ALL MY CARS THAT I'VE EVER OWNED (Full Journey!) | Ferrari Collector David Lee

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  • @ferraricollectordavidlee
    @ferraricollectordavidlee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Which of my cars In the past do you like the most??

    • @Vstar299
      @Vstar299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The P1 GTR and the carrera GT

    • @khulasm5028
      @khulasm5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The La Ferrari. Buy another one again.

    • @lovepajamas1482
      @lovepajamas1482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      275 GTB 6C

    • @davidheinig9948
      @davidheinig9948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How are you so rich?

    • @giorgiomarozzi1345
      @giorgiomarozzi1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello David, I just subscribed your channel, which is something I practically never do. But I like your style and your contents very much. I am a car enthusiast as you are, so, I am taking the freedom to give you some suggestions for your collection... The piece you're really missing is the Maserati MC12, how is it you don't have one?? The other cars I think are a "must have" are the Porsche GT1, Mercedes CLK-GTR and the Bugatti EB110. And, as you already say in the video, the Porsche Carrera GT. Last, the Aventador SVJ. GO CATCH 'EM MR LEE!! Best regards from North Italy 😃

  • @gobricklaying106
    @gobricklaying106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Selling back to the original owner and the story behind that car. This is a kind of wealth that comes with integrity and is more heart felt.

    • @t89pain
      @t89pain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its a nice story, but lets not forget a LaF has gone up about 3x in value since it came out. Not to say its not a nice gesture, but I'm sure he didn't lose money on the deal

  • @FFGAMING-pr2ig
    @FFGAMING-pr2ig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I love the fact that being a super busy business owner, he still gives time to make youtube videos for others to know about his life.

    • @live2hustle495
      @live2hustle495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol kiddie

    • @1BassJohn
      @1BassJohn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@live2hustle495 What a useless comment. Reported

    • @peswaka6761
      @peswaka6761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ye it cool but there are other people that do it too

    • @FFGAMING-pr2ig
      @FFGAMING-pr2ig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peswaka6761 I know that but what's there in just complementing a person ,other people didn't have a problem with it.

    • @live2hustle495
      @live2hustle495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@1BassJohn y u said u r useless 🤔

  • @CarputingYT
    @CarputingYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    David Lee is such a respectable supercar owner, I would love to meet him and just look at his cars some day. A lot of people in his position have an ego or don't appreciate things, but you can tell David Lee does appreciate what he has, and is a true enthusiast. He can talk about the cars in depth, he doesn't just look at them like shiny art pieces. Keep doing what you're doing David Lee, thank you for sharing your story with us on TH-cam.

  • @dmarkj22
    @dmarkj22 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I happen to know David personally and I can tell you that he is one of the most humble, gracious, and down to earth guys.

  • @dank5285
    @dank5285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Awesome collection! Just a foot note, you described your '96 911 turbo as being the last normally aspirated turbo, where you meant to say the last air cooled turbo.

    • @Andrew4181975
      @Andrew4181975 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been lucky enough to get seat time in more than a few 911s, and the 993 Turbo S is a complete Animal.

  • @SuperSenis
    @SuperSenis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man, this guy needs a hug.

  • @knowtilus1389
    @knowtilus1389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Kudos to that man!
    Very humble and down to earth.
    Amazing guy!

  • @timothyjerry2455
    @timothyjerry2455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mr Lee, that’s one stunning collection. The Dino retro mod was awesome, then the 288 GTO and F55! That was a great watch. Thank you.

  • @198634
    @198634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    David is the real deal and self made !
    Came from a low income family and worked his way up the ladder with a lot of hard work !
    Much respect to you David - you deserve your success !

  • @aayanismail6248
    @aayanismail6248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    David Lee’s story is inspirational, first car as a Toyota and actually using your own money seems very wise, and giving his father his fathers dream car is inspirational.

    • @goodBBkaraoke
      @goodBBkaraoke 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a saying in Chinese, filial piety comes first

  • @Iceracer25
    @Iceracer25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Always grateful that you share your cars with us David. I'm often turned off by "collectors" because I feel many are interested in the investment over the enjoyment. It seems that you truly enjoy driving these and sharing them. I'm a man of modest means but I own a 1982 308 and it brings me a lot of joy. Maybe not quite as much as driving a 288 GTO, but I know it's close. Congratulations on you collection and please keep putting miles on these!

