Why Do 4's Think They Should Get 9's? ©
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- So now being called average is an insult?
Tonight we discuss "When did it become an insult to be average"?
The term 49er is linked to the San Francisco NFL team and the ever growing host of people who are arguably average, but expect and/or demand near perfection.
Women: I want, I want, I want
Men: OK what you got?
Women: Huh? What do you mean?
Men: Good Luck Love
Had to finish that.
Exactly..... Every single time
Why does whoopy goldberg have to be a 4 lol?🤔 Why can she be a 10?🧐🤣🤣🤣🤡 I like whoopy goldberg she is just a funny person. Love her movies!
Men: what you got?
Women: i got older.
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Love your intro music, I don't know how many times I played it back
and love your dancing.
It’s amazing that average women don’t want to settle for men on their level but think high value men should settle for them.
Because they think men should not have standards.
Right
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel LMAO, so average women have the same fame and money as Jay Z?
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel he's more like 3 🤣🤣🤣
@@MsTPick Made me chuckle. LMAO
I am 32. 6'1" fit and I am an electrical engineer making close to 6 figs. I don't consider dating anyone over 27. When I was 24 I was broke and overweight but didn't complain about women not wanting me. I understood. Now that I'm ripped and making good money, I get to be choosy.
That's how it go pimp
Preachhhhhhh that's the reality we were faced with and dealth with.
Hell yeah brotha!!
Keep grinding G!!
💯 I didn’t complain , I understood . Yea king !!
Instagram got them thinking like that. 😂 They think because they're thick they deserve a 9 or a 10. Too many simps in their comment section and DM's making their head big. Smh
😂 cuz they got 10k followers and get some simps liking their comments like their 9's.
*Exactly*
Exactly!!!!
No cap
Word.. 😬
Most women left their HUSBAND in the friend zone.
Average men get left in friend zone
@@cherryblossom9226 ugly people have the most children. So your just playing victim. there are more what they would call ugly people on the planet than not. But like this man said in his video you can’t be a 4 and want a 9. Date on your level of ugly and you won’t be put In the friend zone.
@@ladysaw999 so you think high value men are left in the friend zone lol u must be a average dude thats y u just had to make a comment. Get yo money up sir
@@cherryblossom9226 but your not high value i can tell, So I'm definitely talking about you.
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Married at 20, he works in sheet metal manufacturing. We struggled at times, I stayed home with our kids when they were young. I worked part time weekends and evenings several times to supplement over the years. Now 16 years later, he's tripled his income, we're middle class and happy together. I pity friends and family raising kids with no dad, divorced or never married, lonely. They'll never know the security of having his back and him having your's. Even broke I never even considered leaving my man because he's not "ambitious " enough! My man worked his ass off to provide while I raised kids in an average home with an average car but we've got above average happiness, security, fulfillment and love!
Hope God fulfills both of you and your kids with a lot of love and health
Your a high value women👏🏾
Sorry maam they dont make em like you anymore even when he was broke you. Stood by him awesome not theses bitches these day they are the first ones out
@@Inconnu-00000 I appreciate that, thank you.
Bigups! We can only hope these young women have the vision and humbleness you had and was blessed by doing so.
Her: "How tall are you?"
Him: "How much do you weigh?"
Her: "What? What difference does that make? I'm beautiful at any size!"
Him: "Then what's the difference with how tall I am? I'm handsome at any height."
Nothing But Pure Facts
Alessandra Gabbana And you are obviously a very feminine woman with that demeaning attitude. FYI, that was sarcasm.
Alessandra Gabbana .....pointless talking to little teenager girls.
@@lucypanic7422 what was she saying? she deleted her comment!!
meghali apte She didn’t like the comment and began to make comments about the male commenters without even knowing how they looked like(basically rated them 0s). And then continued to state that feminine women’s respect had to be “earned” from the men.
Black women confuse being sexually desired as being desired as a wife😂😂
That's why so many are babies' mamas.'
Try all women!!
@@matrixRule127 no because other races of women would not get into front of a man in their race let alone a best of them overweight and non corporative!
Big facts!!!!
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The more I watch Kevin the more Thankful I am for the Average Man my husband being one. The value that he brings to the table as a Man, Husband and Father is priceless there’s no amount of money in the world that can buy that.
“What’s so wrong with being Average’?
Absolutely nothing!
I agree
That's my man too!!!
Truly a woman who appreciates her husband, hence why they're together today tomorrow and evermore.
Yeah, do you have any single sisters?
What's a mud duck?
Damn.... it's crazy how you can feel the reality kick in for them.....damn...
SOYciety been selling these 49’s a lie for 50 years now and sending us men the GD bill... I been done
Right....🤣🤣🤣
Good observation. I agree.
“Ladies, you need to look like his income lane.”
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AMEN!
His numbers are a little high for cost of living though. Might apply to expensive districts.. I agree in principle but 80k can raise a family. Most of the vacations will be road trips but if you do have a stay at home wife , no day care, no having to dine out and she should be able to shop around.
@@gwynedd1 I’m sorry but a man can’t raise a family on $80k a year salary. That’s not realistic.
@@gwynedd1 that’s why he ask where are they located ... California is EXPENSIVE ASF... no way 80k can raise a family of 5 here ... that’s $6-8k/month... RENT in LA is 3k alone for an APARTMENT .. yea 200k-300k is min to raise a family here IF your trying to be in a safe neighborhood and live comfortably
His numbers are on point. I'm the youngest of 6 (4 boys, 2 girls). My dad worked overtime regularly as a Metro Bus Driver. My mom was a stay at home mom however she took care of the house. She made sure we were fed, dogs taken care of, children taken care of, discipline top to bottom, yard work, house always cleaned. She kept us all healthy asf and made large meals but we stayed fit and active in sports. My oldest sister was an all american high school athlete in 3 sports. We matured fairly early and I'd say by 7 I was able to pretty much able to take care of myself without supervision.
