Thank you, Adam. My little grandson is a cancer rising. He is so sweet and sensitive and going through a little rough patch in school right now. When I visit with him, we always take a little trip to the park and afterward go have ice cream. We have a special little bond ever since he was born, and I had the pleasure to watch him while his mom and dad were working. I would take him on walks every day, and we would find little treasures along the way; a beautiful leaf, fragrant rosemary, a stick, etc. I always end our visits with a special little saying, " I love, love,love ,love YOU!
I am a Leo with Cancer rising and I am listening you describe the dream childhood I wish I had. I would have loved caring for a pet & just had a very warm loving relationship with my mother. Unfortunately, my father was an alcoholic and they fought a lot and when they weren't fighting she was very stressed, worried & preoccupied. I remember always feeling unloved, neglected and lonely. I cannot imagine what type of a person I would be today if things had been different. 8 suffer from anxiety & depression and I believe its because I wasn't having my extra sensitive needs met when I was little. When you describe the mother/daughter dynamic for Cancer I just get all relaxed & comfy just imagining what it would have been like, and I am 60 yrs old. My grand daughter is a Leo sun (born on my birthday!) And has Virgo rising. I plan to listen to both Leo & Virgo in this series and use the knowledge you have shared. It can make such a huge difference in the life of a child. Thank you so much for sharing your gift and your knowledge. In this case, you may be changing lives in a very big way! 🙂✌️
The part where you talked about helping cancer children recognize their emotions is very important, because it can get overwhelming pretty quickly. I think I would add to that that we can also help them differenciate between their own emotions/feelings and those of others, that they often also feel. It took me a long time to figure out that what I was feeling, was not always mine, and it would honestly have been a life saver if someone thought me this from a young age.
Couldn’t agree more. Not until my 50s did I realise that the main issue is overwhelm, feeling too much of everything - and not having been supported to learn how to manage that. It is also very confusing to be feeling others’ feelings and not knowing that.
Ah! As a former Cancer kid (Sun & Venus in the 9th) who grew up in an ashram setting that preached detachment from family bonds…! I have come to understand those teachings as toxic, but especially detrimental to long-term attachment issues… I practiced “Attachment Parenting” as an adult and continue to learn more about early childhood development and attachment theory. Thank you for giving me this insight for my own inner child 🙏🏼💗🙏🏼
Lot of spirit, North node, Ascendant, and lot of fortune all within 5 degrees of one another in Cancer ♋️. Listening to this pulled on my inner child’s heart string. I remember trying to find things to collect as a young age, took a few collections till one stuck- Crystals. My mom donated my stuffed animal collection without asking me (age of 8) and still reminded her of this trauma today lol. My father was a gardener and my happiest memories were playing in the garden. I have learned to nurture these aspects mentioned for myself as an adult. Gardening is a passion and love collecting plants.
My mom did a similar thing with my stuffed animal and my Barbie collection. I was mortified! It really hurt when she decided one day that my younger sister (7 years apart) could just have them. Even though I didn't play with them anymore they were mine and I took very good care of them. My sister was rough with them all. Barbie & Ken usually had their heads ripped off or an arm chewed off due to the dog. I really cannot even describe how I felt. I had forgotten all about that until I read your comment. 8 feel like everyone commenting on here is feeling Adams words & insights and it's bringing out the inner child in us all. Very nice :)
Thinking of my mom and her childhood especially while listening... she is the case study for everything you have said here today. She is the hermit crab, but also the bonder. She embodies both - and has lived alone now for 44 years, moving to different cities and creating her home wherever she goes. After her cancer battle early in adult life, she is has come to understand how to best to use and love her Cancerian qualities. As her child, and having grown up in the military moving every 1-2 years, my siblings and I have always appreciated her ability to make 'home' wherever we are. My son's mate shares her birthday - 50 years apart. Love this series, thank you.