  • @alexcorona
    @alexcorona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The diablo is such an underated model....love you on Jay by the way!

  • @axispowerdiesel
    @axispowerdiesel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man that blue 918 was a beaut!

  • @jeffhass5753
    @jeffhass5753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    David, just saw video of Normal Guy Supercar of your invite to his friend Tim to view your collection and give him a ride in your 1964 Ferrari. What a great thing you did, kudos to your generosity. As a viewer, love what you did!

  • @PittsBird
    @PittsBird 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With all the car greatness in there, I'd like to see the simple, easy to find classics added: 308, 328, 348, & 355. Most importantly, they are just so fun to drive and car fans connect with them.

  • @glenlipkens6647
    @glenlipkens6647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first video I watch of you Mister Lee. Seems like youre such a humble, calm and down to earth man, The spec you had/have on the 458 aperta, its my absolute dreamcar, I even have a model of it in the exact same spec. Keep up the good work id say, you got yourself a sub. Greetings out of Belgium

  • @emilianocruz11
    @emilianocruz11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dear mr david lee congratulations first for make the best ferrari collector in north america but still my favorite ferraris are the enxo and the f40 and the 288 gto i wish having see in person thesev cars of yoyur collection bleesing for your familiy and the best ferrari coleccion ever made

  • @VWeGoBeachNow79
    @VWeGoBeachNow79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful collection from humble beginnings. Well deserved. I'm going to jump in my 2007 Kia Sorento and go to McDonald's for a Happy meal now lol.

  • @RazorHK
    @RazorHK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love that david cars only go up in value

  • @yurrickhunt9707
    @yurrickhunt9707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just casually jumps from owning a Toyota pickup to a Diablo VT

  • @-sadhamster-7370
    @-sadhamster-7370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re collection is just insane proves that you can do anything you dream of if you put enough time into doing what you love!!
    I would love to visit you’re garage in a few years once I can drive and trust my self.

  • @gtuttle4
    @gtuttle4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you David for sharing you car collection! It is very impressive. Please keep making videos of your cars collection!

  • @sscreation6436
    @sscreation6436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello David Lee Sir have a great day,
    This is Sanjay Singh from INDIA

  • @gen2-x364
    @gen2-x364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The CGT.
    My personal favorite of your current cars is your Ferrrari F12 tdf.....simply amazing.
    The Pagani's are like driving a piece of art.

  • @venom4064
    @venom4064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your car collection is just “Wow”

  • @luchforte
    @luchforte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nooo way! you had a Porsche 993 911 turbo. That was my dream car back in the day but couldn't afford. Back them it was college or a car. I picked college figure I would eventually get one, but life kicked in with marriage and kids now my play car is a mini cooper. hahahha. Great video it's great how you started out buying your own car. You ask what's the best car in the past. I would say Ferrari 288GTO.

  • @un-trackable5705
    @un-trackable5705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the honor you were able to give your father. I hope my greatest achievement is my daughter making it in this world.

  • @MrMichele1070
    @MrMichele1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You surely need a Laferrari back in the stable , one of the best modern Ferrari , also what happened to the 918 spider I well that’s one of the best cars ever made

  • @Andrico77
    @Andrico77 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree with Leno on his take of Ferrari and their grip on who can purchase and own their cars.

  • @Michaellllllllllllllll
    @Michaellllllllllllllll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lived 10mins from David’s place for 2years,and never seen his Ferrari 😭😭😭

  • @crazyman1552
    @crazyman1552 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have owned every car I’ve ever dreamed!!! Thanks for sharing your garage with us

  • @Pirrelli8
    @Pirrelli8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Steve McQueen F12, is my favorite out of the collection. That auto is “stunning.”

  • @neilvance9907
    @neilvance9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    How do you go from a $7500 pick up truck to a 993 to a Diablo? That’s amazing and the way you’ve climbed the ladder car wise is very inspiring. Btw the fact that you’re sitting on a Ferrari F1 car..omg.

