Nicely arituclated. I am deeply angered in relationship although I have no ulterior objective towards my partner. Wish your video can help me to come out of anger
This speaker is a miracle. Listen to one of his speeches at least once every three days. Once in a while, when one of his videos strikes your heart, work at learning how to do what he speaks about. Perhaps even start a journal about learning how to do it, keep notes about it.
i get angry so often and i realized that but i am trying my best not my body take control of me my mind should take IN charge of the body. namo budhayaaa
Anger rooted in my childhood trauma has caused me to sabotage the most valuable relationships I’ve ever had. It caused me to lash out and project my anger onto the person I loved most in this world…and then it fed on my guilt and turned inward. I’m working hard. I’m going to deal with this. I never want to hurt anyone, ever again
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS. Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion. Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live. And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
I feel your pain, brother! I'm in that very situation right now, where my anger has become public to my neighbourhood. Exactly on your vibe, too! Childhood trauma. It really f*cks us over in adulthood, doesn't it?!!
Whenever I am very depressed from inside of my heart , feel very stressed I just burst out..I cannot control my anger I always try to control my anger but when the situation is out of my control I can't control my anger.. Trying to control my mind by listening to your video. Thank you so much
Use the resources around you to make progress. Personally, found it challenging to identify the triggers causing me to get angry - that's where mood tracking apps like MoodScriber helped. Then joining a health club/gym helped put myself in a healthy community. I think a combination of Community + Meditation + Self Discipline + Apps can be great way to make progress.
I always get angry on things that are not fair happening at my work place.. I always can't control my anger.. Sometimes I shout at people and scold them... But I am actually a kind person by nature but situations make me feel angry at times.. I feel amazed listening to ur speech and looking at your calm face... I wish I could be like you one day.. Thank you very much sir.. Namo buddhaya👃
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS. Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion. Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live. And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
There are relational practices, like Insight Dialogue, that helped me a lot with this part of me that has anger. Somatic work also helped me a lot. Dhamma is beautiful. Neuroscience and bodywork too.
I am calm for 99.99999% of my time in real world. I even let others take advantage of me just so that they don't feel hurt in real world. I feel anger at times, but do never raise my voice in the real world. But, when I see happenings of the world through TH-cam videos, livestreams, comments, etc. I cannot help myself, but take out all my anger in the TH-cam comments and so most of my comments get deleted. Today, I feel angriest... Even as I am typing this comment, I feel short breath... Maybe that's causing my anger or is it something else... Really confused. For the first time in life, it seems like my body, through short-breath is controlling my mind... Hoping I get the relief soon.
I'm Ethiopian a follower of the Christian faith I always watch your video because you are a calm person i understand that you are living soul My God bless you 🙏
Ways to deal with anger, though it is a difficult task: 1) Acknowledge ‘your thoughts’, that they are generated due to anger. “What am I thinking now? In which state is my current thought is at?” 2) Focus on breathing - Breathing will be short and fast when you are angry. Focus in slowing down your breath. Take 2-3 long deep breaths and let it out. This helps to calm your mind and body. 3) Reflect on your thought pattern and ask “why did I get angry?”. Anger prevails in your mind. Anger is something YOU have created. You have two choices - react with negative behaviour or to respond with positive behaviour. Your experience is going to depend based on the choice you make. You have the power and privilege to respond with positivity. Hence, believe in patience. Believe in calm, kindness and patience - this will help to manage anger. Sometimes it is ok to experience anger in your mind but It is not okay to let the anger to flow out of from our bodily action and in form of words. These conscious practices will help you to manage your emotions. Namo Budhaya 🙏🏼🤍
This made sense. I like simple truths/instructions- not long philosophical Ted talks ( no offense). Recently I’ve noticed that when I’m angry about something, my thoughts don’t end there - suddenly I realize I’m remembering situations from my past that have made me angry- most often, the unresolved situations…. I catch myself, and I wonder “now how did I get here where I’m angry about something that’s passed?” I know that my angry thoughts lead to memories of other angry thoughts and I know that is not healthy. I like this. I’m subscribing.
I always learned one thing from your video's it doesn't matter whatever, whenever, wherever happen any annoying things just let it out be kindness to others in my professional life I met so many patients they couldn't even giving ear to my words they behave so much arrogant sometimes they scold me for non of the reason but i always remember one thing be kindness to others because we don't know how long we're gonna live in this world until it's happened spread love with others ❤
Thank you for these programs. They are helping me learn how to master my thoughts instead of being mastered by them. I have needed this for so long and am grateful to have found you and your teachings.