At that point she went back into the work force. My older 3 siblings went into the workforce as early as possible so around 15 my dad got 3 more incomes b/c he charged us rent when we were able to work. The age gap from youngest to oldest is about 10yrs.
That's a very beautiful and powerful story.
Yes sir, I thought I was only one who had to pay !
And you and your siblings are probably quality people now for it
@@thespacesbetweenstudio3346 No. and that's the truth. There's concious and unconscious thought processes that make people who they are. Your unconscious thought process have more of an impact on your life outcomes than your concious side.
Do poor people with poor decision making skills and example make good decisions in life and typically become finacially rich? No. They generally have a similar life as their parent's or family.
All you have to do is switch that and you'll understand why the rich stay rich and the poor stay poor.
Relationships, Network and Literacy.
I'm figuring it out.
Oldest sister is a single mom.
Oldest brother has 2 baby mothers and a step-dad to another family.
Other sister wasted away her youth, went from 125 and pretty to 230 at least.
Next brother did fair ok, he got stuck for awhile after a girl broke his heart but he's the avg. Joe.
Next brother was hit by a car at 7 and he's never really caught up but he's ok and can function in society at a low level.
Me, I started several businesses, hybrid anti-social, went homeless after a house fire for 2yrs. Didn't complain, figured it out, made near $100k last year under 40 and got back into shape.
My dad is far from perfect. Far as hell from it and not finacially literate nor my mother. Before anyone says money isn't everything, that's true but it's what allows you to aquire time in western capitalist society. You don't work, you don't eat. I had to reset my thinking and entire childhood from 2016 to present.
My point was you can't work your life away. It's very important for all to put themselves in finacial freedom prior to 30 as American's. Your means is what can set that level (different for everyone). Invest in your future early. It's a lot parents can do before their child even hits 15.
You can pay your child a wage up to $12k through a business and fully right it off on your taxes. Goldman Sachs professional brokers will tell you $12k is about the best starting point or more.
@@dct124 thank you for sharing. based on your description of your siblings, we can come to the conclusion that this western standard of dating and relationships is destroying us. all of your siblings have great potential, although what ruined it was these failed relationships. this is something that we as a people need to start discussing. why the media has got us this way, i am not sure. although there is a huge financial benefit to keeping men and women apart. good day.
We men are at fault here, we just give them too much validation.
A lesson worth teaching our sons, nephews and God-Sons
To much since watching this channel I stopped all that noise!
To much simping
Facts. While I don't gas'em up, I know plenty of desperate dudes who do.
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It amazes me how women don't want to work, yet still believe they can call the shots. That's not how it works sis.
Good point lol
@@taneshabland8686 well men don’t want to raise other Mens kids usually
@@taneshabland8686 I misread what you wrote. You’re right I was tripping lol it was late.
@@taneshabland8686 it was the part where you said women were torn down for saying they would work after having kids. You are right and I’ve seen that too. I think I thought you wrote, women with kids already are willing to keep working. Lol my apologies
That’s what I was thinking. I’m sitting here thinking damn I make my own money and even I don’t feel that way. Maybe that’s why they are single I guess
Why do these women call in talking so low ... are they trying to be sexy? Classy? I don’t know but it’s irritating AF👺 can’t nobody hear you!
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LOL they are trying to come off as feminine, soft and non-abrasive because they are scared of him. Because he will use that against them as well when he can lmao.
N slow responding as well,
They talking low because they KNOW they on some BS.
They don’t want their voices to be recognized by someone they know to avoid embarrassment
“You may have lost weight, but that doesn’t mean your face is any better.” iHollered!
Oh so where did he say that at what point on the video.
@@smiles9599 37:30
@@1234tyrano LOL well thats sad you just look like you but better 🤦♀️
I will say that the same woman at a size 2 instead of size twenty will take her halfway to a 10. That doesn't make a 2 a 9, but it will make her a 6. It will make a 6 an 8, it might make a 7 into a 9, though someone that is a size twenty isn't going to be a 7, so take it as you will.
A smokin hot body is worth something.
I've always said the same thing
So many women live in this mindset this sounds like my ex and this is sad . High standards that they can't meet themselves.
Regarding Tattoo's , I'm a corporate buyer, I attend dinners with , vendors, potential clients , and my supervisors, I can not have a woman with me as a dinner companion , whose arms, her back , her neck and her legs , are filled with tattoos, bottom line
So her bottom tattoo is okay 😆
Yup!
I agree. It just doesn't translate well in a corporate environment for men or women. That's just the way it is.
I’m not in the corporate world and I think tattoos are ugly and low class.
If they are not in corporate environments they will not understand what you are saying.
She didn’t even finish college? And talks about ambition?
She doesn't have a job either. These people come on here and get caught up in their own lives.
Facts.
But I thought "college" and degrees was useless for women and specially for black women 🤔. The level of contradiction here is just getting more and more untertaining.
Your ambition, not hers😄 Maybe she will ambitiously love, cook, clean, and screw you. Riiiiiiight?
That's called a college drop out in the real world 🌎 😳
It became an insult to be called average when social media hit and everyone is a "star."
@@Kometheus I see your point on that, but the fact is that's what most people are.
@@Kometheus if that's not you more power to you.
@@Kometheus average isn't an insult when its something that legitimately can't be changed. A 5'10" man is average height. Regardless of how successful he is, he will always be average in that regard. Theres no shame in it. Same with a woman's beauty (talking about face). If she's a 4, then she's a 4 and nothing short of radical and expensive plastic surgery can change that.
