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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

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  • @preetiiiiii134
    @preetiiiiii134 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    01. Give yourself some breathing space
    02. Meditate
    03. Think about it from the perspective of 10 minutes - 10 months - 10 years
    04. Journal it out
    05. Identify the tasks needed to be done and sort them out on the basis of priority
    06. Move your body (Exercise, Take a Walk, Stretch)
    07. Reframe your perspective
    08. Remember its not the end of the world
    09. Zoom out as much as possible.
    10. Ask necessary questions
    11. Prioritize and Let Go
    12. Make a NOT To-do list
    13. Breakdown your task into smaller bits
    14. Practice grounding
    15. Remember that you are doing great

  • @ja642
    @ja642 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I always think about if anyone will read my journal 🙃and feel so embrassed

    • @Godddd144
      @Godddd144 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same that's why I've put strong boundaries
      Do not touch my notebooks at all

    • @Ladyrosethewitch
      @Ladyrosethewitch ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That's why I've never done journaling. Not cause I feel embarrassed but my thoughts are safe in my head, putting them down is risking someone reading them, and I'm a very private person with trust issues 😂

    • @RoRoMajor-Win
      @RoRoMajor-Win ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sometimes I burn or shred them afterward. That feels really good too. You can also dispose of a note by putting it in a plastic grocery bag and pouring milk on it. After a day in the trash, no one will ever try to open it and read your notes! They’ll all be smudged and stick together and it will smell horrible 😂

    • @hanako1884
      @hanako1884 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too , that's why I'm not completely honest when I'm writing..

    • @-lovecassy_333
      @-lovecassy_333 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You could just hide it between your mattresses. At the end of the day, journaling isn’t for everyone but to say your embarrassed is pretty invalidating to yourself. You are valid on how you feel and should feel safe enough to be 100% honest with yourself.

  • @jamyllemendes8588
    @jamyllemendes8588 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Today was so exhausting... this month is not what I expected

  • @ChannelDaisyOk
    @ChannelDaisyOk ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "You are doing great, you are enough!!" Thank you for kind words 🥰

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!! ❤️❤️

    • @linzhao2235
      @linzhao2235 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lavendaire I'm in my early 20s and I'm struggling with these mental thoughts. Worrying about my 8-5 job tomorrow, I get bored doing that job. I could care less about what my boss and coworkers think of me. All I want to do is clock out at 5 and go home. I think I am still young, just lost. I've been trying so hard to figure out MY LIFE. My parents have never been successful in their lives. They played it safe, worked worked worked, bought a house in their early 40s and now they're both nearing 50 years old, if everything goes well they have less than 30 years left on this planet. And they didn't get anything out of it. And they expect me to do the same.

  • @moniquea2497
    @moniquea2497 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    1. Give yourself breathing space 2. Try the 10-10-10 rule 3. Journal it out 4. Move your body 5. Reframe your perspective 6. Prioritize & let go --> have a "NOT-to-do List" 7.Break down big project into smaller tasks 8. Grounding ❤❤❤

  • @disgursting_shattt6441
    @disgursting_shattt6441 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was feeling so overwhelmed and suddenly I saw this video 💜

  • @RAHAstudio23
    @RAHAstudio23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a timing ❤️❤️thank you for making this video.

  • @staysunny1136
    @staysunny1136 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am literally in the process of making a video about slowing down and processing your emotions! That is crazy! Thank you Aileen for all the sweet reminders. ❤😇

  • @hosiljonjorayev4162
    @hosiljonjorayev4162 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am preparing for exams, I was constantly comparing myself, but after watching your videos I was literally calmed down, Thanks ❤

  • @penumakaXfamily
    @penumakaXfamily ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really need this right now thank you so much 💝

  • @Idontcountmistake_yiiee
    @Idontcountmistake_yiiee ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this is a great timing! i planned that to have a life reset on the next month but i feeel so overwhelmed that I don't know where to start ! Love the idea of the 10-10-10 rule. I'll definitely try it now!

  • @SarahNicholls
    @SarahNicholls ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love the idea of the 10-10-10 rule. Fantastic video! Thank you.

  • @heysabo
    @heysabo ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This came at the perfect time. Thank you so much for this video Aileen ❤😊

  • @Carmi15
    @Carmi15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, I really needed this video right now❤

  • @des1993
    @des1993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking to my soul right now. I really needed this today. 💖💖

  • @honeybunnybunny1958
    @honeybunnybunny1958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video 🥹

  • @StopLookandListenwithSamantha
    @StopLookandListenwithSamantha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing, great tips. I like that you go over multiple options. I find it's helpful to have a variety of tools that help me regulate my mind and body because one day a technique may work and the next day, not so much.

  • @katerutka5547
    @katerutka5547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Thank you for this amazing video! This helped so much!❤

  • @etheltantiado8855
    @etheltantiado8855 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this. Thank you so much! 🙏🏼

  • @euonymph
    @euonymph ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aileen always comes in clutch. Exactly what I needed for the end of the month. Thanks Aileen 🫶🏻

  • @cindyborcherding8927
    @cindyborcherding8927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful video as always. Thank you!