I’ve been in a rage all day because I couldn’t enrol on my masters degree (technical issues). Watching this calm, wise and loving person has been a delicious balm to my angry soul, I can retract my mind and realise the anger is making ME ill and restless. Namaste 🙏 to everyone ❤❤❤❤
Anger is perhaps the most misunderstood emotion. It’s usually called “negative” in so-called spiritual circles, and is often equated with rage and hate. But in reality, anger - just like any of our basic emotions - isn’t negative in itself. Rather, it’s there for a very important reason: to help us live a better life. More specifically, it’s there to help us remove what’s obstructing our way to joy and freedom. And it does so by drawing our attention to what our needs are, what’s preventing us from meeting them, and what corrective actions we can take in order to meet them.
Anger can destroy a life time of good deeds in one moment. Just like a knife is not negative until it is used to harm someone. Anger not only harms others, it harms ourselves. Sometimes irreparably.
Anger and its negativity is not a different thing, Anger is just a name of a negative emotion, so itself is a negative emotion because it is an emotion that always tries to hurt others or yourself. If the anger doesn't try to hurt others or yourself you can call it a non-negative emotion. The emotion that drives you to a better life is called hope and determination. Don't misunderstand between determination and anger.🙏🏼
Respected Teacher, Before I watching this motivational video I do not know how to control my anger to others.. Before I am getting angry usually I thought that I will not repeat this situation again.. But that time I forget all the things which I planned before... Now I could understand what steps I needs to do in this situation ...Now I realized that anger is not going to help me... Thank you so much this great video
Thank you. As Someone who Gets anger emotion all the time for the simplest things in life, This lesson was very valuable to me. As of watching this video, The way you were talking was very calming and helped me get over my anger and be a more calm and gentle person. You never know what anger can do sometimes. It's best to avoid it. So today you've helped me see more about anger and why we should avoid it Thank you again...
What I love most about your teachings and now Buddhism is that the change and direction of my life depends entirely on my thoughts and actions. For the first time I have found a way to live that doesn't make me unhappy. Thank you.
You are so right. I have had some anger lately but I knew it was wrong. I knew it will not help the situation. So I went for a walk. This allowed me the time to breathe and think how can I make it better. Soon I calmed down and could come to helpful ways to make things better for myself. Sending you my love. 😘❤❤❤❤❤❤
Such a great technique for self realisation. I heard people saying don't get angry but no 1 said how to control it . I am grateful for this technique .
Anger, resentments, and unforgiveness are things that I have always struggled with and even though I've been working with a therapist on it, I still struggle. When I was doing the 12 steps with a sponsor, she had me write down and discuss my resentments and how they have effected me so that I could see the damage and have motivation to let them go. They also told me how resentments only harm you, not the people who did you wrong. She had me write down my part in the conflicts that caused my resentments so that I could see where I was in the wrong, make amends, reconcile the relationships if appropriate, change my behaviors, and build my character. Now obviously this doesn't always apply like in cases where you were abused. It also helps me to understand human behavior and why we behave how we do for example mental illness. This is absolutely Not condoning or justifying their actions, it just helps to have compassion and wish them well. It can also be tempting to get revenge, but remember not only are there consequences for that, but they will get their karma. If they change because of it good for them and forgive them if they make amends to you. It's hard, but it helps.
Very grateful for this teaching - “nothing has been solved with anger “ - although it can be a motivator “breathe and let kindness prevail “ 🙏 big gratitude Namaste 🙏🌏✌️
Namo Buddhaya 🙏☸️🕉️❤️. Anger has always been my strongest vice in life. Lord Buddha and his teaching are the only thing that has worked for myself. It has given me the tools needed to look within and transform my greed, hatred, & delusion into loving kindness.
So true love your posts as they are so inspiring as i am feeling angry right now but you have made me feel better, thank you again for your amazing wisdom
Really Thank you so much Swamiwahanse sir for this your great massage/ kind suggestions...🙏🏻 We will definitely try to controls on our anger...😊 Not only just control but also we will definitely fully destroy it...😊👍🏻 With the help of your kind suggestion/Great information...🙏🏻 Namo Buddhay...🙏🏻 Theruwan Saranai 😊🙏🏻✨
To anyone feeling put off, because anger is very impulsive, especially when arising from trauma, this is still possible. The noticing step is very important and to notice your anger with loving kindness or self compassion. Noticing is the gateway which will allow you to step back and make the change so that you are less reactive. Good luck! :)
One of the most amazing things a human being can experience in their soul journey on this weird planet is to learn to examine one's thoughts and emotions objectively; it takes a lot of practice and is very strange at first, but it is totally worth it!
