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  • HEY GIRL HEY!
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  • @florizellathompson1562
    @florizellathompson1562 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Labor is no joke, I was shaking like a leaf and that back pain😢. Thank you lord, 18 years later, I have no regrets. I love my baby boy🙏🏾

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    " why are you lying to people ... Is it because you want grandkids? " THIS!!! 😂😂😂😅

  • @TheEagleslover
    @TheEagleslover ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m so glad your labor and delivery went well. All of my children were born via C-Section because I have malformed pelvic bones so I’m thankful for the ability of medical professionals. I will tell every woman to remember to not judge their experience by anyone else’s but embrace your individual experience and to give yourself grace if things don’t quite workout the way you expect. Then just love on that precious person and enjoy them.❤❤

  • @cmenowOn
    @cmenowOn ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love the analogy of bringing a soul through a portal, because that’s EXACTLY what I believe it to be as well! Congratulations on such a beautiful experience and your baby girl! ❤

  • @miniminott48
    @miniminott48 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Jenn, thanks for sharing your birth story. My son is 24 years old and I still remember his birth. Being a mother is an honor.

  • @sylviasimiyu7396
    @sylviasimiyu7396 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It was six weeks ago for me. I was induced since I was at 41weeks.
    Natural unmedicated birth.
    I thought I would be calm like the women I watch on TH-cam but I screamed. Thank GOD I still had the energy to push.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 ปีที่แล้ว

      I screamed and pushed at home. They came and tried to scoop up everything that came outta me, lol. They really need all that blood from your placenta huh

  • @NaturalDaniah
    @NaturalDaniah ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bring on the toilet doesnt seem weird to me. During my monthly cramps i feel better sitting on the toilet even if im not doing anything

  • @Amaspiritartist3
    @Amaspiritartist3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am so glad you came through this safely…you were in my prayers…

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah thank you 😊

    • @YvonneOnline
      @YvonneOnline ปีที่แล้ว

      You were constantly on my thoughts too, especially after sharing that they were concerned about the baby’s growth and wanted to schedule your labour; I trusted God for you, I was so relieved and happy when I saw your update on how things went; God is indeed our Father.

  • @carlisabulwer1040
    @carlisabulwer1040 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Congratulations! Great job doing your own research, advocating for yourself, and trusting your body. ❤🎉

  • @msmj9102
    @msmj9102 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stooping squatting is a very primal action since the beginning of time.

  • @audreysaunders9775
    @audreysaunders9775 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honey, I gave 3:41 birth 5 times! Only by the grace of God! 🙏🏽😂 No regrets. They are 5 of the best gifts I’ve ever gotten! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MrsKinkyNaturalCurlz
    @MrsKinkyNaturalCurlz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story I'm a new mom and will be delivering in Oct Im so thankful for your honesty and rawness ❤ congratulations 🎉🎉

  • @cetriyasArtnComicsChannel
    @cetriyasArtnComicsChannel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For all that women go through i really wish the medical ststem and busibesses was more supportive. Now the whole world is complianing we're not havibg kids meanwhile the chance of having more issues during labor has gone up due medical negligance.

  • @brklyn2922
    @brklyn2922 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I haven't had a child yet but women are so strong and beautiful, especially after giving birth. You look so happy, and congratulations on baby. Thank you for sharing your birth❤❤❤

  • @neilajoseph223
    @neilajoseph223 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Congratulations on your baby girl 💕 and way to advocate for yourself and do your own research!!!

  • @7339memo
    @7339memo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Five children all natural

  • @vonne2003
    @vonne2003 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Back labor pain is no joke. I had it with two of my children.

  • @jaynel0919
    @jaynel0919 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girl you said it perfectly...women are portals used to bring souls to this side of life! That is why I always say that women should NEVER be mistreated... Congrats!!!!!!TFS 💜

  • @noxlove2151
    @noxlove2151 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot even begin to imagine. The little I experienced had me in tears, no sound just water works. I had a cesarean because his heart beat was dropping way too much with each contraction.

  • @sisibee8532
    @sisibee8532 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing your story Jenn. Labor without an epidural is no joke. I did it accidentally. lol

  • @grenebean
    @grenebean ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A very classy way to explain a very primal experience. Glad it worked out well for you.

