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100% on point. The only prenup that I would support is one stating: Whom ever presents the divorce loses everything. Divorce rates would go down rapidly.
@@jorgen7180 your comment is reminding me of a talk by Wayne Dyer, remember him? He was long known as a “motivational speaker” and then by some as a spiritual teacher. He’d married and divorced a couple of times (if memory serves) and I recall him sharing about a transformative time in his life after a divorce. I’m paraphrasing but I recall him simply choosing to give to her rather than to battle over and withhold. This being willing to give freed him. The thought itself is freeing. That takes a lot of love, especially assuming he did not want a divorce. Maybe he cheated on her and felt it was a way to atone. Maybe he was really that amazing. Who knows. But yeah, if the situation is really bad enough you’d give anything to get out. Interesting food for thought. Thanks..
@Wifeyschool I'm Catholic and happily married. We don't believe in divorce, unless abuse is present. I have no idea who that person is. Nowadays, people want to divorce for any reason. Marriage has become a vain and transactional thing. The problem isn't in giving; the problem is the lack of commitment. It's also worth noting that most divorces are initiated by women, while men tend to do most of the 'giving.' This has led to the point where young men don't even want to discuss marriage, seeing it as a trap for men. Then there's the absurdity of '50-50' marriages. From the start, they're setting themselves up for failure-not just with prenups, but also with long engagements and one-year wedding planning. It's the most ridiculous thing. Many don't even seek an institution to learn about marriage. Our Church, at the time, prepared us very well. I would say no to your proposal since it's actually the status quo that has brought us to this crisis today. I prefer mine.
All well and good but with the courts so biased against men and how women in the internet age are not as committed to loyalty and working things out as men are.....I recently told my 20 year old son that a prenup is advisable to protect yourself. I have seen too many good men lose everything in a divorce without enough time to make it up.
@@blw3169 yes, I’ve heard this too. I don’t think there’s the reverence for marriage today as there once was also and too much on “what can I get”. I wouldn’t advise against a prenup. I hope sharing our story can inspire some good, however. 🙏🏻
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100% on point. The only prenup that I would support is one stating: Whom ever presents the divorce loses everything. Divorce rates would go down rapidly.
@@jorgen7180 your comment is reminding me of a talk by Wayne Dyer, remember him? He was long known as a “motivational speaker” and then by some as a spiritual teacher. He’d married and divorced a couple of times (if memory serves) and I recall him sharing about a transformative time in his life after a divorce. I’m paraphrasing but I recall him simply choosing to give to her rather than to battle over and withhold. This being willing to give freed him. The thought itself is freeing. That takes a lot of love, especially assuming he did not want a divorce. Maybe he cheated on her and felt it was a way to atone. Maybe he was really that amazing. Who knows. But yeah, if the situation is really bad enough you’d give anything to get out. Interesting food for thought. Thanks..
@Wifeyschool I'm Catholic and happily married. We don't believe in divorce, unless abuse is present. I have no idea who that person is. Nowadays, people want to divorce for any reason. Marriage has become a vain and transactional thing. The problem isn't in giving; the problem is the lack of commitment. It's also worth noting that most divorces are initiated by women, while men tend to do most of the 'giving.' This has led to the point where young men don't even want to discuss marriage, seeing it as a trap for men. Then there's the absurdity of '50-50' marriages. From the start, they're setting themselves up for failure-not just with prenups, but also with long engagements and one-year wedding planning. It's the most ridiculous thing. Many don't even seek an institution to learn about marriage. Our Church, at the time, prepared us very well. I would say no to your proposal since it's actually the status quo that has brought us to this crisis today. I prefer mine.
All well and good but with the courts so biased against men and how women in the internet age are not as committed to loyalty and working things out as men are.....I recently told my 20 year old son that a prenup is advisable to protect yourself. I have seen too many good men lose everything in a divorce without enough time to make it up.
@@blw3169 yes, I’ve heard this too. I don’t think there’s the reverence for marriage today as there once was also and too much on “what can I get”. I wouldn’t advise against a prenup. I hope sharing our story can inspire some good, however. 🙏🏻
Are you still married?
@@bbmw9029 Yes! Happily!