I am a 26 year old virgin and very satisfied with my life. Jeez I really feel sorry for the people who lost their lives because of this muppet. Dude has a BMW, living in one of the most beautiful places on earth, drinking starbucks and complaining how unfair life has been. Unbelievable man.
Yeah, for real. Dude had it all,, just no personality or moral compass. he just blamed lack of sex for plain sociopathy and evil. He couldn't be evil, there needed to be a reason. And it wasn't his fault. Oh heavens no. Congratulations on making it 26 years 👏. That's impressive!
@@brandonrichuski7759I feel like that's absolutely false since marriage isn't based on the day you get married. It's a dynamic relationship with ups and downs. There's just as many studies as I bet you've looked at that prove that point completely wrong.
Having meaningful human connections is much more valuable than a car. He had a cold upbringing and was SEVERELY autistic. The reason he killed people is because he never felt any human warmth. He keeps saying "these people would never accept me" This dude suffered INTENSELY, and I'd rather loose all my material wealth than having to live life like he had to. I'm also slightly autistic, so I can sympathise with some of his experience. It's cruel. Imagine you couldn't express yourself or connect to people emotionally at all. It's hell. Im thankful for only being slightly autistic and also self aware enough to not be an asshole. This dude was living life with a cruel curse.
You can be a weirdo and still be liked by people. He's not just weird - he's a negative, bitter and entitled narcissist. That kind of attitude is repelling to anyone, male or female. I'm CONVINCED that even if he did have a girlfriend he'd be super jealous & controlling and she would've been in serious trouble if she ever dared to leave him.
@Julio Aragão true, but recently I saw a video of a guy being robbed by a guy with a gun and he knocked the man with the gun out. But that's a huge risk to take I wouldn't risk that.
“All those who had a better life than me” “$300 sunglasses” “Bmw” And he LITERALLY ATTENDED THE HUNGER GAMES PREMIER. His family was EXTREMELY wealthy and powerful.
You know, I was bullied in high school, wasn't popular, especially with girls so much, a bit of a nerd, but what I wasn't was an entitled douchebag, and didn't blame people for not getting what I wanted all the time. Life gets so much better guys. Something to consider.
@c maybe put some energy into bettering your own life instead of commenting dumb comments on TH-cam with a profile pic of this absolute waste of space, if that's your idols yeah life will get worse for you.
@c It can. Sometimes, in what I assume would be quite rare circumstances, it won't get better. But it usually does if you are able to/have the resources to learn and keep trying.
@@JudasBenPesachbundy was just more socially intelligent. If elliot knew how to talk to anyone, he could have been equally dangerous. But then again, if he knew how to talk to anyone, he might have made friends and not been a miserable person. Instead he was so paralyzed by his anxiety that he couldn't even say more than "hi" to a woman. He may think he had a decent childhood, but he actually never learned very important social skills.. it's really a sad case of his parents not equipping him and raising him right, in my humble opinion.
And its scary because when the couple was at the beach just chilling, not knowing that there was a crazy dude behind them in a car talking about how much he hated them. It really makes you wonder about how many people you walk past everyday that is a serial killer or is thinking about killing you or someone else.
He literally could not see just how fortunate and blessed he really was with two loving parents who were able to give him the life they never even had.
I guess you could look at it like that, but I don't see him as fortunate at all. Being lonely and rejected by all your peers is miserable, and parents, nice clothes, and a nice car cannot make up for that kind of social isolation.
@@dorothy6361 EXACTLY. I don’t think that’s what most people understand. I don’t defend his actions but as a young man who literally was rejected by almost everyone I met, I understand his frustration. But I’ve grown to be at peace with myself without the approval of others
Bro be throwing hot coffee on strangers and then proclaims himself a "magnificent gentleman" and we're all just too obnoxious and sinister to see it 🤣 It breaks my brain
I honestly cannot believe he existed because no one talks like he did - his videos seem like they were parodies and over exaggerated. It’s so unbelievable that he actually thought and spoke the way he did; it all seemed like an act. It’s so weird that it would be sad if it didn’t come off as over the top. I thought the videos were a joke until I learned why he did what he did.
I've dug a good bit into this guy's past. He lived in such a weird melodramatic bubble and despite being quite fortunate in life he still felt like everything should be handed to him. Dude thought his looks were the problem when he's not even ugly, he was just immature and had a terrible bitter personality
I totally agree!! It literally sounded like he was reading from a script and (badly) acting or something! So creepy!! It's almost hard to listen to its so cringey!
Yeah honestly. He speaks as though he's thinking about every single world. Like a script, that he repeats to himself, to memorize. Maybe it's his *"I'm the main character"* mentality?
He seemed very poetic. Almost like he was accentuating his truth. It started as a story with truth sprinkled in. Like he was glorifying his story, to give him courage to react. Almost convincing himself of his actions were justifiable
Bro acted like he was in a movie and put on this sophisticated, and intricate character, then committed the heinous acts he did, jus to be put in a video titling him “killer virgin”. Magnificent.
Things to not boost aproval with (sane) white women: Be the shining image of an Incel Look that flamboyent Attempt to force image of welth by buying 300$ sunglasses Kill people
This piece of sh*t shot up my college town during my time at UCSB. My roommate and I were going to stay in town but last minute we decided to go back to the central valley to visit our families. We heard about the shootings via email and texts later. After this event, I was constantly nervous every time I was in an auditorium or in the classroom. I would always keep an eye on the entrance and exits. I felt so bad for the kids who died needlessly that day. They didn't deserve this.
He wasn't even bad-looking, it was his weird personality. The students who knew him personally said he never talked to anyone, whenever someone approached him to be friends with him, he was abrupt-spoken and haughty, yet he constantly wondered how come no one befriended him. What he really complained about was being rejected by the people he considered "worthy" of his companionship, that is by the rich or cool and gorgeous, white blond people. Dude had complexes with dark-skinned guys, the blacks and the asians, partly because he was half-asian himself. Even if he did could've got a girlfriend or a lover, eventually she would've been tired of him and push him away, which couldn't have really marked a difference in his psyche and probably kill her.
I thought this was Michael Jackson 🤣 Dude looks and sounds like Michael Jackson. The difference is that Michael Jackson was successful American singer . Elliot was entitled narcissist with god complex. Elliot didn't approach any women ( he simply didn't have game ) . He also didn't have any ambitions or plans for the future to be successful in career or something.
Yeah, true. We call him "Satan". He just moves from one psycho to the next, and has been around for ages. Nothing new here. The first few things on his manifesto, you just replace his name with Satan, and it all makes so much more sense. Peace!
All those people who idolize Rodger fail to realize that he wouldn’t have liked them back. If you were ugly, he looked down upon you. If you were attractive, he’d hate you.
What this guy never seemed to get was it wasn't his looks or his clothes that the girls didn't like but something unpleasant that shone through in his personality. No matter how much he tried to hide this narcissistic, vengeful side, it was probably easily transparent to everyone who encountered him. Maybe some personality challenges were present from birth, but I believe most of them were things that could have been overcome, except maybe true psychopathy, which is possibly an incurable defect in the way a person processes (or doesnt) empathy. The solution to all his perceived problems were in the one thing he didn't ever seem to consider: the way he interacted with others.
lol right… and the fact that he was someone who ended up killing other people for fun shows anyone who didn’t want to be around him had a good judge of character. and it wasn’t that he decided to do so at the end of his life, as he said himself that “i’ve been wanting to do this for so long now”
There are audiobooks of his manifesto. This essentially happens; his best friends abandon him because they find his views disturbing when he tries to tell them about it. And he cant even be in oublic with them without throwing a tantrum over seeing women and men together.
This is exactly what I came here to say. If he'd just tried treating people around him with respect, they probably would have responded very differently to him.
You know what's crazy is that, if he ever had gotten a girlfriend, you just know he'd have been obsessive and jealous. I honestly believe you could put him in any regular scenario involving loss of a partner or control and end up with him committing a violent crime.
not necessarily, loneliness is a powerful emotion... getting rid of it will, also in turn, have a powerful impact on someone. he couldve changed, especially if he got together with a sweet, smart and empathetic girl.
@John D no, he's an entitled narcissist. Those people are incapable of loving and mutually beneficial relationships without copious amounts of therapy which they'll rarely agree to get
Elliot was not even bad looking, quite good looking; it was definitely 100% his personality and his terrible nascistic outlook on life. Yes rejection is hard but he also isolated himself in self pity and rage, made no effort to self improve and was caught up in his own demons. Whatever he was feeling it was no excuse for his heinous actions. It is extremely unnerving to think that someone is watching you; judging your perceived success with dating and ready to snap because they envy you. In the end he destroyed his life and also the innocent lives of 6 others.
Not hard at all. We should get over our God complex and realize that nobody owes us anything and that we do not need a relationship for a happy, fulfilled life.
@@chrisgomez3472I’ve been rejected multiple times. Guess what, I moved on from it. Nobody owes you shit. You get what you deserve. You simply analyze where you went wrong, make the adjustments, and move on. The moment you turn bitter is when you lose your shit.
I was an early 90’s female BLERD, band geek, went to prom alone and didn’t lose my virginity until I was 23. Also bullied in high school. My parents taught me that not everyone is going to like you and not everyone HAS to like you. Sorry to hear that his therapy sessions weren’t able to stop this horror from happening.
I’m a 30 year old virgin, was the fat girl all through school, was bullied mercilessly, was asked out on dates as bets and jokes by boys I had crushes on (so that’s left me with deep seeded fear and reluctance to socialize) and never once did I think that it was every other girl/woman’s fault that boys/men didn’t like me. I played a part in it, as I got older, and never built up any self esteem, so I’ve spent the majority of my life wishing I knew how to overcome my own insecurities and fears. Even with therapy, it all won’t click for myself. I never ever blamed anyone for not wanting me, not finding me attractive, not wanting to have a relationship, or even sex, because the people I find attractive and wish I had the guts to talk to, don’t owe me a second of their time. I don’t know how it would ever be anyone else’s fault when I didn’t make an effort. He should’ve made an effort instead of buying expensive sunglasses, shoes, pants and dress shirts and thinking women would immediately fall to their knees once he was near them. It truly sounds like he never spoke to any woman outside of his family.
He said he thought a lot about his situation but he never once thought he could be the problem and instead blamed others and became bitter. The world owes you nothing. Not friendship, not the career you want, a relationship.That's up to you. It's a shame he didn't come up with those conclusions.
He was so narcissistic that he couldn't see what was wrong with him on the inside. He never once thought that not all women are shallow. Some women prefer a good personality. Money and looks aren't everything. It was always something else or someone else's fault that he sucked at getting a girlfriend or getting laid. Never looked at his own faults. Dude was insane.
The fact that anyone would consider such a weird, awkward and psychopathic "person" a hero just goes to show that there are many more like him that are yet to be discovered.
Someone who went to school with him said he never approached anyone especially girls. He never made an attempt to hit on girls or socialize. So I guess he just thought girls were supposed to fall at his feet? You have to speak to people, you’re not entitled to anyones attention
Oh god I'm realizing that I've started behaving and thinking like him, although I'm a girl. This video and comment section is a good wake up call. I will stop obsessing over looks and hating boys for never approaching me and will continue to never approach anyone myself until I graduate highschool.
The tragic part is it really doesn't matter how expensive your clothes or the car you drive, this kids personality was the real problem. No matter the amount of therapy, expensive clothes or whatever else, this kid would have had a tragic end no matter what. I feel even if he was able to get a girlfriend his impaired thinking would have him accusing her of God knows what she maybe eventually killing her
@@luvdaviolence but his narcissistic personality is so great I don't think anyone could have stand with him. I could have imagined if he have girlfriend, he will treated her poorly and big probability he will beat or kill her.
@@luziaflone1951 this Is ur negative point, this guy obviusly have some sort of problem, someone should take care of him, It ez to judje without know...
I read his entire manifesto. The most tragic thing about Elliot Rodger is that his problem went beyond misogyny. He just didn't understand how human relationships work. He didn't know how to connect with other people in a genuine and true way. All of his attempts to socialize were artificial. He basically didn't have any interesting internal content to share for any friendship or relationship, and yet he pushed everyone away who tried to get close to him because he thought he was a superior being. His manifesto can be summed up in pages and pages of enormous envy of other people's happiness along with a shocking lack of self-responsibility. He certainly must have suffered from some degree of autism but that was also accompanied by psychopathy or narcissism due to his complete lack of empathy with others. The idea that Rodger had of human bean was something abstract, reductionist and utopic. I'm pretty sure that if for some reason some pretty blonde girl jumped into Rodger's lap with her legs spread, he wouldn't have absolutely ANY IDEA what to do with her.
There have been many people currently and historically that were likely on the autism spectrum (or whatever label it is/was at the time). 99% of the time they're NON-VIOLENT and more likely to self-harm.
I'm 32 y.o (33 in July 28th). I can't lie I have an awful social life. Hated by my "dad", bullied until I was 21. Virgin, never had a girlfriend and I've no friends. Despite all that, I never thought about harming others let alone killing them.
