When I quit smoking the first time one of the pamphlets said "HALT: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired." The four horsemen of vulnerability-to-counterproductive-impulses. Thanks Kayla!
Kayla, I just watched your video on your personal experience of living with BPD symptoms. I could feel that lump in your throat and the tears you were holding back. Your upper lip got sweaty.... you were physiologically experiencing a lot of the deep pain we feel. Bless you for being so raw!!!!💖 It made me want to ask could you start a series of videos on some of the symptoms, like anger, insecurity, turbulence in relationships, what you have done to gain control, how long it took and where your at now. Like how many of the 9 criteria you had, how severe was each and how many you no longer have? Hearing a real person so articulate as you are with your therapy degree gives all of your followers real hope.❤️❤️❤️p.s.dont forget the granddaddy of all therapist with this disorder Marsha Linehan who formulated DBT and is internationally respected.
Yes! I have this all the time with my boyfriend, I perceive it as bored/annoyed/uninterested (when it’s really just his neutral or tired voice) it automatically triggers a spiral.
your channel is so incredible. Im a psychotherapist myself with a history of BDP partners and im still learning so much listening to you. I never even knew SILENT BPD existed before i found you last week. I always thought my mum had a kind of "passive internal BPD: as she had no anger outbursts and now this SILENT makes so much sense. Thank you and meows to you sweet kitty❤
Thank you for sharing about your BPD . It gives me insight and understanding on what’s going on with my girlfriend that has BPD . I just want to be the supportive and caring boyfriend that she deserves. Unfortunately her pass relationships done more harm then good to her . She is in therapy and on medication for her BPD . I have learn one of the best things for her is for me to be patient, caring and showing her I’m here for her , not going anywhere. Thanks again for sharing and helping others better understand BPD .
Your bengal baby (tabby ?) is so cute ❤. Love your channel . Infp ( for those that believe in that stuff ) and someone with bpd ; I relate to moodiness. Thank you for everything that you do ❤
After lots of therapy I found my biggest trigger is injustice. I imagine many BPD sufferers are the same. Considering the World is a big ball of injustice, I imagine the way out is acceptance?
I was diagnosed with borderline traits as a 15 year old. I was full on borderline, but they don’t diagnose past “traits” for people under 18. Today, I’m a therapist. And I work frequently with BPD patients to help them navigate their disorder. Even though I’m considered recovered and stable (obviously enough so to do the job I do), I still experience the mood swings and intense emotions. I think an important thing to know is that recovery is possible, but don’t be ashamed if small pieces such as the mood swings and intense emotions are still there.
Your channel is incredible!!! You are incredible. Found you yesterday and inhaled already 10 videos although im following so many likewise channels. I didnt even know silent BPD exists...As im always ending up with BPD-partners i was convinced my mother had it too but a more " introverted" version. I never heard of this before. Any tips how to deal with the sensitivity to critisism or even just triggering a sense of "minority conplex"?, the lingering anger which i feel can go off any time.? it stresses me out so much. I unfortunately never had a partner as reflected as you and aswell absolutely avoidant of seeking therapy.
My mood springs are very rapid and on occasion upsetting I had to smother giggles at laughing at someone I was so mortified at what I'd done that when I got home I cried I can be content and then less than 10 mins later sobbing then feeling down the mood swings are intense I'm on a antipsychotic now but my psychiatrist has to increase dose I'm on 200mg now but it's no disorder in bad cases like mine it's a gomplete change of personality I fontcwatch tv I'm careful on Internet don't comment on anything contrivissl as prople online can say hurtful things and it triggers me I hav3 yo be aware of who I'm mixing with can trigger me
When I quit smoking the first time one of the pamphlets said "HALT: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired." The four horsemen of vulnerability-to-counterproductive-impulses. Thanks Kayla!
