Remember gentlemen, everyone has red flags. You have to know which ones to walk away from and which ones are tolerable. If you're looking for a unicorn (perfect girl) good luck with that.
No one is “ perfect”, yes that’s true. But that doesn’t mean that everyone has red flags. People can get angry, argue, get upset, struggle to communicate. This is normal. This has nothing to do with red flags. We are all human and have flaws. Yet, there’s a difference between mistakes and literal red flags that are indicative of someone who is NOT relationship material. Here are some red flags: Narcissists, gold diggers, emotionally damaged women, girls with unresolved trauma, masculine women, abusive women, girls who abuse alcohol and other substances. promiscuous girls, etc. ( red flags have to do with serious internal issues). Here are green flags: feminine, faithful, values sex, nurturing, modest, chaste, humble and empathetic. Emotionally stable and giving. Not everyone has red flags. If you come across girls who display red flags then you need to change your environment, raise your standards and develop a more abundant way of thinking. There’s good women out there and bad ones. Learn to be on the lookout for the good ones. In other peoples eyes we may have red flags. We are all entitled to our own standards and we can all choose what we are willing to tolerate or what we don’t want in a partner. It comes down to your principles and values. As long as you are masculine and righteous your standards for women will remain high.
@@RelearningRelationships Thanks for expanding. When I say everyone has red flags I mean mistakes as well. Not that they're the same thing but I know some guys will interpret it as such. So everyone has made mistakes not to be mistaken for red flags.
Thank you as well for explaining what you meant in more detail. I agree 100%. Everyone makes mistakes! It’s important to distinguish between mistakes and red flags. Very true!!
@@RelearningRelationships Yes and what you pointed out as red flags are HARD red flags. NOBODY should get with a person that has those characteristics/background.
Hi Mr Christian.Another big sign a woman is promiscuous which I mostly noticed is that she has lots of male friends in her contacts & especially her social media.
Yes and no. Some girls have male friends that they “ use for free attention” whilst other girls will use them for sex. Regardless. A male friend is a sign that she is an attention seeker. There’s many other less obvious ones “ she’s a party girl” “ she abuses drugs and alcohol”. Etc. In this video I covered the most obvious and direct signs. Greet to hear from you Terry! I hope you’re doing well.
Another great cast. I would go one further - Men are encouraged to think that women who have had multiple sexual partners have value because they are to be regarded as mature, open minded, worldly and experienced. It's like saying to someone that there are advantages to smoking crack compared to that of snorting cocaine...
Well for me, I'd rather have solid evidence, well it's right to ask her first some questions, but if she fail to answer these questions as the way I expected her to answer, and if my gut is telling something's off, then I would really put time and effort on catching her cheating, It's time to make her feel that I have given all my trust in her, but secretly planning a scheme to witness the truth.
They have blogs teaching them to tell the ive only had 2 boy friends lie lol. You will never know what she has been doing. Maybe in the break up when she is angry and tells you or during the marriage one you have bee tricked
Any tips for a virgin guy that's in early 20s. The feeling of not dating is always killing me and if I find someone in future I don't want them to have more body counts, but that's seem impossible, all of this puts me in some sort of dilemma I have severe social anxiety (now working on it), I'm introverted, and porn addiction from age 10 has pretty much destroyed me teen life, In college I had at least 6 girls that had crush on me, many of them shown it overtly, I ignored them all due to nervousness. I've been on semen retention for more than 3 years, working out, staying healthy, I'm doing everything for my personal development and social skills, I can control my lust to from any extremes, but thinking about all these girls with high body counts, bad past, it makes me feel hopeless of finding a good mate
Sounds like you’ve done a lot of work on yourself. You should be proud that you have kept your purity. The fact that those girls were crushing on you gives you an indication that you are attractive so that can be an advantage for you! Don’t worry about “ the wrong women” Go to modest venues, traditional events and church. These are going to be the best places to meet a woman that has godly morals. If not, at the very least, frequent locations or go do things that you love and you’re more likely to come across a girl that is likeminded. Get used to talking to strangers. At the gym, grocery story, slowly build your confidence by having friendly conversation with those around you. There are good women out there. You get what you focus on! Put yourself out there and be patient.