  • @joyprice209
    @joyprice209 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    7 weeks already? Wow it really does go fast. So glad you had so much support and knowledge.❤️

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I knowww! she is already 2 months now

  • @cameliamiller4140
    @cameliamiller4140 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember when I first saw the pregnancy announcement. I was ecstatic🎉❤. I'm so happy for you Jenn, words can never Express my happiness even tho we dont know each other.
    I'm only 22 but I'm definitely praying that God will bless me with the gift of motherhood and a family of my own.
    Congrats again Jenn. Much love🇯🇲❤❤

  • @priscillarenfroe7504
    @priscillarenfroe7504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!

  • @MsLadyAllure
    @MsLadyAllure ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @Lady_Clare4
    @Lady_Clare4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations once again🍼👧🏽❤!! Preparation paid off👍🏾. What a blessing🌹!

  • @jameelahall7126
    @jameelahall7126 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful story! Congratulations!

  • @keysiaparsely3038
    @keysiaparsely3038 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done 🎉

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser0185 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw a TH-camr put her labor on here and let me tell u it was real different seeing it from this end look like real pain don't mind I have a son😅🤦🏽‍♀️
    Yes I don't ever forget my birth pains and my son is 26yrs old.

  • @drawingclosertochrist
    @drawingclosertochrist ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your story. 🎉❤

  • @stacyann851
    @stacyann851 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Glad everything went as planned.

  • @jdd6958
    @jdd6958 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!!!!!!

  • @lusmilalamothe6709
    @lusmilalamothe6709 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all this details...

  • @NaturallyEssence
    @NaturallyEssence ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so similar to my labour with my first son! The baby being tilted in an awkward position, the midwife stretching the cervix, the back labour, the breaking of the water! Congrats to you🎉

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow! That’s awesome!

  • @adorablecuteness03
    @adorablecuteness03 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing!!

  • @christineowori750
    @christineowori750 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanksss for sharinghh❤❤❤❤

  • @jab0623
    @jab0623 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing your story Jenn! You are awesome!❤

  • @SaintdupsieTV
    @SaintdupsieTV ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations Jenn and thanks for sharing your story!.

  • @shelly.v.247
    @shelly.v.247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That ring of fire ain’t no joke! I always say, imagine squeezing a watermelon through a lemon. Yup, that’s pretty much the cleanest way I know how to share what it’s like! 👀🤣

    • @anshaaisha2477
      @anshaaisha2477 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅 spot on!

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously! I shall never forget 😂

  • @naomiomi4503
    @naomiomi4503 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is horrifying :D, lol thanks for sharing.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s not an easy thing and women need to know 🙈

  • @NkNaturalz
    @NkNaturalz ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing! I’ve been trying to prepare too so hopefully I have a good experience.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this! Trust your body

  • @fatoumatabarry9684
    @fatoumatabarry9684 ปีที่แล้ว

    My god I had that pain to the side too n i feel like that was even worse than the contractions themselves... n yeah because of it it was just ongoing pain...

  • @MissMuzikLover
    @MissMuzikLover ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your beautiful birth story.❤

  • @wendysmith450
    @wendysmith450 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just came across your channel/shorts. You are so animated. I love it.

  • @ritaenon2878
    @ritaenon2878 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww this was such a beautiful recount. Thanks for sharing n congrats on your lil bundle of joy 🥰

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah I definitely don’t miss labor .. 😂.. so happy you got thru it and enjoying your baby girl 🥰💙

  • @maria47660
    @maria47660 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great! I would love to hear more about the preparation for "the marathon."

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll add I to the list

  • @crystalrichardson5557
    @crystalrichardson5557 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. I wish I had been so aware when I had my children. ❤

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much respect for you and all ladies who give birth. I can't even imagine it. When I'm ready for children I'm going to adopt because I have zero pain tolerance and I already know that I don't have to give birth to love a child. Kids are so precious, and I want to be a mom to a couple who would not have otherwise had one.