Kayla, I just watched your video on your personal experience of living with BPD symptoms. I could feel that lump in your throat and the tears you were holding back. Your upper lip got sweaty.... you were physiologically experiencing a lot of the deep pain we feel. Bless you for being so raw!!!!💖 It made me want to ask could you start a series of videos on some of the symptoms, like anger, insecurity, turbulence in relationships, what you have done to gain control, how long it took and where your at now. Like how many of the 9 criteria you had, how severe was each and how many you no longer have? Hearing a real person so articulate as you are with your therapy degree gives all of your followers real hope.❤️❤️❤️p.s.dont forget the granddaddy of all therapist with this disorder Marsha Linehan who formulated DBT and is internationally respected.
Ok but what about reacting to someone’s tone of voice? For me when someone sounds angry it really triggers my mood swings and spirals.
Yes! I have this all the time with my boyfriend, I perceive it as bored/annoyed/uninterested (when it’s really just his neutral or tired voice) it automatically triggers a spiral.
Me too
your channel is so incredible. Im a psychotherapist myself with a history of BDP partners and im still learning so much listening to you. I never even knew SILENT BPD existed before i found you last week. I always thought my mum had a kind of "passive internal BPD: as she had no anger outbursts and now this SILENT makes so much sense. Thank you and meows to you sweet kitty❤
You are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you so much for making me feel safe, seen and heard. I am so relieved to have found your page ❤️
Thank you for sharing about your BPD . It gives me insight and understanding on what’s going on with my girlfriend that has BPD . I just want to be the supportive and caring boyfriend that she deserves. Unfortunately her pass relationships done more harm then good to her . She is in therapy and on medication for her BPD . I have learn one of the best things for her is for me to be patient, caring and showing her I’m here for her , not going anywhere. Thanks again for sharing and helping others better understand BPD .
she is so lucky to have you
Your bengal baby (tabby ?) is so cute ❤. Love your channel . Infp ( for those that believe in that stuff ) and someone with bpd ; I relate to moodiness. Thank you for everything that you do ❤
Your videos have saved my life! I just want to say thank you for all you do 💖
Wow thank you for that 🥰
After lots of therapy I found my biggest trigger is injustice. I imagine many BPD sufferers are the same. Considering the World is a big ball of injustice, I imagine the way out is acceptance?
I was diagnosed with borderline traits as a 15 year old. I was full on borderline, but they don’t diagnose past “traits” for people under 18.
Today, I’m a therapist. And I work frequently with BPD patients to help them navigate their disorder.
Even though I’m considered recovered and stable (obviously enough so to do the job I do), I still experience the mood swings and intense emotions.
I think an important thing to know is that recovery is possible, but don’t be ashamed if small pieces such as the mood swings and intense emotions are still there.
LOOOOVE your cat, he is gorgeous!!😻
Your channel is incredible!!! You are incredible. Found you yesterday and inhaled already 10 videos although im following so many likewise channels. I didnt even know silent BPD exists...As im always ending up with BPD-partners i was convinced my mother had it too but a more " introverted" version. I never heard of this before. Any tips how to deal with the sensitivity to critisism or even just triggering a sense of "minority conplex"?, the lingering anger which i feel can go off any time.? it stresses me out so much. I unfortunately never had a partner as reflected as you and aswell absolutely avoidant of seeking therapy.
Just found your channel and subscribed. Great information on this very important topic, Border Personality Disorder.
Immediate like for the cat ❤
good presentation
Is it normal to feel over the moon in the morning and deeply depressed at night?in a single day?
My mood springs are very rapid and on occasion upsetting I had to smother giggles at laughing at someone I was so mortified at what I'd done that when I got home I cried I can be content and then less than 10 mins later sobbing then feeling down the mood swings are intense I'm on a antipsychotic now but my psychiatrist has to increase dose I'm on 200mg now but it's no disorder in bad cases like mine it's a gomplete change of personality I fontcwatch tv I'm careful on Internet don't comment on anything contrivissl as prople online can say hurtful things and it triggers me I hav3 yo be aware of who I'm mixing with can trigger me
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