@@Kometheus no it's not 😆
This dude got offended by even mentioning being average, just like these women. 😂😂😂
I raised a child alone as a dad through a near depression & pandemic and loved every minute of it. No excuses please!
After watching this I’m truly starting to believe low value women want a high value man so they can be lazy, and eventually divorce him and take half of everything he’s ever had. Not one of these women are looking for a man they are compatible with or has the same beliefs as them. Instead they just want high earning men or super attractive men. These women truly don’t know how to choose a man that’s right for them 🤦♂️
Engineer 76 dre not a billionaire anymore
Engineer 76 facts
DING DING DING!!!
@@zero1188 Dr. Dre was never a billionaire. He didnt own the majority of that co.oany that was. Now Jimmy Iovine probably is/was a billionaire.
@Sirius B Dre is a known woman beater. No matter how loyal or submissive a woman is, she's going to get tired of it eventually.
I make 220k at 41 and I work 2 jobs. I ain’t trying hear ish from no lippy woman. I don’t care how bad she is.
On the real
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You have my appreciation. It's not wise to marry in the USA or live in a common wealth state. The amount of support you would be forced to give in case of divorce would be insane. Stick to companionship and financial security.
Lippy about what ? Having a opinion? Or u mean like nagging & complaining?
May I ask what you do?
Man, I am so thankful that my average ass was able to get an average man (above average IMO because he’s such a blessing) who would have thought that a public school teacher and a retail manager could be such an amazing love story. 🥰
Honey, a high value educated man doesn't want a woman that says "axed" instead of asked. You have to level up. This is what kevin is saying.
I heard Kevin say "axed" instead of "ask" very difficult to change speech pattern without a speech therapist. Maybe he had one at a point but unawares it came come back. Judge Judy mocked a black person on her show for saying "axed" and corrected her. Should had leaned to speak properly in school but some people go thru 12 years of schooling and know nothing. A few weeks before senior graduation an English teacher asked the girl sitting at her desk next to me, "What is a noun?" Her face remained blank and no answer didn't know after years in school. She was a white girl and wasn't dumb just stupid. I hope people understand it is not a race thing it is a stupid thing and people of all races decide to stay stupid. People in the country talk country and some of their ways of speaking difficult to understand especially in Eastern Appalachia. People who want better use opportunities for self improvement and if one is not willing to change they stay stupid.
These women are sad
Get em Dr.
Who cares if someone say axed instead of asked, there are more important things in life than that, if someone is a good and honest person who cares about pronunciation
@@rickrossi7426 that’s the problem, when you lower standards people remain ignorant! Being a good person is a good thing, but basic pronunciation shouldn’t be something that troubles you! Obviously not everyone is going to speak at a high level, but that’s doesn’t mean we should go to far the other way and say that jumbling up speech is a good thing!!
He's got a point. No expectation of privacy if you call in for free advice.
You can't make this up...smh🙄
Plus it’s the law so….
Let me tell all the men in these comments. I've smashed 10s and smashed 4s in dry spells. It got to the point where 4s were turning me down and 7-10s were easier to get. I blame SIMPS for this shit, they gas them up to smash. Go after the badder ones they dont get approached alot and its easier to have conversations with.
Soooooooo True
Won’t lie, this is true.
Major problem, guys with low standards boosting their heads up, combined with a false sense of self worth, mixed in with their own peers giving them the "you deserve" speech.
You just wrote a recipe for disaster!🤣🤣
This comment needs way more likes.
Bro, can you say that a little louder. I don’t think they can hear you in the back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@nicoleriley8171 He is already married or being a sugar daddy 😂
Nicole Riley I’m 53 & I met my man at my last job. He was the director of my company I worked out on the floor in a warehouse & were still together. I may not have made the money he does to match with his but best believe I could get 10 of him if I wanted to. So your friend Is definitely on to something 🥰
You’re a truth teller. These young women want you to sugar coat the truth. Time will teach them the hard way.
As soon as you hit 30 it's ok to be a partner to an average person and build happiness within your bubble.
It's like the worse audition on American idols and giving them a standing ovation.
@@strawberriesanddeath 💀💀💀💀💀
Nah, MY generation (Gen X) doesn’t give men this much validation and play! If you wanna get tattoos, beat your face, DO IT! At the end of the day I don’t live my life to appease a man. My husband will come because the way I present myself is a 10 - period. Even when I’m 31... I’ll be a 10. BABY IN THE GRAVE ILL BE A 10 because I’m pressure.
@@murdermeets if you were so confident, you wouldn’t of bothered writing that trash. Lol your attitude is one of a 2
“Just because a man will have sex with you does not mean he wants to marry you.” 💯💯💯💯
Loneliness out here is real people....human interreaction has been replaced by technology.we as blk people need to interact with one another more . thanksbut yes I catch myself leaving my iPhone at homes on the weekends and jus go out in the community get to talk to as many people as possible . hello good morning . Hello do I Kno you you mind if I can help you with that's.jus small talk and i volunteer in certain places jus to interact with peoples more.great feelin to actually be able to look someone in the eyes and hold a wonderful conversation the body language and eye contact is priceless. human interaction is a must but yes my blk people lets start talking again.
Agreed.
Wtf is with all the “we as black ppl” crap? Why are you so special? Why only black people?
@@GeorgeZimmermen 🤔
@@williamspear7803 answer the question, don’t deflect
@@GeorgeZimmermen what’s understood don’t need to be explained ✊🏿
A black women with lots of money means she’s gonna be single forever. Nobody’s gonna be good enough 🤷🏾♂️
Damn
@Vilfredo Pareto that's a young Whoopi Goldberg
@Vilfredo Pareto sounds personal lol, relax bro.
