Just ask a woman if she'd prefer a man who had kids vs. a man who didn't have kids - they'll choose the guy with no kids every time. Ask them if they want a slobbish man vs. an in shape man - they'll choose the in shape man every time. When they're set to the same standards they don't match up to the standards they expect men to possess.
Fat people don’t love themselves that’s why they let themselves go in the first place. I have four kids and I still look the same as I did when I had no kids. My other half just stares at me sometimes and asks me how I do it, and I tell him that I simply don’t have the time to be lazy and fat. I cook fresh meals everyday tend to the kids needs and he’s needs so I don’t even need a gym.
@@honestydaily6018 Its the lifestyle. Always gotta stay competitive...its great u cook fresh nutritious/organic meals...do u fast?...wuts ur fitness regimen? - ru into body building, cross fit, power lifting, calisthenics?
What's up with women with all these tattoos, takashi 69 hair, pajamas and slippers in public, fake lulu lemon yoga pants 24/7, Driving Range Rovers but living in the projects, no half way decent black man wants that.
This man has helped me SOOOOOOO much. I make 7-8k/mo after taxes but my wife recently left me bc "she was bored". She didn't work and took 1-2 classes a semester. She lett and asked for me to pay for rent and tuition............I said hell no. You'll be served soon enough and I absolutely did not want a divorce.
80% of women go for the top 20% of men. When 8 women feel entitled to only 2 available six-figure men, who are 6ft, have ripped abs, confidence and a fancy house and car. the 6 other women end up forced in a position where they have to come to terms with the fact that they aren´t all that. Some hit that ephiphany sooner, some later but defeat is defeat. Then their ego is left bruised and hurt.
Good points on the show. I have female friends who have been proposed to. The guy was not "good enough," at the time and now theses ladies are single in their 40s. Over played their hand for too long 🤷🏾♂️
I went on 3 dates with my girl this week and we noticed how nonblack women always had families at dinner while black women will be in a group of them and kids... no husband in sight.
@sunnyD 22 Where do you see me trash talking? It's an observation. I rarely see black families. Just baby mamas and their 5 kids. As you can tell by my late reply I don't think about BW much at all. I honestly don't even see them that often in real life.
It’s like some of us older folks, 35 and up, have tried so hard to stay young that we’re letting the younger generations set our standards for dating and relationships. It’s working it’s way backwards instead of us teaching them how to date and appreciate one another.
Timbo Slice that is a great observation. In other words stay in your lane. If you really want to stay young keep away from these young people they party all the time and that really ages you 😰😞😣
Facts bro, I told my lil cousin yesterday who is 22 that mine and the generation before mine dropped the ball on them. Because we (as a whole) didn't give the game to them the way it was gave to us. And furthermore technology(I.e. video games, phones, internet/social media) along with social programming and designer drug culture has stunted our mental growth and extended our teenage stage mentality well on into our young adult years. Case in point look at the maturity level of a 17yr old in the 70s compared to that of a 28yr old millennial. That 17y.o. prior to the video game era had a more adult way of thinking than an average 25-30yr old today.
All I have to say is this man the TRUTH!!!!! I'm a black woman and this is TRUTH!!! Love you and your channel!!! Thank you for TRUTH because it is the TRUTH ❤️!!!!!!!! I'm a happily married black woman and sending your topics to my single friends!
Hate I didn’t discover him until he passed. I’m bw with Wm married 20 years. I Worked for the us congress for 18 years so I had a career, owned a home and land in another state. He is an attorney and now I am a stay at home mom and loving it. I’ve met a lot of bw over the span of my career maybe two were like me. I chose to retire and come home to take care of my husband work out clean house and be a wife. Unfortunately what he’s saying is true very few black everyday women like myself get that option. I’m not saying my choices were better but it did work out so far so good. Knock on wood.
It all comes down to how the sexual revolution was marketed to women in the first place and has since. It was all about appealing to their emotions and presenting it as a fight for freedom and fighting the system of patriarchy. It was never about using logic and actually considering if it's actually advantageous for women to have casual sex in the first place. When all of common sense and decades of data proves that the more casual sex women have, the less incentivized men are to make a commitment. Because it's human nature if you can get the same reward for far less effort, you aren't going to make that effort. Men have no incentive to marry women who not only are having sex with men but cohabitating as well giving them all the privileges of marriage without commitment and are shocked, absolutely shocked that this results in less marriage.
@@truthbearer7891 And their grandmothers used to say why would a man buy a cow when he is getting the milk for free. I have come to the conclusion that women have to be treated the same way you treat a child. They are just not that advanced intellectually due to always focusing on emotions.
It was refreshing to hear you say your woman did a 180. I hear so many allegedly intelligent people say 360 instead. Then when you explain to them their mistake, they argue with you to no end.
I would like to say thank you sir for your knowledge..I'm a 53 year old man and its its nothing like hearing the information as a conformation to my way of living..Thank you for not allowing society to change your view points.
It's gotten to the point where it's incredibly difficult to watch KS videos, because I can almost feel my brain cells dying when I listen to what most of the women are saying.
Can someone explain to me these BW who are allegedly interested in nonblack men yet come to BM channels at midnight? There aren't nonblack male spaces you can go to?
I used to go out with a female that was 10 years old one she was 46 and I was 35 and she kept talking about marriage and this woman have 3 kids and I don't have none but for some odd reason me and her had a conversation one night and she thought I was weird just for the simple fact that I am over 35 when no kids and to me I found that very weird I told her she was lucky that she was going out with a man that did not have any kid but she didn't see it that way all she care was about her and her kids so I had to let it go
NEVER EVER EVER DATE THOSE WOMEN WITH KIDS HERE IT IS A TABOO. GET A FRESH CHICK TO GROW YOUR SEEDS NOT ANOTHER MAN SEED WITH AN UNGRATEFUL SINGLE IDOTIC SINGLE AND A DOG for sleeping around and having Children from different fathers. Where I stay she can't even venture outside not to talk of marrying
People are content with getting answers that appease their feeling of discomfort rather than looking for practical solutions to their problem. Most just want their struggles validated- they don't actually want to do what's required to get over the obstacle. Men and women alike. It's a perpetual business opportunity there for anyone willing to tell folks what they want to hear. The audience will never take actual action to get out of the problem, which means they'll always want to indulge in consolation. You'll never be out of a job when you're providing the comfort of the echo chamber. Knowledge doesn't count for shit if it doesn't lead you to results. And results won't happen if you aren't taking action. Do.
I understand the flack KS is getting about his personal relationship past, however, it doesn't change the fact that everything he is saying is completely right. All of us, especially us ladies have been lied to. We've fallen prey to evil, unnatural ideologies that are ultimately harmful to ourselves and our community. Turn off the cable, stop listening to those twitter blue checks, and take a dunk in this cold hard reality before its too late.