As a mom to a son with Sun & Mercury in Cancer 8th house and Equally myself with Venus & Mars in the 12th house Cancer, I really love this talk. I find it not only being great for raising Cancer children but wonderful as well for shadow or inner child work. Thank you. What a resplendent series.❤ All of “Society” 😆 needs this series. 💜✨
Lovely to hear this ,such a tender appreciation and understanding and approach . Really gentle and insightful , me to a tea ,ive never heard anyone be so understanding and supportive of us crabs . I have 3 planets including my moon and also my acendent in cancer . I know even more why i listen to you now . Very tender understanding.
There is moon in Cancer in the 9th house of my chart. Every one of your words have been reassuring and absolute in perfection for me . I carried a stuffed animal to school that sat by my side into the grade of 5th. I had an extremely ruff upbringing. Sex crazy, alcoholic mother, father left me with her because she had tried to kill herself. Such is life. I had perfect honours in my studies with scholarships/ apprenticeships to to Oregon Ballet Theater. I performed for Barishnikov ( the great Russian dancer). I so I intensely loved the father of my son to the degree that I confused him and he would leave me regularly, but then he would come back crying to my window screaming my name like Marlin Brando in”Streetcar Car Named Desire” in the rain. Such is life for moon in Cancer. Now I have lived many years only with my son. I feel I could possibly be to demanding with my 13 year old sons attention and approval.I expect him to be like me, though I believe you have awakened my thoughts to the possibility that I should cool down. He is pieces raising with Gemini Mars and Venus. You taught me much about how to be a better parent and you also taught me about my difficulties as my individualal ways. Thank you Adam.
I’m a cancer rising myself but I see these things so clearly in my youngest (7 y/o) who is as well. She wants to be part of the conversation so makes up stories to offer during a conversation to assimilate to other’s experiences. I’m carefully addressing this one. She absolutely has strong bonds to her belongings and has an impossible time letting anything go. She and I are very close as I feel I just get her. Though I need more patience when it comes to her difficulty with transitions. “Just do the thing that you’re supposed to do! “ I realize it’s counterproductive to rush her. I was always one to collect shiny objects and will loos it if I don’t have at least a semblance of sanctuary. Lots to think about here!
As a mom of a cancer survivor, I cannot thank you enough for sharing this! We are working so hard to help others going through the same thing… Such great content… Thank you!
Good stuff. I have Cancer in 3rd and 4th house and my Saturn is in Cancer. With studying self this is likely my hardest placement along with Chiron in Aries. I'm an only child lost my father at 22 and growing up my moms moto was I'm not raising you to keep you and you have to learn to play by yourself. I hated being alone. She said she did this because she knew she would not be here forever and she wanted me to be OK alone. I am pretty much a loner but finally comfortable in it. Never married no children so as I get older that feeling of not having anyone linked to your flesh has been hard. Realizing my purpose took a long time especially not being able to bare children. I'll be 48 this year and finally have peace. My Saturn returns in 2032 I think and I prepare patiently with love
I am enjoying these parenting tips around the Zodiac! What's interesting is that we are always children and there is always an inner child alive in everyone. I tuned in here with an ear open for the Moon that was just in Cancer on Wednesday, it made a personal aspect to my Saturn 28 of Cancer on the 7th House of partners (indeed the Aries Solar eclipse has activated my anaretic degree cardinal T square). I wrote down your 5 parenting tips to help me on working with what I call my "Death Mother" placement. Tip #4, Emotional Independence really struck a cord. As we know, because Adam runs down rulership very well, that Saturn is in his detriment in the sign of Cancer (Saturn is also my ASC ruler) and as another astrologer put it, emotions are too crystalized here. I recognize that I have built up a strong self protective coating where emotions are concerned. I've been working on this and what's interesting is that my Cancer rising friend recently passed along a book entitled, "Attached. The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love" by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, M.A. She told me that I was the "Avoidant Attachment Style", the one that keeps love at arms length. I haven't read the book yet but one thing that jumped out was a behavior of "masking self-reliance for independence" it says that a strong belief in self-reliance can be more of a burden than an asset...anyway, I said all of that to say, that a Cancer gave me a book about being attached...her style is opposite that of mine, I'll stop trying to tell her to be more like me and support her attachment style, lol. These Archetypes are real.
I resonate with the traits you described regarding attachment styles (or should I say lack thereof). I've always pushed men away especially, but friends too, covering up just how difficult it all is inside for me. I am going to have to get that book.