@Vilfredo Pareto fam what she do to you lmao
True, most likely why I'm single at 35. My patience is low.
"tattoos on a woman = typically an outward sign of inner damage"
That should be on a t shirt
"Tattoos on Women" = "Damaged Goods"
Agreed
I got a tramp stamp when I was 16. Broken. Lmao. I’m good now tho. Got a lil edge ya dig lmao 😂
@@modenaverage aren't you happy guys like this point this stuff out to us lol. thanks, former bitter incels, for the tip. no more tattoos for us. got to hide the pain, keep it pretty.
So a 4 with no money wants a top 1%er.....holy shit. Lol
Reality TV and Simps made these women delusional.
COACH GREG ADAMS. They are 49ners....4s that think they are 9$.
"I eat healthy."
"I only eat the 10 piece McNuggets and a medium fry at Mickey D's."
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It is a healthier choice l😄
Don’t forget the Diet Coke!!
@@darkNovaskar 🤦🏻♂️
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I'm happy you mentioned tattoos on women being a turnoff for men..
Tattoos are trash 🗑 on a females body 😒
Have 2 tats and want more. Then again I don't want high value.
@@LyricalXilence :X
@@LyricalXilence at least you are honest and accept your doing.
They are not
100k at 29 here, I'm learning so much from this channel, most importantly to keep focusing on bettering myself, work ethic, and staying in my own lane.
100k is decent. Show your support for Kevin and the show by joining to become a paying member.
@Brandon Holmes more than decent. Give that man his due respect. The only way is up from there. I just want us to win 🙏🏾👑
Great.keep upholding and being accountable.
I'm a Hispanic man. I am shocked that this is going on in Black culture. But yes, I've seen women put down on their dating profile that they want a man with a high paycheck and fit. But I'm a bad guy if I say I want a fit woman. That's it. No requirements on health or paycheck or education.
"I didnt finish college but he wasnt ambitious enough? and ambitious means i wanted a better lifestyle which means more money and i dont wanna work but i want 2-3 kids". Hahahahahahahahaha. Translation, my parents didnt teach me well and i didnt do my homework on what it takes to live in the real world. So i nagged, bitched snd moaned at a guy who was handling his business enough for me but i wanted the whole world and after 8 years dumped him coz i though i could do better. I was lazy and didnt even finish college but i wanted a slave to go out and work for me while i lay down and give him 3 kids maybe 4 and not even have to work. Hypergamy meter is off the scales.
how does someone even think of leaving an 8yr comfortable relationship. 8yrs is a long time, you can even see how you used to look 8yrs ago, and where does she get the motivation, was it just brewing under the surface all those years or she just woke up one week and thought she deserved better
get of the plantation bro :) and stay awaaaay...far awaaay..
Let’s not fault the parents. Lots of people have parents that raised them well. And thought them well and prepared them as best as they could for adult life. A good amount of those people do the complete opposite of what they where taught. So blame should be placed on the sole individual.. it’s like when you learned curse words and knew you’d get your ass beat if said around parents. But you get to school with your friends and cut up.
Idk if this person was lazy or not but staying at home & raising kids & running a household is no small feat. & when u add the wife working & doing all that in the household is even more to add to the mix. A lot of men expect all that from there wives but can’t reciprocate in the same way. I’ve noticed a lot from men on this platform is very one sided.
@@vibe2248 guys may sound one sided miss valencia but men actually settle down and accept their level when it comes down to it, women on the other hand like standards they cant afford, thats why most of the time Kevin tells them to go back. men talk big but settle for their level, women talk big and actually want whats above them. you never have to sit a guy down and explain to him that he is asking for too much
Damn, 10's gotta be almost non-existent if Pam Grier is an 8!
It is reality. A 10 is a 10 across every single race and between 18-26 ish
10s are Rare Nowadays to be Honest. To be Honest Most '10s' are actually 8s-9s without Makeup.
@@gabrielalele8603 true Pam did it with no make up or trips to the D.R.Just think about some of today's stars like Megan Fox, Nicky Minaj and Jennifer Anniston:s drastic before and afters
Think I've heard him say that 10's are damn near impossible and impractical, so the scale may actually be 1-9 without a 7 🤔
@@jhamp7191 By his description they are. They have to be pre-wall and a consensus no. 1 draft pick amongst all races.
The more of your videos I watch, the more respect I have for not just what you say and how you say it, but how you handle these ladies so well. My hat is off to you, sir.
I just want an average to slightly above average woman who’s level headed, has something going for herself, has skills to turn a house into a home, is reasonable and has realistic expectations, and has enough confidence to not rely on social media for validation. She can hold a conversation beyond celebrities and scripted reality tv. To me the totality is equal to a 10 irrespective if she’s a 5,6 or 7 in looks.
I think most guys on average can agree with this list yet to most women this list is unrealistic letalone a tall order to fulfill. Sadly most women don’t want to be held to any standards thus expect us men to just accept them for who they are. On the other hand they demand and expect men to level up to their ever changing list of requirements.
You'll never fond that thats over expecting unless you are trying to train her
Sir. This is not for the average. This channel is specifically for high value men. No offense at all but if I am working 7 days a week to bring in +160k annually.. even in a pandemic. I didn't accept anything from my wife besides being a physical 9 regardless of her education, attitude, ect. She knew exactly what she was on scale and her father knew exactly what type of wife he was raising. High value people do not settle. It is fine to be average as long as we keep the numbers average. We cannot distort the facts or truth, it harms our community.