I really wanted this one...in my entire life I had lots of problems with people just because I couldn't control the way I react...I'm regreting a lot bcoz of that...atleast from now on I'm gonna take charge of my anger and control the way I react to things
May i know this noble person's name ?? He is changing me from the core of my mind , he is something , his speech, his voice is something .... which I can't explain...... really grateful for him ...... Pranam to you respected sir ..... Best wishes the team from India .....
Just wanted to watch this . Life is being tougher than ever due to this issue. This is painful for the people as well who is feeling the anger and destroying everything due to the anger. Hope god gives calmness and peace to my soul. ❤
I don't love myself when i m. In anger it s too violent it s too destructive . Your words to deal with this emotion are so right and helpful for me . Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🪷🧡
Thank you. There are many common triggers for anger, such as losing our patience, feelings as if our opinion or efforts aren't appreciated and Injustice/ Insults. Other causes of anger include memories of traumatic enraging events. I believe in the theory of karma and strongly believe that one's actions have a direct bearing on one's destiny sooner or later. We find ourselves completely undone by someone else's behaviour. Most of the things that we get upset about aren't our issues.
Waking up early,doing yoga,exercise daily,n eating veg food as much as possible,sleeping early,less use of mobile phn,,makes me happy ❤n listening to people before speaking..❤Radhe Radhe..
I am a person who have a lot of anger issues and I have been trying to control it but it has been impossible but now I know what to do and how to control it. Namo budhay ❤
Let it go... If you hold it in too much, it will destroy you. Anger is a heavy emotion and it will burden you forever if you don't manage it. Get that weight off of you and start new🤗😘! Grudges are like anchors to the soul, so let them sink.
I sometimes can't control my anger. but what you said make sense. I will try tofollow what you say. I definitely want to bring positivity in my life. Namo budhaya
Recently the book Voyagers of hell enlightened me and made me look at life in a positive way. Though the book is a fantasy it's impact was much deeper.
I’m struggling with anger issues for 3 years and I still can control it I am struggling with screaming noises and hearing sounds and difficult situations as well, although my anger was severe 2 years ago and my anger gotten more worser and worse, that’s why I break stuff and done harmful and dangerous acts as well, also I am trying too control it now, but I am now trying to stop the anger now 😊
I believe you can find your way back to that inner kindness that you are. Anger is the viel we need to lift and see through love and light. I deal with the same issues and am starting my journey to be more forgiving and loving and not lash out in anger any longer. Not even think in anger. We are all one so we should treat each other that way! And that Includes ourselves. Best of luck to everyone dealing with this as well
The biggest thing here is compassion and forgiveness .. this is what I need to learn . Also letting go of negativite people . They have no reason to be in your life.
Very meaningful video, I'm also feeling many times my anger prevails my mind and kills the moment and all the relationships, I will practice from today on anger management to keep myself and surrounding happy and healthy
Thank you for these wise words. I will try to put them into practice more frequently than I do at present. I totally agree that expressing my anger is harmful both to me and to the person who has made me feel angry. I will try to become more patient. This is my way forward. Thank you.
I can't control my anger as a student.unlike things happends again and agin.but i should control my anger.Thank tou for this video .I will practise deep breath .Namo Buddaya🙏
I am kind of calm person though but I get annoyed and anger just kicked in when I have to supervise somebody who don't put their effort in completing a task assigned to them and rather waste their time on some trivial things. I think I have learnt today that somebody not meeting my expectation is ruining my peace of mind so I would rather treat them with love and kindness than with anger.
Your words of wisdom changes everything in my life, thank you so much, but this need long practice and listening and watching your videos make a big impact in all of our lives. Namo buddhaya. Wishing everyone having a happy and kind heart❤ and have meaningful life.