  • @ramoyarichardson5823
    @ramoyarichardson5823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing, you definitely created a live vision in my mind. You are a great story teller. Enjoy motherhood. 🎉❤

  • @hibiscustea6886
    @hibiscustea6886 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story!! Congratulations on your sweet baby. ❤️

  • @mz.shinelite7779
    @mz.shinelite7779 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I 😂 There's only one exit how are you lost lol..🤣 😆

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow your experience was so exciting. Mine was an omen the worst experience ever. I had no suppot or help and i wound up getting a c-sec bcus i wouldn't dialate and baby and me had heart problem

  • @mekamoohoo9541
    @mekamoohoo9541 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey 👋🏽

  • @TheChocBeauty
    @TheChocBeauty ปีที่แล้ว

    I was placed on my back with my first son and was ADAMANT I Would NOT be on my back with my second son. It was absolutely painful!!! I’m so happy for you two!!! Congratulations!!!

  • @Shamon012
    @Shamon012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t remember means they don’t want to talk bout it 😂 congrats Jenn Were all so proud of you!! Happy healthy mommy and baby!!❤🎉

  • @reginablackshear2630
    @reginablackshear2630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!! I love hearing about women's birth, it's a beautiful thing ❤

  • @blkbeauty33
    @blkbeauty33 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been patiently waiting for your birthing chronicle! So happy for you both

  • @cheshiredj
    @cheshiredj ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you remember but maybe the memory how the pain felt fades? Great story, so happy for you 😊.

  • @A_Wilson
    @A_Wilson ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lord willing, my baby boy will be here next month! Was waiting to hear your story! Thanks for sharing! 🌺

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You got this! Praying by for a safe and smooth delivery!

    • @A_Wilson
      @A_Wilson ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! 💙

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GURLLLLL contract at home as much as possible, meaning take all the pain you can take at home. Lol, then when you can’t take it, CALL OR GO

    • @A_Wilson
      @A_Wilson ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @maiamiimaiam4343
      It’s so funny that you mention that cause that’s exactly the plan!! This is my 3rd child, the other two were c-sections and I’m NOT trying to go that route this time. As of right now, I’m slated to give birth at a birthing center. But if things change and I have to go to the hospital, you’re spot on! I’ll stay home as long as I can!! 💕💙 Thanks for the comment.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A_Wilson my first I did not find out until like we were 8 months so they didn't get to harass me with their what ifs bs to make me stress or hallucinate about worst case scenarios. With my 2nd I ended up being induced trusting their asses, messed up my epidural and ended having to get an emergency c-section. With my third, I pushed em out at home & made my husband call em after. Lol. I plan to do the same with the rest. All you need is your partner. Be strong, handle all you can but go when you need to

  • @naturesoundsandscenery
    @naturesoundsandscenery ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl I feel like in labor listening to you 😅

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t imagine what it’s like to wait almost a year to meet this little human and you have to complete the hardest marathon of your life to get them here! We still have a few more months to go but we’re so excited ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @aruhashya97
    @aruhashya97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love this Jenn. Could you make another video about what you mean by “you trained”??? Like how exactly does one prepare for birth

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      So many asked! It’s in the queue 🤫

  • @diajohn40
    @diajohn40 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story! I also chose a non-medicated birth 18 years ago. I trained alot like you did. We have to trust our bodies! It definitely knows what to do. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!❤

  • @kulturallyspeaking7850
    @kulturallyspeaking7850 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tearful and balled up watching you..The birth is an amazing journey.Savor your memories and all things from that day. Your report you were reading from, mom and baby I’d bracelets..maybe keep a journal. I gave my children (2) their baby Id bracelet when they turned 18. Each had a nice box with keepsakes I had….Beautiful…God bless you and your family…it is definitely a spiritual journey..joy from Ghana 🇬🇭

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh that’s such a great idea! I kept the bracelet just because but now I have a reason! Thank you

  • @muge1928
    @muge1928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Similar thing happend to my sister (babies growth) and pressure to induce etc when bub was born, she was average weight, placenta was fine...my sister tried to advocate for herself but in they end she didn't get what she wanted.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s crazy how much they pressure you at the end of your pregnancy when you need to be calm and relaxed

