How to stop seeking validation and heal your abandonment issues

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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

    • @Santell_M
      @Santell_M 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love the nirvana tshirt - awesome vid as always thank you!

    • @cathyrenick8562
      @cathyrenick8562 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      How about boundaries? You have to draw the line somewhere. Try having someone live with you that's your adult relationship and they're not respecting you or your home.

    • @cathyrenick8562
      @cathyrenick8562 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Any relationship is easy if you don't live with them. You're young enough you could be my son.

    • @cathyrenick8562
      @cathyrenick8562 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Tell her quit professing that over herself, or anyone who sounds negative towards themselves. It's nice to hear a young man express yourself so well. Gives me hope for our future.

  • @davidgarcia1633
    @davidgarcia1633 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +113

    Do you all ever notice how Aaron's specific content eerily shows up when you need to hear it?? I'm floored.

    • @lindseykinger6459
      @lindseykinger6459 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Just thinking that.

    • @jovana-che
      @jovana-che 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He's kinda chasing his own tail for a while now

    • @miller5170
      @miller5170 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Probably an algorithm to low texts and calls lol

    • @Sylvia8765
      @Sylvia8765 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      same hahah

    • @rariel3801
      @rariel3801 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yesss...Aaron is and always aligned with universe

  • @LisaGrimes665
    @LisaGrimes665 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    • @RYANPENNELL86
      @RYANPENNELL86 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please how ?

    • @RYANPENNELL86
      @RYANPENNELL86 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞

    • @LisaGrimes665
      @LisaGrimes665 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

    • @LisaGrimes665
      @LisaGrimes665 วันที่ผ่านมา

      $356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....

    • @lanhdo3650
      @lanhdo3650 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!

  • @Photobomba
    @Photobomba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Within a normal range expressing vulnerability is medicine and healing. With some pathological narcissists / highly immature people opening up is literally opening yourself up to abuse. Sometimes you just have to walk away and carry on, and make peace with that.

    • @anneeshamaitreya1239
      @anneeshamaitreya1239 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Exactly. It can be dangerous. Balance is everything

    • @Earthangel11179
      @Earthangel11179 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This happened to me and it hurts so bad

    • @cathyrenick8562
      @cathyrenick8562 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​​Boundaries and how to set them?

  • @ashleyf450
    @ashleyf450 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I used to watch these videos as well as many other spiritual “gurus.” I was seeking and searching for peace and healing and all of these techniques would only work for a short period until I had to find the next thing. Then one night God came to me and showed me the truth. That Jesus is the only way. Since submitting my life to following Jesus I always have peace and joy. I no longer have to seek it like I did before. If you let Jesus into your life you won’t have to do any of this stuff anymore guys. He’s what you are really searching for. God bless

  • @Crystal-Bell
    @Crystal-Bell 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Dang you answered a question i asked the universe this morning. Opening up to someone and putting myself in a volnerable position, or just let it go. But yeah by holding it in its self abandenment and impossible to let go with no resolve. Then trusting this person with that volnerability. Wow thank you.

  • @evenstar9946
    @evenstar9946 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “Trust other people”. Thats what I need rn. And the point that my view of men, is related to my view of my father.
    To trust that the same way I exist with my values, other beautiful concious men that share my values also exist. Values like awareness, mutual nurturing, loyalty, monogami and wanting deep commited relationships ♥️

  • @JessieG_1983
    @JessieG_1983 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    3:15 yes. It takes practice like any muscle. The more we act in faith the more we trust. Even when things don’t work out as you hoped you may find it worked out for the best. It grows the trust 💯🔥

  • @Piecesoftheshadow
    @Piecesoftheshadow วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have no issue being open and vulnerable. The issue I have had is people taking advantage of it or not being vulnerable and there’s an imbalance. This then fed into my trust issues from the hurt. So I need to connect to people more on the same level as me and to stop lowering my worth and feeling undeserving to where I stay in relationships/friendships that are not equal or good for me.

  • @ammarramic
    @ammarramic 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This brings to mind the Sedona Method and its concept of the three wants, which suggests that the desire for control stems from the need for approval, and ultimately, both are rooted in the desire for security.