I'm similar. Outcast all my life, hardly any friends, bullied for years, developed severe social anxiety, became increasingly clinically depressed, been through more than a dozen therapists, and much more than a dozen different medications. I have never been attracted to women *or* men, and that still holds true now, at 25. No girlfriends, no sex, no attraction or sexual desires...and yet, harming another person never crosses my mind. I don't even consider it, really. I'm glad that - for as fucked up I am - I would never hurt anyone, even at my worst, haha. Mine own self? Different story, lol
This feels like a flashback. I remember watching these videos as they came out. Everybody made fun of him for how cringy he was and none of us seriously believed he would follow through on his last threat. Until he did. And the fact that he _"inspires"_ incel culture _to this day_ is unbelievable to me.
Yep I remember when YT deleted his channel and there was a few mini riot threads on 4chan over it, they really worship him and this guy just paved a whole new road for generations of incels to come
It’s interesting how he created such a vicious cycle. He was rejected because he was extremely awkward, weird and cringy and for appearing so thirsty which made him become even more weird and desperate thus provoking even more rejection. It’s scary that such a bizarre character was among normal people and was able to do what he did.
@@EthanJames-vz1qd He was a monster. I consider myself a humanist and I'm emphatic but the moment he decided to kill people that never hurt or even offended him I cannot feel any sympathy for him. He created all of his problems, he actually had a privileged life.
@@EthanJames-vz1qd a self entitled monster is what he was he deserves no sympathy his childhood was filled with two loving parents and as someone who actually had a traumatic childhood his manifesto makes me extremely angry to see how ungrateful he was
@@EthanJames-vz1qdhe was cringy, pathetic and extremely mean and evil. That's the truth. He chose to KILL innocent people because he wanted to fuck, just to feel like he's cool. He was a danger to society at large
He was driving around in a high end car and had the audacity to say that his life was unfair. Little did he know that the culprit to all of his problems was his personality, not his looks. He could have gotten plenty of women with that kind of car, but his personality ran them all off.
He was so full of himself and thought the world owed him everything instead of just putting in the effort to make it happen. He seems in love with himself the way he talks about himself it’s clear narcissism
I've literally only met one guy as narcissistic as Elliot Rodger, but that guy was actually convincing and not awkward like Elliot. Awkward narcissism is a deadly combo
Might wanna check your book. Elliot isnt a narcissist. A narcissist wouldnt have killed himself, he would have glared in the infamity of his acts. Narcissists are cowards and they could never take their own life. You pseudo Psychologists always forget about that little detail.
So is confident narccism. Both are equally in their own way. Some are just way worse then others. We all display bits of it. Some are just incredibly severe like this.
This guy wasn't bad looking at all, it's his sense of entitlement and his narcissistic ways that would have put women off. He expected too much. Thanks for another superb upload Raven. *You're the best!*
I read his manifesto. The guy never even attempted to talk to any girl ever. He fully expected to be approached by a girl while just sitting in an area where they were and when no one would talk to him he’d go home pissed lol
@@bookwrmxoxo5105 And he also had a tendency to throw temper tantrums and get psychopathically violent the moment things didn't go his way, even before his killing spree.
@@andrewwolf4309 Actually you have to work on it too.. meaning you have to work on yourself to have more to offer and just get yourself out there to meet people. Not just girls to, but a network of friends. You can't just wait for things to happen. Sometimes you may get lucky meeting a girl by doing nothing, but that doesn't happen all the time. Go to places where people hang, and no not the the bars or clubs, but dog park, church, concerts, conventions, etc.
Here’s the thing, I guarantee you there were girls that had a crush on him and could have possibly even approached him. I would’ve been one of those girls if I had gone to school with him, he’s not bad looking. However, these girls probably didn’t have the looks he may have felt were good enough for him so they don’t count at all. I’ve unfortunately met a few of these type of guys (and girls) that say the opposite sex has never been attracted to them when in fact what they mean is that the type of people they want, the model looking types, are not attracted to them. Even if he had gotten a girlfriend or multiple girlfriends, he still would’ve done what he did because there was always gonna be a girl rejecting him. No one would’ve been good enough for him. He was an egomaniac and a psychopath.
I am from Germany and the whole Incel thing and ER is bit far from me. But as I understood, he was jealous about other man having success with girls. It must be his personality because, from I can e press as a straight man, he seems to be good looking and seemingly not weird, as long he doesn’t talk about his silly theories. There are many other man who would love too have his look and appearance, so it makes me really wonder, how he could end up, to get mental and brutal due to non success with woman or girlfriends.
Let alone how he would of reacted to a break up. Oh lordy. I'm not a crazy person, but I've been through break ups that's torn me apart. I couldn't imagine how someone this unstable would act. Things could've possibly been worse.
this is a very interesting take on his case. makes you think more positively. just talk to people and you might find out you aren't as hated as you think you are.
In short , Elliot was the case of spoiled , narcissistic man who consumed "toxic masculinity" and hated women and decided to go on shooting spree to prove his point . I kinda wish Elliot knew his legacy , that he has become an hero for basement dwelling l o s e r s who think women rejected him becouse of looks and made him out the biggest victim than he ever was.
In short , Elliot was the case of spoiled , narcissistic man who consumed "toxic masculinity" and hated women and decided to go on shooting spree to prove his point . I kinda wish Elliot knew his legacy , that he has become an hero for basement dwelling losers who think women rejected him becouse of looks and made him out the biggest victim than he ever was.
@@KLl-kx2tb the quiet, introverted men always end up having a lot of violence within them, especially the ones with the glasses, hoodie, cargo pants combo. I make it a point to stay away from them, and alert security if I catch them staring at me. Stay safe ❤
Elliot Rodger had absolutely everything, and he still couldn't realize that the reason people didn't like him was because he had a trash personality. And because of this, so many people died. I've seen his case covered so many times by so many people, and they always leave me feeling sad, angry, hurt, and heartbroken.
His thoughts are so dangerous and underpin some mens' thinking that women 'owe' something to men. He needed to look inside at his grandiose, jerk personality and not outward at other's value system. An Elliott-type: asks you out, you're not interested and say no, you get called a b*tch and sl*t for declining their sexual advances. Make that make sense.
@@beasmith3386 Something went wrong in the way he was raised. Something that seems to be going wrong in more and more young men's lives. Partly due to his dopaminergic reward system being inextricably tied to screens, making self improvement a struggle? Creation of our sick culture? Problem with modern parenting? Mental illness caused by social media? Our increasing insistence on putting kids on psychotropic drugs to treat the problems caused by the aforementioned issues?
The guy was narcissistic and entitled beyond belief. And obviously had psychological issues his family(especially his father) should have helped him out with earlier. But I think people are a bit quick to judge when they talk about the wealth he came from. Sex and socializing are both primal needs. Materialistic things don't trump those things.
What an incredible case study into the mind of a young mass murderer. There are many serial killers and mass murderers that probably followed the same inner monologue as Elliot’s Vlogs
Imagine being such a narcissist that you actually believe couples are tracking you down at a park and sitting at a bench 100 yards away from you just to make you jealous.
Dude wasn't ugly by any means (no homo). If girls wouldn't be so stingy with the 🐱 this man's life would've turned out far differently. Women should've been throwing the 🐱 at him. Stop being so stingy with the 🐱 ladies. It's not gold or a prize to be won. Girl's should be trying to please as many men in this world as possible. There would be a lot more happier men out there if girls would give it up. Surely there'd be a lot less killings. A man that's getting laid is a happy man.
@@brandonsavitski yes blame on women instead of a clearly narcissistic psychotic man. In his manifesto he is clearly very entitled and thinks the world revolves around him. He did this to HIMSELF. He shows resentment and hate towards his friends.
Guy had a supporting family who literally gave him a monthly allowance that allowed him to live in an apartment, drove a BMW, had a well connected father, above average looking, young and lived in a nice area and that’s what he did with his privalges smh, some people truly can’t be saved
Supporting family? His dad was a piece of shit who talked down to him all the time and was never there because he was always busy at work. He never talked to Elliot, just threw money at him
@@Robin-hv5tvshocking enough, there are more people out there who have parents who talk down to them and not throw money at them. This guy had things really good. He needed a therapist to help him deal with his emotions and connect with others
@@rugbyboy9964 Whats your point? Are you saying because majority of the world are poor, they appreciate money thrown at them before love from parents? Maybe in the USA
Thats the case with alot of fathers who are a sole provider to the family, mine is the exact same except like most people I dont get money thrown at me as my father is not rich and I wouldnt accept it anyway @@Robin-hv5tv
Elliot: “why don’t women like me? I’m amazing and handsome and a gentleman.” Also Elliot: “LOVE ME OR ILL KILL YOU SLUTS.” Wonder why things never worked out for him.
@@muse8n It is weird though. Why would you frequently antagonize girls to get with them? You can just be yourself and talk about the regular things in life. If someone likes you, good, if they don't, you can just have other aspects of your life in order to wait for a potential partner if you truly like companionship that much. Though I may be biased since I have a stable relationship, but I have also witnessed being single. It never seemed like a situation born out of desperation, but rather due to personal choice since I wanted no responsibilities or distractions back then. It is sad to see people focusing so much about these things in life. Even if I am in a relationship right now, I focus a damn lot on my professional side of life as well. I believe that what is creating people like these is not simply a lack of empathy and isolation but primarily a lack of purpose.
Product of the youth of today. My nephew is like this...no not as severe, but he sees himself as a victim to everything and everyone he has connected with...or lack there of. He was deceptive, a liar, and vindictive from a young age. If he feels someone has done him wrong, like asking him to do his homework, catching him in a lie, or trying to point out his attitude. As a teen I never saw him with any friends, no sleepovers, movies, sports, etc. When he turned 18 my mother (his grandmother who helped raise him) tri3d to continue helping him get by. He was lazy, never did anything for himself...still doesn't. Today he believes he knows more than anyone...because he can google something. I won't share why I no longer consider him family. I'll just say he's trash. I pray he doesn't become like this young man
I was a socially awkward kid in high school and most of the girls ignored me, even though I was decent looking and a nice guy. Eventually I read some books on correcting my social issues, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Shame on that therapist for not encouraging the kid improve himself in any meaningful capacity.
I went to many different schools and been popular and also disliked after I befriended someone who was ignored but actually turned out to be a very cool person and my best friend. I never figured out any rational reason why the other kids were ostracizing him other than to say they are bad. Turns out my friend was pretty smart as well as am I. I read a ton of books in highschool including several from Orwell, to kill a mockingbird etc... And I discovered that I was very unique and the only one doing that and I was hated for being good by many. This showed me how fake and shallow many people are.
@@cesartorres2495 I read a few of david deangelo's books. I remember he covered lots of social topics, but Elliot Rodger resembles the book's archetype of how not to think. I read that 20 years ago, but the main concepts are still true today.
Yeah incels all go on rants about how their appearance is what turns off women, but most people considered ugly or unconventionally attractive have perfectly normal love lives without issue. And like you said even people who are atractive can struggle with dating. Their own strict standards, unrealistic expectations, and horrible personalities are what drives away potentiall romantic partners. It has nothing to do with appearence. When women say its all about personality and not purely physical looks, they mean it. I mean it. There have been multiple instances where i wasnt attracted to a person at all until i got to know them better and liked who they were as a person. There was also a time when i went on a couple dates with an incel who i started to find unattractive after getting to know who he really was. No woman wants to be with a man who speaks about them with so much disdain because he didnt get his way.
Nah this kid was a spoiled rich kid who thought everything should be handed to him with no effort put forth. Not once in this video did they mention he was a directors kid, had dual citizenship in Morocco, went there for vacations, moved there. Called his Mom and had her bring him back.
having meaningful human connections are more valuable than any of this bs you listed. Feels like people here not understanding this literally prove his point lmao
@@FloppaTheBasedbut he had many chances for connections but never acted on it. he expected people to come up to him and initiate friendships or relationships, he was a pathetic fuckin person but that doesn't mean he couldn't have changed dude just decided to cemented the facts that he was a worthless pathetic waste of breath.
To add to this....he wasn't taught that having everything doesn't mean you have everything, so to speak. He wasn't taught that material possessions don't mean a hell of a lot other than having a bunch of people around who don't like you for YOU.
Imagine being so pathetic and narcissistic you can't get a girlfriend despite being super rich, while I'm sitting here broke as hell, less attractive than him and I've had a few girlfriends like most normal people, his problem was that he hated women, how could he not see women didn't want him because he hated them?
One thing I've learned growing up is that there's a friend group for literally everyone. This kid just couldn't stop feeling sorry for himself and as much as he went out, I'm surprised he wasn't able to make a single friend. But at the end of the day he alienated himself and made himself believe some crazy shit.
All he had to do was have the balls to ask a woman out and we all hate being rejected. it's just that he didn't handle it well. They were point I could have been this kid but thank God I'm not.
Probably no worse than killing multiple people like he did 😂 you’d rather he do that than take out a single person aka his hypothetical girlfriend? Weird 😅
@@Skateandcreate9So u think is better to kill one person than killing 5 or 100? Wait for someone to ki|| a person u love and see If Just a life is not as important as a lot of lifes.
He has the most entitled attitude and he is driven by his crazy victim mentality. If he had ever gotten a girlfriend, he would've been so toxic, sensitive, controlling, accusing her of anything/everything and mist definitely just abusive overall in so many more ways.
