Well put. I’d like what you said about basically not playing their game. It reminds me of something I learned in educational psychology class. “ behavior you want to extinguish, ignore. Behavior you want to exasperate, call attention to. Play dumb pretend you don’t even see it. Keep smiling. It’s the best revenge.!
I really don't like saying things more than once. Especially bc I could hurt your success and I would never want to do that. It just seems a little, a lot tacky to post a A New Vid, more than once. No one else does it, there's a reason and now you know it. I enjoy your videos and would like them to stay around. This video is so on point in my life and I needed it! I NEED ALL OF THEM! ❤️&🔅
My auntie invented a lie about me and still tried to act nice and started to like my stories. I got happy but them remembered what she did and realized it was weird, and i hid my stories from her.
It’s worth a try but wouldn’t you be more in control if you could do some psychological tricks into his mind maybe like small things that will get into his head basically why not just be in charge show him in silence that you run the shots! Evil origin story
My therapist once told me everyone is a manipulator even her with her kids. I know I can be not consciously in a mean way but I can recognize it at times. Where I'm confused is the invoking feelings part.. Bernee Brown says be vulnerable.. so I will share something vulnerable.. but now you make me wonder is that manipulation .. how do you know the difference? Im trying to open up more and be vulnerable now Im scared thats a bad thing .. so confused
Just my two cents (or opinion, maybe it helps): Non-predatory vulnerability involves reciprocity. Example: someone shares they feel like they failed at life because they wasted coffee on their shirt during their first meeting at a new job, and you share your vulnerability here____ (ex. I know exactly how you feel...blah blah, and maybe some comfort if that is how you connect with people). Or, you can just say you understand, and not have a story, and save your vulnerability for the people you trust? Like, if you've had a bad day, and are feeling particularly vulnerable, it's probably safest to go to your parents, siblings, best/go-to friends to just be sad. But still, reciprocity matters. You may not be doing a vulnerability story exchange, but you (do we all?) have the subconscious 'calculator' or tablet, that tracks those times where you go to them for comfort, advice, support, and they come to you. And I believe, the true sign that YOU are not a manipulator is that if that tablet, or calculator is indicating that you do most of the vulnerability/you receive the bulk of the support than you should fix that (be their support, be there for their moments, journal your vulnerabilities for a little while if necessary).
May not be the best advice but why don’t you put yourself in control and when you someone try manipulating you why not study their tactics and learn a phew things and outplay them in their own game not as way to manipulate you but see through their thoughts and a way to pDo text yourself from harm not saying be the manipulator but there might be a phew things worth learning from someone who manipulates others so you won’t be the “others” who are being manipulated be a boss!! Anyways I hope your life is going great 👍 👍!!!!
I’m old now and had a lot of business experience etc.. I still haven’t learned my lessons but there’s a lot of these types around. Best thing is to know as early as you can. Which I haven’t done. Taking my own advice, I should do better at, stay away from adopted fostered or those who’s parents divorced when they were younger. Those raised by single mothers, thin upper lips big chins puppet eyes that stare and don’t blink much, only child’s and those with all same gender siblings- early competition and bullying brought into adulthood.
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Well put. I’d like what you said about basically not playing their game. It reminds me of something I learned in educational psychology class. “ behavior you want to extinguish, ignore. Behavior you want to exasperate, call attention to. Play dumb pretend you don’t even see it. Keep smiling. It’s the best revenge.!
Go no contact
When you are a free spirit its best not to get too attached.
I really don't like saying things more than once. Especially bc I could hurt your success and I would never want to do that. It just seems a little, a lot tacky to post a A New Vid, more than once. No one else does it, there's a reason and now you know it.
I enjoy your videos and would like them to stay around.
This video is so on point in my life and I needed it! I NEED ALL OF THEM! ❤️&🔅
What the f
I disarm them with my awesomeness and magic 🤘♥️
Great video! Thanks!
Can an a religious person can be a good manipulator.
Manipulators a calm headed
My auntie invented a lie about me and still tried to act nice and started to like my stories. I got happy but them remembered what she did and realized it was weird, and i hid my stories from her.
Good advice, very good 👍
Tq it's useful to overcome
stay away from those weirdos!
My roommate is one of these... Help. I'm locked into the lease for another 10 months
It’s worth a try but wouldn’t you be more in control if you could do some psychological tricks into his mind maybe like small things that will get into his head basically why not just be in charge show him in silence that you run the shots! Evil origin story
My big sister... It's awful.😌
Thanks! 🥰
My therapist once told me everyone is a manipulator even her with her kids. I know I can be not consciously in a mean way but I can recognize it at times.
Where I'm confused is the invoking feelings part.. Bernee Brown says be vulnerable.. so I will share something vulnerable.. but now you make me wonder is that manipulation .. how do you know the difference? Im trying to open up more and be vulnerable now Im scared thats a bad thing .. so confused
Just my two cents (or opinion, maybe it helps): Non-predatory vulnerability involves reciprocity. Example: someone shares they feel like they failed at life because they wasted coffee on their shirt during their first meeting at a new job, and you share your vulnerability here____ (ex. I know exactly how you feel...blah blah, and maybe some comfort if that is how you connect with people). Or, you can just say you understand, and not have a story, and save your vulnerability for the people you trust? Like, if you've had a bad day, and are feeling particularly vulnerable, it's probably safest to go to your parents, siblings, best/go-to friends to just be sad. But still, reciprocity matters. You may not be doing a vulnerability story exchange, but you (do we all?) have the subconscious 'calculator' or tablet, that tracks those times where you go to them for comfort, advice, support, and they come to you. And I believe, the true sign that YOU are not a manipulator is that if that tablet, or calculator is indicating that you do most of the vulnerability/you receive the bulk of the support than you should fix that (be their support, be there for their moments, journal your vulnerabilities for a little while if necessary).
May not be the best advice but why don’t you put yourself in control and when you someone try manipulating you why not study their tactics and learn a phew things and outplay them in their own game not as way to manipulate you but see through their thoughts and a way to pDo text yourself from harm not saying be the manipulator but there might be a phew things worth learning from someone who manipulates others so you won’t be the “others” who are being manipulated be a boss!! Anyways I hope your life is going great 👍 👍!!!!
I’m old now and had a lot of business experience etc.. I still haven’t learned my lessons but there’s a lot of these types around. Best thing is to know as early as you can. Which I haven’t done. Taking my own advice, I should do better at, stay away from adopted fostered or those who’s parents divorced when they were younger. Those raised by single mothers, thin upper lips big chins puppet eyes that stare and don’t blink much, only child’s and those with all same gender siblings- early competition and bullying brought into adulthood.
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