After seeing your video, i will try to practice and control anger. I dont know what happen when anger comes i donr want to loose my partner.hope yr video support me
Thank you thero in the past I was a hot tempered.but now I am okey.i always not cilng it . Thank you very much for your kindness and meaningful advices namobuddhaya
I know that if you feel anger when someone insults you then there is some truth to it. However the guy from the deli laughed and said he was overcharging me. He laughed so I asked for my money back and did not comply. I lost my temper and took the 4 popcorns packets across his face. Not my proudest moment but the part that bothers me is that I felt a sense of relief and slight enjoyment. A few days later pass by him in the street and he says what will you give me for Christmas. I replied I already gave it to you. 4 popcorns to the face. I will do my best to put this into practice. Thank you.
i roll my eyes 500 times a day.. oh someone has transgressed me again.. of course they have.. clearly theyre incapable of doing better.. i understand that this person is incapable of not being terrible.. 5 seconds later oh it happened again.. of course it did.. thank you universe for all the toxicity you bring into my life.. i am eternally grateful..
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS. Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion. Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live. And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
I really think every gal would like to have a guy like this as partner soo much patience, pleasantly, calm, wise and Happy life will be with no issues as the person is soo matured and have solutions to every problem is what I think.
I’m almost in tears. I found this by accident and had no idea how badly this is what I’ve been looking for to help me regain my footing in this world.
Nicely arituclated. I am deeply angered in relationship although I have no ulterior objective towards my partner. Wish your video can help me to come out of anger
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This speaker is a miracle. Listen to one of his speeches at least once every three days. Once in a while, when one of his videos strikes your heart, work at learning how to do what he speaks about. Perhaps even start a journal about learning how to do it, keep notes about it.
i get angry so often and i realized that but i am trying my best not my body take control of me my mind should take IN charge of the body. namo budhayaaa
If u get angry practice love and kind meditation then u can reduce ur anger gradually
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You are not getting angry… anger appears and dissapears
I hope you are doing better, I know its hard I'm really trying too.
Thank you
Anger rooted in my childhood trauma has caused me to sabotage the most valuable relationships I’ve ever had. It caused me to lash out and project my anger onto the person I loved most in this world…and then it fed on my guilt and turned inward. I’m working hard. I’m going to deal with this. I never want to hurt anyone, ever again
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Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS.
Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion.
Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live.
And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
I love you for saying this. It’s exactly what I am experiencing. Self acceptance and living through it is kind of hard
I feel your pain, brother! I'm in that very situation right now, where my anger has become public to my neighbourhood. Exactly on your vibe, too! Childhood trauma. It really f*cks us over in adulthood, doesn't it?!!
Exactly my case,
But we'll change ourselves ❤️🩹, we can't spread our toxicity to others, and we will fight our Trauma and anger both🌸🫂
Whenever I am very depressed from inside of my heart , feel very stressed I just burst out..I cannot control my anger I always try to control my anger but when the situation is out of my control I can't control my anger.. Trying to control my mind by listening to your video. Thank you so much
Use the resources around you to make progress. Personally, found it challenging to identify the triggers causing me to get angry - that's where mood tracking apps like MoodScriber helped. Then joining a health club/gym helped put myself in a healthy community. I think a combination of Community + Meditation + Self Discipline + Apps can be great way to make progress.
How is it going for you now?
Same for me
practice, practice, practice
day after day
failure after failure
thank you dearest monk
namo buddhaya
I always get angry on things that are not fair happening at my work place.. I always can't control my anger.. Sometimes I shout at people and scold them... But I am actually a kind person by nature but situations make me feel angry at times.. I feel amazed listening to ur speech and looking at your calm face... I wish I could be like you one day.. Thank you very much sir.. Namo buddhaya👃
Same here
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS.
Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion.
Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live.
And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
same bro!
There are relational practices, like Insight Dialogue, that helped me a lot with this part of me that has anger. Somatic work also helped me a lot. Dhamma is beautiful. Neuroscience and bodywork too.
I am calm for 99.99999% of my time in real world. I even let others take advantage of me just so that they don't feel hurt in real world. I feel anger at times, but do never raise my voice in the real world. But, when I see happenings of the world through TH-cam videos, livestreams, comments, etc. I cannot help myself, but take out all my anger in the TH-cam comments and so most of my comments get deleted. Today, I feel angriest... Even as I am typing this comment, I feel short breath... Maybe that's causing my anger or is it something else... Really confused. For the first time in life, it seems like my body, through short-breath is controlling my mind... Hoping I get the relief soon.
I'm Ethiopian a follower of the Christian faith I always watch your video because you are a calm person i understand that you are living soul My God bless you 🙏
Ways to deal with anger, though it is a difficult task:
1) Acknowledge ‘your thoughts’, that they are generated due to anger. “What am I thinking now? In which state is my current thought is at?”