I'm 24 and still a virgin, was at best a 5 before my 20's when I starter taking care of myself, I also never chased love until my 18 and believed that I never needed love in my life. Things have changed insanely after my 20's, I look back at my old self and see how lonely and unproductive I was, without a dream, or perspective of what to do with my own life. He was so busy thinking that he needed someone to fullfill his emptyness that he never realized that he was the one that had to change, and no doubt he had some mental disorder, his way of speech is super weird and that villain laugh?? He had killed his own soul long long ago
please never feel like you're less of a person because you're not sexually active, so many men are faced with the stigma that they're losers if they haven't had sex before. go at your own pace. do what you're comfortable with. if you love someone, and want to have sex with them, then you should. if you meet someone and have a one night stand, so be it. it doesn't matter where or how you lose it, or if you do at all. what matters is that both parties are comfortable and have a good time. good luck to you, sending love
From my perspective, I see that Elliot was lonely and no one cared for him, so he contained a lot of loneliness inside him, but what he did to innocent people was a big mistake. Having a girlfriend or lover is not the end of the world. He had better options to release this anger towards the world in an act that would not harm anyone.
there are a lot of other factors as well. no sense of permanence and consistency (parents' divorce, his numerous school and uni transfers, etc.), and possibly poor upbringing. I am Malaysian like his mum, and I know people like her who worship whites even if it means the relationship is meaningless. see how fast the dad got a girlfriend after the divorce? red flags don't just come out of nowhere but she didn't care, because ✨white✨. a lot of the half whites I know in Malaysia end up with over inflated egos because their Asian parent blows smoke up their @ss. the half white kid is not a family member; they're a trophy. Elliot was raised to think of himself as a trophy, and it shows. White worship in Malaysia is horrible.
Is he re- emerging in YT? This was ages ago but I see him now back in YT videos , also if he wasn’t a virgin I still think he would of done the same evil deed or worse
Elliot was cocky and self-centered. Nothing at the time of this crime said anything about him being on the spectrum. He was just an entitled, spoiled POS.
Why are All murderers always considered to have some type of mental issue,This dude was so conceited & he had Envy,jealousy etc over others , i don’t believe he was a basket case,He just wanted Revenge & he did achieve it , It’s sad as the ppl he killed did not deserve it.
Most likely since he was a spoiled kid this was what indirectly pushed him a bit because he was spoiled he expects everything. Maybe he was even bored to the point where his mind made up a fake reality
@peachxii2079 Very interesting comment, i agree with you ^^. Life can be harsh for some people, being bullied at school, not having attention and affection from people, being rejected so many times, being a ghost for people, terrific childhood trauma, divorced parents, addictions such drugs and mental illness, unemployment are factors that can leads individuals to do the worst
@peachxii2079 Exactly dear person, by the way this will probably sounds ridiculous but I've to tell you that : know that you are important, you are needed, loved, unique, necessary for society, you are beautiful oh yes you are, your voice matter, your opinions matter whatever if you are pro or anti atheist agnostics or believers, whatever if you are from thinking of the left wring or right wring. I appreciate your words and your person. Even if I don't see you I can feel the energy through the screen and the words. Blessing for you, greeting From France ^^ Lilianna.
@@peachxii2079he had mental issues,kids were bullying him for being short and tiny,and when he talked to a girl she didn’t responded back as an result for him to cry for 1 hour,i also heard his father didn’t cared about him
@@ricardoderas4906 I mean that was my point. (I know reading comprehension is hard) If he wasn’t crazy, I bet he could get girls. He was not bad looking at all, if you forget that he was a psycho.
if anyone was curious, he appears to have a personality construct called vulnerable narcissism: - sense of entitlement - condescending - introversion - lacking empathy - extreme feelings of resentment - social anxiety/ avoidant behavior
The maddest thing is he isn’t even BAD looking. He just needed to stop being so obsessed, get some help and concentrate on himself till the right one comes along. Madness😅
He went for help. He wasn’t socially supported by the extremely well paid psychiatrists. ASD requires education in social skills - clearly, he had none.
@@Alwaysprogressing That or actually institutionalized, or sought out-patient therapy... gotten help, self-improvement, medication, fixed his own flaws...with the help of professionals.
He probably would have been ok if he had an older brother or a friend to say, "Dude, it's not your looks or what you wear, it's because you're a creep and you care about your love life way too much. Ignore the girls and do your own thing. Live for yourself, improve your own life, and a girl will come." Sometimes you just need to tell someone to get their shit together and stop blaming other people for their problems. Better than murder, anyway.
But he had everything bro, I am sorry nobody can't use that get your shit excuse for him because he had it all. Elliot's father is the executive producer of "Hunger Games". I will agree with having a big brother (like a Andrew Tate) type to teach him about the game.
I have literally been alone most of my life, and females never really showed much of an interest in me, or if they did I just didn't know how to recognize it socially and act on it, I did some super cringy things, getting friend zoned, awkward moments from misreading social scenarios, and was terrified of rejection to where I didn't even speak to women anymore.... then the love of my life entered my world and everything changed. My advice is just do you. Forget about romance it will come as you grow confidence in yourself and focus on your passions and hobbies. Romance is not necessary to enjoy your life, but when it happens, embrace it as hard as you can. And if it doesn't fall in love with yourself like I did. I don't think I could ever understand hurting other people for things that are out of your control.
I've read a bit of his manifesto, and I think it's clear that his real problem with women was that he was afraid of them. He literally never spoke to a woman or girl in his entire life in a flirty way, or even approached a woman or girl to talk, even platonically. He thought that they should be the ones to sweep him off his feet. It's bizarre. If you want a girlfriend, it'd help if you talked to girls first. They won't just magic themselves into your life. He talks about rejection, but he wasn't rejected. He never got that far.
This is so true, yes it can happen the other way around but say YOU want something, you should try to make it happen. Not get mad cuz random people dont want you
Yeah he didn't understand what to do and no one explained it to him in a way he could understand, as a NT i am sure it looks odd to you, but being on the spectrum as well; he needed someone to explain how to interact with other people to him. That sounds really strange, but even to this day in my 30's as a rather smart person i have to ask friends about social interactions as there are times i just don't understand what has happened.
It sounds like he was gay and didn't want to admit it. So sad. If he only admitted and came to terms with who he really was, he would've been so much happier.
@@chasitibrooks7295I don't think so. He had straight porn on his computers when he was caught, which makes it fairly unlikely that he was gay. I think he was autistic and unable to understand how people work. He had no insight into why women wouldn't talk to him, even though he never tried to have a conversation at all. He thought that that was rejection, when really they couldn't have rejected him since he never approached them in the first place. The whole case is very sad, but I don't think that being closeted was part of it.
@@DarkLordFaust666 I would guess his parents took great care with teaching him cleanliness/presentation, which is basic but he took to the nth degree. As for actually finding your social niche, that has to come from within. This guy was as shallow as you get, and clearly had something missing in his head. Regarding yourself, you have faith and respect for your friends which makes a whole world of difference.
Imagine being a woman and having to deal with somebody with that type of personality. This guy was the character of Randy Orten times 10. Any girl that dated him and broke up with him would have been dead because his personality would not except that.
Literary no criminal case was as hard to watch as that one was, not because it's the most brutal case there is, but because of how insufferable and cringe this guy is
its crazy too because he wasn't bad looking and was rich as well, he was just a spoiled narcissistic brat and you can get all of that from his little villain monologue. I think the scariest part about this is that people like him exist and live among us
Whenever you listen to these true crime videos and hear the ages of victims younger than you it just makes you think “damn they were younger than me” and it hits you different because your still alive and in a way, it makes you appreciate the fact your still here more RIP to all of the victims, they were far too young to go 🙏🏻
I had a very close friend who was suffering from the same things as this dude. He was very sweet and kind but he did not like women and he felt they were all mean to reject him for it. I tried talking to him about this so many times. Eventually he offed himself. Men’s mental health is no joke.
I know a guy just like this. Nothing is ever his fault. It’s always the girls fault for not talking to him without realizing how cringy, narcissistic, and demeaning he is. Update on this guy: I was just talking to him and he said ge got banned for his gym for 4 months. Wouldn’t say why only said that someone reported him, but he did say the manager was a puppet that only believes women and that women are just pieces of shit. I wonder what he did.
Bad boys always win Elliott Welcome to the Real World bad boys always win bad boys always get the girls thugs always get the girls I stopped complaining about it and I just go to Japan found myself a beautiful Japanese girl instead of dating my own kind black women I just dated Asian women I can get laid faster with Asian women than with black women
That's true, all narcissists are like 3 or 4 year old Sissy's, that are emotionally immature ,it's even true that at age 60 a narcissist is like a 5 year old trapped in a 60 year olds body.🤔😇
Actually he was pointing out he was being stalked. And it was actually ironic, because he was video taping himself, then suddenly another couple came up and hold hands and kiss. Trust me once you notice that, it's a strange phenomenon. It's similar to how (at least to some peopel) they break up and suddenly they see more couples in the street.
Due to the unstable environment of constant moving and the divorce of his parents in combination with obvious emotional neglect that this young man has experienced, his fantasy world has gone completely out of control and he himself has become unstable. Many people won't want to hear it, but when you decide to have a child, make sure you are able to be there for him/her (emotionally!). To me this is an obvious result of cause and effect. Emotional neglect is one of the worst forms of abuse because it is only visible to the trained eye and is not recognized. When you see how Elliot has clearly taken on a role and no longer comes to terms with the vulnerable feelings of sadness and powerlessness, it means to me that he had nowhere to go with these feelings and has started to overcompensate, resulting in a display of power and anger. This boy feels completely unsafe, he also chases people away because it is deeply ingrained in him to be unwanted. He feels like a bad guy and portrays this. I saw a video of his father and his girlfriend on the red carpet at some gala and Elliot walked behind them like he wasn't part of the group, scandalous! I have seen 0 love in interviews with his father towards Elliot and supposedly he was raised lovingly by some media claiming. Very sad to see, and another reason for me not to just bring a child into the world if I am not sure I can give it all the care and love within myself. For people who say yes, but I have also been bullied and my parents are also divorced, we have to stop comparing situations and people because no one life/experience/circumstance is exactly the same and lucky for you that you did not start fantasizing in this direction and you didn't get the space for that either. I think we should all think more carefully about how these kinds of out-of-control situations come about and try to prevent them.
Coming from somebody who has Asperger’s syndrome I had it rough when I was in school but I never let it get to me like Elliot did. It’s truly sad to see when people act that way. He should’ve talked it out with someone, anyone. I know that’s helped me so much in the past.
Ask yourself why this stuff doesn't happen in other countries. All countries have asperger people, but only in the US there's that degree of mass bullying that end up in school catastrophe
Elliot: look at me, beautiful, magnificent gentleman. Also Elliot: "Look at that group of sluts" He wasn't horrible looking, he was just an entitled, spoiled, man-child. Had he actually taken the time to approach women, maybe he would have found out that women weren't these horrible beings.
@c it's all about how you approach us. Of course If you act like a creep, and start to get aggressive just because you think we don't find you attractive, you're not going to get very far. We are not these difficult species, we all want love, And acceptance. There's 8 billion people on this earth, and you mean to tell me not a single one would have dated him? He just didn't want to try, he was lazy, he wanted women to flock to him without lifting a finger.
If he approached them with this same attitude, they would shun him. Also, I'm sure that "girls" who were less than what he thought he deserved probably did pay attention to him but he thought they weren't good enough.
Well the time we life in is really not that easy as you say "Only approach a women". That migt be considered a meeto incident latter on. But I agree definitely on every thing else you have written. The probably is for both genders that we life in a time where theres too much options and alot of people are like "oh maybe a better partner is available" like with tinder. Not saying does apps and so cause killing spread. But its just not like medievals were a woman encountered exactly 3 man in the whole life span. So actually only thing to blame might be progress but no woman and no man.
He had a shit personality, what he needed to do was some serious reflecting. People don’t just give you attention if they don’t know you, and he didn’t even know people but was calling them sluts.
Could have worked on himself maybe brushed his teeth washed his face or taken a shower once a day Could have made friends or girlfriend Instead he worked on being cringe
Here’s the beauty with this. This young man would never had been happy even with a girlfriend, in fact, he would probably have ruined another person’s life if he had been in a relationship. I’ve never seen anyone so far gone that this was inevitable. BTW I love these videos. So well built and informative. Thank you
This video is actually inspiring!!!! See, I suffer from feeling unattractive physically, but this video shows that character is WAAAAAY more important!!
@@KatK2 See, I've been feeling EXTREMELY unattractive because I gained weight due to medication. So, I'm not saying HE is inspiring, I'm saying that watching the video itself, for me, showed me clearly that looks are so much less important than character. That is what I found inspiring. Of course not his behavior.
I watched another channel cover this guy. He was so out of touch with reality that he blamed the world for his own shortcomings and then tried to get retribution on “the world” - which ironically consisted of complete strangers who didn’t even know he existed.
Also their guts were probably screaming at them that he was a massive danger and they needed to stay away. Intuition is a strong ally in cases like these.
@@Mollypop713 oh yes it's true you need to be considerate of your fellow humans. Girls of this our generation has a different understanding of dating. It's totally different from how our parents enjoyed it. Girls nowadays looks for a guy who is cool but not a pushover. Because she wants to be protected. Our mothers use to look at how handsome the men were. It's different now. You have to work on your conversational skills, confident without been creepy. Lovely and gentle without been a slow retarded man. It calls for a delicate handling of yourself at any point in time it's called for. He only concluded afta a couple of failures that, that's it! They don't love me, I will never get someone to have sex with, I will never be accepted. That's where I think the psychosis thing comes in because anyone with a sound mind will keep trying and maybe reduce the level of class he chooses to go for and see, because girls want a man who is more powerful than they are. Inorder to be safe
That’s just pure evil. I’m almost 40 and haven’t had much luck with attracting women. I barely have any friends. But I would never consider hurting others. You just have to find peace within and learn not to dwell over things you can’t control.
