Is my mom dating again!? | Healing a relationship with an immigrant parent

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ต.ค. 2023
  • HEY GIRL HEY!
    Skin care routine: shopmy.us/collections/40673
    Hair care Products: shopmy.us/collections/40645
    Merch: thejennjackson.creator-spring...
    ❗❗❗SUPPORT MY CHANNEL BY: ❗❗❗
    ► MERCH: thejennjackson.creator-spring...
    ► DONATING HERE: thejennjackson.com/donation
    ► BOOK A 1-on-1: calendly.com/thejennjackson
    ► GET SOME "4C GOODNESS" MERCH: thejennjackson.creator-spring...
    ► BUY A SUPER THANKS
    ► PURCHASING THROUGH MY LINKS
    #naturalhair #lifestylevlogger #contentcreator
    ♡My Favourite Products with no oils and butters so far♡
    Clarifying Shampoo: go.magik.ly/ml/18mwa/
    Moisturizing Shampoo: go.magik.ly/ml/1v86o/
    AG Boost Conditioner: go.magik.ly/ml/1v86q/
    Moisture Deep Conditioner: amzn.to/316rU6F
    Protein Deep Conditioner: amzn.to/3GsXCeu
    Leave in: amzn.to/3kqDctM
    Uncle Funky Gel: go.magik.ly/ml/183lg/
    The Doux Mousse: go.magik.ly/ml/186wd/
    Mist bottle: amzn.to/3zbX5J8
    Detangling Brush: amzn.to/2QXmuGp
    Check out my amazon store:
    www.amazon.ca/shop/influencer...
    ♡ Social Media ♡
    Instagram - / thejennjackson
    TikTok: / thejennjackson
    Blog: www.thejennjackson.com
    ________________________________________
    ♡ Tech Info ♡
    Main Camera - rstyle.me/+sV9ut2KVW1a0V_hBfa...
    Vlog Camera - go.magik.ly/ml/1v86x/
    Lens - amzn.to/3jMdkb6 or go.magik.ly/ml/1chvy/
    Other lens - go.magik.ly/ml/1chw0/
    Second lens for Canon R6 - go.magik.ly/ml/1chw1/
    Editing - Final Cut pro X
    Music: www.epidemicsound.com/referra...
    ________________________________________
    **Disclosure: I only recommend products I use myself. Affiliate links are used when possible and I make a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you for supporting me and this channel.
  • แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต

ความคิดเห็น • 90

  • @sisibee8532
    @sisibee8532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I love that you're working on your relationship with your mother.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too!

  • @cheshiredj
    @cheshiredj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Jenn spouting truth! Why should you get more if you are not thankful for what you already have? Social media will always have you feeling that you aren't doing enough. I am thankful for my life because there are so many that aren't doing as well. And in this world, you never know how things can turn, so be grateful and happy.

  • @dwise2165
    @dwise2165 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish my immigrant mother was open to healing 😂 Sadly she’ll never own up or apologize for her wrongdoings or toxic behaviors. I’ve just learned to love her from a distance and limit my interactions with her now.

  • @simplymariama
    @simplymariama 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’m 23 and I’ve been watching your videos for the past 5 years now.
    Honestly Haitian culture sounds so similar to mine. Thank you for the advice on being patient and cherishing our parents. You’re such an inspiration, love from The Gambia 🇬🇲

  • @opeoluwa9040
    @opeoluwa9040 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Grateful for life, grateful for love, grateful for good health, grateful for peace!

  • @ReneeHenderson-jo8nm
    @ReneeHenderson-jo8nm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Jen J , I'm 48 years old, I watch your "youtube" videos whenever I can, I appreciate your work, I even started liking my natural 4c hair, Thank you for teaching people like me that my hair is beautiful, I never wore my natural hair in public, braids weaves, wigs, perms, but never natural, after watching you, I actually like my hair, but I have work to do. You and your mommy are beautiful, I'm one who watches your videos, but never comment, sorry Gurl, I"m shy, Keep up the good work, congratulations on your beautiful baby girl, marriage and everything

  • @TheChocBeauty
    @TheChocBeauty 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You look like your mom. Glad you ladies have worked it out. Nothing like a Mama!!! I miss mine terribly.