  • @melanievertalino3382
    @melanievertalino3382 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is my new favorite video of yours! ❤ I recently realized that rescuing others is enabling them and stopping them from learning their own life lessons. Now I stay neutral and uninvolved. Life is way better this way. Thanks for going deep. I'd LOVE for you to make some more videos like this because these days no one seems to even trust themselves! Thanks Aaron. You seem to know what we need to learn before we do. Awesome! 🎉

  • @newparadigmlifestyle
    @newparadigmlifestyle 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That safe in your own body, it's everything!! Love it! 🤩🤩

  • @maximoburgos2696
    @maximoburgos2696 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +278

    it's really crazy how nobody is talking about the book the cosmic wealth frequencies on borlest

  • @pamela2870
    @pamela2870 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Absolutely Divine Timing Collective. Wow so many of us healing feeling & dealing. Keep on keeping on! Aaron you ROCK TY 💯🤗🙏

  • @MeganCleland111
    @MeganCleland111 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aaron I just love your content... You have inspired me to share my voice and support women in manifesting their dreams... Thank you for shining so that I in turn cab shine to❤

  • @Theleaddog
    @Theleaddog 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Nope. My parents did that to me. I was always responsible for my siblings. If they stole something, I’d get the trouble twice as badly as them BECAUSE apparently I knew better and should have stopped them. What?!!! I grew up attempting but failing at controlling other people. My entire life. I am a behavioral health practitioner now. I am still learning that people choose to live the way they do and it’s okay. It’s only a problem in their lives when it’s a problem and they get to decide that. I am. It talking “crime”. I am talking more along the lines of making bad choices for oneself.
    I am still learning. I am 50.

  • @hannasinspo
    @hannasinspo วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wooooow, this man is SOOO Good at channeling & explaining current Energy and questions That many of us have! Since years, you always appear with your Content in the EXACT Moment and Form I needed it! THANK YOU ❤

  • @levolcan1117
    @levolcan1117 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ask them if you are friends before you get vulnerable and expose yourself. That's when healthy boundaries begin.

  • @kimberlyshanks1914
    @kimberlyshanks1914 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow Aaron, ive been following you for a while and i can really see the shift in you, and your shift is affecting me in a 5th dimensional way❤. Im so close to you for Santa Monica. 😢im still struggling with money issues. I havnt mastered it yet❤and in no way expect you to do what you do free. You put wonderful value into the world❤

  • @ingridivy9139
    @ingridivy9139 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video. I think the issue of boundaries can use more nuanced language. And I deeply appreciate the wisdom you are sharing here. Again, thank you.

  • @sofiane1unique
    @sofiane1unique วันที่ผ่านมา

    3:27 HELLO 🤗 that was me. you can heal by connecting with other people, thank you Aaron for this powerful message ❤

  • @miller5170
    @miller5170 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    hair looks great!
    This is a great video very much needed

  • @kaylaEship_wrecked
    @kaylaEship_wrecked วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this Aaron. Perfectly explained. ❤❤❤

  • @Belaraniel
    @Belaraniel 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Opening up and communicating are great first steps, but don't trust blindly. Trust is earned, just like respect.

  • @AnointedOne4God
    @AnointedOne4God 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i have accepted im broken. i may never heal. but i will still move forward

    • @kimberlyhoppe-walker6093
      @kimberlyhoppe-walker6093 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You will eventually remember that you have always been whole complete and accepted. Everything else is a deception

    • @speranza9415
      @speranza9415 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You're in the right direction, keep moving

    • @davidgarcia1633
      @davidgarcia1633 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Stating what you just said there, out loud is the first step of Self-empowerment. Keep goin and don't ever look back.

    • @jltsandwich
      @jltsandwich 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought the same thing I have disorganized attachment. Decades of child and partner abuse. Anxiety meds finally helping to stabilize the anxiety that makes me act out

    • @Journeywithjazmin
      @Journeywithjazmin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      forgiveness and self love. Forgive yourself for being so hard on yourself, others, and love yourself enough to set higher standards for yourself ❤️

  • @nicolesousa8864
    @nicolesousa8864 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hear everything you say im aware x10 that i am missing out cause of my fear of being vulnerable. Sitting with it 😢 and working on it with the best intentions ❤

  • @ChaBetiConfluencer
    @ChaBetiConfluencer วันที่ผ่านมา

    Triggy triggy.. Go Aaron!!

  • @michelleoddon1999
    @michelleoddon1999 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You really know how to express yourself , makes it enjoyable to listen . Happy Birthday 🎂

  • @melanymaquaizer677
    @melanymaquaizer677 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Leading with vulnerability. ❤

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Super vibes JJ,thank youuuu❤

  • @alessandromatteucci9251
    @alessandromatteucci9251 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for this precious content!