@skull I'm not projecting anything on you, I was just pointing that you blame someone else for coping (which is a good thing, by the way, although you make it seem like something bad) while you cope with your struggles yourself. Not like it's something bad to cope as I said, it helps us live through the world of pain, but you try to act tough and point to your behaviour in others which is projecting. Confident people that love themselves and happy don't make such comments as yours. They just don't waste their time being toxic on internet because they aren't. What would you say now, buddy?
For any young guys out there feeling like he did, here’s some advice: 1. Be kind and loving. Don’t try to toughen up and compete with other guys. Instead, be affectionate with family and friends. Be gentle and sweet. 2. Work on your own confidence. Insecurities and rejection suck, and the only person who can heal them is you. 3. Develop your own style. Wear what you like. Don’t dress for anyone else. 4. Find hobbies and creative outlets. Self expression is crucial for confidence, peace, and growth. It will be ok. Fill your life with love instead of spite and vengeance. I promise you it will get better.
1. Short, avg looking guys who are kind hearted get friend zoned. 2. Short, avg looking guys who are confident are Labelled narcissistic, having napoleon complex by modern females. 3. Though it seems a good advice, but it boils down to looks and height. Bro stop giving these NPC type advices
@@tusharkumar2907 It really doesn't, bud. Blaming being single on your height is a great way to avoid taking responsibility for the fact that you have a horrible personality/no social skills. And if you're not conventionally attractive stop expecting girls way out of your league to be into you, even Elliot who had zero options didn't feel like settling for an average girl, he was only interested in those from the "hottest sorority". And the fact that he was rich and attractive really proves that it had everything to do with him being creepy. Data from 2019 shows that 80% of americans will be married at least once by the age of 60.. hmm I wonder if 80% of people are rich, tall and attractive
@@kira33533 personality and social skills means nothing in dating world. Its all tall height and good looks. Even chads with antisocial behaviour get laid. 80% will get married eventually. Its bcoz most females in their prime get railed by tall, good looking men. When they hit wall, they settle down for kind hearted men. If ugly females are getting tall, good looking man then why avg looking men shouldnt get good looking female.
I think many people who struggle with social and behavioral disabilities are seen as narcissistic but i can tell by the way he talks he lacks developmental skills and is not even aware of it. He doesnt understand why people see him as different.
@@SkibidiToiletIslnherentlyAryanmen are single because of their behaviour. u kill rape and hatecrime. men that dont commit crimes still lack empathy on a concerning scale like u who thinks that the reason he killed is because of women only dating men over 6foot which is statistically false so dont know what ure really lying for it almost sounds like ure excusing his behaviour. very disturbing. rip to all the victims of male entitlement (the reason why he killed btw if it wasnt OBVIOUS)
Or any of the pedestrians he filmed, so creepy to know anyone can film you at any time without your knowledge and just say whatever they want about you
When he said "I am the true alpha male" my Andrew Tate alarm went off and my eyes rolled so far back into my skull they're currently on a mission to Mars
this kid fell into the same trap ive seen a lot of young men fall into. they're waiting for their life to change or something to happen, anything to happen. i myself was like this at one point. it took a bit of work on myself to realize that absolutely nothing will chnage unless you change it yourself. get mad, get determined, and get up and change something, change anything
Saying the world is cruel while being an entitled, spoiled, (physically) healthy, objectively attractive, individual raised in the US is just beyond my comprehension.
@@everilliem3292 wrong, there are people who are objectively attractive, and there are people who are objectively unattractive, for example a person who has wide set eyes with a receding jaw and hairline is already unattractive, while a person who has good facial proportions is attractive, subjectivity in attractivness only comes in when 2 people with similar attractivness is paired up, for example any reasonable human with a brain will know that someone like Brad Pitt when he was young was attractive, compared to someone like a Beetlejuice he is unattractive, but when you compare Brad Pitt and Matt Bomer to see who is more attractive there are mixed opinions because they both are attractive but it's minute physical traits on their face and coloring would make some people choose Matt or some people choose Brad
I am a 26 year old virgin and very satisfied with my life. Jeez I really feel sorry for the people who lost their lives because of this muppet. Dude has a BMW, living in one of the most beautiful places on earth, drinking starbucks and complaining how unfair life has been. Unbelievable man.
God has a plan for you and studies are just now coming out that those that wait till after marriage have the happiest marriages.
Yeah, for real. Dude had it all,, just no personality or moral compass. he just blamed lack of sex for plain sociopathy and evil. He couldn't be evil, there needed to be a reason. And it wasn't his fault. Oh heavens no.
Congratulations on making it 26 years 👏. That's impressive!
Muppet 😂
@@brandonrichuski7759I feel like that's absolutely false since marriage isn't based on the day you get married. It's a dynamic relationship with ups and downs. There's just as many studies as I bet you've looked at that prove that point completely wrong.
Having meaningful human connections is much more valuable than a car.
He had a cold upbringing and was SEVERELY autistic.
The reason he killed people is because he never felt any human warmth. He keeps saying "these people would never accept me"
This dude suffered INTENSELY, and I'd rather loose all my material wealth than having to live life like he had to.
I'm also slightly autistic, so I can sympathise with some of his experience. It's cruel. Imagine you couldn't express yourself or connect to people emotionally at all. It's hell. Im thankful for only being slightly autistic and also self aware enough to not be an asshole.
This dude was living life with a cruel curse.
You can be a weirdo and still be liked by people. He's not just weird - he's a negative, bitter and entitled narcissist. That kind of attitude is repelling to anyone, male or female.
I'm CONVINCED that even if he did have a girlfriend he'd be super jealous & controlling and she would've been in serious trouble if she ever dared to leave him.
@@draketheblackpillerrobinso3334 troll
@@mondo5412 twat ☝️
@@draketheblackpillerrobinso3334 or you will make a bigger fool of yourself...fool
@@sakabula2357 in what way by telling the truth. I know telling the truth to you blue pillers are like second nature. But, the truth is the truth baby
@@draketheblackpillerrobinso3334 Are you done whining?
It’s extremely creepy to think someone like this could be looking at you, judging you and ready to snap because they think they envy you.
Thats why i started training MMA
@@marcelk3847 that's good but these days no one fights anymore they use guns and instead of blaming the person they blame the gun.
@@marcelk3847 oooooo scary
@Julio Aragão Só fala merda o maluco.
@Julio Aragão true, but recently I saw a video of a guy being robbed by a guy with a gun and he knocked the man with the gun out. But that's a huge risk to take I wouldn't risk that.
“All those who had a better life than me”
“$300 sunglasses”
“Bmw”
And he LITERALLY ATTENDED THE HUNGER GAMES PREMIER. His family was EXTREMELY wealthy and powerful.
Money is not everything that is a thing you should learn about life
comes to show money does not buy happiness.
@@alexotega8545yeah I agree, but between crying in BMW and crying on bicycle, I prefer the former
Moneh cant buy love from a hot girl
@@lowspender147 right but moneys still not everything like people make it seem to be.
You know, I was bullied in high school, wasn't popular, especially with girls so much, a bit of a nerd, but what I wasn't was an entitled douchebag, and didn't blame people for not getting what I wanted all the time. Life gets so much better guys. Something to consider.
Gay
@@truartist5379 incel
@@truartist5379 I'm not gay, but $20 is $20.
@c maybe put some energy into bettering your own life instead of commenting dumb comments on TH-cam with a profile pic of this absolute waste of space, if that's your idols yeah life will get worse for you.
@c
It can. Sometimes, in what I assume would be quite rare circumstances, it won't get better. But it usually does if you are able to/have the resources to learn and keep trying.
Imagine thinking youre a god and later being known as "The Killer Virgin"
Lmao fr
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Nigga thought he was aizen
Hey good news! He’s no longer a virgin. Satan is ramming him right now ha
@@dotslashsatan hahaha hell yeah what'd he think was gonna happen.
Man speaks like he's an anime villian and wondered why no one liked him. The vibes were atrocious.
He...got an allowance lol. Make your kids work for money people.
43:12 Art of seduction ? reading some weird sexual or erotic books didn't help this guy. He was not in reality.
He seems gay to me and that's probably the reason why girls were never attracted to him he just gives off that gay vibe 😱
@@andreweagland4702you have a crush on this very straight man and that is not his fault.
i was thinking the same thing! he was trying to intimate light yagami the way he was using his words
The personality of this young man is what kept him alone.
Facts.
This is a shining example of just HOW dangerous insecurity and victim complexes can be.... 😬
@@JasonH-fn6mt Only problem was allot women loved Ted Bundy.
@@JudasBenPesachbundy was just more socially intelligent. If elliot knew how to talk to anyone, he could have been equally dangerous. But then again, if he knew how to talk to anyone, he might have made friends and not been a miserable person. Instead he was so paralyzed by his anxiety that he couldn't even say more than "hi" to a woman. He may think he had a decent childhood, but he actually never learned very important social skills.. it's really a sad case of his parents not equipping him and raising him right, in my humble opinion.
Elliot Rodger was basically a dumber Ted Bundy and without social skills
It’s a shining example of how dangerous loneliness can be.
@@Lowclasswarrior778he wasn't lonely. He had friends but he chose to push them away from him
And its scary because when the couple was at the beach just chilling, not knowing that there was a crazy dude behind them in a car talking about how much he hated them. It really makes you wonder about how many people you walk past everyday that is a serial killer or is thinking about killing you or someone else.
Yeah,This Guy Gets Mad When He Sees 2 People In Love Hanging Out Together. 😂
That is seriously such a horrifying thought.
He wasn’t a serial killer. I do get a lot of bitches hating on me tho.
@@ET-xj3qq he killed multiple people. he’s a serial killer.
come to everett washington and you will hear people say that shit out loud all the time.
He literally could not see just how fortunate and blessed he really was with two loving parents who were able to give him the life they never even had.
I guess you could look at it like that, but I don't see him as fortunate at all. Being lonely and rejected by all your peers is miserable, and parents, nice clothes, and a nice car cannot make up for that kind of social isolation.
@@dorothy6361 absolutely. his life was very sad and unfortunate. still, there is no excuse for what he did of course
His parents were a giant part of the problem. You can give a child every materialistic thing money can buy, but if you dont give them love..
@@dorothy6361 EXACTLY. I don’t think that’s what most people understand. I don’t defend his actions but as a young man who literally was rejected by almost everyone I met, I understand his frustration. But I’ve grown to be at peace with myself without the approval of others
No
Bro be throwing hot coffee on strangers and then proclaims himself a "magnificent gentleman" and we're all just too obnoxious and sinister to see it 🤣 It breaks my brain
magnificent incel
You and him both shut up
And he was like a stalking killer driving his car around the campus at night, open the window and insulting people.......
I honestly cannot believe he existed because no one talks like he did - his videos seem like they were parodies and over exaggerated. It’s so unbelievable that he actually thought and spoke the way he did; it all seemed like an act. It’s so weird that it would be sad if it didn’t come off as over the top. I thought the videos were a joke until I learned why he did what he did.
I've dug a good bit into this guy's past. He lived in such a weird melodramatic bubble and despite being quite fortunate in life he still felt like everything should be handed to him.
Dude thought his looks were the problem when he's not even ugly, he was just immature and had a terrible bitter personality
I totally agree!! It literally sounded like he was reading from a script and (badly) acting or something! So creepy!! It's almost hard to listen to its so cringey!
Yeah honestly. He speaks as though he's thinking about every single world. Like a script, that he repeats to himself, to memorize. Maybe it's his *"I'm the main character"* mentality?
He seemed very poetic. Almost like he was accentuating his truth.
It started as a story with truth sprinkled in.
Like he was glorifying his story, to give him courage to react. Almost convincing himself of his actions were justifiable
His fake evil laugh was weird as hell.
This guy actually called himself a supreme gentleman. Like hes a meal at taco bell
The fact he says THE supreme gentleman and the bizarre intonation he uses with it makes it even funnier.
You just killed me Lol
Crunchwrap supremes are decent
Don't think to hard about it. He's a number 8. The virgin wrap.
The ultimate incel
Bro acted like he was in a movie and put on this sophisticated, and intricate character, then committed the heinous acts he did, jus to be put in a video titling him “killer virgin”. Magnificent.
Things to not boost aproval with (sane) white women:
Be the shining image of an Incel
Look that flamboyent
Attempt to force image of welth by buying 300$ sunglasses
Kill people
You can tell like he want to become the villain with his villain laugh.
Its almost as if this is mkultra brainwashing or something
😂😂😂😂
you mean virgin laugh@@Heihachi8
This piece of sh*t shot up my college town during my time at UCSB. My roommate and I were going to stay in town but last minute we decided to go back to the central valley to visit our families. We heard about the shootings via email and texts later.
After this event, I was constantly nervous every time I was in an auditorium or in the classroom. I would always keep an eye on the entrance and exits.
I felt so bad for the kids who died needlessly that day. They didn't deserve this.