2) Focus on breathing - Breathing will be short and fast when you are angry. Focus in slowing down your breath. Take 2-3 long deep breaths and let it out. This helps to calm your mind and body.
3) Reflect on your thought pattern and ask “why did I get angry?”. Anger prevails in your mind. Anger is something YOU have created. You have two choices - react with negative behaviour or to respond with positive behaviour.
Your experience is going to depend based on the choice you make. You have the power and privilege to respond with positivity. Hence, believe in patience.
Believe in calm, kindness and patience - this will help to manage anger. Sometimes it is ok to experience anger in your mind but It is not okay to let the anger to flow out of from our bodily action and in form of words. These conscious practices will help you to manage your emotions.
Namo Budhaya 🙏🏼🤍
tried any times doing what you mentioned but there is limit of patience too.
Be Master of your Mind .consentate on ,,,,,,.it is free and empty from all other thoughts, I WILL that nothing should enter my MIND........🙏🙏🙏
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(Responding with positivity) I am glad you have felt anger has worked for you when you needed it
My patience also being challenged, but what can I do. I cannot make a revenge because the person who hurt me is out of my sight.@@PankajGupta-lf3sn
Very nice
This made sense. I like simple truths/instructions- not long philosophical Ted talks ( no offense). Recently I’ve noticed that when I’m angry about something, my thoughts don’t end there - suddenly I realize I’m remembering situations from my past that have made me angry- most often, the unresolved situations…. I catch myself, and I wonder “now how did I get here where I’m angry about something that’s passed?”
I know that my angry thoughts lead to memories of other angry thoughts and I know that is not healthy.
I like this. I’m subscribing.
so true I feel the same.
Your smile amd calmness on face while explaining has already started working on my anger issues.
Thank you
I always learned one thing from your video's it doesn't matter whatever, whenever, wherever happen any annoying things just let it out be kindness to others in my professional life I met so many patients they couldn't even giving ear to my words they behave so much arrogant sometimes they scold me for non of the reason but i always remember one thing be kindness to others because we don't know how long we're gonna live in this world until it's happened spread love with others ❤
Thank you for these programs. They are helping me learn how to master my thoughts instead of being mastered by them. I have needed this for so long and am grateful to have found you and your teachings.
I’ve been in a rage all day because I couldn’t enrol on my masters degree (technical issues). Watching this calm, wise and loving person has been a delicious balm to my angry soul, I can retract my mind and realise the anger is making ME ill and restless. Namaste 🙏 to everyone ❤❤❤❤
One thing I read one day ! Being Angry is like drinking Poison and waiting for the other person to die !!!
Anger is perhaps the most misunderstood emotion. It’s usually called “negative” in so-called spiritual circles, and is often equated with rage and hate. But in reality, anger - just like any of our basic emotions - isn’t negative in itself. Rather, it’s there for a very important reason: to help us live a better life. More specifically, it’s there to help us remove what’s obstructing our way to joy and freedom. And it does so by drawing our attention to what our needs are, what’s preventing us from meeting them, and what corrective actions we can take in order to meet them.
Anger can be negative if it's energy touches other people and they do not know why it's being projected onto them. Conflict zone.
Anger can destroy a life time of good deeds in one moment. Just like a knife is not negative until it is used to harm someone. Anger not only harms others, it harms ourselves. Sometimes irreparably.
Many a time it is, anger that helps us to handle troublesome people
Anger and its negativity is not a different thing, Anger is just a name of a negative emotion, so itself is a negative emotion because it is an emotion that always tries to hurt others or yourself.
If the anger doesn't try to hurt others or yourself you can call it a non-negative emotion.
The emotion that drives you to a better life is called hope and determination. Don't misunderstand between determination and anger.🙏🏼
But i do think anger is often very justified. Its a natural reaction. How to deal with it, that's how this good man helps...🌱🌿💚
I was vigorously waiting for it ..... I lightened the candle in front of buddha ....And I'm listening this learnings ..... this is so soothing 😌
Namobuddhaya ♥️
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Respected Teacher,
Before I watching this motivational video I do not know how to control my anger to others.. Before I am getting angry usually I thought that I will not repeat this situation again.. But that time I forget all the things which I planned before... Now I could understand what steps I needs to do in this situation ...Now I realized that anger is not going to help me... Thank you so much this great video
Thank you.