Don’t bother asking any questions because they will lie. Just open your eyes. Watch her. Look at her friends. Are her friends promiscuous? Are her best friends guys? Is her Snapchat score high? Does she drink a lot? Does she have a belly ring, nose ring, tattoos on her lower body, etc. If you know what to look for, you don’t even need to bother with certain questions because most questions can be answered without asking. Run Run RUN…. they will destroy your life
Do you think a girl who had a lot of boyfriends when she was in high school could had sex with all of them? Or do you think it's possible she only had sex with one boyfriend that she was serious with? This is what my gf told me but since I've never had a gf in high school I have no idea what boyfriend/girlfriend relationships were like in high school. Are most high school relations, especially the young ones, mostly just abstinate relationships.
My girlfriend told me something this weekend. Her ex cant get it up, so he brought men to her to have sex. Also he made her do things with them. She went along with it. She feels guilty and regrets it. Crying. She 53, me 57.
Uhhh....Viagras been around for quite some time now. Let me guess, her ex watched right? Hate to say it but something else entirely was going on. How much she was privy to it is the question now. If you're a straight shooter decent non-degenerate normal guy and she's fallen for you she may be ashamed and giving a semi truth of what happened. Remember, you'll never find a divorced woman that will tell you she's divorced because she cheated. Or if she did then it's because her ex was a monster. They will skew the story to minimize what they did wrong.
One huge RED flag is, if she is into alternative lifestyles. If she is Bisexual or into bondage she’s probably been around the block a few times.
Remember gentlemen, everyone has red flags. You have to know which ones to walk away from and which ones are tolerable. If you're looking for a unicorn (perfect girl) good luck with that.
No one is “ perfect”, yes that’s true. But that doesn’t mean that everyone has red flags.
People can get angry, argue, get upset, struggle to communicate. This is normal. This has nothing to do with red flags. We are all human and have flaws. Yet, there’s a difference between mistakes and literal red flags that are indicative of someone who is NOT relationship material.
Here are some red flags: Narcissists, gold diggers, emotionally damaged women, girls with unresolved trauma, masculine women, abusive women, girls who abuse alcohol and other substances. promiscuous girls, etc.
( red flags have to do with serious internal issues).
Here are green flags: feminine, faithful, values sex, nurturing, modest, chaste, humble and empathetic. Emotionally stable and giving.
Not everyone has red flags. If you come across girls who display red flags then you need to change your environment, raise your standards and develop a more abundant way of thinking.
There’s good women out there and bad ones. Learn to be on the lookout for the good ones.
In other peoples eyes we may have red flags. We are all entitled to our own standards and we can all choose what we are willing to tolerate or what we don’t want in a partner. It comes down to your principles and values.
As long as you are masculine and righteous your standards for women will remain high.
@@RelearningRelationships Thanks for expanding. When I say everyone has red flags I mean mistakes as well. Not that they're the same thing but I know some guys will interpret it as such.
So everyone has made mistakes not to be mistaken for red flags.
Thank you as well for explaining what you meant in more detail.
I agree 100%. Everyone makes mistakes! It’s important to distinguish between mistakes and red flags. Very true!!
@@RelearningRelationships Yes and what you pointed out as red flags are HARD red flags. NOBODY should get with a person that has those characteristics/background.
Amen brother
Hi Mr Christian.Another big sign a woman is promiscuous which I mostly noticed is that she has lots of male friends in her contacts & especially her social media.
Yes and no. Some girls have male friends that they “ use for free attention” whilst other girls will use them for sex. Regardless. A male friend is a sign that she is an attention seeker.
There’s many other less obvious ones “ she’s a party girl” “ she abuses drugs and alcohol”. Etc.
In this video I covered the most obvious and direct signs.
Greet to hear from you Terry! I hope you’re doing well.
@@RelearningRelationships You too Mr Christian.
It’s very likely dudes are hanging around for a reason
Another great cast. I would go one further - Men are encouraged to think that women who have had multiple sexual partners have value because they are to be regarded as mature, open minded, worldly and experienced. It's like saying to someone that there are advantages to smoking crack compared to that of snorting cocaine...