You're full of SHEOT
i hope you are better now, that is such an overwhelming thing to go through💗💗
how do you know they didn't deserve?
@@therealsoulbringer are you mentally demented?
did you bully him too?
He wasn't even bad-looking, it was his weird personality. The students who knew him personally said he never talked to anyone, whenever someone approached him to be friends with him, he was abrupt-spoken and haughty, yet he constantly wondered how come no one befriended him. What he really complained about was being rejected by the people he considered "worthy" of his companionship, that is by the rich or cool and gorgeous, white blond people. Dude had complexes with dark-skinned guys, the blacks and the asians, partly because he was half-asian himself. Even if he did could've got a girlfriend or a lover, eventually she would've been tired of him and push him away, which couldn't have really marked a difference in his psyche and probably kill her.
Lil creep looks in love with er self
Loves to hear her self talk
I thought this was Michael Jackson 🤣 Dude looks and sounds like Michael Jackson. The difference is that Michael Jackson was successful American singer . Elliot was entitled narcissist with god complex. Elliot didn't approach any women ( he simply didn't have game ) . He also didn't have any ambitions or plans for the future to be successful in career or something.
He's reminiscent of a potato with narcissistic tendencies.
Exactly what I thought.... he just comes across big headed and creepy af! 😳
"Unfair life" sitting in a BMW.....
What a paradox
With A Monthly Allowance $$$$$
lololol
Goes to show you , material things mean nothing !
@@daciasdiy1861 and pussy means everything lmao😂
Its crazy to think someone could be looking at you like how he did with hate when you don’t even know this person actually exists🤦🏽♂️
That's life. :(
Fr this is hella cringe. 💀
And it would your fault for not knowing who he is, too. That's how people like this are.
Nobody promised you life was gonna be safe.
Yeah, true. We call him "Satan". He just moves from one psycho to the next, and has been around for ages. Nothing new here. The first few things on his manifesto, you just replace his name with Satan, and it all makes so much more sense.
Peace!
All those people who idolize Rodger fail to realize that he wouldn’t have liked them back. If you were ugly, he looked down upon you. If you were attractive, he’d hate you.
People actually idolize this incel twit?
if you were ugly and had a gf, he would hate you even more
Shit dude, do people really look up to this dweeb?
What this guy never seemed to get was it wasn't his looks or his clothes that the girls didn't like but something unpleasant that shone through in his personality. No matter how much he tried to hide this narcissistic, vengeful side, it was probably easily transparent to everyone who encountered him. Maybe some personality challenges were present from birth, but I believe most of them were things that could have been overcome, except maybe true psychopathy, which is possibly an incurable defect in the way a person processes (or doesnt) empathy. The solution to all his perceived problems were in the one thing he didn't ever seem to consider: the way he interacted with others.
Seemed obsessed with himself
lol right… and the fact that he was someone who ended up killing other people for fun shows anyone who didn’t want to be around him had a good judge of character.
and it wasn’t that he decided to do so at the end of his life, as he said himself that “i’ve been wanting to do this for so long now”
Exactlyyyyyy
There are audiobooks of his manifesto. This essentially happens; his best friends abandon him because they find his views disturbing when he tries to tell them about it. And he cant even be in oublic with them without throwing a tantrum over seeing women and men together.
This is exactly what I came here to say. If he'd just tried treating people around him with respect, they probably would have responded very differently to him.
You know what's crazy is that, if he ever had gotten a girlfriend, you just know he'd have been obsessive and jealous. I honestly believe you could put him in any regular scenario involving loss of a partner or control and end up with him committing a violent crime.
Lol! if he was obsses with girls! he can be a pornstar like johnny sins! he can get laid and paid! what a dumb kid!!
1000% this dude was just a out and out little freak just looking at his face boils my blood
@@daffymuck295 how the hells his not get laid? i mean he has the money he can buy cheap girls all over the internet
not necessarily, loneliness is a powerful emotion... getting rid of it will, also in turn, have a powerful impact on someone. he couldve changed, especially if he got together with a sweet, smart and empathetic girl.
@John D no, he's an entitled narcissist. Those people are incapable of loving and mutually beneficial relationships without copious amounts of therapy which they'll rarely agree to get
Elliot was not even bad looking, quite good looking; it was definitely 100% his personality and his terrible nascistic outlook on life. Yes rejection is hard but he also isolated himself in self pity and rage, made no effort to self improve and was caught up in his own demons. Whatever he was feeling it was no excuse for his heinous actions. It is extremely unnerving to think that someone is watching you; judging your perceived success with dating and ready to snap because they envy you. In the end he destroyed his life and also the innocent lives of 6 others.
Getting rejected is like a poison curse that u will never understand cuz your not put in those situations
Not hard at all. We should get over our God complex and realize that nobody owes us anything and that we do not need a relationship for a happy, fulfilled life.
@@chrisgomez3472 people rely on relationships too much
@@chrisgomez3472I’ve been rejected multiple times. Guess what, I moved on from it. Nobody owes you shit. You get what you deserve. You simply analyze where you went wrong, make the adjustments, and move on. The moment you turn bitter is when you lose your shit.
@@chrisgomez3472 get tf over it lol
His level of narcissism is massive.
I was an early 90’s female BLERD, band geek, went to prom alone and didn’t lose my virginity until I was 23. Also bullied in high school. My parents taught me that not everyone is going to like you and not everyone HAS to like you. Sorry to hear that his therapy sessions weren’t able to stop this horror from happening.
he acts similar to women when they hit 30 and cant get a man
karens
Your parents gave you good advice.
What did you do at band camp tho?
I’m a 30 year old virgin, was the fat girl all through school, was bullied mercilessly, was asked out on dates as bets and jokes by boys I had crushes on (so that’s left me with deep seeded fear and reluctance to socialize) and never once did I think that it was every other girl/woman’s fault that boys/men didn’t like me. I played a part in it, as I got older, and never built up any self esteem, so I’ve spent the majority of my life wishing I knew how to overcome my own insecurities and fears. Even with therapy, it all won’t click for myself. I never ever blamed anyone for not wanting me, not finding me attractive, not wanting to have a relationship, or even sex, because the people I find attractive and wish I had the guts to talk to, don’t owe me a second of their time. I don’t know how it would ever be anyone else’s fault when I didn’t make an effort.
He should’ve made an effort instead of buying expensive sunglasses, shoes, pants and dress shirts and thinking women would immediately fall to their knees once he was near them. It truly sounds like he never spoke to any woman outside of his family.
He said he thought a lot about his situation but he never once thought he could be the problem and instead blamed others and became bitter. The world owes you nothing. Not friendship, not the career you want, a relationship.That's up to you. It's a shame he didn't come up with those conclusions.
He was so narcissistic that he couldn't see what was wrong with him on the inside. He never once thought that not all women are shallow. Some women prefer a good personality. Money and looks aren't everything. It was always something else or someone else's fault that he sucked at getting a girlfriend or getting laid. Never looked at his own faults. Dude was insane.
@@missraej7233 And wasn't he like high school age? What women his age would be gold diggers? Lol, they all got jobs at Starbucks and McDonalds
Typical narcissist!!
this lack of doubt is puzzling me, there are many people like this with zero lucidity upon themselves !
@@jmarra07 he was 22 I think
My dude really said “it’s really getting out of hand” by watching two people sit together at a park 😂
it is getting out of hand.
@@mcthugguswhere do you live
@@mcthuggusCope
@@mcthuggushow about working out
@@mcthuggus Now there are two of them!
Bro really said shit is getting out of hand when he saw a couple sitting together 😅🤦♀️
bro really went crazy because he got no bitches
😂😂😂. Sad thing is he isn't the first and won't be the last. I even know an older dude that behaves just like him.
Do not underestimate blueballing.
Many men commit suicide because they can't mr joker
Sounds like Tate’s army.
you do not know what it is like to get bad treatment and no love from them all your life.
The fact that anyone would consider such a weird, awkward and psychopathic "person" a hero just goes to show that there are many more like him that are yet to be discovered.
Who cares ur just a Becky
I had never heard of an incel until this dude. I found a whole subculture that connects them all over the world. The conversations are beyond words.
@@NATI2VA2CA I'll check it out. Thanks for the info.
Before it was deleted, the incel subreddit that praised Elliott had 40,000+ likeminded members. If that’s not terrifying I don’t know what is.
Lots of incels on twitter, openly threatening violence towards women.
Someone who went to school with him said he never approached anyone especially girls. He never made an attempt to hit on girls or socialize. So I guess he just thought girls were supposed to fall at his feet? You have to speak to people, you’re not entitled to anyones attention
He had autism which was probably part of the reason he never tried socializing with girls or anybody for that matter
Maybe they thought he was gay?
Oh god I'm realizing that I've started behaving and thinking like him, although I'm a girl.
This video and comment section is a good wake up call. I will stop obsessing over looks and hating boys for never approaching me and will continue to never approach anyone myself until I graduate highschool.
Perfect description of a incel
@@realityisascam don't buy any guns either lol
He is evil, superficial, and narcissistic when he calls these other men ugly and that those who reject him should be punished. It's scary.
The tragic part is it really doesn't matter how expensive your clothes or the car you drive, this kids personality was the real problem. No matter the amount of therapy, expensive clothes or whatever else, this kid would have had a tragic end no matter what. I feel even if he was able to get a girlfriend his impaired thinking would have him accusing her of God knows what she maybe eventually killing her
Oh he definitely would have killed his girlfriend if he ever got one
Or maybe he just needed love
@@luvdaviolence but his narcissistic personality is so great I don't think anyone could have stand with him.
I could have imagined if he have girlfriend, he will treated her poorly and big probability he will beat or kill her.
@@luziaflone1951 this Is ur negative point, this guy obviusly have some sort of problem, someone should take care of him, It ez to judje without know...
Nope, it was his sub par looks and small stature
Imagine putting in all that effort to become infamous and you end up being named The Killer Virgin.
He is known as the supreme gentleman actually
@@xxinsain2509 not amongst decent people
@@Lemminjoose fair enough lol
@@xxinsain2509 Just come out and say it: I'm a fruitcake.
This made me laugh out loud for real
I read his entire manifesto. The most tragic thing about Elliot Rodger is that his problem went beyond misogyny. He just didn't understand how human relationships work. He didn't know how to connect with other people in a genuine and true way. All of his attempts to socialize were artificial. He basically didn't have any interesting internal content to share for any friendship or relationship, and yet he pushed everyone away who tried to get close to him because he thought he was a superior being. His manifesto can be summed up in pages and pages of enormous envy of other people's happiness along with a shocking lack of self-responsibility. He certainly must have suffered from some degree of autism but that was also accompanied by psychopathy or narcissism due to his complete lack of empathy with others. The idea that Rodger had of human bean was something abstract, reductionist and utopic. I'm pretty sure that if for some reason some pretty blonde girl jumped into Rodger's lap with her legs spread, he wouldn't have absolutely ANY IDEA what to do with her.
Right
@@SarahSkinnyJeansright
True, though I think no one would know what to do if some random girl jumped into your lap. I’d be just like: ???
There have been many people currently and historically that were likely on the autism spectrum (or whatever label it is/was at the time). 99% of the time they're NON-VIOLENT and more likely to self-harm.
Right! Unrequited homosexual feeling are one hellova drug!
"Im a gentleman, I'm polite" *proceeds to post in chat forums how much he hates women*
I'm 32 y.o (33 in July 28th). I can't lie I have an awful social life. Hated by my "dad", bullied until I was 21. Virgin, never had a girlfriend and I've no friends.
Despite all that, I never thought about harming others let alone killing them.
aw:( well that means that you’re a strong person worthy of respect
I'm similar. Outcast all my life, hardly any friends, bullied for years, developed severe social anxiety, became increasingly clinically depressed, been through more than a dozen therapists, and much more than a dozen different medications.
I have never been attracted to women *or* men, and that still holds true now, at 25. No girlfriends, no sex, no attraction or sexual desires...and yet, harming another person never crosses my mind. I don't even consider it, really. I'm glad that - for as fucked up I am - I would never hurt anyone, even at my worst, haha. Mine own self? Different story, lol
Ty for sharing ❤
I'm a incel too
Good. Stay that way
This feels like a flashback. I remember watching these videos as they came out. Everybody made fun of him for how cringy he was and none of us seriously believed he would follow through on his last threat. Until he did. And the fact that he _"inspires"_ incel culture _to this day_ is unbelievable to me.
I remember when this happened. Totally agree about inspiring the incel culture.
It's exactly what he wanted
Yep I remember when YT deleted his channel and there was a few mini riot threads on 4chan over it, they really worship him and this guy just paved a whole new road for generations of incels to come
Misery loves bad company as they say
What does "incel" mean?
I'll Google it.
It’s interesting how he created such a vicious cycle. He was rejected because he was extremely awkward, weird and cringy and for appearing so thirsty which made him become even more weird and desperate thus provoking even more rejection. It’s scary that such a bizarre character was among normal people and was able to do what he did.
There’s no need to tear him down, I know what he did was horrible, but he was still human just like the rest of us
@@EthanJames-vz1qd He was a monster. I consider myself a humanist and I'm emphatic but the moment he decided to kill people that never hurt or even offended him I cannot feel any sympathy for him. He created all of his problems, he actually had a privileged life.