    • @kushagrasingh55
      @kushagrasingh55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That f1 car is Micheal Schumachers winning car this guy is amazing

    • @vanngir3180
      @vanngir3180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Nobody the tyre is still part of the car lmao

    • @hussali8838
      @hussali8838 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vanngir3180lmfaaoooooo

  • @s.flanders
    @s.flanders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really wish we would've seen more of the P1 GTR or the F1 car in use. I'm sure Ferrari's track program is crazy expensive, but driving an F1 car seems like a completely different experience which no road car will ever come close to.

  • @earlsnapp5209
    @earlsnapp5209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy New Year Sir, Beautiful collection... Cars from the past in your collection, 275 GTB 6C, and second, The P1

  • @Taylor___
    @Taylor___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The yellow F50!!! That will always be my fav looking Ferrari just because I admire it as a kid and had bedsheets of a Ferrari F50 ha!

  • @alfaman4113
    @alfaman4113 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know this guy but anyone who is appreciative of if father for raising his son to be a successful business man then buys his father a rolls as a Thankyou then this guy deserves all this luxury. Best wishes my friend

  • @mykelove1968
    @mykelove1968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome story.You're an inspiration not to just everyone who wants to be a collector but to every person because of your humility.

  • @jdf1stats
    @jdf1stats ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow total ENVY‼️But in a good way... 😉 That's not a "car collection" it's an art museum. I always loved the 512BB, didn't see that one.

  • @milanstefanicka7256
    @milanstefanicka7256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite is Ferrari 288 GT and Schumi Formula Great collection

  • @lindonandlisa8114
    @lindonandlisa8114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good on you David you are really are a passionate car guy just not a guy with money

  • @uptownsamcv
    @uptownsamcv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the 355 convertible and F40 are 2 of my favorite Ferrari's. that 288 GTO evolution sounds like it must have a good story behind it..

  • @antonmartinslot
    @antonmartinslot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "993 turbo, which is the last of the naturally aspirated turbo"
    A man that definitely knows his cars

    • @yeetmeister4206
      @yeetmeister4206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      First thing I noticed, he probably just mixed it up with air cooled

    • @davidheinig9948
      @davidheinig9948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can't be naturally aspirated and turbo at the same time

    • @antonmartinslot
      @antonmartinslot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@davidheinig9948 sarcasm not detected

    • @tomektomek9836
      @tomektomek9836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that’s why he is a ferrari collector

  • @DailyDarsh
    @DailyDarsh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is literally what every car lover wants to be

  • @danielvega2218
    @danielvega2218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    David I love your videos! Thank you for telling us this stories and showing us those deeply nice details from your models. I will have a collection like yours certainly one day, lot of work still on the road ahead, but we are in the way. See you soon riding those horses! Best for you always.

  • @EVILSPAWN1003
    @EVILSPAWN1003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He had the last of the naturally aspirated 993 Turbos😂 That`s a rare car indeed🤣

  • @bretthoubler2455
    @bretthoubler2455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh and what car I like the most is definitely Ferrari 280 evolution. I’m a huge rally fan which is actually rare in America but group B besides maybe Group C racing in my opinion spawned the most amazing timeless race cars and homologation specials

  • @petervenskus4706
    @petervenskus4706 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you sold the 275gtb 4, that is the one you should buy back. No car maker has ever conceived a more beautiful design than that car. Congrats on your beautiful collection and putting in the work to be able to afford it!

  • @donaldscaglione8983
    @donaldscaglione8983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just shit my pants laughing David when you said " the prices are too high " on the Carrera g.t.!! Money dosen't seem to be an issue for you my friend.

  • @labf5213
    @labf5213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big time yes for the Ferrari F1 program! Then you can set some lap times in all famous USA circuits !🙏

  • @gerryreynders4126
    @gerryreynders4126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this guy. No one more deserving

  • @koolstuffhere
    @koolstuffhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn! What the heck you do for a living? What a beautiful Collection! I would love to see that Collection in person!