As Someone who Gets anger emotion all the time for the simplest things in life, This lesson was very valuable to me. As of watching this video, The way you were talking was very calming and helped me get over my anger and be a more calm and gentle person.
You never know what anger can do sometimes. It's best to avoid it.
So today you've helped me see more about anger and why we should avoid it
Thank you again...
I indeed get emotional after listening to your words..it really brings happiness from inside ❤
I very, very rarely get angry but when I do, I’m so glad to know I’m on the right track. I love your videos. Thank you.
बुद्धम् शरणम् गछामी ,धर्मम् शरणम् गछामी -
ॐ शान्ति !🙏🌺🌺
Noma Buddha🙏🏻. Your word change my mentality.. I always try to follow your all words.... And now I can control my anger.🙏🏻❤️
What I love most about your teachings and now Buddhism is that the change and direction of my life depends entirely on my thoughts and actions. For the first time I have found a way to live that doesn't make me unhappy. Thank you.
You are so right. I have had some anger lately but I knew it was wrong. I knew it will not help the situation. So I went for a walk. This allowed me the time to breathe and think how can I make it better. Soon I calmed down and could come to helpful ways to make things better for myself. Sending you my love. 😘❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am having so much of anger issues. I want to control my anger. After listening u sir I will work on my anger. Thank u sir. Namo budhay🙏
I am the same, otherwise so nice, sympathetic with high values of justice, but when angry, I am horrible :( good luck to us ♥
@@malennax1 good luck to both of us..🙏😊😊😊😊. Let se how far we are going.....
@@snehapritamsarangi2619 Thank you, I've already failed a few times after hearing it..♥really good luck to you too
Me too..😢 I got angry to my elders.. now no one talks to me...
same. Good luck to us.
Such a great technique for self realisation. I heard people saying don't get angry but no 1 said how to control it .
I am grateful for this technique .
Anger, resentments, and unforgiveness are things that I have always struggled with and even though I've been working with a therapist on it, I still struggle. When I was doing the 12 steps with a sponsor, she had me write down and discuss my resentments and how they have effected me so that I could see the damage and have motivation to let them go. They also told me how resentments only harm you, not the people who did you wrong. She had me write down my part in the conflicts that caused my resentments so that I could see where I was in the wrong, make amends, reconcile the relationships if appropriate, change my behaviors, and build my character. Now obviously this doesn't always apply like in cases where you were abused. It also helps me to understand human behavior and why we behave how we do for example mental illness. This is absolutely Not condoning or justifying their actions, it just helps to have compassion and wish them well. It can also be tempting to get revenge, but remember not only are there consequences for that, but they will get their karma. If they change because of it good for them and forgive them if they make amends to you. It's hard, but it helps.
Very grateful for this teaching - “nothing has been solved with anger “ - although it can be a motivator “breathe and let kindness prevail “ 🙏 big gratitude Namaste 🙏🌏✌️
Namo Buddhaya 🙏☸️🕉️❤️. Anger has always been my strongest vice in life. Lord Buddha and his teaching are the only thing that has worked for myself. It has given me the tools needed to look within and transform my greed, hatred, & delusion into loving kindness.
So true love your posts as they are so inspiring as i am feeling angry right now but you have made me feel better, thank you again for your amazing wisdom
Really Thank you so much Swamiwahanse sir for this your great massage/ kind suggestions...🙏🏻
We will definitely try to controls on our anger...😊
Not only just control but also we will definitely fully destroy it...😊👍🏻
With the help of your kind suggestion/Great information...🙏🏻
Namo Buddhay...🙏🏻 Theruwan Saranai 😊🙏🏻✨
To anyone feeling put off, because anger is very impulsive, especially when arising from trauma, this is still possible. The noticing step is very important and to notice your anger with loving kindness or self compassion. Noticing is the gateway which will allow you to step back and make the change so that you are less reactive. Good luck! :)
One of the most amazing things a human being can experience in their soul journey on this weird planet is to learn to examine one's thoughts and emotions objectively; it takes a lot of practice and is very strange at first, but it is totally worth it!
I feel so soothing after watching ur videos..pls shaer one video daily..Sir...
I really wanted this one...in my entire life I had lots of problems with people just because I couldn't control the way I react...I'm regreting a lot bcoz of that...atleast from now on I'm gonna take charge of my anger and control the way I react to things
May i know this noble person's name ??
He is changing me from the core of my mind , he is something , his speech, his voice is something .... which I can't explain...... really grateful for him ...... Pranam to you respected sir ..... Best wishes the team from India .....