  • @Plants_and_Sustainable_Living
    @Plants_and_Sustainable_Living ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your birth story. You have no idea how empowering it is to me. I have the same thoughts to do your research and educate yourself and your partner as well. You don't go into birth blindly, leaving it up to the hospital and Doctors. Preparing yourself mentally and physically is really great advice. I'm happy you had the kind of birth experience you wanted, and you trusted your gut and your body.
    Please share your postpartum journey if you can. I'll be interested to see how the type of labour you had impacted your postpartum experience, which I know you're still experiencing, so take your time, heal and recover, enjoy your baby and if you ever do decide to share..I'll be here for the education. Thanks again. 😊

  • @Missrn07
    @Missrn07 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✨it gets risky approaching beyond 41 wks because the placenta starts not functioning at max performance. Perfect timing is around 38wks - 40 wks

  • @jayko4732
    @jayko4732 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m so happy to hear your story Jen! Love that you did your research and that you’re informing us to do ours ESPECIALLY as black women. But either way, congratulations to you and your lil one. Now you can “sit back” and watch her grow ❤

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much and yes, its SO important!

  • @LynnOnVinyl
    @LynnOnVinyl ปีที่แล้ว

    Me not having had children this story terrified me but I know that once the time comes my body will be ready and prepared to give birth.

  • @tishharris5439
    @tishharris5439 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have three children three totally different births that I will never ever forget. 2 totally natural and the last one epidural and emergency c section

  • @carriewalker6731
    @carriewalker6731 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so helpful! Thank you! How did you train? What exercises were helpful for strengthening the pelvic floor?

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would recommend seeing a pelvic floor specialist so they can asses where you are. It’s not just about strengthening but also learning how to relax/release.

  • @NadouLove7
    @NadouLove7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations again dear this video was very informative.🤱🏾 now my question for you, did you try any of our Haitian traditions? Aka "beny pou nouris" "steaming bath and tightening your belly

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      No I didn’t. My mom didn’t do them so I didn’t either 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @MelvinP741
    @MelvinP741 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey

  • @charlotteroberts3763
    @charlotteroberts3763 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im enjoyed the birthing story experience. Women are phenomenal to bring forth a human being into the world. Labor and delivery is a story by itself. Congratulations on baby girl 👶🏾

  • @angellellis79
    @angellellis79 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for finally sharing Jenn😊 Every Mom has a story and will foreverrrrrrr remember it😂

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Always!

    • @angellellis79
      @angellellis79 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girlllll… My babygirl weighed 6lbs 5 oz too, 6 yrs ago😀 Continue to be an inspiration for the new Moms🎉

  • @Willeneful
    @Willeneful ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I rem😅😅😅😅 remember the actions but not the pain associated with it...😂😂😅😅😅😅😅.now based on the actions or reactions it had to be painful...By the way I have three kids and three different labor experiences..let's talk..lol

  • @ritahagan9305
    @ritahagan9305 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok🎉😢🎉

  • @PirryMoni
    @PirryMoni ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss your intro: “Hey Guys welcome back to my channel, it’s a girl, eh eh”. Something like that 😂

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO! I'll see what I can do next time lol

    • @PirryMoni
      @PirryMoni ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JennJackson Yes please! 💜 that’s unique like u!

  • @Missrn07
    @Missrn07 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ✨Great job ! I’ve been an l&d nurse for 16 yrs and a lot of people don’t prepare for the labor and delivery journey. It’s a pure marathon

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @chardiemarie7455
    @chardiemarie7455 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! Your birth story and your insight as you share it was really helpful. Thank you. For at least the first year after I gave birth I couldn’t even think about it without flinching. The recovery was crazy. But now my son is almost 4 and It’s no where near the same to remember.Just take it one day at a time

  • @rhondadenis3469
    @rhondadenis3469 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Giving birth is magical. The love a mother has for her child is truly beyond description. I remember that pain. Congratulations luv. Natural birth is worth the pain. I was terrified by the epidural.

  • @hettyj8335
    @hettyj8335 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that Your Husband compare you to us Haitian Women 😂😂😂is true. Congratulations 🎉

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was highly offended lmao

    • @hettyj8335
      @hettyj8335 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JennJackson don't be 🤣🤣

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was it just you and your husband in the delivery room?

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  ปีที่แล้ว

      And the doula and midwife