  • @ElviraVik
    @ElviraVik ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this video and listening to your wonderfully soothing voice already helped me to calm down. Thank you, Aileen💛

  • @jasmingrewal4141
    @jasmingrewal4141 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Aileen, very helpful. You confirmed what I wss thinking and doing. Thank you very much, have a good day

  • @itsdaksha
    @itsdaksha ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful video, thanks Aileen ❤❤

  • @theonly_Taera
    @theonly_Taera 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. I needed this.

  • @coffeeperson1461
    @coffeeperson1461 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you I am overwhelmed by not reaching what I wanted in 5, 10, 15 years and knowing how soon it really is before you don't have 10 years for long term plans

  • @Sharmamai293
    @Sharmamai293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really needed this!!!❤

  • @cynthiasmith2334
    @cynthiasmith2334 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for positing the Notion video a couple weeks ago because I have been more panicked than ever about my future, but your planning system really helped me break everything down and feel a little more confident in myself. Can't wait to watch this video too!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh yay! Happy it helped ☺️

  • @ellicamayebauyon6911
    @ellicamayebauyon6911 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is very timely 🥺 thank you so much Aileen love you since day one ❤❤❤

  • @hmklegend2791
    @hmklegend2791 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video came at the right time, thank u Aileen💕

  • @alison5009
    @alison5009 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, great timing!❤

  • @AHuve
    @AHuve ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I desperately needed this, I need to watch it a fourth time 😂❤❤ thank you ❤

  • @Nadinedw21
    @Nadinedw21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video came exactly on time ❤️ thank you lavendaire ❤️

  • @promilamardy7821
    @promilamardy7821 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wasn't overwhelmed but thanks for these tips❤

  • @angelapadilla9595
    @angelapadilla9595 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love your content Aileen!

  • @cliffordcaluza7415
    @cliffordcaluza7415 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great, thanks Aileen for the insights on this video.😁

  • @adaobi199
    @adaobi199 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you truly!

  • @GlaizaJournals
    @GlaizaJournals ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nature definitely helps me. I love going to a park and sit on the bench or grass and just breathe in the fresh air. I do journaling too. ❤

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you a lot
    Have a great weekend 👍

  • @ColorOfCozy
    @ColorOfCozy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video autoplayed at the best possible time. Out of nowhere I got hit with this wave of sadness, and I needed to just take a step back❤❤

  • @SmritikanaNath
    @SmritikanaNath ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks needed this❤❤

  • @Ethreally_Pretty
    @Ethreally_Pretty ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was crying rn 😭 because of the same reason and you uploaded this- 🤧 thank you 💗

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoy Lavendaire videos I always get inspired here 🥰 Positive vibes to everybody here!

  • @user-oq8ko1pn3b
    @user-oq8ko1pn3b ปีที่แล้ว

    These is value bombs, thank you for this, you don't have any idea how this so much helpful to me to realize such things,,love you lovely!!

  • @tisha77
    @tisha77 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much needed !!

  • @mnkitchen6033
    @mnkitchen6033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Lavendaire......This video will be very helpful for me.

  • @vinzzr9907
    @vinzzr9907 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a Game changer ❤

  • @ranadmadi
    @ranadmadi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this woman

  • @hsj.124
    @hsj.124 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi guys I'm so sick with cold,cough,eyes throat ears pain,I feel disconnected from this world I'm resting since three days,still not recovered fully, please pray for me.

  • @dianetvlogs
    @dianetvlogs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    after watching this made me feel so safe, idk your like my third mother. I feel at ease and calm whenever i watch you. Thank you so much for changing my life. Your one of my biggest inspirations.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much for sharing this love 🌸 i appreciate you!

  • @DhritiS-ip2yx
    @DhritiS-ip2yx ปีที่แล้ว

    i feel better now seeing her and this video

  • @SonicaSuon
    @SonicaSuon ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Aileen 💗

  • @Itz_shanshan12
    @Itz_shanshan12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do really have stress sometimes because of my family always want me to succeed in life and my goal is to work hard in school and get degree I've always wanted to work in a job space to earn good money & I would invest in a lot of things your videos taught me to let go of certain things in my life Thank you for that ❤🙌🏽🙏🏾😀😊

  • @sharlenematel701
    @sharlenematel701 ปีที่แล้ว

    Miss your videos. I love to watch of your video 😍 i feel relax when im watching you 😊 take care and God bless 🤗

  • @thelovelyrhythm74
    @thelovelyrhythm74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i need it now. As a teacher, i am always overwhelmed with work.