@Debbie Morgan If that young man is broke he is not high value unfortunately. He is only of value based on his financial security, wealth, and class. Not typical for a +40yr old.
D. J. That's not the only reason why women are single. I think I'm a pretty great catch and can offer all of the above but just haven't found a person I'm compatible with yet. Some women are single because there's just really not that many quality options out here
@@lil50sgurl13 The world is Too Big and Black Men Too numerous for there not to be enough quality BM. A more accurate phrasing is that "You" haven't met a quality Black Man that "You like" and that likes "You back"!
80% of Sistas are overweight and 80% are not married. 80% of black children are born out of wedlock. They need to get a grip on reality. There are reasons!! We need to work on those problems first. And he made a great point when he said Spanish and White cultures teach their women that they need a man. In our culture its all about single independent women. That mentality is wrong!!
No bullshit gotta start at the root of the problem and that is 1st
@Jerry Lockhart so black men are not part of the problem?
Y’all just pick a percentage and run with it without real statistics 😂
FACTZZZZ
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel they homeless n broke or they just got outta jail. 🤷🏾. Nobody was hunting for that. 😭😭😭
I SWEAR! getting a STRAIGHT answer is like PULLING TEETH!
And being too picky is an understatement.
U don't get straight answers from con artist
@Ronald Morris I like your comment; are you a Dentist ❓
Yeah bcuz they know if they give uh str8 answer, we'll c our their lies & bullsh1t & now they'll actually hafta b accountable 4 their lies & bullsh1t....😂😂😂
Facts
Everything has a long winded answer and a question back. No woman can just answer yes or no and concise. They all need to 'explain' their answers with anecdotal experiences. Its hilarious how they cant even hear themselves talk that bullshit out their mouths. LOL
"I'm not a mud duck". *Plays military salute to honor our dearly departed soldiers* 😆😂😂😂😂😂
Why he do her like that 😆
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Taps Taps Lights Out!
@@macbrebonicks8668😆😆🤣🤣🤣 I get it.
I done died and went to glory when taps played....
Yep, tattoos on a woman (with a nice body) is like bumper stickers on a Ferrari
Exactly tacky and devaluing
Funny, no ones ever said that to me.
@@NickyNthabane well maybe you don't have a nice body fam
@@zealchristian799 I'm built like a typical South African woman, so you tell me... then again men are not the same all over the world.
@@PCProphecy can you imagine me uploading a photo for someone I dont even know. you have my name, and the internet.
Kevin, you might need to get every caller to sign a video and photo consent form before coming on. Protect yourself bro because the bigger you get, they come after you.
Hey don't use my name Kevin. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Brad ain't approaching her seriously. 😁
Seriously I forgot about the whole conversation until Kevin bought it up here.
But now that we're on the topic maybe she just needs to approach guys of a different race ethnicity or what have you maybe her outcome would be different.
And yes I am of her skin tone but I really don't give a damn in fact a lot of guys that I know don't so women like this can just relax do you you still going to have to resort to being a woman and find purpose following a man. She should do what the rest of the swirlers do get yourself out of blackistan the best way you can even if you its a white man Mexican man Chinese man or whatever
😂😂😂 Brad they letting out your mud duck slaying secrets.
From my personal experience in Nigeria, most of my female classmates from university either got married while they were in their last two years of university schooling or immediately after graduation. Most of them now have kids. I can only count a handful of my female classmates from primary, to secondary school, to university who are not married right now. Even before they get into university, Nigerian parents already nudging their daughters to find a husband.
Im Nigerian too man, this checks out lol
One of the best life advice that I have ever gotten came from my Proprietor in secondary school. In our final year of school he advised every boy in the class room to stop trying to find a girlfriend among female classmates. He told us to focus on education and a career because our future wives were most likely still in nursery or primary school and not in that class room. He said the girls in our class would be getting married to men who are 5 to 10 years ahead of us in life. This is so true because the girls in my class were always looking ahead of us to men who were established or already building a career.
Most of us are here in America so what happens in Nigeria has nothing to do with us unless this has morphed into a foreign-centered channel.
@@firstgentleman8689 It's a huge world and there are many black people in America who grew up in Africa (most especially Nigeria) and their backgrounds and experiences shape who they are. This show may be black America-centered but that doesn't mean we cannot share non-American perspectives too. I think it would be beneficial to everyone if we can all learn from our diverse black perspectives.
Because you guys have true culture. African-Americans or Americans don’t have a true culture. That’s one of the biggest problems.
I was married to a woman that was a PhD candidate but she was 350lbs (I was never a chubby chaser growing up) I was the best thing for her due to the face I was the bread winner 6ft 3 ins 260lbs and could’ve gotten any woman. This woman thought that her having the credentials she had was more important that who she really was as a person
How is it working out for her now? 🤦🏾♂️
@@zippo5294 We're no longer together (thank god) I've been divorced from her since Dec 2007 and I'm still single and working on getting bank so that I can have much better( Say no to silverbacks)
@@AbdulJaleelTariqAbdulJabbaar If a woman doesn't feel herself valuable and you wife her anyway, she will get to the conclusion that perhaps you are not so valuable as man cause you marry a low value woman
@@AbdulJaleelTariqAbdulJabbaar Get into Bitcoin and learn about it.
Kevin reminds me of my father in so many ways. Brutally honest because they’re genuinely interested in seeing you be better. I wonder if he’s a cap.
I think he said he was a pisces
What are the odds?
@@vic2moh 😭😭😅😅
He’s a Pisces
He is a Cap...... a Cappa ( Pretty boy )
If you are not what you want in a partner how can you ask 4 someone that's worth more than you are? Men we need to start putting our standards much higher!!!