I am curious as well
I agree patience is very important sir.
Mahindasiri thero
Thank you very much
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anger has always been my crutch i hate it its over whelms me but every time now im going to use this video to help me
Just wanted to watch this . Life is being tougher than ever due to this issue. This is painful for the people as well who is feeling the anger and destroying everything due to the anger.
Hope god gives calmness and peace to my soul. ❤
I don't love myself when i m. In anger it s too violent it s too destructive .
Your words to deal with this emotion are so right and helpful for me .
Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🪷🧡
Thank you. There are many common triggers for anger, such as losing our patience, feelings as if our opinion or efforts aren't appreciated and Injustice/ Insults. Other causes of anger include memories of traumatic enraging events. I believe in the theory of karma and strongly believe that one's actions have a direct bearing on one's destiny sooner or later. We find ourselves completely undone by someone else's behaviour. Most of the things that we get upset about aren't our issues.
Yes I too believe that karma, will get at the wrong doers. But meanwhile we suffer that's the irony
🙏 Enlightenment of Mind made easy. 🙏Thank You Guruji ☺️
Waking up early,doing yoga,exercise daily,n eating veg food as much as possible,sleeping early,less use of mobile phn,,makes me happy ❤n listening to people before speaking..❤Radhe Radhe..
Your classes is very benefit for me ....thank you so much ❤❤😊😊😊😊
I am a person who have a lot of anger issues and I have been trying to control it but it has been impossible but now I know what to do and how to control it. Namo budhay ❤
Let it go... If you hold it in too much, it will destroy you. Anger is a heavy emotion and it will burden you forever if you don't manage it. Get that weight off of you and start new🤗😘! Grudges are like anchors to the soul, so let them sink.
I sometimes can't control my anger. but what you said make sense. I will try tofollow what you say. I definitely want to bring positivity in my life. Namo budhaya
Recently the book Voyagers of hell enlightened me and made me look at life in a positive way. Though the book is a fantasy it's impact was much deeper.
I’m struggling with anger issues for 3 years and I still can control it I am struggling with screaming noises and hearing sounds and difficult situations as well, although my anger was severe 2 years ago and my anger gotten more worser and worse, that’s why I break stuff and done harmful and dangerous acts as well, also I am trying too control it now, but I am now trying to stop the anger now 😊
I take 21year to control my anger
I have almost ruined my marriage due to my outbursts of anger,it will take alot for things to be put right,i must control my anger quickly
😢😢 this anger destroying my life😭😭😭 I am kind hearted but if I be angry I forget every things...
Don’t worry your not alone
Same 😢
Me too 😢❤
Just do better, I am same but I am trying my best.
I believe you can find your way back to that inner kindness that you are. Anger is the viel we need to lift and see through love and light. I deal with the same issues and am starting my journey to be more forgiving and loving and not lash out in anger any longer. Not even think in anger. We are all one so we should treat each other that way! And that Includes ourselves. Best of luck to everyone dealing with this as well
The biggest thing here is compassion and forgiveness .. this is what I need to learn . Also letting go of negativite people . They have no reason to be in your life.
🙏Namo Buddhaya ❣️Thank you for your precious very touchy lesson sir! 🌻🌻🌻🌻
I feel so much anger from childhood and Im trying to solve it. Thank you for that episode
You’re not alone
Very meaningful video, I'm also feeling many times my anger prevails my mind and kills the moment and all the relationships, I will practice from today on anger management to keep myself and surrounding happy and healthy
I get emotions of anger 😡 very frequently and I’m getting help on managing my emotions and emotional regulation
Sending a lot of love to anyone who struggles with angry issues, such a hard path. Keep going ❤
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Thank you dear Bhante for another valuable lesson. Hope to hear more from you. Namo Budahaya 🙏🙏🙏❤️
A great lesson from Buddhism.Not easy sometimes, but to control anger is so important.Best wishes Bhante🙏
I liveed my whole life in harry today I believed in patient and i solved very big problem it irritates me for 10 days ....namo buddhay💙
Pleasant evening Reverend Namo Bhuddhay 🙏
Thank you for these wise words. I will try to put them into practice more frequently than I do at present. I totally agree that expressing my anger is harmful both to me and to the person who has made me feel angry. I will try to become more patient. This is my way forward. Thank you.
This is a great video with various ideas that we can apply them in our daily lives!! Thank you so much for this great work!!