So many things I'd like to say. What I will say is, Not only is this great edutainment, your truth makes my head spin so much I am now sharing your content with my 22 y/o and twelve-year-old son. Lost my father at 22 and even though he would drop pearls like this on me, I've learned ( a bit late) my grind is more important than what's between her legs and I have a more discerning eye. Thanks. 👍😉
This man needs his own bible. Lol. Now seriously, Im thrilled that I got to witness someone FINALLY tell the truth to our women. Its obvious they wouldnt listen to us, We have had decades of them telling us what we want and shaming us if we uttered anything otherwise. The whole time they didnt have a clue as to what we actually want, if they did they wouldnt have fake hair, nails, eyes, butts, eyelashes. We NEVER wanted our women to look like that... Ever. Not to mention being overweight in the interim. So salute to the brotha Keven Samuels. FINALLY. FINALLY. FINALLY. Our voices can be heard!
Godfather “there’s money in keeping you single ... he’s paying rent, you’re paying rent”... I never thought about that... keep doing great work of bringing the Black marriage rate up
My brothers have been telling me for years how difficult it is dating black women and I didn't believe some of the stories they would tell me. It is truly eye opening to see how most of these women think and behave. It's really sad to see the mindset of black women these days. My husband would tell me horror stories about some of the women he dated before me and how different i was in comparison. I hope we as black women get it together but watching this videos give me very little hope😢.
Good luck 26 year old Ms. Cincinnati. You got this. You can’t fix what u don’t acknowledge. Your humble spirit tells me you are gonna be just fine. He’s out there be ready.
DAM this brother is SOLID!!!!!!! “You said what you WANT 7 times but never said what you NEED”!!!!! Either we make it happen or we don’t and keep moving- sad reality but in 15 year’s America will have a full society of destitute Sistas if y’all don’t humble down. Men have handled loneliness but y’all have no clue how tough that day will be.
Mr. Samuels is BRILLIANT with these TH-cam video titles! "THANK YOU" for getting these topics out there so that Women can see their situations much more clearly. It's been very obvious to Men for so long. Any sort of constructive or helpful conversation has been totally banned by modern PC culture. Many women do not realize that they have simply become the "Butt of a Bad" life joke. The ban has created many personal and relationship problems and it has lead to so much delusion in modern Female thinking.
1:19:11 Her: "No, majority of men that I have s..." "talked to in my life..." SLEPT WITH... she was about to freudian slip the f*k outta that statement...
Ignore SunnyD, she's on damn near every comment thread on some dumb shit. She's just another one of those bitter BW that's having a tough time accepting the truth.
This is the 2nd older Black woman who was dating a Persian. My best friend is from Tehran. They don’t really mess with BW (or BM) like that. Those women are just playthings.
New sub. The evidence of what this Moreh is saying is truth. Dating sites are bombarded with overweight sisters who are assign a false narrative and value to their profile. A real diamond versus a simulated one... there is a difference. Improve yourself daily and remain humble are keys to success! Great channel my brother.
When women call in to say they've seen it and they now get it, what the OG is talking about, I swear it sounds like angels singing. Accountability is the new sexy
Notice how different they sound? Especially the married ones. They sound happy and content, not like the capaholics that we sometimes hear calling in attempting to be difficult.
Ladies, we all know that some men will say & repeat they want to marry you for as long as you allow them to do so. It's our job to KEEP'EM HONEST! ✊🏽❤️
My ex did that to me ONE DAMN TIME. When I opened the front door and told her ass to go out and get them, since you're a bad bish, she STFU post haste! Call these women's bluffs, and ALWAYS be ready to walk away and NEVER look back. I'm sure my ex could get plenty of men, bit what she realized was that I was the BEST she could get.
@@macplatt6183 That’s some boss shit you did bruh...You’re right, a man has to always remain emotionally detached to a certain extent...that way you have no problem letting her ass go if she gets out of line, and won’t be sad about it.
The lady who was 40 years old and has a 20 year son. She sounded aggresive and sounded very entitled. Kevin is correct about women who are unmarried or divorcved and overweight sounded like she had a bit of an atitude.
The woman who says she’s dating the Persian man...said they discussed moving forward..but doesn’t know if she’d have to meet them? Pssshhh no conversation happened! I can recite almost everything regarding marriage talks from 2 decades ago with my husband. Kevin’s questions are normal and very telling from the answers these women give.
When I was dating black men the past couple of years, their excuses for not being in a relationship/getting married was they were either afraid, not ready, or because of their past failed relationships. Some were high earning men. I was never told it was because of my age or weight. Well after getting tired of all that, I met someone who isn't black and we are now engaged. It's the first interracial relationship I've been in, and is the healthiest by far.
Sounds fishy... so YOU didn't have to change one thing about yourself to be in a healthier relationship? Where they do that at? Just date a white man and problems solved lol.
Marriage favours women , and the loss for men after divorce is real. That's their worst fear cause they've seen what it did to other men,not saying all women are like that but they've seen a guy who thought loved him to death and 1 day she wakes up saying I'm bored I want a divorce and she takes half of what he worked for
Of course they don't tell you "It's because you're old and fat" Lmao Imagine being a grown woman and actually believing that people tell you the truth most of the time 🤣🤣🤣🤣 They say "it's not you it's me", clap them cheeks and run because YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH
You know, i was trying to go with it, but i just couldn't picture, lol...all jokes aside though, in NYC, a lof middle eastern me have delis/corner stores and these dudes will mess with any race
Very underrated comment. I'm meeting women in their 30s who are still scarred from who was not attracted to them when they were 16 in high school. Childhood rejection and feelings of being undesirable are a big deal for many of us BM and BW.
1:19:00 I still remember the day my husband, boyfriend back then, ask me what type of ring I liked! I told the worlddddd it felt like I was so excited 😆 I was 25 then ❤️😊
I'm a happily married white guy and find this channel fascinating. Kevin cracks me up and I cant stop listening. I'm hearing many things that are universal and go beyond minority and mixed race dating. I really enjoy hearing the other side/perspective and seeing someone defend men of color.
fc775 Accept that there will be slim pickings. Don’t go into it with this Disney I love you till the end mindset. Marriages are social contracts. Judge stringently. If she can’t tell you the last three books she read keep stepping. If you can’t have her brothers as your guest at a Country Club keep stepping because they will be your kids Uncles...If her mom is going to be the loud black grandmother on the playground keep stepping. If she doesn’t have a father who she goes out to dinner with a few times a year keep stepping...Me upfront about bullshit you will not accept. The bible says they a good woman is a rare thing and a gift from the lord. It’s true. Majority of women are not worth the time, but I have seen some good ones...Don’t give up! You know that Princeton gives better odds in life than Rutgers so work for a Princeton girl and see what happens. Rutgers girls are 50/50 and is you even look at a third tier girl it’s a wrap.
RisingStar spitting from the survival scrolls! I started looking at the relationship with their fathers. That gives a good indication if it’s worth it to move forward.
It's sad that a desirable successful man like you still has to go through that! Glad to see that you're sticking out for yout children....they are what matters most as they have no choice or say in who their parents are.