  • @geoffreytazprice5091
    @geoffreytazprice5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video sir, i could listen to you talk about your amazing cars all day

  • @59Love1
    @59Love1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a humble man

  • @marcmarini8425
    @marcmarini8425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your collection. For me nothing beats the Dino with enhanced engine. Most beautiful car ever.

  • @GM-fh5jp
    @GM-fh5jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A splendid collection...especially the 288 GTO

  • @apoloz1
    @apoloz1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    David doing the F1 program? Hell yeah

  • @gsmith207
    @gsmith207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So awesome you remember each one and details! But of course you would. Me too. Love the pics from the past. But makes me regret the ones I let go as well. As the same age as you I’m obsessed with same cars! Especially the Dino! It was my 1st Ferrari (Fiat! Ha ha) 1/25 scale model when I was 12. Still got it!

  • @swiper1818
    @swiper1818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the story about the LaFerrari and you selling it back to the original owner - as he says you are a real gentleman👍!

  • @dimakonax
    @dimakonax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that is so awesome man ! i am happy for you and your success. cheers brother Lee

  • @crabwalker61
    @crabwalker61 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi David, Ivan from Malaysia. Great story u got Dav! U shd get back the Porsche Carrera GT! It's a Pinnacle of Porsche, u shdn't miss! The car and the engine has the great story behind! One of the great v10 engine sound, in the history! Buy one please!

  • @DG-xj7pm
    @DG-xj7pm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    David, love your collection!! Have you ever owned a f50 GT?

  • @bretthoubler2455
    @bretthoubler2455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    David your an inspiration. Everything you have is from hardwork and I gotta say your an amazing role model. I look forward to hopefully one day meeting you and who knows buying maybe buying a car off of you or selling you one!

  • @mogelkaiser1876
    @mogelkaiser1876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:15 my personal holy grail. the beautiful 250 gt berlinetta lusso. the in my opinion best looking car of all time. the ultimate sunday car. never seen one personally before in my life but i will hope that someday i can have to opportunity to take a seat in one...

  • @yipe222
    @yipe222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pretty hard to beat that 288GTO. I think that's my choice.

  • @kresimirmilisa5560
    @kresimirmilisa5560 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    dear david 288 gto and f50 are the best classic ferraris nice video love to watch your videos greetings from croatia.

  • @trevormac1974
    @trevormac1974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Question/video idea: I’m curious how you manage to drive them all. I’ve heard that these vehicles (particularly the older ones) like to be driven and have problems when they sit. I’m curious how frequently you drive each one and if you put any of them in storage mode for periods or have experienced any mechanical issues from letting them sit for too long?
    I have a motorcycle and have to take certain steps when I put it away for the winter to ensure the fuel doesn’t gum up the carbs, etc. would love to know all your thoughts on maintaining a large collection so they’re drivable. Thanks!

    • @mm-vs1zt
      @mm-vs1zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I remember reading a couple of years ago in his Instagram that he'd keep his fleet under 30 cars, so that way he could drive one each day.

  • @nicholaswong7368
    @nicholaswong7368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seeing the ferrari F1 event would be very cool.

  • @kenxiong6830
    @kenxiong6830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi David Lee!!! Thanks for sharing!!!!

  • @haviiithelegogunner907
    @haviiithelegogunner907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best cars: F50, blue 918 spyder, Huayra, Carrera GT :)

  • @Vincent_Gambini
    @Vincent_Gambini 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Lee, I’m hoping that at some point Ferrari offers you the opportunity to do a one-off Ferrari through their Special Projects Program. I would say, if you haven’t already done so, please request that they commission you one. It would have to be a full-blooded, naturally aspirated V12, of course, but I really long for a throwback to that gorgeous, hair-raising symphony of the naturally-aspirated, flat plane V8 that was a Ferrari hallmark, as well. I hope that you read this and take it to heart.

  • @danielsaudi9121
    @danielsaudi9121 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video David.. Love the journey through time.. thanks….

  • @slyck101
    @slyck101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome story about buying your dad's Rolls. My dream is to do that for my moms one day.