This talk is about 50 years too late for me. As a Sag sun/Scorpio parent of 2 Cancer rising daughters, well need I say more. My saving grace is my Cancer moon but still it was not enough for them. Perhaps this talk will help others with my placements. Thanks Adam.
My 2 year old son is cancer sun and rising 💕 and I am a cancer moon. Thank you for this talk. My son and I are in tune mentally so much. I think for us, emotions can be so heightened in moments of stress that we end up overloading eachother. Somehow finding our own protective shell from our deep attatchment to eachother is important. Im still trying to figure that out. We are completely addicted to eachother
Emotional regulation is important for water signs. I think it’s good to encourage ways to channel powerful emotions so they can be supportive and constructive. Encouraging detachment is necessary at times, and is part of that regulation, because we can become overwhelmed, retain more pain than we should. We can also be overly impressionable and misguided, or easily discouraged; we have to learn to value our own insight and autonomy. When we draw inspiration from our empathy and our sensitivity and use it to guide us to loving and constructive actions, we have the ability to do very powerful things. Like a river cutting through stone. Cancer rising conjunct Vesta, Aries Sun w/ Mars in Aquarius in the 7th. Moon in Pisces trine Pluto. Had a Cancer mother, as well. Learned a lot of lessons in life so far about detachment and emotional regulation. Another thing I’d add that is good for Cancer children is to teach them to both develop their inner world, while also bringing it forth to benefit others. Also teach them to cultivate their innate powers of observation. My mother always encouraged reading and art, and taught me to think deeply about things.
My 20 month old and I are both Cancer moons. Our happy place is the local pool. She cries when we leave and we just sit in that sadness together. I say “we feel sad, we will come back, bye bye water” and she says “bye bye wawa” over and over. We’re working on our transitions ❤
Oh wow I love this. Really agree with the attachment part! I don't have any cancer in my chart, my moon is in capricorn, generally my chart isn't very moist... And I do struggle with a lack of attachment. Not appreciation or excitement or love, I have plenty of that going on, but attachment to particular things/people is something else right... I've somewhat accepted that this is just who I am and I'm sure it comes with some positive sides, but forming strong bonds is difficult for me, takes a long time and is not a really strong factor in my life. My daughter has the moon in her first house and I feel she is yearning for that kind of attachment to others and we really struggle in providing the circumstances so that this can develop. It's very strong within us as a small family, but in terms of forming friendships or attachment to certain objects we're not extremely good at supporting her there. It's my every day resolution to improve that... I feel it will be good for me as well. ❤
Thank you! You’ve validated that I’m raising my cancer sun and moon baby the way he needs! My Venus is in cancer in the 4th house and we have a deep bond ❤
So accurate ! I am cancer ascendant 😌 mars cancer in 12th and saturn cancer in 1st … Pluto in 4th on IC opposite sun in 10th … well I wish people would read some astrology … thank you for sharing 😌
Another amazing episode and so many nuggets hitting home as a Cancer rising here. I was somewhat grabbed if you will with a big astrological hug and so grateful I had the love, affection and tenderness of my grandparents growing up, as my own single parent, toughened mother and my absent and cold father reinforced my self esteem challenges, add in my Chiron in Aries, but that’s another rabbit hole all together. So healing! All the themes you highlighted thoroughly resonated! Thank you Adam!!! 🙏🦀✨💖♋️
Thank you so much for your thoughts! I have an Aries Sun, Cancer Rising son and there is so much emotion in that little body. Its so easy for him to get overwhelmed. As parents we've been working on validating his emotions and finding healthy ways for him to discuss what he's feeling. Also, breathing exercises, stepping away to deescalate when needed. With school, he was such a shy kid we got him into a smaller school (recognizing its not always an option) and after two years with the same students he's finally able to come out of his "shell" a bit more. Also separation anxiety at night, he'd wake up with nightmares and some minor accidents. We got a very loving cat that now sleeps with him at night. He's slept soundly since then. Phew!
such great tips to keep in mind for my little Cancer Rising niece, ruled by a Cap Moon opposing her ascendent at 0 degrees.... her birth time is exact as well.. this video was very insightful, I also had some lovely moments of self reflection as a Scorpio Asc ruled by Mars in Cancer. thanks Adam!