I still watch all of his videos as if they're new. Before, I found Kevin I wondered why Black women didn't like my advice and told me I was too nice 😕. Kevin inspired a lot of positive , logic based adult conversation.
Ermmm Persian men tend to marry Persian women even if they date outside their culture....they also prefer family oriented,feminine women who they’re families will accept.
Same as most other men. Was this an attempt to uplift yourself and other Persian women as being more feminine and family oriented? Sounds so. This is not the space for that kind of nonsense. This was a unique case. No threat intended.
@@luro.9773 It was simply in response to many women on this platform who call in stating that they have a “Persian man” not knowing anything about his culture/traditions and not trying to improve themselves to attract men from their own race/culture. I’m simply complying and going along with Kevin’s narrative! What do they know about these men? Why talk badly about Black men?? 🤔
@@marinaabbasi1171 I completely misinterpreted your comment. I apologise. Truer words haven't been spoken about the importance of cultural familiarity to the success of relationships and marriage. Say it louder for the ones in the back. Sad.
@@luro.9773 I really like Kevin’s approach... he’s abrasive at times but he’s simply speaking facts! My cousin sister married an African American man and honestly it’s simply because she personified femininity and kindness, that’s what most men are after but some women can’t introspect and admit their shortcomings 🤐
@@marinaabbasi1171 I honestly haven't been watching Kevin that long. I decided to check out his videos after the ' average at best' video became viral. I thought the message was correct but the delivery was intentionally hurtful towards the women at times. Yep kindness and femininity are what men are looking for. I could only hope that the reason certain African American men don't receive this from select African American women is warrented. It's all around a sad State of affairs. But congrats to your cousin, I'm sure her husband is a happy man to have found a woman like her. A blessing that many men are looking for but not all find. However I can see that African American women are not entirely to blame .. who wants to deal with a certain kind of man? Perhaps the debate will always go on🤦
Single BW at 40+ should be living their best lives and having a great time, no matter the weight (though I do think health and vitality are extremely important). Who cares what men think at that point? However, if you still want a man post-40, it’ll be helpful to follow this advice. And to the 24 year old, he’s right only if you don’t build a good life for yourself financially.
Kevin my man, you forget to include today's ever growing number of simps/weak men! They are responsible in these scenarios, aiding women in being and acting the way they do. We are all doomed, as a society. Thank you for your contribution towards finding ways to deal with that all mess.
Kevin, I just fell upon your videos and I must say, your videos are brutally honest, intimidating and informative...This topic is Real talk!!...And NO women don't have the options they think they have, I'm a woman and, I look at women everyday... it's a Mess out here....just saying.
The 3rd woman, (I think her name is Lola) I hope she finds what she wants because she humble rational and has self accountability plus she’s considering making self improvements. Thankfully she didn’t wait till she’s so old it’s too late but time is still tickin sis xx
So many defensive linemen wearing helmets and dresses these days lmao. Thank goodness I found one who wears her natural hair and is the perfect weight. I ain’t trying to “broken my nose” with no “boss”.😂🤣
Trust me. Smart black women got us when we were in our lare 20s. If you in your mid 30s or 40s it is too late to start. My wife started plotting on me when I was a young 27 year old street dude and undergrad trying to change my life. Now I am 39 and been through it all. Lol. Many of you missed your moment.
1:12:00 185, Single divorced Mom, 185 pounds, 5'6... I'm a white male and wouldn't go near that with a 6 foot pandemic pole. Maybe an easy lay, but dating no, relationship no, marriage (nope).
@2:08:53 She thought she knew what she was talking about and was going to put him in his place, she quickly realized that she was talking to a “Man” and not a “male”!..poor girl🤣
I am a product of a black father and a korean mother.......... a lot of black women need to understand that you do not have the option to MARRY OUT! Y’all should hear how other cultures of women talk about us black women.... they DO NOT want their sons marrying Us💯 I’m not here to argue🤷🏽♀️💯
J Love not bash. That is the wrong word to describe what I am saying. Fact is fact. Things are getting better but stop acting like bw do not get talked down on
J Love being mixed doesn’t mean I’m not black neither. If slavery comes back we all on the same boat so please stop sounding like a victim. That’s not cute
In ancient times what was the purpose and function for the father and or mother choosing who their daughter and sometimes son married? remember people picking who ever they want to marry is a NEW thing. Our ancestors were not stupid.
Women need to learn that being attractive and knowing how to showcase it by handling yourself elegantly in public will attract men, that’s your presentation card sort of speak and of course it’s a value that a woman brings to a relationship but the true value, the value that a man who’s well situated in life in all aspects will give the most importance is the capability of that woman of providing him of the household support he needs to be able to focus in his job, that’s why there’re ROLES and those are different from rights!! Just as he is a successful man, he wants a woman who can successfully represent him not only because she’s beautiful but because she can handle having a nice home (with all that encapsules), be a PLUS to his public persona helping him move socially and raising well his offspring cause trust me he will want his children to be more than okay for sure. Sorry for my long rant, just found this topic so interesting due to the times we are living in.
All was good but you left out peace. Men want women to bring them peace and quiet when they get home. If he has to fight/argue with his woman and fight to make money all day, the woman is useless to him because he can't give up making money but he damn sure can give her up to attain peace and quiet.
Stoic God the peace part it’s imply in the support part, thought it was obvious and for the quiet part you’re bringing up I’m going to assume that you mean not being loud and disrespectful when in disagreement cause if it’s quiet for QUIET that’s impossible cause nobody thinks alike all the time not even you with you’re parents that gave you life and raised you 😉....I grew up watching my mom knowing to choose how and when bring up difficult subjects with my dad so the conversations would be constructive and not fight and what she used to tell us that you can say anything, the difference is in the way and attitude you say it, in my marriage (21 years) so far this philosophy has worked but that’s just us. 🤗
@@claudiapimentel1373 I do mean quiet as in quiet time, or alone time, so he can be in his thoughts. For example, in Caribbean and African (U.S. based) households, when the man comes home, he goes to the dining room table or his fav chair for a drink and the wife usually has his drink ready and, after greeting the children, tells them to leave him alone for now. Quiet time is not only possible but a given in these households. It was a must in mine, as well, and the same goes for my home. Most men just stay in the car, parked outside the home, to decompress before going inside. Ask any man. Ask 5 from a wide demographic, see what they say about decompressing after work (if they're not the type to go to the bar). Peace and support are two different things for men. Support is helping your man out. Peace is giving him the comfort he needs without asking for it.