Exactly. If he was bullied continuously in each school he’s been to then that’s showing something
@@EthanJames-vz1qd a self entitled monster is what he was he deserves no sympathy his childhood was filled with two loving parents and as someone who actually had a traumatic childhood his manifesto makes me extremely angry to see how ungrateful he was
@@EthanJames-vz1qdhe was cringy, pathetic and extremely mean and evil. That's the truth. He chose to KILL innocent people because he wanted to fuck, just to feel like he's cool. He was a danger to society at large
He was driving around in a high end car and had the audacity to say that his life was unfair. Little did he know that the culprit to all of his problems was his personality, not his looks. He could have gotten plenty of women with that kind of car, but his personality ran them all off.
He was so full of himself and thought the world owed him everything instead of just putting in the effort to make it happen. He seems in love with himself the way he talks about himself it’s clear narcissism
@Wahamn_are_EVIL How are you not banned for being a serial killer apologist
@@siim605incel community is strong here and they really try out every loophole to make it seem like they’re just being normal
@@siim605 can’t ban someone for an opinion simpleton! Go live in Russia if you hate rights!
I've literally only met one guy as narcissistic as Elliot Rodger, but that guy was actually convincing and not awkward like Elliot. Awkward narcissism is a deadly combo
Might wanna check your book. Elliot isnt a narcissist. A narcissist wouldnt have killed himself, he would have glared in the infamity of his acts. Narcissists are cowards and they could never take their own life. You pseudo Psychologists always forget about that little detail.
So is confident narccism. Both are equally in their own way. Some are just way worse then others. We all display bits of it. Some are just incredibly severe like this.
straight up misogynistic incel
@@SourMlkSea for real. I think a normal narcissist is more dangerous because they can act like everyone else
he acts similar to women when they hit 30 and cant get a man
This guy wasn't bad looking at all, it's his sense of entitlement and his
narcissistic ways that would have put women off. He expected too much.
Thanks for another superb upload Raven. *You're the best!*
Exactly
I read his manifesto. The guy never even attempted to talk to any girl ever. He fully expected to be approached by a girl while just sitting in an area where they were and when no one would talk to him he’d go home pissed lol
@@bookwrmxoxo5105 And he also had a tendency to throw temper tantrums and get psychopathically violent the moment things didn't go his way, even before his killing spree.
Ya the best advice I can give young men with finding a gal, is don't go looking for a relationship. It'll happen naturally.
Women hate desperation.
@@andrewwolf4309 Actually you have to work on it too.. meaning you have to work on yourself to have more to offer and just get yourself out there to meet people. Not just girls to, but a network of friends. You can't just wait for things to happen. Sometimes you may get lucky meeting a girl by doing nothing, but that doesn't happen all the time. Go to places where people hang, and no not the the bars or clubs, but dog park, church, concerts, conventions, etc.
What I’m noticing about a lot of these murderers is they don’t have hobbies
I thought he was playing warcraft? That was his hobby
Here’s the thing, I guarantee you there were girls that had a crush on him and could have possibly even approached him. I would’ve been one of those girls if I had gone to school with him, he’s not bad looking. However, these girls probably didn’t have the looks he may have felt were good enough for him so they don’t count at all. I’ve unfortunately met a few of these type of guys (and girls) that say the opposite sex has never been attracted to them when in fact what they mean is that the type of people they want, the model looking types, are not attracted to them.
Even if he had gotten a girlfriend or multiple girlfriends, he still would’ve done what he did because there was always gonna be a girl rejecting him. No one would’ve been good enough for him. He was an egomaniac and a psychopath.
Spot on
Absolutely 🙌🏻
I am from Germany and the whole Incel thing and ER is bit far from me. But as I understood, he was jealous about other man having success with girls. It must be his personality because, from I can e press as a straight man, he seems to be good looking and seemingly not weird, as long he doesn’t talk about his silly theories. There are many other man who would love too have his look and appearance, so it makes me really wonder, how he could end up, to get mental and brutal due to non success with woman or girlfriends.
Let alone how he would of reacted to a break up. Oh lordy. I'm not a crazy person, but I've been through break ups that's torn me apart. I couldn't imagine how someone this unstable would act. Things could've possibly been worse.
this is a very interesting take on his case. makes you think more positively. just talk to people and you might find out you aren't as hated as you think you are.
"I'm polite" says the guy that throws scalding hot coffee on random people who simply exist.
Really!
In short , Elliot was the case of spoiled , narcissistic man who consumed "toxic masculinity" and hated women and decided to go on shooting spree to prove his point . I kinda wish Elliot knew his legacy , that he has become an hero for basement dwelling l o s e r s who think women rejected him becouse of looks and made him out the biggest victim than he ever was.
In short , Elliot was the case of spoiled , narcissistic man who consumed "toxic masculinity" and hated women and decided to go on shooting spree to prove his point . I kinda wish Elliot knew his legacy , that he has become an hero for basement dwelling losers who think women rejected him becouse of looks and made him out the biggest victim than he ever was.
@@KLl-kx2tb what a freaky dude
@@KLl-kx2tb the quiet, introverted men always end up having a lot of violence within them, especially the ones with the glasses, hoodie, cargo pants combo. I make it a point to stay away from them, and alert security if I catch them staring at me. Stay safe ❤
Elliot Rodger had absolutely everything, and he still couldn't realize that the reason people didn't like him was because he had a trash personality. And because of this, so many people died.
I've seen his case covered so many times by so many people, and they always leave me feeling sad, angry, hurt, and heartbroken.
His thoughts are so dangerous and underpin some mens' thinking that women 'owe' something to men.
He needed to look inside at his grandiose, jerk personality and not outward at other's value system.
An Elliott-type: asks you out, you're not interested and say no, you get called a b*tch and sl*t for declining their sexual advances.
Make that make sense.
@@beasmith3386 Something went wrong in the way he was raised. Something that seems to be going wrong in more and more young men's lives. Partly due to his dopaminergic reward system being inextricably tied to screens, making self improvement a struggle? Creation of our sick culture? Problem with modern parenting? Mental illness caused by social media? Our increasing insistence on putting kids on psychotropic drugs to treat the problems caused by the aforementioned issues?
The guy was narcissistic and entitled beyond belief. And obviously had psychological issues his family(especially his father) should have helped him out with earlier.
But I think people are a bit quick to judge when they talk about the wealth he came from. Sex and socializing are both primal needs. Materialistic things don't trump those things.
I like your profile pic. I like the idea of unity and not glorifying one side over the other. Ik thats off topic but I felt like sharing.
@@draketheblackpillerrobinso3334 wait how?
What an incredible case study into the mind of a young mass murderer. There are many serial killers and mass murderers that probably followed the same inner monologue as Elliot’s Vlogs
Imagine being such a narcissist that you actually believe couples are tracking you down at a park and sitting at a bench 100 yards away from you just to make you jealous.
Dude wasn't ugly by any means (no homo). If girls wouldn't be so stingy with the 🐱 this man's life would've turned out far differently. Women should've been throwing the 🐱 at him. Stop being so stingy with the 🐱 ladies. It's not gold or a prize to be won. Girl's should be trying to please as many men in this world as possible. There would be a lot more happier men out there if girls would give it up. Surely there'd be a lot less killings. A man that's getting laid is a happy man.
@@brandonsavitski what are these comments my guy XD
He wasnt. No. He was lonely
@@brandonsavitski you're a creep
@@brandonsavitski yes blame on women instead of a clearly narcissistic psychotic man. In his manifesto he is clearly very entitled and thinks the world revolves around him. He did this to HIMSELF. He shows resentment and hate towards his friends.
Guy had a supporting family who literally gave him a monthly allowance that allowed him to live in an apartment, drove a BMW, had a well connected father, above average looking, young and lived in a nice area and that’s what he did with his privalges smh, some people truly can’t be saved
Supporting family? His dad was a piece of shit who talked down to him all the time and was never there because he was always busy at work. He never talked to Elliot, just threw money at him
@@Robin-hv5tvshocking enough, there are more people out there who have parents who talk down to them and not throw money at them. This guy had things really good. He needed a therapist to help him deal with his emotions and connect with others
@Robin-hv5t do some research on how the majority of the world lives, please.
@@rugbyboy9964 Whats your point? Are you saying because majority of the world are poor, they appreciate money thrown at them before love from parents? Maybe in the USA
Thats the case with alot of fathers who are a sole provider to the family, mine is the exact same except like most people I dont get money thrown at me as my father is not rich and I wouldnt accept it anyway @@Robin-hv5tv
Elliot: “why don’t women like me? I’m amazing and handsome and a gentleman.”
Also Elliot: “LOVE ME OR ILL KILL YOU SLUTS.”
Wonder why things never worked out for him.
He was short and had a small pp
He was too emotional
@@muse8n It is weird though. Why would you frequently antagonize girls to get with them?
You can just be yourself and talk about the regular things in life. If someone likes you, good, if they don't, you can just have other aspects of your life in order to wait for a potential partner if you truly like companionship that much.
Though I may be biased since I have a stable relationship, but I have also witnessed being single. It never seemed like a situation born out of desperation, but rather due to personal choice since I wanted no responsibilities or distractions back then.
It is sad to see people focusing so much about these things in life. Even if I am in a relationship right now, I focus a damn lot on my professional side of life as well. I believe that what is creating people like these is not simply a lack of empathy and isolation but primarily a lack of purpose.
One of life’s great mysteries… 😆
Exactly, and I don't know many gentlemen who approve of bringing back the worst tortures of the Spanish inquisition
Product of the youth of today. My nephew is like this...no not as severe, but he sees himself as a victim to everything and everyone he has connected with...or lack there of. He was deceptive, a liar, and vindictive from a young age. If he feels someone has done him wrong, like asking him to do his homework, catching him in a lie, or trying to point out his attitude. As a teen I never saw him with any friends, no sleepovers, movies, sports, etc. When he turned 18 my mother (his grandmother who helped raise him) tri3d to continue helping him get by. He was lazy, never did anything for himself...still doesn't. Today he believes he knows more than anyone...because he can google something. I won't share why I no longer consider him family. I'll just say he's trash.
I pray he doesn't become like this young man
I was a socially awkward kid in high school and most of the girls ignored me, even though I was decent looking and a nice guy. Eventually I read some books on correcting my social issues, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Shame on that therapist for not encouraging the kid improve himself in any meaningful capacity.
what books did you read?
I went to many different schools and been popular and also disliked after I befriended someone who was ignored but actually turned out to be a very cool person and my best friend. I never figured out any rational reason why the other kids were ostracizing him other than to say they are bad. Turns out my friend was pretty smart as well as am I. I read a ton of books in highschool including several from Orwell, to kill a mockingbird etc... And I discovered that I was very unique and the only one doing that and I was hated for being good by many. This showed me how fake and shallow many people are.
Oh word? Hmu
@@cesartorres2495 I read a few of david deangelo's books. I remember he covered lots of social topics, but Elliot Rodger resembles the book's archetype of how not to think. I read that 20 years ago, but the main concepts are still true today.
Yeah incels all go on rants about how their appearance is what turns off women, but most people considered ugly or unconventionally attractive have perfectly normal love lives without issue. And like you said even people who are atractive can struggle with dating. Their own strict standards, unrealistic expectations, and horrible personalities are what drives away potentiall romantic partners. It has nothing to do with appearence.
When women say its all about personality and not purely physical looks, they mean it. I mean it. There have been multiple instances where i wasnt attracted to a person at all until i got to know them better and liked who they were as a person. There was also a time when i went on a couple dates with an incel who i started to find unattractive after getting to know who he really was.
No woman wants to be with a man who speaks about them with so much disdain because he didnt get his way.
Nah this kid was a spoiled rich kid who thought everything should be handed to him with no effort put forth. Not once in this video did they mention he was a directors kid, had dual citizenship in Morocco, went there for vacations, moved there. Called his Mom and had her bring him back.
having meaningful human connections are more valuable than any of this bs you listed. Feels like people here not understanding this literally prove his point lmao
@@FloppaTheBasedbut he had many chances for connections but never acted on it. he expected people to come up to him and initiate friendships or relationships, he was a pathetic fuckin person but that doesn't mean he couldn't have changed dude just decided to cemented the facts that he was a worthless pathetic waste of breath.
To add to this....he wasn't taught that having everything doesn't mean you have everything, so to speak. He wasn't taught that material possessions don't mean a hell of a lot other than having a bunch of people around who don't like you for YOU.
Imagine being so pathetic and narcissistic you can't get a girlfriend despite being super rich, while I'm sitting here broke as hell, less attractive than him and I've had a few girlfriends like most normal people, his problem was that he hated women, how could he not see women didn't want him because he hated them?
@@UseTheSupeRsonicisn't that a normal "thought" to have? I mean, a person like him, needed to be taught that? Maybe you're right
One thing I've learned growing up is that there's a friend group for literally everyone. This kid just couldn't stop feeling sorry for himself and as much as he went out, I'm surprised he wasn't able to make a single friend. But at the end of the day he alienated himself and made himself believe some crazy shit.
His existence was based off of being the victim.
All he had to do was have the balls to ask a woman out and we all hate being rejected. it's just that he didn't handle it well. They were point I could have been this kid but thank God I'm not.
He wanted to be in the most popular clique, and have the most beautiful girlfriend. Nothing else would do.