Hey, I’m a cancer survivor and soon I’m going to be giving tips for parents of children with cancer ❤ and how my parents helped me beat it with a positive mindset
Thank you! I needed some extra courage to listen to this but I guess this is an excellent time to reflect on these things when moon is in Cancer and we are in between eclipses. I’m a ♋️Sun and ♋️ Venus with Cap moon and my daughter is a Cancer Sun and Asc. Motherhood nor daughterhood haven’t always been easy for me and now that my daughter is a teenager, things are spicy again. In the end, she’s the apple of my eye. Btw I’ve always related to little mermaid 🧜♀️
Very helpful and insightful ❤ My son 6, Cancer Rising. I love bonding with him. However, he can be highly emotional. It can get annoying at times😅 But I understand because I'm Cancer Moon🤷🏽♀️
My little ♋️ bub is nearly 3. 00°00 ♋️ sun. 00°55 ♋️ rising. 14°55 ♋️ mercury. She's ended up with the nick name "baby mumma" because she's just so maternal. And feircly maternal. She kisses me on the forehead like she's the mum. She's amazing
Oh my goodness ; yes, am cancer rising , cancer Venus . I am a lone parent of two boys now 11.5 and 14 , finding it hard to be with a cop aren’t that doesn’t cop parent or wish to be a friend . Mother is dead ( 2010;), no living family . I love gardening and have a dog and like the home space to flow and that’s when I’m at my most content but also my worst when things feel tough with doing it all alone . Always struggled with a sense of belonging and definitely attached myself to various music scenes and my friends are really important . I loved living in shared accommodation in my 20s . Being a divorcee feels hard and my new partner is triple Virgo and doesn’t understand my need for self nurture , especially when I’m on my childfree tone and wish to go into my shell to explore and be with my rich inner life . The severed family ( especially with the father of my children feels like I’ve had a limb severed ; in fact I spent 4 weeks in bed with inflamed nerve endings around my heart chakra and armpit/ shoulder/ neck and couldn’t move it when he announced he was leaving . His inability to see or support my creative nurture with my children as babies, during the passing of my mother and my high sensitivity and sadness at this time made me go eve more into my shell. Thanking you for putting this out x
Really great video! My youngest is a Cancer rising.. I am also dating a cancer sun whose moon is conjunct ketu, he was actually born the day after you lol .. its very helpful for me as Im an aquarius sun and rising and Im not reflective and have difficulties with attachements (saturn in cancer)
Iv a daughter of the solitary nature, tho friends she has from school she's on with studying healthcare, with her thinking psychology with youths would be cool.
I'm so glad you mentioned transitions! It wasn't until recently that I realized the importance of the awareness of my feelings during these shifts (even something as simple as changing rooms). 🤍
Thank you, Adam.
My little grandson is a cancer rising. He is so sweet and sensitive and going through a little rough patch in school right now. When I visit with him, we always take a little trip to the park and afterward go have ice cream. We have a special little bond ever since he was born, and I had the pleasure to watch him while his mom and dad were working. I would take him on walks every day, and we would find little treasures along the way; a beautiful leaf, fragrant rosemary, a stick, etc. I always end our visits with a special little saying, " I love, love,love ,love YOU!
I am a Leo with Cancer rising and I am listening you describe the dream childhood I wish I had. I would have loved caring for a pet & just had a very warm loving relationship with my mother. Unfortunately, my father was an alcoholic and they fought a lot and when they weren't fighting she was very stressed, worried & preoccupied. I remember always feeling unloved, neglected and lonely. I cannot imagine what type of a person I would be today if things had been different. 8 suffer from anxiety & depression and I believe its because I wasn't having my extra sensitive needs met when I was little. When you describe the mother/daughter dynamic for Cancer I just get all relaxed & comfy just imagining what it would have been like, and I am 60 yrs old. My grand daughter is a Leo sun (born on my birthday!) And has Virgo rising. I plan to listen to both Leo & Virgo in this series and use the knowledge you have shared. It can make such a huge difference in the life of a child. Thank you so much for sharing your gift and your knowledge. In this case, you may be changing lives in a very big way! 🙂✌️
The part where you talked about helping cancer children recognize their emotions is very important, because it can get overwhelming pretty quickly. I think I would add to that that we can also help them differenciate between their own emotions/feelings and those of others, that they often also feel. It took me a long time to figure out that what I was feeling, was not always mine, and it would honestly have been a life saver if someone thought me this from a young age.