Stoic God ooh okay, didn’t get it maybe quiet wasn’t the word to use, alone or personal time think would be a better description of what you mean, I’m Dominican and don’t live in the US so for me that’s natural (not even a requirement cause I need it too) like you don’t have to ask for it because we both need our time for ourselves (don’t know why I thought you’ve got that I’m Dominican, my bad...like you said Caribbean households 😉). My husband has like workshop/garage in the backyard where he goes after he comes home from work and I have a study/sport room where I get to see my baseball and tennis without bothering him and that time is sacred cause it actually makes our relationship work even better, the fact that we respect and accept that makes our time together more special cause you’re not forcing interactions, we’re marry not glue together! As for what you say of peace= giving him comfort, of course that’s wrap into the support, support is help/assistance in any way, shape and form and part of that is understanding the stress/worries you have and trying not to add more to your plate, by the contrary lessen them if possible, in my case I do not worry him with house/children stuff at least TOTALLY necessary and just keep him up to date so he doesn’t feel left out. 🤔🤗
Just ask a woman if she'd prefer a man who had kids vs. a man who didn't have kids - they'll choose the guy with no kids every time. Ask them if they want a slobbish man vs. an in shape man - they'll choose the in shape man every time. When they're set to the same standards they don't match up to the standards they expect men to possess.
Lol very true, no woman ever choose's the lesser man. They always choose up
Fat people don’t love themselves that’s why they let themselves go in the first place. I have four kids and I still look the same as I did when I had no kids. My other half just stares at me sometimes and asks me how I do it, and I tell him that I simply don’t have the time to be lazy and fat. I cook fresh meals everyday tend to the kids needs and he’s needs so I don’t even need a gym.
@@honestydaily6018 Its the lifestyle. Always gotta stay competitive...its great u cook fresh nutritious/organic meals...do u fast?...wuts ur fitness regimen? - ru into body building, cross fit, power lifting, calisthenics?
If you ask for them to meet them standards then you bashing bw
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What's up with women with all these tattoos, takashi 69 hair, pajamas and slippers in public, fake lulu lemon yoga pants 24/7, Driving Range Rovers but living in the projects, no half way decent black man wants that.
That is real talk!!!!
Haha, Range Rovers are maintenance nightmares, just like the women who tend to drive them.
@@nvra75 Facts.
Let them tell it somebody likes it
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"I sure do want an over-weight, out of shape, single mother with debt and an attitude" said no man ever.
Trying to sell a broken down old jalopy at new price
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I feel u but u do have leaches out here
I legit had a situation like this, it was toxic and I’m glad it over
Green card.
This man has helped me SOOOOOOO much. I make 7-8k/mo after taxes but my wife recently left me bc "she was bored". She didn't work and took 1-2 classes a semester. She lett and asked for me to pay for rent and tuition............I said hell no. You'll be served soon enough and I absolutely did not want a divorce.
Wow! She didn’t know how good she had it. She took you sir for granted! She will find out what it’s like out there, fending our for herself...
She expected you to still do for her after a break up. I don’t owe you a steak after you leave my restaurant.
I’m sorry to hear that man, she’s going to regret it I promise you!
She'll find out the mistake she made when she's 40 and single.
Bored? Tell her go to an amusement park. These woman always want to be entertained. Worse than children I swear.
And I say again. The culture needs this man. 👊🏿
The whole western culture needs this man !
Yep, and that's why they took him out. Cant have someone trying to help actualize the culture.
80% of women go for the top 20% of men.
When 8 women feel entitled to only 2 available six-figure men, who are 6ft, have ripped abs, confidence and a fancy house and car. the 6 other women end up forced in a position where they have to come to terms with the fact that they aren´t all that. Some hit that ephiphany sooner, some later but defeat is defeat. Then their ego is left bruised and hurt.
🎯 Yup!
GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...
@BULLY_DA_KID agreeable , feminine ( which is natural), friendly. Is nowhere or as difficult to accomplish as what was listed
They settle for "lesser men" and boring marriages.
@@camillenia3886 god isn't real.
Good points on the show. I have female friends who have been proposed to. The guy was not "good enough," at the time and now theses ladies are single in their 40s. Over played their hand for too long 🤷🏾♂️
@@123pb wow, and we only get one shot at this life. I wonder why she did that
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@Big Will 😂 😂 😂
That’s amazing. A woman will date a guy for a year or two but when he proposes they say no.
Total waste of time..
Bingo!🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
I went on 3 dates with my girl this week and we noticed how nonblack women always had families at dinner while black women will be in a group of them and kids... no husband in sight.
Let’s stop with that bull. Single motherhood across white and Hispanic women is out of control too 🤦🏻♂️
@@carloslinares4352 75% is a huge number
@sunnyD 22 Where do you see me trash talking? It's an observation. I rarely see black families. Just baby mamas and their 5 kids. As you can tell by my late reply I don't think about BW much at all. I honestly don't even see them that often in real life.
Chasing Skylines well it takes two to tangle. She didn’t create those kids by herself.
@@janahjill9803 But she had complete control over who entered her body?
It’s like some of us older folks, 35 and up, have tried so hard to stay young that we’re letting the younger generations set our standards for dating and relationships. It’s working it’s way backwards instead of us teaching them how to date and appreciate one another.
Timbo Slice that is a great observation. In other words stay in your lane. If you really want to stay young keep away from these young people they party all the time and that really ages you 😰😞😣
Facts bro, I told my lil cousin yesterday who is 22 that mine and the generation before mine dropped the ball on them. Because we (as a whole) didn't give the game to them the way it was gave to us. And furthermore technology(I.e. video games, phones, internet/social media) along with social programming and designer drug culture has stunted our mental growth and extended our teenage stage mentality well on into our young adult years. Case in point look at the maturity level of a 17yr old in the 70s compared to that of a 28yr old millennial. That 17y.o. prior to the video game era had a more adult way of thinking than an average 25-30yr old today.
great point
I've never heard it said before but it's definitely true on a big level. 35yr olds and upwards used to be more mature than they are now
great observation and wonderful explanation of things goings on!
Man I’m 60 and I’m happy to have my wife of 33 years! Vanity does matter in the beginning !
Salute!
I love how he stops the live when the likes aren't up to par. Buddy don't play bout his business 😂😂😂
All I have to say is this man the TRUTH!!!!! I'm a black woman and this is TRUTH!!! Love you and your channel!!! Thank you for TRUTH because it is the TRUTH ❤️!!!!!!!! I'm a happily married black woman and sending your topics to my single friends!
same sis, same...we feel the exact same way..
So if you were a different "color" would his content be wrong? .. You guys and your Skin Color ideologies are totally irrelevant!!! 😖
Don't do that sis or prepare yourself for New Friends..lol
"Can't tell a nugga shet"
Send it from around the corner.
Have someone else send it...
Hate I didn’t discover him until he passed. I’m bw with Wm married 20 years. I Worked for the us congress for 18 years so I had a career, owned a home and land in another state. He is an attorney and now I am a stay at home mom and loving it. I’ve met a lot of bw over the span of my career maybe two were like me. I chose to retire and come home to take care of my husband work out clean house and be a wife. Unfortunately what he’s saying is true very few black everyday women like myself get that option. I’m not saying my choices were better but it did work out so far so good. Knock on wood.
The Persian man was dating that 40-year-old 200 lb woman to get citizenship status in this country if he brought up marriage point blank..