I start liking Buddhism after listen to your calmfull speeches..
Very educative for all and sundry to tackle anger that enters our minds destroying our inner peace and goodness we collected through years.
I can't control my anger as a student.unlike things happends again and agin.but i should control my anger.Thank tou for this video .I will practise deep breath .Namo Buddaya🙏
He is absolutely soothing🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am kind of calm person though but I get annoyed and anger just kicked in when I have to supervise somebody who don't put their effort in completing a task assigned to them and rather waste their time on some trivial things.
I think I have learnt today that somebody not meeting my expectation is ruining my peace of mind so I would rather treat them with love and kindness than with anger.
Thank you 🙏🏻👍. My body pain makes me very short with people around me.
How is it going for you now?
Your words of wisdom changes everything in my life, thank you so much, but this need long practice and listening and watching your videos make a big impact in all of our lives. Namo buddhaya. Wishing everyone having a happy and kind heart❤ and have meaningful life.
Very kindly and clearly put. I wish I had seen this year's ago.
I find it interesting that we learn important lessons far into adult life and wish we'd known as children. Thank you ❤
Thank you so much and I going to try this out and to become aware of my emotions and react in respectful way
After seeing your video, i will try to practice and control anger. I dont know what happen when anger comes i donr want to loose my partner.hope yr video support me
Please give a video about "how to build again broken friendship." I need it so much...
Thank you, Sifu! A very wise tutorial! 😀 Namo Amitofu! ☸️.
Thank you thero in the past I was a hot tempered.but now I am okey.i always not cilng it . Thank you very much for your kindness and meaningful advices namobuddhaya
Would really love to see guided meditation from this channel.
I was really waiting for this.
I know that if you feel anger when someone insults you then there is some truth to it. However the guy from the deli laughed and said he was overcharging me. He laughed so I asked for my money back and did not comply. I lost my temper and took the 4 popcorns packets across his face. Not my proudest moment but the part that bothers me is that I felt a sense of relief and slight enjoyment. A few days later pass by him in the street and he says what will you give me for Christmas. I replied I already gave it to you. 4 popcorns to the face. I will do my best to put this into practice. Thank you.
Well said ATMA. Thanks for nice guidance to remove - reduce anger.... I definitely Try my Level best
Im really glad to see your new video again.Pleased upload more and more of your video.May the supreme Budha guide your channel.
My anger is messing with my life..
But thanks for making such videos that I can keep some calm to myself....😢
Many people need to hear this.
i roll my eyes 500 times a day.. oh someone has transgressed me again.. of course they have.. clearly theyre incapable of doing better.. i understand that this person is incapable of not being terrible.. 5 seconds later oh it happened again.. of course it did.. thank you universe for all the toxicity you bring into my life.. i am eternally grateful..
I try my best but i can't, my anger is always the cause for my sadness..
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS.
Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion.
Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live.
And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.
How is it going for you now?
Do yoga 🧘♀️ in early morning
Its only about your decidion to not get influenced by things you cannot change ❤
Everything makes me angry ! Even this guys smile, and the way he looks . Make me want to scream . My hearts racing, just thinking about this .
Anger makes the worst life and regret present but patience maintains relationships and goes for further level
Your videos are awesome. I always postpone the problem and don't react immediately. So I will get more time to think from a different perspective.
thank you very much for the GUIDE .watching from Taiwan
Actually works if you practice it religiously. Thank you so much 😊
Namo Buddhaya... 🙏🙏🙏
I love listening to you, you speak so well, I enjoy listening to you
these are really good points. thanks so much
I really think every gal would like to have a guy like this as partner soo much patience, pleasantly, calm, wise and Happy life will be with no issues as the person is soo matured and have solutions to every problem is what I think.
True, but at the same time it will be much more difficult to be with a partner like this, if we are not on the same level as him.
I wish I saw this wisdom long long ago. I'm having short temper. However, I will keep this in mind for the future 🙏
Change my thoughts after watched your spiritual video.
Namo buddhaya...Theruwa saranai...
🌿🙏OM NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🌿🙏OM NAMO NARAYANA 🙏🌿
I m a tampershort but i will control myself and thank you so much❤
Namo buddhayaaa💫💫💫🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you and Maha Sadhu to Venerable Bhante 🙏🏻will try to bear in mind your good teaching🙏🏻Sukhi Hontu Bhante 🙏🏻❤️
Love hearing you ..lovely advice...🙏🙏🙏💥❤️❤️