I LOVE this comment! I didn't catch it on the first listen, but I love this point. It's definitely an important thing for Cancer people to learn!!
So true!
Couldn’t agree more. Not until my 50s did I realise that the main issue is overwhelm, feeling too much of everything - and not having been supported to learn how to manage that.
It is also very confusing to be feeling others’ feelings and not knowing that.
Ah! As a former Cancer kid (Sun & Venus in the 9th) who grew up in an ashram setting that preached detachment from family bonds…! I have come to understand those teachings as toxic, but especially detrimental to long-term attachment issues… I practiced “Attachment Parenting” as an adult and continue to learn more about early childhood development and attachment theory. Thank you for giving me this insight for my own inner child 🙏🏼💗🙏🏼
I too practiced attachment parenting ; it was at odds with my partners’ views x
Lot of spirit, North node, Ascendant, and lot of fortune all within 5 degrees of one another in Cancer ♋️. Listening to this pulled on my inner child’s heart string. I remember trying to find things to collect as a young age, took a few collections till one stuck- Crystals. My mom donated my stuffed animal collection without asking me (age of 8) and still reminded her of this trauma today lol.
My father was a gardener and my happiest memories were playing in the garden. I have learned to nurture these aspects mentioned for myself as an adult. Gardening is a passion and love collecting plants.
My mom did a similar thing with my stuffed animal and my Barbie collection. I was mortified! It really hurt when she decided one day that my younger sister (7 years apart) could just have them. Even though I didn't play with them anymore they were mine and I took very good care of them. My sister was rough with them all. Barbie & Ken usually had their heads ripped off or an arm chewed off due to the dog. I really cannot even describe how I felt. I had forgotten all about that until I read your comment. 8 feel like everyone commenting on here is feeling Adams words & insights and it's bringing out the inner child in us all. Very nice :)
If everyone used these tips deal with and understand not just children, but everyone they encounter, the world would be such a better place
Totally! The series could be for Children or the Inner Child of each sign.
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Thinking of my mom and her childhood especially while listening... she is the case study for everything you have said here today. She is the hermit crab, but also the bonder. She embodies both - and has lived alone now for 44 years, moving to different cities and creating her home wherever she goes. After her cancer battle early in adult life, she is has come to understand how to best to use and love her Cancerian qualities. As her child, and having grown up in the military moving every 1-2 years, my siblings and I have always appreciated her ability to make 'home' wherever we are. My son's mate shares her birthday - 50 years apart. Love this series, thank you.
Thank you, Adam. -from a Cancer sun, rising, mars, mercury with moon in the 4th!
Hermit crab here with Cancer everything, with just enough dysfunction to make me funny instead of moody.
As a mom to a son with Sun & Mercury in Cancer 8th house and Equally myself with Venus & Mars in the 12th house Cancer, I really love this talk. I find it not only being great for raising Cancer children but wonderful as well for shadow or inner child work. Thank you. What a resplendent series.❤ All of “Society” 😆 needs this series. 💜✨
Lovely to hear this ,such a tender appreciation and understanding and approach . Really gentle and insightful , me to a tea ,ive never heard anyone be so understanding and supportive of us crabs . I have 3 planets including my moon and also my acendent in cancer . I know even more why i listen to you now . Very tender understanding.