Well you know in life there is give and take. One hand wash the other. Politicians call it compromise.
Bang!💥🎯 Bang!💥🎯
Can’t make this up a fat chick said this same shit to me on Instagram last week “a Persian guy who owns one of the richest gyms in LA” 😂😂😂
Straight up 😂
I would for that USA citizenship it’s gold lol
i dont get how women said "dont judge us for having sex" but then think giving men sex is supposed to bring commitment..
It all comes down to how the sexual revolution was marketed to women in the first place and has since. It was all about appealing to their emotions and presenting it as a fight for freedom and fighting the system of patriarchy. It was never about using logic and actually considering if it's actually advantageous for women to have casual sex in the first place.
When all of common sense and decades of data proves that the more casual sex women have, the less incentivized men are to make a commitment. Because it's human nature if you can get the same reward for far less effort, you aren't going to make that effort. Men have no incentive to marry women who not only are having sex with men but cohabitating as well giving them all the privileges of marriage without commitment and are shocked, absolutely shocked that this results in less marriage.
@@truthbearer7891 And their grandmothers used to say why would a man buy a cow when he is getting the milk for free. I have come to the conclusion that women have to be treated the same way you treat a child. They are just not that advanced intellectually due to always focusing on emotions.
They use sex for a bargaining tool!
@RayS2able this is funny but very true
Tyrell Johnson so do men
It was refreshing to hear you say your woman did a 180. I hear so many allegedly intelligent people say 360 instead. Then when you explain to them their mistake, they argue with you to no end.
True 😁
"who is this big loud woman here?" I AM IN TEARS
I wish I started listening to this Channel before I turned 20 😔😔😔
Well fine as you are talk to me what do you want in a man and what are you offering?
Saaame girl🔥🔥
20’s a good age to start being aware of these things imo
Well you're on the right track now and you're cute so that's a great plus!
@@supertiger1979 lol yup and thanks 😉
I just can't get enough of this guy's "Ima PhD!" 😂 Gets me every time 😁
That is funny. It's up there with "I got greens, beans, tomatoes, potatoes...."
@@sictoruno2345 you name it! Haha
Where is it from do you know?
I don’t need a cookbook is my favorite!
😂 I'm goin' to hell 😂😂😂
I love his tuba music for overweight women 🤣
That “Good Lies” intro is the new “Godfather” theme😉 Rest in power, brother.🙏🏼
❤ ❤ ❤
Once again, the truth is as solid as the wall, and it remains undefeated
GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...
Still undisputed. FACTS!
YEP!!!!😂😂😂
Once again. Yet again. Forever it shall remain the same.
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I would like to say thank you sir for your knowledge..I'm a 53 year old man and its its nothing like hearing the information as a conformation to my way of living..Thank you for not allowing society to change your view points.
It's gotten to the point where it's incredibly difficult to watch KS videos, because I can almost feel my brain cells dying when I listen to what most of the women are saying.
Can someone explain to me these BW who are allegedly interested in nonblack men yet come to BM channels at midnight? There aren't nonblack male spaces you can go to?
Lol, exactly!
🎯 Exactly!!!
GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...
@sunnyD 22 Because those black women are trolling
@sunnyD 22 Because this is the black Man-osphere! BW who date out always come into black male spaces to talk about themselves dating out the Irony 😂
God, I loved this guy and how I miss him so.
Some of these women audio ain’t crappy they just be trynna think of responses to your questions 🤣
I used to go out with a female that was 10 years old one she was 46 and I was 35 and she kept talking about marriage and this woman have 3 kids and I don't have none but for some odd reason me and her had a conversation one night and she thought I was weird just for the simple fact that I am over 35 when no kids and to me I found that very weird I told her she was lucky that she was going out with a man that did not have any kid but she didn't see it that way all she care was about her and her kids so I had to let it go
You dodged a bullet never date a woman with kids
NEVER EVER EVER DATE THOSE WOMEN WITH KIDS HERE IT IS A TABOO. GET A FRESH CHICK TO GROW YOUR SEEDS NOT ANOTHER MAN SEED WITH AN UNGRATEFUL SINGLE IDOTIC SINGLE AND A DOG for sleeping around and having Children from different fathers. Where I stay she can't even venture outside not to talk of marrying
I believe the woman that says she is dating a Persian man is lying. I don’t think she is dating anyone.
Maybe having sex but that’s about it
She’s getting smashed. This is the 2nd older chick who called in talking about she was a Persian plaything
he is just smashing, but he aint taking her serious
Persians..” lmaooooo
@@cjcalmus3305 Know quite a few blk women freaking A-rabbs...Tricking with them..
PhD stands for Perpetually Highly Delusional
Bingo
I call it Permanent Head Damage
@Micheal..I'm keeping this! Damn..it's good.
“My parents are open-minded”.
Just translate into “You won’t be around long enough to meet them!”
I listen to a cat who had a Persian friend and he said "I ufck your American girls but I'll wife up one of my own"
LoL
People are content with getting answers that appease their feeling of discomfort rather than looking for practical solutions to their problem. Most just want their struggles validated- they don't actually want to do what's required to get over the obstacle.
Men and women alike.
It's a perpetual business opportunity there for anyone willing to tell folks what they want to hear. The audience will never take actual action to get out of the problem, which means they'll always want to indulge in consolation. You'll never be out of a job when you're providing the comfort of the echo chamber.
Knowledge doesn't count for shit if it doesn't lead you to results. And results won't happen if you aren't taking action. Do.
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Bro. You should have just posted that first sentence so this could get pinned. It is gospel. 💯
Whole Ted Talk.Truth 💣
MOST VALID RESPONSE TO DATE. THIS MUST NOW BE THE TOP RANKED COMMENT. Thank you @ Austin Bailey.
@@estebanq.urkelthevxiith8495 damn, this reply felt really good to read. Thanks Esteban 🙏🏾
40 years old, 5'6", & 200lbs?😬 Oh HEEEEELLLL NAW!🤣
U just imagine how everything look with clothes off s.m.h
@@mikeandmars2345 also just imagine some men considered that sexy 🤢🤮
Helll to the naw to the naw naw !
I think she lyin....her answers like she now thinking about it.
She's ran through and dried up, truly knowing that it's over for her.
I understand the flack KS is getting about his personal relationship past, however, it doesn't change the fact that everything he is saying is completely right. All of us, especially us ladies have been lied to. We've fallen prey to evil, unnatural ideologies that are ultimately harmful to ourselves and our community. Turn off the cable, stop listening to those twitter blue checks, and take a dunk in this cold hard reality before its too late.
....Beautifully said....all of it.
That man is becoming a mentor figure fir me. He has got himself together morally and i respect that.
So many things I'd like to say. What I will say is, Not only is this great edutainment, your truth makes my head spin so much I am now sharing your content with my 22 y/o and twelve-year-old son. Lost my father at 22 and even though he would drop pearls like this on me, I've learned ( a bit late) my grind is more important than what's between her legs and I have a more discerning eye. Thanks. 👍😉
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My stepdaughters choose horrible men to date, and then always complain about the dude. No accountability whatsoever.