Promiscuous women are not relationship material. The only men that see girls who sleep around as mature are horny men with no standards.
This was a perfect explanation, especially the very end.
Well for me, I'd rather have solid evidence, well it's right to ask her first some questions, but if she fail to answer these questions as the way I expected her to answer, and if my gut is telling something's off, then I would really put time and effort on catching her cheating, It's time to make her feel that I have given all my trust in her, but secretly planning a scheme to witness the truth.
This video is thought provoking
It’s facts
They have blogs teaching them to tell the ive only had 2 boy friends lie lol. You will never know what she has been doing. Maybe in the break up when she is angry and tells you or during the marriage one you have bee tricked
It’s sad that you think all women are like that. If you’re so afraid of not being able to find or trust a good woman, then you should stay alone
Such a huge decision, great words
Solid advice
I believe women with lots of tats tend to be promiscuous.
In some cases
Most of the times yes
Great video, apart from the statement that "feelings and emotions aren't important". They are...
“Besides the S is silent” ☑️
Any tips for a virgin guy that's in early 20s. The feeling of not dating is always killing me and if I find someone in future I don't want them to have more body counts, but that's seem impossible, all of this puts me in some sort of dilemma
I have severe social anxiety (now working on it), I'm introverted, and porn addiction from age 10 has pretty much destroyed me teen life, In college I had at least 6 girls that had crush on me, many of them shown it overtly, I ignored them all due to nervousness.
I've been on semen retention for more than 3 years, working out, staying healthy, I'm doing everything for my personal development and social skills, I can control my lust to from any extremes, but thinking about all these girls with high body counts, bad past, it makes me feel hopeless of finding a good mate
Sounds like you’ve done a lot of work on yourself.
You should be proud that you have kept your purity. The fact that those girls were crushing on you gives you an indication that you are attractive so that can be an advantage for you!
Don’t worry about “ the wrong women”
Go to modest venues, traditional events and church. These are going to be the best places to meet a woman that has godly morals.
If not, at the very least, frequent locations or go do things that you love and you’re more likely to come across a girl that is likeminded.
Get used to talking to strangers. At the gym, grocery story, slowly build your confidence by having friendly conversation with those around you.
There are good women out there. You get what you focus on! Put yourself out there and be patient.
@@RelearningRelationships Thank you, appreciate your advice :)
If you want to reach out to me privately I could give you more personalised advice :) -shoot me an email
Never ever marrie a woman like this
Don’t bother asking any questions because they will lie. Just open your eyes. Watch her. Look at her friends. Are her friends promiscuous?
Are her best friends guys?
Is her Snapchat score high?
Does she drink a lot?
Does she have a belly ring, nose ring, tattoos on her lower body, etc.
If you know what to look for, you don’t even need to bother with certain questions because most questions can be answered without asking.
Run Run RUN…. they will destroy your life
Do you think a girl who had a lot of boyfriends when she was in high school could had sex with all of them? Or do you think it's possible she only had sex with one boyfriend that she was serious with? This is what my gf told me but since I've never had a gf in high school I have no idea what boyfriend/girlfriend relationships were like in high school. Are most high school relations, especially the young ones, mostly just abstinate relationships.
It’s different for everyone. You just need to make certain that the woman you’re with has integrity
My girlfriend told me something this weekend. Her ex cant get it up, so he brought men to her to have sex. Also he made her do things with them. She went along with it. She feels guilty and regrets it. Crying. She 53, me 57.
That’s extremely messed up.
Uhhh....Viagras been around for quite some time now.
Let me guess, her ex watched right?
Hate to say it but something else entirely was going on. How much she was privy to it is the question now. If you're a straight shooter decent non-degenerate normal guy and she's fallen for you she may be ashamed and giving a semi truth of what happened.
Remember, you'll never find a divorced woman that will tell you she's divorced because she cheated. Or if she did then it's because her ex was a monster. They will skew the story to minimize what they did wrong.
@@jros4057 Yeah, I agree with you.