  • @oscarmarshallsay560
    @oscarmarshallsay560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s just your eternal nowness😊 and flow state

  • @heureuse8568
    @heureuse8568 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aaron, in the beginning at the gym, my eyes were everywhere looking for threats. Now I can close my eyes and still feel safe.
    Yeah it's interesting that vulnerability also makes me have more self respect and ventilate what's bothering me. Which also makes me respect and appreciate other people. Pretty interesting paradox

  • @liberetontigre
    @liberetontigre วันที่ผ่านมา

    As usual. Very good value.
    Many thanks

  • @ThusSays
    @ThusSays 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Always right on time. Thank you

  • @anyamos6428
    @anyamos6428 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This information is priceless !!!

  • @mariareznicka9346
    @mariareznicka9346 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much Aaron ❤

  • @emilynunez577
    @emilynunez577 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for breaking it down

  • @oscarmarshallsay560
    @oscarmarshallsay560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    To me you have the vibe of maharaji and Sadhguru namaste

  • @rockerdane
    @rockerdane 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    NAILED IT. This is so, so legit.

  • @BipashaDas99
    @BipashaDas99 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My heartfelt gratitude to you 🙏

  • @anneeshamaitreya1239
    @anneeshamaitreya1239 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This can be dangerous advice. I had tried and it was not well received so many times and causes more issues to my nervous system. Today I go around a balance.

  • @nicolacoffey9480
    @nicolacoffey9480 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg syncronisity of this it was at 11 veiws when u can I trying to find a solution re my balance in my relationship... Amd I become aware of these beliefs at weekend.. ❤

    • @nicolacoffey9480
      @nicolacoffey9480 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And trust is what I am looking to bring more of this into my relationship..

  • @lisanathan7336
    @lisanathan7336 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂busted! This hit and made me laugh, perfect! Thanks beautiful ❤

  • @ReikiRosie
    @ReikiRosie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is the best metafore for me to understand not being the park ranger! ❤❤

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hii, JJ..welcome back😮❤so good topic..heyyy so powerful😅

  • @reginajbuonomo361
    @reginajbuonomo361 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yess So being authentic in expressing Myself is vulnerability ?! ? 💫😘

  • @royallecrutchfield4965
    @royallecrutchfield4965 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    THANK YOUUUUUUU

  • @nutcrackernadine21
    @nutcrackernadine21 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sounds like people pleasing as well...the giver
    ..DONE...starts with self!!!

  • @ferhatcelik6321
    @ferhatcelik6321 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

  • @Liv-181
    @Liv-181 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow this is helpful thank you

  • @natasaj
    @natasaj 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you

  • @cellerdoor2954
    @cellerdoor2954 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You got me cracking up on this one 😂😂😂

  • @reikiorgone
    @reikiorgone 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤You my brother

  • @jovana-che
    @jovana-che 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    is there anything about these vibe stuff that isn't a quick fix? If it's quick fix, it means it is good!

  • @DIEGORitchie-h4c
    @DIEGORitchie-h4c 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    another great video, if this makes you tick read 'Magnetic Aura' it will help you a lot

  • @bekirozdemir1835
    @bekirozdemir1835 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    it''s quite shocking how few people know about the book the cosmic wealth frequencies

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Matching atmosphere colos JJ😮

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Have u got this JJ,sent you ,u know I m expert tech😅❤

  • @miryana79
    @miryana79 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If Aaron should read this HAPPY Birthday Month, enjoy 💙

  • @DeepakSingh-h5e
    @DeepakSingh-h5e 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I hate this thing that I am always so vulnerable and 24/7 in fight or flight mode and something in my gut is going down and down and messes up my belly

  • @DarleneAntonio-u1x
    @DarleneAntonio-u1x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    for all book enjoyers like myself, reading the ebook 'Magnetic Aura' is a must

  • @GuyBlue78
    @GuyBlue78 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You always talk about the right things at the right time. How do you do it

  • @persephonejanderova
    @persephonejanderova 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    thank you

  • @drink_bobo44
    @drink_bobo44 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was just randomly thinking about late 80s Nirvana and I open TH-cam and there's a Sliver shirt ha.

  • @christielienesch5357
    @christielienesch5357 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hits home especially because, one summer, I was a park ranger LOL

    • @jovana-che
      @jovana-che 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      everyone was a park ranger at some stage in life lol

  • @ShalandaClanton
    @ShalandaClanton 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

  • @nutcrackernadine21
    @nutcrackernadine21 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Vulnerability!!!...Wow

  • @dannijordan2777
    @dannijordan2777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this video

  • @funnybunny81
    @funnybunny81 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    20:37 🤣🤣🤣 park ranger

  • @MissErin9
    @MissErin9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi, could you talk a little bit about raising vibrations while dealing with intense grief?