Last time I tried to make friends I got “fuck off rеtard” it doesn’t work like that
@@Journey_to_who_knows He didn’t want friends. He wanted to be the center of attention. The “cool” guy and was pissed people didn’t bow.
Bro claims to be a "supreme gentleman" and goes ahead and slanders woman.
Very alpa male energy 😭😂
This guy LOVES to hear him self talk
Prolly why he got no bitches
I am truly grateful he never found anyone. There’s no telling what he could have done during a break up.
Probably no worse than killing multiple people like he did 😂 you’d rather he do that than take out a single person aka his hypothetical girlfriend? Weird 😅
@@Skateandcreate9So u think is better to kill one person than killing 5 or 100? Wait for someone to ki|| a person u love and see If Just a life is not as important as a lot of lifes.
He has the most entitled attitude and he is driven by his crazy victim mentality. If he had ever gotten a girlfriend, he would've been so toxic, sensitive, controlling, accusing her of anything/everything and mist definitely just abusive overall in so many more ways.
@@uknowwho4497 yea obv its better to kill less people you inbreed
There is.
I'm 24 and still a virgin, was at best a 5 before my 20's when I starter taking care of myself, I also never chased love until my 18 and believed that I never needed love in my life. Things have changed insanely after my 20's, I look back at my old self and see how lonely and unproductive I was, without a dream, or perspective of what to do with my own life.
He was so busy thinking that he needed someone to fullfill his emptyness that he never realized that he was the one that had to change, and no doubt he had some mental disorder, his way of speech is super weird and that villain laugh?? He had killed his own soul long long ago
Study's show if a man makes it to 25 as a virgin he most likely will never lose it. Good luck
@@gibememoni lmao thanks, been close to lose It a few times but not worth it
please never feel like you're less of a person because you're not sexually active, so many men are faced with the stigma that they're losers if they haven't had sex before. go at your own pace. do what you're comfortable with. if you love someone, and want to have sex with them, then you should. if you meet someone and have a one night stand, so be it. it doesn't matter where or how you lose it, or if you do at all. what matters is that both parties are comfortable and have a good time. good luck to you, sending love
@@100TenaciousD based virgin. Sex is great , but overrated. Love is where it's at
@@gibememoni That ain’t good
From my perspective, I see that Elliot was lonely and no one cared for him, so he contained a lot of loneliness inside him, but what he did to innocent people was a big mistake. Having a girlfriend or lover is not the end of the world. He had better options to release this anger towards the world in an act that would not harm anyone.
there are a lot of other factors as well. no sense of permanence and consistency (parents' divorce, his numerous school and uni transfers, etc.), and possibly poor upbringing. I am Malaysian like his mum, and I know people like her who worship whites even if it means the relationship is meaningless. see how fast the dad got a girlfriend after the divorce? red flags don't just come out of nowhere but she didn't care, because ✨white✨. a lot of the half whites I know in Malaysia end up with over inflated egos because their Asian parent blows smoke up their @ss. the half white kid is not a family member; they're a trophy. Elliot was raised to think of himself as a trophy, and it shows. White worship in Malaysia is horrible.
As an asperger person, I really liked how you explained the textbook signal of autism that can be seen in Elliot! Great job
Is he re- emerging in YT? This was ages ago but I see him now back in YT videos , also if he wasn’t a virgin I still think he would of done the same evil deed or worse
I thought he was just effeminate, but he does seem like he is playing a movie character.
My son and I are both autistic, I instantly thought he was too.
Elliot was cocky and self-centered. Nothing at the time of this crime said anything about him being on the spectrum. He was just an entitled, spoiled POS.
Why are All murderers always considered to have some type of mental issue,This dude was so conceited & he had Envy,jealousy etc over others , i don’t believe he was a basket case,He just wanted Revenge & he did achieve it , It’s sad as the ppl he killed did not deserve it.
$1,000/mo for an allowance, drives a BMW and complains about life.
Most likely since he was a spoiled kid this was what indirectly pushed him a bit because he was spoiled he expects everything. Maybe he was even bored to the point where his mind made up a fake reality
@peachxii2079
Very interesting comment, i agree with you ^^.
Life can be harsh for some people, being bullied at school, not having attention and affection from people, being rejected so many times, being a ghost for people, terrific childhood trauma, divorced parents, addictions such drugs and mental illness, unemployment are factors that can leads individuals to do the worst
@@LilianaGarcia-ve7ob Yeah things add up don't they
@peachxii2079
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@@peachxii2079he had mental issues,kids were bullying him for being short and tiny,and when he talked to a girl she didn’t responded back as an result for him to cry for 1 hour,i also heard his father didn’t cared about him
He was rich and good looking. Girls probably were interested, but ran as soon as he said one sentence because he was creepy af and they would run.
That's what I was thinking. It's not always about looks and money. Things like that can't buy personality.
Good looking? Nah that bad personality takes everything away
@@ricardoderas4906 I mean that was my point. (I know reading comprehension is hard)
If he wasn’t crazy, I bet he could get girls. He was not bad looking at all, if you forget that he was a psycho.
Bro tbh I think he wasn’t the one interested in women, he’s giving big Jeffry D vibes
He was also 5’7 severly autistic and schizo
if anyone was curious, he appears to have a personality construct called vulnerable narcissism:
- sense of entitlement
- condescending
- introversion
- lacking empathy
- extreme feelings of resentment
- social anxiety/ avoidant behavior
none asked
The maddest thing is he isn’t even BAD looking. He just needed to stop being so obsessed, get some help and concentrate on himself till the right one comes along. Madness😅
Looks vs game
I think he really liked men he just wanted to be happy but he ended his happiness by letting his mental health take over
He look alright. But I guess he's like 5 feet tall or something? He needs to lower his standards.
@@brulsmurf5’9
He went for help. He wasn’t socially supported by the extremely well paid psychiatrists. ASD requires education in social skills - clearly, he had none.
He was the absolute epitome of “I’m a nice guy, you b!tch” 🙄
Nah he is the epitome of the supreme gentleman. Gone too soon😢
@@xxinsain2509 lol he should have been gone sooner.
I don't think any of us can realize how hard it must've been to be rejected hundreds of time. So don't judge.
@@BalboaBaggins lol...I've been rejected thousands of time...I feel rejected right now...still don't want to go out and shoot people...murder bad...
@@Alwaysprogressing That or actually institutionalized, or sought out-patient therapy... gotten help, self-improvement, medication, fixed his own flaws...with the help of professionals.
He probably would have been ok if he had an older brother or a friend to say, "Dude, it's not your looks or what you wear, it's because you're a creep and you care about your love life way too much. Ignore the girls and do your own thing. Live for yourself, improve your own life, and a girl will come." Sometimes you just need to tell someone to get their shit together and stop blaming other people for their problems. Better than murder, anyway.
He drove away the couple of friends he managed to make with his incessant whining and temper tantrums.
@HYPNOTOAD291 Yeah, that's probably very true.
The best way to find someone is to be happy by yourself first.
@@MarvinHartmann452not even
But he had everything bro, I am sorry nobody can't use that get your shit excuse for him because he had it all. Elliot's father is the executive producer of "Hunger Games". I will agree with having a big brother (like a Andrew Tate) type to teach him about the game.
I have literally been alone most of my life, and females never really showed much of an interest in me, or if they did I just didn't know how to recognize it socially and act on it, I did some super cringy things, getting friend zoned, awkward moments from misreading social scenarios, and was terrified of rejection to where I didn't even speak to women anymore.... then the love of my life entered my world and everything changed. My advice is just do you. Forget about romance it will come as you grow confidence in yourself and focus on your passions and hobbies. Romance is not necessary to enjoy your life, but when it happens, embrace it as hard as you can. And if it doesn't fall in love with yourself like I did. I don't think I could ever understand hurting other people for things that are out of your control.
I've read a bit of his manifesto, and I think it's clear that his real problem with women was that he was afraid of them. He literally never spoke to a woman or girl in his entire life in a flirty way, or even approached a woman or girl to talk, even platonically. He thought that they should be the ones to sweep him off his feet. It's bizarre. If you want a girlfriend, it'd help if you talked to girls first. They won't just magic themselves into your life. He talks about rejection, but he wasn't rejected. He never got that far.
This is so true, yes it can happen the other way around but say YOU want something, you should try to make it happen. Not get mad cuz random people dont want you
Yeah he didn't understand what to do and no one explained it to him in a way he could understand, as a NT i am sure it looks odd to you, but being on the spectrum as well; he needed someone to explain how to interact with other people to him. That sounds really strange, but even to this day in my 30's as a rather smart person i have to ask friends about social interactions as there are times i just don't understand what has happened.
It sounds like he was gay and didn't want to admit it. So sad. If he only admitted and came to terms with who he really was, he would've been so much happier.
@@chasitibrooks7295I don't think so. He had straight porn on his computers when he was caught, which makes it fairly unlikely that he was gay. I think he was autistic and unable to understand how people work. He had no insight into why women wouldn't talk to him, even though he never tried to have a conversation at all. He thought that that was rejection, when really they couldn't have rejected him since he never approached them in the first place. The whole case is very sad, but I don't think that being closeted was part of it.
@@DarkLordFaust666 I would guess his parents took great care with teaching him cleanliness/presentation, which is basic but he took to the nth degree. As for actually finding your social niche, that has to come from within. This guy was as shallow as you get, and clearly had something missing in his head. Regarding yourself, you have faith and respect for your friends which makes a whole world of difference.
Bro every time he said something about women not being attracted to him I just kept screaming “BECAUSE YOU’RE CREEPY!”
that doesnt really help theres plenty more like him and being told you're creepy would only increase that feeling they have
Imagine being a woman and having to deal with somebody with that type of personality. This guy was the character of Randy Orten times 10. Any girl that dated him and broke up with him would have been dead because his personality would not except that.
I literally come to search this comment. He screams that he is a psychopathic bug.
@@ciminkitaplar-seslikitapla9596 it would be better to help him than label him
Creepyness is just based on your attractiveness lol
this is the kind of documentary to inspire action, then again, it’s up to the individual to keep on knocking on whatever door they want to get in to.
💯True
Calmest BMW driver:
scariest part is that he used his blinker 🤯
@@Constable.Chauvin hahahahahaha
Hahahaha
Literary no criminal case was as hard to watch as that one was, not because it's the most brutal case there is, but because of how insufferable and cringe this guy is
its crazy too because he wasn't bad looking and was rich as well, he was just a spoiled narcissistic brat and you can get all of that from his little villain monologue.
I think the scariest part about this is that people like him exist and live among us
Whenever you listen to these true crime videos and hear the ages of victims younger than you it just makes you think “damn they were younger than me” and it hits you different because your still alive and in a way, it makes you appreciate the fact your still here more RIP to all of the victims, they were far too young to go 🙏🏻
You honestly have to be a dumbass to get shot. Just move lmao
That's how I felt when I realized Alexander the Great had conquered more of the world than I'll probably see in my lifetime before he was 32. 😅
@@angelface925 same here I haven’t even been outside of the US 🤣
All the couples that he witnessed are indirectly guilty of his crimes as they caused him to do this and they should feel guilty.
@@raoulmoat6762 oh most definitely I hope depression has been eating at them every single day, justice is not often served in the most deserving way
I had a very close friend who was suffering from the same things as this dude. He was very sweet and kind but he did not like women and he felt they were all mean to reject him for it. I tried talking to him about this so many times. Eventually he offed himself. Men’s mental health is no joke.
Bro thinks hes Doofenshmirtz with that evil laugh, i cant 😭
I tried not to laugh 😂😂😂
Do bee do bee do bah
💀lmao
It sounds like the fake bad guy in Bolt
Perry the platypus ahh laugh 😂
I know a guy just like this. Nothing is ever his fault. It’s always the girls fault for not talking to him without realizing how cringy, narcissistic, and demeaning he is.
Update on this guy: I was just talking to him and he said ge got banned for his gym for 4 months. Wouldn’t say why only said that someone reported him, but he did say the manager was a puppet that only believes women and that women are just pieces of shit. I wonder what he did.
I know someone like this too. Devin. He only can keep women for 2,3 months before he is left for his narcissist ways.
That’s because they are gay but don’t want to realize it!!
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 ngl i don't think that's how that works
Bad boys always win Elliott Welcome to the Real World bad boys always win bad boys always get the girls thugs always get the girls I stopped complaining about it and I just go to Japan found myself a beautiful Japanese girl instead of dating my own kind black women I just dated Asian women I can get laid faster with Asian women than with black women
That's unsettling. Hopefully he gets help or at the very least doesn't badly hurt anybody
"Who do they think they are, coming here, sitting in front of me to make me jealous" bro actually sounds like a 3 year old
That's true, all narcissists are like 3 or 4 year old Sissy's, that are emotionally immature ,it's even true that at age 60 a narcissist is like a 5 year old trapped in a 60 year olds body.🤔😇
Actually he was pointing out he was being stalked. And it was actually ironic, because he was video taping himself, then suddenly another couple came up and hold hands and kiss. Trust me once you notice that, it's a strange phenomenon. It's similar to how (at least to some peopel) they break up and suddenly they see more couples in the street.