Third and Long Coaching
My female coworkers do it all the time. Now in their 40's and 50's, they just want a nice guy.
Did you raise them to pick better mates? or are you on yt complaining about the men they date?? .
@@theeladyj you can teach your daughter whatever, she will learn something different from her friends, social media, and television.
@@theeladyj they are grown ass women, THEY are responsible for the men they choose....and no I didn't raise them.
Third and Long Coaching had a lady told me don’t get marry her husband ain’t shit
In front of him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Darn the disrespect:
You're like the dad we wish we had.
This man needs his own bible. Lol. Now seriously, Im thrilled that I got to witness someone FINALLY tell the truth to our women. Its obvious they wouldnt listen to us, We have had decades of them telling us what we want and shaming us if we uttered anything otherwise. The whole time they didnt have a clue as to what we actually want, if they did they wouldnt have fake hair, nails, eyes, butts, eyelashes. We NEVER wanted our women to look like that... Ever. Not to mention being overweight in the interim. So salute to the brotha Keven Samuels. FINALLY. FINALLY. FINALLY. Our voices can be heard!
Godfather “there’s money in keeping you single ... he’s paying rent, you’re paying rent”... I never thought about that... keep doing great work of bringing the Black marriage rate up
all races praise money, they are crazy about money...black ppl not that much...
My brothers have been telling me for years how difficult it is dating black women and I didn't believe some of the stories they would tell me. It is truly eye opening to see how most of these women think and behave. It's really sad to see the mindset of black women these days. My husband would tell me horror stories about some of the women he dated before me and how different i was in comparison. I hope we as black women get it together but watching this videos give me very little hope😢.
Yes!
Were you really suprised though? 🤔
Good luck 26 year old Ms. Cincinnati. You got this. You can’t fix what u don’t acknowledge. Your humble spirit tells me you are gonna be just fine. He’s out there be ready.
DAM this brother is SOLID!!!!!!! “You said what you WANT 7 times but never said what you NEED”!!!!! Either we make it happen or we don’t and keep moving- sad reality but in 15 year’s America will have a full society of destitute Sistas if y’all don’t humble down. Men have handled loneliness but y’all have no clue how tough that day will be.
😂😂😂😂😂💯 this btotha and his sound affects are CLASSIC 💯💪🏾
Mr. Samuels is BRILLIANT with these TH-cam video titles! "THANK YOU" for getting these topics out there so that Women can see their situations much more clearly. It's been very obvious to Men for so long. Any sort of constructive or helpful conversation has been totally banned by modern PC culture. Many women do not realize that they have simply become the "Butt of a Bad" life joke. The ban has created many personal and relationship problems and it has lead to so much delusion in modern Female thinking.
1:19:11 Her: "No, majority of men that I have s..." "talked to in my life..."
SLEPT WITH... she was about to freudian slip the f*k outta that statement...
Hahaha love it to pieces. Too funny.
Some heroes don't wear capes!
I'm glad you time stamped it.
The reality is even if a black woman is 200 pounds no hair with three kids she thinks men who aren’t rich are not valuable.
The Average american football player is 6'2 242 lbs. There are women out here who weigh more than Tom Brady.
@@justshady true thinkin she the shit weighing more than a football player with no equipment on🤣🤣 the nerve of these broads man
Ignore SunnyD, she's on damn near every comment thread on some dumb shit. She's just another one of those bitter BW that's having a tough time accepting the truth.
😂😂😂
😂😂..
This is the 2nd older Black woman who was dating a Persian. My best friend is from Tehran. They don’t really mess with BW (or BM) like that. Those women are just playthings.
Very few non-black men take black women seriously for anything other than playthings any woman who says otherwise is just deluding herself.
He is angling for a green card
@@SA-dc8ny ouch
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid Well that's exactly what bm do so what's the difference? At least bw are treated better by other races of men.
@@politicallyincorrect1546, treated better!? you've clearly not seen or heard the way men of other races speak on black women. Stop deluding yourself.
New sub. The evidence of what this Moreh is saying is truth. Dating sites are bombarded with overweight sisters who are assign a false narrative and value to their profile. A real diamond versus a simulated one... there is a difference. Improve yourself daily and remain humble are keys to success! Great channel my brother.
When women call in to say they've seen it and they now get it, what the OG is talking about, I swear it sounds like angels singing. Accountability is the new sexy
Notice how different they sound? Especially the married ones. They sound happy and content, not like the capaholics that we sometimes hear calling in attempting to be difficult.
Confidence is attractive on men.... being attractive is attractive on women. 24 year old sounding 16 and she's already done
“ settle down there “ - R Kelly
She sound young and asian
nah don't disrespect some us, teenagers, out here😭
Ladies, we all know that some men will say & repeat they want to marry you for as long as you allow them to do so. It's our job to KEEP'EM HONEST! ✊🏽❤️
One of the best entertainment shows around!...the callers are hilarious and the comments are off the chain...lol
That’s crazy hearing this because every time me & my ex got into a argument she always threw in “You know how many niggas want me” 💯
Yea they just want to treat her like a porn star.
My ex did that to me ONE DAMN TIME. When I opened the front door and told her ass to go out and get them, since you're a bad bish, she STFU post haste! Call these women's bluffs, and ALWAYS be ready to walk away and NEVER look back. I'm sure my ex could get plenty of men, bit what she realized was that I was the BEST she could get.
She must have been a white girl.
@@macplatt6183 That’s some boss shit you did bruh...You’re right, a man has to always remain emotionally detached to a certain extent...that way you have no problem letting her ass go if she gets out of line, and won’t be sad about it.
@@tswagg504 that's facts.
That 1st chick was probably lying. If the Persian is real they ain’t dating they just smashing and she don’t know the difference
Praise GOD I found you tonight blew me away I am onboard from now on. Great show
The lady who was 40 years old and has a 20 year son. She sounded aggresive and sounded very entitled. Kevin is correct about women who are unmarried or divorcved and overweight sounded like she had a bit of an atitude.
She was 🧢🧢🧢🧢 with everything she said, she was single AF!!!
The woman who says she’s dating the Persian man...said they discussed moving forward..but doesn’t know if she’d have to meet them? Pssshhh no conversation happened! I can recite almost everything regarding marriage talks from 2 decades ago with my husband. Kevin’s questions are normal and very telling from the answers these women give.
When I was dating black men the past couple of years, their excuses for not being in a relationship/getting married was they were either afraid, not ready, or because of their past failed relationships. Some were high earning men. I was never told it was because of my age or weight. Well after getting tired of all that, I met someone who isn't black and we are now engaged. It's the first interracial relationship I've been in, and is the healthiest by far.
Sounds fishy... so YOU didn't have to change one thing about yourself to be in a healthier relationship? Where they do that at? Just date a white man and problems solved lol.