There is moon in Cancer in the 9th house of my chart. Every one of your words have been reassuring and absolute in perfection for me . I carried a stuffed animal to school that sat by my side into the grade of 5th. I had an extremely ruff upbringing. Sex crazy, alcoholic mother, father left me with her because she had tried to kill herself. Such is life. I had perfect honours in my studies with scholarships/ apprenticeships to to Oregon Ballet Theater. I performed for Barishnikov ( the great Russian dancer). I so I intensely loved the father of my son to the degree that I confused him and he would leave me regularly, but then he would come back crying to my window screaming my name like Marlin Brando in”Streetcar Car Named Desire” in the rain. Such is life for moon in Cancer. Now I have lived many years only with my son. I feel I could possibly be to demanding with my 13 year old sons attention and approval.I expect him to be like me, though I believe you have awakened my thoughts to the possibility that I should cool down. He is pieces raising with Gemini Mars and Venus. You taught me much about how to be a better parent and you also taught me about my difficulties as my individualal ways. Thank you Adam.
I’m a cancer rising myself but I see these things so clearly in my youngest (7 y/o) who is as well. She wants to be part of the conversation so makes up stories to offer during a conversation to assimilate to other’s experiences. I’m carefully addressing this one.
She absolutely has strong bonds to her belongings and has an impossible time letting anything go. She and I are very close as I feel I just get her. Though I need more patience when it comes to her difficulty with transitions. “Just do the thing that you’re supposed to do! “ I realize it’s counterproductive to rush her.
I was always one to collect shiny objects and will loos it if I don’t have at least a semblance of sanctuary. Lots to think about here!
As a mom of a cancer survivor, I cannot thank you enough for sharing this! We are working so hard to help others going through the same thing… Such great content… Thank you!
Good stuff. I have Cancer in 3rd and 4th house and my Saturn is in Cancer. With studying self this is likely my hardest placement along with Chiron in Aries. I'm an only child lost my father at 22 and growing up my moms moto was I'm not raising you to keep you and you have to learn to play by yourself. I hated being alone. She said she did this because she knew she would not be here forever and she wanted me to be OK alone. I am pretty much a loner but finally comfortable in it. Never married no children so as I get older that feeling of not having anyone linked to your flesh has been hard. Realizing my purpose took a long time especially not being able to bare children. I'll be 48 this year and finally have peace. My Saturn returns in 2032 I think and I prepare patiently with love
I am enjoying these parenting tips around the Zodiac! What's interesting is that we are always children and there is always an inner child alive in everyone. I tuned in here with an ear open for the Moon that was just in Cancer on Wednesday, it made a personal aspect to my Saturn 28 of Cancer on the 7th House of partners (indeed the Aries Solar eclipse has activated my anaretic degree cardinal T square). I wrote down your 5 parenting tips to help me on working with what I call my "Death Mother" placement. Tip #4, Emotional Independence really struck a cord. As we know, because Adam runs down rulership very well, that Saturn is in his detriment in the sign of Cancer (Saturn is also my ASC ruler) and as another astrologer put it, emotions are too crystalized here. I recognize that I have built up a strong self protective coating where emotions are concerned. I've been working on this and what's interesting is that my Cancer rising friend recently passed along a book entitled, "Attached. The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love" by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, M.A. She told me that I was the "Avoidant Attachment Style", the one that keeps love at arms length. I haven't read the book yet but one thing that jumped out was a behavior of "masking self-reliance for independence" it says that a strong belief in self-reliance can be more of a burden than an asset...anyway, I said all of that to say, that a Cancer gave me a book about being attached...her style is opposite that of mine, I'll stop trying to tell her to be more like me and support her attachment style, lol. These Archetypes are real.
I resonate with the traits you described regarding attachment styles (or should I say lack thereof). I've always pushed men away especially, but friends too, covering up just how difficult it all is inside for me. I am going to have to get that book.
This talk is about 50 years too late for me. As a Sag sun/Scorpio parent of 2 Cancer rising daughters, well need I say more. My saving grace is my Cancer moon but still it was not enough for them. Perhaps this talk will help others with my placements. Thanks Adam.