  • @yoyoboy6146
    @yoyoboy6146 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am grateful for life, my loving family, and a career that I truly love. One love 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🎉❤.

  • @shalayne9054
    @shalayne9054 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jenn that song sounds like you singing.
    😊Loved seeing baby girl. Glad you and your moms is closer that's gold. Great video!

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have many talents but singing isn’t one of them 😭

  • @sheilaw1983
    @sheilaw1983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The end definitely resonated with me. As a married 40 year old mom i sometimes get fomo looking at people online but i wouldnt trade my life for the world and you never really know if those people are actually happy or "fronting for the 'gram". Im thankful for my marriage, my family and my health. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. It always makes me reflect on my own situation and see things in a different light. I use the native deodorant and i love it. I dont use body washes. I've used a bar and wash cloth my whole life, lol. I use the shea moisture bar soap, and i love it.💕

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing! Very truth, you don’t know who is truly happy or fronting!

  • @ninabblessed426
    @ninabblessed426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the idea of taking your Mom out on a date! It's a simple but effective way of starting to repair your relationship. You get to dress up, eat good food and just talk. Baby girl is so cute 🥰 she's getting so big! Love how the bantu knots turned out ❤️

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I completely agree!

  • @reginablackshear2630
    @reginablackshear2630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Aww you and your Mom are so lovely ❤

  • @animatedmoi
    @animatedmoi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so glad that you actually talk about these issues bc culturally we usually say nothing.

  • @5016jay
    @5016jay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That’s so sweet you and your mom .love on her all you can I miss mine so much I am so glad I loved on mine while she was here stay blessed ❤

    • @shedori92
      @shedori92 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙋🏾‍♀️ same

  • @christine_muts
    @christine_muts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "not you, the other ones."😂

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😇😇😇

  • @Mygirllifestyle
    @Mygirllifestyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very good advice, lets stay in our lane and we will be happy, comparing is the waste of happiness....

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like that

  • @Scentedearthnaturals
    @Scentedearthnaturals 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your relationship with your mom. My mom passed away last year and my dad passed away a few years earlier. You both looked beautiful. Baby doll is too cute ❤

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So sorry to hear that. I hope you had a great relationship with them

    • @Scentedearthnaturals
      @Scentedearthnaturals 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JennJackson I did. Thank you, Jenn.

  • @sheenaprempeh138
    @sheenaprempeh138 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You need to show us how to do those bantu knots, looks really good ❤❤❤

  • @allison.a
    @allison.a 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve been calling my mom almost daily lately and sometimes I tell myself it’s too much. But that’s not possible

    • @shedori92
      @shedori92 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not possible at all. My Mama and I would talk several times a day and we lived together. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @allison.a
      @allison.a 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shedori92 My grandma passed unexpectedly and my mom would always say how much she missed her. So I make a point to really enjoy the time I have with my mom 🧡

    • @shedori92
      @shedori92 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @allison.a no truer words have been spoken. Yesterday was 2 years since my Mama passed from ovarian cancer and I miss her EVERYDAY. My Mama also said the same thing about her Mama. She would be crying some days and would be like what's wrong... she would say "I miss my Mama" this even before her cancer diagnosis. She was the baby of 7 and spoiled. 🤗 Keep doing what you're doing with your Mama... we only get one! 🫶🏾

    • @allison.a
      @allison.a 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shedori92 I didn’t call my mom this weekend and she said she didn’t know what to do! Thank you for sharing and the encouragement 🫶🏼

    • @shedori92
      @shedori92 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allison.a 🤗my pleasure 🫶🏾

  • @mirandaharris3426
    @mirandaharris3426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are speaking truth about being mindful about how much you consume with watching what other people are doing. I have to remind myself that as well. I have to focus on my own goals and growth. I love to watch vlogs too and I did go to the Beyoncé concert (which was a great experience with my 17yr old dtr) but that’s where I am in life. That was a great message and thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @donnacrawford7392
    @donnacrawford7392 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the Bantu knots!!!!