Marriage favours women , and the loss for men after divorce is real. That's their worst fear cause they've seen what it did to other men,not saying all women are like that but they've seen a guy who thought loved him to death and 1 day she wakes up saying I'm bored I want a divorce and she takes half of what he worked for
Of course they don't tell you "It's because you're old and fat"
Lmao
Imagine being a grown woman and actually believing that people tell you the truth most of the time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They say "it's not you it's me", clap them cheeks and run because YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH
The Persian dude is definitely a figment of her imagination
"Engineer" 😒
Hahahahhaha
It's just sex and pillow talk
On Allah. I mean on God lmao
You know, i was trying to go with it, but i just couldn't picture, lol...all jokes aside though, in NYC, a lof middle eastern me have delis/corner stores and these dudes will mess with any race
I smile every time he does the salute.
HILARIOUS
Everyone is scared of everyone. This is the problem. Emotional traumatic pasts. BM & BW. Period.
Very underrated comment.
I'm meeting women in their 30s who are still scarred from who was not attracted to them when they were 16 in high school. Childhood rejection and feelings of being undesirable are a big deal for many of us BM and BW.
This comment 🏆🏆🏆
This
Facts
Thank You 🙏🏽
1:19:00 I still remember the day my husband, boyfriend back then, ask me what type of ring I liked! I told the worlddddd it felt like I was so excited 😆 I was 25 then ❤️😊
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I was 25 then ❤😊...BUT THANKS TO NUTRISYSTEM 👍
Game 😂
He was your boyfriend before he was your husband? Wow that’s amazing.
I'm a happily married white guy and find this channel fascinating. Kevin cracks me up and I cant stop listening. I'm hearing many things that are universal and go beyond minority and mixed race dating. I really enjoy hearing the other side/perspective and seeing someone defend men of color.
My brother! You can come to the cookout, just leave the potato salad with the raisins home!
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That's sucks... I'm 28 year old brotha looking to one day start a family and get married (hopefully with a black woman) any advice?
fc775 Accept that there will be slim pickings. Don’t go into it with this Disney I love you till the end mindset. Marriages are social contracts. Judge stringently. If she can’t tell you the last three books she read keep stepping. If you can’t have her brothers as your guest at a Country Club keep stepping because they will be your kids Uncles...If her mom is going to be the loud black grandmother on the playground keep stepping. If she doesn’t have a father who she goes out to dinner with a few times a year keep stepping...Me upfront about bullshit you will not accept. The bible says they a good woman is a rare thing and a gift from the lord. It’s true. Majority of women are not worth the time, but I have seen some good ones...Don’t give up! You know that Princeton gives better odds in life than Rutgers so work for a Princeton girl and see what happens. Rutgers girls are 50/50 and is you even look at a third tier girl it’s a wrap.
RisingStar spitting from the survival scrolls! I started looking at the relationship with their fathers. That gives a good indication if it’s worth it to move forward.
It's sad that a desirable successful man like you still has to go through that!
Glad to see that you're sticking out for yout children....they are what matters most as they have no choice or say in who their parents are.
Oh so you kinda ugly huh? That’s ok bro , you got money .. that supersedes ugly a lot of the time especially if you have a good personality
(Persian accent) "Who's this big loud woman here" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Kevin I love you!!
That was hilarious!🤣
@crystal colon Hii 🙃
They would rather die alone than cooperate, improve and be kind.
Man I miss this guy. Still unreal The Godfather is gone. 😔
❤
I still watch all of his videos as if they're new.
Before, I found Kevin I wondered why Black women didn't like my advice and told me I was too nice 😕. Kevin inspired a lot of positive , logic based adult conversation.
This man has a gift.
Girl said, “the majority of me that I slep... Been with..” 😂😂😂😂
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She ran through....worthless!
I love the music you have on your shows! Awesome
So so true, all men from all races love a gorgeous body! Thank you for, yet again, awesome insight, Kevin.
I lost it when he imitated the Persian parents’ voice 🤣🤣🤣
Boi this is scary hearing these women callers.
Exactly
Wait till you hear the men that call in
Sugah Kane I’ve been watching for a while . He’s only had maybe 2 or 3 shows where majority of black men had a right mindset . The rest sounded lost
Sugah Kane yeah. Mostly single mothers.
Not really if you think that’s scary you must don’t talk to enough women. I hear this shit daily & it’s on steroids with black women
Ermmm Persian men tend to marry Persian women even if they date outside their culture....they also prefer family oriented,feminine women who they’re families will accept.
Same as most other men. Was this an attempt to uplift yourself and other Persian women as being more feminine and family oriented? Sounds so. This is not the space for that kind of nonsense. This was a unique case. No threat intended.
@@luro.9773
It was simply in response to many women on this platform who call in stating that they have a “Persian man” not knowing anything about his culture/traditions and not trying to improve themselves to attract men from their own race/culture. I’m simply complying and going along with Kevin’s narrative! What do they know about these men? Why talk badly about Black men?? 🤔
@@marinaabbasi1171 I completely misinterpreted your comment. I apologise. Truer words haven't been spoken about the importance of cultural familiarity to the success of relationships and marriage. Say it louder for the ones in the back. Sad.
@@luro.9773
I really like Kevin’s approach... he’s abrasive at times but he’s simply speaking facts! My cousin sister married an African American man and honestly it’s simply because she personified femininity and kindness, that’s what most men are after but some women can’t introspect and admit their shortcomings 🤐
@@marinaabbasi1171 I honestly haven't been watching Kevin that long. I decided to check out his videos after the ' average at best' video became viral. I thought the message was correct but the delivery was intentionally hurtful towards the women at times. Yep kindness and femininity are what men are looking for. I could only hope that the reason certain African American men don't receive this from select African American women is warrented. It's all around a sad State of affairs. But congrats to your cousin, I'm sure her husband is a happy man to have found a woman like her. A blessing that many men are looking for but not all find. However I can see that African American women are not entirely to blame .. who wants to deal with a certain kind of man? Perhaps the debate will always go on🤦
Bros better stay healthy cause these BW will leave you if something unhealthy happens....I've seen it more than once
Yep. I had major surgery and was on bed rest for a year. She was gone six weeks in.
Sadly, preferring and being attracted to a fit and healthy women is considered "fat shaming" by society (SJW's) today.
Yup. Funny enough you never hear the word shaming when women clown on men for said man's weight or height.
@@kevinlee9929 Yup. It's part of the "female privilege" no one wants to address.
@demetrius reese Of course.
Single BW at 40+ should be living their best lives and having a great time, no matter the weight (though I do think health and vitality are extremely important). Who cares what men think at that point? However, if you still want a man post-40, it’ll be helpful to follow this advice. And to the 24 year old, he’s right only if you don’t build a good life for yourself financially.
As they say “The truth will set you free”.
Kevin my man, you forget to include today's ever growing number of simps/weak men! They are responsible in these scenarios, aiding women in being and acting the way they do. We are all doomed, as a society. Thank you for your contribution towards finding ways to deal with that all mess.