My 2 year old son is cancer sun and rising 💕 and I am a cancer moon. Thank you for this talk. My son and I are in tune mentally so much. I think for us, emotions can be so heightened in moments of stress that we end up overloading eachother. Somehow finding our own protective shell from our deep attatchment to eachother is important. Im still trying to figure that out. We are completely addicted to eachother
Really beautiful and thoughtful perspective on parenting. Thank uou❤
Emotional regulation is important for water signs. I think it’s good to encourage ways to channel powerful emotions so they can be supportive and constructive. Encouraging detachment is necessary at times, and is part of that regulation, because we can become overwhelmed, retain more pain than we should. We can also be overly impressionable and misguided, or easily discouraged; we have to learn to value our own insight and autonomy. When we draw inspiration from our empathy and our sensitivity and use it to guide us to loving and constructive actions, we have the ability to do very powerful things. Like a river cutting through stone. Cancer rising conjunct Vesta, Aries Sun w/ Mars in Aquarius in the 7th. Moon in Pisces trine Pluto. Had a Cancer mother, as well. Learned a lot of lessons in life so far about detachment and emotional regulation. Another thing I’d add that is good for Cancer children is to teach them to both develop their inner world, while also bringing it forth to benefit others. Also teach them to cultivate their innate powers of observation. My mother always encouraged reading and art, and taught me to think deeply about things.
My 20 month old and I are both Cancer moons. Our happy place is the local pool. She cries when we leave and we just sit in that sadness together. I say “we feel sad, we will come back, bye bye water” and she says “bye bye wawa” over and over. We’re working on our transitions ❤
As a cancer sun, rising, mars and jupiter this video was really nice and important for my inner child!
Thank you for this, my son has cancer rising, venus, mercury and his moon at 29 degrees cancer!
Oh wow I love this. Really agree with the attachment part! I don't have any cancer in my chart, my moon is in capricorn, generally my chart isn't very moist... And I do struggle with a lack of attachment. Not appreciation or excitement or love, I have plenty of that going on, but attachment to particular things/people is something else right... I've somewhat accepted that this is just who I am and I'm sure it comes with some positive sides, but forming strong bonds is difficult for me, takes a long time and is not a really strong factor in my life. My daughter has the moon in her first house and I feel she is yearning for that kind of attachment to others and we really struggle in providing the circumstances so that this can develop. It's very strong within us as a small family, but in terms of forming friendships or attachment to certain objects we're not extremely good at supporting her there. It's my every day resolution to improve that... I feel it will be good for me as well. ❤
Thank you! You’ve validated that I’m raising my cancer sun and moon baby the way he needs! My Venus is in cancer in the 4th house and we have a deep bond ❤
So accurate ! I am cancer ascendant 😌 mars cancer in 12th and saturn cancer in 1st … Pluto in 4th on IC opposite sun in 10th … well I wish people would read some astrology … thank you for sharing 😌
@@Jannet0476 not the easiest of saturn / mars placements for a cancer rising 😌 but I am sure comes with its positives !
Another amazing episode and so many nuggets hitting home as a Cancer rising here. I was somewhat grabbed if you will with a big astrological hug and so grateful I had the love, affection and tenderness of my grandparents growing up, as my own single parent, toughened mother and my absent and cold father reinforced my self esteem challenges, add in my Chiron in Aries, but that’s another rabbit hole all together. So healing! All the themes you highlighted thoroughly resonated! Thank you Adam!!! 🙏🦀✨💖♋️
Same here. I have Chiron in Aries also, in the 10th. I know what you mean about the parents and self esteem issues.
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Cancer rising, Taurus sun daughter…thank you for the deep dive. I enjoyed the Taurus talk as well.
Thank you so much for your thoughts! I have an Aries Sun, Cancer Rising son and there is so much emotion in that little body. Its so easy for him to get overwhelmed. As parents we've been working on validating his emotions and finding healthy ways for him to discuss what he's feeling. Also, breathing exercises, stepping away to deescalate when needed. With school, he was such a shy kid we got him into a smaller school (recognizing its not always an option) and after two years with the same students he's finally able to come out of his "shell" a bit more. Also separation anxiety at night, he'd wake up with nightmares and some minor accidents. We got a very loving cat that now sleeps with him at night. He's slept soundly since then. Phew!