  • @Mygirllifestyle
    @Mygirllifestyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amazing relationship with your mum, nice vlog and thank you for sharing..

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching

  • @ItsTashia
    @ItsTashia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awe I loved every moment 💕 both your smiles say it all

  • @p.e.5336
    @p.e.5336 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing your lovely day with your beautiful family ❤ Take care!

  • @berthandiba7695
    @berthandiba7695 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video and great message!! Keep the vlogs coming

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @user-iv4vh8rh8o
    @user-iv4vh8rh8o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love the vlogs but I have a little complaint: you have a tendency to just post baby girl randomly, how are we suppose to handle so much cuteness without warning ❤ Warn us gurl: CUTENESS LOADING, PREPARE YOUR HEART😊 The bantu knots looks good and I agree that the internet can sometimes feel like one is left behind on things we don't even want to do.. So silly😊

  • @christlinepierre5081
    @christlinepierre5081 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was my FAVORITE blog!!! Love you girl! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 (already shared this with all my Haitian sistahs)
    Grateful for my family, health, peace 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @camib645
    @camib645 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a great meaningful share. Thanks for putting this out here!!

  • @nineth_sapphire2504
    @nineth_sapphire2504 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely love this! 💛

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So glad!

  • @shelly.v.247
    @shelly.v.247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Preach!!! Love everything you said and shared! ALL so very true‼️♥️💯

  • @rachel12127
    @rachel12127 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lately ive been binging your content(BTW PROUD OF YOU FOR THE CONSISTANCY LATELY😊) your voice is also so relaxing. you are so relatble:) i love the work you put on your relationship with your mom, i love that you try to keep up with the workouts even with a new baby!!
    AND I ABSOLUTLY RELATE TO YOUR MESSAGE REGARDING SOCIAL MEDIA AND SOMETIMES ENVYIENG OTHERS LIFE EVEN THOUGH ISNT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOURSELF!
    keep it up❣

  • @robynlovesjazzing2374
    @robynlovesjazzing2374 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your mom is beautiful Jen. Now I know where you got your beautiful looks.💕💕

  • @edelinedolce8666
    @edelinedolce8666 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    More videos with your mom please. She is so sweet.

  • @ashleya2178
    @ashleya2178 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm here for these vlogs 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @TM-kh7el
    @TM-kh7el 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Jenn. You encouraged me to work on myself if I ever hope to raise any kids one day. My relationship with my mom will probably never be okay but I'm slowly learning to accept that and work on myself so I don't repeat the same mistakes with my child one day.

  • @Coilylady
    @Coilylady 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great blog as usual. My mom passed away in November then my dad in March and then my sister in May and of course that’s a lot but I have really focused on being grateful for the time we had and and that my children had great memories with my mom. Thank you for your positive reminders.

  • @Amaspiritartist3
    @Amaspiritartist3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am thankful for my talent, the love of my family and having food, clothing and shelter

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love that!

  • @Lady_Clare4
    @Lady_Clare4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking good ladies💕👏🏾! Have fun!( Your words of wisdom are on target. I’m past 69 and still learning.👍🏽)

  • @yvonnemurphy7506
    @yvonnemurphy7506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG That gap! So BEAUTIFUL
    what an amazing episode ❤👏🏾👏🏾🧡
    (u r such a joy 🤣🙏🏽)

  • @miniminott48
    @miniminott48 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jenn, I really enjoyed this vlog.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so glad!

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Luv this Vlog Jenn J .. 🥰💙.. every message “hit home” for me! Thank you! 💙..😂I use both soap & body wash..