When Kevin gets in his "Lemme go head and help you out" bag lol
These sound affects are insane 😝 i watch KS on my commute to work everyday
Kevin, I just fell upon your videos and I must say, your videos are brutally honest, intimidating and informative...This topic is Real talk!!...And NO women don't have the options they think they have, I'm a woman and, I look at women everyday... it's a Mess out here....just saying.
Hopefully K. Samuels videos can help.
The 3rd woman, (I think her name is Lola) I hope she finds what she wants because she humble rational and has self accountability plus she’s considering making self improvements. Thankfully she didn’t wait till she’s so old it’s too late but time is still tickin sis xx
Many BW are football players, they are that big.
Touchdown!! 🏈 🤣
but too lazy to train and play with their sons so what is the point?
@Sign O the Times yeah and there was a caller who was 200 lbs.
😂😂😂🤣🤣
So many defensive linemen wearing helmets and dresses these days lmao. Thank goodness I found one who wears her natural hair and is the perfect weight. I ain’t trying to “broken my nose” with no “boss”.😂🤣
KS should do a show for ladies 25 and under... They need guidance and advice to move with purpose and direction.... to prevent train wrecks...
Trust me. Smart black women got us when we were in our lare 20s. If you in your mid 30s or 40s it is too late to start. My wife started plotting on me when I was a young 27 year old street dude and undergrad trying to change my life. Now I am 39 and been through it all. Lol. Many of you missed your moment.
1:12:00 185, Single divorced Mom, 185 pounds, 5'6... I'm a white male and wouldn't go near that with a 6 foot pandemic pole. Maybe an easy lay, but dating no, relationship no, marriage (nope).
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Pandemic pole 😨😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Black Women think you will though
Freaking love this.....thank you kevin because of you now I'm free.
@2:08:53 She thought she knew what she was talking about and was going to put him in his place, she quickly realized that she was talking to a “Man” and not a “male”!..poor girl🤣
U mostly see women ending up alone chasing education. U rarely see women ending up alone chasing men🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️😂
Chasing men isn't worth it
@@kangel20 chasing women never good for men
I am a product of a black father and a korean mother.......... a lot of black women need to understand that you do not have the option to MARRY OUT! Y’all should hear how other cultures of women talk about us black women.... they DO NOT want their sons marrying Us💯 I’m not here to argue🤷🏽♀️💯
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sunnyD 22 ???? I’m sorry can you rephrase the question.
sunnyD 22 if you are asking “then why do black families allow their kids to marry out. How about you ask the parents????
J Love not bash. That is the wrong word to describe what I am saying. Fact is fact. Things are getting better but stop acting like bw do not get talked down on
J Love being mixed doesn’t mean I’m not black neither. If slavery comes back we all on the same boat so please stop sounding like a victim. That’s not cute
In ancient times what was the purpose and function for the father and or mother choosing who their daughter and sometimes son married? remember people picking who ever they want to marry is a NEW thing. Our ancestors were not stupid.
Kevin, please stay focused. Don't let people take you off your path
"Who is this big loud woman here?" Lmbo!!!!
That was so on point!!! 😂😂
I know I got a long ways to go so I'll keep looking at these vids. Blessings to everyone.
These days the wall is chasing women
Great show! I miss the old set though. Such a relaxing vibe.
She probably has a Persian cat and she tried to make herself seem as those she has someone outside the race. She doesn't have anybody at all.
Or a Persian rug. Probably a knock off too. LOL
A yooo a Persian cat
Full blooded Persians belong to the Caucasian race. She said she liked all kinds of Caucasians.
Women need to learn that being attractive and knowing how to showcase it by handling yourself elegantly in public will attract men, that’s your presentation card sort of speak and of course it’s a value that a woman brings to a relationship but the true value, the value that a man who’s well situated in life in all aspects will give the most importance is the capability of that woman of providing him of the household support he needs to be able to focus in his job, that’s why there’re ROLES and those are different from rights!! Just as he is a successful man, he wants a woman who can successfully represent him not only because she’s beautiful but because she can handle having a nice home (with all that encapsules), be a PLUS to his public persona helping him move socially and raising well his offspring cause trust me he will want his children to be more than okay for sure. Sorry for my long rant, just found this topic so interesting due to the times we are living in.
All was good but you left out peace. Men want women to bring them peace and quiet when they get home. If he has to fight/argue with his woman and fight to make money all day, the woman is useless to him because he can't give up making money but he damn sure can give her up to attain peace and quiet.
Stoic God the peace part it’s imply in the support part, thought it was obvious and for the quiet part you’re bringing up I’m going to assume that you mean not being loud and disrespectful when in disagreement cause if it’s quiet for QUIET that’s impossible cause nobody thinks alike all the time not even you with you’re parents that gave you life and raised you 😉....I grew up watching my mom knowing to choose how and when bring up difficult subjects with my dad so the conversations would be constructive and not fight and what she used to tell us that you can say anything, the difference is in the way and attitude you say it, in my marriage (21 years) so far this philosophy has worked but that’s just us. 🤗
@@claudiapimentel1373 I do mean quiet as in quiet time, or alone time, so he can be in his thoughts. For example, in Caribbean and African (U.S. based) households, when the man comes home, he goes to the dining room table or his fav chair for a drink and the wife usually has his drink ready and, after greeting the children, tells them to leave him alone for now. Quiet time is not only possible but a given in these households. It was a must in mine, as well, and the same goes for my home. Most men just stay in the car, parked outside the home, to decompress before going inside. Ask any man. Ask 5 from a wide demographic, see what they say about decompressing after work (if they're not the type to go to the bar). Peace and support are two different things for men. Support is helping your man out. Peace is giving him the comfort he needs without asking for it.
Stoic God ooh okay, didn’t get it maybe quiet wasn’t the word to use, alone or personal time think would be a better description of what you mean, I’m Dominican and don’t live in the US so for me that’s natural (not even a requirement cause I need it too) like you don’t have to ask for it because we both need our time for ourselves (don’t know why I thought you’ve got that I’m Dominican, my bad...like you said Caribbean households 😉). My husband has like workshop/garage in the backyard where he goes after he comes home from work and I have a study/sport room where I get to see my baseball and tennis without bothering him and that time is sacred cause it actually makes our relationship work even better, the fact that we respect and accept that makes our time together more special cause you’re not forcing interactions, we’re marry not glue together! As for what you say of peace= giving him comfort, of course that’s wrap into the support, support is help/assistance in any way, shape and form and part of that is understanding the stress/worries you have and trying not to add more to your plate, by the contrary lessen them if possible, in my case I do not worry him with house/children stuff at least TOTALLY necessary and just keep him up to date so he doesn’t feel left out. 🤔🤗
Stoic God P.S.: that’s kind of sad to have to stay in a car to be able to have time for yourself, of course that could drive a man or woman insane!! 😔
Dang it Kevin taking down those red balls man. RIP
Miss you God Father Gone Too Soon !!!! 2023