I am loving this series. It’s helping me learn more about each sign from a very personal perspective.
such great tips to keep in mind for my little Cancer Rising niece, ruled by a Cap Moon opposing her ascendent at 0 degrees.... her birth time is exact as well.. this video was very insightful, I also had some lovely moments of self reflection as a Scorpio Asc ruled by Mars in Cancer. thanks Adam!
Hey, I’m a cancer survivor and soon I’m going to be giving tips for parents of children with cancer ❤ and how my parents helped me beat it with a positive mindset
Thank you I am a cancer and #3 described me to a tea into adulthood.I still collect shells and crystals.
These are great. Also helpful in figuring out how my spouse ticks.
Thank you! I needed some extra courage to listen to this but I guess this is an excellent time to reflect on these things when moon is in Cancer and we are in between eclipses. I’m a ♋️Sun and ♋️ Venus with Cap moon and my daughter is a Cancer Sun and Asc. Motherhood nor daughterhood haven’t always been easy for me and now that my daughter is a teenager, things are spicy again. In the end, she’s the apple of my eye. Btw I’ve always related to little mermaid 🧜♀️
Very helpful and insightful ❤ My son 6, Cancer Rising. I love bonding with him. However, he can be highly emotional. It can get annoying at times😅 But I understand because I'm Cancer Moon🤷🏽♀️
This is so great. Thank you for these insights. ❤
You are the best, thank you 🤍💜💙
"No, but thanks,"
No, not today,"
"That sounds great. Let me think about it and get back to you!"
Love this series. Thanks for sharing
My little ♋️ bub is nearly 3.
00°00 ♋️ sun.
00°55 ♋️ rising.
14°55 ♋️ mercury.
She's ended up with the nick name "baby mumma" because she's just so maternal. And feircly maternal.
She kisses me on the forehead like she's the mum. She's amazing
How sweet! ❤
Thank you so much for this.
Oh my goodness ; yes, am cancer rising , cancer Venus . I am a lone parent of two boys now 11.5 and 14 , finding it hard to be with a cop aren’t that doesn’t cop parent or wish to be a friend . Mother is dead ( 2010;), no living family . I love gardening and have a dog and like the home space to flow and that’s when I’m at my most content but also my worst when things feel tough with doing it all alone . Always struggled with a sense of belonging and definitely attached myself to various music scenes and my friends are really important . I loved living in shared accommodation in my 20s . Being a divorcee feels hard and my new partner is triple Virgo and doesn’t understand my need for self nurture , especially when I’m on my childfree tone and wish to go into my shell to explore and be with my rich inner life . The severed family ( especially with the father of my children feels like I’ve had a limb severed ; in fact I spent 4 weeks in bed with inflamed nerve endings around my heart chakra and armpit/ shoulder/ neck and couldn’t move it when he announced he was leaving . His inability to see or support my creative nurture with my children as babies, during the passing of my mother and my high sensitivity and sadness at this time made me go eve more into my shell. Thanking you for putting this out x
Thank you, Adam, this series is awesome!
Thank you so much. I have cancer rising. Aqua moon in 8,,,, My son is a cancer sun. And sometimes I think that I need to understand him more.
Love this series. Thank you Adam!
Really great video! My youngest is a Cancer rising.. I am also dating a cancer sun whose moon is conjunct ketu, he was actually born the day after you lol .. its very helpful for me as Im an aquarius sun and rising and Im not reflective and have difficulties with attachements (saturn in cancer)
Iv a daughter of the solitary nature, tho friends she has from school she's on with studying healthcare, with her thinking psychology with youths would be cool.
Thankyou ❤ my daughter is cancer sun and moon ☪️ 🌙
Do scorpio please!
Love this series. Can't wait for the Virgo and Sag ones 😆
Im a Leo but i feel much more like a Cancer. I do have Venus in Cancer.
My ☀ is ♋, 🌝 ♑, ascendant 🌎 ♓
My 6 children : ☀ ♐, ♑, ♎, ♌, ♉, ♏
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Sun in Cancer 12th / HermitCrab (just about) incarnate here. Best description of my inner child needs ever. ❤
I'm so glad you mentioned transitions! It wasn't until recently that I realized the importance of the awareness of my feelings during these shifts (even something as simple as changing rooms). 🤍