Do u think white men say this ? I’ve seen their stay at home wives and I highly doubt they asked to match bank accounts before marrying her
@@kschristy7 yes they do!!! That stay at home wife is doing whatever he says. And im not just talking about money!! If im in shape chasing life!! And your a fat sloppy and lazy!! And think u can get with me your crazy!!!
Facts.
No one on TH-cam dresses as sharp as this guy....
My dude do stay fly.
Very few. Us men who dress well for work are very few.
Yea cuz he prances around the world in allegiance with the New World Order.
Big facts lol 💯
@@ChiTownOnDeck lol
Once again the brother is on point. As a 51 year old married man, I'm just going to add icing on the cake to what he's trying to tell you sisters. First of all the problem is as I see it is hardly any of these women are looking for someone to love...they are looking for business partners. The problem with that is a so called high valued man as Kevin describes is more than likely 45 and older. If he's earning say 200k a year, he didn't get there by accident. Most of those men especially in a city like Atlanta aren't really looking to be married. They are just going to have their pick of the litter every weekend. Very rarely are going to find a 51 year old man that is looking to marry any woman much less a older woman. They more than likely don't want kids. They only marry young because as he states, they want to train them to be what they need them to be. All these women running around with Master's degrees looking for men missed the boat. Those men that were in college with you were the men you should've been trying to marry. I promise you this. Most women that have these degrees went to college with me that have gotten married, but they were too busy proving they could get a job and buy their own homes and cars....and by the time they realize they want a family they are 32 and it's all but too late. Some get married but it's very rare.Let me say this about a wedding...the only problem with them is people. It's not the wedding itself. I got married 26 years ago and I promise you we didn't have 2k in the whole event. Our rings were a total of 650 bucks. I know some of you are going to laugh but check this out....we are still married and are wearing those same rings. When you get caught up in spending 3 months salary on a ring(complete bull$hit) or spending 25k on a wedding(bigger bull$hit)...that's why people can't get married...because even if they do all those things...it's not going to be enough...they want two mercedes in the garage....just nonsense.
D.J. I'll say take s really good look at yourself, around you and the people you know. Use that to really take the time to figure out what's really important to you. Is it something durable? But I'm a woman so my opinion may be irrelevant.
@D. J. am in the same boat brother.
I agree with this. People (women mostly) have unrealistic expectations. I'm young & I do aspire to be married also but I'm not spending more than 3-5k on a wedding with the rings included in hopes that any large lump some of money will be used to purchase a family house. I plan to have my family cook and have a backyard country wedding when the time comes, hell I'll even sew my own dress. I never understood spending 25k+ for one dang day when you have a whole lifetime to go; but I've always been this way. lol Keeping up with the Jones's will keep you in debt.
@@voquoncarter924 and I can tell you your life will go much easier with that kind of thinking. Most of these people are looking for something they've seen on T.V. I can tell you because of our way of thinking...we survived the 2008 crash where I lost a damn good job and was able to work my way through it and we held on to two homes when many couldn't hold on to one home. I know a guy in ATL that finally divorced a wife because of her standards of living were too much to keep up with. He was working two jobs so they could have a Jaquar that they were paying over 700 a month for just sit in the driveway while they drove two other Mercedes....just stupid ass shit. She's an attorney so she feels like this is owed to her. Trust me when I say stay the way you are it will be much easier for you to find a man. There is plenty of value in a man that makes much less than 300k if your values are realistic. It doesn't take 300k to raise a family. We've never made that much money between the two of us and we've never slept outside nor have we ever been without multiple vehicles to drive. It's all in what you value as a person.
@@bernardtim1776 Pshhh, no way I was doing all that for a car. It better have the abilities to take me to the kingdom to see my Heavenly Father. lol If I can't buy it in cash I don't need it. I am definitely aiming for that I just want to know that my family is secure and everyone else in my lineage can benefit from my hard work. Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate it.
Kevin, I listened to this interview, and nothing was said that was disrespectful in any way. Keep up the good work. I like your funny sense of humor.
Do you remember the interview title? I want to listen
@@luisvargas1520 This is a little late, but maybe it will help someone else. The video title he's referring to is 'She Doesn't Want To Act Like This or Be Like This | But You Gotta Hear This' and he starts talking to her around 2 hours in.
I got married at 26. Income wise my husband is "average" but to me his a super star. My husband makes enough that I can stay home and a choose to do that. When we got together he had no job, lived with family and didn't have a plan to get anywhere.
I love my husband exactly how he is. I would have worked to support him. However, he didn't like that and he wanted to support me. He is now very well employed and I take care of our home.
We are both happier in our traditional roles. I have become much more submissive to my husband but we have always treated each other with love and respect.
You gotta get the good ones early. I absolutely love my average life.
Gotta love a woman with an attitude like yours! Man's won the lottery with you!
MAY GOD BLASS YOU FOR EVER🙏 👍🏼
Me too. Met my husband when he was 24, lived with his single mother (+2 bros), no license, no car but I loved him. Now in our fifties, mid 6 figures, I’ve stayed home raising our boys, now young adults and I LOVE my life here. I’ve had part time jobs to help with groceries and get out of the house but have largely stayed home. And don’t have to work now.
1:54:30 damn, did you see how she just discarded her stepfather? Smh. That's why it doesn't pay to raise someone else's kid
Saw this happen with my older cousin. After he paid for step daughters college he got hit with divorce and ghosted. Got a phone call from the ex wife when the daughter was getting married though. Guess they wanted him to help chip in on the bill. Smh
That's why she's alone .. She's not as good as her married mother!