That’s an insult to 3 year old kids
@@jeeswee 😂 4r! 3 yr olds are more mature
@@DetPerscthe phenomenon you’re talking about ain’t stalking bro
Due to the unstable environment of constant moving and the divorce of his parents in combination with obvious emotional neglect that this young man has experienced, his fantasy world has gone completely out of control and he himself has become unstable. Many people won't want to hear it, but when you decide to have a child, make sure you are able to be there for him/her (emotionally!). To me this is an obvious result of cause and effect. Emotional neglect is one of the worst forms of abuse because it is only visible to the trained eye and is not recognized. When you see how Elliot has clearly taken on a role and no longer comes to terms with the vulnerable feelings of sadness and powerlessness, it means to me that he had nowhere to go with these feelings and has started to overcompensate, resulting in a display of power and anger. This boy feels completely unsafe, he also chases people away because it is deeply ingrained in him to be unwanted. He feels like a bad guy and portrays this. I saw a video of his father and his girlfriend on the red carpet at some gala and Elliot walked behind them like he wasn't part of the group, scandalous! I have seen 0 love in interviews with his father towards Elliot and supposedly he was raised lovingly by some media claiming. Very sad to see, and another reason for me not to just bring a child into the world if I am not sure I can give it all the care and love within myself. For people who say yes, but I have also been bullied and my parents are also divorced, we have to stop comparing situations and people because no one life/experience/circumstance is exactly the same and lucky for you that you did not start fantasizing in this direction and you didn't get the space for that either. I think we should all think more carefully about how these kinds of out-of-control situations come about and try to prevent them.
Coming from somebody who has Asperger’s syndrome I had it rough when I was in school but I never let it get to me like Elliot did. It’s truly sad to see when people act that way. He should’ve talked it out with someone, anyone. I know that’s helped me so much in the past.
Same actually
Same, but different. I was bullied so bad I was even taken to the ER once, but I got over it. This guy should've done the same and changed himself.
He wasn't just bullied, he was rejected, and he didn't receive any love at home. I had the 1st one in my teens.
@@sameerolail hate to break it to you but girls don't owe men there bodies. I've been alone my entire life and I delt with it without killing people.
Ask yourself why this stuff doesn't happen in other countries. All countries have asperger people, but only in the US there's that degree of mass bullying that end up in school catastrophe
Elliot: look at me, beautiful, magnificent gentleman.
Also Elliot: "Look at that group of sluts"
He wasn't horrible looking, he was just an entitled, spoiled, man-child. Had he actually taken the time to approach women, maybe he would have found out that women weren't these horrible beings.
Right. He never truly tried to get better. He just complained and didn't do anything about it so he could continue to play victim. Fucking annoying.
@c it's all about how you approach us. Of course If you act like a creep, and start to get aggressive just because you think we don't find you attractive, you're not going to get very far. We are not these difficult species, we all want love, And acceptance. There's 8 billion people on this earth, and you mean to tell me not a single one would have dated him? He just didn't want to try, he was lazy, he wanted women to flock to him without lifting a finger.
If he approached them with this same attitude, they would shun him. Also, I'm sure that "girls" who were less than what he thought he deserved probably did pay attention to him but he thought they weren't good enough.
Well the time we life in is really not that easy as you say "Only approach a women". That migt be considered a meeto incident latter on. But I agree definitely on every thing else you have written. The probably is for both genders that we life in a time where theres too much options and alot of people are like "oh maybe a better partner is available" like with tinder.
Not saying does apps and so cause killing spread. But its just not like medievals were a woman encountered exactly 3 man in the whole life span. So actually only thing to blame might be progress but no woman and no man.
He had a shit personality, what he needed to do was some serious reflecting. People don’t just give you attention if they don’t know you, and he didn’t even know people but was calling them sluts.
Those 'sinister laughs' were painfully cringe
Yes. Yes they were.
'Magnificent and gentleman-like' cringe laughs ha ha ha ha.
😂😂
Could have worked on himself maybe brushed his teeth washed his face or taken a shower once a day
Could have made friends or girlfriend
Instead he worked on being cringe
Fr
Here’s the beauty with this. This young man would never had been happy even with a girlfriend, in fact, he would probably have ruined another person’s life if he had been in a relationship. I’ve never seen anyone so far gone that this was inevitable.
BTW I love these videos. So well built and informative. Thank you
This video is actually inspiring!!!! See, I suffer from feeling unattractive physically, but this video shows that character is WAAAAAY more important!!
inspiring? wtf...
@@KatK2 See, I've been feeling EXTREMELY unattractive because I gained weight due to medication. So, I'm not saying HE is inspiring, I'm saying that watching the video itself, for me, showed me clearly that looks are so much less important than character. That is what I found inspiring. Of course not his behavior.
@@yuliapanina8815 Still the video of a man murdering people for no reason Is where you found inspiration? That's strange bro.
It's still incredibly inappropriate, insensitive, and stupid.
You're STILL complimenting him somehow. Get ur head out ur arse
I understand what you mean
I watched another channel cover this guy. He was so out of touch with reality that he blamed the world for his own shortcomings and then tried to get retribution on “the world” - which ironically consisted of complete strangers who didn’t even know he existed.
@c what?
But they should have known he existed because he was a magnificent gentleman.
Autocorrupt wanted to say reptilian instead of gentleman. Lol
@@Listrynne I think reptilian is rather fitting 🦎 😂
@@saraha5847 so do I. That's why I decided to mention it.
Yet you're here whining about him.
Looks like he really did poke a thumb in society's eye!
"I don't know what you girls don't see in me."
- Kindness
- Humility
- Love
- Goodness
- Humanity
Also their guts were probably screaming at them that he was a massive danger and they needed to stay away. Intuition is a strong ally in cases like these.
You want me to be humble to a girl so as to get to date her? I would rather be single
@@razakissa7762 You can be confident in yourself and still be humble. It's about being considerate to your fellow human beings.
@@Mollypop713 oh yes it's true you need to be considerate of your fellow humans. Girls of this our generation has a different understanding of dating. It's totally different from how our parents enjoyed it. Girls nowadays looks for a guy who is cool but not a pushover. Because she wants to be protected. Our mothers use to look at how handsome the men were. It's different now. You have to work on your conversational skills, confident without been creepy. Lovely and gentle without been a slow retarded man. It calls for a delicate handling of yourself at any point in time it's called for. He only concluded afta a couple of failures that, that's it! They don't love me, I will never get someone to have sex with, I will never be accepted. That's where I think the psychosis thing comes in because anyone with a sound mind will keep trying and maybe reduce the level of class he chooses to go for and see, because girls want a man who is more powerful than they are. Inorder to be safe
Some women enjoy prying that from men as they toy with them. That why I won't ever date latinas. Their families are way too annoying
There's people in these comments who idolize this guy and view this as a manual. Remember that.
14 year old boys on tiktok started calling him ‘Elliot Mogger’ which is a way of praising him💀
That’s just pure evil. I’m almost 40 and haven’t had much luck with attracting women. I barely have any friends. But I would never consider hurting others. You just have to find peace within and learn not to dwell over things you can’t control.
@skull 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@skull6213 your the type of person that goes first, what a pathetic comment
@skull nice projecting, bro
@skull projecting again, huh?
@skull I'm not projecting anything on you, I was just pointing that you blame someone else for coping (which is a good thing, by the way, although you make it seem like something bad) while you cope with your struggles yourself. Not like it's something bad to cope as I said, it helps us live through the world of pain, but you try to act tough and point to your behaviour in others which is projecting. Confident people that love themselves and happy don't make such comments as yours. They just don't waste their time being toxic on internet because they aren't.
What would you say now, buddy?
For any young guys out there feeling like he did, here’s some advice:
1. Be kind and loving. Don’t try to toughen up and compete with other guys. Instead, be affectionate with family and friends. Be gentle and sweet.
2. Work on your own confidence. Insecurities and rejection suck, and the only person who can heal them is you.
3. Develop your own style. Wear what you like. Don’t dress for anyone else.
4. Find hobbies and creative outlets. Self expression is crucial for confidence, peace, and growth.
It will be ok. Fill your life with love instead of spite and vengeance. I promise you it will get better.
1. Short, avg looking guys who are kind hearted get friend zoned.
2. Short, avg looking guys who are confident are Labelled narcissistic, having napoleon complex by modern females.
3. Though it seems a good advice, but it boils down to looks and height.
Bro stop giving these NPC type advices
@@tusharkumar2907 It really doesn't, bud. Blaming being single on your height is a great way to avoid taking responsibility for the fact that you have a horrible personality/no social skills. And if you're not conventionally attractive stop expecting girls way out of your league to be into you, even Elliot who had zero options didn't feel like settling for an average girl, he was only interested in those from the "hottest sorority". And the fact that he was rich and attractive really proves that it had everything to do with him being creepy. Data from 2019 shows that 80% of americans will be married at least once by the age of 60.. hmm I wonder if 80% of people are rich, tall and attractive
@@kira33533 personality and social skills means nothing in dating world. Its all tall height and good looks. Even chads with antisocial behaviour get laid.
80% will get married eventually. Its bcoz most females in their prime get railed by tall, good looking men. When they hit wall, they settle down for kind hearted men.
If ugly females are getting tall, good looking man then why avg looking men shouldnt get good looking female.
Thank u
@Miss_Mary_Juana yes, but will it lead me to find true love? Bcoz as per stats short, avg looking men dont get respected or adored by modern females.
"I'm such a nice guy."
Proceeds to commit the un-nicest act among our species.
@Gurds s it ain’t comparable. most animals kill for survival. elliot killed for his sick sense of entitlement and hatred.
"I have great morals!"
*gunshots*
among
natural selection
I think many people who struggle with social and behavioral disabilities are seen as narcissistic but i can tell by the way he talks he lacks developmental skills and is not even aware of it. He doesnt understand why people see him as different.
The lack of developmental and cognitive skills is glaring
He was so caught up on how he looked he didn’t realize he was just weird.
You know his personality is unbearable because he isn’t bad looking at all. He makes me cringe so badly 😭
He was rejected because he was only 5'7. Dating for men under 6'0 is basically impossible.
@@SkibidiToiletIslnherentlyAryan yeah definitely not because he was trying to shove women off a balcony and throwing drinks on people 👀
@@SkibidiToiletIslnherentlyAryanmen are single because of their behaviour. u kill rape and hatecrime. men that dont commit crimes still lack empathy on a concerning scale like u who thinks that the reason he killed is because of women only dating men over 6foot which is statistically false so dont know what ure really lying for it almost sounds like ure excusing his behaviour. very disturbing. rip to all the victims of male entitlement (the reason why he killed btw if it wasnt OBVIOUS)
@@pearlslastso what? it's natural for mindbroken people to act out in this world gone mad
Must be a harsh wind over where you are if you consider this man good looking 😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine being the couple he’s filming at the park and seeing this after everything that happened…chilling.
Or any of the pedestrians he filmed, so creepy to know anyone can film you at any time without your knowledge and just say whatever they want about you
When he said "I am the true alpha male" my Andrew Tate alarm went off and my eyes rolled so far back into my skull they're currently on a mission to Mars
Calling himself a gentleman as he hurls insults at women from his car. Now that is an oxymoron 😂
Yeah because his persona was parody. This is a joke. Have you ever met anyone who acts like this unironically?
@@alexandermendez4653 irony doesn't make it any better :/
@@rainqu it's not real
He seemed to believe that 'if you say you are this, then you are.' Doesn't work like that.
this kid fell into the same trap ive seen a lot of young men fall into. they're waiting for their life to change or something to happen, anything to happen. i myself was like this at one point. it took a bit of work on myself to realize that absolutely nothing will chnage unless you change it yourself. get mad, get determined, and get up and change something, change anything
"get mad, get determined, and get up and change something, change anything" uhhh. Thats what he did...
This is narcissistic personality disorder, not late bloomer complex
Amen 🙏
He's autistic. There's a difference between you...I hope.
Nothing gonna change because motivation its just joke its all about looks money statue.
Crazy thing is there are more people like him out there somewhere, plotting, at any moment they'll just act. It's insane to think about.
Those mass shooters hav one thing in common.. Mental Illness.
Lol hi I have autism
@@DYELGAINZ hahahahahahagsegeg hi me too
They’re just not stupid enough to post it on TH-cam
You never know what your neighbors are up to, they could be Serial Killers or Rapists, you might never know.
''A beutiful environment is the darkest hell if you have to experience it all alone'' is such a good phrase from a twisted mind.
Saying the world is cruel while being an entitled, spoiled, (physically) healthy, objectively attractive, individual raised in the US is just beyond my comprehension.
@Wahamn_are_EVIL How ironic because you're not kind at all from other comments I've seen from you.
He was attractive but not attractive enough like Jeremy Meeks or Richard Ramirez
What??? Those factors don't mean he is HAPPY, He could be right even if he ticked all those boxes!
Nobody can be "objectively" attractive.
@@everilliem3292 wrong, there are people who are objectively attractive, and there are people who are objectively unattractive, for example a person who has wide set eyes with a receding jaw and hairline is already unattractive, while a person who has good facial proportions is attractive, subjectivity in attractivness only comes in when 2 people with similar attractivness is paired up, for example any reasonable human with a brain will know that someone like Brad Pitt when he was young was attractive, compared to someone like a Beetlejuice he is unattractive, but when you compare Brad Pitt and Matt Bomer to see who is more attractive there are mixed opinions because they both are attractive but it's minute physical traits on their face and coloring would make some people choose Matt or some people choose Brad