! That's why I'm here.
I really liked what he said about addiction now I don't feel so bad about it. Its just what "happened" to me as a result of my trauma
Thank u for your honesty & sharing your experiences :) XO
A good title. Soo...good, thank you, Dr. Mate’
45:58 "If a plant in your back yard was not developing, what questions would you ask yourself? You‘d ask yourself:
What conditions are lacking that promote the healthy development of that plant? Nutrition, minerals, irrigation, sunlight, ...
You wouldn‘t necessarily make that plant wrong for not developing. You would simply say: What are the conditions that are needed here?"
I think child abuse is epidemic. There is so much shame around the topic that very few can bear to properly address it, to ask these questions. My parents were wealthy yet profoundly abused us, physically & sexually. No one would help us because of the money we had. Wealthy people do not beat their kids or sexually torture them, of course… Very high profile people abuse their kids. It must be kept secret no matter what. There is a glitch in humans as a species that this goes on. It is too horrific to even look at much less properly address.
It's so sad when plants get treated better than kids or spouses
Gabor arrived just in time for Humanity. The suffering has never been greater and is getting worse. He's a kind man even offering compassion to Trump who he knows grew up with a father who was a brute. Love and kindness all Life responds to. And Truth and Justice which America has totally corrupted. As we all know the more massive the crime-no penalty no time.
Huge fan!
Excellent as always 💕
THANK YOU💞🌻
FOR SHARING THIS AMAZING INFORMATION
He is totally right
Brilliant stuff gaber mate. Love your stuff 100%
Such common sense wisdom and insights and yet so profound. I think its saying something about US when we are so engaged with hearing these simple powerful truths. Our cultures (& humanity itself) is struggling with finding the space to cultivate life giving practices that empower and enable us all not just to appreciate the profound insights but to act on our understanding in our daily lives. We are all standing in the otherwise tragic gap between potentiality and reality as Parker Palmer would say.
After getting an MA in English , I decided to get a teaching credential in order to be practical as regards job employment.
It was after receiving that credential that I read that "a childhood education was to provide productive members of society". I took this to mean what I think it did mean: ie to produce kids who could make money for the USA. Even as I read it and tried to learn it by heart- in case I was asked by a job interviewer the goal of education- I thought that's NOT right!
Hearing your lecture, what I really felt has been given words and I'm going to stand by that and ignore the other dictum which is not based on Humanity or children in any way shape or form.
The education of a child is to guide the development of their brain in all its manifestations: curiousity; expressions contrary to the status quo; expressions of hurt; and, in short, providing a sanctuary for emotional and intellectual vulnerability as it arises. That is, to be able to say- I do not know or that does not feel right-are important to the development of a mature, curious and questioning brain.