  • @angelnavas4124
    @angelnavas4124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey mate did you forgot your standard P1? Respect awesome collection. It still amazed me that passion of Ferrari costumers

  • @darthanianmakhaan2499
    @darthanianmakhaan2499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    288 GTO Something that I wanted so very badly when I was in college!! But, As a great Jewish man Leonard Nemoy once said, " In life you'll find That wanting is more satisfying than having"!

  • @juniorruiz7950
    @juniorruiz7950 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your Collection amazing but That Toyota truck tho 🔥best Truck ever made

  • @alexbbruce
    @alexbbruce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love those naturally aspirated Turbos 😜

    • @Dance1617
      @Dance1617 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he meant air cooled lol

  • @Carsaddiction
    @Carsaddiction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "which I regret" is a bit common phrase with us car guys :)

  • @andrewa.3304
    @andrewa.3304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing collection ! do you have video of F1? Would love to see more

  • @eldridsonmaria3360
    @eldridsonmaria3360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr david you're such a incredible person i can see your passion in the cars i see many beautiful cars that you collect over the years and i wanna say i admire you because i love cars too and i gonna work hard get many cars as you have and hopefully 1 day i can meet you and talk about cars many blessing 🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @rooomnoob
    @rooomnoob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U didnt mention your Huayra started life as Salomondrin’s 730S edition?

  • @buffett1000
    @buffett1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice guy. Deserves his success. Respect!

  • @Eiraart
    @Eiraart 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Had the same truck but had to sell it when my son was born- man l loved that little truck

  • @foxy7820
    @foxy7820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoy watching your videos! Your passion and excitement for the cars shines through. You have acquired an exceptional collection of cars!

  • @larrychamel
    @larrychamel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A Wonderful video David of your Magnificent Collection, both past and present. You have owned so many Phenomenal Cars in your lifetime and good for you! The 288 GTO EVO is the one Car for me, especially since you were talking about Tracking Cars. Where do you Track them? Thermal is a yes, have you driven Laguna Seca? If not you should definitely go with Benjamin S. Stay Safe my friend and my best to You and your Family as always.
    ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @sscreation6436
    @sscreation6436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello David Lee Sir.
    Have a great day
    This awesome Car collection in the World,Very nice
    I am Sanjay Singh from INDIA.
    I am seeing your all youtube video.
    Thanks and Regards

  • @shadyburnike264
    @shadyburnike264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn bro..tru ballin..lol..very nice collection I couldn't even afford a set of tires for one of those..🤜🤛

  • @khaliqsantos9055
    @khaliqsantos9055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Diablos are such a timeless beauty! That VT 6.0 is a dream car

  • @dylanmanuel6595
    @dylanmanuel6595 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your content is always great and motivates me always
    One day I’ll at-least own one Ferrari
    Ferrari my favourite and always my dream car 🎉🎉 🚘

  • @pinoybricks1275
    @pinoybricks1275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crazy collection! Your supercars are much much more than my whole technic cars! Awesome!

  • @filipepcorreia
    @filipepcorreia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    David, i have a question... For you, who have's the best and more complete Ferrari's collection that you now's! Keep in the success, great guy, great collection!

  • @Kempachy-ev2ol
    @Kempachy-ev2ol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video👏🏼

  • @Dethmegadeth
    @Dethmegadeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I prefer my favorite the F40, however car collectors like yourself not only aquire inventory you preserve history. Wich means a lot.

  • @mikevanderhoek8180
    @mikevanderhoek8180 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes please do the ferrari program and drive that thing!

  • @zmanphotos1578
    @zmanphotos1578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can we get a current garage video? On cars that are here, coming, and never leaving?

  • @woof3598
    @woof3598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr. Lee, thanks for sharing, always enjoy your Jay Leno visit's and the sock exchange you have a great collection, does the lack of luggage room keep you from taking some of these fantastic car on road trips ?

  • @michaelsvr6
    @michaelsvr6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see Daniel wu ripping the yellow one. So sick

  • @memoalonso3317
    @memoalonso3317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for sharing this. what an outstanding and unique collection.

  • @omarionagi6212
    @omarionagi6212 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful cars. Seems like a genuine nice guy. My dream is to own a Ferrari one day. Not sure if it will happen . Anyway , the most important thing in life is health and family. All other do not mean a thing and you can not take with you to your grave