  • @mingtoiisaac4623
    @mingtoiisaac4623 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ☺️ Adorable baby❤

  • @SweetGaBrownin
    @SweetGaBrownin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Growth and Love does the body, mind and spirit so so good. It can be such a beautiful experience if we allow it
    All 💙💙💙🙏🏽 Jenn
    No worries, I didn't see Beyonce either 😊
    And I love your Bantu knots

  • @user-sj3ns9bl7n
    @user-sj3ns9bl7n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so good!

  • @my1stlove130
    @my1stlove130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use a dial soap first then my body wash and my exfoliating body wash lots of steps the moisturize and sealed with a light oil

  • @MT-yx5cu
    @MT-yx5cu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You and your mom look super cute Jenn❤.
    Have you consulted with a derm about the PP hairloss ? There are ointments that can be prescribed to stimulate hair growth ( not minoxidil).
    I've experienced something similar due to hormones.

  • @moniku4866
    @moniku4866 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been using Native wash and deodorant. Love them. Great vlog!

  • @barbiepinky5633
    @barbiepinky5633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just had to comment, don’t know exactly what I’m doing but I love u so much girl❤

  • @mokgadiphasha5756
    @mokgadiphasha5756 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Family, work and health

  • @YvonneOnline
    @YvonneOnline 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please Jen, hi, your perfume collection, please share. Your vlogs are 👌🏾

  • @livelifeleisurely3488
    @livelifeleisurely3488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol I don't have "strong boundaries" I just got boundaries and the bounce off it but they know I'm a strong wall they can stand on when needed 😂 . They've now just lean from time to time

  • @sherwandagriffin
    @sherwandagriffin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes honey I love Native products. The scents are so yummy 😊

  • @charlotteroberts3763
    @charlotteroberts3763 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoy the video! I'm glad that you are working on your mom relationship. You both looked like Nubian Queen 👸🏾. Your hair is long, and I can't tell with the shrinkage.

  • @a.a.family9169
    @a.a.family9169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your hair is growing so fast. Are you growing it long all over or going to keep it tapered?

  • @lblack1961
    @lblack1961 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💖💖

  • @livelifeleisurely3488
    @livelifeleisurely3488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also thought it was 4C goddess :)

  • @yhines6129
    @yhines6129 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've HEARD that body washes are more of a moisturizer than cleaner...who knows girl

  • @sheshedshenanigans
    @sheshedshenanigans 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @my1stlove130
    @my1stlove130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nothing heals you when you forgive someone that done deserves it from the heart. It takes the love of God to forgive. It takes God to heal a broken heart

  • @allison.a
    @allison.a 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The shower girlies kill me. Y’all aren’t itchy after a bar of soap AND a body wash? I don’t need all those products.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s when you need a jar of body butter 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @mariettajacobs4708
      @mariettajacobs4708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also thought people be extra with all these products until I tried it myself. My skin hasn't been the same. She's glowing. And u do what works for u. Use what works for u.

    • @allison.a
      @allison.a 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mariettajacobs4708 With cleansing as well? I see it for moisturizing, like using a lotion and then oil or something similar. But soap seems drying. I agree with you - once I started using a scrub in the shower my skin has been different! In a good way

  • @Rachellizzle
    @Rachellizzle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It sounds like…. They being dirty with the bar soap bc…. Nvm 😂

  • @jahsmain5279
    @jahsmain5279 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😊 can I ask what language you guys are speaking?

  • @albertacristie99
    @albertacristie99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I knew you were Haitian!!!

  • @Rachellizzle
    @Rachellizzle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Boooo stop retiring stuff!!!!

  • @lnyawilliamsmoorell5061
    @lnyawilliamsmoorell5061 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ACEtvl Haitian travel blogger on YT

  • @gwendolinethahilahchanda7953
    @gwendolinethahilahchanda7953 8 หลายเดือนก่อน