  • @this_is_me_ishie2591
    @this_is_me_ishie2591 ปีที่แล้ว

    The idea of 10-10-10 is interesting, I think I will use this😊❤

  • @annebellamy
    @annebellamy ปีที่แล้ว

    I can do this now till do things in life i love this journey ❤️

  • @stephyedo3481
    @stephyedo3481 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this video alot

  • @babiioffgun1835
    @babiioffgun1835 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @ainauyoon4438
    @ainauyoon4438 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Aileen,i m following u from 2 years n just love ur content.its v calming n to the point always.
    I want to start stretch exercise,can u plz guide me some suggestion for a begginer 😊

  • @mpdcm
    @mpdcm ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you make a video about cultivating a secure attachment style. I feel that there are a lot of resources describing the different attachment styles but no one really talks about how to heal and become secure. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @chatterati
    @chatterati 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely video

  • @meerkat8
    @meerkat8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    mi meta es curarme del burn out y mejorar mi salud mental para volver al trabajo y conocer gente pero siento que es como una gran muralla imposible de escalar , hacer pequeños pasos no lo habia considerado pero me ayudo este video

  • @matthewsandia
    @matthewsandia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive lost just about 40 lbs over the past 12 months. Life changing

  • @smooth61
    @smooth61 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that emoji

  • @mirzanadiafateema7107
    @mirzanadiafateema7107 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am feeling this way just now.

  • @gusley..5953
    @gusley..5953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As i grow up i feel so depressed, lonely, searching something that will fill my lonely soul .. i don't even know where my life is leading to 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @new_girl237
    @new_girl237 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a question. I feel depressed and mentally bad. Is it good to have one week just enjoying my life and coming out of my comfort zone and then planning for my coming months in a better mood?

    • @isabelle_anna
      @isabelle_anna ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! Wishing you lots of strength!

  • @RoRoMajor-Win
    @RoRoMajor-Win ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been suffering from crippling overwhelming. So much that’s it’s hard to do anything. I have been working on it and I’m getting much better. Thanks for this video! It’s great timing with the path I’m on

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending love to you ❤️

  • @aizamalubag-rondera1990
    @aizamalubag-rondera1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Aileen. Your videos motivated me alot... It guided me on how to love myself again.. are you a Phycologist?

  • @thelionwithin7848
    @thelionwithin7848 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you do a guided night meditation?

  • @asonagavlog4274
    @asonagavlog4274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video 👍👍👍🤍🤍

  • @frantyozorawattilete4742
    @frantyozorawattilete4742 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @Jasmine_Blinks1999
    @Jasmine_Blinks1999 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been there before and still going through it

  • @ShahzodaKodirova-vu3tu
    @ShahzodaKodirova-vu3tu ปีที่แล้ว

    So meaningful content as usual 😊

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi loves, if you'd like to go deeper in your personal growth journey with monthly live workshops with me & expert guests, join our Dream Life Club program: lavendaire.com/DLC
    Would love to connect & grow with you there!

  • @pipiiongg.3641
    @pipiiongg.3641 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you're on a state of feeling overwhelmed and saw this video.😢

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace ปีที่แล้ว

    "Order your soul. Reduce your wants" -Augustine of Hippo

  • @purnatikaentertentsalyan9223
    @purnatikaentertentsalyan9223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allow me to love you😮

  • @funnytv-1631
    @funnytv-1631 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “We live as though there aren't enough hours in the day, but if we do each thing calmly and carefully, we will get it done quicker and with much less stress.” - Viggo Mortensen
    You are able to bring more of yourself when you concentrate. As the day progresses, you may realize how quickly you accomplish tasks when you slow down to give them your undivided attention. In the words of Viggo Mortensen, “go slow to go fast.”

  • @afshanmansoor5306
    @afshanmansoor5306 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tried for 3 months not much change

  • @mari23_13
    @mari23_13 ปีที่แล้ว

    What can I do if I hate exercise? 😅

    • @vivian_h_
      @vivian_h_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      honestly, you have to start doing it to learn to love it. doing quick (10-15 min) HIIT workouts sucks at first, but you will get used to it and even crave it soon enough. the hardest part is getting started but you will be so happy you started exercising.

    • @mari23_13
      @mari23_13 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@vivian_h_ thank you for the advice ❤️

    • @vivian_h_
      @vivian_h_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mari23_13 of course, and good luck on healing and nourishing yourself

  • @phyuphyarsoe6919
    @phyuphyarsoe6919 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel so lonely

  • @BeyzaByza
    @BeyzaByza ปีที่แล้ว

    Did We not expand for you, (O Muhammed), your breast?/ And We removed from you your burden/ Which had weighed upon your back/ And raised high for your repute/ For indeed, with hardship (will be) ease/ Indeed, with hardship (will be) is/ So when you have finished (your duties), then stand up (for worship)./ And to your Lord direct (your) longing
    Surah Al Inshirah

  • @jennieapple0173
    @jennieapple0173 ปีที่แล้ว

    im overwhelmed bc i keep seeing so many racist or ignorant people online :(

    • @jennieapple0173
      @jennieapple0173 ปีที่แล้ว

      but i know people online are like this but its still hurt

  • @RylanBonnev1e
    @RylanBonnev1e ปีที่แล้ว

    It always feel like you post the videos I need in the moments I need them the most.. thank you for this one 🫶

  • @Erin-ut7vv
    @Erin-ut7vv ปีที่แล้ว

    Extremely needed this today🩷

  • @EduFiChandigarh
    @EduFiChandigarh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @carlosm8912
    @carlosm8912 ปีที่แล้ว