  • @mariafernandes8985
    @mariafernandes8985 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great.👍

  • @HườngTrần-i2t9h
    @HườngTrần-i2t9h 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️

  • @YleniaCorigliano
    @YleniaCorigliano 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    @aarondoughty44 hi aaron! I watch your videos again and again but there’s a question for you. I don’t do anything about my sp, i identify the pattern. How do i decide if stay with him or not? Even if i noticed my pattern of try to control him?

  • @mehmetakifpekin6635
    @mehmetakifpekin6635 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Stop wasting time on fluff-The Cosmic Wealth Frequencies book on Borlest shows you how to truly attract anything you want in life. This is next-level.

  • @ThuTrangTrầnThị-p6k
    @ThuTrangTrầnThị-p6k 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    awesome

  • @MichaelGik
    @MichaelGik วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Arron I wanted to start my journey of meditation with you but I'm worried it will open my 3rd eye any tips?

  • @alizahjaved2898
    @alizahjaved2898 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    he ate that

  • @willott9470
    @willott9470 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Can I please be your intern? I can help everyday with building your business and brand... for real! I want to learn and see how you do what you do and I have editing skills. At least let me know if this is something you'd even be open to.

    • @jovana-che
      @jovana-che 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe I can give you opportunity for practicing building brand and business. What are you willing to bring to the table? I see you say you got editing skills. Do you have some videos to show?

  • @miahpeachie
    @miahpeachie วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is the friend u talking about Heather from activation vibration? Cuz I been thinking u two should hook up for a long time lol. Just wanted to put that out there!!❤😂🎉

  • @justaset
    @justaset วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good content and at least 3 ads, super annoying 😢

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ....leaning into tension😮

  • @sofiane1unique
    @sofiane1unique วันที่ผ่านมา

    11:33 how many conscious men are here. Like this comment if you are a conscious man

  • @saskyadeberdt5246
    @saskyadeberdt5246 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No no no 😂 talking about the isolation queen

  • @angel555b6
    @angel555b6 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @TrishaStrauss
    @TrishaStrauss 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    good

  • @Earthangel11179
    @Earthangel11179 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Does this help with physical pain pls

  • @ginalouise70
    @ginalouise70 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love your work but sometimes you sound very condescending when you talk. I noticed it a lot in this video.

  • @Infintebeauty3591
    @Infintebeauty3591 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It doesn’t always work

  • @Infintebeauty3591
    @Infintebeauty3591 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if they attacked and became abusive

  • @sherryvollmar8262
    @sherryvollmar8262 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You, you, you.....I find this to be assuming & finger pointing. May want to delete the word you.

  • @ravitachauhan8952
    @ravitachauhan8952 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Aaron....what if you got betrayed by multiple person and multiple times......I trust easily but in return I got betray

    • @Journeywithjazmin
      @Journeywithjazmin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ho’ponopono

    • @jovana-che
      @jovana-che 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      maybe keep trusting and expecting betrayal... maybe don't expect not to be betrayed. You might be trusting, and expecting not to be betrayed. Try opposite. Expect betrayal, and be ready for it, and see what happens. Maybe you find somebody who won't take advantage of your trust, eventually (but it might take a while and some pain and experience).

  • @avikchatterjee1945
    @avikchatterjee1945 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎉❤

  • @AnnamariaMarino-m1y
    @AnnamariaMarino-m1y 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love your videos, warm recommendation for you is to read 'Magnetic Aura' and thank me later

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    mmmakeshance 😅❤

    • @mayhtoo3576
      @mayhtoo3576 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Your friend so happy surprise got your call,..ll give BDPresent JJ today meow!!😮😅❤

  • @beka-lynnshimp8079
    @beka-lynnshimp8079 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No no no your not 😂😂😂

    • @JessieG_1983
      @JessieG_1983 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right 😂 that got me too 😂😂😂

  • @geethamadhuri4.033
    @geethamadhuri4.033 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🥹

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎇👏🎆

  • @MiahJacobs777
    @MiahJacobs777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👀👍

  • @Journeywithjazmin
    @Journeywithjazmin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a park ranger I approve this message. lol jk

  • @oscarmarshallsay560
    @oscarmarshallsay560 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if Aaron you are enlightened and don’t even know it because no enlightened d being says that because they are beyond labels