1:34:45 no one can tell you to lower your price but no one’s coming to buy you 👌🏿
Losing weight changed my face for the better. My jawline was more pronounced.
" I'm not a mud duck" I had to put my phone down and start saluting. I'm in the office lmao thankfully no one here I'd be looking crazy
LOL...
bwahahahahaha!
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Me too!!!!!
Not the salute 😭🤣
You ish for the "God Father" music....LoL
That should be your music.
I Absolutely Love Kevin ❤.. Rest In Zen 🕊🎩🐐
1:35:00 To want to be a stay-at-home wife; women need to have gotten it early
What ive learned is Women feel their Vajayjay qualifies them...because someone always tryna hit.. But as i told a few sisters just cause a man will F you doesnt mean he will F with you... Some are just pump & dump.... They gotta build their personality & character up as we do
Just because Kevin was called for a higher purpose, doesn't mean we still can't hit the like and subscribe buttons....get those likes up gentlemen!
Kevin is giving women a reality check.
49er's are a real thing.
shoutout to CGA
And they roam in packs
I might’ve not heard this example and I’m already 1hr 45 in . Can someone explain ? Thanks
Chris Taylor a 4 that thinks they are a 9
alphaj9 thanks. Lol luckily I’ve never had to encounter one of these. I wouldn’t be able to keep a straight face.
How about x rated rap songs that are listened to all the time with cursing and all kind of derogatory sayings about women?
That's that metoo wake-up regret. Smh, just block the camera if you don't want to show your face.
The way this man holds frame is goddamn inspirational
Facts. His smirk game is legendary
Kevin don't back down to nobody!
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid he has to in order to force the red pill down their throat whether they like it or not. Reminds me of that scene in misery where James Caan was shoving of burnt pieces of manuscript down Kathy Bates character mouth, she was also delusional and too far gone.
My 40 year old daughter is gorgeous, well educated, fit, makes 6 figures and cannot find a high value man. Why?
Celestine C. Lee she’s 40
If you lose more than 50+ pounds likely the shape of your face will be changed as well and overall appearance will be much better. You may not get to 8-9-10 after losing weight but your overall health will be improved and self-esteem will be increased - it worths to put an effort in anyway.
As a British citizen in the United Kingdom myself mixed race man who is a blue collar man I've seen low value women with no jobs on government social care founding some with children and some with health issues not working are aiming trying to get white collar men it's 70% black mixed race women with a degree looking down on hard working men....
Keep up the great work Kevin you have educated me with the content you make.
Then you should go after full Black women instead of mixed black women like yourself.
@@vickyalora look this is pointless to debate on or argue as i don't think someone with a stable mindset would leave a comment like that so please try to understand why people say things and to help each other to get a clear understanding... Men and women are better together then they are apart....
When it comes to dating, UK is as much of a cesspool as USA...western women have become so trash that even sex with them has become trash
@@mixedracerock3055 men and women are better together but men are competing with the government for women.
My wife and I paid pretty much 30k yr just for childcare for the last 5 years. That's 150k in childcare alone. We not talking food, cars, mortgage, college funds, life insurance, car insurance, car maintenance, utilities, date nights, family dates, travel, church offerings, clothes, hospital bills, doctor dental visits, savings, and all the other bills. That guy better have hearts in his eyes every time he sees you if you expect him to front that bill and that's just a typical/average low middle class existence. Not that balling stuff they're talking on here.
You never lied
💯% Underrated fact.
Society wasn't created for any body
Listen I pray for you. The smartest decision was to interview various care providers and install cameras.
Don't forget debate team, Japanese club, martial arts, cross country, track and field, gas money for transportation for their jobs before they can drive, drivers ed, speech therapy, tutoring, transportation for friends outtings, allowance, rewards for good grades, restaurants, accidental occurrences- my 2 oldest 1st degree black belt children had the nerve to spar in the living room and put 2 holes in the walls. Families are a serious investment. It's all been worth it, but it ain't cheap.
Women were damn near crawling and fighting to get into the workplaces. Now they don't want to work, what happened?!
“You done 8 something that lost yo damn mind “ LMAO 😂😂😂
I died 😂😂😂😂
That took me out 😂
Classic 😆🤣
😂🤣💀
Kevin: High value men don’t like tattoos on women. Big tattoos are trash.
Me: (with a huge 🌹 tattoo on the side of my thigh) Aight imma head out😂
It is tacky depending on where it is.
You can still have a tattoo removed now.😁
Lol
🤣
Girl please, it’s not like it’s on your face 🤤😀
Common thread
They LiE, doctor up their stories and answers, dodge question, etc.
EVERYTHING EXCEPR being ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR B.S.
Some of the best advice that I ever received was from my pastor at the time who said that married people and single people have absolutely no business hanging out together. He couldn't have been more right about that one if he tried.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Coming to see this as more and more true. If they are hanging out it should be for single people wanting to transition to being married coming for advice and counsel.
That same pastor is living off the money from the women in the church...lol
@@tom11zz884 Spin it however you'd like. I am not here to and will not argue with anyone over what they do or do not like about pastors, the church or how God set it all up. That is your issue. Not mine. Goodbye! 👋
@@sonjastanley1067
You sound like a decent Black woman, which is a rarity.
Omg I was driving and watching this and hollered 🤣 he said when they cast Ceily they didn’t say give me an 8.... it was murder she wrote after that 🤦🏾♀️
This chick is not making 75,000 a year they be lying their asses off lol
Hey Kevin just stopped by to say I appreciate the content. My dad was not in the home and I’m starting to realize I got married wayyy too young 24. 17 years gone. The only thing I have to show for it is my daughter. I was always thought to make the women happy. By a women of course. I finally decide enough was enough when I heard my wife tell her mom he ain’t going nowhere. I decided to leave when the disrespect caused me to try to find anywhere to go to keep from coming home. We get beat up at work and deal with the same thing at home too. I don’t have to take that. The more money she made the worse it got. I stood behind her through 3 masters. Now she is a principal and think she can rule things at home like she do her school. I take the blame though. I let it go too far in hopes she would realize what she was doing to me but she didn’t care.
He doesn't advocate separating... But men have to step up and be men.. That's yo wife not another man wife . Another man should've to take care of your problem you let grow out of control..
Reality tv has done this.
Lies. This is the result of White Liberalism. Black women have been lied to.
Social media and the Kardashian’s!
Rip big homie
Sad thing is that many of the young ladies are not being groomed for marriage and family.
Lol I See. Checkout Leon C AKA M Channel family. He goes deep on multiple subjects. Listen to the audio he made÷ ( Grandma is Gone)
Most aren’t being given any practical guidance at all, just a lot of phony rah-rah via social media and older women bent on passing along their misery.
I was raised by my grandma and her sister, my great aunt Mary. Mary was a wonderful lady, but she never got married. Not getting married and not having any kids were her biggest regret in her life. She never got married b/c she was a fat lady and a boss of an A&P Supermarket. Back in the day men would never want to marry a fat lady, and a bossy lady. She was a wonderful lady, but not marriage material. So no marriage, and no kids. She treated me as her kid. Somethings never change. Now and also back then men don’t want fat ladies, no matter their job or their money. Men don’t change. Just now fat women don’t seem to know or care anymore what a man wants.
You mentioning the A & P grocery stores brought back memories
I remember the A&P store.That was decades ago.
Did Whoopi dirty in the Thumbnail
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I think rating people 1-10 scale is insane. Sure looks are what gets you interested but that is just.a small part of the person.
In one of his videos a woman says something similar to him. And what he says is something like “the looks is what will get you through the door, your personality and qualities will keep you in the room” ... men wont give women the time of day to get to know them if they aren’t catching their eye first and sparking that interest
@Delilah May well said
Delilah May so well said...wow
@Its Just Politics it's great that you're proud of that. Good for you.
I totally agree about not rating people. Everyone has different tastes and likes. I feel like it is a shallow person that would rate someone on a scale...
As far a body markings, I'm glad I stayed at the ear piercings my mother savagely gave me when I was 4! Tattoos were always a no-go for me. Always thought i would regret them later on in life. West Indian ish is what it is🤷🏾♀️
W. I. mother pierced my ears at 3 months and lost her mind when i got a piercing at 22.😂
I miss her
You want to know why women don’t get marriage, being a wife, having a family? And why they are confused as to how things are supposed to work? It started in the 60s when society did away with rules. Now, women pay the price.
First I do not understand why older Black women are upset about what Mr. Samuels thinks of them. He says he only dates under 35, so do I. I am a beautiful chocolate older women who only date very handsome younger men. There is NO MAN on Earth that can tell me I am not beautiful Because GOD made me just how I am suspose to be. Ladies stop giving men the power to put you down, know your self worth and stand it.. I am not every mans type, but that is OK because every man is not my type either. Mr. Samuels would be to old for what I like. Date men who like you and dont worry about the rest. Have a bless day my Queens.
That's my stance as well.
You tell women to "date who likes you"...Thats the problem, they dont want the guys that like them..They want guys that DONT want them..And it's usually because they want guys out of their league.....Thats the point of the video🤣🤣
Lol, you are a pump and dump for young men. But if it is a win-win for both parties, all good.
@@ricorogers9319 bro I was about to write this. What she's saying is the correct move, the problem is too many women don't see it that way.
@@killaswing1000
Right...What she's saying makes sense..However they don't want those guys...Thats majority of the problem with dating these days
Man his Tailor is the Real MVP!!
@@sheldonwinston4500 I'm guessing you're his taylor
He's also very skinny...like a model. Skinny men who dress nice look better in their suits than a big fat out of shape man.
@@JohnDoe-yi4xd agreed! That’s why I encourage black men to get in shape because suites look horrible on overweight men. I know from experience.
I love when he breaks down the money to these delusional women!!! 3 kids all in activities, private school, we both have nice cars, own a nice house, take family vacations and one or two just for the husband and wife and still save money. That’s how I know they don’t know any high value people me or women up close because they have no idea what the life they want really cost!!!! Drives me crazy!!!!!!!!!
This dude reminds me of many a black elementary/middle/ high school principal or vice principal back in the day.
So true! 😂
Robert Williams, my Junior High School Principal, Super Bowl Winning Quarterback Doug Williams Older Brother. He was like Kevin, Tall, 6'5"+, Stern and Truthful.
Word!
Good analogy. He does.
Most people are average.
Exactly it’s not insult
She lived in Jamaica with her father until she was 13vand she never heard her daddy cuss out some1s nastiness... she's a damn liar
40:18 - Tattoos are garbage for high value men! Thank you!!
Trashy
@@realrivalent9261 And we're supposed to accept it! NEVER!
@@Kenny-Ross tattoos are masculine not feminine. If a girl got tattoo, I might smashed and walk but definitely not marrying.
@@zealchristian799 Yes they’re masculine. It’s something that men started doing and then women followed. But I wouldn’t touch her. Who knows how many slabs have been inside of her.
This is not true to some yes but I'm married to a high value man and I have tattoos you can have tattoos that dont make you trashy
Pam Grier would be a 10 with modern makeup
I met her and she is still so beautiful. I was just amazed. Plus, she really is a nice person.
She’s absolutely gorgeous. I’d call her a 10 too.